Viral Storytime Prove “Friends” Are More Dangerous Than Strange Men

[@xpnn]

Firstly, they could’ve tried to help her attacked friend - like how can you sit there and do nothing??? Also, why do men not accept no? That’s so disgusting to me

[@Hpe4ch]

They cannot handle their egos being broken. It's like giving a handgun to a toddler.

[@lavish_rayne5730]

Because when they're younger their mothers say when a girl says no it means try harder, just like women that stay in DV relationships , Mothers say when a boy hits you it means he likes you..

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

Because society is patriarchal and whether men admit it or not they are very entitled to everything including women

[@user-ol9bo2ei1r]

​@lavish_rayne5730 fathers say that too. It's sad how they set people up for failure.

[@Sleipnirseight]

​@@Honeyluvflwer Are we really still saying "not all men" in 2024? Like, obviously everyone knows that. Saying it is pedantic and just detracts from a serious discussion about the rampant epidemic of violence against women. The men who aren't misogynists know this conversation doesn't apply to them and don't feel insecure and offended, and certainly don't need you to keep white-knighting for them. Your interjection isn't helpful or relevant. Step up or move on.

[@SPEAKSB]

As soon as she started calling it a “fight” I had a feeling the girl who got assaulted was a dark skin woman or darker than the rest. We need her side of the story. Cause best believe if my friend gets punched I’m jumping on backs and scratching eyes out. Or if any girl im out with gets assaulted, if she defended me then I’m defending her.

[@MiscellaneousMeMe]

YES!

[@alli5078]

That was EXACTLY what I thought! And only a black woman would be the one to walk up on a man and defend these women who does NOTHING while they watch. That and the fact that the man got violent easily, is my evidence enough that the woman was dark skinned

[@Lst_inSPCE451]

Yo like he would’ve had some heels puncture wounds on the back of his head bro ain’t no way.

[@ElizeNicole101]

Same thing I said.

[@JustCallMeJaph]

FACTS!

[@isma7639]

Never ride for somebody harder than they ride for themselves those people usually will end up disappointing you

[@louniece1650]

I see this is very true.

[@cai_nwa_ogu]

That adage doesn't apply here. The woman who was injured was doing the bare human minimum. She was not being Captain Marvel. That man came with the intention of beating someone up.

[@youngfab4528]

Huh????? She couldn’t defend herself she needed the help. You good?

[@missbea5100]

The first thing I thought. You better jump in she would have had to get it.

[@winxclubstellamusa]

What does riding for oneself mean? I’ve never heard of that before.

[@privateaccount1998]

Social media has these people out of their mind. Doing makeup nonchalantly while explaining a brutal assault is so tone-deaf and out of touch… I’m so sorry for this generation and the next ones

[@AltinaClarke]

Unfortunately, these types of people have always existed even before social media. The only difference is instead of this being done face to face, its online 🙁

[@kaoshi_kutie]

My Thoughts exactly!!

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

NARCISSISM

[@pleasegetajob]

these people have existed but it's more prevalent now because everyone wants a story to tell. People weren't nearly as obsessed with celebrity-ism back then as they are now. . . because it seems so attainable now. "Anyone" can go "viral" now, ya know? @@AltinaClarke

[@ColoradoFalls]

ITS NOT SOCIAL MEDIA. HUMANS HAVE ALWAYS BEEN LIKE THIS

[@_AMD24]

It’s the fact that she’s putting on makeup while telling a story of a friend being violently attacked for defending her is crazy. Unless the friend of interest is in immediate danger, don’t put yourself in harms way…

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

These people doing makeup while talking about true crime or dv are sick imo. There’s a disconnect with them and the victims they speak on. It’s very disrespectful

[@chavaliernsharps159]

​@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 YES GIRL

[@ashleyarielle1699]

Omg, I didn’t even peep that 😮

[@jesusisgodislove9912]

There's entire channels of people applying makeup while telling morbid stories. Bailey Sarian has millions of followers

[@_AMD24]

@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 very !!

[@thegiftofgabby5581]

This reminds me of something that happened to me on a train in Seattle. I was like 22 and was with my 12 yo sister. We were being HARASSED by a homeless man. A grown ass 50-60 year old man WAITED until the homeless man left to come up to me and say, “hey, uh, you know you can ask him to stop…like, you should have spoken up for yourself.” A coward if I ever seen one! Waiting until the coast is clear to go out of his way to tell two young girls to defend themselves against another man. I was appalled. I hope he’s ashamed of himself to this day!

[@MysticDivinerLJ]

My mouth dropped reading this! 🥴 I’m so sorry you went through that! 😣😠😔

[@hshsgdggge]

I bet he did that so he could feel good about "doing something to help" by "empowering you" to do something or whatever 🙄

[@natalierose1072]

Well considering there was an incident in the PNW a couple years ago where a man was stabbed to death on the Max for trying to stand up for 2 Muslim girls being harassed by a homeless man. I get the hesitation to intervene. I'm not saying it's right but I get it.

[@hani6364]

@@natalierose1072he should have said nothing. Fair enough he didn’t wanna get involved for his safety but the fact that he went out of his way to open his mouth and spew nonsense is wild.

[@natalierose1072]

@@hani6364 I agree

[@MustLoveJones]

It’s ironic because there’s another lady on TikTok that’s been stalked for months because she was pressured into giving an aggressive man her socials. She’s been talking about how she wishes she never did that because he was able to take that one account and find her on all platforms and use details he found to stalk and threaten her life. She has an order of protection and he still hasn’t stopped.

[@jacks4009]

Does she use her real name on socials?

[@MustLoveJones]

@@jacks4009 no she uses the same username on her socials

[@GreenGorgeousness]

Yup, why the hell is giving these people MORE information about your self somehow safer?!?!

