watch this before your date

Whether you’re new to the dating scene or looking to improve your dating game, this comprehensive guide is packed with tips, tricks, and insightful advice to ensure your next date is not just good, but great. From the texting phase where you’ll be making a memorable impression, to actually experiencing the date, we’ve got you covered!
Written by: Kelly Jones
Voiced by: Zach Mayo
Video Edited by: Amy Rapeer
Thumbnail by: Ren Hurley
Sign Up For My Newsletter (Get A Free Mini-Course): improvementpill.net/programs
👉 My NEW Storytelling Course (Watch It For Free Via Free Trial):
www.skillshare.com/r/user/imp...
Tamed Course (FREE Habit Building Course): • How To Quit ANY ADDICT...
BeeFriend Course (FREE Social Skills Course): • Introduction - BeeFrie...
Otter Half Course (FREE Dating Advice For Men/Women Course): • What Women Want In A Man
For Business/Animation Job Inquiries: Email Me At
[e-mail]
Intro: (00:00)
The Primacy Effect: (00:07)
Tip #1: (00:47)
Tip #2: (01:45)
Tip #3: (02:24)
Tip #4: (04:36)
Tip #5: (05:39)
Outro: (06:44)

[@sha4611]

Got no interest to impress...have to start love myself first...

[@parthmenon2917]

True that ❤

[@murilomarinho474]

Gonna go in a date tomorrow, upload just in time😂

[@misterleguan4272]

this video just came in the right time

[@masontope]

Here's a tip. Break the touch barrier right away with a hug, that will help you both be more comfortable with each other. Environment is one of the three keys to attraction, the others are verbal and non verbal. Eye contact is huge. Don't put too much pressure on yourself and don't feel like you have to prove yourself. They want to go on the date just like you do and they want to know about you not about how much you make or what you can lift. Relax and have no expectations and that'll come off as confident.

[@benjaminfrank9294]

Hugging or not really depends on the girl. If she's not into physical seduction or if she's shy, don't hug her. Usually hugs work well with mediterrannean girls but not with Germanic or Asians.

[@user-su8tp6by7k]

hugging too soon seems like a red flag

[@masontope]

@@benjaminfrank9294 My experience is from North America. So I'm sure you are right about other cultures not wanting physical touch right away.

[@viktor2338]

@@user-su8tp6by7k You are a red flag

[@DrSmitPatel]

Going to date on valentine's day😂. Perfect time❤😂

[@ayrtonlorenzety64764]

Your voice has changed

[@TheBlackJewelz]

Now we need advice on how to be ourselves. What the flip are we becoming

[@forisma]

No. I'd say, don't take this advice seriously 🙈

[@saab6032]

I dont agree sometimes it is otherwise

[@Moaaz_king.0_0]

Well done bro great video ❤

[@5-minuteBreakthroughs]

Great video! Quick technical question for you or anyone who might know. I also create 2D animation content in the self-improvement niche and I'm thinking about adding some movie clips into the mix. Does anyone know if I need to get permission for that? Any advice would be really appreciated. Thanks a lot!

[@Awaisnad]

You should be fine depending on how long ur using it for >3 secs u should be ok but it’s best to just mention the name of the movie in the corner you should be fine

[@5-minuteBreakthroughs]

@@Awaisnad Thanks!

[@TacoBel]

When I first saw the 'Ch_ _ _' I am very happy to say I immediately filled it in with 'Cheese" You can call me intelligent if you like.

[@gregoryfriston7091]

Didn't you mean "Cheez"? 😁

[@rambleroodle2369]

but i dont know what to talk or how to talk in a date

[@Afiaaa20]

You can literally talk about something you like and about yourself......then let your date express themselves toooo🎉

[@Powermoves1080]

Dating advice from a KZbin video 😂 - some folks are too easily influenced n don’t think for themselves. I’m happy dancing to the beat of my own drum.

[@wzg8804]

This is the way of a man. A real man. The non-conformist.

[@Powermoves1080]

@@wzg8804 Lol

[@LuxCustodis]

Sadly the advice presented here is not tangible for like 80% of men living in a desert of loneliness thanks to the way our culture has changed. Women has changed their priorities and none of those involves relationships, marriage, commitment, or building a family.

[@boykaunlimitted4514]

Although you’re not entirely wrong, this defeatism mindset will result in the same disappointing end. Not all women are horrible and bad. I had to shake all this dark stuff off for a while but I think I’m there. You can have great relationships with women. There are still women out there that want the same as you. The challenging part for you (as a man) is that you have to keep putting yourself out there with the risk of getting hurt until you strike gold. It’s MUCH harder than it used to be but it’s adapt or go extinct. Do what is difficult now to live an easy live later or do what’s easy (give up on women) and have a hard life later (die alone). Before you say, “there’s more to life than women”, sure that’s true. But they are a beautiful part of life and they will give you something to live for (kids). Go get ‘em! 😄

[@auraliax1323]

Well you haven't met the right women then, as a woman myself i hate the fact that men are calling it a "loneliness epidemic" when most of you don't even try to build an emotional connection with anyone not your bros or even the woman you wanna be with, a lot of guys these days also don't wanna commit and just want a hookup and their first words to a woman is a comment about her body or shaming her for having standards, if you stop blaming others and just focus on yourself you'd attract the right ones.

[@MemetastorTheGreat]

@@auraliax1323you’ve given me hope mam thank you

[@wzg8804]

@auraliax1323 so many things here you stated are untrue tbh. Just because a man tries to be more emotional with a woman doesn't mean he'll have success with a woman. Matter of fact, we live in a society that has demonized men for doing this by conflating it with "trauma dumping." The truth is some women are unable to empathize with men and the hardships they endure. Also the friendships that men have amongst each other is supposed to be different than what he has with women unless he's gay or bi.

[@auraliax1323]

@@wzg8804 I understand what you mean, but again it's about choosing the right type of a woman and learning emotional maturity, because if you go up to her actually trauma dumping and expecting her help as (being emotionally available) this would make her feel like a mother not a partner, i hope more men take accountability for their actions including their trauma, try healing it on your own or with a specialist, and share your experience with her without making it seem like she's responsible for healing that pain, she should be your best friend and your romantic interest,and we shouldn't go up to our friends with such vulnerability so fast because that would effect them too, in my opinion i love it when men express their feelings and cry, but if it passes a certain level where i feel burdened by it, that's when it's dumping and that's when he seems weak and waiting for a woman to build him up rather than just her support in his journey.

[@Muhammad18385]

👍

[@wzg8804]

Dating advice in 2024 for men: - Impress her even if she doesnt try to impress you. - Seek her validation and work on your self-esteem even though high self-esteem is linked to not seeking the validation of others - Shower her with compliments even though shes looking at you with a side eye - Take her to a five star steakhouse at 9 pm just for her to leave you on read the next day!

[@asmrficus]

It’s useless

[@adamlindsay9726]

This has got to be satire right 😂

[@wzg8804]

@@adamlindsay9726 you know there's a pint of truth in any satire😉