We Need To Talk-A Film About Consent | Directed by Sonam Nair

[@sitaramenon735]

This film is so important. This conversation is so important. Thank you for giving us all a crutch to have very uncomfortable conversations with partners, friends and just others who are struggling. Thank you Tinder!

[@sathyakrishnan4732]

If you don't know to figure out whether it is a no, just look for a yes. Everything other than yes is a no. Wow 🤗. This could give clarity to many misguided people about consent 👏👏👏👏👏

[@TinderIndia]

Exactly!🔥

[@PokhrajRoy.]

I’m so happy to see the Gay Man and the man-on-man violence that is hardly mentioned in conversation.

[@TinderIndia]

Consent is across sexualities. 🔥🙌

[@adenm8963]

also girl on man violence, just go to any bus

[@msdhoni5518]

And Women on male violence?

[@dipeshmehra3035]

I don’t know why it’s not trending, really great concept 😭💕

[@ayandeepdas9025]

It's because ,they have to gossip with their friends nha,how adventures,how daring,how attractive they r😑,also I missed one point.they have to show nha their muscularity ,how strong they r😑😶

[@manjarisingh5567]

I agree

[@roshanhemrom4906]

True, I agree.

[@TinderIndia]

Counting on you guys to share and help it go viral 🔥💪

[@divya_sancheti04]

Let's share and trend it then :) Edit: I didnt see the comment of official channel saying the same.

[@noelle5146]

Never thought I would back track from an ad but here I am, this deserves an award for how amazing it is, literally touched my soul.

[@TinderIndia]

Such a HUGE compliment. Thanks so much. Hope you share and help us keep the conversation about consent going 🔥🙌❤

[@gayatrivadlamani4437]

Underrated comment right here!

[@shruti.soumyasharma1278]

"Look for a yes. Everything other than a yes is no."❣️ This needs to get into everyone's head.

[@prasannapodugu7936]

People never search for yes ... They use their perspective on the other person and think it is a yes... It is hard for the other person to deny it with words... Because at that point he/she is puzzled in figuring out what is going to happen... It makes him/her numb .. completely lost and unable to make a move or say a word.. this world isn't safe for anyone... This video should reach a lot of people

[@TinderIndia]

Thanks for letting this film resonate with you so deeply. Counting on you to share and keep the conversation about consent alive 🔥

[@githala_manisha]

This is something every human being should be aware of. I've seen people with really educated backgrounds who've no idea of what consent is. It's not that difficult if someone is willing to learn. Thank you tinder for this amazing film!

[@DoveSharma]

Marital rape is a concept even educated men have hard time understanding, consent is a level more complicated. But instead of packaging it in fancy brandings, why dont we just talk about common sense. Nobody is dumb enough to not get when the other person is not enjoying the intimacy. Just stop then and there...

[@samuelsingh9797]

I also was someone who couldn't say no. And it's absolutely disturbing for people to assume that just because I'm gay I can be interested in any guy. It's a pain because mostly this kinda assumption somehow only comes from people who are close to us. Such a powerful message, Anything less than a yes is NO. Tinder ❤️

[@soumengupta8729]

This is the kind of content we need at the time.. Actually we needed this all the time.. It is great to see this kind of concept finally making it to normalcy.

[@TinderIndia]

Somen, we could NOT agree more🔥

[@arjunkhanna2450]

I saw this as an ad recently, and I love the whole concept and film. Great work

[@TinderIndia]

Thanks, Arjun!

[@qwrrty6363]

My guy is same as the first one, he is hmesha ready to take concent. Like even in between the thing he would say if u don't want to proceed I won't. This video made me love him more ❤️

[@DoveSharma]

But I bet you never ask him the same... consent is a one way road that can be used against men anytime. Going in without consent is definitely a crime, but whats also true is....pokitical correctness has no end to it.

[@qwrrty6363]

@@DoveSharma nope I also ask him, it's not a one way road. Something which requires his personal space is obviously needed to be asked for. Yes but I agree many are still unknown of this fact that both (or better all ) genders require concent.

[@DoveSharma]

@@qwrrty6363 my point is, films like these help nobody. The film says it wants to start a dialogue, but all its really doing is virtue signaling and monologuing.

