"We Live In Delusion" Pearl Reacts To The Problems With Most Christian Women

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[@mboiko]

Here's the REAL issue...this ain't rocket science. In marriage - - 1) She stays: You pay 2) She goes: You pay 3) She cheats: You pay 4) You go: You pay

[@tdaye6978]

You make more: You pay You make the same: You pay She makes more: You pay

[@oopsdidItypethatoutloud]

Boiled down to it's true fundamentals. Thanks

[@pelumiayo927]

Damn

[@mboiko]

@@pelumiayo927 "Damn" - The sound of Reality hitting the Male Brain...

[@crimestoppers1877]

If she is a "Boss Babe" All the money she earns is HERS, and All the money he earns is Theirs. She always yaps about "her money" but if her husband wants a hobby, she says "We can't afford it".

[@BigStickCombat]

"A lot of church men have never had church women act sexual toward them, so they think women are pure creatures." As a big-time church-goer, this hit home.

[@jonf2009]

When the feminine sex views you as attractive and wants you it is intoxicating. There are reasons why all of known history the sexes kept separated. When my wife passed and I was faxing paperwork/picking up the pieces many women saw it as an opportunity to move into her spot, it is sad when you realize the true behavior behind the lipstick smiles.

[@MrShaneVicious]

Because the pastor is the one getting snatch thrown at him..

[@dojoswitzer]

First girl I kissed was a pastor’s daughter. She acted like I was too inexperienced.

[@VideoArchiveGuy]

Not just church men. All those videos that are "ways to tell a woman is flirting with you?" Never saw any of those, either. To quote the movie "Marty," "Whatever it is that women like, I ain't got it." Not crying in a beer about it, I just notice it (or lack of it) and I've learned to live with it, I've got other things to do.

[@kevinrtres]

@@dojoswitzer Never a truer word spoken!

[@jeremyweishaar9523]

My pastor just finished a 4 week series shaming men. One thing I will never forget is him telling everyone the reason husbands are not getting laid is because they are not catering to the emotional needs of their wives. He literally said that women's emotions are the head of the house. This only told me that he is not getting laid.

[@SomeGuy-xf9bc]

The modern church is possessed by Jezebel.

[@lionvrdies]

Ask him to make a 4 week series shaming woman because there are too many females compromising there faith that think there saved yet act like jezebel . And addressing the mess going on in the church from outside influenece . Both men and woman are to be held to a high standard not just men .

[@LazyH1984]

I quit going to church after my wedding when I realized that they were never going to call out sexless marriage as a violation of the marriage vows.

[@lionvrdies]

@LazyH1984 that's messed up .

[@LazyH1984]

@@lionvrdies 15 years damn near celibate and missed out on having a family too. Can't afford to divorce without making myself homeless because of the biased court system and divorce laws here.

[@doc_adams8506]

I have lived in the Southern Baptist church from birth. Young men are not given a stake in the outcome or a seat at the table. Blaming men has become a national epidemic.

[@garybulwinkle82]

There is a worldwide war on men! The world will come crashing down!!!

[@Jenda-ld8dj]

There is a war on men in this country.

[@1Whipperin]

The infiltration of feminism and egalitarianism into government-sponsored religious organizations, masquerading as the church, can be observed through various means, one of which is the requirement for Pastors to officiate marriages using government-issued marriage licenses. This practice undermines the Biblical patriarchal structure of marriage by subjecting it to governmental oversight and regulation. Historically, marriage has been viewed as patriarchal, wherein the husband holds authority over his wife and family. However, the introduction of marriage license contracts by the government introduced a secular element into the marriage. Pastors who officiate marriages using government-issued licenses have legally destroyed Biblical marriage and promoted an egalitarian view of marital relationships. This governmental intrusion into the religious domain undermines the autonomy of religious organizations and compromises their ability to uphold traditional values and principles. Furthermore, the acceptance of government-mandated marriage licenses tacitly endorses the state's authority over marital affairs, relegating religious institutions to mere conduits of state-sanctioned unions rather than guardians of sacred vows. In this way, feminism and egalitarianism infiltrate religious organizations under the guise of government-sponsored initiatives, eroding traditional patriarchal structures and promoting secular values within the government church.

[@nyahhbinghi]

yes exactly

[@CesarNostradamus-wj9uq]

Direct correlation to suicide rate in men

[@kenman200]

“A beautiful woman who lacks discretion, is like a gold ring in a pig's snout.”

[@godman5043]

Isn't that true. I prefer a woman who dresses with modesty.

[@LordMalice6d9]

@@godman5043I prefer women who dress in long skirts and dresses.

[@TrustinGodaydays]

She is a beautiful woman and she is honest and precious.

[@TA.Muscle]

Lots of womenz with nose rings 🤔

[@sophieruby5893]

How about men who lack discretion?

[@stevengrutzmacher]

As a young Catholic husband, I was shocked to discover the realization that I was sincere in my vows, but the woman isn't. Sex stops almost immediately after she has her desired number of kids. She stay close with her Mom and her girlfriends, mainly to talk about how awful the husbands are ....

[@ianleary5780]

It's not just Catholic women who turn off the tap unilaterally but expect all the stuff they like best to keep coming in ever-increasing amounts.

[@DownTheHill3]

Get a V bro, just don't tell ur church leaders

[@darcydj]

Don’t marry… Get a some kind of Union/Partnership agreement contract. That way if there is divorce you still have most of your stuff. You can risk a prenup but in many cases women are having those thrown out.

[@ianleary5780]

@@darcydj Too true. What is the point of a contract if judges can toss them out whenever they please? It's like women aren't equal to men in their standing to sign legal documents.

[@DudeGuyWho]

Goodness..... I've seen this!

[@DT-abcd]

That is true. My ex wife went on a 2 day Women's Christian meeting. By the time it was over they were telling her to divorce me.

[@BrianMolstad]

Easy to avoid. Don*t marry!

[@hawkfeatheraviation3465]

@@DT-abcd But what was she telling them?

[@wesandell]

As a pastor, the issue of men leaving the church has been a topic of discussion for a long time. However, the solutions have been...create a men's group and do "manly" stuff...like...going on a men's retreat to the woods? Or shaming men into being "real" men, rather than inspiring men to be men. The real problem is that women (particularly older women) control the modern church. Pastors are too afraid to call out the real problems because they don't want to offend the old ladies who are paying their salary. They fear that if they start calling out the ladies for their baloney, they are afraid they will lose their job. And to be fair, that fear is not unfounded. The women in control of the church can get a pastor fired very, very quickly (despite not having any formal power). Why? Because their husbands are weak and will do whatever they say. The pastors are weak and won't risk their jobs. And so...we have the current situation where the modern church is in shambles.

[@calvinmasters6159]

Hats off to pastors. They spend years & thousands getting a bachelors or masters and then relying on the whims of those that want an ROI.

