Watch toxic feminism in Kenya getting demolished in minutes - The Wicked Edition episode 178

Maverick Aoko, a writer and Annita Raey, a media personality face off in a conversation seeking to define feminism.

[@muhoromwangii]

"Ukitumiwa fare, show up!" Quote by Aoko year 2020

[@cantononyino1610]

woooow! Finally there's a great Lady like Maverick Aoko who is out here to tell the truth.

[@victoraosa3159]

A special place for Aoko in heaven and Men's Conference

[@El_Finesse]

Hehehehehe you funny

[@JayDwayneShow]

😂😂😂😂🙌

[@chrisndumi]

Walai tena

[@abukyaangmajok5261]

I wish people get enlightened and not caught up. Before opening your mouth to say much, it's rewarding to know the differences in regards to: Feminism Women empowerment Equality Equity Male chauvinism Gender differences in Narcissism and Toxic feminism.

[@majixwahenga9874]

All this nonsense is just all about power and resources.

[@francismwangi2830]

Aoko, I have always liked your arguments and points, especially when it comes to deconstructing feminism. Many people think feminism is supporting women, but you have put it clearly that is "social, political, and economical equity, not equality for all sexes. Thumbs up.

[@ridgetoppropertieskenyaltd6929]

I'm very curious what you mean by equity (as differentiated from equality). Please elaborate?

[@jacklinemwaniki8405]

I love Aoko's school of thought..beauty and brains combined..Its ironical how we ask for equal rights but cry out to be favoured as the weaker sex..Martha karua, Stella nyanzi,manduli,Aoko are what our society need.

[@elvisbarasa403]

Aoko is very logical. She is an alpha female because she understands how men think. Hawa slay queen wengine huwa emotional na Ni washenzi tu

[@mstevens832]

Huyu dame Mavelic ako tu sawa intelligent level na wise lady 👍👍👍👍

[@michaelnjema2214]

The show was not fair, Anita Ray cannot match up Merverin Aoko intellectual capability. Period.

[@NdichuKibe254]

The way Anita is laughing, that is how you know you've floored your opponent. Aoko is a great and a realistic thinker.

[@tracyguantai566]

Aoko is great and all but kubash fellow ladies ndio utetee male rights ni same old problem we've been seeing with so called feminists in Kenya Anita is right,don't bring the opposite gender down in the name of empowerment

[@kilenamapenai6127]

You have said it well 🙌

[@tabbytasha932]

U said it all tracy

[@mlkjnr2016]

Anathema 🤣🤣🤣 I surrender. I thought it was a heavy tongue for Anasema

[@chapatimix8557]

Aoko is one of the most sensible women I've ever heard 👌🏾👍🏿🔥

[@murimikaburu1376]

Aoko must be be having a cool life free of stress dogging the contemporary young women. Aoko is the 'freest' woman I have heard speak. She knows what being a woman is all about.

[@bobkariuki3762]

Yeah she is, but of cause most women out there for example anita, rather be ignorant than logical

[@desmanatome2865]

Aoko started off well, then just went off the rails debating not for the sake for defending her definition of feminism but for the sake of winning to a point where I got myself asking if she holistically understands societal and cultural challenges that women in Kenya face today, as we try to work on towards achieving gender balance. Aoko reminds me of a classic “the oppressed becoming oppressor” narrative towards the end. Not that I completely agree with everything Rae stated, but she seems to have a wider capture of the challenges women face in Kenya, and why they are so. All in all, a conversation is a good starting place. Keep on.

[@Gracemainafoxyspice]

Point on point on point.

[@dianaromana98]

Aoko your lines looks neat and smart.napenda sana

[@carolm5463]

You can still be married but lonely in the marriage. Let's not bash people who choose not to get married.

[@gladyswanjiku5180]

Some hot truth...we all have our lives to live

[@benardaremo7270]

@@gladyswanjiku5180 talks of slay queen 😅

[@cliffordochola7121]

That's why you should discourage men feminism. If you get a feminine man, he will behave like a a lady all through unlike a Red Pilled man who will always think about HIS FRAME.

[@elizabethkierere5806]

@@cliffordochola7121 who asked?

