我和你女儿结婚时没有房子，你怎么想的？老丈人最后一席话很感人！Married Your Daughter Without a House- What Did You Think?

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@ryan88999 Жыл бұрын

這老丈人很暖心，我要的是你愛我女兒並做出承諾愛她一輩子，而不是目前有沒有錢，房子適當時機在買就好，加油，老丈人讓人很感動

@hlou5526 Жыл бұрын

老丈人的話發人深省，堅定地愛一個人，維持一段婚姻，操持一個家都不容易，無論走到哪一步都不要忘了初心！珍惜眼前人，珍惜所有！

@chinaboss6683 Жыл бұрын

The women cherish my wealth. 😂

@sunnyuutinn Жыл бұрын

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@sunnyuutinn Жыл бұрын

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@chhsin7001 Жыл бұрын

以前我們常說「慈祥和藹老丈人」，現在看到Jay的岳父，和他語重心長的至理名言，他當之無愧！也恭喜Jay快要新增家庭成員，祝福闔家恩典滿溢！

@guanghaoli3095 Жыл бұрын

老丈人说的句句是真心话，句句是重点，好父亲！

@Annie0519 Жыл бұрын

老丈人真是真正疼愛女兒女婿的好爸爸💗話說，看爸爸吃美食真療癒😋

@jake9854 Жыл бұрын

可是女生不太喜欢这样的爸爸

@arthazeng8930 Жыл бұрын

为什么？@@jake9854

@amyaria-j8s Жыл бұрын

why？ @@jake9854

@charliedancestudio Жыл бұрын

我真的是笑着看完的，这是我在youtube 看过最温暖的视频我想这种温暖来自温暖和谐有爱的家庭关系❤

@isabelle-ty8366 Жыл бұрын

Jay，不要因为房子给自己太大的压力。文化不同，更看重的还是夫妻之间的关系融洽坚固。我和先生当年结婚时（我们也是中美婚姻），他和他家人根本就没谈过什么彩礼嫁妆的。我们俩的婚礼也都是我们自己的收入，直到现在已经生活了12年了，彼此都没用过父母的任何费用，两个人的生活就根据我们的经济实力一点点的营建。也祝福你们和未来的宝宝拥有自己的幸福生活！💐

@user-bxyslayer Жыл бұрын

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@YixuanZhang Жыл бұрын

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@hazelabcd Жыл бұрын

说得好。小孩子会跑动之前，只要楼下没邻居，公寓也挺好的。否则光是打理房子内外，即使全部外包，也太麻烦，太占用精力和时间。

@leonardoyang654 Жыл бұрын

他们油管收入应该能Cover得住😂

@tonyz3334 Жыл бұрын

我和我老婆2017年结婚时，没有房子，没有婚礼，没有彩礼。见了双方父母，领了个证就一起生活了。至今什么都有了，还生了两小孩了。婚礼做给别人看的，很必要吗？

@rl4957 Жыл бұрын

老丈人真的很貼心，可能覺得Jay會在意沒房子的事，最後吃午飯前，又再次強調最重要的是愛、承諾愛到老的誓言，而不是房子

@WanWan-pg9gq 9 ай бұрын

完全沒必要買那麼貴的房．40萬就ok啦！

@wangpeter8093 5 ай бұрын

佩服你的细心！

@7tkjuj Жыл бұрын

Jay, 看得出岳父很疼愛你，每次的視頻裡Ari看你的眼神，更是充滿了欣賞崇拜，空氣裡全是愛的泡泡，接著馬上又要迎來小寶寶，這是十分令人羨慕的幸福起跑點 ❤ 我們是在大女兒兩歲時買了第一棟房，從無到有，沒有刻意的計畫，然而一切都彷彿是順其自然地水到渠成，你的周圍圍繞著這麼多的愛，相信你一定更有條件能完成你的夢想，一步一步來，加油！

@Jackson-tu1ev Жыл бұрын

Jay超級幸運，能遇上這麼善良可愛的一家人，尤其老丈人

@dzjanczidi4749 9 ай бұрын

@imnononobody 你最大的不幸就是学会了像人类一样说话

@moread1349 8 ай бұрын

@@dzjanczidi4749 没有必要和他们互喷，所有的偏见都来源于不了解，尤其在信息茧房越来越严重的现在。作为一个党员，在话语权打开之前，我们最重要的任务就是做好自己力所能及的事情，谎言破灭的那天，它会双倍反噬造谣者，而我们将勇往无前，真理无敌。