[@harryholiday5356]

Perfect analysis of today's religion institutions.

[@mhib]

This is true! They're afraid to bite the hand that feeds them, regardless of how wrong they may be

[@FloydRunner2049]

The testosterone levels of many 14-40 year old women is higher than ever. The testosterone in men of the same generation has dipped to lower levels than ever in history. Women want diversity and non segregated access everywhere. The gender gap is messed up.

[@zenden6564]

It's very sad it's worked out like that. It underscores why in our culture we are in steep decline. The Bible guided hierarchy is not women over men. Our society today is not Godly at all. We have to protect our religious tradition, not corrupt it with Jezebels and Harridans running the Church.

[@GarthDomokos]

I use to belong to a church group where they gave supposed testimonies. The majority of the group was woman. There was no humility, and no responsibility for their actions in their testimonies. Got to agree with you Pearl.

[@DT61636]

Because, as we know from biblical context, the man pays for the sins of women.... Eve lusted for the serpent and his wares of sin. Who was punished? ALL OF HUMAN KIND! Man has always suffered the sin of women.

[@independentaquaman7424]

Wrong. You left out that Adam lusted for Eve's approval, so he also took the forbidden fruit. If he hadn't God would have provided either a different woman or remade Adam to have his ribcage back so he could have his own womb again.@@DT61636

[@vanillathehexican4142]

@@DT61636 but God punished Adam for following the lead of the woman instead of God....men following women is the foundation of sin in mankind

[@davidm1149]

@@DT61636 And vice versa. We suffer from each other's mistakes. Also, the story of Adam and Eve was an allegory for the attainment of knowledge, it's nothing to do with so called "sin". There also was no man "dying on a cross" for the "sins of mankind". It is all symbolism. No one can "pay off" someone else's karmic debt, if they can , let me know who this magician is, please.

[@independentaquaman7424]

@@davidm1149 False. Heck, even Jesus' haters during His time on earth as a human wrote against Him, and they admit they arranged Him to be sentenced to death. They bragged about it.

[@NeverB_Gameover]

My mom is very religious and always in church every Sunday. Married three times lol.

[@benstandard]

Their own Bible says that remarriage after divorce is adultery.

[@rodprops]

"To have and to hold until DEATH, do you part"! I guess that's a bunch of BS to her! 🤷‍♂️🤦🤦

[@ca8944]

My mom is very religious and would go if she could but she’s disabled. Only married once and only had sex with my dad, who cheated on her. She never got remarried. I guess we all have our anecdotal stories.

[@cxf030181]

I'm sure old blue eyes has a few songs to fit that story, and all the other stories... Life is life. The laws need to change with respect to settlement.

[@karrpilot7092]

My mother goes to church and has been married 4 times. Guess the church thing isn't working so well.....

[@jamesg1974a]

The people who say you can’t generalize are the very first people to turn right around and generalize.

[@Primitarian]

To say one cannot generalize is itself a generalization.

[@HatBilly2008]

I married, a church lady from Russia, she is an orthodox Christian. Get this no drama, and she enjoys being a woman. And she understands a man’s role, and her role in marriage. Get this the better I am to her the more she loves. Our relationship is very close to the series Outlander

[@exploringwithdave5926]

Eastern European women are real women and they want real men and women roles.

[@itsmagnator]

Nice, I'll try to find a girl like that in these countries, Russia, Ukraine and Poland. Poland has a lot of christians girls. I might find something, wish me lucky.

[@michaellb5324]

good for you. I know a man who married to a nice man from russia. He will be probably happy.

[@HatBilly2008]

@@michaellb5324 in Russia to men can not get married, but in the United States it is no problem. Myself, you can marry your dog for what I care, I just do not want you to be able to get a tax break for marriage. in Russia when you see a woman you full understand it is a woman. He sometimes I just cannot tell the difference.

[@michaellb5324]

@@HatBilly2008 you are too serious. It was a joke. Just a joke.

[@asolaris6470]

Accountability is the sure-cure-medicine that no woman wants.

[@leonardstefanyshyn40]

Created the world’s fastest specie.

[@LaVidaLocaHomie]

Accountability is kryptonite to women.

[@ragnardanneskajold1880]

@@LaVidaLocaHomie- you beat me to it! Literal Kryptonite!

[@BelieZver]

God may give second chances, but I don’t think it’s good for men to do so because of the negative impact on the children. My ex-wife significantly underrepresented her promiscuous past and claimed she changed her ways. I married this “church girl” however I shouldn’t have. She had an affair with a ex-boyfriend who was also a ex-felon. She was shocked that I was given custody of the kids and the house. Do I regret my choice, absolutely. I love my kids but I don’t recommend giving any woman with a promiscuous past a chance because of how it has harmed and continues to harm my children.

[@bicyclist2]

You were very lucky. In many states she would still get the house, kids, and half your financial assets.

[@andrewmarshall7569]

I'm so happy to hear of a family court getting it right. My ex did the same as yours and the best I could get was equal custody. I'm not complaining.

[@godman5043]

It's dumb to try and be 'captain-save-a-ho'. I also was a fool. Not no more because I took my cape off and left her.

[@deathcyth1987]

I am a devout Christian, I've been chased out of many many churches for my approach to life. Stoichism was met with hostility, strength was met with accusations. I've been told over and over about sacrificing for women is the christian thing to do. I never saw a christian woman ready to sacrifice for me. Took me 3 decades to find a church that i could call home

[@markrist4238]

What we Catholics are not educated about is that the system of morality that the Church teaches and that by which we are supposed to live is based on Stoicism. The difference is that Stoicism does not accept free will, which makes sense given its philosophical basis. Catholicism unites the Bible with Stoicism and so accepts free will. So, to be Christian and Stoic fits quite will together.

[@benstandard]

So you found a church you liked but you probably never found a quality mate.

[@deathcyth1987]

@benstandard ooooooh look at the church defender trying to dog me for my very real experiences. So very righteous of you. Alao incorrect very happily married to a girl that was saved shortly after we started dating. But Hey nice attempt at ad hominem.

[@timothyblazer1749]

​@@deathcyth1987not ad hominem. Fallacy of assertion. And most church girls are fairly not ok, have a lot of baggage, and are not wife material, so I'd say it was a fair assumption. But I'm glad you found one that wasn't that.

[@timothyblazer1749]

Oh also, Stoicism doesn't deny free will. Otherwise the idea of "control your decisions" would not make sense.

[@allynflinchbaugh4570]

I want my rib back.

[@travismclaurin9419]

😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@jurassicthunder]

bruh 😂

[@josephcernansky1794]

baby got back....makes it a whole other meaning!! LOL

[@michaelkeffer504]

Same here!

[@chasvonplatten1298]

Try Applebee's.