[@aditibhagat1616]

Great concept. Tinder is killing it. Along with a dating app, it's creating it's space in the content industry, that too in the field of sex education. Keep it up. Indian Youngsters need this way of education because they don't get it at their home or schools. Looking forward to more great content.

[@TinderIndia]

We'll keep 'em coming 💯 Thanks, Aditiiiiii🔥

[@itsmevruu]

Wow guys. Its so true. The example of the cigarette packets was so apt. We are also learning. Thanks for teaching us what schools should have taught, its not enough to blame but better to educate. Please come up with more such videos so that the taboo among the generation slowly heals and fades away hopefully soon. Especially in these small towns there's this very uncomfort and character assassination if some guy or girl is found on tinder or such dating sites. We all need to learn and broaden our perspectives. Thanks for the initiative ❤️ kudos to your work

[@aishwaryasingh762]

one of the most important lesson that needs to go viral like right now, its 99.99% of us all in this video.

[@priyanshipandey9719]

A much needed conversation in today's fast paced world of relationships. The outburst by the curly haired actor gave me goosebumps. What an apt character potrayal. In 30s she brought the pain and anguish of millions of people to life. Great work!!

[@mahika4057]

😄❤️

[@Keep_scrollling]

As much as teaching kids about *Good touch & Bad touch* in early stages of life & in school is important... Teaching young kids & teenager about *Consent & sex ed.* is also equally important both will help them to build better relationships with themselves & their partner. I really appreciate 👏👏👏tinder for making this Film.

[@TinderIndia]

Couldn't agree with you HARDER!

[@gaurip6435]

This is really great !! Very few ppl understand what really consent is ! When I talked abt it other one is 'toh kya contract banao kya har action ka' no dude just look for yes ,a vibe in which you both are comfortable! And if you really can't figure out that much ? What's the whole point of being together?

[@TinderIndia]

4:24 is exactly the same conversation you had! You couldn't have said it better. There is no point without consent🔥

[@relosuperhot]

What a bunch of cool kids, such a nice film, brilliantly filmed ... felt so real.

[@sandipdas366]

The message you just shared in this video is truly touching. Agree with that.

[@AnkitShai]

Thank you for making this! So very apt, and so concisely put across with out any unnecessary drama. There is a lot of power in a calm, yet strong voice. Much needed advice for everyone!

[@priyodarshini_banerjee]

loved the way he understood him in 2:36 just by giving a random example ❤️

[@sanidhayhooda6561]

My ex made out with my friend the same night I said no to him because I was tired and was not in the mood and when I asked him why did he cheat his reply was because I said no and he was in mood to do it so he did it with my friend. Ahh!! I feel this, amazing work by tinder.

[@TinderIndia]

Thanks so much, Sanidhay! Manifesting bigger and better things for yoooou🔥

[@asifs100]

Beautiful. saw it as an ad. Seriously, it needs to be talked about.

[@Itiskarunasharma]

very very very important concept . I was just skipping this ad but now I searched for it to see again.

[@slayyingit3371]

People need to watch this, Tinder should be promoting this movie through YT influencers so that it can reach more and more people

[@lovestruckcow]

Good job!! Much needed especially where we grew up with films and shows that celebrate non consent. Instead of no smoking warning, films should carry this warning.

[@rspreetisharma6778]

really nice video. the girl with curly hair "Hanita" is awesome! soo natural n perfect acting. Everyone is doing justice to the character.

[@TinderIndia]

Dream team 🔥🙌

[@mahika4057]

😄❤️

[@reetikabera5366]

Finally someone made a video on this topic...maannn its soo important to take consent....and we need to learn to say no .... When we are going to learn all these...

[@mehakaadeez7456]

This is the kind of content I want to watch and share. Content like this not only gives clarity of my but also helps in talking about these things with our partners because when presented in such simple way it becomes easier to understand. Thank you tinder ♥️

[@anjaliraghav6218]

Many people need to learn this .... anything less than a yes is a NO

[@TinderIndia]

Factssss 🔥🔥🔥

[@blisssalways2294]

Beautiful message, I am glad more people are talking about it!!