@shsu4283 Жыл бұрын

很喜歡您的老丈人，也替您感到高興，遇到這樣的慈祥和藹爸爸🎉

@skyeyskyey7073 Жыл бұрын

很喜欢你的老丈人。有智慧，大气。看得出年轻的时候也是个帅哥。

@cheungtszmaknatural753 Жыл бұрын

老丈人說的很有道理，真愛無價，有房子並不能代表愛的承諾，且承諾不是一兩年或兩三年，而是一直持續下去直到生命的盡頭。夫妻之間要互相扶持，包容，尊重。相信Jay會是一位稱職的爸爸，當然也是盡責的丈夫。加油！💪💪

@ddhui9326 Жыл бұрын

老丈人睿智，目光更是看得准，他知道Jay是位能使自己的宝贝女儿托付终生的人。老丈人心地好，善良，不介意女儿的他没有房子，非大富大贵类，他明白只要人好，远比金钱重要。他说很多拥有昂贵房子的人不一定很快乐这是真的。今天这个视频，从老丈人侃侃而谈有关房子知识外，还谈到了他看待婚姻的价值观。我印象深刻，很感慨感动。难怪可爱美丽的Ari脸上一直带着温柔善良的微笑，家庭教育的丰硕成果在此略见一斑！谢谢你们给我带来这么好看又有教育意义的视频❤

@hunt5101 Жыл бұрын

Ari富有感染力的微笑说明她来自健康家庭，幸福的童年，比单亲家庭的孩子享受更多的亲情。

@weweweLit Жыл бұрын

老丈人is normally very fun and goofy but when its serious time he is very wise and experienced! Love 老丈人's core values!

@roywarlord1500 Жыл бұрын

我太喜欢老丈人了，如果中国能有更多这样的老丈人和丈母娘该有多好。Jay好幸运，能成为这么有爱的家庭的一员。

@lingfengzhang551 Жыл бұрын

哇，老丈人放荡不羁的外形，却有着对女儿最淳朴的爱，以及对女婿最真诚的看法

@lilyyao1906 Жыл бұрын

你们爸爸说得对，夫妻之间关系与家人之间关系重要过房子，当夫妻关系好双方有工作，买一间理想房子不是难事，加油！🎉🎉🎉

@zhenanpiao7016 Жыл бұрын

说的太对了

@james0526 Жыл бұрын

在台灣房子的壓力很大，我想各國都差不多，老丈人的理念讓我上了一課，感謝分享。

@waynesworld1655 Жыл бұрын

Man, Ari’s dad is a class act. His advice and relationship with Jay is awesome. He’s very insightful and positive. It’s so important to have a good relationship with both sides of the family. Love this.

@dlxuchus Жыл бұрын

喜欢这家人心地善良又接地气！老丈人三观正，把女婿当儿子一样了

@weimu4280 Жыл бұрын

Jay，你岳父说的话太暖心了！被感动到！是一个父亲对深深的女儿疼爱，也是对女婿的赞许和希望。祝福你们！我们在新西兰一直关注着你们的频道，分享着你们的生活，深深的祝福你们！

@jerrywang9195 Жыл бұрын

如果我有這樣的丈人就不會離婚了.羨慕Jay好好珍惜

@jackliu405 Жыл бұрын

老丈人真好❤，说的很对，这观念绝对正确，令人感动！

@s69902355 Жыл бұрын

被老丈人感動到 🥹 如果每個人都能那麼理性溝通，重視彼此關係大於各種物質的話，世界就更美好了杰～加油～我是台灣粉絲～平常也喜歡看你們的視頻，讓人感到溫馨的家庭關係🎉

@siyunangong Жыл бұрын

非常感人，感动到流泪

@TC-bz8sm Жыл бұрын

老丈人is a such graceful, sincere, happy and kind person! We need many more people like that!

