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[@ChantaeCandize]

I 1000% agree with Benji as well!!! Doctor’s orders come from well researched, proven and supported evidence! Hoping Bella Boo continues to heal 💛

[@TT-wj1kx]

Benji probably felt that way because he was the one that spent hours at the doctor's office with a screaming baby 😂 probably was thinking what was the point of taking her if you arent going to follow doctors order 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@tulip-vf3iz]

I do agree with Benji, I think it would be better to let her hand rest for 2 to 3 days so that any minor injuries if present can heal by itself.

[@genevievesabourin4490]

Should be wrapped and a sling...just because she is acting okay doesnt mean something wasn't pulled or dislocated ...this is exactly how my parents are and well yup now have damage ... please stop dismissing Benji

[@Missylou_art]

Bella could still have a sprain even if there is no fracture. I would air on the side of caution and just stabilize it as they recommended . Im so glad it wasn't broken.

[@janquez2005]

Auntie mel deserves a whole lot of credit. Shes a good auntie and seems so loyal yo those girls

[@RubberDuckie7711]

She’s not even around anymore? The past is the past

[@ILYRJ18]

Judy Not saying you or Benji are right or wrong but just wanted to share my story. When I was 9 I broke my arm and because it didn’t physically look broken and because I was able to move my arm and hands completely my dad AND grandma (who was a nurse at the time) both said my arm wasn’t broken. Well the next day my mom brought me to the doctors and sure enough I had 4 breaks!! Lol so I just wanted to share that sometimes things aren’t always as they seem and just because they can move doesn’t always mean nothing is wrong. But yea Bella did seem fine and I’m so glad it wasn’t more serious! You both are amazing parents!

[@TheWeekendFriend]

13:36 Benji is the man and the father of the year. Look at him laser focused on Bella. I gotta say, toddlers are so resilient. That's why their bones are so flexible that they almost literally bounce back and heal like champs in most cases. I remember my best friends son who had a leg injury as a toddler too and it scared his parents to heckkkk. BUT seeing him heal up so quickly and get back on his feet was truly amazing and now at 7years old he already loves to snowboard or play golf and even karate and he hasnt stopped moving im telling you lol. So thank you so much for sharing your experience with us bc in a way it helps other new parents get a real insight on how it's like to manage your child's accidents/injuries when they happen bc guess what, they most certainly do happen. I can understand tensions and the stresses that come out of it but you guys handled it together like pros and that in itself deserves praise 👏 🙌 so keep it real and keep it going. You guys got this!

[@MermaidMonica19]

Leah is a true Filipina. She knows it’s Christmas when September 1 hits. 😂 I hope Bella feels better soon💜

[@fefe007]

14:44 Bella busting open that door 🤣 I'm so glad she's feeling better.

[@ujjbbjjj]

Yes lol 😂

[@sabrinarivarde]

i mean she kicked in the door 😂 im glad she’s ok cause i was so worried looking at her sad face 😢

[@patriciameagher9162]

Yes, the grand entrance, haha.

[@kae_ess]

Club Renaissance is the place to be! You’re gonna have a great time Judy! Honestly! Seriously, best tickets!

[@claudiapalacios7918]

I agree with Benji the arm needed to be stable at least three days 😥

[@rcabueg]

When Leah yelled “BEEELLLAAA!!” and Bella sittin next to her goes “MEEE😄😁”

[@Youtube_user_nhvrxdhn]

I didn’t noticed that. Glad I have red your comment. It’s so damn cute! 🥰

[@MrsCurioCheerio]

Ultimately, I feel it’s best to follow your physician’s orders and keep the arm wrapped for the recommended time! If you have any additional concerns about her hurting herself with the wrap on, then I’d phone the office to get some further guidance. Not to mention, if you spend the time and money to get treated by a doctor for an arm injury, however non-serious, I feel it makes the most sense to follow their advising to facilitate proper healing and monitor closely. Just my takeaway :)

[@analeecedurant3895]

The way Bella entered the bedroom was absolutely hilarious 😂 glad Bella Boo is ok 🥰

[@roselaura-gracesing4968]

Great parents! I think the mixture between a super strict parent and one that is more relaxed is healthy. The parents can figure out how to take care of the child best with both perspectives. I am the chill one and my husband is the strict and cautious one and I really love that about him! Benji is such a great father!

