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[@cmbr.]

I had the feeling of constantly being consumed

[@florenceurso9678]

Is all his information pertinent even between and I my daughter?

[@emmamonroe3311]

It feels like even when they aren’t around you their little demons are jumping up and down for joy all around you feet. I’m serious about that.👈🏻

[@marjet2228]

It’s true,you loose yourself in the interaction with the narcissist. It feels like dying. It’s feels utterly wrong, like being robbed. Sam Vaknin explains it very well.

[@theresajones8902]

Me too.

[@gorunsko31]

@@florenceurso9678i am looking at my relationship with my adult daughter ( narc suspect)…. Painful to consider she is a narcissist

[@suziesmith2142]

Once you've gotten beyond the agony of an encounter with this beast, all one can feel is terrible sadness and pity. He still tries to contact me about once a year. It's like a cry from the wilderness. Breaks my heart. BUT, make NO mistake- if you EVER give them any of your compassion and attention, they will GLEEFULLY gouge out your eyeballs. Sad, sad stuff.

[@TheMazinoz]

Yep, some are psychopaths pure and simple. And you don't have to invite them into your life, they can be unwanted new neighbours, even in middle or upper class areas, or work colleagues etc

[@sundara888whelan5]

Mmmm ….. So well expressed! Thankyou 🙏 The howl of the executioner! And you are right, so very sad, pathetic even, full of pathos, yet devoid of it! Hollow!

[@ExplainAndSummarize]

🚨 WARNING This video discusses the dangerous dynamics of being involved with a narcissist and the potential harm they can cause. It emphasizes how narcissists view others as external objects and feel threatened by their independence and separateness. The video explores the narcissist's tendency to forget about their victims but recalls them when their independence is displayed, leading to aggression. The ultimate goal of a narcissist is to eradicate and replace their victims.

[@user-wj5co6xb4x]

This is brilliant explanation

[@bimbatdima]

How do I save myself from this? This is happening right now in my life! I am a survivor of breaking up with my FIP (former intimate partner) after being arrested by the police on her false accusations. But she still had our two sons by her side, the older of whom she made a second narcissism provider. (And that is what led to the cataclysmic events that led to the breakup). She constantly seeks contact with me, and I try to hide from her..... And in doing so, she continues to falsely complain about me to the police. And I've been arrested two more times on false charges.... And she vandalized my belongings in the house I raised our children in... Smashed the windshield in my car and has slashed all four tires twice... She's abusing our children... This is a cry for help!

[@bimbatdima]

How do I save myself from this? This is happening right now in my life! I am a survivor of breaking up with my FIP (former intimate partner) after being arrested by the police on her false accusations. But she still had our two sons by her side, the older of whom she made a second narcissism provider. (And that is what led to the cataclysmic events that led to the breakup). She constantly seeks contact with me, and I try to hide from her..... And in doing so, she continues to falsely complain about me to the police. And I've been arrested two more times on false charges.... And she vandalized my belongings in the house I raised our children in... Smashed the windshield in my car and has slashed all four tires twice... She's abusing our children... This is a cry for help!

[@user-wj5co6xb4x]

@@bimbatdima ok bless you - I'm sorry to hear your in difficulties - trouble is I don't know your circumstances and can only advise you to seek support - an abuse helpline might be a good place to start.....

[@kahyah89]

@@bimbatdimaYES to support ! Restraining order to get the story straight with the police… include your arrests. Be upfront with family & friends ~ record everything you can with your phone as evidence ~ get counseling for you and your children. A counselor experienced with Narcs can both help you navigate as safely as possible ( physically/ mentally/emotionally ), and can represent you in court later if needed. Write your story…for your own sanity, for your children in the future when they are willing and able to heal, and for those that come after you… This is an epidemic, that we are finally becoming aware of, and your experience can help others in the future. Please know… You’re not alone. And you’re not crazy. Bless you all ❤

[@idiomaxiom]

This is why they are such an escape, one can surrender to the abuse and annihilate the self. Its not a happy secure person that seeks out a narcissist, but one seeking to avoid themselves.

[@finleyscotland]

Nobody seeks a narcissist, they seek their victims.

