We Are Family: In-Law Drama, The "Good Family" Dynamic and other random rants

[@jenng5925]

I think divorced people can offer advice based on the failure of the relationship. They know what did NOT work and can advise from that standpoint. I don’t think they’re advice should be discounted.

[@leiladescollines3447]

I love this episode but I do take advice from single people. At time even married people will tell you to stay in unhealthy relationships because they’re in one. My single friends give me amazing advice. Just because someone doesn’t have a significant other doesn’t mean they can’t give great advice. And vice versa.

[@everythingiswe]

💯 Wisdom and discernment is key!

[@OneiArMani18]

Thank you so much for this comment, I do not understand when people say "do not take advice from single people" as if they cannot make a valid point. The right person can give you great advice and open your eyes to something you may not have seen or even considered before. Many people go to a marriage therapist who may not be married, but they receive advice from them?!

[@derrickmason7457]

Good content unfortunately my wife’s family weren’t the greatest in-laws I had to learn to stay in prayer pick my battles and still learn to love them through Gods word. They don’t come from the best of role models but I love my wife and I had to learn and still am learning to know when to remove myself. I love the wisdom you do have to give I love listening to yal. 1 thing I’ve learned God has to be your foundation

[@BrookeLynn-sr6vy]

I love all the churchy jokes 😭

[@MayasSuite]

Me too 😂😂😂

[@shelomis5255]

Same girl 🥰I fit in so well here 😂

[@Quittlatae]

Me too!!

[@angels8248]

Enjoyed the podcast as always. One thing on the question of accepting advice from someone who isn’t in a position you want to be in is Paul in the Bible. He was single yet giving sound advice to those who were married. Although, overall I agree that for example, if I want to accumulate wealth, I wouldn’t want advice from a broke person. There are still some instances were we can receive from those who aren’t necessarily our end goal like Paul. God bless y’all!💜

[@everythingiswe]

Paul had specific instructions though. He was a whole apostle. Everybody can’t be Paul lol

[@esthersmith2261]

Cam is a preacher FOREAL 🤣🤣 Love these two!

[@abriajohnson-kinsey4099]

The lavender on V is 🔥

[@sodreaaa8254]

You guys are literally glowing today lol. We can tell y’all really enjoy doing this podcast..! Finishing the rest now !

[@everythingiswe]

We really do!

[@davidaa.8620]

"What's understood don't need to be explained." 😊

[@loveafrica97]

Woah, Cam had some healing in that rant. I love that Vicky just sat back and allowed brother to just talk. Love that for you guysss

[@Amber_AB_Boyd]

Knowing of someone and knowing someone is totally different. My parents taught me this when I was younger. And they had me apply it to God and that’s helped me in many relationships.

[@hellokaylaa7648]

I love the church jokes mannnn 😂 “now we gone turn it over ...”

[@troylittle2910]

I always hit the like button before watching because “I like” the movement you guys are creating. I think sometimes people don’t understand just how much courage it takes to create a podcast where your opinions and perspectives on various topics are being picked apart and dissected by people that don’t always try to know or understand where you guys are coming from. You can’t please everyone but you are truly blessing me. #Everything is we all day!!!!

[@jasmineakrie60]

Man! The whole “rant” about not hardening your heart as a PK...that’s the one! I’m not a PK by blood but my godfather is a pastor and he’s basically my only father figure. I’ve grown up in his church and the revolving door of “friends” is real.

[@AdriannaFyne]

I’m always enlightened and amazed by the analogies Cam comes up weth 😭🔥

[@TakaeTalks]

I would love to hear you guys talk about your careers and evolving together as it pertains to that. Also how you support each other in the midst of career changes!

[@OneiArMani18]

I really liked the bird analogy Cam!! I would not mind receiving advice from my single friends. I believe the key words are "sound and wisdom" once it aligns with the word of God I see no problem with it. Married people should be weary of negative advice from single friends, however, because one is married does not automatically mean they have the answers, wisdom, or maturity to speak into your situation. Like Vicky always says every situation is different so it may take different people who are at different stages to pour into a situation.

[@aeried314]

😂😂😂 You guys are hilarious!!! It was several topics that surprisingly came together at the end! Love it 😊

[@everythingiswe]

❤️❤️

[@loveafrica97]

On Vicky saying she didn’t realize her need a until she was in relationship, there’s so much you learn in relationship bc it’s a whole entity in itself yknow?

