You should start a relationship podcast Skhu and Nozi, it would definitely blow up !
@samukelisiwenkosi45503 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@rosemsomi37713 жыл бұрын
YES PLEASE!!
@wanderingcucamber70823 жыл бұрын
Subscribed!
@Lungy_Ngcobo3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t mind listening to them through traffic
@roselineuiras86033 жыл бұрын
Agreed 1000%
@mandisandlovu55153 жыл бұрын
I honestly aspire to learn to one day communicate like Skhu. Skhu listens, attentively. And responds sooo appropriately and honestly.
@noxolomalgas80743 жыл бұрын
I have also observed this!! “Any effect conversation starts with listening”
@nyashamangunda16192 жыл бұрын
He truly does, he listens and waits to respond
@zolekazulu78943 жыл бұрын
My friend was married to a guy who was also not romantic, he grew up in the rural areas. The only thing he did very well was giving her wife allowance. My friend decided to write a list of gastures that she would love her husband to do for her but she told him not to tell her when he does the stuff, he must still try to keep them as a "surprise" and that honestly worked. Sometimes men need to be taught these things
@redeemablesoul3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you.
@rotondwatshivhenga3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking English guys! Really enjoyed this one 🤗
@wendyjantjies87663 жыл бұрын
Nozi wants Skhu to be inspired by the romantic gestures but I feel like Skhu also wants Nozi to be inspired by the ego boosters. So you both basically want the same thing but in different form of gestures
@nyashamangunda16192 жыл бұрын
@Wendy I am glad someone saw that too, he wants to have his ego boosted. He wants to feel he is a leader and I won't lie sometimes when she repeatedly speaks above her husband and interrupts I kind of shy away 🙈
@asemahlentshibilili64773 жыл бұрын
I love listening to Bhuti Skhumbuzo speak. Ndithanda indlela ocinga ngayo mkhuluwa. ubulumko bakho nendlela o tacklisha ngayo izinto ndiyayithanda. I am inspired your wisdom Grootman.
@yandisarungqu73563 жыл бұрын
Wow! What I took from this is that the same way we ladies would like our men to sweep us off our feet once in a while, is the same way they would appreciate their egos being boosted once in a while. It's a two-way street. Love it. Thank you
@lindisithole49512 жыл бұрын
True
@DrIpelengObGyn3 жыл бұрын
You guys are so intelligent. Very refreshing to listen to.
@lifewithgeegee3 жыл бұрын
When he said people are selective about what they post 🙌🏾
@zolekazulu78943 жыл бұрын
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Guys I'm in stitches. I love how you guys have these uncomfortable conversations and make them less tense
@nomusamthethwa26123 жыл бұрын
Communicating each other’s love languages and creating an environment that enables both parties to succeed ‼️
@nosivathomkalipi97673 жыл бұрын
I get you Nozi. I'm the least romantic wife, however being married to a guy who enjoys what Skhu calls 'ego boosters' I do them once in a while and there's always a reward for my efforts.
@mantebuseitlheko33262 жыл бұрын
Ntate Goodman deserves a KZbin channel. He’s extremely funny, wise..what a pleasure to watch
@kelebogilemoshe43473 жыл бұрын
I loved this conversation. You guys never disappoint. Blessings over your marriage guys❤️
@honeykoba52893 жыл бұрын
Most Relationships lack consistency. We get so comfortable and forget to nurture the relationship, we stop putting in the effort. Particularly nurturing ones love languages. We need to consistently work on these lil things that make the big thing. There’s a saying ke ethi how you love your woman translates into how much respect/ego stroking you will get. And honestly I think it goes both ways but for a woman that likes to be led I generally feed off that love.
@tjiuamanatjijenda56603 жыл бұрын
I couldn't have said it better...
@AllThingsLindo3 жыл бұрын
Preach!!!!!!
@silondolozeslondy80353 жыл бұрын
Hayi ngekhe Nozi Bawo has blessed you, yheyhi umyeni wakho uthetha into enomsoco mani, uyamameleka lo bhuti yheyhi...