[@idiomaxiom]

@@finleyscotland mine just discarded me and I'm thrashing around looking for a new one lest I have to awaken from the spell and face myself.

[@skumsters2323]

@@idiomaxiom you can do this, if you cant do it for yourself yet...do it to enoy him /her. Not the best but a start

[@gayatri555]

​@@idiomaxiom perhaps you arent in touch with your emotions

[@idiomaxiom]

@@gayatri555 That's the goal.

[@c3909]

He's not giving me life, he's slowly and subtly trying to take it away from me. And I definitely won't allow that to happen since it is the most precious gift God gave me 💕 keep all of you strong!

[@toiletfarm]

My ex sabotages me every chance she gets. We have a child together and if my life improves in any way, she goes on the attack, breaks the parenting contract, cries on social media about how abusive I am. It’s exhausting.

[@bfisherful]

I'm sorry this is happening to you.😢 Don't allow her to know anything about your success or stepping stones. Don't share with your children and wait awhile to show anything new you've purchased and don't allow her in your dwelling place.

[@AGenerationJones]

Look into Parental Alienation - be vigilant as this is the death blow of turning your child against you.

[@Prometheuspredator]

I agree. Sharing nothing new or what you accomplished in your life. Keep it to yourself. Don't feed into negative behavior and encouraging her victim role mentality. Also, please stay off Facebook and all social media sites. If you respond to her comments it encourages her nasty behavior. Go black out and no contact, except when it concerns your child. You owe her nothing to know anything about your life. It is your life and not hers. Don't allow her to sabotage it. If you have friends in common watch what you say. They maybe flying monkey and unconsciously they may not know it as she will manuplate them.

[@Prometheuspredator]

Also, with narcissists it is common they attempt "parental alienation." It is devastating as my sibling is going through it. Peace, love, and God Bless you 🙏.

[@babs420th9]

Were you abusive? 🤔

[@chrispence4931]

if it pleases the court, i move for the co-opted term 'narcississt' be upgraded to 'dreamslayer'. thank you sam ❤

[@em945]

I think much of current society (not just individuals) is functioning as a narcissist.

[@Prometheuspredator]

I agree. We must stay cautious and know the signs and move away from them.

[@em945]

@@Bucephalus84 yes, indeed! I did mean narcissist, not narcissistic. It was an opinion, not one you had to agree with. 3 years ago a textbook grandiose narcissist moved to the upstream property to our small farm. I will spare the details and the damage, but it has been an eyeopener, and character building. The only gift has been a compassion for those forced to deal in close quarters with them. We are in process of selling. I pray the new People may a good fit with him.

[@svetlanawesley3423]

Funny thing, before learning about it I always felt that narcissist in my life forgets me and things between us. It actually made me feel safe when some conflict occurred. I have always known he'd forget it as soon I leave his eyesight 😂

[@th2acian]

LoL like they would reset overnight.

[@nikkicheraghipour755]

Hi Sam, l learned so much from you. I found you during my darkest time of my marriage. I understand what is the reason for my narc behaviour. Stay healthy Sam 😊

[@emmahunnisett1735]

I felt alive when first with him. Then a slow death. I was dead. Then he assaulted my child 2 years ago and police removed him. I had forgotten what living was. I am now alive and eternally grateful for the genius vaknin

[@user-pq5do3fe5y]

Just a Masterpiece, there is nothing to add ...

[@skumsters2323]

Again, spoken like a poet.

[@4helio214]

A robot portrait of my ex😢 Now I understand better why I thought that he might have early onset Alzheimer's

[@maryritch]

Walking talking death. My stalker would go around calling herself the death angel and wearing ironic tees that say "death is coming" . Thanks for this video!!! You are an amazing resource

[@kaliyugavideoentertainment4066]

This is what I was just thinking about the person I have in mind… that he’s already dead

[@KarenSullivan321]

You have been so helpful! I was literally in a cult with a narcissist leader. It is a very long story. I was booted out by the narcissist because the Lord told him to. I was told I would decline quickly and die. I didn't. That was 16 months ago. He just came out with a video stating that he felt in his spirit I had died. Surprise! I haven't. He cant bear the fact that I speak out against his ministry of death. Fascinating also because this leader had a sunglass company called Vampire.

