This Habit Makes You Extremely Charming

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While watching clips from the previous Game of Thrones breakdown, I came across some cast interview clips, and I could not help but notice how effortlessly charming Emilia Clarke was. Emilia displays a number of charismatic habits, though, while seemingly simple, are extremely powerful.
In this video, we are going to break down 4 of Emilia’s habits that make her so charming. These might seem very simple at first, but there are nuances that take them from ordinary basic advice to habits that can make you extremely charismatic if you hit the nuance.
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0:38 - Habit #1: ”Smile frequently (and genuinely)”
2:59 - Habit #2: “Build other people up”
5:29 - Habit #3: “Raise the energy in your interactions”
7:21 - Habit #4: “Be an active listener”
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[@Caysum21345]

1. Genuine smile 2. Active listener 3. Raises energy in room 4. Builds others up

[@sarabaci4186]

Damn im really not charming😂😂😂

[@tedl7538]

@@sarabaci4186 Hey Sa, you just accomplished all four, good start!

[@ottavari746]

5. Floss

[@backintimealwyn5736]

damn, I'm so charming :D The only thing is I've come to do all those things (and they work) because I don't like interacting with others and people used to not like me at all (although I have nothing against them and don't do anything to harm them, of course) . The problem is , it's fake , it works but it's fake , giving all the time , pretending all the time exhausts me and I still don't know how to interact genuinely. I avoid people and friendships. Yet I still do that thing each time I'm forced to interact and people like me now, a lot, to the point that they fall in love. It"s powerful.

[@skywalker6648]

I think number one should really be, "Get paid a lot of money", then, comes the genuine smile and so forth.

[@ElvioAnderson]

It also helps if you’re Emilia Clarke.

[@Rakshiir]

Well, shes good looking, a fine actress (I think) But at the end, I think I've never seen an interview that didn't make me smile... she does have great charisma, and I get the feeling thats just her being positive in nature. I've seen an interview with her mother, and to be honest, she isn't that different. You do see them together and get a feeling that Emilia has learned that from her mother, maybe even just by "learning by seeing what her mother days" on a daily basis.

[@ZuuZoor]

Why? Cause literally the entire world has seen your private parts?

[@ZuuZoor]

Gunnar Karotte *terrible actress. WhErE ArE mUh DrUgUnZ

[@blackwod9576]

@@ZuuZoor She's not terrible. I honestly liked the way she acted in season 8 and heard many people saying that it was good, maybe the only good thing about this season..

[@CheapHomeTech]

She seems to be the little chubby homey girl that would normally have no future. Yet with that smile and brains have turned it around.

[@nerdievision]

Imagine being so charismatic that someone makes a video on how to be more like you. Damn. 👀

[@loongal]

Goals.

[@emperornephew6487]

imagine being a vip and that's it, no any rocket science really

[@Bill-tz3wg]

I see that as about the same as being so evil someone makes a video about you. I laugh at the idea of aspiring to be charismatic.

[@JohnJohnson-mo4bn]

Someone who's "trying" to push a P.C. WOKE SJW Leftist agenda of what charisma is...

[@JohnJohnson-mo4bn]

Active Listeners are Super annoying & irritating. Yes..Yes...Uh huh..Uh huh...Right..Right......

[@HeyItsTheWykydtron]

The whole time seeing Emilia Clarke smile makes me genuinely happy but the moment you flashed Kanye West my mood was destroyed almost instantly, what a contrast.

[@trashchild5945]

Same

[@trashchild5945]

I was like :D then :/

[@thomasgagel]

And he's running for pres

[@deandre9176]

Nah kanye made me happier yall trippinnn

[@gulcesartas8129]

I was like :D and then :d

[@Mally620]

The Kanye smile actually seemed genuine till he realised he was smiling

[@Buli0n]

Aryan Malhotra he faked serious face, not smile

[@MsHollylove]

Aryan Malhotra word, he only smiles when nobody’s lookin

[@hamptonbrandon685]

Kanye trying to keep that "idgaf" persona lol

[@hackerhaze]

hahahahaha

[@xvoodooloungex5317]

Apparently the only time people saw him smile recently was when he was working with YNW Melly

[@mdalgona]

She's survived two aneurysms and will always be at risk of suddenly dying. It's amazing and a testament she can find the humour in everything. She's absolutely lovely and a monumental inspiration.

[@nostupidgod9415]

Damn its so hard to imitate them specially if you're a psycho, anxious and have mental disorder... I think its not for everybody, right?

[@Gaelek13]

Wait!! Whoa!!! WHAT?! o_O

[@PeterKong609]

the brighter the light, the darker the shadow.

[@Heyysisah2]

People who gone though a lot are usually funny or easily finds the humor in things. This is a known fact. I was bullied as a kid and later depressed on and off, suffered sometimes severe anxiety as well as social anxiety for many years. But I joke around a lot. I laugh a lot. If it wasn't for humor I don't know what I would do. I think this is the case for most other "funny people" as well and Emilia too.

[@peaceangel-rl2hf]

When you face your own mortality as a younger person, you realise it can all be over anytime and tomorrow is not guaranteed. So you appreciate every day you wake up and every night you go to sleep. Its a wonderful lesson if you escape death as a young person

[@neitzschebabie]

“At the end of the day people won't remember what you said or did, they will remember how you made them feel.” ~Maya Angelou~

[@tricean3186]

That woman was the epitome of kindness.

