WAYBACK WILKOS: HE DESTROYED MINE & MY KIDS LIVES

[@swankoceanman]

This 'man' is absolutely disgusting. I'm scared for her safety. I hope he didn't end up killing her or her children. What a sick individual.

[@laceylux2468]

I’m scared for her too, that man is violent and crazy. I hope he gets locked up or gets help

[@Meanie74]

This is old so if he had we would have probably heard about it

[@bella_saysitall]

😂😂😂😂

[@swankoceanman]

@@Meanie74 I hope so.

[@miranda13c]

@@bella_saysitall What’s so funny?

[@jessicarink7793]

I'm glad she came on this show and stood up for herself finally. You go girl.

[@missvee26batson94]

❤❤❤❤ñ

[@nemo_jade]

An abuser saying that it’s the victims fault they lashed out is stupid.

[@lowlowseesee]

That’s their whole schtick though. Like religion and so on they use shame to control their victims.

[@jest9504]

@@lowlowseesee Unfortunately, It's all too common. They either deny everything, or admit "some" fault, but refuse to be the only "bad guy"...I really hope she got a restraining order against him, because I have a bad feeling he didn't leave her alone after the show...

[@kimberlyadams7595]

I honestly expected the last word to say "typical" but yes, it's also stupid. Stupidly typical! And like the above commenter said, it's their whole MO

[@jackluffy7914]

It is stupid yes but sometimes people do provoke others to do horrible things like sometimes women do temp a man to hit them and when they do they go to jail but when opposite happens nothing happens to the women sometimes you gotta look at both sides because everything happens for a reason

[@jest9504]

@@jackluffy7914 This is true, it can be that bad where one person purposely provokes the other. But then, speaking from experience, I one asked my ex what he wanted for dinner and got a fist to the face with him yelling at me to think for myself. The very next day I made dinner without asking, and was punched because I didn't ask. His response was to tell me I provoke him by not doing what he asked, when he asked...There were a bunch more times like that, which were him telling me I provoked him. So it can definitely be both.

[@shelbymasters]

At first I was thinking "How do you confuse a barely 20 year old man as a 27 year old man?" but after seeing him I understand😳 I'm 19 and he could easily pass as 25-35

[@laceylux2468]

yeah.. that’s crazy

[@nenenicole6088]

I'm 39 and he looks like men my age or older.

[@aliciacb8284747274]

Don't flatter him by saying 25 😂

[@jivonniasmith9770]

physical but once he started talking he sounds all of teenager

[@nicolealex9130]

Yeah true but in her defense I'd believe him too lol I've seen wayyy too many guys who are older than they look or visversa. Also have to just cause I get mistaken at a 15 yo still and I'm 21 lol🤥

[@shadowknightwolf5325]

This is honestly horrible that the children got involved with this and he kept doing what he did, he was just ruining lives and I hope the mother does make better decisions for those children and I hope they're okay kow

[@jesseferal929]

Creepy haters everywhere

[@shadowknightwolf5325]

@@jesseferal929 what?-

[@mamacindyrogofsky495]

Man Archie sure let himself go over the years..

[@andregreen4358]

This dude is purely immature, being violent to the woman he supposedly love. Then you bully her kids & cause her to loose everything. I hope she gets back on her feet & finds a better & more mature man to be with.

[@ImJustShayeB]

I will never understand men/women who don't get when a relationship is over. "You wanna leave when you know I'm tryna make things work?!" I. DONT. WANT. YOU. ITS. OVER. ITS. NOT. GOING. TO. WORK. EVER! "So you don't want me no more, that's what you're tryna say?" 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️

[@NB79032]

"You antagonized me. You know I have a temper." Typical gaslighting abuser.

[@DMaria216]

It’s so pathetic

[@jauntycommander1065]

Textbook abuser.

[@itazuranakisu]

I'm scared for any woman he sets his eyes on. He won't change. Abusers don't change and they can never heal the wounds they inflicted on their partners and children. Their enablers (family and friends) are nearly just as bad too.