[@MirjamButikofer-hz7fl]

haha this is funny what a loser 😂 my ex is similarly delusional, thinks he is the best thing thats ever happened to me and im prob dead or at the very least miserable now, even tho im finally living again, buying myself nice things, feeling more confident after surviving literally the biggest mistake of my life which was him. Self sacrifice is over our energy goes towards is now✨

[@PupSpoiler]

Unfortunately our religious institutions are magnet for narcissists!! Controlling people through religion!!! 😞

[@carloslorenzothecuban5280]

Professor no one can explain better than you My gratitude to you Thanks

[@preparedsurvivalist2245]

I still find it amazing how narcissists can live completely inside their altered fictional reality. I recently got into a texting match with my narc, not sure why I bothered, and of course she trotted out her LONG distorted series of events in which I was the vilian and she was the victim. Obviously, most all of it was exaggerations, half truths, irrelevant details, and outright lies. But then I realized, THIS is the version of reality she tells to other people. While it was just a bunch of garbage for me to read and laugh at, she actually spends her time telling all her other supply sources and useful idiots all this made up stuff about me. And they'll never escape this bizarro world theyve created for themselves. They'll just dig in deeper and pile it on, lie after lie after lie. Realize you two are in completely different planes of existence and vibrational frequencies.

[@themoontoonshines923]

Well said. 👏

[@styledbyhustlerlocs]

Whewww the darkness comprehend the light not.

[@AndileNcube80]

2:36 "adoptive strategy, is to eliminate you" In my experience this course of action is literal, not metaphorical.

[@ayla4844]

I agree. My husband just walks out of the house and will not return for days or months.

[@A.M.6795]

My mom

[@user-sl3ij2oo2y]

I needed this video so bad today!. Thank you Professor! We always watch the whole vids and wish they lasted even longer! Precious information to educate us and soothe our souls from abuse.

[@conniejohoward847]

Wow, you are so right about narcissistic people. I live next door to a stalker version, this creep has no life of his own, and he's trying to live by proxy to mine. Thank you for all your great information!

[@googlebutt8626]

Part of the death trap I observed is a constant message that it was the other person who was not good enough and if it wasn't for the others person's bad qualitues they would have the love that the narcissist isnt capable of feeling.

[@adriennedouke1880]

Nailed it. It isn't that they are withholding love, it is that the have no love to give.

[@areuarealman7269]

That's brilliant what you just wrote it's especially true in bizarre family structures I really like what you wrote I think maybe loads of narcissistic people the true cause of family disfunction is the one with the most power whomever that person is was but will never set room in a psychiatrist office too be labeled anyway but there is always a cause and the usualy but not always tge effect is late too the party after accumulation of various labels so the effected are essentially crazy by default not fair but mental health and pill manufacturers need money too I guess...I'm not a mind scrambler just a pill popping delusion.

[@higherground9888]

Essentially, Narcissists are Doppelgangers. Hollow Mirrors of actual people.

[@angelahampton9081]

Thanks. Where did the people come from?

[@ronedalaya846]

My ex would play this song when we were first together, Bring me back to life by evanescence, I understand now after spending the last 2 years recovering and learning about what personality disorders are. He was diagnosed with antisocial personality and borderline disorder.

[@ronedalaya846]

@caligirl9403 I was with him for 18 years we have 2 children together, I have been no contact for 2 years, I have not seen my children for two years he had stalked and assaulted me in the street after my escape, I had to grieve for the relationship that was real to me, and accept what he is to try and move past this hideous trauma bond, take care my dear, you're not alone, spend your time learning about the disorder, it does help, it took me a good 15 months with brain rehab, and psychological support for which I still have, to help me, stay strong 💪 don't get sucked back in because they don't change they just get better at the con.

[@Prometheuspredator]

​​@@ronedalaya846, Happy you moved on. He was a detriment to your life. So sad about your children. Parental Alienation is the worst of the worst. Stay safe and healthy. You got this, girl. Doing good.