[@FitBabe]

I don’t know why they just don’t say they don’t have social media.

[@AlysiaWilliams-oy5ti]

@@FitBabe Right! I don’t have social media none whatsoever!!

[@ljackson24]

No. She’s trash. I was graped my freshman year of college at my “bf’s” birthday party by a guy that was introduced to me by our other “bf.” Without going into the whole story, they left me. They saw him harassing and assaulting me and THEY LEFT ME. I was in denial about whether they did it on purpose for a long time but eventually I had to come to grips with the fact that they were wrong, weren’t my real friends, and he was ass wrong too. I had to transfer colleges and everything after that incident bc the whole school knew bc the police didn’t go pick him up immediately, so it just turned into this big joke that he’d “almost caught a grape” charge. They would go out to dinner in large groups and just have a big laugh about the whole thing. As years passed, my “friends” abandoned and annihilated me. This is after I was ALWAYS the friend to stick up for them all the way back to hs. So, they knew me for 5 years at this point, made me the God Mother to each of their children, and still left. Baby, friendship ptsd is a real thing. This girl in the video is trash. I’m glad she shared this story so the women around her can move accordingly. I promise I wish I knew how my “friends” were before that night. If only smh

[@neoloanderson6676]

I have been through things with friends, but this, this would break me, I hope you are en route to recovery, wishing you all the best 🙏🏾💕

[@prettyqueen573]

My heart goes out to you. No one should have to experience this. I pray God sends you loving and supportive friends in the future.

[@ljackson24]

@@neoloanderson6676 Thank you so much. 💜 It did break me at that time. It completely changed the trajectory of my life. I went on a long healing journey and honestly, I don’t think I’ll ever be completely healed from everything I experienced through that situation. What he did to me, how they left me, how the police literally laughed in my face when my parents took me to report it, how everyone around him saw nothing wrong with what he did & even assisted him in trying to bribe me to drop the charges once he was finally arrested…. It was definitely a multidimensionally traumatic experience that taught me so much. One of the biggest lessons that I learned was that everyone who calls themselves a friend is NOT your friend. Pay attention to how people move even when they’re dealing with others. It’ll tell you a lot. I think it’s one of the reasons why I moved solo for years after that. Like, I trust myself before I trust others. I do have true friends but they were in my hometown and I was in Atlanta at the time. People always used to say, “Damn Elle, you always by yourself,” when I’d make moves. I think that’s why. I truly do.

[@payehomage6922]

Sending you a big hug. I’m so sorry that happened to you ❤️ hope Justice comes for every one involved.

[@ljackson24]

@@IvyElizabeth918 Wow. I’m so sorry sis. Yea, you never know what people are really thinking. Smh I don’t think it matters how long ago the trauma was. Think of how much people are affected when m0lested by family members when they’re kids. It changes you in so many ways for the rest of your life. Trauma has a way of resonating for years to come. I pray you stay safe always and continue to heal. 🙏🏾💜

[@beautybyapril86]

Secondly the girl that stood up for you didn’t know you either… but she had enough human decency to come to your aid …(says a lot about her character vs the girls and the commentators do nothing attitude)

[@whatsanelwine6513]

Yes! I was just thinking this.

[@jasmineyoungblood]

Not her gaslighting, saying “since everyone is so confused, I didn’t tell the full story.” And casually putting on makeup 🙄. Terrible human being!

[@jesusisgodislove9912]

There's entire channels of people applying makeup while telling morbid stories. Bailey Sarian has millions of followers

[@melinatedthinka8210]

@@jesusisgodislove9912 yuck

[@sc-jl1lj]

..stories she wasn’t there to witness or be apart of herself…that’s different from what the TikTok is about…

[@soulkiss1013]

Like girl, we are NOT confused. We understood very well.

[@gr82bdanyelle]

@@jesusisgodislove9912that is completely different. This girl was apart of story she’s telling unlike Bailey.

[@Duchess_of_Roxbury]

I HOPE the lady who was attacked tells her story. I want to hear how she was hanging with a group of girls, and they watched her get brutally attacked. I want to see all the selfies that were taken that night, but how no one pulled out a phone to take a picture of the guy beating a woman. I want to hear how, even though she was an acquaintance, why none of Makeup Betty's real friends didn't defend her. And right away, I peeped at how she no longer labeled it as an attack but now an argument and fight.

[@camerynr8344]

@@invisiblerevolution🔔🔔🔔 you got it! she reminds me of that white girl from last summer who made up that stuff any jeffree starr & kanye, she made like 4 parts before she couldn’t think of anything else to make up🙄

[@hanaviolet8103]

I bet you the "friend" that defended her against the man wasn't as light as her 🤷🏿‍♀️ With friends like her you don't need enemies

[@numbuh597]

I also got vibe that the “friend” is probably darker from how she kept trying to make it seem like there was “fight”

[@Yawn54]

I think this too, which is why he felt so comfortable attacking her.

[@babyt556]

I’m confused on what skin tone has to do with anything. Y’all be saying anything. It’s simple, this girl was a coward and there’s always that one friend who’s brave and with the craziness and extremely loyal and protective of her girls. I’m light skin and have and will always stand up for those being harassed hurt or attacked even if that means I’m attacked. It’s a mindset thing not a skin color thing. When y’all say stuff like this it’s as if you’re saying dark skin women are more aggressive and violent and that’s not true. Her friend was just being loyal and that should never change she just need better friends. I have very dainty friends who know how to defend themselves. That’s a must to be friends with me and should be a must overall. We act like ladies but can mix it up if we’re in a situation requiring us to have to be violent. I would’ve jumped in so fast, found a weapon anything to get that man off of her. I watched a video of a girl get jumped and a random white girl came and helped her. We gotta get past this low vibrational thinking they have us trapped in.