[@bobkariuki3762]

@@elizabethkierere5806 although its a valid point

[@kenyancitizen9952]

I agree & disagree with both of them, but Annita is more disagreeable. Annita is a toxic female because anaona wanaume ni kama hawana feelings. Aoko on the other hand amenipoteza kwa topic ya marriage. Not everybody has to get married just because it's what people do. Jijue kwanza before kuji commit

[@blessedbee2333]

I was anxious the whole time,nilikuwa nikiona kakitamba!!! I`m a lady but I totally support Maverick.Girls should work hard for what they want!

[@bdiilisha5268]

I like the way Aoko has defined the word feminism. If just everyone knew this definition hii vita ya genders haingekuwa toxic venye iko

[@edtn8413]

Kukula fare is obtaining money and goods and services under false pretense.

[@edtn8413]

Aoko I beg to disagree with you that Anita's decision not to get married Will make her unhappy. Anita true. Marriage is not for everyone

[@bednarekbaloyes]

Her decision not to get married will make her unhappy later in life when all of her children are having their own lives somewhere else and all her friends are busy with their lives too

[@4dakulture651]

Wacha afike 40....no kids no family ndo ataregret vizuri...loneliness

[@nc9802]

@@4dakulture651 🤣🤣🤣🤣 there's so many people married who are regretting! Others with kids are regretting

[@leendagathoni5490]

I agree with Anita. Defending a woman doesn't mean you bash a man. And defending a man doesn't mean bashing a woman

[@greatstoic2297]

She then proceeded to bash men for being stupid to send fare adding that they deserve to be swindled

[@kelvinbokez6949]

Weeuh definition ya feminism, Aoko anaitoa exactly na new revised dictionary. 💯👌

[@anidebezibeautyandlifestyle]

Aoko lost it when she said she will be gladly be a second wife,😅 I Stand with Anita 100% She Makes alot of sense.

[@funnyvines5965]

I lost it when she said tht

[@carolinemusyoki8402]

Aoko ni mjinga sana she is demeaning herself... She should try marrying 2 husbands to see if the world will be okay with it

[@tomemakwae9951]

Next time you bring Aoko to the show please pair her with someone in her intellectual level not a socialite bimbo.

[@wambuimbugua1443]

My sentiments exactly!

[@Esty1248]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@hillarybiomndo6007]

You nailed it brother

[@kenn.nzwili.6597]

Aoko, I truly appreciate how you are reasoning because you are making sense 👏👏.

[@ibrahimmeso2215]

Anthema

[@kuriahithaara4973]

Maverick Aoko has a special reservation at the Annual Men's Conference 2021

[@mjofficial8964]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 ety Mammito amepigwa shock akakaa kama Butita 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 is that a joke or a fact

[@Tigressnjoki.]

The 'you women' has made me believe that women we have a problem.

[@akumuallan9777]

Good topic and both are mature in threre own way...love the way they reason and argue there minds 👍👍👍👍

[@MissG]

Maverick Aoko is smart but annoyingly rigid. Especially on the issue with marriage, telling Anita that it is sad that she does not think she is for marriage. Both paths are different with both their advantages and disadvantages. Do not glorify one over the other.

[@mweusimrembo890]

How's she smart? Shes the opposite

[@MissG]

@@mweusimrembo890 in other aspects like career but not on this topic

[@manaita78]

Aoko would be a very submissive wife by the way.. 😄 Who doesn't love a submissive woman? I just love the respect she has for the male species.

[@leahwaweru6974]

Yaani unasema mammito amepigwa shock akakaa bwana yake😂😂😂

[@athanasmutisya3208]

You can't take Aoko head on if your intellectual capacity is in doubt, she will wash you down with solid arguments, reason and counter arguements. Aoko is a brain box, I love her way of looking at things. Anita Ray is standing on a very shaky ground..quick sand😅

[@nyoposs2548]

Soo true....

[@wanguikinyua7947]

For Anita to say she doesn't want to get married again she has her reasons, to which she is entitled why does Aoko need to attack that?