[@Abdunative]

This us creepy, mine played the same song the first time

[@Cryptuna]

This made me very emotional. When the Dr ends his videos at the end. The expression on his face reminds me of her. I can see it

[@cdorothy444]

The death trap of not being able to live their own lives😂 I remember an ex online narc friend who just join a chat with me and my good friend, and she asked why didn’t you find me first before finding my other friend HELP The possessiveness is crazy, I really felt like being a limb

[@silvia22d]

You just described my woman boss. Before every weekend , free day, holiday or vacation, she gives us all kinds of reports to complete, very detailed, totally unuseful, just to justify the chair she occupies for almost twenty years.

[@user-sj4hn7jo9d]

That's how I felt. That he wanted to 'kill' me by destroying my dignity and self-respect, which he knew were vital to me. He wanted to 'kill' me by trying to impose humiliating, physically sadistic and dangerous practices in sexual intercourse. I respect your space, I cannot name these practices, but had I consented, I might have ended up in hospital. He wanted me to consent, yes. Because he enjoyed seeing me break my boundaries for him. A charming, charismatic, seductive man. I miss him. The fantasy he invited me into. But I left. Me, not him. I ran away. My physical and mental health matter more than him.😢

[@barkingtree88]

It might not be what I want to hear, but you speak the truth.

[@shivanipatel4369]

He introduces you into his cycle of grieving. That part. I had to sit next to him while he cried for literally 2-4 hours and abandon my needs for his. He wasn’t going to acknowledge the pain he has caused me. Although, he for sure was going to play victim and cry. Cry not for few minutes, but HOURS. This happened every week or two for last 5.5 years. He would cry over the most absurd situations. I feel there’s a hole in my solar plexus that’s forming. Literally. He basically wants to steal that from me and be as empty as he is. It’s as if he’s trying to create a black hole in me where I would never have enough of everything just as he needs constant validation, needs met, and acts entitled to no end. It’s the grieving/crying part for me that I can’t seem to grasp. Where is it coming from? He cries for hours over any situation. As if he’s looking for me to discuss something that will add to this relationship in a positive way and that’s his chance to start weeping for hours all over again. I guess I’ve heard him say many times his seemingly narcissistic mother would cry too and expect him to sit there ignoring his needs and wants to attend to her crying often.

[@Prometheuspredator]

It is for attention and to submerge you into his toxic dynamic. Playing the victim role that all narcissists do.

[@justinrobinson9583]

When I confronted him, he would always claim that it did not happen, or he doesn't remember the moment. This video makes sense from an otherwise weird confrontation.

[@laviniaasofiei9054]

Everything is a perpetuation of evil and this fall down the rabbit hole Path grows exponentially if we don't step up and break the cycle, whether we are victims or perpetrators or both. It takes all the awareness and compassion we are capable of and eventually we can break the cycle.

[@jeannfav2921]

My 1st husband. I couldn't understand his awful behavior, but I knew something was terribly wrong. Sometimes he showed a beautiful sense of humor and he had an incredible singing voice (I met him when we had a singing gig) but his good side didn't last long. He'd change on a dime. Quite scary.

[@kidscreativekreativeideen549]

😢Thank youuu my father had stolen over 40 years of my life until I cut off

[@TherapyAbuse]

Are Narcissists _consciously_ aware of this goal, to eliminate their partner's autonomy and independence, or is this an unconcious decision (due to the narcissist's lack of insight, grandiose sense of self-importance, entitlement, etc.) The narcissist believes they have ALL the answers (i.e. "I alone can fix it") They feel entitled to have others, particularly their inner circle of friends and family to accommodate the Narcissist's preferences (due to their brilliant intelligence or dashing good looks) Is there any point in a narcissist's life when the evidence of their own destructiveness becomes undeniable? Enough to break through their alloplastic defenses? Would that realization result in narcissitic injury or mortification?

[@samvaknin]

Mortification.

[@tazanddo]

Thank you Sam Vaknin for providing wisdom tools to dismantle our own inner narcissism, which hides from us in the shadow.

[@SavageHun1]

You're the best man! I always tell ppl Prof. Sam Vaknin's the man when it comes to dealing with narcissism!! 😊

[@jenfeler]

Yes, Dr. Vaknin, we never do get out of the enmeshment. We feed on each other and are somehow connected for life. I believe we stay connected for life. Thanks for your content, it has saved mine and countless other lives. You are still the original and still the best. ❤

[@FG-hl3tp]

They want you to leave the workplace and takes over your personality.