[@hamadhumaid1984]

That guy must leave her alone, period. She doesn't need him and involving her children makes things worse she should go to the police and give her a restraining order against him or put him in jail for the rest of his life

[@luwamalem9537]

Right! Things could worse than him just stalking her if she doesn't take further action like calling the police the next time he shows up

[@hamadhumaid1984]

@@luwamalem9537 Exactly, my good friend

[@michaelavanduesen]

I agree she definitely should, but I also understand if she feels like they won't help her, believe her, ignore her, etc. Bc they didn't help her with the car situation...when had they helped, she probably could have gotten in a better position quicker than she did.

[@kemiyahh7757]

I hope her and her children gets into a better situation 😔👏🏽

[@bellerain381]

I hope so too!

[@brooklyn8760]

She *

[@thecaseclosedpikachufiles]

I hope so too. Because as a young man myself that is almost 28 years old. i still do not have any clue why men want to do this to women. And trust me No women or men needs any of that crap.

[@augustmoon9973]

I wanted to hear about what happened to her car, what excuse he was going to give for why he took it. I'm not understanding why the police didn't do something. I know this was a long time ago, but I truly hope she stayed away from him, and guys like him, and hopefully her and her kids are doing well.

[@beadyarngal83]

I agree! I would love to see the update about this and see how she and her kids are doing.

[@simoneb6312]

That’s my question too, like did he return the car???

[@citizenjane5649]

The police didn't do anything because she wouldn't press charges.

[@jabberjaws34]

I had an ex take my car one time, the police said there was nothing they could do since we had a relationship. They said I'd have to take her to court to get the car back. Straight bullshit

[@monaj433]

Anybody touching my car is flirting with death, period

[@ashleymariablair4396]

He's 20??? He look every bit of 45

[@mickdunne981]

And she said she was 35 she is 65 more like

[@Sakurablossomstudiostv]

@@mickdunne981 nice. Making fun of an abuse victim. So funny

[@jesseram401]

Well he out here stressing like a 45 year old. You gonna look like one.

[@NignLives]

@@Sakurablossomstudiostv not really making fun of her looking older than you are isn’t an insult it’s just saying you look older

[@xy8379]

@@Sakurablossomstudiostv her looking like a senior has absolutely nothing to do with her abuse. It’s an opinion on her appearance not her character and trauma

[@luna_swan0853]

I’ll say this. No means no. If she doesn’t want to be with you, respectfully move on. This is why a women is a afraid to say no to a guy because he has more power than she does in today’s society

[@krys5830]

I'm not afarid to say no I'll tell a guy right away if I'm interested in them or not

[@aileenj8180]

Men have had more physical power than (most) women in any society. Dude is a bully.

[@jauntycommander1065]

@@krys5830 it’s hard sometimes. I’ve had a man hit on me ,luckily in my home town bar, and I turned him down. He then proceeded to call me a racist and tried to get me jumped/jump me. Lucky for me my family, who are black, were there and heckled/harassed him until he RAN away. It’s a good thing he ran too.. I’m teeny tiny but my cousins and my brothers are HUGE like all over 6ft and 200lbs. I’ve had other guys threaten me for turning them down and a few have stalked me. I’m actually putting a restraining order on one this week. He actually stole my sister’s phone at a party got my number and my husband’s number and then proceeded to call my husband and told him I was the sun and he was the moon and that I belonged to him. People are NUTS! I have no problem saying no but it’s scary how some people react to rejection. I don’t even think I’m that exceptional just a regular woman. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@kristoffersmith8289]

Bullsh1t. Women have more power in today's society than men.

[@kristoffersmith8289]

@@jauntycommander1065 Don't hang out at shitty bars where shitty men congregate - its not really that complicated. Men know to avoid those places

[@MrEmichan]

I don't understand how the police can't help her, especially with him taking her car.

[@ahtijansson9283]

the police are corrupt not all of them but some cant be fucked. that or theres some other reason we dont know about.