[@pingu3984]

I used to be so much like her. And then, without realising, I entered into an abusive relationship. It's weird to watch her. It's like listening to an echo that died 10 years ago. It's quite heartbreaking actually.

[@dirkkruisheer]

You're not alone and escape is certainly possible. Seek help. Eventually you'll be older and wiser -- and happier. I promise.

[@Beebbubs]

I hope you can get back to being that person💗

[@alissandra8846]

Yes yes!! This is exactly how I felt when watching this..

[@Alexisvotran]

You are still the same person you 10 years ago, just stronger. I hope you find peace and happiness again. Sending love your way

[@YeshuaIsTheTruth]

You can still get yourself back. The Lord is helping me to get myself back. You're wonderfully and beautifully made, please keep this in mind.

[@gawrrr7721]

Dude I’m Asian, no matter what I do my eyes squint

[@fardiachowdhury9758]

This is the comment

[@pingu3984]

This made me Emilia Clarke laugh.

[@varunkmohanan7757]

Epic...😂💥

[@milkbread5036]

I didn't mean to laugh xD

[@avocedo975]

Well that mean you can be charming without trying

[@lenaoxton6769]

This channel is like a “how to” for sociopaths

[@CAL1MBO]

👌👌👌

[@coleeckerman1390]

What is this love he speaks of?

[@sparkyorte2123]

Lena Oxton lol :)

[@jonathonpullon6582]

yes!!!!

[@evehead713]

"BRIE LARSON"

[@danicaperkinson1960]

I watch these like I'm an alien tryna infiltrate humanity

[@Liam-hv8hx]

this made me laugh out loud af lmaoooooooooooooooooo

[@little_flitter]

As autistic girl. I'm with you.

[@dilabhkanhar7196]

Or are you....🧐

[@aryamankolli293]

u stole that comment my g

[@resthav0894]

😂

[@DrJonTam]

0:39 Have a beaming and frequent smile (a genuine smile comes from finding humor in things) 3:10 Build other people up (You can tease your friends if you tie up with a compliment) 5:32 Raise he energy in the room 7:24 Be in active listening

[@girijagopimv4802]

Thankyou so much!

[@rabbit5000]

thank you!

[@tanvikhare9710]

Thanks

[@ritvishetty8346]

Thanks! Was looking for this comment

[@PadmeAmidalaEdits]

Thank you 🌹

[@yungjose3369]

If i have a teeth like hers, I wouldn't mind smiling all day

[@mightycirus]

Same here my smile is my weakness I don’t want to scare people with my vampire teeth

[@shorx9199]

@@mightycirus Vampire teeth is so cool

[@mightycirus]

SHORX you’re right and some girls like The vampire bad boy look now I just need a cape And a new face Ah damn it was almost in my grasp Back to the coffin to play castlevania I guess sigh 😔 🦷

[@rogerio7678]

Exactly.

[@milaniaa.932]

Believe me even if your teeth are not perfect but you have that natural inner glow, people will not even notice that there is smth wrong with them! So smile no matter what and miracle will happen!

[@user-nc4yb8rd3g]

Emilia Clarke is like the 😄 emoji

[@phillipasoocinnamonroll4812]

No she’s more of a ❤️ emoji

[@prodijae6839]

would have liked but it had 777

[@user-nc4yb8rd3g]

Mono Chrome Someone ruined it 😔

[@zarashahzad4141]

But with upside down eyebrows

[@fernandalozada2141]

I was the 888 like of your comment 😄😂

[@Therese070585]

Sometimes people don't smile too much or laugh too much because they are too conscious of their face. If they smile or laugh too much, they think they look ugly, so they just hold themselves from smiling or laughing too much. Emilia doesn't have to worry because she is beautiful. And when she smiles or laugh exagerrately, she is still beautiful. Her charms is so unique. When she smiles, you feel it that it comes from her heart. Her smile is magnetic.

[@noturbabe3510]

ikr

[@hunterrammusic]

Everyone become prettier when smiling.

[@avibcci1297]

@@hunterrammusic not me

[@bullymaguireneedsyourprimo6581]

So are you saying ugly people shouldn’t smile?

[@yuih1574]

@@bullymaguireneedsyourprimo6581 jsjsj

[@preranapradeep3963]

First of all, she's extremely adorable and attractive

[@mayas8360]

I mean so is Bri Larson but she is not charismatic

[@onizuka1833]

Maya S nobody like Brie Larson

[@user-rx7mf1ck5j]

@@mayas8360 brie larson is not adorable, just good-looking

[@FMCariappa]

@@mayas8360 Bri Larson looks snobbish, that overpowers her looks. I find her very unappealing. I mean she maybe a great person n all, I'm only speaking about the energy she projects.

[@cocokoochie9648]

@@user-rx7mf1ck5j see that’s the thing. If amilia (the girl in this vid) doesn’t smile as much or isn’t that charismatic in general you’d just find her as a good looking girl. but because of her charisma she seems cute. the same can be applied to brie

[@mrhowell6842]

I think the lesson here is to be genuine.

[@icoivo5529]

You can be genuinely morbid

[@Leprutz]

Not if you are called tim Burton or Todd Solondz. Lol

[@Megamarod]

@@swozzares if you are still focusing on whether "it works" or not, then you are missing the point of being genuine

[@Raz0rIG]

@@Megamarod Or perhaps your assumption of what being genuine isn't the same for everyone.