[@theceech]

ppl act as though dark skinned women are more aggressive. ppl will also value their friends more that are closer to whiteness. Just because ur light skinned doesnt mean other ppl and their colorist, racist ideas (not low 'vibrational' liek u said) dont exist. Talking about things like this doesnt make it true but its an idea based off of what ppl have seen, heard, or experienced in real life. including myself.@@babyt556

[@adongaakot2344]

and MASCULINIZED her!!!! acting like she could just “fight” a man!!!!!

[@queendomcentral2235]

This girl is either lying for likes, clicks, and views, or she is stone cold because there's no emotions at all while recalling such a horrendous incident

[@Rhawn246]

THIS. She is soooo cold when talking about this incident! Almost like she resents the girl for what happened to her!

[@jesusisgodislove9912]

There's entire channels of people applying makeup while telling morbid stories. Bailey Sarian has millions of followers

[@hshsgdggge]

I was wondering if it was fake the whole time. There's no way to verify this story it seems.

[@iammar1159]

Actually, men do crazy stuff like this all the time and get away with it and a lot of times these stories don’t make the big headlines, so the story didn’t seem like a lie to me. It actually sounds believable, but I’m also shocked at the fact that none of them did anything.

[@vanessarichardson110]

She's cold

[@sevena.channel]

I see people are speculating that the attacked friend is dark skin/the darkest. I wouldn't be surprised if that's true. That's why if you are the dark skin/darkest, sometimes you should be the most quiet in these situations because when its time for the attacker to take out their anger on someone, you're likely yo to be the target, as happened in this case sadly 😕

[@consciousbeauty9244]

So sad but so true…

[@Hersheydimples]

Yup

[@prettyperfectpagne6226]

This the one

[@Mavaros90]

"I was calling the birthday girl" .... So you were NOT calling the police while a woman in your friendship circle was getting assaulted? You were NOT taking pictures and videos of the perpetrator? What exactly was she doing?

[@ellaarkin70]

Exactly!!! The second video made it worse…I hope that young lady is ok….the fact he pulled her hair out means the attack was happening for a while and he was throwing her around like a rag doll… this girl & her friends sickens me knowing they did nothing to help that young lady….Karma is coming just like Regina George got🤨

[@gloriaagatha3237]

The girl thought of taking a picture when people stepped in. And guess what, the police couldn’t even use the image she took because it wasn’t that clear

[@traetrae11]

Touching up her makeup between screams probably

[@magicblade5585]

This is crazy. Her whole friend group is delusional. She is adding "convinent details" and clearly stating "we weren't just standing there" After admitting, she really did not know the girl like that. There is no way a real friend group would let that happen. Something is fishy about her, her group, and her story. She is sending a bad message to other women, and her actions show how selfish she is.

[@thelittleunicorn6196]

Agreed! Just trying to make herself look better imo.

[@sss_Shaq1496]

Right are they the ones who beat the girl up and they’re lying about a man to cover it up 👀👀👀. Nah lol let me lay off the true crime

[@SeyvenRoses]

Eloho, You took the words right out of my mouth. I immediately thought the victim is of darker complexion, physically looks different than the majority of the group. Has a different background than the fake friend group. Or has a unique personality that deviates from the group. Additionally, the friend group probably views the victim’s kindness towards them as a weakness. The group COLLECTIVELY choosing to not protect or assist the victim while the attack occurred should be alarming to the victim. Lastly, I was apart of a friend group that would have done the same. I suggest the victim to heal from the inside out. Have the needed closure conversations with the fake friends she thought were her friends. Then continue to move on with her life and accomplish all of her goals. God bless the victim.

[@MiscellaneousMeMe]

Sis, you took the words right out of my mouth.

[@soblessed3157]

She doesn’t need to have a conversion about closure, what happened was all the closure she needs. But that’s just me tho, there would be nothing else to discuss. Closure is overrated and the betrayal is all the closure she need.

[@JustCallMeJaph]

OMG! This was my first thought: "I wonder if the victim is dark-skinned." Sidenote: I've seen women take their shoes off and jump a man for harming someone in the friend group. I don't advocate for violence, but I understand it. The fact that these ladies stood by and watched as someone apart from their group called the police is disgusting.

[@SeyvenRoses]

@@soblessed3157 Personally, having closure conversations when a relationship dissolves helps with the healing process. Doing this has nothing to do with the other person(s), image, or ego. My goal is to learn enough to not repeat the same mistake. Closure conversations exposes a lot and is educational.

[@soblessed3157]

@@SeyvenRoses and what happens when that person does not want to have a conversation? So you won’t heal from that trauma until you have a sit down with them? I read a story about a lady who got ghosted by her boyfriend and for 5 years she was looking for closure because she did not understand why her boyfriend left without a word. But I guess everyone has their healing process I just hope the girl beaten gets her justice and this girl gets her karma.

[@audriiiiroberts3030]

Exactly Eloho. Exactly. I knew something was wrong when that horrible person who made the video (won’t call her a lady because she really isn’t one!!) said they didn’t do anything because they didn’t want to get hurt. At 16, my friend (a boy) was attacked by someone outside of the gas station. By a grown man. I screamed, got out of the car, and begged that man to stop and that I was calling the police. Got that man to stop and walk away. The man literally walked away into the night. He was on WA most wanted and we had him convicted. All of those people who watched that woman get attacked, are literal swine.

[@MiscellaneousMeMe]

🫶🏾

[@jesusisgodislove9912]

There's entire channels of people applying makeup while telling morbid stories. Bailey Sarian has millions of followers

[@C_theesiren]

@@jesusisgodislove9912not her personal story wtf

[@Samsosoci]

As a born and raised New York girly THIS COULD NEVER BE US. Whether we think we can’t beat him or not we’re sure as hell gunna jump in and try! Hope that girl finds good friends that will defend her as she does them!

