Idc to piss them off I’m rather just excuse myself from them altogether
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@God_Leads_My_Way I respect that, things get so messy. That’s the best way to go about things, honestly.
@v.vi.63323 ай бұрын
The truth bothers them the most. Don’t let them project onto you.. hold up a mirror and let their projections shine right back on them.
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@v.vi.6332 Yes, I love this.
@alphonsenazario77733 ай бұрын
pretending they dont exist.. no matter what they do.. clone ur phone, gangstalk, slander, lie... im still gonna do what i wanna do.. and im doin it now
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@alphonsenazario7773 Good idea because they don’t make any sense, they’re some straight lunatics.
@Raemontanny3 ай бұрын
Sometimes it mainly about stealing your destiny “destiny swapping”
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
Yes! This is what my narc did to me. Or tried to at least.
@Raemontanny3 ай бұрын
@@arielallmond4959 yep you’ll always be able to tell by the way you body rejects them I should’ve know better though I would always for myself to like them by the way the would force themselves on me and just shower me with the attention
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@Raemontanny Yes my face was always breaking out when he was in my life & I just couldn’t get why and my anxiety was through the roof.
@jamesrichardson49653 ай бұрын
What pisses the narcissist off more than anything is SILENCE.
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@jamesrichardson4965 Yep, they HATE silent treatment.
@MBFITNESS3343 ай бұрын
It's the BLAME game for me. Narcs are to prideful and ego driven. Controlling individual's. Have you thinking as if you're the problem, but all alone they trying to take your power because they envy you but my GOD. Thank you Jesus for opening my eyes. Thank you for this video. I truly enjoyed it. God bless 🙌🏿 🙏🏿
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@MBFITNESS334 Thanks for the support, glad you enjoyed the video & yes they loop us into their dark web and then blame us for everything.
@MBFITNESS3343 ай бұрын
@@arielallmond4959 but we rebuke them demonic spirit away from us. In the mighty name of Jesus. Fix it Jesus
@angiemcguinness3553 ай бұрын
They are pissed off at everything anyway.
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@angiemcguinness355 Lol so true. 😂
@OneWhoKnowz3 ай бұрын
Lmao 😂
@dumpmail-xz2qp3 ай бұрын
the best way to get over a narc is to get so busy with your life that you wont have time to think about that old trash
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@dumpmail-xz2qp Yep, preach. So true.
@MauriceRivers4153 ай бұрын
This! Meanwhile, they're thinking about YOU the whole time.
@mznaeture2 ай бұрын
Stay unbothered boo 💅🏾 🤸🏾 😘
@arielallmond49592 ай бұрын
Yes, will do.
@ChosenTactics43 ай бұрын
Great testimony. I dealt with this from an old best friend from middle school. I was trying to help him as he was losing his relationship with his BM. And when I tried to offer him solutions he just flipped them into problems. Making the solution an impossible outcome. At the end of the effort I let him go. And realized I don't want that guy near my family if he's capable of dragging relationships into the dirt to that degree then playing helpless. They wild af out there. Yall be safe. And even the people you thought you knew might be a stranger (in their heart towards you). They're very sneaky and manipulative. They spare no one. It's them against the world deep inside.
@simplyme29263 ай бұрын
The road to hell is paved with good intentions
@Kabarile312 ай бұрын
Ignoring and treating them like the nonentities that they are infuriates them the most.
@arielallmond49592 ай бұрын
@@Kabarile31 Yep, so true. They hate that.
@100logic83 ай бұрын
The hardest part was accepting she was a narc ….but once i accepted it i can’t unsee it, i blocked her on everything and i don’t see any way i would ever want to see or talk to her again, she was a HORRIBLE person from day 1 ….i honestly can’t believe i let her slide for so long, how did i not see all these glaring red flags ? But now im thankful for the lesson i learned and i now know how to spot them from a mile away.
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@100logic8 Wow, thank you for sharing. I don’t have much experience or knowledge on female narcissists, but I’m fascinated to know some of their weird ways in comparison to the male narcissists. Some things are probably the same and other things a little different. But I’m glad you opened your eyes and got out of that! Our inner voice will always tell us if something is off.