[@Dina8485]

GO ALL OUT with your outfit!!! You gotta!!!

[@wonderfullysuper]

And makeup!!! And also dont forget to show us!! 😂😂😂

[@july7]

Omg yes!! Ive seen some stunning silver outfits fans have been rockin! Gooo off Judy!

[@mysonruns]

So glad Bella is ok! The doctor visit must have been so stressful for her. Poor baby!

[@columbianrattlesnake]

Bella going down stairs was hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂

[@mikahirabayashi6788]

Nurse here and a longtime viewer. Must agree with benji here.. why go to a doctor if youre not willing to trust their advice based on their years of knowledge and experience? Resting a limb in place can help with healing and toddlers and babies can handle alot of pain without showing it. There are cases of broken bones in toddler and they showed no sign of pain. If youre not following recommendations then better not use up doctor and nurses time.

[@jenl1541]

Lmao that's just stupid, ppl are allowed to disagree with the "professionals" you expect ppl to read the future to know what the doctor is going to suggest.... lol

[@sciencetheatom8677]

My son had a wrist fractured and u can see on the outside that it looks ok and he can move it without any pain,But the bone inside where we can’t see is still broken. So yea i think Benji was right about that.

[@elf6041]

Bella saying hi and bye just melts my heart! T_T And the way, she says bye and rushed to go downstairs HAHAHAHA soooo cute

[@quee]

When Judy said “that’s enough” in her mommy voice, my toddler looked up from his toys like 😯. Lol!

[@Mystearicia]

I think as a precaution keeping the wrap for at least a day would have been better than instantly removing just because Judy viewed Bella as okay, always better to cautious. Like my sis in law is a nurse and she thinks she knows better how to treat my nephew and yet still end up going to the clinic

[@Watermelonspice97]

Bella is so FUNNY 😂😂 IT remind me of when Miya had to be taken to the clinic because she couldn’t move her foot! “ she was saying wiggle body 😂”

[@AirForceFierce]

Club Renaissance is THE BEST section. You will be able to sit on the floor before the show. Also there is plenty of room to move around.

[@Alex_South]

“I’m still gonna look cute af!” I love Judy! 🤣🤣🤣

[@Kee682]

the cutesttttt little injured baby ever 🥺 the teardrop resting on her cheek

[@CRP84]

You being in Club Renaissance will be EPIC! They have plenty of room and even if you stand in the back, you’ll be perfectly fine. The BeyHive crowd is very chill and nice too, unless you want to be right up to the front, don’t even worry! Best concert ever BTW! Make sure to hold the ‘MUTE!’

[@curlieQ671]

So glad Bella Boo is better and back to her normal self. Watching her go down the stairs remind me of my kids when they were younger. That's how we taught them too

[@chrissycheerflyer]

Pls put the bandaid back on ❤ I dislocated my shoulder a few months ago! Looked perfectly fine from outside, didn’t feel anything was wrong, my mom also wanted me to remove it & my dad forced me to keep it on. One week after that X-ray I found out that I tore a nerve! Didn’t feel anything was wrong and I’m still dealing recovering from the injury! Recovery was more painful after one month after the injury. But I also respect your opinion Judy and that you’re confident enough to share your opinion!

[@katyainslie761]

I’m glad baby is ok! I don’t watch every clog these days but I try to. I have been on y’all’s journey since the condo before Julianna was born. Y’all are such a calming spirit and nostalgic (and no I’m not saying we’re OLD! 😂). My fiancé left me last week out of the blue and I’ve been heartbroken and healing slowly. There’s something about always coming back to y’all’s vlogs that just gets me away from reality and makes me feel comfort again. Love to the girls, you, and benji, and the family 💜 thank you

[@owemeanthropology]

sorry that happened to you. I bet something really big and ten times better is coming your way.

[@katyainslie761]

@@owemeanthropology that’s such a sweet comment, thank you so much for that

[@killlamas57]

When she says Everybody on Mute, DO NOT SPEAK. You might end up on TikTok 😂😂😂

[@Tahitipinks5]

So glad to see Bella feeling better ❤

[@Saturiiii]

Wishing Bella a speedy recovery!!