[@OfJournalandJourney]

Amen 🙏🏻

[@92spice18]

Exactly! Maybe this is a UK thing. As a NYC girl myself there is NO WAY we would not jump that man with the quickness. I live in Atlanta now and also know for a fact my girls here would jump in too. This is crazy!

[@NaeL.614]

I think im even more irritated that shes doing her makeup while telling this story 😑

[@PHlophe]

this story is giving shanquella Robinson vibes. Be careful who you call a friend. its hard out there

[@Lolli.Gagger]

Same, cause I was just thinking why was she so calm retelling this without any emotion - gives, I don't care vibes.

[@jesusisgodislove9912]

There's entire channels of people applying makeup while telling morbid stories. Bailey Sarian has millions of followers

[@user-ol9bo2ei1r]

Yea like this is a regular subject matter to talk about

[@user-ol9bo2ei1r]

​@jesusisgodislove9912 is she telling people morbid stories of her own friends?

[@KishaLorita]

Whew Chile, this gave me flashbacks to when my 4 girlfriends and I beat the literal Jordan’s off this dude. He wanted my friend number, she declined, he asked another she declined he got to me and I declined he snatched my phone and all of us jumped up and jumped in! How dare you watch yo girl get beat like that. The police can and asked what happened and we told them. This is Detroit they beat his ass again 😂!

[@indias7171]

Okay!! This is how it should be.

[@nifapz9596]

I love the "this Detroit" basically FOFA

[@mannypedib]

Doing her makeup and casually telling this story. I would be crying and horrified. And the lesson she tries to give us is give your social to men no matter how ugly he is.

[@SaintFort]

So, women should give their social media contact to info based on looks, because good-looking men are automatically safe?

[@alexisdiamond2529]

@@SaintFortshe’s wrong but she’s not saying attractive men are safe she is saying even if you aren’t interested give him your info . The reality is Most of the time if a girl is single and finds a guy attractive he gets the information no problem because they want to give him the information. So her saying even if he is ugly she is saying like basically even if you aren’t interested . Ppl comprehensive skills are terrible these days lol but hopefully you can understand that

[@betterfad3d]

@@SaintForthuh

[@jesusisgodislove9912]

There's entire channels of people applying makeup while telling morbid stories. Bailey Sarian has millions of followers

[@chiemeukegbu781]

@@SaintFort would u entertain a woman that u don’t find attractive? The answer is probably no, so why do u care about other ppl’s preferences when u also have ur own. Everyone has preferences.

[@mannypedib]

She has repeatedly described it as a fight like her friend hit him first or even had a chance of defending herself.

[@numbuh597]

That’s what I was not getting as well, like there was no fight she was attacked

[@GetIntoTheBLACK]

It’s sad that even after the backlash she thinks the thing she did wrong was not give up her socials.

[@tondaniraluswinga2590]

I don't think she did anything wrong.

[@spongebobcirclepants3843]

I mean Clearly your the person above in the comment section that’s saying you wouldn’t have gotten involved either you’re probably really tone deaf like the girl in the video because if your like it’s fine that someone stood up for me and they got assaulted because of it and I didn’t do anything to help that’s really wild to me I understand people are scary but to not do anything is wild and honestly if she really cared that much likes she’s making it seem in this video she and the other girls would have done something to help

[@ethereal946]

She absolutely did something wrong cause if the defense is you can’t get physically involved then what was she doing with ☝️ one impossible blurry photo after doing nothing but standing there “calling the birthday girl” who is an incredibly an irrelevant source of help if the group of girls was already there but just standing, least she could have done “staying safe” was have footage, call real help, throw something at him, there’s really no excuse for this it’s terrible

[@ljackson24]

@@tondaniraluswinga2590 I pray you find your way and never end up in a dangerous situation with someone who thinks like you. It could easily cost you your life. Just reading what you said is so sad. I feel so bad for you bc I know that life will teach you the lesson you need from this and it won’t be pretty. Just remember this situation & do your best to survive. 💜

[@solaris5922]

@@tondaniraluswinga2590 not helping her friend in any way as she was being attacked…💀

[@va8120]

The sad part is the original “message” she says she’s trying to put out is still totally wrong 😭 really encouraging girls to capitulate to aggressive strange men??

[@LoXena]

Right?? Very odd message. ", bringing awareness" about how to stay "safe" by giving your social media is crazy

[@kandi6197]

She appears young and extremely dumb/ naive, in no way is giving out any of your information safer. I hope thd lady who got beat is OK 🙏🏾

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

Also the stupidity is that she says she can just bl0ck the account which at first I also thought was smart but I guess she doesn't know that the man can make fake accounts and keep harassing her the same l0gic she gave saying giving out phone numbers is more crazy

[@amaleyy-661]

I was doing dishes while watching this video and had to stop because of how disturbing this story is, while shes doing a full blown makeup routine about a tragedy she actually was a part of and witnessed. That alone tells me that even her PSA about “ looking out for women” is bullshit and not genuine. This video was for content and engagement unfortunately. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@PHlophe]

Amaley i bet you stopped and clapped your hands in disbelief.

[@GetIntoTheBLACK]

It’s the fact she thought mentioning she didn’t know the girl that well was going to change how people felt.

[@auzsatv5588]

Calling that a fight is insane &’ her calling her ah “friend” is crazy &’ then doubling down basically calling her an associate saying this was the second she met her is even crazier

[@MintakaSaiph]

A group of girls could take on one man. I would’ve froze in shock initially but then looking for a weapon. Even with social media people can find out personal info and know who your friends are. Her friend getting brutally beaten isn’t the main part of the city?? The message should’ve been walk away and call the police. She didn’t make herself look better in the follow up video.