@100logic83 ай бұрын
@@arielallmond4959 some of the obviously red flags were…. She was a horrible person, jealous of everybody including of her own friends…. She refused to speak highly of any of her friends, she was a serial cheater, she was jealous of me the entire time even tho everything i accomplished was for the both of us to benefit she just didn’t like seeing me have anything good ….narcs are very smart, they know when to love bomb and when to show their true colors and keep u hooked, but regardless she had a million red flags i have to hold myself accountable for not seeing them and the worse part is, when she hoovered me i genuinely wanted to see if she was ok but she once again proved she was a horrible person and idk how she slipped through the cracks because i usually don’t even let anyone get that close to me anyway and I’ve dated much better looking women and better quality. Narcs are very very cunning but im thankful for the lesson and knowing that a narc will never be happy no matter who their new supply is, will be punishment enough for them, they’re stuck in a never ending cycle of self destruction.
@radiant_gem67363 ай бұрын
One thing I’ll say is keep a note of who else might be a narc in your life. It took me long time to realize how messed up and narcissistic my family of origin was. Do you have any brothers🧐
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@radiant_gem6736 This is so true, it opened my eyes to where I’m not sure if I really trust anybody now. But that might have been what the narc wanted..to mess up my future relationships, so I try to keep an open heart and mind. But trusting my intuition this time around. Yes I look at family members differently now, you never know how people actually are with their spouses and behind closed doors. I see the games some family members play in a whole new light. And no I have 2 half sisters but no brothers. One of my uncles is most likely a narc after the information I’ve learned but I don’t know for sure. He just has some narcissistic traits or he is one. Thanks for the tip.
@Ann-e1s3 ай бұрын
I had to subscribe because you are helping to spread the hellish truth about these demonic entities. Blessings and light on your journey ❤️
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@Ann-e1s Aw thank you!
@hangingwiththegrlz48913 ай бұрын
I was completely in love. It took me a full 5 years to improve and yet I still love him. That did not die.
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@hangingwiththegrlz4891 Aw, then the entire lesson was definitely not in vain if you really did love them. Thank you for sharing.
@oOIIIMIIIOo3 ай бұрын
You love your image of him.
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@oOIIIMIIIOo YES! This is so true, until they start showing you the real them.
@lauradelregno993 ай бұрын
Watch videos on breaking soul ties.
@oOIIIMIIIOo3 ай бұрын
@@arielallmond4959 Yes, and what the women here won't do is to let go from the false image they fell in love with when their real self reveals. That is what is happening here and what I meant. This guy doesn't exist. 🙂💛
@sapphira53233 ай бұрын
Yes I'm almost 10 years out of that relationship with a narc, didnt know about narcs back then, yep he wasn't my type at all but he got me trauma bonded. I was the perfect supply for his bullying..it was a hard lesson that now I know to run at the first put down or not respecting boundaries etc..thank you for sharing ❤️
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@sapphira5323 Yes! Now we know the red flags and to leave early. Thank you for sharing your story as well. Life after their Evil terror is a whole different kind of Gift.
@denillehorton94443 ай бұрын
You going no contact blocking them at every moment and every second of the day
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
Yep, it sure does. They go ballistic.
@icalotdonthide26463 ай бұрын
Observe without absorbing. Once you see the badness you can mark it on all of them. They literally act the same. If they get unhinged, be willing to do whatever it takes to keep them away.
@SkylineGtr34-v9z6 күн бұрын
Just be careful giving them a taste of their own crap, they can get crazy with you. Just saying. When that happens they play the victim afterwards and it's a weapon they have so you won't record them next time. They try to stay ahead of you and even tell you don't ever try to out think them because you will lose. They are sick people.
@arielallmond49596 күн бұрын
@@SkylineGtr34-v9z Yes, I agree. Get as far away from them as possible, they can get dangerous & often involve the police making everything your fault.
@SkylineGtr34-v9z6 күн бұрын
@arielallmond4959 not the police, but family. The police and a recorder are a powerful weapon anyone can use if they can't break free.
@SkylineGtr34-v9z6 күн бұрын
@@arielallmond4959 narcs can't beat their voice on a recorder.