[@keithangana2183]

Hapo hata MI nimeshangaa. It's her personal decision

[@andrewmaina7750]

Huyu Aoko apelekwe men conference, she is the ambassador of patriarchy

[@eliasonuko]

🤣 🤣 🤣 Pigwa shock na kukaa kama Butita,, hii nayo Dr. Kingori umekuwa personal 😅😅😅😅

[@sebitgordon211]

Kumbe uko rada?😂😂😂😂😂

[@denismbogo3698]

Makofi kwa shujaa Aoko 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@vainesschombo9182]

People including Aoko doesn't understand that women dont need to be equal to men. We are okay as we are. Anita is on point.

[@titussimiyu339]

But she said we are not equal

[@Glowwww334]

Lol speak for yourself

[@mikailm6934]

@@Glowwww334 you Think thats too, you just don't know. Believe me you couldnt handle being a man(less emotional supports, more accountable, less attention, take more risks... )

[@danielodhiambo1147]

Nimetembea sijamuona msichana kama Aokooo...Aokooo

[@jakobo2824]

Anita is just straight up ignorant she's deluded by her backward thoughts that hinders her from being open minded and seeing a greater picture. Aoko on the other hand thinks through everything she's being told and is very open to change

[@donomondi4471]

Wisdom detected!

[@nyarango85]

I beg to differ. Aoko is a realist. Aoko see things from a multifaceted perspective. She knows what is it to be a man for her to position herself as a lady. This ensure mutual understanding between a man & a woman when in a relationship. Anita on other hand is myopic & with silo mentality. She is only one sided & any relationship she will be in will result to conflicts. So, who is not open minded & ignorant here?

[@omariderest3212]

Where can I get a woman like aoko she is one of those woman who Wil survive with you in any condition.

[@nc9802]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 alafu umuache ukipata pesa

[@omariderest3212]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Sophiejoseph2018]

Aoko is the face of wisdom 💗. VIVA✊🏼

[@Tigressnjoki.]

Aoko is prove that boychild walijishindwa they even need a woman to defend them hehe.

[@andrewbwire7392]

Dear women take notes from one Ms Aoko. For future living and better living

[@elizabethkierere5806]

Use your common sense.

[@andrewbwire7392]

@@elizabethkierere5806 why do you say so

[@jacintamutuku7411]

Aoko reasons like a million women together

[@mellyrara3465]

The fact that noone ever gets is that man and woman will never be equal no matter what

[@elizabethkierere5806]

I know right. Women are too far ahead, the men have difficulty catching up.

[@Janjaro254]

Aoko's seat is reserved at men's conference

[@machagefeddiusnyamohanga9479]

Am here to watch the eloquent intelligent smart Aoko.

[@sironiktess2308]

😂😂😂😂😂ati amepigwa shock akakaa butita 😂😂😂💔huna chills aki

[@taqwasacco8656]

pun intended

[@simonkariuki97]

Hii ni kama kuleta dj shiti kwa platform miguna ako😂😂😂😂...haiwezi make

[@maina_wahome]

Look at the way they are dressed. Who looks like a woman with sound head? Aoko, be blessed. May you get both boys and girls. Blessings

[@kennykenaz8340]

#Aoko is a legit beautiful and meticulous African woman who knows and cherish her values. 💞💙

[@mrsoso5500]

I'm south african, Zulu. How did I end up here trying to understand the language 😂

[@chilla-z]

I am Sudanese.. but for some reason I get it..all of it.. go figure 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@ticolatico7191]

@@chilla-z 🤣🤣🤣

[@alexandermakau5063]

It's mostly English

[@naomibensonne833]

One question for you all why is it always a big deal for men ati ' wanakula fare ' mbona hamnanga iyo mdomo "mkiruka Mimba" 😂😂😂👏👏👏 hallooo irriz-war-irriz fare fare fare as if that fare is enough to buy my coffin and cater for the funeral expenses just in case I come and die at your house takataka lubbish .....ebu trolls mharakishe kurusha izo mawe nikona mjenga nataka kusmamisha mawe zi come through 😹😹 lol nyongwa na mate ukufe basi 🙄😂😂😂😂

[@mstevens832]