[@gensai93]

This, at least 3 girls there, and one man wouldn't have been able to beat all of them. They didn't do anything because they didn't want to, not because they were scared. She was so freaking calm talking about it.

[@LovelyLittleLillies]

I just told this story in the comments section, but when I was a teenager I was part of a large friend group that broke into different smaller friend groups within the group that were more closer, but all in all we were all acquaintances with the people part of the group we weren't close and we'd hang out in a big group for events and stuff or at lunch. Within that group there were 3 girls who were close together and I assumed they were bff's within each other. So one day we're walking home in the dark late evening after a birthday party as a big group. Then some creepy male stranger comes off onto us. And I watch as the 3 girls who I thoughts considered themselves bff's sprint forward away from this man in a panicked matter, scattering like chickens. breaking off from each other - one stayed in one direction while the other 2 ran across the road to the other side of the road. I was completely shocked. This man wasn't even that that tall and big. And this isn't US where g#ns are more common. You'd think they'd stay together and stand their ground or something or at the very least stay together as a group bc I was in that moment feeling very confident bc we were walking as a group of 6-8 teenagers. As a group we can easily take down one man. Everyone knows how numbers work. And yet here they were - even within their own circle of what I thought was close friends (like if they weren't close to others in our friend group or gave a fvck about them I thought they at least were close to each other. But they went and abandoned their supposed bff in a time of danger and left them completely vulnerable bc it's far easier to abdct a child when they're separated from the group than when they're together. My friend group had some problems years before that with just casual b*lying of the members (they threw one of the girl's shoes a top of lockers while another one stole my flats and stretched them out by wearing them since shes bigger shoe size.) So they were toxic. I never thought they'd act shtty even within themselves that they claimed as a bff. Was a wakeup call that day to how toxic certain members were. Luckily I wasn't close or friends with the toxic members and of course after the b*lying incident I stopped hanging with the group at lunch. It's amazing how some people don't have common sense be it in danger or not. Like protect your friends during danger don't just ditch them, leaving them completely vulnerable. Idk how people can be so unprepared for stranger danger situations.

[@christinem8799]

@@gensai93I truly hope this is just another skit or fake story. Why is everyone so horrible these days.

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

​@@LovelyLittleLillies i bet these bully girls were pick me girls. Just fake women

[@beautybyapril86]

This story is crazy! They did nothing to help their friend! If I was there it would have been pound town on that man!!

[@queenofthej]

RIGHT! We are all jumping in!

[@arariddley3314]

It would be open fucking season. Even if we're all scared as shit, IDC if you're a complete stranger. We are best friends now, shoes would be thrown, and so will hands.

[@tasmeenbaker9912]

Even if they lost the fight, at least they tried

[@m.h6858]

Chile, I was in a similar incident. When I was younger, my ex-boyfriend fought me in front of a GROUP of both his friends and mine. EVERYONE stood back and watched!!! Smh!!! Fast forward a few years, my cousin, one of the ones who watched me on that day, got into an altercation at a club. I had just had my wisdom teeth pulled a few days prior and had NO business being out, but I went. A guy who I thought was a random walked up to ger, I was a few people behind, so I couldn't hear what was being said. Suddenly, I saw him pull her braids! I pushed past EVERYBODY and jumped on his back and started beating him in his head! Period! Not knowing that he was known in them streets, so he traveled with body guards, one of whom punched me off his back and sent me FLYING in the air! Smh! I would later find out that she was dating him. Point of the story is, I will DEFEND my friends and family, sadly, not everyone will defend YOU! Choose wisely who you hang around. I pray that this is a learning lesson to that girl to get a new friend group.

[@opharahanglin9624]

Sounds like there were more than 10 black people in one spot. You better learn. Ps. I don't want to be seen. Accidents should be the only way I get hurt.

[@breaellis5827]

Wow that is crazy!!

[@zubh3860]

You’re a real friend!!!! I’m sorry that happened to you 😢

[@m.h6858]

@@zubh3860 I thank you for this comment.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I truly was.

[@isma7639]

Sadly this reminds me of women in DV situation that go to their friends for help and when their parter attacks their friend they dont help smh

[@itsnotmeitsyou717]

Exactly, they'll even beg said friend to not press charges after being assaulted. I've seen this before.

[@FPHC33]

Self-absorbed and delusional, prayers for the victim, wishes her healing and better friends.

[@randomafricana]

And can you imagine that afterwards she made a tiktok saying "im just a girl"

[@JanJan4Infinity]

When she said logic was out the window due to her and the friends being drunk, I had to wonder if she and her so-called friends ever had logic to begin with.

[@DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL]

This doesn’t make any sense at all. Drunk people don’t think rationally

[@JanJan4Infinity]

@@DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL Judging from the comments you posted on KZbin (which surprisingly have to do with this main story only and no other KZbin videos on different topics) I believe you may be a close friend of this young lady.

[@DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL]

@@JanJan4Infinity I am a rape survivor so I stand with all women regardless of how they respond to traumatic events

[@dinkyboss]

@@DOLCEKAYEXOTICALthat’s not true necessarily. A smart person is still smart when drunk. Stupid people are slow no matter what, drunk or sober 😂

[@DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL]

@@dinkyboss well your argument is the reason rape victims don’t get justice

[@shaunaodiea6184]

If the “friend” never comes forward, it will confirm for me that this was just her botched attempt at garnering likes, when all it produced was well-deserved criticism. The idea that she thought we needed to see her do makeup while telling this traumatic tale is asinine. Smh. I don’t believe her!! 🤷🏾‍♀️🙏🏾

[@dinkyboss]

Ok so I’m not the only one who thinks she came up with this expecting attention and sympathy only to get hit with well deserved criticism.