[@anchorarunabha]

This film holds tremendous significance. It opens the door to crucial conversations that can feel uncomfortable, allowing us to discuss consent more openly with partners, friends, and anyone who might be struggling to understand it. Thank you, Tinder, for providing this framework. If you’re unsure whether someone is truly giving consent, remember: only an enthusiastic "yes" counts. Anything less is a "no." This message could bring much-needed clarity to many people who may not fully understand the concept of consent. It's something everyone should know. Even those with impressive educational backgrounds can lack awareness on this issue-it's not complicated if there’s a willingness to learn. Far too often, people assume they have consent based on their own perspective, instead of looking for a clear and confident "yes." This can leave the other person feeling trapped, silent, and overwhelmed. This world still isn’t safe for everyone, and messages like this are essential. Thank you, Tinder, for this powerful film! It’s a message that deserves to be shared widely.

[@ankurchourasia8534]

CONSENT SUPREMACY ALWAYS ❤✨

[@TinderIndia]

And FOREVER🔥

[@aakankshasoni._]

This is so beautiful. Writer did a beautiful job and so the directors and producers. Actors and everybody basically

[@TinderIndia]

💯🙌

[@rajnirani7772]

I first heard about this when Taapsee Pannu & the Director, Sonam Nair were conversing about consent on Film Companion. The topic of consent is very, very important & also one of the least talked about subjects. It's just so easy to assume YES! Well, ignoring a NO isn't a YES! Well done Tinder!

[@knock01]

Aye the cinematic lighting crew here did a really great job, the content captured is visually plausible

[@saumyagupta1690]

What a lovely thought! Loved it. Great great job

[@aashitamundra5931]

I just lovedddd it guys. So well articulated and presented. ❤️

[@Tanushreeproy]

Brilliant message given. Learn to say no when you don’t want to and also learn to accept another person's no gracefully

[@sagek7949]

This is some top quality writing and acting.

[@M.P108]

Can't have words to describe but...it really touched my heart...it was like I wanna say it(NO) but...same happened with me...so I am gald that... Tinder has raised such a crucial topic, which no one talks about....🙌😊

[@TinderIndia]

You can always count on Tinder to raise crucial and complicated topics, Mitali. Thanks for letting this sit with you and feeling it so deeply❤

[@taniyakoli1442]

Each and every dialogue is so meaningful in this whole video As a girl I come to know about so many things through this video Great job👏👏

[@manthansrivastav9640]

Consent is so important for everybody

[@TinderIndia]

💯

[@mayag4555]

This is such an important subject and this film is so sensitively made.

[@TinderIndia]

Thanks so much, Maya

[@Suchita-b2l]

This is something that should be viral not some cringe cheap videos and trends,,,, god it's masterpiece,I wish I would've seen it earlier, maybe I would've also said no and understood the importance of my consent, I so much want to share this with that guy, with my friend group but I'll be the one who is dramatic and sensitive then!!! Hope it gets to the right people at right time

[@disaryguin13]

6.56 i think the best lesson for anyone who think that they are so innocent that they can't understand" No"

[@prinkuji]

It's one of simplest way to educate everyone. Definitely very important topic CONSENT. watch & share with all of your friends & help them to know what they r unknowingly missing.

[@TinderIndia]

Thanks, Priyanka. Dating isn't just dinners and romance. Hope you keep sharing, and keep talking about consent!🔥

[@prinkuji]

Dinners & Romance is important in Dating but yes CONSENT is most important.

[@TinderIndia]

@@prinkuji 💯

[@gokulrajk.r66]

Look for a YES, because anything less than that is a "NO" - wow, what a reply🔥🔥🔥

[@VikashSingh-so4xt]

Love the concept i want more Videos on this subject where we all be able to aware about it ..love tinder❤️

[@KeerthanaR22]

very beautiful. i am glad that a lot of light is being shed on topic of consent. let the awareness grow.

[@princyagarwal264]

It’s amazing how well it is portrayed in this 8 minutes video.. Also with the general Solution to it .. Hats off .. 🫡♥️

[@nikitagarg4438]

Nice concept to bring in the society I think this is the best way to bring it up..

[@TinderIndia]

Thanks so much, Nikitaaaa

[@prachin0303]

Spot on too good...hope it paves the way as an eye opener!!

[@TinderIndia]

🙌🔥

[@kartiktomar4272]

Much more appreciation needed every body needs to watch this. A concept of consent is wht everybody needs to understand. Truly overwhelmed w this . Great work 🫶

[@TinderIndia]

Thanks so much Kartik. Counting on you to share so this can reach more people 🔥🙌❤

[@lathikabubbly]

Felt like the right thing at the right time. ❤sending lots of love

[@NaveenKumar-xs5ie]

SOLITUDE is the greatest thing I ever discovered.