[@mas7241]

Hey Sam! I love your shorts. Please make more of them, and then offer 'deep dives.' Thanks for all the great content!

[@whyieyesyadonpiano]

I always said my narcissistic ex was 'draining my will to live.' I assumed I was being hyperbolic bc he frequently referred to me as a drama queen & I began to believe him. Now I can't unsee it.

[@dilfuzakhaydarova2859]

Thank you so much Dear Professor Sam Vaknin ❤

[@PeterShaw-ne1yq]

This explains so much of an acquaintance I could not understand: her self defeating conduct and rejecting demeanour!

[@lyranorthernstar3802]

I disappeared it took me four years of work on myself and counselling to walk back the steps that had lead to my death and it hit me hard when I realised I was in abusive relationship and I am slowly getting out

[@ShadowJerker-st3lj]

Good! Keep going!

[@lyranorthernstar3802]

@@ShadowJerker-st3lj thank you I’m getting there, building strength from listening to my instincts and becoming my own independent self

[@narcicide8814]

Congratulations! It will be well worth it!

[@lyranorthernstar3802]

@@narcicide8814 with the help of women’s aid my child and I are in a safe house. We escaped 7 months ago I am still healing and I’m in a better environment to keep building myself up again

[@user-gl4yx4rc2g]

Clarity brings peace. Thank you.

[@karenblueford8]

Thank you for your honesty,and openness you're helping millions of people save their life from the narcissist . Bless you.

[@greys1355]

I love listening to your talks. I've learned so much. I really appreciate it. Thank you❤

[@philporter3045]

Amazing so true I understood this with the sexuality the other way around.

[@johnmuntean1182]

Thank you!!!

[@marykovacs8330]

Absolutely. 46 years of this. It's exhausting and he's used our adult children to make sure l don't exist

[@ayla4844]

Are you still married to him? 35 years for me and I feel so lost and yes dead.

[@Prometheuspredator]

Parental Alienation is the worst of the worst 😢. So sorry.

[@sarinadekoker332]

Short and sweet 😊Thank you so much

[@Soleilran]

‘I have already dead,if u saw me good,just like some flowers blooming in ruin,only the fire of hell can let me feel alive’ this is my narc told me,but unfortunately I can’t understand at that time…

[@mercyamon1664]

Hi Sam, thank you very much. People need to watch this video.

[@StickyfingersAce]

Genius! A victim from Skopje)) But, not any more, tnx to you!)) I`ve been following you these past three years, been struggling a lot, while realising some truths that hurt, but it is a journey worth of experiencing. Cheers from Skopje, Alex

[@aliciaserrano888]

Ouch this is so painful to hear because it resonates so accurately. 23 years and although I finally got away, I’m dead to him. So painful. Thanks for not mincing words.

[@themoontoonshines923]

It’s better than to continue being his supply for him, vampire like, to suck the life out of you! Move on! You can do this!

[@terrycat7649]

Thankyou ❤️ I hope they heal❤️every day the sun comes up and it's a new day and a new birth and a new chance for a positive rebirth for us❤️ I love you ❤️

[@izawaniek2568]

Spot on! This is exactly it. Thank you.

[@ayla4844]

Interesting! After 35 years of marriage I had my first therapy session recently because every time I stood up for myself my husband was quick to say it was me the problem, and that there was something wrong with ME, so I believed him. One of the things I said during therapy was "I feel so dead inside". She asked me to explain what I mean by that. I couldn't. How do you explain death? Soon after that incident I set a boundary and did not allow my husband to cross my boundary. He left the house and hasn't returned since then. Seven days now. Yet how come I feel that I am the one who died????

