WARNING! This Video Will Make You Cry-Chinese Grandma Meets American In-Laws中国奶奶第一次见美国亲家，感谢你们把他当亲儿子！

[@xiaofanglv2026]

当看到你的奶奶在对着你丈母娘说：你就是你丈母娘儿子的时候、把我感动的也流泪了！你们的大家庭都是善良的人！

[@chingsheung3660]

同感，非常感動，也淚流滿面😭😭👍👍

[@luciazhang2086]

我也是

[@蚕豆的大地]

其实他们并没有亲儿子这种区别概念。

[@avekyo9920]

大家都哭了 呜呜呜

[@zoegu1050]

很喜欢Jay 的奶奶，非常真实，从她跟Ari 妈妈的讲话中，从她认真擦干净墓碑，摆放祭品时，可以看出她爱孙子，爱儿子。

[@lianqiuhuang6847]

人世間最致命的痛，向堅強而偉大的奶奶致敬！

[@boonhuatee3140]

P

[@jennyhuang7495]

@@lianqiuhuang6847是的，很痛。其实亚Jay的奶奶还是很利落的老人家。看到她瘦小的身影。心里确实难受。她看到孙子能有一对这么好的岳父母。所以说岀心里那种真心的说话。👍❤️

[@travelingal08]

Hello from California. I stumbled across your videos and I’m now hooked. I love watching your adventures. I can’t wait to go to China in the near future.

[@poli6887]

welcome to china❤

[@saikokandy]

❤Welcome American friends! !!🤗

[@CunquanDuan]

welcome！

[@ymlim5162]

Wholeheartedly Welcome

[@caf981009]

❤好棒讚❤

[@Winter-yc4sw]

Jay 真是一个好男人对长辈和妻子，真诚，朴实非常真。喜欢他的人品，从来不宣宾夺主。

[@julieli4193]

奶奶虽然当时一句话也没说，就在那里认真的默默的擦，认真的摆水果，直接看哭了

[@markle9216]

😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@jeney7928]

奶奶在对着儿子的墓碑讲话，一边擦拭着墓碑。

[@MEdim7]

奶奶有说话，我听到的大概是说带了东西来给你吃😢😢

[@nathan1002]

这就是传说中的白发人送黑发人😢😢😢

[@blessedland000]

Ari 哭的时候，我的心都碎了。善良的女人啊，你是有福的！ God bless you and your family!❤❤❤

[@Grass-j3w]

*奶奶白髮送黑髮，一定很難過。我爸爸也是比奶奶早20年離世，感同深受。*

[@Maggie-dx5kr]

白髮送黑髮是世上最痛！

[@siumeiwan2655]

真可惜！

[@Danny-bt5wg]

I wish more Americans go to China to see the real Chinese society, don't just listen from medias or politicians.

[@jkY-vb7kj]

You're absolutely right

[@Samo1228]

Because most of the Americans don't want to know the true side of China even if they are physically there

[@Kola833]

Less than 1 in 3 Americans hold a passport much less to Asia continent because of language,long haul,911, $ etc

[@brandonso]

The right Americans do, the ones who are kind hearted and open minded. That's more than good enough.

[@lishengrong]

可拉倒吧~~~你自己对美国认知与仇恨，全部都是 from medias or politicians of CCP ！

[@alicec6544]

这个素菜料理也太棒，太有創意了吧！👍👍👍

[@fredzhangchao]

花里胡哨就完事了

[@saikokandy]

@@fredzhangchao ？° ·)

[@monsterhunter7616]

@@fredzhangchao 重点是味道好，色与味的结合

[@原原-j5g]

在哪？

[@kristewong8804]

他們去拜Jay的爸爸的時候，看到我很感動，我忍不住也流淚了。看到Jay的奶奶跟Ari 爸媽說的一番話，太太感動了，眼淚我又忍不住了。我好喜歡你們這個大家庭，太多愛，好善良的好人啊！❤❤❤❤❤