@britneymychele3 ай бұрын
Goodness... I'm going through this NEEOOOOWWW. I really wanna square up with this man (not fr). BUT I want to figure out his motives first. Lol
@high_maintenance3 ай бұрын
Just dropping in to say this pink is so pretty on you! It’s your shade 😍
@chynadoll77cyn593 ай бұрын
Girl I don’t know 🤷🏾♀️ how I stumbled on your video but you are so funny. You sound like Aquarius. Every thing you said is facts . 💯 I never ever experienced nothing like this before. Oh yes he tried to damage my character. Smh
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@chynadoll77cyn59 Lol thanks girl. I’m a Dec Sag actually but my narc was a male Aquarius oddly enough😅. But yes when this happened to me I had never experienced anything like this either. He told everyone terrible things about me, when the whole time I thought we had each other’s backs. Smh I feel ya.
@chynadoll77cyn593 ай бұрын
@@arielallmond4959 I had 3 Aquarius ♒️, my son father , my ex after him all terrible nonchalant lack of emotion. Very sneaky low key haters . Very observant, sarcastic . Very wishy-washy , February Aquarius are very selfish. January Aquarius are cool. Great lovers in bed tho not gone hold you on that one . lol 😝! I’m an am a February Aquarius ♒️ but nothing like the males Aquarius.
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@chynadoll77cyn59 Yes, so true on Aquarius males. My ex was born towards the end of January. But most my female friends have always been female Aquarius, we just gravitate towards each other always been that way for me. Love a female Aquarius.
@chynadoll77cyn593 ай бұрын
@@arielallmond4959 me too I’m Aquarius and I get along with anyone in the room . That’s weird because January Aquarius are very quiet but they cool my son he’s January 24. His daddy was February 15. I’m feb 1 . Girl I was off and on for 23 years with my ex . And this last Aquarius guy recently after my ex , baby he’s a mf . I had to walk away he’s always thinking someone cheating on him , I had to take a pic what I have on . Bully me try to control me.
@angelagray7363 ай бұрын
Let them see you happy and moved on, still looking good.. they can't handle it
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@angelagray736 Facts
@officialdoctv3 ай бұрын
You are right! Been there done that. Where are the real empathic women at? lol Geeez i been with enough Narcs
@VeraOhiaer3 ай бұрын
I just met a narcissist a year ago. I'm 63. I didn't know what he was, but I knew he was different . I google his personality and came back narcissist
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@VeraOhiaer Wow, thank you for sharing. I’m glad you got informed about what was going on and what he was.💚
@Barbara-ec9ox2 ай бұрын
My X moved her in …I left in July…they are in love and living together…she’s gonna change him…bless her heart!!!
@arielallmond49592 ай бұрын
@@Barbara-ec9ox Yep, the new supply thinks they will change the narc. Good luck to them! They granted us our freedom.
@Barbara-ec9ox2 ай бұрын
@@arielallmond4959 he told her I messaged him … like it was a love message… all I asked him is where the divorce papers are
@Smile.4483 ай бұрын
I was like you. I was never really in love with the last guy I dated. He was exactly how you described. The sun rose for him and set for him. He would constantly gas light me and play around with my emotions like I didn’t clearly see what he was doing. I knew the whole time so when he dumped me I just went on like it was nothing. It irritated him, I have to admit I thought it was kind of funny. I mean I wasn’t seeking revenge or anything cause I’m not like that but to see someone act the way he did it was hard not to laugh.
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@Smile.448 Yep, they’re so unhinged and all over the place. You can tell that they lack the grounded foundation of a reasonable person. Thanks for sharing & I’m glad we’re not dealing with these monsters anymore.
@latrellwhite88033 ай бұрын
Facts so loving my peace no jealousy am so enjoyin living in my truth ,the suppliers can have it all ,I am enjoyin my peace
@mznaeture2 ай бұрын
BLOCKEMALL 🚫💯
@arielallmond49592 ай бұрын
Yep, great advice!
@sandraclark65293 ай бұрын
This is most definitely the 1️⃣ That's hiw you know the RELATIONSHIP wasn't real cause YOU don't feel SHIT after the BREAKUP it just like I never KNEW that MF‼️
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@sandraclark6529 Yep, so true.
@basebowman25423 ай бұрын
No lies detected.