@AllThingsLindo3 жыл бұрын
Enomsoco 😂😂😂
@theeoneroom84543 жыл бұрын
I like the word eNomsoco I feel like preaching already ngomsoco
@AllThingsLindo3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you Skhu about how posts on social media are curated. What is portrayed mostly, is not the daily reality for most. Yes he loved his wife, however the assumption of perfection that was taken on about him after he had passed was uncomfortable to see.
@theeoneroom84543 жыл бұрын
I like you already ✅
@sixolilemlotshwa70923 жыл бұрын
Abanye abantwana are getting rose paddles. Skhu: Paddles? Nozi:Paddles Me: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 it's rose petals. 🌹
@boitumelomakobosheane29283 жыл бұрын
The whole time 🤣🤣🤣
@AllThingsLindo3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 After they've disembarked
@luciahlophe89283 жыл бұрын
@@AllThingsLindo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sithabisomthethwa73833 жыл бұрын
You and me 😂😂😂
@ziyandakodwa57983 жыл бұрын
Hesana uNozi😂
@gontsegaosenye3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you touched on the Shona issue.To be honest I also pray I find love like that❤In fact, I love the whole conversation
@vukilethemba77533 жыл бұрын
USkhu is making a very important point that we sometimes overlook as ladies. In the same way that we enjoy being appreciated nge-love languages zethu, we need to consider the same for our male partners. As uSkhu says, uke umsurpriser nje umntu wakho nge-gesture that he’ll appreciate, once in a while 👌🏾
@nhlalalamab8643 жыл бұрын
Not my husband saying yeah vhele I chased you, why should I keep chasing mus you’ll eventually run away with all this chasing🤣🤣🤣🤣 uncle Skhu please come get your nephew😅...
@turudube54043 жыл бұрын
Nozi, phela nawe you should be willing to do what he likes kalokhu. Love is not one-sided. You both compromise
@nwabisaqogi82553 жыл бұрын
I felt it when bhuti Skhu said 'once in a while'
@theriebank3 жыл бұрын
Knees soze ndinawe apho
@threenorth84163 жыл бұрын
Nozi just take the damn jacket off lmaoooooooo
@buhleshezi52223 жыл бұрын
Please hle 😂😂😂
@nwabisamagadla81453 жыл бұрын
Yhaz please Nozi🥰🤣🤣🤣
@mmakauchoeneemang49453 жыл бұрын
"Jealousy" aside, but Buti Skhu's command of the Queen's language is superb. You are such and inspiration guys, may God's light always shine upon your precious lives...🙏🙏🙏
@innb283 жыл бұрын
Wow i must say i enjoyed this video and listening to both parties speak about relationships as a whole. My boyfriend isnt the romantic type but he's learnt to recognize what i like and he tries to make up for his shortcomings, as i do same. It's about knowing your person and that is what makes each relationship unique. Sometimes we're caught up what is being done in the movies our focus on fantasy rather than reality.
@prudencemaroga56493 жыл бұрын
The intelligence in brother Skhu. 🙏🏿
@Lerato_Mo3 жыл бұрын
Bruh🤌🔥
@vuyomtshali3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😂😂😂😂" Pedals"
@tswinabongiwe28363 жыл бұрын
The way you guys look at each other ❤😭
@nokuzolakholwane39383 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I've just realized I am selfish when it comes to a relationship😍😍😍😍
@wanderingcucamber70823 жыл бұрын
Now that you’re self aware sis, hope you’ll start doing better ❤️🔥❤️🔥
@LethoHali3 жыл бұрын
“Skhu, ur not paralysed kaloku” 😆
@siphosethurafane19833 жыл бұрын
0:42 it’s them laughing at the same time for me😂😂😂❤️
@siyamanengele29983 жыл бұрын
I wish I could kneel when I give my husband food and welcome him at the door take off his jacket. But jho AKUUVUUMIII. Make me numb Lord so I can do such practices.