[@UsernameUnkwn21]

Her story is bullshit..that's why.. IF that was the case she could easily escalate failure to assist to a state level..she she could call her insurance and report the vehicle stole and notify them and THEY would follow up.. she is leaving shit out

[@jessicarink7793]

@@UsernameUnkwn21 first off she's telling the truth about him beating her up and second maybe she was scared to call the police because maybe if he went to jail and got out he would try hurting her again. Keep blaming the victim. Sit down

[@UsernameUnkwn21]

@@jessicarink7793 did u and I watch the same clip LOL she said SHE DID GO TO THE POLICE BUT THEY WOULDNT HELP HER BC HE WAS HER BOYFRIEND AND THEY CONSIDERED IT JOYRIDING.. even the shittiest police can't refuse to file a police report on a stolen vehicle..she story is bullshit plain and simple..scarred to go to the police but not scared to go to a TV show LOL

[@jessicarink7793]

@@UsernameUnkwn21 I still blame that asshole guy just saying. He had no right taking her shit and had no right putting his hands on her! HE'S TO BLAME not HER get your facts right

[@HeyitsBri_]

He used the classic “look what you made me do” after taking everything from her and her children. People are scary

[@jauntycommander1065]

When Steve said “He’s not going to hurt you” it brought a tear to my eye. The support and backing those six words bring is powerful

[@minavanhelsing2749]

She deserves to be happy and he should be in jail because he ain't gonna stop.

[@laceylux2468]

right

[@kristoffersmith8289]

She dEsErVeS tO bE hApPy... why are you women such entitled children?? It's childish thinking like that gets women into drama with violent men

[@aspenselby7212]

Are we just gonna ignore that epic "LOSER" from the audience even Steve loved? It was just so golden, and the way that wannabe-man got so upset about it 😂

[@babypac3617]

@@payton1595 kegals.

[@johnub4]

I wish I saw this live I be calling him a loser too

[@CS-uc2oh]

And it came from a guy with a mullet...

[@lt.boinks992]

Him saying that steve wouldnt knock his teeth out is kinda funny

[@marraine7299]

I laughed so hard at it and I'm a dude. I just don't view this kid as a dude/man/male whatever tbh

[@bunnybubson1665]

Anyone who uses the excuse "they pushed me to do it!! They pushed me to act this way!!" Is truly mentally screwed up. He needs serious help, cause he's a danger. Women need to really reevaluate who they bring around their kids so soon.

[@michaelavanduesen]

I agree in the abuser saying this. But sometimes the abuser antagonizes their victim into reacting so that they can play the victim and continue their abuse bc they didn't get caught or the victim wasn't believed when explain the abuse. Hell, Amber Heard got upset when Johnny Depp would walk away from the progressively aggressive fight bc he didn't react back in violence. But had he reacted instead of walking away...he'd be the abuser that she's painted him out to be, when in reality.. she has always been the abuser and used that tactic to try and make it more believable. I'm only saying this in defense for some victims who've been pushed to their limit by their abuser. I am not saying this to disagree, bc clearly he and most others who say this, are making an excuse for their shitty behavior and avoiding accountability/responsibility. I hope I addressed what I mean. I know that this happening is far less of an occurrence than the former, but it is still something that does happen. My mother got arrested for stabbing her now ex husband in the elbow when she was able to get her arm free from the chokehold he had her in as he bashed her face into the freezer door. Instead of the police...ya know... Arresting him who continuously abused and raped her, they arrest her because she harmed him in self defense and it's not the exact same thing, but I just want to make sure I've made clarity with what I mean.

[@Summertime5463]

I’m glad she went to Steve, and got him to leave her alone. What a coward.

[@paulablack1863]

Agreed. Definitely seems like a user... He wasn't going to go anywhere until someone made him...

[@jauntycommander1065]

I’m so thankful for Steve. Time and time again he backs up victims and gives them a safe place to confront their abusers and resources to help them get away.

[@christichristi5481]

He will never leave her alone because he thinks he’s the victim.🤦🏽‍♀️. He needs to look at himself and grow up!!

[@Meanie74]

How many times does this pathetic excuse of a man gotta ask her “this what you want, right” she said yes 500 times and he still won’t leave her alone. I bet she had to get a restraining order or something.

[@idel630]

It's that man 20 YEARS OLD, he look 30

[@idel630]

@CheekyLovesCheeseCake:) yeah he look a dad of 4

[@yakiralovesall]

Evil ages you.

[@candace6682]

shit. i’m 30. he looks 40 😂

[@jericakez6813]

Poor woman. She’s so beautiful inside and out. I wish her the best 🥺💖

[@kristoffersmith8289]

I don't think shes beautiful on the outside and she seems pretty dim. Three kids and going again with that losers tells me she's damaged goods inside

[@Jennifer-zm1ol]

If a man is destroying not only ur life but ur children then UOU need to think twice about bringing them around your children… always put your kids first no matter what….