[@grimdicer152]

"It was pride that changed angels into devils; it is humility that makes men as angels." - Saint Augustine

[@believer2388]

Saint Augustine is not in the Bible. Humans aren't angels nor will they magically turn into one. Read the Bible yourself, because this statement is wrong!

[@RudyCarrera]

@@believer2388Protestants blabber about everything and know nothing about the faith they hijacked.

[@ShadeszOfficial]

"Men as angels" is not the same as saying you will become angels, I'm sure to OP its an alagory for behavior and obedience to God just as Saint Augustine originally intended. Also Saint Augustine is not in the bible yes, neither are any pastors or Chrstian leaders from modern day the bible now, but I wouldn't shy away from the teachings of those like Frank Turek or Voddie Baucham just because they arent in the bible. (as long as it doesn't go against Gods word) Hope you're having a good day!

[@mbfrommb3699]

@@ShadeszOfficial I would avoid those 2 their theology is terrible. Frank's below average, Voddie is a false teacher and he is the closest to a heretic (without being called one) I can find.

[@ShadeszOfficial]

@@mbfrommb3699 may I please have more than your word on why these men are what you say they are?

[@MarsOcto]

My ex wife started going to church and 6 months later she was gone…

[@kengaroo5170]

She was looking for support to leave you. Mine did the same. They don't want to look bad. They want to be seen as victims. Expect her to be dating on the internet and riding the carousel 🎠.

[@gregoryvanikiotis3214]

That’s par for the course

[@charliechristmas5147]

Just looking up where my nearest church is…..I shall leave the details out for her

[@dedkat7]

She wasn't yours it was just your turn

[@benstandard]

Modern marriage is a farce.

[@MrKrushgutz]

I left a church because the pastor said that the world would be a better place if women were in charge. He also said that a real man accepts it when his wife is better than him.

[@AndreiPopescu]

There were examples of women leading, but they weren't better or worse than men, so a matriarchy would just be a patriarchy with the sexer reversed. He was however right about the fact that a real man accepts it when his wife is better than him, because if he didn't, he would just be a sore loser. Admitting that someone is better doesn't mean you gave up on trying to improve.

[@christophercoupe5006]

Women have more power today than ever and look how screwed up the world is!!!! So women in charge God help us!!!!!

[@justicerealm1]

Find a church that has biblical Teachings not demonic.

[@joemgtow8751]

This is why as a divorced man I don’t go to church either they shun me for being divorced or they want me to marry the single mother that has been through one or more divorces

[@deathcyth1987]

It's a freaking disgrace, what has become of our church.

[@paulsid15]

I turned to God after my second divorce after catching my now ex wife cheating. Any church that makes you feel bad about your past isn't living up to what Christ taught us. I have been divorced twice and God is using me. I am a chaplain in the Combat Veterans Motorcycle Association and in the VFW. I am not a church leader and I can't find a biblical church around me. So God is using me to get his word out in other ways. Reaching people who need to hear the word. People who aren't going into churches. I would remind the church that there is NO condemnation in Christ. The enemy is just as busy inside the church as he is outside the church. I'm sorry those calling themselves Christians are misrepresenting Christ and doing the exact thing he said not to do. That's religion.

[@ca8944]

Aren’t you being a hypocrite? You don’t want them to judge you about being divorced but you’re judging a divorced woman? What did I miss?

[@pmaitrasm]

@@ca8944, What is wrong about being judgemental? Everybody is judgemental. John the Baptist, to Jesus, to Saint Paul - all were judgmental.

[@ca8944]

@@pmaitrasm my point exactly!

[@FireFighterChen]

Red Pill is not just about sexual value. It's about accepting reality about everything in life. Work, finances, relationships, health, politics, etc. That's why MGTOW is getting big, because we took sexual value out to focus on everything else.

[@dedkat7]

Copetow lol

[@FireFighterChen]

@@dedkat7 Enjoy your divorce.

[@iamsyourdadi]

@@dedkat7 😂😂😂😂

[@Muck006]

It is mostly about DIVORCE and FAMILY COURT INJUSTICE ... and also about WARNING ABOUT FALSE ACCUSATIONS (which are made for divorce and parental rights court cases). The media mostly only talk about "men being bad" ... but they neglect to mention that every woman that "gave favors to Harvey W." COULD HAVE SAID NO and walked away ... but didnt!

[@josephrohland5604]

MGTOW?

[@AndrewReevesArt]

Any church that caters to the emotional needs of women does not cater to the spiritual needs of the congregation. ✝️

[@Ezekiel33USA]

This is funny because it reminded of when I was dating my wife and we first got married. We are both Christians and she was a virgin, but I was not. We would do the usual kissing and things that would get hot and heavy while we were dating, but I would always try to refrain to taking it too far since I knew she wanted to wait until marriage. After about three months of this she finally just gives in and then leads me to her bedroom and we have sex. We then continued to have sex until we got married. After we got married she felt so guilty about having sex before marriage it really put a strain on our marriage that first year. The whole time she was blaming me. We finally worked it out and moved past it, but I brought it up again recently (25 years later) and she was still blaming me for it. I told her, "don't you remember that it was you that lead me in to your bedroom? I didn't pressure you to have sex, you willingly wanted it". She didn't even remember that it was her that wanted it. Woman are like children when it comes to accountability and Christian woman are no different. SMH!

[@Ezekiel33USA]

@@rodtack8420 That is true from a secular perspective and even from a Christian perspective it clearly states that if a man has sex with a virgin before marriage that he is just required to marry her. It doesn't state that he has committed a grave sin that requires him and her to be stoned to death or something. I tried to explain that to her, but she was so programmed in her youth that remaining a virgin until marriage was the most sacred thing you could do really messed with her mind when she didn't follow through on that and like a typical woman needed someone else to blame. 😂

[@Streamlined955]

It’s weird how women create alternate histories to blame someone else.

[@JA-jm8bk]

And you are ignorant for generalzing, buddy.

[@wwm8]

I am so sorry. On behalf of all women I am so sorry. How you stayed with this woman I don't know. What is wrong with people, and Christians, today?!? Every person has to deal with their own sin or life choices. Why didn't she?!?!!! All that time wasted. Her life wasted blaming you & she wasted it because she chose to. Again, I'm so sorry for her blaming you for the 1 thing on Earth that takes 2 to complete 🙄

[@andrewmarshall7569]

@@wwm8 It isn't your job to apologize on behalf of all women. There are good men and women out there, but they take effort to find. I hope the guy's wife doesn't utilize the same "logic" is used when women say it is her husband/partner's fault for her falling into bed with someone else and having an affair. The mental gymnastics for her to continue to blame her husband 25 years later is ludicrous.

[@SA-vz7qi]

The Daily Wire types are actually un-Christian. Jesus didn't deny sinners responsibility for their actions. He forgave them when they had accepted responsibility for their actions. He didn't say: "Men made you do it" or "The Romans made you do it" They took responsibility and he recognised that. Daily Wire just say: "Feminism made them do it."

