We're Different People (Love Languages, Personality Types, and How We Learn Each Other)

In this episode we dive into personality types and love languages, the differences in how we give and receive love and how they can help your relationships!
PLEASE keep in mind, these tests are not DEFINING, rather informative. They should help you improve, not bind you to a "type". Your personality can change. These tests should not be used to predict your future, relationship compatibility or what path you should take. Especially for Christians, please don't make your "type" an idol or look to it for guidance. Take the information with a grain of salt! It's not 100% fact, it's based on how you see yourself and helpful in understanding how you and others can improve!
Tests we've taken and recommend:
The 5 Love Languages test www.5lovelangua...
Myer's Briggs 16 Personalities test www.16personal...
Enneagram www.truity.com
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[@tammys1696]

Vicky, you are absolutely right! If you are not happy with yourself, you are not going to be happy with anyone. It isn't anybody's responsibility to make you happy.

[@maryade4416]

Everything is we is now a staple on my Friday night routine. Love this podcast sooo much!!!!

[@abbiecd16]

Facts ❤️

[@AriellChristiain1]

I absolutely agree with Cam about the power of words and being intentional with HOW it is said. I love criticism, growth is always present. BUT harsh criticism/passive aggression in my opinion is led with judgement, not care. So it comes of patronizing and adds to feelings of inadequacy. I really loved this conversation it’s important in all relationships like y’all said, not just romantic ones.

[@veliciawilliams5865]

I agree. You have to save some of yourself for you. And never give more of yourself than you can afford to. No is ok sometimes.

[@lazyme115426]

Every podcast hits home for me. I tear up each time because I thought I was the only one going through these things in my relationship. I learned that I am not alone. Cam is just like me and my fiancé is EXACTLY like Vicky! It blows my mind when you guys are sharing your personalities. Thank you so much guys. Seriously ❤️

[@LovetheLongmires]

Your intentions don’t excuse how you made someone feel!!!! THATS THE ONE!

[@nicoleking5131]

I appreciate this channel. I enjoy content from people who are maturing in Christ. Wholesome content with people who also love the Lord.

[@debgakpo]

Wow that gas and car analogy was so good. Great episode. Thank y’all for your words of wisdom as always 🙏🏾

[@Idenitinchrist]

What you said Vicky resonates with me that in relationships we need to change our perspective to how can we serve one another instead of what I’m getting out of this! I’m still learning how to do this but it is definitely a game changer💓

[@BreLJ]

This is definitely proving why we aren’t meant to be alone. & this is coming from a single person who has completely shut down even the idea of a relationship 😅. I’ll get there one day 🥴.

[@trustingtheprocessofficial]

WOOP WOOP! Loving the consistency guys!

[@ShidaRose]

I completely feel you on that holding yourself back and wanting to be your self so bad. Life experiences have changed my personality. When I’m comfortable, I’m free. When I’m not comfortable, I’m very quiet.

[@QueenOyinkan]

Congrats on the success of the podcast! Proud of you both! You're walking in your purpose... keep listening to Christ!

[@iyanahgayle9872]

I feel the same way about the harsh criticism, I take other’s criticism and then my own criticism adds onto it 🤦🏾‍♀️ yesss “lace your words with grace and truth”!!

[@thesoulfoodpodcast]

Just because you can pay for something, doesn't mean you can afford it. There's a difference between the 2 I learnt that a few years ago. Loved the car analogy btw Cameron! I can honestly say that since I got saved, I have come to learn that when it comes to friendship relationships, quality beats quantity. I am in healthier and better friendships now that I have ever been. They don't bring me any stress or drama. Thank God. Keep these videos coming fam, we love them.

[@jenng5925]

Watched the video halfway last week and👍🏾. Just finished watching this morning. I’m 48 and have been divorced for 11 years now. These conversations are helping to prepare me for the next marriage. I’m very familiar with the scriptural aspect of these conversations but it’s nice to hear examples of how scriptures are being applied. I’m also sharing your videos with my 28 year old son who’s not yet married. Keep up the good work and I’m looking forward to the next one.

[@charlinecharlostin3188]

I love you guys and once again thank you for demonstrating a healthy Christian marriage.

[@growingwitha1578]

Everyone: do as I say not as I do... Cam: Lead by example! Love this👌🏽 ps: I'm watching this and I'm just like can I call in and ask a question😂😂this ain't no radio show😂😂

[@everythingiswe]

Lol we don’t have a call in option yet but you can definitely leave voice messages on our anchor page!!!

[@AriellChristiain1]

“I TRY MY BEST!” 😭🤣🤣

[@littforwhat1110]

Love from the UK. LOL, I love the quote that says Americans eat like their health care is free.

