We Are Adopting | Starbucks Run, Meeting with our Lawyer, Finalizing Our Wills And CPR

[@KHYAWash]

I loved everything about this video! I think all parents should get CPR certified, if they aren’t. Much love! 💕💕❤️

[@katishah.8851]

Jamillah is so articulate!! I love to hear her speak on topics she is passionate about!!

[@JamillaandQue]

Thank you so much love ❤️

[@ICYUNVME1908]

I absolutely know y’all love y’all’s SUV!! I have the same one with captains seats and it’s perfect for kids! I also think it’s awesome you all are protecting your kids due to the way the laws are written!

[@JamillaandQue]

We have definitely been enjoying the Atlas!

[@ICYUNVME1908]

@@JamillaandQue I’m on my second one😂but my whole little family loves it!!

[@lilraider22]

Yes!!! I've been screaming this to every two mom family I know. Go through a legal adoption!!! My wife adoption our son when he was a baby to protect him. California made it easy for us. We were able to do it the ourselves with $50 and it took two weeks. It was the best money ever spent. Take care of your LEGAL business.

[@JamillaandQue]

Oh now that is really good! Go Cali!

[@MzDiva2yu]

My fiancé told me this years ago she wanted to do this with our children and we will be doing this as well once we have our children in the future. Great video.

[@DeDe-pw3kq]

Awwwww... This is such a good idea to protect the babies. Hopefully the law's will change in the near future.

[@JamillaandQue]

Absolutely! Gotta protect the babies!

[@taykendall910]

Thank you for sharing!! Very informative!

[@sharonadhiambo5994]

Wow,this is such a great idea. Go on Cousins! Child's protection is everything ✊❤️❤️❤️💕

[@JamillaandQue]

Upmost importance for us!

[@michelleandkayla1641]

This video is soooo important. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@JamillaandQue]

Absolutely! Our community needs it!

[@jackiethompson3144]

Great and important time in your lives thanks for sharing continued Blessings

[@JamillaandQue]

Absolutely! Thank you!

[@pretty4one33]

Great information ladies. TFS this journey. Ya'll are THE BEST!

[@JamillaandQue]

We love sharing our experiences! Thank you 🙏🏾

[@Beautyflawed81]

This is amazing and good for you all.. I wouldn't wait either.. Next level adulting in this video.. Another great vlog cousins!

[@JamillaandQue]

Adulting is so serious! Thank you!

[@ZDove90]

I'm so glad that you took these legal steps. My niece lost the love of her life to a heart attack. They were married with a daughter but my niece was not the biological mother. Therefore, her wife's mother, the child's grandmother, took the daughter that they had been parenting together and would not allow visitations between my niece and the child. They didn't know that a legal adoption was extremely NECESSARY to avoid this outcome. All of this caused even greater devastation when they were already grieving the loss of their wife and mother. It was completely heartbreaking. I'm so glad that your family is covered. May God continue to bless you and your children forevermore. 🙏🏼

[@toniagrant275]

Thank God I work with children I have to get cpr & first Aid training every two years and also mat training as well!!

[@JamillaandQue]

Nice! That is good to refresher yourself as well!

[@fallondavis3234]

It’s crazy because in Connecticut they just made it official that we don’t have to go through that process

[@JamillaandQue]

Now that is very interesting!!

[@ZDove90]

I wish you would do it anyway. You may not always be in that state. I encourage you to cover your family nationwide.

[@brookehill3383]

A lil off topic but when I saw yall on a commercial, I WAS SO PROUD

[@JamillaandQue]

We were so excited about that commercial! Thank you cousin!

[@brookehill3383]

@@JamillaandQue you're welcome

[@aspeights1983]

"I know test taking" That cracked me up 😆 Love it.

[@JamillaandQue]

🤣🤣🤣

[@stinney52]

Great information to have and share within Our COMMUNITY ❤️❤️❤️💯🙌🏽

[@beverlykilgore9707]

Great video...good information!

[@nikkiedwards1982]

This was a very great informative vlog.

[@JamillaandQue]

So glad you enjoyed! Thank you!

[@dyshemaross]

Thank you so much for this, it really helps to have the information that you all put out.

[@AllThingsEmmaa]

I'm so excited 4 ur family!!! I luv this

[@JamillaandQue]

Thank you so much Emilie!

[@danielastarbuck5307]

This video is very informative tnx for sharing

[@monicajones5943]

Your channel must be doing well.You all found me. And I did learn something at the law office 😊

[@Lifewithsharifa]

Thank you for sharing this. It was very informative & helpful ✨💕

[@iamwhoiam9728]

Can you all do a more in-depth video on the process etc?

[@JamillaandQue]

Yes, we got you Cousin!

[@CALLIE20100]

So proud of y’all, taking care of business & those beautiful babies 👍🏾🤩💕

[@JamillaandQue]

Thank you so much JoAnn!!