[@snazzyamrisha]

This video must be shared. Why is it not trending ??

[@tanishadiwan4357]

This is so so so so deep❤️ I just loved each of the dialogues 💯

[@DoveSharma]

Lets get somethings straight. masculinity is not toxic, toxic masculinity is toxic. Sometimes creators driven by blind passion forget that feminism without a scrutiny can become woke and repel masculinity as a whole. And this short is a perfect example. A masculine looking guy is the bad guy. Women are the victims and one guy who is a victim here is also a gay and has a feminine personality, so that another guy gets to be the abusive one. What happens when a man is not in the mood, his woman tells the whole world that he is not man enough, he is a 'Namard'. Ever thought of that as a nuance around 'consent'? Now, women cant beat up a guy and abuse him, in most cases. So they play mind game and destroy lives of guys. That is a discussion that will never be included in woke content like this. I loved the movie pink, I loved the movie Thappad. India is a country where violence against women is still a huge problem. But if you want to teach men something, you cant vilify masculinity and hope we will connect. Emasculating a generation wont solve this problem, lets not suck out the confidence of guys and make pussies out of them who will never have the guts to ask a girl out because he is always worried about crossing a certain boundary thats shrinking everyday. Is touching her hand romantic or is that some sort of an abuse... Is she wanting a kiss or will that be an abuse... The problem with this short is its setup. Educated urban working youth knows way more than the creators of this film. They can say no when they mean it and they know when the other person is meaning to say no. A girl wont date a guy who took advantage of her qhile she was drunk, if she is dating that guy and assumes a higher moral ground as displayed in the short then she is the dumb one of the two. The attitude with which she says 'its not my responsibility to educate you' is not helping either. First of all even god dant understand the mixed signals that women give. If a man is asking you what do you mean by that and you say 'its not my job to explain' then there is never going to be a conversation. And then you will have men who wont want to aproach you because they are confused and scared. May be thats what feminists want. Weak men to rule. Once again, masculinity is not your enemy, think of both sides when you develop projects of progressive liberal ideologies. This one has subliminal misandry written on it and I guess I am toxic man to talk about it now. Am I? Guess, WE really NEED TO TALK

[@MOON-yn8ec]

I was in a awe and scrolling down the comment section thinking is there nobody who thinks this video is spreading a lot of toxicity towards men.... in the name of doing something eye-opening, it spreads toxicity around masculinity, which is utterly unbelievable! I was so fqin happy and annoyed at the same time with this video... Like bruhhh.. Seriously?..like it never goes other way around... Only Guys cross the limits... Like i have a dozen or more examples, I have directly or indirectly experienced of Girls getting away without asking consent just bcoz they are girls... Like wtf.. Being a girl, doesn't mean u never do wrong.. It's always fifty fifty with both the genders, and most extreme instances are of males and thats y these clueless ppl assume Masculinity as such, toxic n whatever...

[@okayaresd]

Every content deserves it's fare share of critique, highlighted some of my points too. 👍

[@DoveSharma]

@@MOON-yn8ec being liberal and progressive expands our outlook, but kids sometimes dont understand these two words in depth and just to be hip they become Woke instead. The writers and the directors of this short fall in the Woke catagory. And the woke crowd is celebrating them. Neither of them truly understand how to be an ideal liberal.

[@DoveSharma]

@@okayaresd yes, they do. But look at the comment section and I am the only one who is critiquing this. The rest of them are just celebrating this content and subliminally influencing their ideals of gender debates.

[@okayaresd]

@@DoveSharma Search for a "yes", time to play Scotland Yard.

[@thewierd_thewonderful996]

Really really loved the way it's presented. It's answering all the questions relating to consent.. thanks a lot tinder 😍

[@smarajeetnayak1009]

What a lovely concept and execution

[@divya_sancheti04]

This is extremely well written and portrayed. Hats off🙌🏻

[@TinderIndia]

We're so glad you enjoyed all our pieces about consent, Divyaaa 🔥❤️

[@vasundharashekhar2714]

Simple, beautiful yet very impactful movie 💕

[@aafiasiddique2339]

This is too beautiful! ✨

[@abhishekraj-ou4qs]

much appreciated video ,hope it reaches to many!