[@anthonylogiudice9215]

Jesus was forgiving but he was stern. You confess your sins, you are forgiven (by a priest who is a stand-in for Jesus/Apostles), and don't do it again.

[@exothermal.sprocket]

Confess what, exactly? Individual sins the perpetrator is aware of? No. The real nature of a sinner is like a sponge in the sea, and the water is sin. It's an appeal to Jesus for mercy, fully understanding that one is entirely and utterly undeserving.

[@SA-vz7qi]

@ lifted_above Do you think there is no requirement for taking responsibility for action?

[@exothermal.sprocket]

@@SA-vz7qi What is it that defiles a person, in God's sight? How is it that such a person can become justified by God? That's the real issue. Responsibility for identity comes before responsibility for action. What a person does is because of what a person is. _But those things which proceed out of the mouth come forth from the heart; and they defile the man. For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies: These are the things which defile a man: but to eat with unwashen hands defileth not a man._ Matthew 15:18-20 KJB

[@kevinrtres]

@@anthonylogiudice9215 *...You confess your sins, you are forgiven (by a priest who is a stand-in for Jesus/Apostles), and don't do it again....* I confess directly to God the Father, no human priest required. Jesus made a way for us into the holiest of holy places - into God's direct presence.

[@thefobiddenbookshelf7560]

Women were willingly snookered. They wanted to buy the rubbish.

[@blayne369]

They run on feelings and feelings are fleeting, were men run on logic and it’s the foundation of society

[@bradadams-broyd4763]

I like snooker as a game it can be a tactic I in 8 ball pool also

[@jeremygrant1325]

Christianity promoted women's rights more than any time in history until the women's liberation movement, and we can see how that's working out for women.

[@Sketch_Sesh]

@@jeremygrant1325exactly.. I visited a lot of different churches during the height of the culture war and they were some of the biggest promoters

[@irshadazeez4764]

Snookered lol

[@dr.dealgood2690]

Pearl, you should interview the Christian red Pill community. They have been talking about why men have left the Churches for decades.

[@zevolfearizona2113]

The "Church" and church building goers that are often referred to as churchianity are two entirely different things. Convincing church building people of this is extraordinarily difficult and frustrating.

[@Jimvandesteeg]

I agree... That would be a good interview.

[@Angrybogan]

Dalrock was a pioneer in the Christian red-pill. After nearly 40 million readers and years of anonymity, he stopped.

[@paulsid15]

The ones leaving the church are the ones who usually had one foot in heaven and one foot in the world. God is pouring his spirit out on men like me. Men who ran from God, men who have done terrible things. He is using men like me to reach those who need to hear it the most. He told us about the falling away from the church, but he also told us he's going to pour his spirit out and that's exactly what's going on.

[@Lync1111]

Now you know they will attack her on her points of views right

[@RafaelSantos-vg3jd]

Married twice. Both to Christian women who were involved in church. Both divorced me and not for any Biblical reasons. Both left me with nothing after the divorce and I had to rebuild my life twice. Never again.

[@gregoryvanikiotis3214]

How Christian,stay away from those phony institutions.That dogma will stress you out and deliver nothing.

[@lordd794]

If you weren’t smart enough to get a pre-nuptial agreement after the first one ended badly, that’s on you.

[@gregh2880]

Exactly my life's story. 4 Elders from our church talked to my (now) ex-wife. All 4 told her that in no way does she have ANY Biblical reasons to divorce me. She ghosted them immediately.....

[@josephcernansky1794]

Your mistake is continuing to call them "Christian". They may have been involved in "church" but doesn't sound Christian from what you just posted.

[@AllHandlesRTaken]

Chances are she was hooking up with other males, outside the church. But she made the churchgoing boyfriend wait as a test. It's always the innocent looking ones.

[@ResisterCIO]

Oh man, I was saying that just yesterday.

[@2needey1]

Yep

[@Gods-bad-boy]

Red pill philosophy is just understanding male and female nature. It's not a "movement." Its a philosophy for each man to figure out for himself.

[@friedmule5403]

Woman: "Beautiful new vase for free, beautiful new vase for free" Random man: "oops I broke it lol" Woman: "Broken used vase, $500"

[@user-xz2jb8fk6c]

Woman logic

[@emperorfancypants2512]

Perfect comparison, this is how they think

[@eliseuhackbarth7003]

Exactly.

[@douglasdarling7606]

Wow🤭😂🤣😭💀🧟👀👀🧠🤤

[@patnor7354]

Broken used toilet paper...

[@robertmcginness4610]

1st point. ALEX. S. " The West has lost their sense of sin." Even in or out of Church they don't know what sin is. Period!

[@Hope_Boat]

☦amen

[@jrj10a]

The problems we facing as men or women: 1) Lack of good role models. 2) Personal accountability. 3) Bad Friends 4) Bad Advice 5) Too Much Social Media 6) Lack of actual knowledge and wisdom (lack of reason and lack of information and lack of understanding) 7 Lack of wanting to Fix my situation (just blame somebody else and give me a hand out).

[@Lync1111]

Amen brother!

[@exothermal.sprocket]

Agreed. At the root of it all is selfishness; pride. The root sin that brought about Lucifer's rebellion in Heaven and ultimately the rebellion of man upon the earth. And it persists today.

[@gregprince5283]

In the book of Timothy, it says women are not supposed to speak in the church. They are supposed to sit quietly

[@independentaquaman7424]

That is taken out of context. Plus not fully translated. The proper word is wives (not women). Otherwise, you as a single man should be having both hands always lifted up and always praying.

[@davidkeller6156]

Timothy wasn’t written by Paul and contradicts what he says in the epistles he did write. Galatians 3:28 “there is neither male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” There were women teachers known to Paul, Priscilla and Phoebe.

[@Eric1948-]

Have you ever heard of Deborah in the Old testament? She was the judge. Or how about Priscilla in the New testament? How about the four virgins that prophesied in the new testament? While the pastor is preaching nobody should talk

[@qwazse4]

@@davidkeller6156how is the authorship of a saint other than Paul relevant? It’s the cannon of scripture and constitutes advice to a pastor dealing with contention in an assembly. It’s pure folly to take it lightly.

[@DangleSan]

​@@davidkeller6156the order God gave us is Jesus Man Woman Child Dont know why Christians are always have trouple accepting this That galatians verse is always misquoted, He is talking about the spirit

[@AnonymousSquirrel123]

*Pearl, you are spot on, but you don't know about one thing: as we age, we change a LOT more than women do. By middle age, most of us have 1 or 2 crazy ex's under our belt, and we have arrived at a point where our trust (and with it, our desire) for women is starting to attenuate. By age 50 or 60, most of us are quite happy to be close to celibate - the BS just isn't worth the trouble.*

[@kennethsmith6367]

👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿

[@dedkat7]

So you become incels, gotcha

[@AnonymousSquirrel123]

@@dedkat7 *Really? That's the best you can do?*

[@mcnut1]

Very well written. You nailed it. (This from a 70 year old single male).