@willarddu Жыл бұрын

有这样的老丈人真的好幸福。自从来到美国Midwest之后，感觉这里的文化真的和我们老家那里有很多地方很相似，很爱这个地方。

@stephanielee2151 Жыл бұрын

老丈人風趣幽默，平易近人，更重要的是超有智慧！👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

@mqjiao7973 Жыл бұрын

非常感人这语重心长的教导。希望所有已婚的男人都能做到一生爱护你的妻子。为你有这样的一位智慧岳父点赞👍👍👍

@ynlin7793 Жыл бұрын

果效由心發出，我很認同老丈人的想法，婚姻中關係才是基石，基石穩固了其他一切都會好~

@-ban61313 Жыл бұрын

我好喜歡你的丈人，他是一個慈祥的父親，恭喜你有一個好老婆跟好丈人

@a0958567168 Жыл бұрын

很喜歡老丈人，總是正面，開心又慈祥，杰非常幸運有這樣的家人，真棒

@loutat924 Жыл бұрын

很有意思的一个聊天视频。老丈人说关系比房子重要，女婿也在意房产商的感受，马上复合圆场说房子也是要注意的关键。看你们的聊天过程，使我感觉很轻松愉快。感谢有你们的分享视频。也让我学到了说话的技巧😂

@xiaonantongxie Жыл бұрын

你的老丈人和妻子真的很懂得人与人之间的爱，也懂得家人之间的爱，这是一个非常有爱的家庭。非常羡慕你如此幸运地遇到了他们，而不是国人身上的那种要求与欲求不满。衷心地祝愿你能沐浴在这样的爱之下，快乐地享受自己的幸福人生。

@yantingluo6335 Жыл бұрын

老丈人的话说得真好！感动！

@davidlin7317 Жыл бұрын

Jay现在好好看一些房子给自己一个规划和目标，先从力所能及的开始实现自己的美国梦，老丈人当初看好你放心地将女儿嫁给你这份信任和赏识让我们听了都感动，唯有让这个家幸福才不辜负老人的期望，我们也相信你和Ari以及今后的孩子们能幸福长久！

@louishung1951 Жыл бұрын

我喜欢你老丈人，也喜欢你们的相處。我也有不少朋友來自世界各地，大部分人都互相尊重各自文化，多希望世界多點愛都什麼年代了，什麼膚色什麼國家都不太重要，擁有一顆善良嘅心，大家都可以成為好朋友

@穗羊下凡 Жыл бұрын

老丈人的人生箴言很暖心，深具启发和鼓励，是为人的楷模，这样的人格可能在现今的美国已凤毛麟角了，杰你真幸运。至于买房，当然要深思熟虑，按自己的条件来衡量。或许可以考虑带可出租第二套间的，这样可以帮你减轻房贷的压力。另外以后孩子多了的话，需要空间就大了(如老丈人所说)，如买小房子那弹性就小了。希望你和馨能找到合适的房子。谢谢分享！

@lynn4682 Жыл бұрын

为你的老丈人感动，喜欢你们一家人，希望Jay的妈妈也能早日团聚。除此之外，坐标温哥华，太羡慕你们的房价了

@rxcj26 Жыл бұрын

老丈人对女儿女婿的婚姻观非常正确，赞！

@marvinfok65 Жыл бұрын

好喜欢Ari的一家人，非常的温馨和善良。

@hongl8138 Жыл бұрын

Awww this is one of the sweetest and best real life talks EVER! Jay, a house is the skeleton. A home is where the family is with love and soul. Thank-you for sharing this video with all of us!

@davidwubo Жыл бұрын

老丈人是个睿智之人，让女婿好好爱她的女儿和女婿自己的家。😊

@coolwithyou387 Жыл бұрын

你太幸运了，娶到Ari这样的女孩，她的微笑一看就是很好的人，老丈人也是人很好。

@littledonut1604 Жыл бұрын

很让人感动的一集，老丈人的一席话，墨西哥小哥努力学英文的样子，灿烂的笑容。。还有北京烤鸭😋

@eggeight Жыл бұрын

歡迎來台灣🇹🇼❤美國🇺🇸❤😁😁😁 北京烤鴨好吃超棒的！👍👍👍 節目越做越好了👍 每期必看必點讚👍 祝您的節目更加成功🙏🙏🙏 老丈人最后一席话很感人！真正厲害的愛情，就是你是堅信此刻陪伴在身邊的這個人😍🥰😊

@JayAri Жыл бұрын

Thank you, we’d love to come someday!!