[@themoontoonshines923]

Sending good energy your way. I’ve been there but I finally broke free from that misery. Educate yourself about all this, trauma bonding and all sorts of manipulation from a narcissist are partly why you feel this way. It is absolutely true, no contact is primordial for you to start healing, finding yourself again and be able to look back to gain the benefit of hindsight. There are many things that you will not find closure to, that you will never understand. The extremes in the relation are helpful for that fog and lack of clarity. Don’t ever forget how you have felt you are walking on eggshells all the time around the narcissist. You Can Break Free and you CAN return to life from that darkness. ✌️ ❤️ ✌️

[@s-t-e-p]

@@themoontoonshines923 Very comforting and optimistic, word for word, you have written this advice and it is wonderful to read that there is a way out. Thank you!

[@jf8468]

I had someone that I though was a friend that would get irritated when I talked to other people he littered twitches and felt the need to take control and put me down and take the attention. I blocked him and gray rocked him. Him and my Narc brother are friends.

[@Prometheuspredator]

Stay away from him and your brother. Go no contact. Abandon and get them out of your life. No more contact.

[@jf8468]

@@Prometheuspredatorno contact for 5 months! It’s over

[@inamajo]

I am walking dead. What can I do about my lack of empathy, depression, low self esteem? I wish I felt pleasure, beauty, good sadness and admiration. My whole life I feel negative emotions and cannot recall good momentu in it. It is so sad when you realize how poor existence of a narcissist has to live every day. Grandiosity is only excuse, cover up for weakness. Since 2 years I have tried to find which trauma made me such a harm and I can not find any particular sign or theme which would resonate in me now. Thank you Sam for sharing your knowledge and hope for narcissts all over the world. Love from Poland 💗

[@loekiekanters4295]

Low self esteem? Are you really a narcissist?

[@Prometheuspredator]

It is not one trauma, but trauma your whole life. You live in trauma. I hope you are seeing a therapist that knows about NPD and can help you to work through your trauma.

[@juliesheard2122]

My daughter is doing this to me. Whatever I do she she hates it but once I abandon it because of her judgement she waits a bit then does it herself. If I have an opinion about a topic she shuts me up quick saying she doesn't want to know - I am silenced again and again till I am nothing. It feels like "there can only be one". Anything good in me she has to become but not before i have died to it by her hand. I am dead already

[@skumsters2323]

That is exactly the feeling I had just after dealing with my ex mr Narsty. To hear this in your words, nice mr Narsty, clears the last part I needed to deal with right up. Thank you mr. Vaknin sir. Love, I forgot you don 't care haha, so respect! ;)

[@miriambarco8832]

Wow ! I'm watching my daughter vanish before my very eyes

[@AlisongsLA]

Me, too. 😢

[@Prometheuspredator]

😢

[@Prometheuspredator]

​@@AlisongsLA😢

[@taniaearle4457]

It is ghoulish, being lured into a black hole & consumed as if by another species 🖤

[@johnnyarnold4403]

Thank you for this video, I’ve always said it’s like he wants to be me, god knows he stole half if not more of what I owned like he had a right to it. They take and take till theirs nothing left & they ruin every aspect of your life, it’s like being in prison, at times death seems like the only way out. It’s painful to think about what it must be like to be an empty shell & a broken one at that.

[@alinajeziorska5959]

Thank you so much, sending lots of love, Blue profesor💙

[@chosenmoneaa]

Thank you 😢 I’m going through this trying to find a healthy way out

[@izabudz2365]

Scary knowledge....thank you for helping to find a sens in this nonsens weird personality...

[@Now2Sense]

Thanks Sam, i appreciate it

[@christielawrence4640]

Thank you, Sir!

[@lilianfowler7988]

Narcissist: Never heard of him/her. LOL! Thank you, Sir. In my personal family relationship. It is true. The narcs words feel as if I am either a good tool or demonic force to be verbally destroyed. I look at the scars from the mental abuse feel my options are either to submit and die or disappear from the narc's life.

[@karenblueford8]

Thank you.I don't want the narcissist life, because I couldn't live with myself after killing people. What a miserable life for the narcissist and anybody who gets involved with him.

[@paulahansen4102]

Thanks for the warning🩷🩷

[@lillitemple3791]

Professor Sam Vaknin, thanks a lot for your absolutely outstanding work! Do you think a narcissist is able to heal and overpower those unhealthy patterns? Under what circumstances? Thank you for reading.

[@samvaknin]

Search the channel.

[@wallaceleewl9189]

Thank you.