[@benstandard]

My desire started to wain by my mid to late forties and even more so in my fifties.

[@weirdacreshomestead3489]

The biggest problem with many women today, weather they are Christian or not, is that they expect the men to do everything. Marriage is a partnership, each should work equally to make a good home and love equally.

[@josepablolunasanchez1283]

The problem of looking for lost lambs, people who party a lot and are "living la vida loca" is that in time the church will be filled with these people.

[@TraditionalAnglican]

The churches were filled with lost lambs, prodigal sons & prostitutes in the 1st - 3rd Centuries, but absolutely refused to accept lack of repentance & accountability & blaming others for one’s sins, and this applied to all those in the congregations from catechumens to metropolitans & popes. The problem isn’t gathering lost sheep - It’s not requiring “fruits worthy of repentance” from both men & women !!

[@rangerscoach]

Michael Knowles arguing for marriage to OF models was peak trad con madness

[@ThePlainNsimple]

Exactly. MK doesn't realize this makes him a raging, flaming, feminist.

[@raypatson8775]

There were some really shocking moments in that interview and a eye opener.

[@pmaitrasm]

He advocated staying married even after paternity fraud.

[@suhaibsuhaib5947]

​@@pmaitrasm🤦‍♂️😂

[@festernassociates]

😂😂😂

[@mikepotopea1882]

Catholic girls were at the top of our party invite lists when I was in my teens and twenties. Enough said.

[@Muck006]

"More people" returned from catholic camps than went there ...

[@TyranyFighterPatriot]

I'll be damned if ima be so irresponsible as to involve myself with a retired party girl...

[@kevinrtres]

yes...

[@garybulwinkle82]

They get forgiveness with daddy's money!!!

[@tonys9102]

Who are you? Frank Zappa?

[@OldCanadianguy953]

George Carlin nailed it. People go to church to compare clothing.

[@sidearmsalpha]

I still pray to Joe Pesci and get better results. 😆

[@14margott]

Clothing is far more interesting than the sermons. Also the cookies afterwards.

[@dangremillion]

Church is a cheap country club that is so easy to join.

[@sidearmsalpha]

@@14margott 🤣

[@gregoryvanikiotis3214]

And young girlfriends

[@John__-ie3od]

This is why MGTOW is the answer.

[@TyranyFighterPatriot]

Yep AWALT

[@essencetaiji1745]

Assuming personal responsibility is the best antidote to the mental illness of our times. Anytime we play the victim card we weaken our willpower and we degrade ourselves and our society.

[@shadowman5567]

When I was young, the saying was "Don't look for a girlfriend at church". 😆

[@gregoryvanikiotis3214]

I never did being the Agnostic that l am.

[@exothermal.sprocket]

I never did, being raised in the Baptist movement. I'm not a denomination adherent anymore. I simply read and believe the King James Bible. I eventually found a few small groups who hold up the scripture as supreme, not institutions and sects and cults.

[@moose_tracks41]

@@exothermal.sprocket amen!!!

[@rickyroost7732]

You are correct. In the typical church the sermon on Father's Day tells the men they are falling short and need to step up to their responsibilities, no encouragement for those that are really doing their best. Fathers leave the sermon defeated. On Mother's Day they pastors honor the women. There is an implied and sometimes stated message that it is the husband's job to make the wife happy. Therefore, if the wife is unhappy, it is on the husband. Faithful mothers and fathers are both due encouragement. Many pastors are actually afraid to challenge the women. At the same time men are admonished to be the leader of the home without the crucial part of that message that one cannot lead without another willing to follow. I have had a number of fellow Christian good men essentially say, "I am the head of the house but if my wife disagrees, I always do what she wants because I love her, or she is so wonderful". Few men in this culture are truly leading in their home. the pastors chastise them for this but enable the women to not accept the husbands leadership.

[@LazyH1984]

I stopped going to church when I realized that they refused to call out sexless marriage as a violation of the marriage vows. I followed the rules and waited for marriage like I was taught and I waited for nothing. I'll never set foot in a church again. They ruined my life.

[@benstandard]

The evangelical churches also teach that people should refrain from intimacy until marriage when they're not virgins. That's absurd.

[@LazyH1984]

@@benstandard 15 years of damn near celibacy and missed out on having a family because of it.

[@patrickday4206]

It is marital unfaithfulness

[@LazyH1984]

​@@patrickday4206 yes. The church will never say it out loud though. Since women make up 2/3 of the congregation, the church will never say anything to upset them. The butts in the seats put the dollar bills in the collection plates.

[@welllll...ok...]

The bible says not to deny your spouse. Scriptures carry more weight than what people say. Know thy scriptures...

[@jeremycole3008]

That girl didn't "loose" her virginity, she's gave it away freely. No police report, no loss

[@DutchCobbler]

She's likely too young to have ever seen or cared about it, but the red pill was adopted from a 1999 movie, The Matrix, and is essentially about being exposed to the absolute truth. No judgement, no preference, only reality. "This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill - the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill - you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes. *Remember, all I'm offering is the truth, nothing more.”* ― Morpheus

[@cuttlefishrabbit]

Duh

[@klaw1425]

But rabbits 🐇 don't dig holes 😏

[@josephcernansky1794]

@@klaw1425 yes they do!!! You obviously DON'T own a rabbit or know anything about rabbits!!

[@mikegmedia8589]

Pearl is 100% correct. Ive seen this time and time again in modern churches

[@1Whipperin]

The infiltration of feminism and egalitarianism into government-sponsored religious organizations, masquerading as the church, can be observed through various means, one of which is the requirement for Pastors to officiate marriages using government-issued marriage licenses. This practice undermines the Biblical patriarchal structure of marriage by subjecting it to governmental oversight and regulation. Historically, marriage has been viewed as patriarchal, wherein the husband holds authority over his wife and family. However, the introduction of marriage license contracts by the government introduced a secular element into the marriage. Pastors who officiate marriages using government-issued licenses have legally destroyed Biblical marriage and promoted an egalitarian view of marital relationships. This governmental intrusion into the religious domain undermines the autonomy of religious organizations and compromises their ability to uphold traditional values and principles. Furthermore, the acceptance of government-mandated marriage licenses tacitly endorses the state's authority over marital affairs, relegating religious institutions to mere conduits of state-sanctioned unions rather than guardians of sacred vows. In this way, feminism and egalitarianism infiltrate religious organizations under the guise of government-sponsored initiatives, eroding traditional patriarchal structures and promoting secular values within the government church.

[@hooterville1863]

The most gynocentric place in any community is the local conservative church.