[@TinderIndia]

We're counting on YOU to share and help us get there, Abhishek 🔥

[@lifeloadings]

Thank you so much this video has really change my point of view over saying no to my partner I never thought this way This is soo great video Thanks again for creating this much informative and connecting video

[@TinderIndia]

Tinder will always be a facts only zone! 🔥

[@sonalinanda8152]

Waiting for it to have more views so that peeps would learn and be happy 💕

[@mansi6831]

you are just deeply and smoothly explain complex and damn awkward situation

[@krpticspawn7069]

Damn! Thus was beautifully made

[@neepagummapu]

so well done!!! anything less than a yes is a no....well said!!!

[@TinderIndia]

Yaaaas Neepa!

[@alkasoli4002]

Consent should be there even after marriage..many think marriage is a licence to do everything or anything.. which is not right

[@thejoyeetabasak]

best thing I saw on youtube today!

[@Invisible538]

I'm happy that I came across such beautiful video✨

[@TinderIndia]

We're glad we came across such a beautiful comment, Priyanka. Thanks 🔥❤

[@keerthigas_podcast]

Well written dialogues 💓

[@dr.pareek_0650]

Wow.... Tinder's content creators are truly top notch ! 💕🌻🫂

[@TinderIndia]

Thanks so much

[@rsk7323]

Awesome concept and well enacted. Awesome nikhil!!

[@ArshDeep-sr7pk]

Loved the concept ❤

[@punitapandey1885]

Great concept. Content is very good. All played their part very well. I really liked Hanita. Good job 👍 👍

[@mahika4057]

😄❤️

[@kanpuriyabhaiyaji]

It's really heart touching video ❤

[@diveshgopal4823]

Loved it...bless this team...kalliki

[@mukulmaurya3033]

Much needed ❤️

[@TinderIndia]

Absolutely

[@rajaskarekar6038]

Amazing acting Nikhil 👏

[@ShreyaKumari-cv4cd]

Such a great concept. Thank you tinder:)

[@TinderIndia]

Glad you liked it! 🔥

[@RA-wp9cc]

wow, just WOW. Thank you Tinder India!💖

[@TinderIndia]

🔥🙌

[@22.pragyabansal53]

✨Anything less than a "yes" is a no!✨

[@TinderIndia]

Always 🔥🙌

[@manashimallik7180]

It's simple yet powerful 🌻

[@hustler212]

I am happy to see that they included lgbtq characters. #representaion_matters

[@prateeksha93]

Really nicely put❤️

[@TinderIndia]

Feel so seen 🥺

[@hertravelstories]

Go trending please 😭❤️

[@satabdiroy1453]

I want to give it a thousand likes. Thank you so much.

[@TinderIndia]

Glad you liked both our films on consent so much, Satabdi!

[@aryankushwaha1964]

@@TinderIndia not downloading tinder though😢

[@goodman3021]

❤❤❤loved it.

[@shreepriyashivakumar3326]

👌The message is clear

[@TinderIndia]

💯

[@khwahishsharma5921]

This was really important

[@sreelekhark98]

Loved the concept!!!! Much needed!!

[@hotchpotch1719]

Thanks Tinder.u jst helped me to find love Again😌❤️

[@preethiragu2142]

Great film!!

[@TinderIndia]

❤🔥

[@reeha....7734]

Thanks tinder for making this video 🙌

[@vaibhavigandhi6889]

This is amazing!

[@TinderIndia]

You're amazing for this lovely compliment!🔥❤

[@gurvindrasingh9004]

Consent kafi simple lagta h sunne me but itna simple h nahi jitna ki media dikhata h bohot hi subjective aur senstive issue h, I agreed consent ki vajah se female ko jyada suffer krna padta h as compared as male but iska ye matlab bilkul bhi nahi h ki female k consent k najariye per gaur krte krte hum male ke consent ko darkinar kar de hum sabki zimmedari honi chahiye jitni hum female consent ko value de thik utni hi male consent ko bhi I know thoda mushkit to h but impossible ni h .

[@aryankushwaha1964]

Paji male ka Kada conset hagya😂

[@gurvindrasingh9004]

@@aryankushwaha1964 hota h kushwah ji hota h jis insan ko fast food na mila ho to kabhi diet ki bate nahi krta wahi krta h jise roz fast food khana padta h , hope you will get it.