[@skywalker6648]

Helps to be paid millions to do so!

[@PorksG]

If Chris Evans and Emilia Clarke sat in the same room, it would just be laughing and who has the best compliments

[@janvanhouwelingen4721]

I'd watch that. For 3 hours, I don't care, I'd watch that

[@seanderoo37]

@@janvanhouwelingen4721 same lmao

[@dna6310]

Jan van Houwelingen samee

[@rctrovids9200]

The husband and wife material would be through the roof

[@heatherrosila7924]

Laalaa Boy I freaking love Chris Evans

[@namratakamble5465]

She is just a nice person inside out without too many insecurities that's why she is charming naturally

[@amlib7723]

U never know how much insecurities someone really have and sometimes people who smile alot have the most insecurities

[@clairebeane3455]

She’s bubbly, affirming and damned adorable. Her smile is infectious and her personality simply contagious.

[@bosmith1820]

But she burned an entire city so maybe it is al fake?

[@greatima526]

All this makes me want to do is go *aggressively* brush my teeth.

[@adityadholi5784]

Same 😭

[@sofiya3097]

Same

[@sharontriana1216]

Same & floss for 20 minutes.

[@SowingWonder]

Don't brush too hard, your gums will recede. Looking out for you guys ;)

[@RheeasDomain]

This Channel forgets not everyone is after the expression but after the feeling that accompanies the expression of someone. Encouraging a 'charismatic personality' for one's own benefit rather than for their own inner truth, and subsequently feeling like the person is just putting on a smile devoid of genuine feelings OR out of 'niceness' is actually very off-putting. They'd have to do it again and again consistently to convince me this is their personality. People who notice underlying behaviors should not be considered 'cold and calculating' for doing so either; it is very desirable to learn to see through courtesy and visual acting into someone's heart and energy they put out.

[@gabeking624]

1.) Genuine smile 2.) she builds others up 3.) she raises the energy in the room 4.) active listener Like so others can see this too👍

[@benm3318]

Thank you for saving me time

[@AneesaH.]

Thanks, I did not want to watch this lol

[@ariebough3887]

I would have liked this comment but since you told me to, now I'm not gonna.

[@kerimca98]

amakam But he wanted others to see too so that's kind

[@mikeyoutube9233]

I am still watching it but I apretiate the cliffnotes. Thank you.

[@KeyOfGeebz]

Here in Hawai'i, we call it smile with your eyes or Smile with Aloha.

[@ID_iKONIC_VIP]

In Korea it's called eye smile.

[@pablogaeta3815]

People always think my brother is funny, but if you watch what he does, he really just points out the humor in what other people are saying. He highlights other people's jokes. He just sees humor that other people miss. It's a cool trick.

[@chrishope9169]

That's so interesting! Could you share any example stories of what the other person said and then what your brother said to make it funny?

[@pablogaeta3815]

@@chrishope9169 It's tough because it's subtle, but it's like this: I have a cousin whose birthday is March 1, and he make a comment about 17 days until St. Patrick's day. And Andy made a comment along the lines of "yes, Tommy's b-day is the official start of the St. Patrick's day season", and then people all started riffing on that, making jokes about how they hate people who put up St. Patrick's day decorations before Tommy's b-day., etc. He got the bit going, and let everyone else in the room run with it.

[@DuncanSmith]

Laugh at yourself before anyone else can and you'll never be embarrassed

[@Che9009]

wear it like armor, and it can never be used against you.

[@Rowdouble]

Well Rabbit used that in 8mile he dissed himself and won because the other rapper had nothing to say since he said it XD

[@PRYDAX]

@@Che9009 I see what you did there

[@Bersebu-ToXin]

Sounds like Tyrion phase

[@grapplerart6331]

@@Che9009 Damn. Nice reference.

[@Okshutit]

How to be charming without trying Answer: Be a literal ray of light

[@serene9532]

..you know what 'literally' means, right?

[@chaghetti]

ice cream *physical?

[@zoeh.4421]

Check ✔️ 😂

[@kreempa.i.8349]

"Be a literal ray of light" Even my graphics card is better at that than I am

[@leannemo7382]

Wait, what? A literal ray of light is simply...a ray of light. You mean *figuratively.* :)

[@MrAbolg]

I'm at the corner of the party with no friends smiling and laughing like Emilia Clarke and everyone keeps looking at me weird. Why isn't it working?

[@missSmile.]

😂😂

[@firozabegum2833]

OMG I feel ya dude😂😂 yk not everyone can receive or more like tolerate a very bright ray of sunshine. So you do you bro😊

[@shimpiyaa]

🤣

[@izamaki93]

Brah, you high lmao

[@thefriqueisin]

They are the weird ones 😂

[@keanulourenco3166]

damn im gonna come out of quarantine as a different person

[@raerae2589]

I’m coming out of quarantine as Emilias eyebrows and smiling eyes 😄

[@Hifirrrr]

people be like: girl u ok?

[@gulabani2216]

Same!