[@signeddaniellelea]

YES! I always always always say: “Intent does not negate impact!”

[@sandybling]

Great episode. I love how you both build each other up and it's all about growing together and self check. No selfish ambition. The illustration with the car gas (we call it petrol in the UK lol) and food was on point. Love from the UK. God bless you both, keep reppin Christ. Encouraging

[@bariel00]

Woahhh at 8:30 that was a bit triggering for me. I had flashbacks from every time someone told be that I didn’t work up to my potential. That’s why I’m so hard on myself and usually burn out because I don’t feel like what I’m doing is exceptional.

[@jasmine2218]

you guys are rare ,hard to find people who think like this nowadays, god bless❤️

[@itzsassyashley]

Y'all speaking facts! My mom calls that "having a beer pocketbook on champagne dreams" Affording is one thing. Sustaining is another.

[@loveafrica97]

Cam has grown on me so much! For real he just seemed stuck up and stand off ish when I stated watching all the way back but I like him a lot now!

[@CameronLogan]

Dang lol well atleast we cool now

[@sodreaaa8254]

@@CameronLogan 🤣🤣🤣

[@youheard03]

Loool he used to come off as cold guess he just misunderstood lolll

[@TyMama26]

I have watched you all for years and together you both are inspirational. I love this next chapter in your lives thank you for bringing us with you. If y’all keep dropping these gems we gone keep picking em up 🖤❤️🖤❤️

[@monicapatterson6135]

I’ve been following you two since you were dating i was one of the first to follow life with the Logan’s and somehow drifted from being a regular. I’m BIG ON TIME ANS PLACE AND SIGNS. I have been feeling lost lately and the testimony in these videos was something i didn’t know i needed when this channel came in my recommendation but I’m so glad God guided me here. I’ve Subscribed and i thank you for the word i felt like i had been missing lately.

[@centertwo_one3147]

I took the love language test and I broke it lol. The test told me I didn’t have a definitive language but I probably take a mix of everything. Honestly made me reflect and realize I don’t have one because I spend more time showing people what I know means love to them. Not sure where to go from there but I love this episode.

[@luxuriouslylakeshia]

I know you didn't ask buttttt here's my input LOL 1. I LOVE YALL SHIRTS!! Screaming 90s to me! #92BabyToBeExact lol 2. Vicky you introduced me to take the test (love language exactly) and I was like Cam.....not a touchy feely person (maybe I'll get there one day lol) 3. y'all always preaching #minibiblestudy! thank youuu! but i agree that it is all in your delivery! 4. when I'm at work I come off mean/standoff-ish don't really say/speak as much and I'm like because this isn't the time or place for allat ya know lol....but when I'm home with people I'm comfortable with I'm totally different but that's how it should be (its levels to it basically) and as usual THANK YOU GUYSS FOR ALL OF THISSS CONTENT KEEP'EM COMING!

[@victoriajadesola6323]

preachhhhhhhh... that car and gas analogy just put everything into better perspective

[@lilashleyb]

The excitement I got for this upload. Thank you both.

[@BrittneyJanae]

I always get sleepy and it’s getting worse. So I need to figure that out! But this whole episode was much needed for me!

[@chinwechibuzor6791]

These podcast are really meaningful to me. Love them thank you guys💕

[@TakaeTalks]

I literally was just taking the personality test the other day and it was sooo accurate, it scared me lol! But this was so good. Love y'all! 😊

[@Iwh6746]

It’s the consistency for me!!🤍

[@Jalisaingram]

At 05:40 this is literally my husband and me lollll he say the same to ppl about me. "That's actually her happy face" lol

[@DaGreatAri]

This talk has me shook. I need to figure out how to digest all of this. I want to give God’s best to all the relationships that I hold dear.

[@RickyyRossy12]

🗣 Cam, we’re going to need you to go there so the people know!! 49:06 😂

[@kristenmcween5244]

Thank yall...for speaking on the "new age" cuteness. The enemy is clever 🤦🏾‍♀️ Yall are a blessing and I plan on supporting!🙏🏾❤

[@dejacobbs2528]

My personality I am a ENFJ-A similar to Cam…but Vicky made a good point over time we learn how to cope and we lose sight of our true selves. Oh and y’all was preaching again!!! At least 5 sermons in one…was about to do a lap in my room. Lol 🙌🏽👏🏽 I look forward to this podcast every week🤗

[@CameronLogan]

Cmon somebody

[@GracefulJules]

I'm like Cam but I also think it's the engineer in me too. We overthink it all the time.

[@tammys1696]

Yes! I'm also in the engineering field, and I over think things all the time!