[@paulablack1863]

Bravo! Totally agree!!!!

[@Tyrosine0910]

This is an old clip. Having been only 20 at the time, I really hope that this guy has grown up & matured significantly since then. The instability he showed here is scary.

[@jessicarink7793]

Most likely he didn't mature

[@anthonyguarino4242]

@@jessicarink7793 you never know but I hope he matured. If he won’t, that’s on him, not anyone else! Since he is 20 in 2009 or 2010, he’s around my age today. I’m 32 years old as that guy in this video!

[@penelopefray1769]

🥺👏🏽Omg she is so freaking strong and brave. I am hella proud of you mom!! Take the stand and get out of that abusive relationship. Always put your kids and yourself first❤️❤️❤️

[@MistyLaneLoveConquersALL]

I feel bad for her. She's definitely been through some stress. She looks older than 35! STRESS he looks older than 20 and is really immature! 😕

[@therealkennimak313]

I was young

[@MistyLaneLoveConquersALL]

@@therealkennimak313 so you're the guy on the SW show?

[@therealkennimak313]

Yes when I was a kid 🤦🏾‍♂️ I regret every bit of it but I made things right 💯

[@MistyLaneLoveConquersALL]

@@therealkennimak313 that's really great! Make the best of your life, be happy 😊

[@lowlowseesee]

Abusers stealing cars from their victims is COMMON. Then stalking their victims with the car they stole is common as well. One of the lesser topics discussed about these trauma bonds

[@juicedupgenie]

Thank you for this comment because it prevented me from typing something ignorant because I was not aware of this fact.

[@roserollins9800]

It happened to a friend of mine and didn't end well as the man who took her car got into a shootout with the police and now is dead

[@wendya.presley7316]

What about her car?!?!!? that's so messed up!!!!

[@chantelicioushensel5635]

Right??? Why was he not asked about it

[@malikdixon1006]

They both look older then they say 👀

[@jordanyoung1836]

That's good, you need to leave her alone man, a beautiful woman like her doesn't deserve to be beaten down like a dog, I'm glad it's over, she don't need anybody like that in her life, when people like that come into your life, they're just here to hurt you in any way, you have to be able to cut ties with those kind of people in order to have peace and move on.

[@naheemlewis7616]

Abusive Men should be 🔐 up

[@jordanyoung1836]

@@naheemlewis7616 that's right

[@Nikitajade08]

He looks way older than 20 😳

[@sapphicmenace7745]

"she pushed me to that point" says every single abuser ever.

[@jdogdog8778]

He's nothing but a narcissist who doesn't even have the decency to wear one of Steve's obligatory shirts.

[@Castro.zuleyma]

He needs to leave her alone

[@frankcastle7036]

My wife kicks me out of the house for leaving the toilet seat up

[@lipsonjonathan211]

Let your brother help you out.

[@rileighchristine_]

This pathetic excuse of a man sounds like al his anger is coming from his own poor decisions

[@kristoffersmith8289]

He must be a lose to want to hook up with a 35 year old with 3 kids.

[@bridgetbonds5169]

She is a beautiful woman who deserves better for her and kids and she will find her someone better than abused man

[@lowlowseesee]

He actually knows why he lied about his age but he doesn’t want to reveal the tactic

[@shermanhatch2716]

“Alright GET THE HELL OFF MY STAGE!”- Steve to Kenneth

[@soulgazer11]

Man, I'm 20 and I'm SO glad I don't act like that. Bare minimum though.

[@bellerain381]

I wanna buy that person who yelled out “LOSER” a drink!

[@taylornicolewolfenbarger4551]

Dating a 20 year old and has a child herself that’s 16.

[@lashaelynn8808]

Right not blaming her but you got in a relationship with a unstable child what did she expect? How can he provide for her when he can't even understand himself. We woman gotta start digging more before we allow our emotions and eyes to let us fall in love with the OUTSIDE of a person.

[@pamglisson7664]

Why didnt Steve ask where her car was?

[@chantelicioushensel5635]

Right???? I kept on asking that while he was talking to him. Where's the fcn car man?