[@tommyshelby8119]

@@Hifirrrr Right I have changed so much in two years😂

[@joys_ads]

How is it going

[@Kayleekakes]

Not to mention her amazing eyebrows. I think her eyebrow have more personality than most people

[@Asyma88]

KayleeKakes so well said 😊

[@divyanshpanwari348]

Definitely more than me

[@lucialu833]

Truth😂

[@barracuda0405]

Cough cough Kristen Stewart

[@YeshuaIsTheTruth]

This comment actually made me laugh, cause my first thought was "I think I'm most people"!

[@jillianelise5]

Dude becoming like Emilia Clarke is a glass too tall to fill The woman's a damn angel

[@jovanleon7]

Just fill the glass half full, you'd already be above average

[@jillianelise5]

@@jovanleon7 that was sweet

[@user-vv5ju3fj1p]

Jovan Leon You mean half empty?

[@karinasprmanager1832]

Hitoshi Shinsou it’s the same thing

[@user-yb8bv3ng4h]

@@karinasprmanager1832 I think it's a joke because of that thing that says that if you say a glass is half empty you are a pessimist and if you say it's half full you are an optimist person. maybe

[@bridgetamato6182]

I did not know who Emilia Clarke was until this video. She is so charming.

[@zeroandone8654]

you should watch me before you movie. genuinely attractive this girl

[@cmariamgrace]

@@zeroandone8654 I came here to say the exact same thing! In 'Me before You' she is totally herself She's not acting She's living the role

[@marb9093]

She doesn't care rocking back and forth while laughing while others are just so poised and fake. She's always "into the moment" and laugh at her own mistakes. She's adorable 🥰

[@sezercanbolat71]

also, one tiny detail about her: she is extremely cute.

[@Hamppariranskis]

I strive to one day be as adorable as her 😭

[@Fairiesandbonesxx]

@@Hamppariranskis I bet you already are, cutie

[@meanieeheart4236]

@@Fairiesandbonesxx I cant tell if thats nice or creepy

[@bongdong9154]

@@meanieeheart4236 compliment maybe?

[@jasonkinzie8835]

@@meanieeheart4236 In another video the commentator suggested we assume positive intent when it comes to ambiguous comments.

[@honeypots8787]

Can we appreciate the variety of hairstyles Emilia has in this video

[@aryastark575]

Yeah, like everyone else.

[@honeypots8787]

Arya Stark, try doing that with anxiety though

[@aryastark575]

@@honeypots8787 Try doing what? Different hairstyles while having anxiety? That makes no sense.

[@honeypots8787]

@@aryastark575, wait no- I'm really really sorry. I thought this was a reply to a different comment I posted. My apologies.

[@aryastark575]

@@honeypots8787 lol it's ok.

[@krooksie]

I know people like this; I share a house with someone like this! They're just great to have around because they're never trying to put anyone down to temporarily prop themselves up, they don't stimulate conversations by picking the most negative thing on the news, and they're "present" when you interact with them. And the smiling! I just love it!

[@bullainsworth3130]

It seems like her charisma comes very naturally. That generally is the case with a person who is genuinely nice, humble, and treats others with respect. I bet she’s fun to be around.

[@goldiepie]

Who’s here after the Brie Larson video? Such a difference lmao

[@darcyreads]

golden film Lol me. Trying to aspire like Emilia Clarke.

[@kanyaanindita4461]

🤚

[@inessjlibene9110]

Hhhhhhhh me

[@mean1317]

Lol I know right?

[@superjane5263]

Lol

[@giovannamoi3471]

Me at a funeral: *ups energy level to be more likeable*

[@morganprince9268]

Cry harder than everyone else

[@mightyelf2660]

Lmao!

[@lovelypierre9001]

For some reason after reading this comment I could not stop laughing and I was laughing so damn hard 💀💀💀

[@julzy07]

Oh wow! Super funny! That would be me, just not getting it right. Ever.

[@valeriaferrari9737]

I smiled like Emilia Clarke at this lol

[@mielledeaky5339]

I found myself unconciously smiling watching this. Damn, her smile is contagious.

[@roseberrygamingid]

imagine a man who get emilia's heart and marry her. and life rest of life full by her smile and laugh. what a lucky man

[@brian-yt4re]

This was just ten minutes of Emilia Clarke smiling. *and I loved every minute of it*

[@floupploup5496]

Every second

[@ilichiregius2884]

I'm just a little bit sorry about not getting on the G.o.T. train... If only for Emilia.

[@ausrad.5362]

brian facts

[@SafwanNet]

yes and No tips.

[@anwollan]

Signed

[@Prashik_ft11]

Her eyebrows have a different life of their own

[@allwrighty100]

They've got their own zip codes

[@livingcheese2910]

Seriously, she has the bigget muscles on the film set. And they are all. Under. Her. Eyebrows. They probably could lift the Mountain from GOT.

[@maxheadroom1207]

Her eyebrows have eyebrows.

[@palmspirit1833]

Imagine if she got Botox.

[@aminsh3843]

0:31 Yep!