[@Semiam1]

Amen!

[@bushy9780]

i think it's fair to say women were duped by feminism. I think it's also fair to say millennials were duped into college. You underestimate how powerful propaganda can be.

[@1Whipperin]

The infiltration of feminism and egalitarianism into government-sponsored religious organizations, masquerading as the church, can be observed through various means, one of which is the requirement for Pastors to officiate marriages using government-issued marriage licenses. This practice undermines the Biblical patriarchal structure of marriage by subjecting it to governmental oversight and regulation. Historically, marriage has been viewed as patriarchal, wherein the husband holds authority over his wife and family. However, the introduction of marriage license contracts by the government introduced a secular element into the marriage. Pastors who officiate marriages using government-issued licenses have legally destroyed Biblical marriage and promoted an egalitarian view of marital relationships. This governmental intrusion into the religious domain undermines the autonomy of religious organizations and compromises their ability to uphold traditional values and principles. Furthermore, the acceptance of government-mandated marriage licenses tacitly endorses the state's authority over marital affairs, relegating religious institutions to mere conduits of state-sanctioned unions rather than guardians of sacred vows. In this way, feminism and egalitarianism infiltrate religious organizations under the guise of government-sponsored initiatives, eroding traditional patriarchal structures and promoting secular values within the government church.

[@chriscampbell9191]

Not just millennials. A lot of the two preceding generations were sold a load of goods about college, too. Told that certain fields would be great jobs, and then you graduate and the work is being outsourced overseas. The problem has been going on a long time, it's just that the Millennials really took the brunt of it.

[@michaelhord]

The leading cause of divorce is.......................................Wedding cake

[@juliabliss1477]

..Not being devoted to God together & not saving sex for marriage.

[@exothermal.sprocket]

Actually marriage is the leading cause of divorce. But that's a bit obvious.

[@ThrowItOnTheGrill]

What is the most toxic food? Wedding cake.

[@garybulwinkle82]

A wedding is a funeral with cake!!

[@exothermal.sprocket]

Funny how everyone blames food, cakes, ceremonies, celebrations when it's the PERSON that makes or breaks it all. And don't blame others when you've made terrible people choices.

[@malcolmthimmanah5459]

It’s so hard dealing with these females Pearl. You are putting yourself in the fire and it’s admirable. It’s so hard for us males to deal with this handicap. Thank you for the work you doing 🙏

[@novasociety]

It’s not that they’re delusional. They’re intentionally doing it. They know they’re wrong but they’re doing it intentionally that’s probably worse.

[@soldierx2]

"Get a police report, otherwise I don't believe you." that was profound. I never even thought of that. My ex filed 2 false PFA's on me (even though I've never even raised a finger to her) and we never had one single Police call to our house.

[@darcydickson]

My ex wife tried that shit with me. I figured she might try it so I would always have my phone recording in my pocket when we interacted. After the cops came I showed them the vidoe/audio so was not arrested. The bullshit part was they would not arrest/charge her for filing a false report. I told them it was complete BS. They wouldv'e belived her had I not had the recording. I'm automatically guilty as a 6"4 guy that weight trains. She's small 5'3 110lbs.

[@soldierx2]

@@darcydickson there has to be some punishment for lying. Otherwise civilization cannot exist.

[@scubadivingadventures1412]

@@darcydicksonLeave a 1 star review on the google page of the police department. And explain they do sexist discrimination and encourage other people to sue them for it

[@wexusdotcom]

When churches agree with SIN lifestyle - Let them reap the rewards according to their support & deeds... When tree's do not produce fruit... Know them according to their deeds...

[@tjmaverick1765]

I've heard it said that a man will sacrifice his feelings for his family, a woman will sacrifice her family for her feelings.

[@chestrockwell8328]

As I've learned from Jordan Peterson, though I'm sure many others know as well...Women score high in Agreeableness, hardly will they ever take their own path and especially when influenced by friend groups, marketing, social media...very much Hive Mind Creatures. Then add in the lack of Accountability and Reason and here we are.

[@buzzingels6822]

Eliminating school loans/grants would be one of the quickest ways to return parity between the sexes.

[@nunyab1975]

I think that’s too hard to get done (not disagreeing). A more achievable goal would be to only grant loans in proportion to the expected earning potential of the degree.

[@pmaitrasm]

@@nunyab1975, Or stop all loans altogether. All loans. No mortgage. No credit cards.

[@chrismoore58]

How? Why?

[@andrewslagle1974]

You borrow money from the TAX PAYERS YOU PAY YOUR DEBT BACK !no questions or exceptions . NO FREE RIDES FOR ANY ONE!!!

[@josephcernansky1794]

@@andrewslagle1974 STOP the Educational(INDOCTRINATION)Corporate/Industrial Complex!!! STOP PROPAGANDIZING kids to go into DEBT for life!!! MOST will NEVER use that degree and those that do get jobs in their fields, will NEVER use 90% of what they paid for!! Only 15% or LESS of those that get degrees in Engineering will ever do any "engineering". Most will tell you they could do their "engineering" job without all that engineering education.

[@johnroesch2159]

Red pill and blue pill are terms taken from the movie The Matrix where Neo has to decide whether to take the blue pill and stay in the computer generated illusion of the Matrix or take the red pill and wake up to reality free of the Matrix. The red pill stands for reality or being realistic.

[@DavidSagala-vs7yf]

Amen, pleasing women is impossible. The more you do for women the more unhappy they are. I’m gracefully bowing out. Peace

[@sfertonoc]

Unfortunately the guilt on men works because men are known to be capable of feeling guiltynwhereas women NEVER, in the archetypical sense of it. She was not ashamed, she was gaming it and afraid of losing, BIG Difference.

[@ot23234]

Women only feel shame, not guilt. Guilt is 100% internal and related to honor; shame is about how others view you.

[@14margott]

Not anymore. Nobody gives a flying f...how others view them. Even at job interviews.Guilt is related to inferiority complexes coming from twisted family systems. E.g. typical Christian family. Honour is gained via dignity, which does not come for free but is paid for dearly . Very few achieve to become honorable in this life but most make big empty talk about it trying to claim it.

[@sfertonoc]

@14margott Puritan, pure from anxieties... so typical of today's youth wishing to return to the childhood of disconnected thinking.

[@josephcernansky1794]

@@14margott Your definitions of Guilt and Shame are off. Guilt is saying that you DID wrong. Shame is saying that you ARE wrong. READ below.

[@Zach-sg5uu]

“Men are not dying to wife up women that have crazy pasts!!”

[@framemartgallery4619]

I could sense you were leading up to..."yes I can" regarding generalizations. Pause "...kiss my ass" was the cherry on top. I laughed so hard.