[@0hSoBlessed]

I agree w many ppl on here saying single ppl can give good advice. most the men in the bible were single. Its about being lead by the Holy spirit. Marriage comes from God it's a reflection of Christ and the Church so He knows best. Many married people don't know how to be a spouse that will build up their spouse and glorify God In their marriage. It's only with God that every human can be good in business, career, relationships, in life, with money, as a parent etc.. so discernment from the Holy spirit is key when taking advice but anyone can give good advice when lead by the Holy Spirit 🙏🏽

[@ChyrBear]

I really loved this episode because it's definitely a way to see an outlook on other people's perspectives on certain things. Like as for me, I have literally never been in a relationship but literally every single last one of my friends always come to me for relationship advice. They always tell me, "somehow you always know what to say. You always know where to guide and how to help us do better." And I say thats nothing but wisdom and knowledge the Lord has given me. I don't necessarily tell them what I would personally do in a relationship I only speak on what the Bible says about true love and relationships. And of course if you are actually being dumb or ignorant then obviously that's when common sense kicks in 😭😩 imma always call you out on it. I will always correct them on their stupidity. I do not sugarcoat. But that's the only thing that I may disagree on. I don't necessarily think you have to have had experienced a certain situation in order to speak out on it or give proper advice. I think it all plays into where your mindset lays and where you seak your help from. But you guys keep doing what you're doing cause babyyyy I stay watching on every single channel y'all have ❤It's so heartwarming to see Christian people who I somehow compare to, out here being great and showing people you can actually have a lit life while loving Jesus. Y'all are truly inspiring.

[@BrittneyJanae]

man I love my friends they are all of that! They give it to me straight and just we all on the same wave length. Makes life so enjoyable.

[@GISELLEMARIED]

My parents and I didn’t have the best relationship growing up. I saw them as parents/providers and not friends, so when as I got older we just didn’t mesh and I didn’t feel comfortable coming to them for anything. All that has translated into my relationship because when I came out as bisexual with my then girlfriend, now fiancée; it wasn’t that great, they basically didn’t want to talk about it at all. Versus on the other hand my fiancées family is AMAZING, she’s best friends with her parents and therefore her parents treat me with so much love. But we knew that going into it, and I knew that I wasn’t going to let my parents determine my happiness because that wasn’t fair to me. The relationship is a little better now, they’ve become more accepting and are making amends with my fiancée and her family. But just like Vicky said, you want to make sure you’re with someone that will support you no matter what. And best believe if anyone in my family gets smart about my relationship, ima have some words for them cuz it’s none of their business 😂

[@keyshapinkeny788]

I respect your vulnerability and willingness to share your marriage journey. I have acquired alot of insight from your marriage. Truth does not require experience to be valid. Neither Jesus nor the Apostle Paul were married,; however, their teaching on marriage are truth. People whether single or divorce are still able to speak on marriage as long as they share God's word . Your situation is truly a blessing, however, it is still flawed because all humanity is flawed; yet, we still listen as you share your marriage journey.

[@CameronLogan]

Appreciate you. These are things I also stated in the podcast. However we cannot compare wisdom from Jesus to wisdom from Paul. We also must ensure we have the right interpretation of what Paul’s letters to the church are as well. Right interpretation and right doctrine produce proper practice.

[@lovedbyjesus7065]

@@CameronLogan Amen! Most of what Paul stated was inspired by the Holy Spirit anyway. Some things he spoke from his own mind, but the majority was God’s words through him. Paul acknowledges that.

[@maryade4416]

This whole episode is what you call a word in SEASON!!!!!

[@chondarenee7570]

Soooo...I skipped to the end to hear the "new things". LOL. Im going back to the beginning now :-). Love you guys.

[@tayoriginal]

Y’all gave a thousand disclaimers! These sensitive times we live in… Lol

[@Amber_AB_Boyd]

I have to always like before watching! Bc i know it’s going to be great! I’ll be back!! Blessings to the Logan’s

[@anomalysa3]

I found y’all earlier today and have been binge watching all day 😂😂 I love it here! Especially as a newlywed❤️ thank y’all for these podcasts

[@labritt5843]

The Kendrick reference at 19:30🤣🙌🏾 love y’all❤️

[@ciarafjones]

Love you guys and the pod! Love this content. Sincere question: when it comes to advice and who we are willing to receive it from, can single people offer wisdom to the married on marriage? Can a poor person offer wisdom to the wealthy on wealth? Childless to parents? Etc etc...I’m wondering if we’re making our stance on advice-giving so black and white that we’ve left no room for nuance?

[@sdcr1077]

You don't necessarily have to experience to give Godly wisdom. The Apostle Paul spoke on marriage, yet he had never been married

[@everythingiswe]

Yes but, not everyone has the Godly wisdom or call on their life that Paul had. It’s a lot of people out here giving bad, unwise advice 😂

[@sdcr1077]

@@everythingiswe I totally agree 100% that's why I said Godly wisdom. If it's not Godly or sound wisdom bye.. 😁 I really enjoy listening to you both.

[@IAmHisBeloved5]

@@sdcr1077 I agree with you because the Bible is full of wisdom and you don’t have to be walking in a certain area to share the wisdom that’s written in God’s word. The Bible tell wives to submit to their husbands. And tell husbands love your wife as Christ love the church. You can be single and remind married people of things such as that for them to have a successful marriage. And that’s just two examples.