[@lucyd57]

someone ones told me that my character reminded them of Emilia and it was the best compliment ive been given. I thought my constant smiling and giggling was annoying hahaha

[@jessica.rachna]

Damn woww

[@XpVersusVista]

emilia allows herself to find the humor in everything my depression doesn't allow me to find humor in anything touché

[@Lilly-dk5bg]

I feel that. I've struggled with depression for a lot of years and it took some flip flopping hard work to find humor again! But now, even though I still struggle a lot with depression, I can find joy by finding humor in the little things. Even if it's just my dog's flatulence. Don't give up! Laughter is one of the keys to dealing with chronic depression! Find a happy spot and focus on it, until your perspective shifts from seeing the black to only seeing that tiny speck of light, until the blackness is overcome by the good you focus on! I believe in you! 😇😇😇

[@candykelly2705]

Sometimes you have to "act" the part. After a while, and with some help, it will come naturally. Good luck

[@simrandas9027]

Just bcz she's smilling doesn't mean she's not depressed. She might be she might not be. Sometimes smiling is a trauma response.

[@ruywang7184]

Emilia has the most beautiful and genuine smile, many times you'll find yourself smiling watching her without even noticing.

[@RenzXVI]

Her eyebrows smile along with her lips. XD

[@britthubb1439]

This is so true haha. She just makes you happy and smile

[@AlisonRistovski]

Ruy Wang I couldn’t stop smiling watching her

[@Andre_APM]

It's true

[@alesiasredruby1511]

Watching this video I didn't just smile. I laughed.

[@gobblenater]

step 1: be genuinely happy step 2: share that happiness whenever possible I think most people's issue is with step 1.

[@Adamapple]

this is really all it is imo. when you're actually happy you want to uplift everyone around you to your level of happiness because it feels so amazing

[@krullewietje]

'this is really all it is imo' being genuinely happy isn't as easy as it seems though, if it was i think everyone would be happy all the time

[@ralpheal455]

Well said lol. Yeah it's just better to naturally be in a good mood and as happy as you possibly can be. (Appreciate the Moment) and this could come naturally. #Gratitude

[@colts8146]

And listen to other people and acknowledge them. Thats the problem i have most. Its not that i dont want to hear what they say or that i dislike them Im just to eager to say what i want to say that i end up cutting other people off, coming off as rude or uninterested. So I would be genuinely happy, share that happiness, and pay attention and acknowledge other people

[@ThatGuy-uu6de]

can't be happy when your grinding everyday trying to make ends meet a lot are in the box

[@ladygenesis]

This ability has been beaten out of me and that breaks my heart.

[@jking4973]

I’m so sorry, but trust me it’s not gone. I’m sure you are a beautiful person! And no one can take that away from you. No one. Sometimes in our darkest times we feel like it’s gone, but it’s not.

[@TP-nx7uf]

I adore that positivity and genuine hapiness she expresses. I used to be like that but people would put me down a lot because of my appearance since I was a child. I grew up and came closer to what an attractive person looks like but unfortunatelly that genuine emotions and trust in people just dissapeared. Now I just feel bitter, self-concious and suspicious when I talk to most people. I am scared to be myself because I got rejected so many times. But it´s me who is paying the price for not being able to bring positivity to others.

[@Vaxedia]

Same

[@FarhanaKhondaker]

Have you seen Emilia’s teeth? They’re absolutely perfect. Who wouldn’t smile with teeth like hers? Damn.

[@PouchMaster]

"HEE HAW!!

[@etancia]

Didn't even notice her teeth! Saw the whole face smile instead!

[@noclueatthispoint_6519]

Vagitarian lll

[@peterlittle4357]

Her teeth? She's all perfect

[@mreverybody1150]

@Dominique Lavalle 6 years of fermented Cod liver oil may realign them some what.

[@seus2731]

Emilia said she lives life to fullest because she survived two life-threatening Aneurysm while filming season 1 and season 3, so she said she knows if she gets a 3rd one...that will be the last

[@Irishhound]

That is depressing

[@mulliganstew72]

Rain aneurisms can be detected & clipped so they don’t burst. Hope she gets that procedure done!

[@black_swanN]

You're a mood destroyer... 😢

[@leannemo7382]

​@@black_swanN > Sure puts things in perspective, though. When I get really down, I remind myself that some people have even more difficult obstacles...the ones that persevere are inspirational...like Emilia. :)

[@black_swanN]

@@leannemo7382 isn't a " i can work it " enought?

[@cuppiecupsters]

There’s a reason people call her a ray of sunshine- she lights up the room when she smiles

[@subhamdaslovesraptor99]

Emilia Clarke is the perfect example of a perfect human being with youngness at heart. She has bountiful of energy and exuberance.

[@fundemort]

In simple 2 words: She's "genuinely nice".

[@beautifulskies1252]

or "two faced" (Idk, people are not what they seem)

[@julieannanderson2228]

that doesn't mean you have charisma though. I know nice people with no charisma

[@fundemort]

@@julieannanderson2228 You are right. It's not a guarantee. But have you seen her playing Dragon Queen in Game of Thrones?

[@julieannanderson2228]

@@fundemort Don't watch it. She does have charisma but it's not because she's a nice person. Fun fact, sociopaths tend to be some of the most charismatic people

[@fundemort]

@@julieannanderson2228 I already knew you haven't lol. No need to go all psychology on me. Watch it first. Thats why people admire and like her. Don't let your jealousy take over your fair judgement lol.

[@Warhxda]

"The perfect person doesn't exist-" Emilia Clarke: hold my wine

[@indigo-streak9912]

Leshaun Griffith Better yet: Emilia Clarke: "Hold my somehow smiling eyebrows" This is a joke btw.

[@hamzabenchaita4000]

Hold my starbucks

[@MarySirenbun]

Totally agree!