[@user-bb9qi8bj5s]

Where does the line start for the smooching of Pearl's Derriere? :O

[@mikhalize]

Wonderful overview of the Church. Bravo Pearl! The Church is in a horrid state. Please keep in mind, there are strong apologist out there calling for accountability in the Church.

[@1Whipperin]

The infiltration of feminism and egalitarianism into government-sponsored religious organizations, masquerading as the church, can be observed through various means, one of which is the requirement for Pastors to officiate marriages using government-issued marriage licenses. This practice undermines the Biblical patriarchal structure of marriage by subjecting it to governmental oversight and regulation. Historically, marriage has been viewed as patriarchal, wherein the husband holds authority over his wife and family. However, the introduction of marriage license contracts by the government introduced a secular element into the marriage. Pastors who officiate marriages using government-issued licenses have legally destroyed Biblical marriage and promoted an egalitarian view of marital relationships. This governmental intrusion into the religious domain undermines the autonomy of religious organizations and compromises their ability to uphold traditional values and principles. Furthermore, the acceptance of government-mandated marriage licenses tacitly endorses the state's authority over marital affairs, relegating religious institutions to mere conduits of state-sanctioned unions rather than guardians of sacred vows. In this way, feminism and egalitarianism infiltrate religious organizations under the guise of government-sponsored initiatives, eroding traditional patriarchal structures and promoting secular values within the government church.

[@thinkingman07]

Good point. They want the stability of a principled man but don't want to respect them or allow them to be leaders.

[@johnnybr85]

I'm catholic 39yo, no kids, working hard, going to church kinda man, trying to find a good catholic woman to raise a family that understands love in its reality and believe in the sacrament of marriage. And I agree with Pearl, it's hard find a good one... Most don't understand their place anymore.

[@garybulwinkle82]

They are not taught virtue and femininity anymore! We have thrown God out of our schools, courts, Government and the Ten Commandments are ridiculed. It's no wonder our civilization is crumbling right in front of our eyes!

[@ResisterCIO]

Don't believe these Church gals for a minute. As a HS Senior, my friend BEGGED me to go on a teen weekend retreat with his Church, telling me how all the gals were hot. I thought he was full of crap. Well, I finally broke down and went and WOW. They were far MORE 'outgoing' than the Goth girl circle I was also hanging with who were tender and slow going in comparison! I'm talking they were handsy 10 minutes into the bus ride.

[@gregorysheindlin2296]

It's the same issue as in modern "marriages: Women want to be led but are unwilling to follow. The dominate the spaces such as churches, government, academia. Lacking any accountability women develop bizarre views that clash with reality and men are departing in droves.

[@benstandard]

Modern marriage is a farce and the institution itself needs to be abolished. The government shouldn't be involved in it at all.

[@mountnman3609]

Makes me think of all the women following Beth Moore.

[@firebird5288]

I waited 5 years. 5 YEARS to sleep with my girlfriend. You know how I finally got to sleep with her? I had to marry her. And you know what? I get laughed at by Christian men and women for waiting till marriage to have sex. She's the only women I've ever sleep with. Do you know what happens to a sexless relationship after 5 years? You grow apart. And it wires your brain to not be attracted to each other. And now I have a very hard time not to cheat. Because when you wait to have sex it wires your brain to think, "ok, I'm not supposed to find this women sexually attractive...but I need sex...so I guess I gotta find it elsewhere." How freaking tragic!

[@oopsdidItypethatoutloud]

I have twin girls. One is about to get married. They lived in the library rather than in social media. They seriously dislike much of the... lets say this Modern World They went to Korea for a year as part of a degree (a useful one) where one met a really good man and will be getting married soon. They both know 1 thing... a person whith commitment and works hard for the family is worth more than their weight in gold. No amount of 0's on a pay slip or in the bank can buy that. IT IS PURE GOLD He came from the other side if the planet to meet me, to show me he is a good hard working man. I'll still pray for it to work, not assume 🙏

[@erikpronovost5175]

A neighbor comes over for coffee and wants me to come to church to meet her twice divorced assistant paster because she's just delightful

[@garybulwinkle82]

RUN!!!

[@michaelbuteau4183]

Really fast.

[@mountnman3609]

Women initiate divorce 70% of the time... and she's divorced twice? I could see MAYBE once, the husband was abusive, but a second time??? Me thinks she has unrealistic expectations. As a woman pastor, I expect she'll twist and turn the Bible to justify what she says and does. I've got a friend from church who just got divorced. HE FILED. He was broken up about it, but felt no alternative. I've never sensed any adultery involved, by either. Considering men only file 30% of the time and eliminating cheating from either or, I figure she must be a real witch to live with. If a man is willing to kick a woman to the curb, in todays gynocentric court system, she must really be a peach.

[@JerryHeughins-os2os]

It's wierd I was in a church in Florida where they fed my ex wife's delusion that I was abusive and encouraged her to file for divorce. I felt betrayed, and havnt been back

[@cindystuder9090]

I once had an older church lady tell me that men are the head of the family but the woman is the neck and she can turn his head to whatever it is she thinks he should be doing. Yikes. Yes feminism is in the church. It's geared ro them through the Jesus is my boyfriend songs and the unbiblical women only Bible study taught by other feminists. I left a church because of that. I'm not perfect and neither is my husband but I don't want to control my husband or the church I go to. As a Christian I understand how much responsibility comes with that and I'd rather the men be rightly in charge of that. We ladies still have our say on all issues but they are the authority. A d as long as what they are doing is biblical I have no issue with any of it. Very blessed to have a husband who understands his role and takes it seriously, even though he's sometimes not so willing to stick his neck out because he's a quiet guy and doesn't like to ruffle fearhers.

[@carlmanis879]

One woman that was high in the church leader ship was bent over in front of me with a loose top. I thought maybe she don't know what she doing I seen my wife coming. I stood in a way to block my wife approach when she was close enough to see she adjusted her top and stood up. After I ask my did you see what I seen. She said yes and from that time on she stayed closer to me at church. My wife was the best Christian Woman she never said no to me.

[@robertsullivan5626]

i did make six figures but had a kid and his mom took 70 percent of my paycheck for seven years so i just gave up and i caught her dating a child molester and reported it in seattle and lost my kid. haven;t seen my son in eight years found out were she moved from seattle for georgia just going to walk around that town saying i love my son and to keep child molesters from kids she did bite me and hit me while holding my son when i took her phone cops came i had marks all over my body she had none and the cops told me i was lucky she said i didn't touch her i just laughed and gave up

[@AdV3nt5187]

America is a joke...

[@Sketch_Sesh]

And she’ll most likely tell your kid you didn’t want to have anything to do with him and brain wash him into hating you

[@michaelbuteau4183]

You're right, America did turn into a joke and that joke aint funny?

[@BigBlobProductions]

I have been becoming more and more dissolutioned with America every year. I sometimes wonder if I should move to a 3rd world country where society still has a sense of right from wrong? ​@@AdV3nt5187

[@patnor7354]

You should have gone further

[@CANIGAW]

Narcissism is the biggest movement of this age...