[@tmac757]

Jamilla is soooo dramatic!!!!!!!!!! Chile and love every bit of it…..🥰🌹🥰❤️

[@critiqk6723]

Much needed info at the end because a lot of ppl don’t know that they should do both

[@JamillaandQue]

Absolutely! So glad Barbara was able to share that!

[@sandricacooper6262]

I'm not a lesbian but I follow you guys because you always some of the most informative info!! I have been able to share info with my LGBTQ friends and family just from watching you all. You all are half the reason we are deciding to move to ATL!!! The 1st time I heard yall call us cousins....I WAS LIKE OH HELL YEAH....FOLLOWING!!!

[@JamillaandQue]

Lol!!!!! Yes we cousins! Thank you so much for sharing us with your family and friends! And yes, Atlanta is LIT 🤣

[@Isaidwhatisaiddear]

This has really inspired me to get myself together. My money is all over the place, I don’t even truly know how much I even have 😂

[@just.lakisha.81]

Great video💯

[@jacquelinecameron2310]

I just love y’all.❤️

[@tabscorner1182]

Yasss cousins !! Congratulations on the official adoption of the Lil cousins ❤️❤️

[@s.e8829]

Love this! Yes protect the family! Also the all the above is always the right answer on any test 🤣

[@JamillaandQue]

Always choosing all the above 🤣

[@sharylellsworth8161]

Always so informative❤️… Always willing to share 😍

[@JamillaandQue]

Absolutely! We have to take care of one another!

[@alladatsplitupsplat]

Very informative video! Jamila , I laughed at you’re I know test taking 😂

[@JamillaandQue]

Lol!!! So glad you enjoyed! Thank you!

[@chrisybm4392]

Enjoyed this educational Vlog for LGBTQI couples. Best wishes Que on your CPR.

[@JamillaandQue]

Thank you!! I’m officially certified 💪🏾

[@ms_kayelle]

❤️ this!!!

[@BeatbyMe114]

Just a quick request for a video…PLEASE make a video on how you save? Just for the young adults like me who like watching you successful people.

[@JamillaandQue]

Absolutely! We can do a money video

[@kcali_058]

What's up ladies. It's sort of a shame a lgbt family has to take all these precautions, but good on both of you for getting it done ahead of time for your family. Yo both look super happy. Shout out to investing into B.O.B.'s. and to your amazing attorney, Ms. Katz for the advice.Take Care. Stay Safe. Stay Healthy. Much love from Cali!!

[@JamillaandQue]

Definitely sad that we have to do it but just let you said, we have to take these precautions!

[@staciescott4818]

I love ❤ ya'll!

[@AshleyMarie01]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@JamillaandQue]

❤️❤️❤️

[@twill1007]

Awww , it sounds kinda sad that it has to happen this way ( like Papi having to relinquish all parental rights) . It’s a smart move though, congratulations

[@Mary2007jesus]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@la-tiffanyjackson6012]

Cousins 🤍💜💚

[@Oliviavanessa747]

Family goals 💕

[@lifeofqbreezy4578]

“You know CPR?” “I know test taking” 😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@nluvjones78]

Grown folk business!

[@JamillaandQue]

Always! 💪🏾💪🏾

[@nluvjones78]

@@JamillaandQue Harper and Holland are blessed beyond measure to have such phenomenal parents! Love your life cousins!

[@ingaleverett4415]

Wait no black attorneys for this adoption

[@JamillaandQue]

I find this an interesting question especially with the intersection of being Black and Queer. Shopping Black is HUGE for us, but let’s not ignore the homophobia in the Black community. As for step parent adoption for a Black two mom family, it was upmost importance to work with someone who was (1) referred and (2) LOT of experience with LGBT+ family laws. Barbara is that and more. If you are discussing keeping money in the Black community, I ask that you keep your money in a Black owned bank, purchase your car/home from a Black bank, invest in Black companies, shop from Black farmers and grocery stores. Due to systematic racism, keeping the Black dollar in our community is hard but not impossible. For my family, it’s an added layer bc the company would have to be Black owned and pro LGBT. I provided a lot of resources on my IG (Millla.Jay) to shop Black in the ways mentioned above. I think in the instance, focusing on JUST race can be shortsighted as this is an intersection of race/sexual orientation. Thanks for your question but I think it’s bigger than us making a choice and more so systematic. - Jamilla

[@ingaleverett4415]

@@JamillaandQue I agree with u to a point of shopping black, but I would’ve loved to see this as a 360 deal! No beef tho. It would’ve been the topping on the cake for me.

[@madamwinter4116]

I love you guys, but to me you are more like sisters than lovers, your intimate moments are stolen by your kids, never seen you holding hands or even just a peck😂 plss

[@JamillaandQue]

You gotta come follow us on IG too. Can make assessments on folks lives through edited videos 🤣

[@madamwinter4116]

Thanks I will, just came across your channel recently and av watched almost all your videos, I love the maturity, calmness in both of you. I love you guys. From Kenya Africa.