[@lindamak9396]

I laughed soooo hard when Judy said " I'll be the one dancing" serious mode* LOOOL

[@SyrahUndomiel]

Is auntie Mel ok? It must have given her a scare too? I’m glad to see Bellaboo bring her silly self!

[@reviewranger4202]

thats so nice of you. good people

[@kimgirl702]

She bounced back so quickly! 😂

[@LovesOfJuneBug]

Have fun! Benji will not be relaxing in the back- his arms will be sore from guarding his wife in the pit 🤣 good times!

[@cristis2859]

He said "Beyonce fans" .... Benji... we're referred to as The Beyhive. LOL 🐝

[@alishas1992]

I’m so happy Bella is ok don’t worry I’m 31 n still am team stranger danger just like Bella 😂

[@itskimberlyann]

Omg Club Renaissance is amazing! Tons of room to walk around the whole stage area! I hope you guys had a blast 🎉

[@Violet.18]

Bellas little sobs broke my heart. Watch the babies please😡!!! Leah and Bella are small and precious.

[@shelbyg97]

They were watching her if you heard the story she said “auntie Mel tried to catch her and grabbed her arm” if they weren’t watching she wouldn’t of been able to grab her at all 😉

[@danieex_p]

I’m sure I was not the only RN/ healthcare worker that saw the last part of the vlog & went 🫣. Could’ve been nurse maids elbow & Bella is all good to go…I am hoping she decided to remove the wrap/soft cast from Bella’s arm after hearing back from the doc that x-ray results were all clear…obviously we don’t know the full story, but just this small snippet in the vlog was unsettling to hear.

[@wendyschnapa7582]

Wishing Bella a speedy recovery. Hopefully it is not broken or seriously injured.

[@aalyiahsimone]

Judy, I went to The Renaissance World Tour in July in NJ and in August in ATL and you'll be more than fine in Club Renaissance! The good thing about CR is they don't fill the area to the max with people so there will be more than enough room for you to move and not be right up against others. The screens are also huge so even if you don't get to the front and taller people are in the front you'll still be able to see from the screens and have a great view! Because the area isn't packed you'll also be able to move from area to area in case you want to follow Beyonce as she moves around the stage. I hope you have a great time!!

[@dollymama7796]

Leah is talking so much, I just love her independence. So glad Bella boo is feeling better 💕

[@sameerahkhan5042]

Oh my sweet Bella booh wishing you a speedy recovery 😢❤not nice seeing her in that cast 😢 I live how resilient little ones are ❤

[@sherylbegay]

That's the thing with kids, they are very resilient! My son had a fractured rib and was still trying to play and do things like normal and forget he got hurt. He would wince every now and then but try to play again as normal.

[@omegachan9430]

The wrap definitely should have been left on.

[@Soniabeautychannel]

Aww Bella is such a trooper! Her little sniffles 🥺. Judy! Beyoncé was phenomenal! You will not be sitting girl, you’ll be nice and sweaty from dancing and probably lose your voice like I did singing along 😆

[@jpdo98]

had a nursemaid’s elbow situation at my work. the child had to wear a sling for a day and was back in daycare a couple days later. not too alarming, but now bella boo is gnna be more susceptible to getting it again. so just be cautious when holding/grabbing/pulling her arms

[@d8bn]

Whew, Bella is okay. Yay!!! It was so sad seeing her cry.

[@umb819]

Bella crying so sad 😢but soo cute 😊 kids are adorable ☺️

[@narcydishon8389]

I hated seeing Bella after she had cried so hard. It’s heart breaking 💔. Glad to know that she is ok❤

[@DigsKitKat]

Judy I was in Club Renaissance in London and it was the time of my life. Don’t worry, you will enjoy the show - the view is fantastic from wherever you’re located in the circle. And no moshing haha but people dance!

[@TheBeautySpectator]

No worries if buying the Beyoncé tickets but worry about an X-ray bill? 😂 Do you guys not have health insurance? It would’ve cost 35$ For the copay.