[@张生-q2m]

我也看的很感动

[@cccc716]

Jay的奶奶在墓前喃喃和自己的儿子说话时，向Ari的父母托付自己的孙子时，看得泪流满面。中美两个家庭都很善良。为你们两家人的相遇相知相爱而高兴。祝福你们❤😊

[@lovevideo1965]

奶奶对ari的父母说，“他就是你们的儿子”，哭了😢

[@mayzhang4973]

是的，我也哭了。奶奶见到孙子更是想念自己的儿子。奶奶更是一个知恩感恩的人，感谢Ari一家人对孙子的照顾。多么善良的老人呀。👍👍👍加油

[@markle9216]

太感动🥲……！❤❤❤❤❤❤！我们最心疼的是奶奶，很早失去丈夫（你爷爷）、又失去了心爱的儿子😢，还有比这更悲伤😭的吗？所以更疼爱你孙子！我看到她的伤心，也可以贴会老人的心！奶奶尽管年纪大了还是漂亮的可爱的奶奶（脸上皮肤干干净净的）！希望你们在中国带奶奶👵上上海玩几天、买套休闲服和运动鞋让老人开心（和孙子全家），不要让自己遗憾，因为你也不可能时常回国 吧！这是我们过来人的经验！当然只不过是我们的建议！谢谢你们的精彩的视频给大家带来温馨的感受！❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤！

[@生黄-k4h]

说得很对

[@张明-o9w]

看田纳西视频一直是开心快乐的心情，没想到这一集我也跟着哭了，触景生情

[@kenyee185]

同感+1

[@kenyee185]

但不喜欢这个头像！

[@sukipeng711]

为你的头像点赞👍

[@puichiang6901]

Me too 👍🉐👏

[@allenmoon545]

@@kenyee185 That's ok.

[@brandonso]

Watching your grandma wipe her son's grave, and your mom crying in the background, broke me. Jay you are blessed to have such a beautiful family both in China and in Missouri.

[@richarddouangdara6260]

Hi, Jay and Ari. This Richard is from California. After reading all the great comments. I noticed former President Trump also watch your videos and made great comments regard this emotional epidsode.

[@neveragain1854]

It means a lot when Jay's grandma says he's your son now. Not only did she miss her dead son, but she wished they could love Jay as much as she loved her son. This reminds me of Jesus telling his disciple John that Mary is now John’s mother. 😢

[@sharondwyer8513]

Very touching ❤ Jay's Grandma cleaning her Son's grave hits very hard, I pray for her continued strength ❤

[@markle9216]

请加倍爱奶奶。多抱抱她吧！不让让自己遗憾😢！

[@sharondwyer8513]

My last Grandparent passed in 2015. She is missed dearly ​@markle9216

[@nsebast]

Children are suppose to outlive their parents. To have your children die before you is probably the most heartbreaking event we humans can feel.

[@kingway8]

白发人送黑发人，最痛苦的事情莫过于此。 Jay从小被奶奶带大，看着他现在生活的很好，奶奶肯定很高兴，虽然儿子不在但是家族和希望还在延续。

[@yangxie3131]

一家人在一起的氛围很棒，这家素食餐厅看起来很不错，下次去试试

[@好好-y6h]

欣賞岳父岳母随和平易近人的性情😄👍👍👍

[@kanlockmah6130]

😂👍👍👍❤❤❤

[@Chunmao-y8g]

美国白人普通不过的常态化家庭，非常善良。这时候理解中美两国百姓人民都非常善良。

[@HH-xo1yy]

奶奶太不容易了！❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@mayyeong9404]

Jay is indeed blessed to have beautiful Ari as a wife so respectful to his family members and great open-minded parents-in-laws too. Grandma loves Jay and is well assured his parents-in-law treats him as their own son. God bless all!