@motheowalerato701 Жыл бұрын
😅😅
@noxolomali3 жыл бұрын
Sis Nozi you are glowing. You look so beautiful & happy. What a beautiful, informative topic. Thank you for the upload ❤️ there are so many lessons to ponder on!
@TheNAVRAY3 жыл бұрын
I was jealousy😂😂Yaz i heard it the 1st time and wondered why Nozi didn't comment on it.. When he said it the second time😂😂😂cima cima Skhu
@zimkhithazim7753 жыл бұрын
I like how you guys calm each other buti Sku is like ima maskosi,and Sis Nozi is like ima standwa sam❤️💓
@theeoneroom84543 жыл бұрын
Njeke 😂
@prudencemasoga57033 жыл бұрын
But can we discuss how Skhu looks at Nozi?😍😍
@asiphecutshwa80473 жыл бұрын
Right😊???!!!
@Bongiebelle3 жыл бұрын
Definitely learning something from these Nozi & uncle Skhu.
@melinyanigobinca37863 жыл бұрын
Yhu andihlekanga maarn ndiyibukelise noMkam le video. I really Love how real you guys are. I love how you guys are not tryna make things look prim proper and perfect like most couples on KZbin.
@AllThingsLindo3 жыл бұрын
Love languages!! Powerful tool for relationships.
@nommie91043 жыл бұрын
I love you guys, you always make me laugh not just laugh but LAUGH HARD!!!
@thatogal25163 жыл бұрын
Hi Nozi I love trying new things esp the ones my spouse loves...... Sometimes we do things we don't love and end up loving BcZ they make our partners feel loved..... De very same way we wish to have amarose pedals surprise.... Our men might not love doing that but realizing that, that makes us happy they will do...
@snazonjongo56033 жыл бұрын
Not the rose petals disembarking chile 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Nozi sis wam ❤️❤️
@AllThingsLindo3 жыл бұрын
Girl! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Nozi had me! And it's not like akayazi inyani 😭
@wanderingcucamber70823 жыл бұрын
🤭🤭🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣
@nyeletihanyani69633 жыл бұрын
Lol and she kept on saying pedals 🤣🤣 Skhu tried correcting her but sis was busy disembarking pedals chile!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ziyanda65213 жыл бұрын
😂
@melmel70113 жыл бұрын
OMG, thank you for bringing up the Shona situation. My man got really jealous that I spoke fondly of how he treated his wife and loved her. We even fought about and I later found out he had an issue with that. We not even south Africans🙈
@lulekozikode30293 жыл бұрын
Uliswati lakitsi wena
@milito5373 жыл бұрын
Praise the LORD!!!! The Lord Jesus has made available all things that pertain unto life and godliness to you!!! He has given you the opportunity to be reconciled unto God forever through His unselfish sacrifice of love, dying on a wooden cross for your sins and being raised from the dead...and through belief in this truth today and confession of His lordship over your life, you can be saved and awakened to the fatherhood of God. Don't wait any longer, please!!! God bless you and good day.
@preciousmanana75723 жыл бұрын
This was so inspirational, thanks to the lovely couple
@osh12783 жыл бұрын
my spirit uplifters😂😂 whenever I feel down ❤inspired by your relationship guys, there's God in your union💫
@ongezwaongie72433 жыл бұрын
Oko ndigowa, I came straight here.Bendiyazi ba ndizohleka🤣🤣🔥😍. God gave us angels 🙌🏼♥️
@Bonani_masangane9 ай бұрын
you guys are hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, 2 yrs later im watching for the 1st time
@sabela55583 жыл бұрын
Hayi Skhu wawuthe akazufika senxiba ilangerie wathi uyifunde phi keleyo, ngk ufuna aguqe ngamadolo akunike ukutya🙊. I know Nozi felt small when you didn't take her seriously that day, izinto zimosheka zizinto ezinjeya(ocinga azinamsebenzi). From my side andiyenzi into andingazukuyimela shame, ngk ndandisonqena usinda ngk ndihambe ngamadolo, never😆😆. I love this topic and you are both right.