[@GracefulJules]

@@tammys1696 I think it’s because we are set to solve complex problems which cause us to naturally overthink maybe idk lol. What discipline are you in? I’m in electrical.

[@tammys1696]

@@GracefulJulesMaybe you're right. I'm in manufacturing. I remember interviewing with my now boss, I told him that sometimes I over think things. He smiled and said, "that's what engineers do".

[@kiorbykeciaco.kiordecor5341]

The "thugs" gift was mad funny on the vlog omg !! its the first thing I thought about

[@DS-Trina]

Loved this podcast! When Cam said “don’t look at her face....lol”’ i felt that! This is SO me! People usually tell me “I thought you were real stuck up, but you’re actually cool!” 😂 Every time Vicky speaks she describes me. So, I took the personality test and got the same one as Vicky, and I was not surprised at all. She had me at “I’ll wait in the car” and that was it. 😂😂

[@kinequalassiter9448]

I needed this after a conversation I had with my husband last night

[@rimixeley9256]

Always a pleasure tuning in. Very informative and relatable. Thanks for sharing with us.

[@breh1589]

Ima tell y’all once mo an again. Pleeeese stop tellin my business! I thought we was friends 😩😂 But seriously thank you guys for this. Even though I’ve never been in a relationship or even on a date. (Although at my age that’s very embarrassing) lol I still learn so much and apply so much of what y’all say to my life. I honestly wish I could tell y’all how much over the years y’all have helped. If you only knew the story. I’m so happy for y’all .

[@loveafrica97]

The dealing with conflict was real. I am Vicky, give it to me straight. I can take it. Get to it. Give me the uncut version. And for a long time, it annoyed me that people couldn’t take the uncut truth, it bothered me that sometimes people needed words to be well crafted to be received well. It used to drive me nuts. Reason being bc the world is not going to always be gracious and sugar coated so I assumed they needed the truth from here, so they won’t be hurt out there. But I’m realizing even more so they need that in their safe spaces, grace. Like Vicky said intentionality doesn’t take away how people feel. But woo my eyes have been opened, thanks for learning Vicky so that I’m now learning to be gracious with the ways others deal with things. I had to go text my friend

[@ManjiD]

if cam went to nursing school, he would be very successful, because critical thinking is soo crucial. "your big toe or your thumb" lollllll

[@cherma03]

Perfect timing for my commute back home from work ☺️ starting off the weekend right!! Love y’all 🤎

[@KiKiL]

Validation From GOD & Your WIFE!!👏🏾 🗣Say it again..louder for the people in the back!

[@jomekec8443]

Wow!@ free marriage counselling? I'll take it! Yall did it again. Thank you💚

[@Stonejade97]

Love this podcast you guys. You guys give good advice from a christian standpoint that’s very realistic

[@livinwithashleyj4176]

Y’all are so awesome 👏 Many people need to hear this! This Podcast is going to bless many!

[@_zory]

You guys as cartoons. Hehe love it. *chef's kiss* Ok now I'll listen to the podcast. 🌸❣🌷🍒

[@tminniemouse]

This has BLESSED Me! You two are really giving me things to think & pray about concerning my marriage & all relationships. Ya’ll are dope! Thank you! ✨

[@janishatravels]

I'm similar to Cam I'm very hard on myself and I overthink a lot. I felt seen hearing him express that. I've never taken the enneagram test though, maybe I should. Thanks for sharing y'all! 🤍

[@brittanya8166]

Excellent podcast, with invaluable content 👌🏾Wishing continued success for you both!

[@januaryhyland7654]

This is so random, but both of y’all have nice calming voices. I’m a new subscriber, love the videos!

[@myyariew7046]

So why every time I get on this podcast, they are reading my whole life out, like I’m only 10 minutes in and I’m bout to fall out of my chair, see god knew what he was doing when they came across my suggested videos 🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@deas9410]

Love this! Keep going with the transparency and knowledge love you guys

[@KristianCheyenne413]

Words of Affirmation is mine as well lol , just told the husband! ....physical touch was mine for a long time!

[@vanessagreene9374]

I'm so grateful for y'all! Thanks for sharing your experiences and the wisdom you've obtained over the years. It truly is refreshing!

[@shinitajordan2091]

Say that happiness thing again 🗣 They didn’t hear you in the back! 🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@ricem4050]

Greeeaaaat podcast! Vickie, I think I'm definitely in that 3% with u, cause your personality is 100% mine... i know we're all different, but seriously I related to most everything you said about u! Awesome!

[@Infinity-om1pl]

Listening to this podcast has taught me many things…. But one of them is that I am no where near ready for marriage. And that’s okay lol. It will happen someday, just not today 😂

[@MoniqueXSM]

Here for alla thissssssss!