[@Rafael-rn6hn]

"The perfect person doesn't exist." Emilia Clarke: Hold my dracarys. "? What does that me--GAAAHHHH!" *burns to a crisp* Everyone: "Y, you are perfect, my queen! Perfect!!" Emilia Clarke: *genuine full facial smile*

[@miamiller7678]

@@hamzabenchaita4000 "hold my beaming smile with me"

[@SithCelia]

I always enjoy any interviews I've seen her in, but especially during her discussions of off-screen time with other GOT actors. She really does seem like a down-to-earth kinda gal that likes to have fun and lights up any space she's in. I was a little surprised to see her mention something during Emilia Clarke Remembers after GOT season 7, about how she'd learned to feel better about herself through playing such a dynamic character as the Mother of Dragons. Long may she reign!

[@tornedsky]

emilia is so similar to my bestfriend lmao. ive always wondered why she has so many friends from all kinds of people in school, but i realized that im also very attached with her. she smiles and laughs a lot, always finds humor in everything, and never bring down any person. its the overwhelming positive energy that makes people gravitate towards them!🌟

[@-spr-]

*Emilia and Chris must be protected at all cost. They're too pure for this world*

[@ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS]

They are actors.

[@ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS]

How do you and 187 other people not see through them. They are contractually obligated to promote their projects so all they have to do is pretend to be charming and great people for ten minute interviews to sell their product.

[@clipcutter7977]

Hey! Keanu Reeves too!

[@beccarola]

ASSMAN u okay assman

[@-spr-]

@@clipcutter7977 why not!

[@jp4431]

1. Beaming and frequent smiling 2. Build others up (compliments) 3. Raise the energy (of social interactions) 4. Be an active listener

[@omegachaos32]

@JP 5. Don't be ugly.

[@omegachaos32]

Just kidding, you can be ugly in this circumstance. (I speak from experience). You can mix and match on these too. Active listener should be number 1 in my opinion. So long as you actually care about what others are talking about, whether you would normally pay attention to it or not, people will pay you significantly more mind if you show interest in what they're talking about. The other things definitely help. This is pretty easy for me because I really don't care about things I have to say or feel others can say what I'm thinking/feeling just fine. It means I have less to say, but when I do have things to say, typically (not always) others are more interested/invested.

[@skywalker6648]

Number 5 Be humble and happy with life. Otherwise, It may not come off as genuine.

[@jghifiversveiws8729]

@@SailorSiFi Do you make other people feel awkward or do you make yourself feel awkward? Do you smile with just your mouth or do you smile with both your eyes and your mouth? And lastly, you don't have to compliment people directly it can usually be something as simple as agreeing with a choice they've made rather than something cosmetic or aesthetic, I think you'll have more success if you try that.

[@jghifiversveiws8729]

@@SailorSiFi I think your doing rather well so far your putting yourself out there and actually applying what you learned, I think one thing that would benefit you is trying to be more humorous in your conversations and get used to laughing at your jokes that will give you way more opportunities to smile and laugh but genuinely this time, next is whenever you give someone a compliment and you start to feel some tension build between you and them try making a joke and for extra information on how to do this successfully maybe check some of this channels videos on flirting mainly the "push and pull" technique, even if you aren't trying to hit on someone it's a very versatile technique that can be used in all types of conversations.

[@swedishgirl2506]

5:40 I used to be more like this, but people would relentlessly taunt me for being high or on drugs or tell me to calm down. It really hurt my feelings, so I am not like this around ppl unless I know they are safe.

[@acupofbeauty19]

That's really sad. People can be so mean-spirited.

[@magicpainthorse]

I love her laugh.

[@valentinacamilleri8731]

Her smile is so contagious as well, i was smiling throughout this whole video😁

[@andrewjenkins9965]

Me too! It really is contagious. She's like a lighthouse of joy.

[@IRumburakI]

It's not just her, it's contagious in general, but hers is sort of in your face

[@Kayleekakes]

Same

[@201percent]

How to be charming WITHOUT trying: 3. Raise your energy above everyone el- Me: nope

[@someguy4096]

@Mike Greg I think the key is to do at "one level higher" not just be a goofball.

[@muamerblazevic1837]

Yep cuz that shit's scary

[@youngbubbles]

My heart would probably give out after .48 seconds

[@theamvgirlx]

This actually works. I am either the worst person for this or the best. No in between

[@user-eh1gc7xo7q]

Mike Greg not necessarily, as long as you have slightly more energy then it works perfectly. Especially in a group interview by the way it’s really good to get noticed.

[@Smidgefishh]

I noticed this when hanging out with people that are kind of like Emilia Clarke. Hanging out with people such as her changes you to automatically do the same, at least in my experience haha

[@aniaskorek3413]

Your voice and kindness to subjects you talk about are incredibly pleasant to listen to. Amazing job !

[@INMATE2468]

so to sum up the video: Be kind, happy, and don't forget to genuinely compliment

[@ZuuZoor]

*be attractive. The world is shallow and nobody likes an ugly grin.

[@sharik6862]

I died at that Arnold Schwarzenegger smiling clip 😂😂

[@TuringMachine001]

RIP

[@camkraw893]

That shit was amazing

[@alangeorge5592]

RIP

[@Vultraz999]

RIP

[@legendsneverdie2591]

RIP the chosen one.yYou were like a brother to me.You will be always in my heart.