@vuyomtshali3 жыл бұрын
I feel you Nozie consistency is important 👏
@katlegomhlauli84233 жыл бұрын
This conversation was very important.. most posts are curated and don’t portray reality
@tjiuamanatjijenda56603 жыл бұрын
It's all about learning each other's love languages which are often different with most couples.
@AllThingsLindo3 жыл бұрын
Soo true, and also these languages change over time. We also need to keep up with where our partner is at that time in terms of that language.
@Bee_Vibes3 жыл бұрын
I agree, love isn't complicated you just need to know your partners love language.
@bjbrownbob3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry Nozi but your Husband has now taken over your channell, I just love his perspective.😁 I hope his new popularity doesn't go to his head!!😂😂😂
@nyashamangunda16192 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this video, we as partners need to constantly give and in turn our partner will give back. She wants romance he wants ego boosters, if she starts inspiring him by giving him the ego boosters here and there he will in turn love her the way she is craving. 🙏🏽
@PheladiNewman2 жыл бұрын
you boost ego once you shall boost that ego forever.
@nereenmangena22912 жыл бұрын
Wow Sku that's a point on consistency 👏of men and what women get used to
@fikileassah10263 жыл бұрын
Nozie will be laughing in the process of that unusual romantic gesture to Skhu
@Lerato_Mo3 жыл бұрын
I believe Skhu will also laugh😹ai these two hai hai
@BishopFika3 жыл бұрын
I definitely understand where Skhu comes from🙌🙌👏i think sometimes its important to do what makes your partner happy even if its not necessarily something that comes naturally
@thembinxitywa97543 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this 🙌❤️.
@davidzohove24073 жыл бұрын
I love you guys! Thank you so much for these videos. I hope you both can do these little things that the other loves,even if it's once in a while. Please keep bringing us content like this.
@tjiuamanatjijenda56603 жыл бұрын
Y'all I was eating an I almost chocked on a piece of meat,🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 y'all are so hilarious, I can't 😂😂😂😂
@siphokaziluzipho41975 ай бұрын
It is the correction of English for me, then they laugh at each other. Best friends.
@connymontsho Жыл бұрын
Nozi we have to love them the way they want to be loved and same for us.If you only do want you want but doing it for them,then you only making yourself happy.imagen if hubby says but I don't like flowers am not buying them.
@deebeem17893 жыл бұрын
We are all individuals at the end of the day. Do whatever suits you as a couple and do not copy or expect your partner to always behave like every couple that you meet in life.
@lethabononjiko91753 жыл бұрын
Your relationship really inspires me. Keep it up guys. We are learning
@manelisilumbe72682 жыл бұрын
Thank you... 👊
@akhonazimasagwejana8835 Жыл бұрын
Molweni emaTshaweni. Ekupheleni kwa 2022 ndise lapha bantase. Ndisaqhuba andimanga. New subscriber .🥰
@previous6333 жыл бұрын
It is good to try new things in your relationship by both parties and not on one side. Good conversation family. Love you.😘
@katlegomhlauli84233 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀 Nozi just take his jacket off sis it’s an ego booster please 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@gcobanizonke87163 жыл бұрын
I love this conversation so inspiring.
@VooVoo_Joy3 жыл бұрын
Zi Rose peddles ngapha ziTabs, one things for sure it's always a literal laughing out loud nani bantase. ✨
@evalinenyasende94772 жыл бұрын
Love you guys your sense of humor ❤.
@conniepedinyane24923 жыл бұрын
It takes two to tango
@DzunyB3 жыл бұрын
These are important conversations to have as couples but unfortunately it's very hard to convince our African brothers to can even take 15 mins to watch such videos and learn. Even if they would do it privately, so here we are as women watching what we hope for and our men telling us we like things from TV 🤣🤣🤣
@hlalanathimbimbi25273 жыл бұрын
Totally agree... Women know both women and men stories while man only cares about men stories
@fikileassah10263 жыл бұрын
Joo i tried several times to show my husband inspiring video with no success. He would just said "I'm not gonna do that, and brush it off.tellling me he was once a soldier bla bla bla
@theeoneroom84543 жыл бұрын
@@fikileassah1026 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that guy is more like me🚮
@lulekozikode30293 жыл бұрын
@@fikileassah1026 soldiers have a straight mind with little emotions.
