We Once Fought Over A Facebook Post | Relationships Measured Against Social Media Standards

[@DrIpelengObGyn]

You should start a relationship podcast Skhu and Nozi, it would definitely blow up !

[@samukelisiwenkosi4550]

Agreed

[@rosemsomi3771]

YES PLEASE!!

[@wanderingcucamber7082]

Subscribed!

[@Lungy_Ngcobo]

I wouldn’t mind listening to them through traffic

[@roselineuiras8603]

Agreed 1000%

[@mandisandlovu5515]

I honestly aspire to learn to one day communicate like Skhu. Skhu listens, attentively. And responds sooo appropriately and honestly.

[@noxolomalgas8074]

I have also observed this!! “Any effect conversation starts with listening”

[@nyashamangunda1619]

He truly does, he listens and waits to respond

[@zolekazulu7894]

My friend was married to a guy who was also not romantic, he grew up in the rural areas. The only thing he did very well was giving her wife allowance. My friend decided to write a list of gastures that she would love her husband to do for her but she told him not to tell her when he does the stuff, he must still try to keep them as a "surprise" and that honestly worked. Sometimes men need to be taught these things

[@redeemablesoul]

I agree with you.

[@rotondwatshivhenga]

Thank you for speaking English guys! Really enjoyed this one 🤗

[@wendyjantjies8766]

Nozi wants Skhu to be inspired by the romantic gestures but I feel like Skhu also wants Nozi to be inspired by the ego boosters. So you both basically want the same thing but in different form of gestures

[@nyashamangunda1619]

@Wendy I am glad someone saw that too, he wants to have his ego boosted. He wants to feel he is a leader and I won't lie sometimes when she repeatedly speaks above her husband and interrupts I kind of shy away 🙈

[@asemahlentshibilili6477]

I love listening to Bhuti Skhumbuzo speak. Ndithanda indlela ocinga ngayo mkhuluwa. ubulumko bakho nendlela o tacklisha ngayo izinto ndiyayithanda. I am inspired your wisdom Grootman.

[@yandisarungqu7356]

Wow! What I took from this is that the same way we ladies would like our men to sweep us off our feet once in a while, is the same way they would appreciate their egos being boosted once in a while. It's a two-way street. Love it. Thank you

[@lindisithole4951]

True

[@DrIpelengObGyn]

You guys are so intelligent. Very refreshing to listen to.

[@lifewithgeegee]

When he said people are selective about what they post 🙌🏾

[@zolekazulu7894]

🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Guys I'm in stitches. I love how you guys have these uncomfortable conversations and make them less tense

[@nomusamthethwa2612]

Communicating each other’s love languages and creating an environment that enables both parties to succeed ‼️

[@nosivathomkalipi9767]

I get you Nozi. I'm the least romantic wife, however being married to a guy who enjoys what Skhu calls 'ego boosters' I do them once in a while and there's always a reward for my efforts.

[@mantebuseitlheko3326]

Ntate Goodman deserves a KZbin channel. He’s extremely funny, wise..what a pleasure to watch

[@kelebogilemoshe4347]

I loved this conversation. You guys never disappoint. Blessings over your marriage guys❤️

[@honeykoba5289]

Most Relationships lack consistency. We get so comfortable and forget to nurture the relationship, we stop putting in the effort. Particularly nurturing ones love languages. We need to consistently work on these lil things that make the big thing. There’s a saying ke ethi how you love your woman translates into how much respect/ego stroking you will get. And honestly I think it goes both ways but for a woman that likes to be led I generally feed off that love.

[@tjiuamanatjijenda5660]

I couldn't have said it better...

[@AllThingsLindo]

Preach!!!!!!

[@silondolozeslondy8035]

Hayi ngekhe Nozi Bawo has blessed you, yheyhi umyeni wakho uthetha into enomsoco mani, uyamameleka lo bhuti yheyhi...

[@AllThingsLindo]

Enomsoco 😂😂😂

[@theeoneroom8454]

I like the word eNomsoco I feel like preaching already ngomsoco

[@AllThingsLindo]

I agree with you Skhu about how posts on social media are curated. What is portrayed mostly, is not the daily reality for most. Yes he loved his wife, however the assumption of perfection that was taken on about him after he had passed was uncomfortable to see.