[@The_Real_Mier]

I was waiting for Steve to tell that man-child to GIVE her BACK her car! I just HOPE he addressed this in the FULL show and that the lady DID indeed have her car returned to her. (And that it’s simply not included in this clip) With that car preferably remaining in good condition! If NOT, she should have received the MONETARY EQUIVALENT OF THAT CAR plus INTEREST and an ADDITIONAL COMPENSATION in which the money she has lost due to her LOSING HER JOB is INCLUDED!!

[@austinupshaw629]

I thought Steve was just stop at “you need to be smarter”. He’s savage like that.

[@SuperBRIANWILSON]

Ain’t no way that man is 20 lol

[@bridgetbonds5169]

He should’ve been in jail

[@jackbrigoli7452]

"If you called my 16 year old daughter that, I would knock your teeth out of your mouth!" That's the Steve we know and love!

[@AshleyTheWolf259]

Guy from crowd: "LOSER!"

[@halbertbrandydechaume8430]

My name Brandy I'm fan of Steve wilkos show. I just love it when he stands up for kids and wemon

[@smallie210]

She looks older than her age and so does he. I'm 37 and no way is she younger than me.

[@WiFiDown37811]

People can be terrible and terrifying. This deplorable human being has caused this woman and her kids so much harm and stress so willingly and claims that he loves her and its disgusting that the men and women in blue refused to do anything to help her

[@Derpy_day]

Hope she is recovering well now and has better standards for herself and her children

[@RaniaHaid12]

My heart hurts when she was telling her story she looks so scared 😔

[@jujubean3072]

Am I the only one that gets super annoyed when the crowd claps at everything and yells out "STEEeeevvVEEEEE?"

[@charliejamz.]

I always thought the “STEEEEEEVEEEE!” Thing was hilarious. Clapping every other sentence gets annoying at times.

[@moszmwesigwa8728]

Never start relationships with lies, you end up in a whole nother level of a mess. He lied about his age, job and ended up getting frustrated with his lies, he wants to act like a father but can't provide, in the end he messed up everything

[@SuperSailorOutlawGeorgeIshaq]

The moment Steve Wilkos turns into a vampire will definitely become the best moment ever

[@arby9984]

20? He looks like he done had two divorces and 5 kids 😭

[@censai2010]

I’m 35 years old and they both look older then Me. I’m sure hers is added stress from His ass. Has to move to a homeless shelter because of a man?! Yeah I’d age like a raisin Too 🥺

[@michaelamack-white117]

This comment wasn’t really necessary. It’s kinda backhanded.

[@CH-bs3xr]

Still got a filter on your pic though lol

[@annelommers174]

I wonder if she got her car back so she could try and get her job back

[@josephromeo4084]

This is why you need to be careful when you move someone in..

[@StephALowry29]

I'm glad that she doesn't have him in her life anymore. She lost everything because of him.

[@lilianwakarena9274]

Bringing a no hoper into her house and kids lives, When will these damn women ever learn?

[@lfairytailwizard938]

Him doing what he is doing is wrong..... She let him move in with her kids too soon. But when she found about his age she still laid down with him, fed him and paid the bills... On top of that got pregnant.. He disrespectful to her kids... . Sorry but not sorry...

[@HeyitsBri_]

She said she found out after a few months and tried to kick him out and end it, so I’m assuming all that stuff happened in that period. She did move him in too fast, but that doesn’t excuse him of everything else or mean that his actions are her fault

[@earsmccatt8927]

Is any of that more important "he's stalking me and my children, and i want him away." You can pick her mistakes apart for eternity, but at the end of the day, what hes doing is criminal, and abusive, and disgusting.

[@jessicarink7793]

How about no one is perfect we all make mistakes. This guy needs to leave her the fuck alone. Stop picking her mistakes. She's the victim

[@kaelincampbell1930]

Not steve blaming the victim for "staying" in a situation 🙄

[@lashaelynn8808]

Nah I'm with Steve it literally takes two. I watch women do this still text and call him then when. They get to fighting they wanna call the family and everything else. I've been in the situation more than once if your done you would t answer you wouldn't meet none of tht it feeds a sense of we getting back together in my eyes. Either way they both wrong. Need to leave each other alone.