[@ReportTheHackers]

I love how you were taking your own advice at the end when talking about CU. Good energy!

[@acese4837]

Every time I'm having an interaction (particularly with someone new) bullet point from these videos pop-up in my head. Thank you guys. It has helped me a lot.

[@hnklee2607]

I think the reason Emilia looks so genuine is that she is comfortable with her own self..

[@codeghost1111]

As an uncharming female i want to be jealous of Emilia because of how amazing she is, but i just cant. Shes too charming

[@MontyQueues]

if you are female you have vagina

[@codeghost1111]

@@MontyQueues Yes, indeed. That is anatomy...

[@gvantsa4403]

Absolutely Nobody; Eddy que: ..

[@ArchIVEDCinema]

You can become charming, though!

[@SunflowerSpotlight]

When I go out places I sort of... practice. I pretend. Even during little interactions. When people don’t call me out somehow, saying, “Wait! You’re not normal like this! You’re faking it!” I realize maybe I’ve been a little silly and my expectations weren’t right. If it doesn’t go so well, eh, it’s not people I’m going to have to deal with anyway. Win win. 😅 Good luck on your charming road. 😜

[@flyingcrepe7742]

*watches this because I'm so afraid of my friends secretly hating me*

[@machaeraakian3293]

Hey ... that's at least unlikely, if possible, have you considered getting some sleep à John Mulaney?

[@heather-sardano]

My own huge smile exploded watching this episode! Thank you.

[@alfonsoveloz1834]

Me: forgets how to human This video: I gotchu

[@mikai]

Oof

[@confuseddiluc4972]

Human.exe has stopped working

[@rishadahmed3969]

Wiki how

[@hi-hc3ms]

LOL

[@Raccon_Detective.]

Covid be like

[@sarahsongz282]

It also helps if you have the most perfect teeth..

[@rexysmith4029]

and a super cute face 😅

[@sosoberna5995]

No not true at all that’s insecure talking

[@sosoberna5995]

RexySmith zerowastealternatives there many people who are considered ugly to society they are charming some not all

[@fatamy8597]

Sarah Songz not true

[@chai_lattes]

I wish I had larger teeth😁

[@skye67]

I actually think that having some insecurities but your positivity comes through anyway cos you want to love and laugh regardless of what you’ve been through is also extremely charming. I’ve been through a lot, but it doesn’t stop me from being described often as very charming…

[@marcosc9130]

Some of the most charismatic people are actually very insecure, Judy Garland and Audrey Hepburn were probably two of the most charismatic stars Hollywood ever had or will have, but they both had very tragic lifes and dealt with a huge pain since very little. Emilia also, she lives with the constant threat of simply dying with no time to even react.

[@zorzo999]

the thing I like about these video's (compared to other mentoring video's) is that he looks at the things that make a charismatic person unique, rather than putting up rules that everybody should follow. you need to find the charisma in yourself.

[@jenifersanchez1778]

when he pulled out the Kanye video I SCREAMED

[@hades4860]

Lol 😂😂

[@shaniajackson7864]

I l9ve Kanye

[@Gargantura]

As P

[@keplygatbikinibottomsmooth6418]

its interesting hearing her reveal recently that she had experienced 2 brain aneurysms in her early 20s, so having endured such hardships like that at a young age where her life was on the line probably made her reevaluate her perspective on life and how she wants to approach life with a more positive attitude/ being in the moment kind of thing.

[@SirKopoKid]

WHAT?

[@skywalker6648]

I agree in that it probably made her more grateful which is why her smile appears so genuine.

[@arxz_3684]

Nah she was like this even before all that happened if you go to past interviews from before they shot season 1 and she got her first brain aneurysm.

[@t_n_rasberry8387]

You guys always makes the best videos that are so detailed. Thanks for the huge efforts you put in each video you make.

[@ash_luscious]

Smilingggggg genuinely and finding humor and laughing freely Putting spotlight on others Building others up

[@amber5802]

Emilia Clarke is honestly so pure we need to protect her at all costs

[@jking4973]

Definitely!

[@HellbentYaYa]

No

[@ainselyarrowood6621]

Pure? U do know she plays in game of thrones right?

[@danaevs2232]

Just because someone smiles and laughs a lot does not make them pure.

[@BreeQuinn]

@@danaevs2232 Relax

[@gummygwyn]

In korea it's called "Eye Smile". It very charming and infectious.

[@someothername9462]

Eye smile? That's a very nice and descriptive phrase 👍👍

[@killerqueen8576]

Jimin's smile 💞

[@amaleeshavindhya901]

Same here in Sr Lanka. Its kind of an attractive thing too.

[@imstuckinwashingmachine]

Same here in Czech Republic

[@Nina21_]

Like Hobi & jimin's eye smiles ❤

[@shadowdeath1011]

Honestly I’ve watched a lot of your videos and they all just describe how to be a good person. Which I find very interesting

[@gayathrisajeev6268]

Her laugh is the cutest Emilia is hands down the most charistmatic and the most adorable person ever 💕

[@sawma6943]

emilia would have made a fine captain marvel

[@ihaveasmallpenisbut751]

Adrigogo3 lmao

[@danpohlmann6]

I think Steve Buscemi is a better candidate 😂

[@sharik6862]

Is that a personal attack or something?