[@Dezziesohood]

Yanno I really feel this rant that Cam is talking about the friends. Def feel this

[@RuthieSongbird]

I just think it’s sad that some parents can’t let their feelings go long enough to support their child and who they love/spouse.

[@everythingiswe]

One thing I’ve noticed is a lot of older generations have unaddressed or unhealed trauma and tend to take it out on their kids. Baby boomers in particular weren’t as mental health focused as we are. So their actions can’t always be taken personal

[@RuthieSongbird]

@@everythingiswe well said.

[@fiocherry]

Havent watched yet but im always sooo excited for the podcast episode!! I was just thinking about it yesterday!!

[@prettygurl747]

Is there anywhere I can watch any of Cam’s sermons?! I am loving this podcast btw y’all 🥰

[@everythingiswe]

Yes! Check the church KZbin CFFCZion

[@m.w.8496]

I’m happy for you guys!!!!

[@Quittlatae]

Can you all do an epsiode on the struggles and the blessings that come with being a PK. Its WHOLE experience that people really dont talk about.

[@loveafrica97]

That’s good!

[@everythingiswe]

absolutely. we will have guests for this one

[@faithroselyn]

Excited ❤️

[@wandilemkhize8263]

Argh I really enjoyed this. It was real therapy. Love you so much♥️🙏

[@stephie3130]

That Kendrick reference 🤣👏🏽 Golddd

[@HairdiariesofanonguruBlogspot]

Cam had things on his mind this podcast 😂

[@lindal3841]

Love this! Vicky is right-it is a case by case thing and people should do what works for them. And of course we can't choose what family we are born into but we should be as discerning as possible. A bit of constructive criticism-please try to not speak over each other as much. It can be distracting. Love you guys ❤

[@jasbkel]

I’m behind on my subscriptions but better late than never ❤️

[@deedeelou2854]

Love this episode!

[@lauren-ashleyblack8610]

"Would seek advice from someone that isn't successful in that area?" This is a great question cause I would ask their experiences to see how I can avoid their failures, but at the same time, I wouldn't watch failed entrepreneurs on KZbin. I watch people like Dave Ramsay who has failed and is now succeeding.

[@cicihenderson9044]

Jesus was single and he gave married advice (not to compare myself to Jesus lol). All relationships rooted in the fruit of the spirit will survive. Im single and when I give advice to people in relationships or someone married it’s in the form of self reflection. I won’t tell you what you should do, but I will ask if your actions or reactions are driven by love, peace, kindness, etc and let that person come to their own epiphany. You can only control your actions and reactions even though you are one with the other. Would I take advice rooted in opinion from a single person? No. But, i will take sound doctrine...as you were saying.

[@taylormoore8951]

🔥 episode!!

[@lifewithkaliya]

no this is facts tho....I always say as a single person I am NOT in the business of giving married people advice...that's not my ministry!

[@iyanahgayle9872]

yayyyyy love this channel 🙏🏾💗

[@justforwork1164]

I love yall!

[@NannyDiaries23]

Lol I don’t eat chicken on the bone either 😂

[@alexiscampbell1735]

What should I do if I love my husband and his family, but he always seems to put them first, like before me... I don’t ask for a lot but he seems to jump for his parents and whenever I ask something he’s reluctant.

[@everythingiswe]

Talk to him about it

[@tat21able]

I have gently pressed the thumbs up button.

[@jamojayj]

Boom! This is so spot on. I was just saying this last week. I have single, or engaged, friends giving marriage advice and not listening to me, even though I have been married for 15 years, with two kids to show. Go to the seasoned folks, not those still in unseasoned stages. What wisdom are they providing you for your situation?

[@CameronLogan]

Bingo

[@v.velarde3694]

Ohhh it depends on the advice LOL. I mean if they are suggesting I change something about my business for example to see better results it doesnt hurt to try it. BUT if they are giving marital advice and never been married then honey NO LOLOLOLOL OOP and I typed that before you got to your point, i had paused the video

[@therealestjaee]

I'm sorry but when you said "mature" or "ma - tour" like you dad said. I was weak. This word is said so many different ways but it makes me itch when people say it the "ma-tour"other way. :{ lol

[@CameronLogan]

I laugh every time 🤣

[@LovetheLongmires]

Do you believe children who grew up in households with successful marriages after better marriages than those who didn’t???

[@everythingiswe]

Naturally yes, the probability of success would be higher for someone who has seen success. The goal is to have a healthy marriage that your kids can see as an example!

[@CreunisLors]

it sucks walking on the path of God alone . you gotta be a trail blazer when you wish you had some friends to lean on .

[@rebeccasamson1965]

Cam still messing up the intros lol

[@heatherj.3393]

Taking advice from divorced people is like asking for advice about a job from somebody that got fired lol Yes, SOME things will be true because they were successful for a moment but at the end of the day...THEY GOT FIRED. Something in the midst of what they are giving you is going to have you end up like them...FIRED. lol