@rizkyghcod5572 Жыл бұрын

Taiwan is part of China bro 🥲🤟

@hongyanwang1454 Жыл бұрын

老丈人看Jay压力大，说出那些感人肺腑的话。Ari一定是生长在被爱氛围包裹下长大的，她的父亲希望她婚后也会是这样。Jay不要给自己太大的压力，有什么样的实力过什么样的生活。现在并不是买房子的最佳时期。

@huanak4052 Жыл бұрын

Jay 要懂得珍惜爱护，老丈人很有智慧，养的女儿也不差。

@honghu5020 Жыл бұрын

Your father-in-law is so understanding! Having a good relationship is more important and more valuable than having a big house! 👍

@loveispatient0808 Жыл бұрын

He is precious!😊

@hkcwtv Жыл бұрын

恭喜Ari n Jay 希望你們不久將來買到心儀的房子，建設美好家庭

@lawrenceching2 Жыл бұрын

I really like Dan’s option of good marriage. 👍👍👍❤️❤️ Is base on love not on money. Wish Ari and Jay have a wonderful life together.

@Omg-l5l Жыл бұрын

Just curious are you married? If you’re not then I agree with you

@pejakenovic805 Жыл бұрын

Jay s commitment and true love to your daughter is priceless... Money is important but not everything...

@90sDragonkid Жыл бұрын

Your father in law is very humble and honest. Please keep going to him for advise. You have great in-laws and a wonderful wife!

@charnolancai8103 Жыл бұрын

太喜欢老丈人性格，开朗，幽默。友善。

@jayf4612 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful looking community and the second house seems ideal. Dad's take on trust developing commitment and love is spot on.

@cleeyy.office8851 Жыл бұрын

The best dad ever! The things he said really makes me feel so touched. Ari is so blessed!

@gaogefeng205 Жыл бұрын

有人可以租房子住。但有小孩子了，有一个稳定的家（住所）很重要。男方父母在有条件的情况下可以资助年轻人一点，(在中国一般都是男方家买房）接媳妇该用的钱也要的。爱情是要用实实在在的东西体现。

@maysanchan4107 Жыл бұрын

It's so nice to have such supportive and understanding parents in law.

@shawnsoh5353 Жыл бұрын

老丈人的婚姻觀真是純粹的愛情相比華人以彩禮嫁妝為談資的買賣可謂雲泥之別

@user-bxyslayer Жыл бұрын

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@style4807 Жыл бұрын

以前的彩礼嫁妆代表的门当户对，相同经济水平的才会三观比较合，婚姻才能长久。跟现在那种纯要彩礼卖女儿的不一样。以前嫁妆甚至比彩礼还丰厚，因为嫁妆那是女儿的小金库，婆家不能动的。

@Noahhhhh123 Жыл бұрын

有时候真的为那些必须以物质为基础的婚姻感到悲哀，我的家庭不差，也能满足一些人的需要，但是还是感觉这种婚姻太可悲了，两人感情好有工作，也可以生活得很好，永远有比你更富有的人

@Ray-bl3qv Жыл бұрын

其实在国内，彩礼嫁妆谈不拢的只是极少数。大部分人只要真心相爱，就会走到最后的。

@ahuman2 Жыл бұрын

因为国人没有基本的保障，不像美国是高福利的国家，不要怪老百姓，因为权贵把底层的财富都压榨干了

@TY98147 Жыл бұрын

拥有这样的老丈人，真的幸运而且幸福！真的值得珍惜和感恩！

@cybercatcat Жыл бұрын

我的父親都是這樣說, 選丈夫, 人品最重要！如你的岳父所說, 長輩有智慧！👏🌈

@songrun Жыл бұрын

欣賞你丈人跟你的正能量，現在最好的理財方式就是存美元定存在好的銀行，利率這麼高，房價下跌機會非常高，這幾年非常有機會讓你等到房子下跌後的好價格，祝福你們😊

@chanboonping388 Жыл бұрын

You guys do have a good and beautiful relationship. I believe Jay will get his dream house very soon in the future! Like Chinese say”加油哦” :)

@brandenongkp Жыл бұрын

Your father in law really gave you wise advice. He seem to be a practical person.God has surround you with good people.