[@MillionaireMello]

Thank you for this. 🤍 This was the kindest form of a reality check I have ever received. So many great pointers and examples.

[@lebogangletlape6370]

Im so excited for this one specifically. Pitty iv got a class test i have to prepare for...but ill be back for it! I know its going to be fire!

[@chelseashalonda1567]

27:20-27:35 yall just melted my heart.

[@dominiquebasran8570]

This was literally like watching my husband and me. Great podcast!

[@seximex2008]

I absolutely love watching you guys! You guys speak so much truth! I’m glad I came across your podcast!

[@RandomSkitts]

I'm really enjoying these videos. do you guys have another channel? I really enjoy how you both love God and are trying to do better and learn. keep making videos

[@MissKaygee101]

Amazing content. I really enjoy these videos

[@LenoraTaylor3]

Y’all should do a podcast on eating in general. Especially in the Black American community.

[@theamberbrooks7066]

Loving the consistency and topics!

[@TruTheCreator]

This was an amazing video. I'm also big on personality tests and this video got me to do some reflection and retake my tests. Thanks for your honest - love your chemistry!

[@alfaz1998]

Listening in from the UK! Love your guys channel and conversations. Would love to hear you speak about insecurities/fears/trials of relationship:) Also - where did you get your tshirts from?? I need them!!

[@carissam467]

Wow, I just learned that I’m an Advocate INFJ-A/T

[@MyNameIsBryann]

Same 😭😭😭

[@ChrissyAnn85]

Wow I always learn something about myself when I watch. This test was great.

[@PorshaCierra]

“Babe when you got me them uggs” 😂😂😂

[@denaelamour]

I would love for you both to do a review of Married at First Sight

[@sellac.1569]

Another quality podcast❣🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@alyssiavick5629]

Loved this, recently gotten into enneagrams! Have you guys tried/found out your attachment style?

[@GracefulJules]

I find similarities with both you and Vicky in myself. So cool. I need to take these tests again it's been a while.

[@thekindredhour]

I am totally her! Lol I am genuinely passionate about this topic!

[@AutumnnLatrice]

I use to tell people all the time “I am not Willie Wonka, I don’t sugarcoat stuff” God had to truly deal with me in a season to soften my response to others. What they say at work “Flex my communication style” to different individuals

[@everythingiswe]

lol the funny thing about Willy Wonka (in the original movie) he was very sarcastic and used a lot of dry humor 😂 so it turns out he wasn’t so sugary

[@AutumnnLatrice]

@@everythingiswe facts! He sugarcoated the candies😂😂

[@tattoo_yogi3367]

I thoroughly enjoy these conversations. 🙌🏾

[@jayla.brown.]

I love these videos so muchhh! I’m excited about the next topic

[@Jayne130]

y'all look so beautiful... I'm so glad I stumbled upon this channel

[@everythingiswe]

Thanks for watching!!

[@theamberbrooks7066]

Just do what we ask lol 😌 ( I’m totally kidding )

[@kiorbykeciaco.kiordecor5341]

The Denzel voice sent me !!!

[@sodreaaa8254]

Great podcast as usual ! Y’all are amazing !

[@ItsKeee]

Lol why is Cam my whole twin? enneagram 1, campaigner, words of affirmation and I’m in Seminary 🙃😂😂

[@333pinacolada]

Hello, I am a 27-year-old single female and I want to know if you have any suggestions or advice for how I can change my mindset towards marriage? I currently see marriage as something that people just fall into or an unequal partnership that people feel trapped into or that they need. I know these views stem from not having a positive example of any marriage in my life so I don’t want to continue in this mindset because I would like to experience it if it is for me. Thanks in advance.

[@nicole__o]

Hey Cam and Vicky, please look into the background of the enneagram when you can; it is rooted in occultism Claudio Naranjo developed the enneatypes using automatic writing which is the trance-channelling of demons Sharing out of love

[@everythingiswe]

When I did my research on it the roots weren’t entirely clear. But just in case it is, we gave plenty other options for personality tests. Like we said in the podcast the tests are based on self assessment, so we shouldn’t be getting our identity from it anyway.

[@SachiKara28]

Love this podcast so much!! The content has been super on point & it’s awesome to hear from a young black married couple who have hearts to serve the Lord in all things 👏🏽 If y’all haven’t checked out the personality book/resource “Wired That Way” by Marita Littauer, it’s quality and has helped me a lot!

[@deborahc.8478]

Every british person nodding their head to "American eat like their healthcare is free" 😆 👁👄👁

[@alexischilds3726]

Come through healthy relationships with cho man AND God !!!!

[@1MsKorea]

Vicky do you mind sharing the devotional you used!