@christophernelson56452 ай бұрын
Nice 🐈⬛ 😊
@brandicollins35113 ай бұрын
My ex told me he doesn’t want to see me happy I said that’s exactly why you blocked from everything he said no I don’t want to see you happy without me in my head I’m thinking but you not making me happy you trying to take away my happiness instead of adding to it so if I’m not with you you don’t want to see me genuinely happy 🤔 this took place during me learning researching praying about narcissist cause I had no clue I came across Lee mental healness on KZbin and other platforms I’ve learned so much now I have a better understanding ♥️🙏🏾🙌🏾🔐
@Aspoiledbeauty3 ай бұрын
This is soo real I thought my ex was autistic too!! Then I realized he acted “slow” to get a reaction 😂
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
Dang, lol. Yep they be playing in our faces. Wasting our time.
@andrewsmith64922 ай бұрын
Those backwards walking giraffes. That hippo with a bow lol tea is funny af. I watch her too!
@katherineraquelle19303 ай бұрын
I didn’t realize what a narcissist was till 2016 LMFAO 2000-2013 we’re crazy years.. I even kept my journal from the 2010’s up to when I found a web series made of my childhood traumas 😊 I could sue possibly Born into a family of narcs.. schoolmates 😊 one got exposed on TikTok I discovered a year ago lmao 🤣 the ringleader, her minion from 2008 got fat and ugly.. my glow up got them SHOOK 😊😂
@denillehorton94443 ай бұрын
Thank you for this🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@micahdh3 ай бұрын
Matthew 5:48 KJV "Be ye therefore perfect, even as your father which is in heaven is perfect."
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@micahdh No human is perfect which God knows. But I understand what you mean, strive for the best and be the bigger person. I respect that message🤍
@sherriclark12903 ай бұрын
My mother is a narcissistic . Mother that lives in my home for free n I had stage 3 breast cancer . She said I needed to go on n die . And when I was born she threw me naked into the snow as a infant. I think she has hated me always
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@sherriclark1290 Omg, I’m so sorry to hear that! That has to be one of the hardest narc dynamics, the narcissist mother b/c that’s the one person who should have empathy for you.
@brandicollins35113 ай бұрын
I hold Yah/God close to my heart now they tried it 😂😂😂 cut off no contact now find go find a new supplier cause I’m not the one
@brandicollins35113 ай бұрын
I don’t ever have withdrawal I’m the one who left & went no contact this last situation was a complete relief I’m living the life I’ve always wanted to live NO FORNICATING whatsoever i gave up willfully sinning I’m being patient waiting on my soul tribe & for my equally yoked husband I am an Empath & i attract narcissists I’m being very careful being close to my Heavenly Father/Abba Yahusha being led by Ruach hakodesh i love it here♥️🙏🏾🙌🏾🔐
@jessicatobias93713 ай бұрын
Amen 🎉
@liyah28333 ай бұрын
New subscriber 🎉
@arielallmond49592 ай бұрын
Appreciate the support.
@mamadoom97242 ай бұрын
Since I haven’t got the courage to leave my narc yet I’m going to play Bible verses at night while sleeping to annoy tf out of his demons. I’m also withholding sex because those demons can be transmitted. One of these days I’m probably going to leave but I’m scared.
@arielallmond49592 ай бұрын
@@mamadoom9724 You can do it. You’ll know when the time is right and God will lead you out of that. We’ve all been there. Wishing you the best!
@italyparis69753 ай бұрын
Did you ad laughter, smiling and joy 😊they hate that. I haven’t listened yet 😊
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@italyparis6975 I believe so🤔 but yes you are so right. They love to be grumpy and bitter lol. I never knew men could be so bitter before I “dated” this person. Lol
@DeeLyteWorker2 ай бұрын
@@arielallmond4959Trust and believe it's the majority of males with that Antisocial Personality Disorders. Don't fall for The Love Bombing stage, Nothing real about it.
@VeraOhiaer3 ай бұрын
I fell in love with my narcissist
@kaleentaylor4029Ай бұрын
Scheming Demons
@vivianperdue43293 ай бұрын
Your story is similar to mine 😮
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@vivianperdue4329 Wow, how so? If you don’t mind sharing. Please do tell.