Wacha wakule fare but pesa ni kutafutwa grown up kusema ati mtu akuwe na pesa dio ati a marry the daughter na ata hakai kuolewa 😁😁🚘😁+44

[@vintage4198]

I hope si wewe umejiweka dp ndio unaongea hivyo...unakaa maembe

[@PiedroMorgan254]

@@vintage4198 😂😂😂😂😂😂 you got no chills

[@sebastianmuema9126]

Aoko should now deputise Mzee Kibor in defending boychild rights

[@michaelkimani3692]

The logic in Aokos lines are legit

[@drdaonstyne3166]

Aoko will address us in our next mens conference

[@karanjajosephinewangari5462]

What Aoko said on creation of roles within governance, she is very right. This behavior alludes tokenism, hence women never rise above the numbers provided. They never rise above the barrier.. Aoko you have spoken well yet again.

[@elizabethkierere5806]

Use your common sense. You sound very ignorant. The point is to eliminate those roles hence eliminate the alleged barrier.

[@melvinlunalojnr6219]

The problem of arguing n debating with someone who doesnt have content n clue on what shes talking about.Anita Raey apa hajui asimame wapi

[@cephaskoech379]

Wlliam Ruto should consider Aoko as running mate 2022

[@thetraileraviatorguy]

Anita is that type of a woman misleading our young sisters out there

[@kennykenaz8340]

Absolutely! She's just a bitter toxic feminist, who thinks dignity is bought by money.

[@thetraileraviatorguy]

@@kennykenaz8340 what a cougar in the making she is

[@kennykenaz8340]

@@thetraileraviatorguy LMAO!!!!

[@michaelsafari7428]

To argue with a person who has renounced the use of reason is like administering medicine to the dead. Thomas Paine

[@kiruakip6380]

Exactly aaoko,,we as men are victims of malicious women.this woman aoko damnnn. she is what she is on social media going by her tweets,,I din't see this coming.she looks what's she is like on photos,she oozes and eloquently brings out her points just like and may be more than she does on twitter.

[@josephineopondo1934]

Both women are actually right in their opinions. And at the end of the day everyone is entitled to his/her own; fundamental values like respect notwithstanding. However,i believe relationships are specific to individuals and what works for one may not necessarily work for another. Moral of the story: Do you.

[@maureenminaj7773]

Women, please, i don't support toxic feminism, but let the men defend themselves.

[@maureenminaj7773]

Stop sending fare please. 😁😁😁.

[@mithamowaithaka2796]

Aoko's intelligence is on another level angemletea ciku busted

[@jokacarson2704]

Maverick Aoko ....you speak with common sense. Bravo.

[@inchenere4875]

I like most of Anita's sentiments, hii kizungu ingine sielewi

[@Gracemainafoxyspice]

Anita talks a lot of sense. I feel like Aoko speaks from a point of alot of ignorance. Alot of English without real life situations. Alafu Dr. Kingori yoh...i laughed so hard.

[@mstevens832]

Ati wasimalike kwa poor people aria urimu mtupu mbeca hutafutwa kwanza nie una ndingemwenda +44

[@mweusimrembo890]

@@mstevens832tiga urimu, Ngai! You as a man should know better to be a provider and protector to your children and women

[@mashudejowaka]

Its called facts Not ignorance

[@waregina7748]

Aoko you have a special place in heavens for your heart and love

[@bintimkitosi6187]

These days the appropriate word is equity. There is a difference feminism and liberalism. Feminism is not toxic it's a celebration of femininity just like masculinity.

[@swahiliwithdavid5910]

Sadly, feminists are not feminine women at all!

[@batejerezadominic6805]

Relationships are so dynamic no idiot has the monopoloy of knowledge over men and women issues, any fool is entitled to his or her opinion, nobody should indoctrinate anybody

[@osalesteve6327]

Alipigwa shock akakaa kama Butita, 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Hiyo ni hate speech.

[@javanokal9259]

Aoko's name must be included in BBI

[@bonfacepascal871]

Maverick Aoko is on top🔥🔥🔥💪

[@JayDwayneShow]

Au sio Bony

[@dukeofmbitikiyai]

The battle of the sexes cannot be won.. there's too much flirting with the enemy

[@mstevens832]

No comment +44

[@ridgetoppropertieskenyaltd6929]

Well said 👏 hahaha

[@malakaimusa1476]

Anita is basically trying to explain hypergamy using the wrong words.