[@nightstarstar1]

I don’t believe her either. It really doesn’t make sense, why not walk away? Why would she keep calling it a fight and not an attack? Why would you keep doing makeup while telling this horrific story?

[@melaninchocolate6552]

Yeah. 😂😂😂 Frienships are overrated. As a black woman, not caping for or rescuing NOBODY that won't return that same loyalty or energy ✌🏾 not getting in my masculine energy to protect nobody

[@arariddley3314]

A lot of people have a "Better you than me." mentality and I believe that is what this was.

[@lapetitecerise4458]

This story gave me the chills. I was in a similar situation, but it was with my old roommate watching me get beaten up by her baby daddy because I chose to defend her against him. She didn’t try to call for help or anything. Truly in dire situations you’ll see who’s truly your real friend.

[@se2664]

Smh because I bet she “dIdnT wAnT him to Go to JaiL

[@greensilver7094]

Heyyy Lo!! Her and the man is crazy, but I hope the woman who was assaulted is safe now. She also needs to watch her BACK with so called “friends”.

[@FormerlyKnown1]

Ultimately, I feel like she just wanted to say "I'm so hot, a man wanted me so bad, he went crazy." And I thought I was corny, she takes the cake 🙄

[@louniece1650]

This girl. Whew! With friends like this, who needs enemies!?

[@meganbiron1966]

Something else that gave me an ache to my heart as a dark skinned woman... Is that I, too, got that sinking feeling that the young lady who was attacked was a dark skinned woman😢

[@Chickenleg-hl4le]

Unfortunately, I feel the same 😔

[@blurryinterests]

I was expecting a little drama but this story is so horrible, disgusting, and heartbreaking. I hope the victim is well and I wish her a happy life and a strong support system

[@sashasdream]

So casually telling this story is crazy

[@itsnotmeitsyou717]

Im calling cap in the follow up story. She said that so many ppl surrounded she cldnt get to her friend but they were right there so how did all those strangers get to the friend first?

[@soul-deeplevel-up6179]

And how could that man escape ALL those people? Nah. Story’s not adding up.

[@PHlophe]

imma need women to stop using the word "cap" , its giving masculine energy.

[@slikethefra]

​@@PHlophebruh how do words bring masculinity?

[@BWXNB]

Not to mention, couldn't have someone record the situation and have the police asked them but also was there even any cameras?????

[@imauniryne6757]

@@slikethefraexactly just be making up shit

[@brilissa1]

Notice how in the first video she called her “my friend” and in the second video she’s been demoted to “the friend”. This lady is cruel

[@nwatson2773]

I think she’s lying! Why tell us this whack story?

[@newvision4l314]

It feels like “I don’t even know her like that and you expect me to help her?” Mentality

[@brilissa1]

@newvision4l314 frrll, that's what it's giving.

[@magdaamanuel5692]

If her friends, didn't want to get physically involved, the least they could of done was call the police. It is the fact that a stranger called the police, that led me to believe that her "friends" are not really her friends.

[@mrslyney1121]

How did this “guy” escape if there were a bunch of people . I feel like the first story was accurate . She is covering something .

[@a.n.5013]

Good point.

[@ufink]

Good question actually

[@TckleBxx]

Good point. Like, no one and I mean NO ONE recorded? It’s not 1994 it’s 2024! Not even a citizens arrest?! Something is fishy… and I’m starting to believe that there wasn’t a mass of ppl who stopped the incident, but to cover up that her and her lame friends didn’t do anything, shed have to say that there were DROVES of ppl jumping in. 🤨🤨 And how did a man who’s being “beaten up” or “handled” just up and walk/run away. He wasn’t limping ?

[@queennubian2573]

So let me get this straight: her friend took a beating in defense of her and she did nothing about it, then comes on camera to speak so nonchalantly about it. Where do they make these type o women??

[@Cryonic7740]

It just sucks how she’s casually telling such a traumatic story, even the follow up is so ridiculous. She’s not taking it seriously at all and that’s my main issue.

[@ShernoneM]

In situations like this you'll either Fight, Flee or Freeze. Everybody is not going to ride for you like you would for them so choose who you defend wisely.

[@ddoubleu170]

🎯🎯🎯

[@buhlesam224]

What had me is the fact that this girl getting beaten up wasn't the point of the storytime, giving out your socials to strange men on a night out is. Smh.

[@rachelreii5952]

Sometimes it's not the man you need to watch out for.

[@prettybrittany_]

this actually happened to me six months ago and I haven’t been the same since. Except it was slightly different, but nonetheless, a strange man slapped me while my friends did by, she did try to call the police, but ended up ditching me. I waited hours and hours for her to call me after a night of crying. We are no longer friends, and she never said sorry at all.

[@kaoshi_kutie]

So sorry you went through that! Definitely a frenemy! ❤ God will give you wholesome genuine friends, this incident as traumatic as it was also exposed the fakeness of your ‘friend’ ❤

[@DJay-er5oq]

I wouldn't be surprised if this entire story was made up for views. That style of video is pretty popular and gives viral views, also way too many cuts in the video and the fact that she's just casually doing her make-up while telling such a crazy story is crazy.

[@LoXena]

She may have generated a story with ChatGPT. This is more and more popular

[@angelinaplayz2506]

I agree

[@K.D-Gaia]

I did not expect this story to go this way 😮 They could've definitely jumped him

[@PrettyPrincess9609]

Back in highschool, I actually had a “ friend” like her who set me up to get jumped by my brother’s bullies after I said that my brother’s bullies should be held accountable by the school. Fortunately my family and friends were there when she set me up and they quickly jumped in between me and my brother’s bullies and grabbed me. I knew it was her who set me up because she spoke to them right before they started walking toward me to jump me. I had a feeling that if I did get jumped, she would just stand there and watch. Also one of my brothers bullies was mad that I said I wasn’t interested in him romantically when he asked for my number and he even spread false rumors about me ( he asked me out before he started bullying my brother ) so I definitely believe that’s a part of the reason he tried to harm me. The school ended up doing NOTHING about it and we had to take it to court! I became so angry at what happened that when he was alone, I pulled a knife on him until he begged me to not hurt him because it was his birthday. When I first saw that TikTok video, it really triggered me because it brought back memories of being betrayed by my ex friend. Now I’m in a better headspace. Also if I was her friend, I would have cursed her out and we would no longer be friends anymore.