[@1Skeptik1]

I will put Pearl on my Christmas donation list.

[@virtuousvoice]

This is a great topic to cover. Pearl nailed it. These are all reasons why I left non-denom/evangelical Christianity and converted to Eastern Orthodoxy.

[@irshadazeez4764]

What is the difference in Eastern orthodox?

[@kevinrtres]

Are you a born again Christian? What's so special about eastern orthodoxy?

[@chey7773]

​@irshadazeez4764 The western orthodoxy are largely the same as evangelical Christians, basically. For one example.

[@Jeff-ng5ig]

Pure bible christianity is the answer. It's the oil that got into the pure water over the last 2000 years that has wrecked it.

[@zhshsG7]

As an orthodox Christian by birth, I'd like to know to what are the differences in your opinion

[@rhunter762i]

It's SO terribly simple; Men AREN'T going to pay NEW CAR PRICE, for USED cars.... they MIGHT buy a used car; but they're GOING to drive it; and it WON'T be "full-price". I GUARANTEE you. And if the car won't "work"/ drive, [contol with sex], the car is WORTHLESS, and will be DUMPED. [gets "burned, stolen, trashed", etc.] There's a LESSON, there...

[@coymiller6011]

Women never finish that verse. The second half of that verse says “women submit unto your husbands as Christ submits unto the father”

[@brandonflorida1092]

Yes, a marriage in which the wife doesn't subordinate her will to that of her husband is contrary to nature and bound to fail.

[@danpowell5286]

The problem is the waiting, men need to get married to a partner as young as the possibly can. This is the only way both situations can be satisfied.

[@DonAsk-ks2qy]

Crystal said she was disgusted by her past, that's exactly what men think about her past.

[@Gastonicus]

As an evangelical friend of mine sorta said: It is funny how the church is filled with single moms…and I am not willing to pay someone else’s enjoyment. Hence why a lot of Christian men do not marry.

[@quattrocity9620]

"She's asking for a higher price, by doing nothing but praying." LOL

[@joeschlotthauer840]

Religion is a business. You can be "religious" but not necessarily moral. You can live a moral/spiritual life, and not be religious.

[@gregoryvanikiotis3214]

The most socially minded,moral and humane individuals have been secular humanists who have rejected the idea of any supernatural being.

[@quinty26]

The concept of 'morality' is from religion. Morals are not arbitrary.

[@parabellum4622]

Alright this is definitely your most raw form and the silver lining of everything that you do Pearl and I would definitely enjoy more of this.

[@mutsuzawa]

THANK YOU FOR TALKING ABOUT THIS!!

[@louiegarcia4470]

Thank you for saying what I've seen and witnessed in the church !

[@cryptocorey8582]

I grew up in the church. after highschool majority of people left the church. All the people who did not leave the church were mixed both men and women. every single person I knew in church as a young adult were all both men and women virgins except one or 2. They all got married to each other and live normal good lives, some with kids, some with no kids. They all have really solid marriages. The problem is people living their lives how they want to live them and not how God wants them to live. Usually people claiming to be christians look no different than the world. You know someone by their fruits, thats how we knew who were followers of teh way vs people who are Christian in name only. and I'm 37 and my wife is 30, most of our friends are between 30-40 today. Lastly about 75% of people after highschool leave the church never to come back, the reason is they want to live their lives how they want to live while the christians deny themselves and pursue christ and what he wants for our lives. not exactly a message that wins most people.

[@godman5043]

An auditorium style church is not all that. House churches from the book of Acts are the standard.

[@cryptocorey8582]

@godman5043 the church at Ephesus had 25,000 people and Paul wrote letters to them that made it into the bible

[@clubdesalud1488]

I left the church because of manipulation. I started to enjoy that abundant life once I threw a lot of it out the window after so much questioning. Granted there is wisdom taught and I have much not bragging just life experience and some good things i did learn in the evangelical church culture but hell no I AM NOT GOING BACK! The Kingdom of THEOS is in me! I am one with him and he with me. No matter where I am or what I do whether wise, stupid, good or evil THEOS is always me.

[@chriscampbell9191]

People leave church for a lot of valid reasons. Glad to hear that in your small group of college age adults -- the age group that church caters to the most -- that most found partners and are still together a decade later. In the church I attended the church cared about that age group, so it's believable. However, if you were an older, single man all they had for you was the big middle finger -- except when they wanted money. Actually, my mother was much older than me, and she was single (a widow), and that's all they had for her, too. She left and eventually found a partner in a pub. Church didn't care about anything but filling seats, preaching false doctrines at least part of the time, and taking your money. So much for "the Christians deny themselves and pursue Christ".

[@chriscampbell9191]

@@cryptocorey8582 The church in Ephesus met in houses.

[@b-art6098]

I know I'm going to hell for what I did with engaged and married women when I was younger but Pearl is right. Usually it's the "Kind" or "Humble" and "Shy" women that are the most sexual and cheaters.

[@chey7773]

Just let your sins be forgiven

[@uckBayNguyen]

I had these young women missionaries from the Mormon church proselytizing at my door once. I told them I want interested. One of them asked me if I was aware of heavenly mother. I was caught of guard. I never cared for their ideology, but when she made that comment, I've concluded that all religion have turned woke, ditched their God and now gone goddess and are nothing short of political parties in the name of church

[@ArthurTheUnbrokenBlade]

It's like they want to feminize everything. The problem with that is, men and masculinity built this world, and now they want to replace it with the opposite.

[@Jeff-ng5ig]

Thank you! You sang my song word for word !!

[@tensecondbuickgn]

All you have to do is look into the eyes. The woman on the right has such a high degree of self-importance and hubris. Once you see it, you'll know what to look for in others

[@rickthewilliams]

Oh my heavens, you are spot on.

[@martinishot]

Here is a huge generalization that we are always subjected to. "Believe women".

[@E.Wiseman]

Women don't make Chad / Tyrone wait for Bedroom action. However, many Women will manipulate Future prospective " Beta bucks " husbands to wait for Bedroom action ; and sometimes right up until Marriage if they can.

[@HeadonwithMichael]

Hi Pearl! Speak the truth the way you see it!

[@user-ks7ds7jg6s]

Thank you for telling the truth

[@bluecielo]

Good Word Pearl. This one was needed.

[@IamSamoth]

This is brilliant. You are strong and correct in speaking to the institution of the church like this, they(and others) need a wake-up call. Standing at this precipice, we need to figure out how to step back from the brink societally.

[@feliperodriguez6885]

I use to go to church on a regular basis and very rarely would you see a single young woman at church, even young families were rare. young women would show up for a couple of weeks but once they got a new boyfriend you never saw them again until they were single again, single women at church were usually 30 or older.