[@user-xi2iw8tp8j]

my exact thoughts…smh…

[@borsalandlagi]

😂😂 "walking like a boss." like nothing happen hahahah , so cute tho bella wear what ever it is in her hand, but glad she is ok❤

[@JerryAndJulieMusic]

I don't think that was very wise Judy to go against the doctor's orders. Only because if Bella truly needed it and you took it off, something could get worse. I would say Benji is right here. Love you Judy

[@lorc560]

He listened to doctors orders because Benji knows he’s not a doctor and neither are you Judy. I would be upset with your decision to remove it all. Benji was right.

[@chrinesaerum9955]

Hi Judy! I took advantage of the JMK sale got my night gowns robes and candle and I LOVE them all! I’ve been watching you since I was pregnant in 2012! And my boy was born in October 2021 like Julianna! I have another boy born in May 2020 like Leah bear, another boy born in 2021, and finally a girl in 2023! So I have a big family too and love watching your videos with my family! Thank you for keeping us happy on our day to day! ❤

[@itsJudysLife]

Congratulations on your growing family!! I bet big brother is the sweetest helping to take care of the littles 🥰

[@jelly7411]

get well soon bella boo ❤

[@VarshitaGoduguchinta]

Hey! It's likely a nursemaid's elbow! not a fracture, just a dislocation. Glad Bella is okay!

[@beautytryouts]

Just came on here to day the same thing! So thankful little Bella boo is ok❤

[@Rainbowmom26]

Yes! Nursemaids elbow. I had it as a child, one of my daughters had it and a granddaughter. Sometimes it can reset itself , other times a dr can do a simple fix.

[@kristinahenderson993]

Nurse here! My son has had it twice! If it happens again, put palm up (like you’re going to get handed snack in hand) then palm to shoulder. You’ll feel it slip back into place. They’ll whine when you reset it but it immediately feels better! Maybe they tried and it didn’t work first couple times then it slid back in on its own.

[@louiseringsmose]

Glad Bella is okay! 🙏🏻🤍

[@Brittanyleighplusthree]

judy you look amazing! glowing even! 🤍

[@ManicMeeks]

I went to the DC show on 8/5.....i sat down 3 time for less than 3 minutes each. You are gonna have a blast!!!

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Good morning Judy happy Friday morning and I loved your vlogs and you all amazing Supporter

[@mzsada]

Aww poor Bella. Hope she’s ok! Oh and also for egg roll wrappers, I like to use the “Spring Home - TYJ Spring Roll Pastry” any Asian market should have it. It has a nice crispy taste and doesn’t have bubbles. 👍

[@nkaujkiayang6146]

It’s the way Bella slammed opened the door 😂when Judy was talking about her like “I’ve been summoned”😂😭

[@d8bn]

Ha ha ha, the way Bella enters the bedroom.

[@AC-fm8qq]

@itsjudylife your in the best section!!! Enjoy it! I was in alien superstar and i still had an AMAZING time!

[@SailingHorizons]

Childrens in Seattle is where I always went in theses cases. I live a few miles from you guys. Normal clinics and Dr's don't have the equipment or supplies to treat small children like Childrens does. Definitely should go. Injuries like that can give lifelong complications if left untreated. Babies and toddlers growth plates can be damaged and you'd never know until they don't grow properly.

[@mau4302]

Hahahahaha Benji “wearing a black and white sweater? 😒” you should get him all 🪩 out!

[@jilliansuleski6771]

My daughter is 2 and has had this happen to her elbow three times now. It’s painful for them but no unbearable. Can’t lift and will whine a bit. The doctor will “pop” it back in. Within minutes they are fine. One instance she did it and it was EXTREMELY sore but was back in by the time we made it to the doctor. Would follow up with your doctor. And don’t pull on her hands to drag or pull because she will be more susceptible (apparently the specialist told us to year 5). It’s really really sad, but unfortunately common. Good luck!!! 🎉

[@ayavillasis5781]

14:17 My heart just melted ❤

[@toyamack9290]

OK let me start this off with I absolutely GASPED followed by an OH NO and 🙏seeing Bella holding her arm at the walk-in but I'm so HAPPY it turned out to be ok!!!! Now this leads me into my outburst of 😂🤣Mommy recapping and Bella Boo comes bursting in 14:45 mark I was like oh yeah ..sheeeee's back😉

[@orneryantics]

Y'all must have terrible insurance. Girl, I've had Many x-rays and a few mri's in the last 2 years and didn't have to pay 1 cent. Change insurance.