[@panfox-uy2zn]

非常感动。流泪了。真正信仰基督的人，会有从神而来的爱和生命尊严感，不卑不亢，真诚平和。对他人真诚的爱，尊重和接纳，会自然流露，会有发自内心的平安和喜乐。真是蒙上帝祝福的幸福家人！❤❤

[@好好-y6h]

你講誰是信耶穌的？😄

[@panfox-uy2zn]

印象中，Ari 和她父母，还有Jay好像都是基督徒吧？@@好好-y6h

[@gorillaofjohn15]

@@好好-y6h Jay， Ari 一家人都是虔诚的基督信徒。

[@jocelynlim4854]

@@好好-y6h Ari 的娘家呀 ! 他們那麼會唱歌應該也是從小唱詩歌練出來得...

[@好好-y6h]

@@gorillaofjohn15 噢，感謝主，怪不得这家人这么好！😀👍

[@Samo1228]

I am 69 years old when I saw Ari cried I cried too...

[@zifeiyu_1003]

非常有爱的一家人，当看到美国家人到陵园那刻，我也忍不住哭了。谁说美国人没有人性？可恶的是美国政客！

[@ganjiang9672]

我也想我的奶奶了，是因为某些原因我无法回国，没有见到奶奶最后一眼，奶奶也多么希望走之前能见到她最爱的孙子一眼，可是我不孝，在奶奶走之前没有见面 ，我毕生的遗憾，所以看到这集我忍不住大哭了一场。真心希望你们能够永远辛福（包括你身边的所有人）❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Taurusp1]

這家餐廳不錯，也很開心岳父岳母能有機會見識中國真正的飲食文化

[@likoon2710]

你們是少數讓人喜歡的中美家庭👪 没有人比你們此时此刻更幸福。㊗️兩家人幸福會得到彼此满滿的愛❤❤❤

[@伍秀月]

Jay爸爸天上有知，必喜見中美兩家都如此歡樂善良❤❤祝福Jay奶奶身體健康🙏🥰

[@learnTableTenis]

Wow, the dishes look more like art works rather then food.

[@HelloWorld-hb7yt]

I am older than Jay, but i also look up to him. He is a good man.

[@LaoToufu]

Jay, great video! it was an honor to meet your Grandma and your master Chef cousin was so cool. Great cooking really runs in your family! Love, dad

[@curryhousechicken]

That was not Chinese food. Looks terrible. Watch Blondie in China if you want good food. I could not bare to watch this episode. One of the worst videos. I came here to watch Xiao Tofu and all I got was old grannies.

[@linus631]

My eye tear up too! RIP Jay's Dad! Very good of Jay to bring his family to pay respect to his Dad's grave. I'm sure Jay's Dad would feel proud of him became a father too. ❤

[@cutekaola8669]

This episode is full of love, joy, and emotions. I almost cried when I saw Jay's mother-in-law meeting his grandma, and the two ladies exchanged words that came from the bottom of their hearts. I also enjoyed watching your family enjoy a wonderful, vegetarian meal together. I couldn't believe my eyes that vegan foods could be so exquisite and tasty. God really blesses Jay with having a harmonious family and in-laws with big hearts. Can't wait to see the rest of your trips, especially your upcoming wedding in China.

[@shaominglu8097]

非常喜欢这么有爱的一家人

[@huihuangloh5030]

哇 终于跟奶奶团聚 刚好在清明节可以祭拜先父亲人 有个美好回忆 好感动

[@lilygao7768]

奶奶好感人，失去丈夫和儿子，还能够把孙子推到Ari妈妈面前说：他就是你的儿子了。让人不忍流泪。

[@williammed9552]

爱你们全家人!Love you whole big family!!!