[@wyrdscynce]

so much truth

[@thelastfeast4532]

Read up on Levinas on the other and letting the other be the other, and also Martin Buber on the mystery of the "Du". Will give some philosophical context instead of a merely psychological framework and will also provide some ontological understanding of the empty darkness in your own eyes.

[@samvaknin]

You may wish to search this channel and join my Nothingess channel. I refer to both Buber and Levinas (among many others) in my work.

[@maytruthprevail4668]

Professor, I am deeply grateful for all your outstanding work in teaching about these disorders. My family of origin are peppered with narcissists and I married a narcissist, with a terrible narcissist mother. Throughout I felt what you described in this video. Right now my oldest sibling who is staving off many issues of ill health, and is a dark triad or tetrad personality, wants to do me in by projection, gaslighting, and manipulating the other flying monkey siblings, as well as other relatives against me. I am so glad I went through your numerous videos or I wouldn't have a clue as to what was going on. This one is powerful and says it all. Thank you for being there and delineating in fine detail these severe outcomes. Stay blessed Professor. Namaste

[@lonelyplanet2021]

This is so true

[@larryparks1520]

Wow!

[@B.LES.S1]

Mad head vampire's invades privacy cause no other ave of manipulation to neglect works. Peace to the flying monkeys and minons who have taken up the low vibration agenda and in my case cheers to girl power 🥂

[@user-fl8be4px8x]

Yes I have just gone through this whole scenario it’s been 2 1/2 months since he discarded me and it was the most brutal thing I’ve ever gone through his words to me were sick and he was just a friend that I thought it was a friend turns out he was nothing but a monster And now my health has gone down I can’t sleep at night every night I’m nervous I’m depressed I’m hurt but anyone can talk to me like that and I can’t get him off my mind I ran into Satan

[@dir1475]

It's a strange notion that a victim who ends up becoming a perpetrator of emotion abuse becomes a villain. I've never met an individual that was harmless and did not cause harm to someone in some way. Where is the line between a individual that is not equip with the tools to properly care for others and those who do not care for others?

[@idrinktapwater6174]

Cool!

[@godblessyall537]

I'm more and more terrified of myself by every episode.

[@usagiroxie]

It makes sense. The narcissist I was seeing for a short time told me he liked the saying "memento mori" meaning remember death in Latin. Very telling, but also ironic. What is the use of remembering death for one that is already dead inside?

[@namehimhuman5500]

amazing

[@deborahrivers3186]

I believe my daughter may be one.

[@kayw3201]

Helpful insights. You seem to have a lot of content on this topic. Do you have some suggestions towards healing or solving such a person?

[@samvaknin]

Yes. Search the channel.

[@robinellison]

Omg... yes.

[@danielskyles6184]

Truth

[@timlewis7218]

Pretty good.

[@TheHonestTruth]

Wow!...

[@heikeschwarz9028]

Uhhh, Mister Professor Vaknin, I aoricate you very much and I get very scarry now.

[@heikeschwarz9028]

What I do Professor Vaknin, I believe in the words of Mark Antonius Aurelius: The best Revanche of enemys is not doing or behavier like them? Can I survive in your eys? A big hello from Berlin. Unfortunally my english language is not so great like you (german)

[@kimb6508]

Wait a sec. I am starting to think maybe I am the Narcissist. The thing is I have built a wall because of my childhood trauma inadvertently, but then started only being able to befriend what I now realize were narcissists, as it was like I was a narc magnet. I believe I was also subtly groomed by my parents. If I constantly push people away because of how I cannot trust anyone anymore, does that mean I am narcissistic? Is there any treatment or cure for it? Because I have heard it can't be cured or treated.

[@lucy2875]

Are you saying that it's possible to unconsciously identity with the narcissist's wish to destroy you to the point where you become self destructive or even get sick? I'm asking the streamer directly because this feels important.

[@samvaknin]

Yes.

[@KatKos855]

Ex was obsessed with my feet which symbolizes a preoccupation with death

[@theaquariancontrarian3316]

Women can also be narcissists. Youre describing two of my exes.

[@bettinawilson9660]

Sorry I hace to ask again ..also the covert Narcissist

[@samvaknin]

Yes.