[@theeoneroom8454]

I like you already ✅

[@sixolilemlotshwa7092]

Abanye abantwana are getting rose paddles. Skhu: Paddles? Nozi:Paddles Me: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 it's rose petals. 🌹

[@boitumelomakobosheane2928]

The whole time 🤣🤣🤣

[@AllThingsLindo]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 After they've disembarked

[@luciahlophe8928]

@@AllThingsLindo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sithabisomthethwa7383]

You and me 😂😂😂

[@ziyandakodwa5798]

Hesana uNozi😂

[@gontsegaosenye]

I'm glad you touched on the Shona issue.To be honest I also pray I find love like that❤In fact, I love the whole conversation

[@vukilethemba7753]

USkhu is making a very important point that we sometimes overlook as ladies. In the same way that we enjoy being appreciated nge-love languages zethu, we need to consider the same for our male partners. As uSkhu says, uke umsurpriser nje umntu wakho nge-gesture that he’ll appreciate, once in a while 👌🏾

[@nhlalalamab864]

Not my husband saying yeah vhele I chased you, why should I keep chasing mus you’ll eventually run away with all this chasing🤣🤣🤣🤣 uncle Skhu please come get your nephew😅...

[@turudube5404]

Nozi, phela nawe you should be willing to do what he likes kalokhu. Love is not one-sided. You both compromise

[@nwabisaqogi8255]

I felt it when bhuti Skhu said 'once in a while'

[@theriebank]

Knees soze ndinawe apho

[@threenorth8416]

Nozi just take the damn jacket off lmaoooooooo

[@buhleshezi5222]

Please hle 😂😂😂

[@nwabisamagadla8145]

Yhaz please Nozi🥰🤣🤣🤣

[@mmakauchoeneemang4945]

"Jealousy" aside, but Buti Skhu's command of the Queen's language is superb. You are such and inspiration guys, may God's light always shine upon your precious lives...🙏🙏🙏

[@innb28]

Wow i must say i enjoyed this video and listening to both parties speak about relationships as a whole. My boyfriend isnt the romantic type but he's learnt to recognize what i like and he tries to make up for his shortcomings, as i do same. It's about knowing your person and that is what makes each relationship unique. Sometimes we're caught up what is being done in the movies our focus on fantasy rather than reality.

[@prudencemaroga5649]

The intelligence in brother Skhu. 🙏🏿

[@Lerato_Mo]

Bruh🤌🔥

[@vuyomtshali]

🤣🤣😂😂😂😂" Pedals"

[@tswinabongiwe2836]

The way you guys look at each other ❤😭

[@nokuzolakholwane3938]

Thank you so much, I've just realized I am selfish when it comes to a relationship😍😍😍😍

[@wanderingcucamber7082]

Now that you’re self aware sis, hope you’ll start doing better ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@LethoHali]

“Skhu, ur not paralysed kaloku” 😆

[@siphosethurafane1983]

0:42 it’s them laughing at the same time for me😂😂😂❤️

[@siyamanengele2998]

I wish I could kneel when I give my husband food and welcome him at the door take off his jacket. But jho AKUUVUUMIII. Make me numb Lord so I can do such practices.

[@motheowalerato701]

😅😅

[@noxolomali]

Sis Nozi you are glowing. You look so beautiful & happy. What a beautiful, informative topic. Thank you for the upload ❤️ there are so many lessons to ponder on!

[@TheNAVRAY]

I was jealousy😂😂Yaz i heard it the 1st time and wondered why Nozi didn't comment on it.. When he said it the second time😂😂😂cima cima Skhu

[@zimkhithazim775]

I like how you guys calm each other buti Sku is like ima maskosi,and Sis Nozi is like ima standwa sam❤️💓

[@theeoneroom8454]

Njeke 😂

[@prudencemasoga5703]

But can we discuss how Skhu looks at Nozi?😍😍

[@asiphecutshwa8047]

Right😊???!!!

[@Bongiebelle]

Definitely learning something from these Nozi & uncle Skhu.

[@melinyanigobinca3786]

Yhu andihlekanga maarn ndiyibukelise noMkam le video. I really Love how real you guys are. I love how you guys are not tryna make things look prim proper and perfect like most couples on KZbin.

[@AllThingsLindo]

Love languages!! Powerful tool for relationships.

[@nommie9104]

I love you guys, you always make me laugh not just laugh but LAUGH HARD!!!

[@thatogal2516]

Hi Nozi I love trying new things esp the ones my spouse loves...... Sometimes we do things we don't love and end up loving BcZ they make our partners feel loved..... De very same way we wish to have amarose pedals surprise.... Our men might not love doing that but realizing that, that makes us happy they will do...