[@serpentina05]

This was a matter of life and death and you better believe I will fight for my friend. They sat and watched! Sat and watched! I'm sick to my stomach 😒

[@GirlLikeTash]

Wicked gal this. I would’ve def jumped in. I could have never watched him beat her. Her calling it a “fight” is crazy.

[@payehomage6922]

Ironically her warning about terrible men turned into lessons about terrible “friends” What I got was match the energy of a situation. If the girl being catcalled wasn’t even in a physical “fight” with the guy and wasn’t willing to go there, I’m not about to put my life in danger and start windmilling on her behalf, while everyone stands by, because look what can happen. It seemed like the situation could have been deescalated if they had collectively been on the same page, like either all of them ignore him or all of them attack but you can’t have one person doing all the work. I can tell the girl who got hurt is a huge empath. I used to be that way too, but you have to save that energy for people who truly care about you or people who are completely helpless like children. Was this guy the incredible hulk? It wasn’t just the 2 girls, it was a group. They could have locked arms and got out together. There is no way this guy would have been able to beat up a group of 3,4,5 women to the extent he did the 1 girl, by then, the police would have caught him.

[@lynnettes.2723]

No girl is safe around her. Glad they came for her on the internet. Ppl need to be shame and see how ridiculous everyone sees them. Disgusting behavior.

[@pandaluvr]

Hearing this again (cause i saw this last night) is SO triggering to me because I feel like I would've been the girl that got beat up in that story. I'll never forget the many times I went after grown ass men when i was in middle and highschool to defend other women and girls attacking them. First was my mom who got spit in the face by a crackhead and I tried to chase him down when I was 13 and the second when one of my student coworkers was sexually assaulted by a grown man following her in an elevator at my job in highschool. That woman's story made me sick 🤢

[@ShadowMor00]

We would’ve had twin bruises. AINT NO WAY, I’m gonna let someone defend me and NOT help. Like I’m so confused?! Genuinely.

[@VERYPURPLE]

she’s a sociopathic!

[@shaynelson5067]

This why I stopped going out with friends a long time ago (I mean late night club scenes) and I have the best friends ever but it’s just too much, no one is safe, it’s overrated and really a vain waste of time. I wish I would sit there and watch my friends or anybody get attacked (especially a female or a child/teenager). Cause if nothing else I always got pepper spray or a knife on me if people wanna act crazy in my presence. They could have done something. This is ridiculous, I am training my daughters to stray away from clubbing culture, find other hobbies, I promise it’s more to life than clubbing. And yes sis cause I was born in NY and raised in Bmore/DMV so we not about to play games with ppl lol period!

[@PurpleDragon-nw7vn]

If you give in to them you ENCOURAGE them

[@n.g.l.]

1) As she’s talking she’s smirking. 2) She didn’t call the police and calls the birthday girl instead. 3) made it all about herself in the end.

[@dyshaun08]

This is disturbing 😢 And I am all for Woman Carrying Protection ❤.

[@IamTMichelle1]

Ain't no way i'm going to just let a man beat up ANY woman i'm with, friend, foe or otherwise. If all of them collectively tried to help, along with the strangers she said jumped in, they could have stopped that attack and possibly detain that man. Now there is a savage animal running wild. Also, her delivery was real sus... Either she has no empathy, because I wouldn't be able to tell this story while doing makeup when I was the reason for the attack, or this is a lie.

[@queenofthej]

I wonder if the girl he decided to punch was dark skinned…and what were they doing…just watching…cool..

[@Jaetheeintrovert]

I wouldn’t even be surprised atp .. I hope the friend who got assaulted comes out so people can support her & donate 🙏🏾

[@Onyxkokoro96]

I could see this

[@isma7639]

This is why young women need to mind their business and stay out of situations we are not men we need to pick our battles!

[@Ohsnapitzann]

I agree with this

[@Meliaaahhh]

why not just say you DON'T have social media?????? it's actually pretty normal to not have social media.. & she told the story so casually like it's no big deal & it's bc to her it isn't bc she wasn't the one who got assaulted & in her eyes she probably thinks she's the victim.. so crazy & so sad. Sending the one who stood up for a stranger basically so much love & a speedy recovery.

[@se2664]

Exactly I tell men I don’t have social media and I always take theirs number down. I don’t give out mine. If I do give it out I block the number

[@payehomage6922]

Whole time I saw this, I kept saying they needed to form a circle and throw shoes, purses, jeer at him. Just softly saying “omigosh stawp” is not enough. Then to add insult to injury, it gets turned into a story time 🤦🏾‍♀️ I hope she visited and checked on the girl while she was recovering.

[@mimigemini1633]

I understand the two other girls may have been scared too, but if that was my friend, it’s all of us against this man whether we win or not. This is girl is a friend to no one.

[@raellitoo9725]

A group of them watching, her thinking it was gonna get her positive feedback talking about someone being violated BECAUSE OF HER and her not doing anything about it

[@DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL]

Because of her? Ok blaming women for men’s behavior I see

[@SteganDaMallion]

So basically while your friend was getting assaulted defending you. You did nothing! Lawd have mercy!!!