[@sheldonmbakaya]

Next time nitapata bibi yangu anasikiza Anitare kwa radio Jambo namrudisha kwao n I sell the radio

[@natsk5024]

🤔

[@mosesodiwuor1938]

😂😂"Well that's very sad" has killed me. Aoko has deconstructed her fellow.

[@everlynimmaculateopiyo4463]

Feminism.....'the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes.' WHATTUTALKIN ABOUT AOKO???

[@joshuakyalo9645]

This is funny because that is exactly what the dictionary says. So technically, the question is what are YOU talking about?

[@Cvr5ta0ywa]

I understand Aoko's argument and where exactly she's coming from and she herself said that it's hard when people don't understand her point of view, but what she doesn't understand is where Anita is coming from and her perception or views. Aoko's views on marriage is on the basis of African traditional society and the structures and perception that come with it, where as Anita's view is modern secular perception and values together with the structures that come with it. This is why Aoko feels sad about Anita.

[@jowan7566]

Mansplaining much?

[@Cvr5ta0ywa]

@@jowan7566 😩😩 And the cringe continues

[@crossbornouko3208]

May AOKO live to 100 and plus years.If we only have her kind ,the world will be a better place.

[@benardopala2]

Manze Aoko is not your average woman...

[@deserteaze3596]

Maverick Aoko is definitely an intellectual woman period!

[@nancieprincess7363]

I love this lady aoko.... She is great and independent

[@AlexanderKimani]

Aoko is Is Intelligent,Calm and coherent The latter is just a sad state of any affair

[@jameswahome4365]

@Fat Girl Chronicles Ke. watu wakisoma kizungu wewe ulikuwa kwa choo..😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@faithadhiambo5501]

I can never follow or inbox someone who says ati marriage is too much commitment , yeye Kama alijaribu ikamkataa wacha awachilie others wajaribu.

[@elizabethkierere5806]

Who asked?

[@kimtukieusi4982]

Anita Ray...is SHALLOW FEMINIST ARE THE MOST SHALLOW HUMANS ON EARTH

[@elizabethkierere5806]

Feminism is all about equality, so how can there be toxic equality? Is your masculinity that fragile?

[@Blackrose-or7fy]

Feminism is not about equality ... get ur facts right ... feminism is about the females getting what they think they deserve in expense of the rest of the genders ... its toxic, stupid and utter barbarism

[@elizabethkierere5806]

@@Blackrose-or7fy Feminism - The advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. The feminist movement (also known as the women's movement, or simply feminism) refers to a series of political campaigns for reforms on issues such as reproductive rights, domestic violence, maternity leave, equal pay, women's suffrage, sexual harassment, and sexual violence, all of which fall under the label of feminism and the feminist movement.

[@MabawaVocal]

Equality with who...?

[@MabawaVocal]

Itasaidia about being a a woman,the animals are following that,but human beings?if you want to be like men,who will be the head?

[@maryann5666]

There can't be toxic feminism.

[@ElijahMruttu]

Aoko is real. I support her thinking 100%. Getting money for something you are expected to do and not do is stealing.

[@henrysaro3868]

Aoko is very smart, she is the ideal woman the world needs.

[@victorkaringithi50]

Anita was just here to laugh, Aoko is so intelligent.

[@vincentakane9651]

God bless Aoko

[@SIMONBASS01]

Aoko needs to be set in a discussion with people or a person of her intellectuality...otherwise a person like Anita cannot be in position to reason the facts from aoko.

[@esthern4791]

Well done ladies. Great insight from both sides👍🏾👍🏾

[@lardenodede8964]

Please Aoko name should be included in the national anthem and the scriptures as well as BBI

[@evanceleftie2055]

A very clear and a perfect definition of an introvert and an extrovert...

[@KevinWakliFitness]

Tabia za upoko zinafanana na annita kabisaaaa 💯

[@Captain456_0]

Keep up Aoko,you are a wife material indeed,your reasoning is top notch....