[@winnie1887]

这一集太感人了！我有5年没有回南京了，等下次回去一定要去这家素菜馆知素.拾茶

[@tonyho3992]

媽呀 這集我真的好感動 我爸也是在我18歲時離開我 很有感觸

[@binwang1746]

Foreigners may not understand the complicated feelings in grandma's sentence "He is your son", the missing of her Dead son, please take care of her grandson, and the reluctan ther grandson😭😭😭

[@bobzhang-w8h]

爱是不分国界和种族的，深深祝福你们一家

[@fredzhangchao]

天下一家

[@cherilouie4608]

I cried with you. I have Chinese in-laws as you do Arie. I know how loving and caring they are. My husband and I have been married almost 55 yrs (in Sept). We have 4 children and 4 grandchildren and in the fall, great grand parents. I love my husband’s family deeply. Best food I ever ate was at my father and mother in-laws house. .

[@saikokandy]

❤

[@gaoyan7856]

Great pleasure to see you all Most beautiful family in the world! 💐👍🤗🙏❤️

[@xingli9314]

I don’t know why I cried when I saw Ari crying…😢

[@leoshaw4868]

全家都是捧场王，没有贬低的意思，体现了善良

[@bluebluesky12321]

真的,捧场真是家庭生活中美好的品质

[@jamesfan1207]

如果一个人能让身边的人感觉他们自己都是better person，那他肯定是智商情商和素质都很高的人。我所在的美国小镇就有这样一位台湾阿姨。

[@roychan8389]

Amazing family gathering, amazing meal, great video. All fantastic !

[@lynn4682]

看见你们去看看Jay的爸爸，眼泪止不住留下来，我也想念我的爸爸了，也有差不多五年没有回国了，没能给他擦一擦墓碑了……

[@Maggie-dx5kr]

好好珍惜眼前緣

[@cliffordmichaelng]

Grandma- He is your son now!!! This made me cry😢

[@sugarlien]

身為素食者看到這麼美好精緻的食物真的是開心。😊本來吃素就沒有所謂的"不喜歡", 基本上我們就是不吃肉嘛。

[@sebastianngabang5423]

YES truly l drop into tears when l saw that finally American met with their Chinese family members so blessed family and lovely ❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂🙏🙏🙏🙌👍👍👍🤞

[@hangzhang6390]

欢乐的一家， 那小豆腐似乎天生就是乐天派，父母基因强大， 太招人爱了！ 准备老二吧！

[@Sunkist新奇]

U got emotional coz you are angel. Pure soul . Love from Birmingham UK . Wish you and your families enjoy your time in China. Since pandemic, I haven't got chance to be back, just got emotional through your videos

[@josephpang7948]

小豆腐真的是一個超級好帶的BB. 無論誰抱他, 怎樣抱他或把他放在那里他都不哭不鬧. 😘😘😘

[@puiunwu5724]

好温馨好感人的一集，上半部分Ari及Jay去拜祭，真情流露哭了，Ari是一個重感情識得尊重長輩的女兒，這是她深爱著Jay，愛屋及烏，值得很多人學習，下半部食素食，吃每一道菜都讚不絕口，真實的感受表現出來，雖然我未親嘗過，相信Ari不是裝的，因為在美國那有機會吃到素食？那有機會嘗到這味道？所以我斷定這是真實的，現在每天都期待更新，真是太喜歡Jay and Ari及老丈人丈母娘，祝您們繼續享受中國之旅。

[@蜗牛-o6y]

可以去B站等更新，那边快一点

[@meiye8767]

曾在紐約一家高級老美素食店排隊一個多小時，吃的是生菜🥬而已，又貴又難吃😢

[@JK12345-z]

在弗吉尼亚曾经有一家台湾人开的素食餐厅，菜式比较家常，超好吃！然后倒闭了。。。

[@saikokandy]

@@JK12345-z ·，他们蔗个 算柿 分子料理 le` ,·

[@SiukukHo]

我不知道為什麼？看到你奶奶哭,我也情不自禁流淚,真能體會白頭人送黑頭人的痛,我女兒也不在了,所以感同身受,看到外孫女我也淚流滿面. Jay請多一點愛你奶奶吧❤

[@wangyuning285]

节哀

[@SiukukHo]

​@@wangyuning285❤

[@Jill_Spring]