[@BrandonHcpt]

Seems like he just wanted to use her as a provider

[@GhxstGhost]

I’ll never understand how delusional people like him can be. Honestly sits there and doesn’t connect with what’s wrong

[@nyxie331]

besides the point that she should've been more careful with men around her kids and him being a total jerk for abusing and stealing and stalking... how is he 20? he looks 30 or smth

[@freddysw]

Damn right I am 30 now and he looks older than me

[@rahmayasturdivant5699]

That’s what I’m saying 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Grigsy]

I don’t believe the woman. She just needed to file a restraining order which is so easy to get.

[@noahschultz9031]

I hope this lady and her children finally found peace and ended things with that prick for good

[@24k_rxhaidyx31]

i cant be the only one who wants to know what happend to de car after this like.. the lady has to get her car back bc its hers and he has no right to go away with the keys thats just not cool

[@sparklesrosary1473]

He'd have lost his memories in my knuckles if he called my children names. That ain't no man. He needs to finish growing up and get a real job

[@abigailmbarga7828]

I would love to see an update

[@BIGEAGLEDUDE]

Okay so it's been 10 to 12 years since this aired does anyone even have an update on Betty and her kids because just from watching she's probably a grandmother right now and all three of her kids are adults

[@amandahart4670]

I'm 32 and still occasionally get ID'd.... there is absolutely no way she's 35

[@jivonniasmith9770]

"she pushes me" spoken like a true abuser

[@alexizlifehuffman1589]

I feel like he won’t leave her alone

[@KRUDDYMUNGUS]

This poor lady

[@hihosilverlining]

‘You made me hit you ….you knew I had a temper !’.. The cry of the abuser.

[@NotmyaccountmyrealaccountisAnn]

"i lost two girls" damn double homocide..

[@karenhoward3662]

He's dangerously. Stay far away from him sweetie. I'm sorry you are going thru this. My mom went thru this when I was young. There wasn't any help back then. When she got away from him she got far away. Thank God

[@missjackson_]

I REFUSE to believe this man is 20 years old!

[@annieg745]

He’s a user! Glad she got rid of him

[@aussiesteve2870]

Why didn't she ask where the hell is my car. Basically they let him get away with that Scott free.

[@DaBlacksheep84]

Abuse has no place in LOVE-

[@StefanThomas-lifestyle]

Kenneth looks just like Jeffrey Page 😯

[@blackbutterfly8136]

He may not look his age but certainly acts it..

[@digimonalvatrax2738]

As a 20 year old... no, this guy is just a lunatic

[@aliciacb8284747274]

27 my ass, he's at least 35! Girl he's still lying about his age lmao. Also it may sound bad but that miscarriage is a blessing in disguise. There is no reason to make your life messier and have a baby with an abusive man. She should run for the hills and never look back

[@bekahdoug5572]

I FUCCIN HAAAATE when the abuser says: "They know how I am, they pushed my buttons on purpose to get that reaction!" Jesus I hate that! The reality is, it don't take much to get you to that point.

[@lass_chance1987]

You never ever leave the stage without Steve kicking you off the stage first lol! That was great!

[@natashadoris8913]

"What kind of man calls a 6 year old that?" HE'S NOT A MAN... He's a little boy!

[@saiyankingbroly]

Its getting hard to feel sympathy women in abusive relationships don't let any man you barley know move in right away especially if you have kids. That makes me sick, if he dont have a job, dont have a car, dont have a plan for his life keep walking

[@ellekay4758]

He’s just a terrible human being

[@yungyelomann3167]

Steve gotta be tired of buying chairs

[@naenae5279]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@danielobiazor9871]

STEVE: did u say that KENNETH: yea i did but u dont understand STEVE: wait a second KENNETH: listen STEVE: no no u kno what ur right i dont understand & i dont wanna understand KENETH: y u dont wanna understand STEVE: if u called my daughter somethin like that i'd knock ur teeth out ur mouth KENNETH: u wont knock my teeth out STEVE: yea i would

[@rubeelondon9307]

He was looking for a free ride

[@eternitybusick9368]

If he says "man" one more time.

[@danielobiazor9871]

KENNETH: she looked out 4 me 2 i never said she didnt STEVE: so shes taking care of a 4th kid then