[@RobertMichael1462]

Poor Bella boo. get well soon baby❤

[@ruek2345]

I saw Beyoncé during her renaissance tour! She’s such a great performer- you’re going to have a great time Judy!!

[@Open_Space0718]

Children are so resilient and like sponges, I remember when my oldest who's now 15 years old fell down a full flight of stairs because my youngest opened the stair gate, he got up and whined a bit but ran off and kicked a ball around in the garden as if nothing happened, he was 6 at the time, my middle child who opened the stair gate was 4, and I also had a 9-month-old hence the gate.

[@ada.solori0]

Sweet baby Bella!! I hope you feel better ❤❤❤

[@sameerahkhan5042]

Imma make lumpia this weekend Judy bear lol wish i could send you pics 😂

[@itsJudysLife]

Wooo!!! Enjoy!!

[@TrinaTran1]

BELLA GOING DOWN THE STAIRS GOT ME ROFLMAO 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@peytonsplace17]

Girl, I was at the show last night too! For the second time! It was so great, right?! She’s definitely THAT GIRL. I’m glad you had fun too!

[@HottestElfKL]

You that Leah is Filipino when she's pulling out Christmas photos in September 😂😂😂

[@sharonwalker2620]

Im so glad bella is ok x

[@gabrielapadillaesperanza]

Omg Bellaa 🥹❤️ her little arm❤️‍🩹

[@lifeofsenia8854]

Please be cautious! You should be a little more concerned about Bella.

[@kls-9589]

I was heart broken hearing Bella Boo's cry....the heaving cry is the hardest to hear. I am glad to hear and see that she's returned to her normal self.

[@fefe007]

Have an amazing time at the concert!!

[@BrittTuckable]

No one’s going to be sitting down at a Beyoncé concert lol

[@itsJudysLife]

THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYIN!!!!! 💃💃💃

[@erikaarias2122]

Whenever Judy curses I feel like am an actual friend lmao 🤣

[@carlambiag4083]

My child hand a stress fracture, better to keep it stabilized than letting just lose. I took those off too for swimming but through out the day we kept it. I know Bella had no fracture but better safe and following Drs orders. I mean they are Dr. for a reason and you trust them for you guys to even take her getting check off. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@shanw101]

So glad Bella is ok!

[@carmenrael9983]

Could be a Nursemaids Elbow. Seen it many times! Poor baby, quite painful, but relieving once they relocate it. Always check all extremities before doing the relocation. (Squeeze hand, and arm to see if their is pain)

[@Dina8485]

You’ll be super close. Club Renaissance is great tickets. I was in the 300s 😂 show us all the videos pls 😭🙏🏾

[@Nikkix209]

Not the twerking 😂😂😂 I can't with Benji lmao!!

[@joylynmccraw9597]

I cried when I saw Bella like that; my mama heart ached.

[@aleishaj8]

When i was a kid i ran into a wall somehow and jammed my wrist..it hurt for min and then i seemed back to normal so my mom didn't take me to urgent care or anything..a few months later a lump that I still have to this day appeared and I was told it was a cyst that formed from damaged nerves from a break in my wrist that was properly healed. Overall the lump is painless but it hinders my range of motion and I had to give up doing shot putt and discus (sp) because it would get too tight and inflamed. Benji might have been right with this one..just because a kid seems fine doesn't mean they are. I also understand sometimes moms intuition is everything since my mom has been the one to catch other diagnosis the doctor's missed growing up! I hope little one continues to heal! Love your family!

[@aleishaj8]

*improperly healed

[@ANA.sees.the.World12]

10:03 I hope Bella will be ok. Poor baby 😢 Yes! The Filipino wrapper is different than other spring roll wrappers. I prefer the ones Judy has that are made by hand. I don’t like the perfect square ones.