[@luffhyperz6114]

Finally a good idea

[@RenzXVI]

Her height, or lack thereof, is a problem though. XD

[@sandycheeks3460]

I died at kanye's fake smile 😂💀

[@sterlingholobyte]

RIP

[@MrBobismarK]

Thank you for making this for us! I just realized and started asking myself when did I laughed or smiled freely.

[@Joel6060]

i feel like you started speaking more slowly and comfortably in this video. I get so much more of an enjoyable vibe from that and it gives more space to take in and consider the ideas and possibly follow you. Well done!

[@marier1542]

Damn she's so charismatic, I smiled throughout the video, her smile is infectious!

[@smhlls]

Same fam

[@SeanLunny]

1- be genuine. 2- compliment something about the person that they can control (outfit, personality, choice of food etc)

[@Warriorfall]

you can't control your personality

[@SeanLunny]

Warriorfall yes you can. You can choose to be a nice person or not, you can choose to be friendly and talkative and energetic or not.

[@karimshebeika8010]

...escalating into a debate on free will and determinism...

[@federalagent2921]

@@Warriorfall You are watching the same video as me right now right? The video about how to improve your personality on a channel about how to improve your personality right?

[@annabanana9396]

i can not imagine having to keep up that energy level. i am exhausted watching this

[@user-qf2rj4fz6e]

im so glad i found this channel! im very introverted and i feel like i rly need to change and socialize more😩

[@pinkberolable]

Emilia Clarke X Chris Evans- that would be one happy positive couple

[@charleemi]

I know right! I always thought that too. They're so similar, with a lot of the same goals, I feel like they'd be perfect for each other

[@JasmineBoothe1]

There's a picture of them from an awards show and I was like omg. They would be so perfect!

[@JasmineBoothe1]

@ComaBerenices I agree he gets WAAAY too political too quick.

[@charleemi]

ComaBerenices ComaBerenices totally agree, Emilia wouldn't do that. If they were together, then I think she'd be able to pacify him. But yeah I agree, he's positive about some thing but other things not so much, like politics and other things

[@Hannahrb03]

I say Emilia and Chris Hemsworth!

[@SidneyJupiter]

It helps to be hot though doesn’t it

[@papitosabe]

not true... I had a pretty ugly friend (just being honest) and the dude was hella charismatic, and always had chick friends and decent looking girlfriends. He wasn't rich or anything, but looking back, he did some of the things talked about here.

[@papitosabe]

@@Chrisko1492 charisma is charisma... imo, it's not like attraction where being hot helps.... being ugly doesn't impede charisma. So you're in luck.

[@porcelainslane7391]

Yuuuup! A person like me exhibits these behaviors and yet, probably isn't as charming to those who find her charming. Oh well... still not gonna stop me, can't see myself caring about what others think that badly enough to change my personality.

[@robert.mcdonald]

There was this one girl who me and many people had a crush on and she was quite ugly. She was fit but it was her charisma that made people attracted to her. Obviously it helps to have good looks but you can still go far without them.

[@viswateja7755]

Bp

[@childofthefates]

Yesterday I went to a gathering and employed these tactics. Got a really great response, people I don't usually talk to I had a blast with, no lulls in the conversation. 😁

[@alexyeezus7520]

I love how u show Chris Evans & Will smith as other examples because if u put Emilia, Chris, and Will in the same room it will be the biggest supporting/ loving room full of people you'll ever meet. They exude happiness and it might be overwhelming at times

[@titlespree]

*You look super charming while smiling when you're bloomed with genuine happiness/joy!*

[@authenticlines]

Mindprovement Yes, exactly what I was thinking

[@bananasplitlady3045]

Everyone looks kind of beautiful while laughing. That sounds cheesy, but it's true.

[@jjokinen8420]

took me about 2 months to learn to smile with my eyes also when faking a smile, but I managed to do it. Guess I'm a psychopath Edit: Also, I am a subscriber and alot of the videos I've watched have been super helpful in manipulating people. I've managed to gain a few odd jobs here and there watching your stuff.

[@titlespree]

@@jjokinen8420 Really? Wow!

[@titlespree]

@@jjokinen8420 Unless you want to "hurt" people, I'd say more power to you! 💪

[@starburst9053]

Pro tip: NEVER give fake compliments. People KNOW

[@lilros3851]

pookie pie Just to add a quick smth: if you want to find easy genuine compliments it can be just a little thing you noticed like a nice shirt or complimenting they’re efficiency or nice writing. Compliments don’t need to be always on the same things.

[@nagash2731]

When anybody says a compliment about me I /always/ assume it's fake or sarcastic. I figure there are people who /always/ assume it's genuine, too. It's gotta work both ways right?

[@shawnmercado2219]

Not exactly. You're always allowed to call a woman beautiful or a man handsome, pretty much no matter what they look like. Unless they were recently horribly disfigured and its still a sore spot maybe. But otherwise, even if people know youre buttering them up they will usually appreciate the gesture so long as it feels like its coming from a place of affection

[@charimuvilla8693]

You have eyes

[@starburst9053]

@@charimuvilla8693 That's very charming and genuine of you to say

[@terryvandyke5975]

I've enjoyed your site very much! It's full of positive info!

[@somewhereright3160]

Honestly, your channel helps me to become a better person. Thank you for all your effort. :)