节哀顺变，希望您身体健康生活愉快❤

[@yibodai8326]

逝者安息，生者坚强，祝你平安

[@yaudtube]

Jay's Dad is happy in heaven to look down seeing all your guys coming -

[@chrisyuan6195]

奶奶半跪着仔仔细细擦墓碑的时候 我忍不住哭了 仿佛就在给她的儿子擦脸一样。

[@chrisyuan6195]

真的忍不住

[@pinglunanthonylo4751]

這素食精美絕倫❤

[@lesliechin266]

This was such a touching and heart warming video. Jay’s cousin is so impressive by cooking all the beautiful and delicious vegetarian dishes☺️

[@user-shirleyhsiao]

是堂弟吧～

[@lesliechin266]

It is still his cousin

[@kindface]

I don't know if I'll ever get to sample this vegetarian meal in my life. So envious of you guys. Good for you! So happy for y'all !

[@TAL142]

Chinese culture is about making things better for next generation. I would consider Jay's dad the first generation of the modern China. I always thought it would take at least two more generations. That would be little Tofu. But the fact is if Jay's dad is still alive today, he would be able to see the fruit of his generation hard work is pretty amazing.

[@heydaniel3979]

這素食餐廳,絕對是米芝蓮等級😍

[@jimmyren6381]

I couldn’t believe I watched it with tears. Jay，your father must be someone who found great favor in God’s eyes that you are blessed with an incredibly beautiful and kind wife. Your videos are always enjoyable and filled with love and care in life. 所以，我每天都在期待看新的episode. 谢谢分享❤

[@Jason-wz9mi]

很有愛的一家人，非常讚

[@lfah610]

这一集触景伤情也看😭了！ 观看那些高颜值的素食我都垂涎欲滴了😋 堂哥好棒好棒啊！ 👏👏👏👍👍👍

[@AnnTao]

Great food, great people, watching your videos make me feel fulfilled.

[@pnww9]

堂哥素菜料理很有创意！ 这一家有福尝到这么美味素食。❤

[@YonexGong11]

封神的一期！！！！！Full of LOVE! LOVE EVERYWHERE! respect!

[@saikokandy]

是的·，！！！！` ·！i i !` ·，！！

[@hzhang5305]

Im a subscriber from Canada who was born in Nanjing so super excited to see you guys visit there!! ❤ The scene's with Jay's grandma definitely made me cry. She's so sweet and I wish I could hug her myself haha

[@siumeiwan2655]

Jay 帶老少一家回祖國趁清明盡孝子賢孫之道拜祭先人值得恭敬的。看到Jay爸爸遺照難怪 Ari 這麼傷感！如果爸爸還在見到兒子學有所成、漂亮兒媳還有可愛小孫那多好, 真令人百感交集！

[@leonongkarkhin89]

I cried from the beginning until half of the video, i cant. Hello from Malaysia. Wishing everything is great to Ari and Jay family. Looking forward to the next video.

[@leehinthian7091]

We Chinese Disporas worldwide will always go to Qing Ming ( Tomb Sweeping Day ) to pray our departed parent's & those relatives as a way of showing our day's of REMEMBRANCE . Its the most very special days after Chinese New Year . Its fillial piety to most among the Chinese Culture to the living souls .

[@ivyjiang5650]

Precious family time. 我爸爸也比奶奶早走，白髮人送黑頭人真的很難過。清明掃墓後吃素is very appropriate. The veg food Jay’s cousin made look so exquisite and good. As a vegetarian of 11 years, I am so jealous lol

[@gegao3198]

奶奶朴实善良，让人动容！ 不仅是这一次扫墓， 之前见到Ari的时候也是，一个非常有爱心的奶奶，用自己的朴实的言行表达了最质朴的爱和温暖！

[@四台張]

愛心遠無弗界！看到中美倆家人的互動，真教人熱淚。尤其在世局動盪、中美兩國劍拔弩張之際！如果美國政客都能像愛瑞家人ㄧ般善良、赤誠，怎會有今天的局面？但願中美的僵局，能得力於民間良好互動而有所改善吧！

[@895kiss]

堂哥也太厲害，能把素食料理如此呈現，而且把素材帶有做分子料理的手法呈現，在台灣還沒見過這樣的素菜，改天去南京一定要試試看❤

[@坡县沪漂]

It's so great that your family could try so many Chinese dishes. Enjoy!