[@snazonjongo5603]

Not the rose petals disembarking chile 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Nozi sis wam ❤️❤️

[@AllThingsLindo]

Girl! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Nozi had me! And it's not like akayazi inyani 😭

[@wanderingcucamber7082]

🤭🤭🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nyeletihanyani6963]

Lol and she kept on saying pedals 🤣🤣 Skhu tried correcting her but sis was busy disembarking pedals chile!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ziyanda6521]

😂

[@melmel7011]

OMG, thank you for bringing up the Shona situation. My man got really jealous that I spoke fondly of how he treated his wife and loved her. We even fought about and I later found out he had an issue with that. We not even south Africans🙈

[@lulekozikode3029]

Uliswati lakitsi wena

[@milito537]

Praise the LORD!!!! The Lord Jesus has made available all things that pertain unto life and godliness to you!!! He has given you the opportunity to be reconciled unto God forever through His unselfish sacrifice of love, dying on a wooden cross for your sins and being raised from the dead...and through belief in this truth today and confession of His lordship over your life, you can be saved and awakened to the fatherhood of God. Don't wait any longer, please!!! God bless you and good day.

[@preciousmanana7572]

This was so inspirational, thanks to the lovely couple

[@osh1278]

my spirit uplifters😂😂 whenever I feel down ❤inspired by your relationship guys, there's God in your union💫

[@ongezwaongie7243]

Oko ndigowa, I came straight here.Bendiyazi ba ndizohleka🤣🤣🔥😍. God gave us angels 🙌🏼♥️

[@Bonani_masangane]

you guys are hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, 2 yrs later im watching for the 1st time

[@sabela5558]

Hayi Skhu wawuthe akazufika senxiba ilangerie wathi uyifunde phi keleyo, ngk ufuna aguqe ngamadolo akunike ukutya🙊. I know Nozi felt small when you didn't take her seriously that day, izinto zimosheka zizinto ezinjeya(ocinga azinamsebenzi). From my side andiyenzi into andingazukuyimela shame, ngk ndandisonqena usinda ngk ndihambe ngamadolo, never😆😆. I love this topic and you are both right.

[@vuyomtshali]

I feel you Nozie consistency is important 👏

[@katlegomhlauli8423]

This conversation was very important.. most posts are curated and don’t portray reality

[@tjiuamanatjijenda5660]

It's all about learning each other's love languages which are often different with most couples.

[@AllThingsLindo]

Soo true, and also these languages change over time. We also need to keep up with where our partner is at that time in terms of that language.

[@Bee_Vibes]

I agree, love isn't complicated you just need to know your partners love language.

[@bjbrownbob]

I'm sorry Nozi but your Husband has now taken over your channell, I just love his perspective.😁 I hope his new popularity doesn't go to his head!!😂😂😂

[@nyashamangunda1619]

I enjoyed this video, we as partners need to constantly give and in turn our partner will give back. She wants romance he wants ego boosters, if she starts inspiring him by giving him the ego boosters here and there he will in turn love her the way she is craving. 🙏🏽

[@PheladiNewman]

you boost ego once you shall boost that ego forever.

[@nereenmangena2291]

Wow Sku that's a point on consistency 👏of men and what women get used to

[@fikileassah1026]

Nozie will be laughing in the process of that unusual romantic gesture to Skhu

[@Lerato_Mo]

I believe Skhu will also laugh😹ai these two hai hai

[@BishopFika]

I definitely understand where Skhu comes from🙌🙌👏i think sometimes its important to do what makes your partner happy even if its not necessarily something that comes naturally

[@thembinxitywa9754]

Thank you for this 🙌❤️.

[@davidzohove2407]

I love you guys! Thank you so much for these videos. I hope you both can do these little things that the other loves,even if it's once in a while. Please keep bringing us content like this.

[@tjiuamanatjijenda5660]

Y'all I was eating an I almost chocked on a piece of meat,🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 y'all are so hilarious, I can't 😂😂😂😂

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

It is the correction of English for me, then they laugh at each other. Best friends.

[@connymontsho]

Nozi we have to love them the way they want to be loved and same for us.If you only do want you want but doing it for them,then you only making yourself happy.imagen if hubby says but I don't like flowers am not buying them.

[@deebeem1789]

We are all individuals at the end of the day. Do whatever suits you as a couple and do not copy or expect your partner to always behave like every couple that you meet in life.

[@lethabononjiko9175]

Your relationship really inspires me. Keep it up guys. We are learning

[@manelisilumbe7268]

Thank you... 👊

[@akhonazimasagwejana8835]

Molweni emaTshaweni. Ekupheleni kwa 2022 ndise lapha bantase. Ndisaqhuba andimanga. New subscriber .🥰

[@previous633]

It is good to try new things in your relationship by both parties and not on one side. Good conversation family. Love you.😘

[@katlegomhlauli8423]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀 Nozi just take his jacket off sis it’s an ego booster please 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@gcobanizonke8716]

I love this conversation so inspiring.