@cutekaola8669 Жыл бұрын

I know friends who own big, expensive houses, but at the same time, those financial burdens put them in very stressful situations, sometimes even straining their relationships with their spouse. I agree 100% with Lao Zhangren that your commitment and determination to hold together the marriage relationship long term are way more important than your bank account and property ownership. It looks like Jay not only has a beautiful wife but also empathetic in-laws who are full of wisdom.

@jw6456 Жыл бұрын

What your father in law said is so true in a marriage, keep up the loving caring feelings for each other and your families forever!

@haoguo8513 Жыл бұрын

当被问到结婚时没有房子时，老丈人真的是脱落而出的that was fine，I was happy for you, 那么真诚，那么心无芥蒂！再次祝福你们一家人！也要祝福即将到来的小宝宝！！

@houzhou8513 Жыл бұрын

你的岳父三观很正，尊重他，就像他尊重你那样，爱他们就像他们爱你那样！珍惜拥有的爱与美好！祝福你！

@LaoToufu Жыл бұрын

Jay, Cool video. It was great spending the day with you. Love, dad

@Omg-l5l Жыл бұрын

Agreed. Those houses way too expensive for him even $600,000. It’s seems to me that he doesn’t know anything about real estate or can afford it. What jay occupation cause I know the bank need to check your credit score and income for pre-approved

@charlesren8497 Жыл бұрын

Your words are so warm Love you Lao Zhangren

@fanwang3695 Жыл бұрын

这位老人是真的爱女儿，一个负责任的父亲，朴实乐观的人

@lis4067 Жыл бұрын

喜欢这个老人，全球老丈人都一个心啊。

@Alice-hh5kd Жыл бұрын

这位father in law 很实在, 善解人意，愿意和人分享。

@noahj.f7716 Жыл бұрын

兄弟，真羡慕你有这样一个岳父同时也为你感到高兴

@oliverng2766 Жыл бұрын

說得太對，買屋要與生活質素平衡。不能為了買大屋犧牲生活質素，就按照經濟的實力，好好儲蓄，屋一步一步慢慢換大就可以。

@CWChan-xq1ik Жыл бұрын

Romantic love may come and go, whereas true love must have commitment built into it as Jay's father-in-law has said. This is everlasting value that holds up the family institution through all the millennia East or West. Jay, glad that you have such an understanding father-in-law, and wish you and all your family members well!

@LofiFlower Жыл бұрын

这老丈人说的话太让我感动了，太暖心了，

@rogerxu7076 Жыл бұрын

Ari 一家是善良的一家人。

@lixie4817 Жыл бұрын

I like your father in law. He s really an understanding and positive man from what he was talking❤️

@brandonso Жыл бұрын

I'm so relieved to hear Jay say you're going to wait until next year to buy a house. Pragmatically speaking, with the banking crisis going on this is the worst time to buy. The market will come down A LOT this year as more and more banks fail. Very glad to see you are being cautious, and staying put for now. Just keep on saving! And what can I say about your dad? He is simply amazing. His philosophy about love, and trusting that you and Jay are a solidly forever couple, was so touching. Just love him and your family. Abundant blessings to you all. 🙏

@charlielee7105 Жыл бұрын

90万首付估计18万，后面贷款慢慢还。压力还是很大的，可以买个小点的，先过度一下。等后面有更多积蓄了，再换个大房子，就一家三口，你老丈人说实话是很不错的，比国内的那些钱眼里的老头老太强天天就算计别人的房子车子，你老丈人不想给你们太多压力，虽然好房子都喜欢，但他觉得婚姻更重要！加油哈帅哥我们看好你。

@seanxu2294 Жыл бұрын

老丈人real American with a nice heart.

@薩婆 Жыл бұрын

最好是買土地。自己買幾個貨櫃。去蓋出自己想要的家！自己蓋！應該只有材料錢和土地錢！若買的土地大。還可以你們夫妻一棟。隔壁丈人父母一棟！比鄰而居！耕種家族每日蔬菜！培養家族感情！去上班，小孩照顧也不愁！土地還可以養一些家禽。也可以有家庭食物不匱乏！又少了一筆食物花費！錢可以省更多！更健康！種一些果樹等待幾年後，還可以賣水果。賺錢！又是一筆除了正常工作的額外收入！當面臨一些生活問題。。失業。物價高。。等都是對家族，孩子。。比較有保障的未來！！然後把賺的錢存起來作養老金和房子修繕家庭支付！小孩的未來費用！