[@jij8802]

歡迎您隨時來中國旅遊，品嚐美食。

[@AlbertinaChan]

Ari 和她的父母很善良♥️👍

[@jingbinwang]

Very touching episode! Best love to your whole family! Thanks!

[@sampraswu]

the world would be a better place if all people are as kind as this family

[@haiyanwang]

这集是视频真的让我泪流！

[@jennifertang270]

看到奶奶哭，我也哭了。。。 Jay 是个有福的孩子，两边的家人都非常非常好，都真诚善良，不是一家人不进一家人啊！！！祝福你们全家幸福安康！！！

[@Kö-ö-öl]

Ari is a very kind and 孝顺 girl。 中华美德在她身上能体现出来。 这家素食馆下次要去尝尝！

[@JohnJeng-pi8pu]

建議老丈人拄一根拐杖，上下樓梯或上下山的時候特別有用，可以分散膝蓋的壓力。老丈人身材高大，本身膝蓋壓力就不小，尤其有必要保護膝蓋

[@cmkk3825]

This is the first video that make me cry and then make me laugh😢😂excellent, l would watch several times. Look at the dishs, l know that must be a high grade restaurant. ❤❤❤

[@冯清贤]

好感动，看哭了我，好好珍惜所有，祝你们永远健康幸福。

[@wenhuiaimi9241]

看到Jay的奶奶心里很难受，擦着儿子的墓碑，心里要成受很大的情绪和压力，而且也看到奶奶十分的爱他的孙子，奶奶也可以放心，你的孙子找到一位可爱很好的太太，太太所有的家人也是很懂礼仪的，都是一家很实在的美国人，祝福你们两家庭人都快乐，幸福美满，祝福小豆腐快乐成长❤❤❤

[@晨光航宇]

你們在清明節 吃了一餐上等完美素食 真的太好 素食代表有一顆愛心善心 不殺生意思 因所有動物都是有生命 所以不能把牠們拿來吃 牠們也是像我們人類一樣 多吃一點素食 留給我們祖先門 留給自己也是留給下一代 積善積德 這樣我們才能得到🈶️很大福報 多吃素食也是對我們身體健康有相當好益處 能🉐️到長命百歲 祝福你們大家平安身體健康生活美滿幸福快樂

[@weimu4280]

被感动到了，祝福你们！

[@derek-ct4xj]

讓Air一家體驗中華文化"慎重追遠"的精華,很棒!

[@housing77777]

在Jay爸爸的坟前哭泣谢谢爸爸养育了好儿子，Ari真是不可多得的好媳妇！ 奶奶留着泪拜托丈母娘也好感人😹😹😹！这两个家的人都是善良可爱的人❤❤❤

[@pierre67my]

看到淚流滿面的一集

[@xuemingzeng2094]

南京素食很出名，30年前在南京就知道绿柳居

[@feliciapeh4293]

虽然素菜好吃，但这集看了好伤感😢😢please take good care yourself, Jay ❤ fan from Singapore 🇸🇬

[@dora_mel21]

充滿愛的一家人，每次看你們的視頻都感到溫暖，謝謝你們🫶🏼Jay n Ari 及你們的家人❤時刻傳遞愛的信息，願大家珍惜當下，擁抱身邊的人，呢集看哭了🥹

[@somaliu2387]

人到中年，泪点变得很低，为你们的开心而开心，为你们的伤感而流泪

[@fuqilifestyle]

祝福你们一家人！非常棒！