[@VooVoo_Joy]

Zi Rose peddles ngapha ziTabs, one things for sure it's always a literal laughing out loud nani bantase. ✨

[@evalinenyasende9477]

Love you guys your sense of humor ❤.

[@conniepedinyane2492]

It takes two to tango

[@DzunyB]

These are important conversations to have as couples but unfortunately it's very hard to convince our African brothers to can even take 15 mins to watch such videos and learn. Even if they would do it privately, so here we are as women watching what we hope for and our men telling us we like things from TV 🤣🤣🤣

[@hlalanathimbimbi2527]

Totally agree... Women know both women and men stories while man only cares about men stories

[@fikileassah1026]

Joo i tried several times to show my husband inspiring video with no success. He would just said "I'm not gonna do that, and brush it off.tellling me he was once a soldier bla bla bla

[@theeoneroom8454]

@@fikileassah1026 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that guy is more like me🚮

[@lulekozikode3029]

@@fikileassah1026 soldiers have a straight mind with little emotions.

[@nhlanzekomsweli6775]

Petals vs Pedals 😅

[@omphile_thuto]

Thank you guys for awakening session once again.

[@minenhledumakude9896]

There goes that one ex whoz not happy with ya'll disliking the video 🤐😏, love you guys 😂😂 pedals

[@nombulelohlengwa6853]

May the Good Lord continue to Bless your marriage 🙏. I love you so much💕

[@sthandiwe7569]

This was a really touchy subject indeed, learnt a lot...thank you guys

[@Star_Mooneh]

You guys nailed it 👏 👌 🙌 🙇‍♀️

[@wandisilemadiba7016]

Oh that's why he did that with 10Rands😂😂😂he took some lessons very clever that one😊😊

[@ngetie_mangethe]

Beautiful conversation, it was so eye opening & inspirational

[@samkedlamini5737]

Nina ngathi niveza lento yokuthi umuntu unobambo lwakhe, I mean every verse I have seen really relate to your love story ❤️❤️ May God keep you 🙏

[@nqcreation9100]

It's rose petals not pedals😂... Nice nails Nozy

[@snemthembu4562]

I thoroughly enjoyed watching and listening to you two. God bless you for sharing your love with us. Definitely sparked a lot of introspection into how I am as a partner and how I can better create that environment to help my partner stay consistent and to also appreciate the little things above all else. ♥️♥️

[@tshegophahledi1581]

Thoroughly enjoyed this!! 🥺🥰❤❤❤

[@yonelapepeta7978]

I don't know why she was surprised, Eli mpondo🤣🤣🤣uyazelaphi lanto yena.....yho hayi bhuti Skhu

[@essybabyj6141]

The way you want Skhu to do romantic things for you is the same way he would want you to do nice things for him that would boost his ego.

[@genzim1963]

You guys are always inspiring. I liked the whole discussion. I wish you come back to this topic sometime.

[@ncediswatisani2758]

Hahaaa! As for "Uyazelaphi lanto yena elimpondo" 🤣🤣🤣 hay bhuti Skhu 😅

[@hlobilentuli2791]

😂🤣🤣Yazin Xhosa men will be the death of us stru 😂

[@bulelwamgumane7616]

I admire your love Cc nozi n buti skhu we learn a lot 4rom u guys keep on doing the good work ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@0774409270]

Ouch its the it's not that person has changed but u have gotten used to it Harsh truth

[@deemasiziba9034]

Nozi you are right ,its petals.🤣🤣🤣😂

[@asandamatolweni7081]

Simply put...we get lazy once we are within...LOL

[@enhlevilakazi7138]

"KIKIKIKIKIIIII....YEEYSSS." I'm dead yhooo lmao 0:07

[@buhlelupindo2054]

uQ was probably acting that day for you guys and she probably doesn’t do that every day. 😂😂😂

[@nhlanhlam121]

Spot on

[@BiancaMQ]

Thank you Nozi for this video ❤️It is a very important conversation.Thank you Skhu for the male point of view i am taking notes.

[@DIYYolande]

He was the first one owaku cabuza empundini!! A LEGEND!!. Listen you guys make my day when yall post neh. Thank you for real couple conversations....

[@emile7090]

Thank you I have learned something

[@sihledlamini-makhubu4791]

Challenge accepted Mr nd Mrs Mayaba.... God bless you for me.... I love you guys

[@tammylewis4852]

I just started watching. New subscriber. I'm in love with you two. 😍😍