@nhlanzekomsweli67753 жыл бұрын
Petals vs Pedals 😅
@omphile_thuto3 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for awakening session once again.
@minenhledumakude98963 жыл бұрын
There goes that one ex whoz not happy with ya'll disliking the video 🤐😏, love you guys 😂😂 pedals
@nombulelohlengwa68533 жыл бұрын
May the Good Lord continue to Bless your marriage 🙏. I love you so much💕
@sthandiwe75693 жыл бұрын
This was a really touchy subject indeed, learnt a lot...thank you guys
@Star_Mooneh3 жыл бұрын
You guys nailed it 👏 👌 🙌 🙇♀️
@wandisilemadiba7016 Жыл бұрын
Oh that's why he did that with 10Rands😂😂😂he took some lessons very clever that one😊😊
@ngetie_mangethe3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful conversation, it was so eye opening & inspirational
@samkedlamini57373 жыл бұрын
Nina ngathi niveza lento yokuthi umuntu unobambo lwakhe, I mean every verse I have seen really relate to your love story ❤️❤️ May God keep you 🙏
@nqcreation91003 жыл бұрын
It's rose petals not pedals😂... Nice nails Nozy
@snemthembu45623 жыл бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed watching and listening to you two. God bless you for sharing your love with us. Definitely sparked a lot of introspection into how I am as a partner and how I can better create that environment to help my partner stay consistent and to also appreciate the little things above all else. ♥️♥️
@tshegophahledi15813 жыл бұрын
Thoroughly enjoyed this!! 🥺🥰❤❤❤
@yonelapepeta79783 жыл бұрын
I don't know why she was surprised, Eli mpondo🤣🤣🤣uyazelaphi lanto yena.....yho hayi bhuti Skhu
@essybabyj61413 жыл бұрын
The way you want Skhu to do romantic things for you is the same way he would want you to do nice things for him that would boost his ego.
@genzim19633 жыл бұрын
You guys are always inspiring. I liked the whole discussion. I wish you come back to this topic sometime.
@ncediswatisani27583 жыл бұрын
Hahaaa! As for "Uyazelaphi lanto yena elimpondo" 🤣🤣🤣 hay bhuti Skhu 😅
@hlobilentuli27913 жыл бұрын
😂🤣🤣Yazin Xhosa men will be the death of us stru 😂
@bulelwamgumane76163 жыл бұрын
I admire your love Cc nozi n buti skhu we learn a lot 4rom u guys keep on doing the good work ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@07744092702 жыл бұрын
Ouch its the it's not that person has changed but u have gotten used to it Harsh truth
@deemasiziba90343 жыл бұрын
Nozi you are right ,its petals.🤣🤣🤣😂
@asandamatolweni70813 жыл бұрын
Simply put...we get lazy once we are within...LOL
@enhlevilakazi71383 жыл бұрын
"KIKIKIKIKIIIII....YEEYSSS." I'm dead yhooo lmao 0:07
@buhlelupindo20543 жыл бұрын
uQ was probably acting that day for you guys and she probably doesn’t do that every day. 😂😂😂
@nhlanhlam121 Жыл бұрын
Spot on
@BiancaMQ3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Nozi for this video ❤️It is a very important conversation.Thank you Skhu for the male point of view i am taking notes.
@DIYYolande3 жыл бұрын
He was the first one owaku cabuza empundini!! A LEGEND!!. Listen you guys make my day when yall post neh. Thank you for real couple conversations....
@emile70903 жыл бұрын
Thank you I have learned something
@sihledlamini-makhubu47913 жыл бұрын
Challenge accepted Mr nd Mrs Mayaba.... God bless you for me.... I love you guys
@tammylewis48523 жыл бұрын
I just started watching. New subscriber. I'm in love with you two. 😍😍