[@insertsomethingcatchy]

This is exactly why I don’t like to party with new people. We can grab dinner or do an activity but that’s it lol

[@se2664]

Yup exactly

[@jesseking9043]

she already had the audacity to share her story yet leaves our details? sounds like she doesn’t view it as traumatic as the girl who was attacked… secondly, there was NO FIGHT that occurred she was ASSAULTED! her equating this to basically them roughhousing for 15 secs is telling of how she views her friend and the incident in question!

[@PurpleDragon-nw7vn]

Stand up and protect yourself not just for yourself but all women, most men are dangerous.

[@BlueBerryBronzer]

It’s the casually putting her makeup on as she recalls the story for me. She’s probably a clout chaser and the story is a lie anyhow.

[@Purrl1775]

“Oh and btw, a girl got beat up while trying to help me.” 💁🏽‍♀️💋💄

[@TheIndiajones]

I used to be "The Defender" of women in highschool and this particular time it was this guy who's known for putting his hands on basically anybody that said anything to him. Me and this man are nose to nose going at it and he turns to her and says "do you have a problem with what I'm saying to you?" and she said "No"....and then it hit me "why TF am I bout to fight this man over somebody who's clearly uncomfortable and won't speak up for herself" I looked at her and said "you know what you right let me mind my business" and I walked away. Not even ten minutes later he was pushing her around and pulling her hair and school safety had to break it up. Never spoke to that girl again and me and the guy ended up being cordial because he respected that I stood up to him. SB: I was 16 years old and he was 19 😂 still in HS and I said cordial because I couldn't be friends with a man who thought it was cute to drag a woman

[@chery4]

Yup FRIENDS JUMP IN 😤

[@Hpe4ch]

But also this is why i rarely leave my house unless it's necessary. Too many unhinged dudes like this with nothing to lose and nothing to live for. When you reject them, it's like a switch goes off and they're ready to kill you for taking their last crumb of dignity. Just be nice to them, tell them you have a boyfriend, but you appreciate them, and give them a smile them get the hell out of there. And always carry your plan b.

[@rhearoo3081]

Sad, but true. Declining nicely doesn't always work. That plan b is necessary. Especially with the fragile egotistical ones terrorizing people.

[@youaintgettingmyhandle]

Happy New Year Eloho, I hope you’re well 💚🦄. I saw this video too and thought the story was so traumatic AND problematic. Hurt my soul even. I would’ve kicked someone’s ass too and I’m 5”3! Her follow-up wasn’t any better either! How messy this all was. That poor girl that was pummeled down needs better friends, preferably named Smith and Wesson or pepper spray since her “friends” didn’t stand up for her.

[@soul-deeplevel-up6179]

If only, it’s the uk, so no firearms, but any other legal weapons, absolutely!

[@hollywoodteee]

I absolutely need to see the friend

[@solaris5922]

Girl, how did strangers reach her faster than you…. that would literally be standing right there. 💀

[@MeMeC283]

The internet streets are saying that the story isn’t real

[@CamarasOpinion]

I have a big feeling it ain't.🤷🏾‍♀️

[@GetIntoTheBLACK]

Women be careful of friends like this…you can tell if they are this kind of friend if whenever you get into with someone do they defend you or do they try to find excuses as to why it’s probably your fault

[@nohere112]

If you can sit by and watch your "friend" get attacked. That is simply not your friend. This is why I believe you should pray for true friends. It's unfortunate that many times something bad has to happen for people to realize how fake or superficial their friendships are.

[@jazdj04]

The friend that was attacked by that animal has learned life lessons about friendships w women.

[@Swaggles1228]

This story is triggering because something similar happened to me and my friends outside a club just a few months ago. A man punched my 4’11 friend for no reason and guess what our group of 5 did….. JUMP HIM. Mind you, none of us have ever fought in our lives! He managed to punch out 3/5 of us but he also went home missing a patch of hair and with sore 🍒. At that moment anything that happened to one was going to happen to ALL. This is how real friends move. We filed a police report and of course, he was never found 🙄. As traumatizing as it was though, it would’ve been much worse if we didn’t have each other. Only thing I regret is having to pay for my jaw to get X-Rayed 😭

[@sensimania]

Did this also happen in the UK?

[@Swaggles1228]

@@sensimania no this happened in the U.S.

[@se2664]

@@Swaggles1228where in the us?

[@Swaggles1228]

@@se2664 DC area 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@dontdomeboo81]

this is why i always give men my number

[@kargboalima]

Same, and then block😊

[@hellothere8347]

@@kargboalimayup!!

[@LangBellsChannel]

So scared of people.

[@hellothere8347]

She lost me when she said, “we didn’t help we were just going to get beaten up” SHE’S A TERRIBLE FRIEND! I’m not even watching no more after that BYE

[@fromsilver5]

She ABSOLUTELY posted that for sympathy which is SO weird seeing as how SHE wasn’t even the one assaulted.

[@jerrit20]

Nah, he would have been lumped up messing around with my group of friends. This is why I really vet my friends and keep my circle small. None of her friends tried to defend her either. A shame.

[@caress_8084]

I had a "friend" watch me get mugged in Milan as we were trying to enter our hostel. She stood there with her hands up while I was screaming for help. Said she was just shocked. I never looked at her the same again.

[@switchb5913]

Girl as she telling the story I'm saying the same thing u did yall all in heels and aint nobody use that stiletto or chunky heel as a weapon.!Oh we woulda been all on his thirsty azz giving him the beats. Maybe its a tristate thing im from CT all my close friends from CT & NY

[@faith6575]

This, ladies and gentlemen, is what we call…. A Frienemy! I also have a feeling that this friend who put her life in danger was of a “richer hue,” and the monster who attacked her was of the same complexion and was angered by the self hatred he had for her, and also being rejected by his preference.