@thestreetspeaker13 ай бұрын
New Subscriber 🙏🏾
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@thestreetspeaker1 Thanks for the support🧡
@thestreetspeaker13 ай бұрын
@@arielallmond4959 Fasho You Already Know 💪🏾
@Mrdonny9083 ай бұрын
Showing luv ❤
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@Mrdonny908 Appreciate it.
@Mrdonny9083 ай бұрын
@@arielallmond4959 😊
@themystictherapist-flameso75373 ай бұрын
You look beautiful
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
Thank you
@PandaHead6023 ай бұрын
Your so pretty
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@PandaHead602 Aw, thank you.
@tinaleigh32733 ай бұрын
She reminds me of Steph Curry Aisha.
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@tinaleigh3273 Other people have told me that before, and my ex narc used to say that. He was no Steph curry that’s for sure, once the nightmare began lol.
@kingdomoftheenglish57383 ай бұрын
Are u sure ur not a narc?😂😂
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@kingdomoftheenglish5738Lol I battled with it at first. But I actually am not😂 believe it or not. And my covert narc wasn’t too concerned about how he looked actually 😂, more so just what others thought about him. He cared about that soooo much and wanted to be viewed as a good citizen/politician.
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@kingdomoftheenglish5738 Also, only actual narcs seem to ask me this question b/c they hate the exposure that these types of videos give shining light on narc strategies. Other Empaths can tell from their own intuition…that I’m not a narc, but am an empath.
@GGNEAL3 ай бұрын
No offense.. but check yourself you may have picked up some of his traits.. your conversation and over confidence makes me see the same thing in you. Sometimes we allow people to make us match their energy.
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@GGNEAL Thanks for the concern but I’m definitely an empath for sure! That’s what kept me running back to be tortured for 4 years. I built him up from having low income and hating his job to $70k a year and loving his job. He lived with his parents when I met him & was in a $2,100 a month apt by the time he was done sucking my energy dry. When he discarded me for the new supply which he thought would crush me I was at my lowest financially and my health was at an all time low, I thought I was going to die. I had given him everything and there he was off with a woman who had way more than me. I’m so happy and confident to show that monster that after all the turmoil & although they almost took me out I’m still standing, confident and happy, b/c we all know these narcs definitely watch us survivors after they Try to destroy us. I struggled with wondering if I’m a narc myself, but I’m not as strategic as they are. I’m what’s known as a “super empath” I believe we’re empathetic but believe in getting even. A bit of a Malcolm X of narc survivors, if you will. This comment itself is a bit insecure, confidence doesn’t make you a destructive demon trust me. This comment itself actually seems like something a narcissist would possibly say? I’m healing and happy, not a narc and idk if you’re one, but yes that’s true super Empaths DO match energy lol. That’s why we scare narcissists they hate us lol. Their mission is to destroy.
@LovingLightx3 ай бұрын
@@arielallmond4959 I have been through a similar experience with narcissists, from family, neighbours, relationships and I did not pick up on one narcissistic trait from Ariel. She comes across as a young, vivacious and confident woman, this is what healing looks like and trusting in God. I’ve been through hell and having received healing from Jesus I am so much more confident, knowing myself on a deeper level and the pain was so worth it. We are here to support one another not bring each other down. After going through this and staying on the right path to healing we are gifted with love, happiness and a new level of confidence from Jesus after abuse if we stay true to him.
@LovingLightx3 ай бұрын
@@arielallmond4959 I have been through a similar experience with narcissists, from family, neighbours, relationships and I did not pick up on one narcissistic trait from Ariel. She comes across as a young, vivacious and confident woman, this is what healing looks like and trusting in God. I’ve been through hell and having received healing from Jesus I am so much more confident, knowing myself on a deeper level and the pain was so worth it. We are here to support one another not bring each other down. After going through this and staying on the right path to healing we are gifted with love, happiness and a new level of confidence from Jesus after abuse if we stay true to him.
@ShawntaySowell-w2f3 ай бұрын
I'm sorry but she doesn't seem authentic to me. It's giving fake vibes.
@arielallmond49593 ай бұрын
@@ShawntaySowell-w2f Was this really necessary? This is my Channel, so why are you talking in 3rd person? That’s what’s fake, this is my comment section. You didn’t know that? Move along hater, you clearly are mad bc you have no confidence and you’re probably a covert narc tbh. Or one of my rotten exes, hatin. You’re not welcome in my comment section.