We’re Raising Our Child As Gender Fluid | MY TRANS LIFE

[@El-yo2jq]

Instead of raising your kid as GenderFluid, just raise them without strict gender roles. Edit: Holy shizzle this got 1k likes

[@maggie7775]

Ella L EXACTLY

[@catalina7904]

That's exactly what they're doing.

[@lordnodob7338]

Raise them with knowing these but don’t raise them as this (I don’t believe in the Gender Thingy Religion)

[@mimiswhatsits7123]

Exactly

[@xNaxxou]

@@WilliamLucian Women are not more caring, they're made to be more caring but there is a social and historical reason behind that. Men have more muscle mass but that doesn't mean they will develop their muscle mass, women can be as strong and I don't see what that has to do with gender roles so if you could clarify that'd be great, always happy to exchange

[@user-og2it4fg5e]

Nothings wrong with teaching her about sexuality its the constant pressure to be *fluid* that's gonna be a problem

[@YouSuck-uj1sy]

3.14159 1 exactly.

[@heyayup]

Fluid means choice love

[@Bjay_Jw]

@@heyayup lmao exactly.

[@tiredofpolitics9816]

Exactly what I thought.

[@eeyorewitch]

Not as much pressure to be a boy or a girl....she gets to be what she wants.

[@Emjay90s]

I'm a trans guy but I'll never treat my kid like this.

[@sophiemeowcat12]

O thank god

[@JadedMuse2]

The Meta... did you pass the third grade with those spelling skills?

[@laurenm2056]

Jaded Muse I was doing to say the same thing 😂 they can’t even insult someone correctly.

[@kirstenhouston435]

Thank god

[@infinitescratch5887]

I’d still get my child the clothes and toys they want but this is too far

[@marlonmendez5176]

I find disturbing how all this child spoke about was the boy/girl duality of her world. She didn't talk about what she likes, what she wants to do, who she admires, her dreams, her toys, etc. It just seemed like she was robotically regurgitating everything she's been force-fed about her parent's struggles. I hope she grows up to be strong and resilient.

[@arirose5887]

She did though, she said "girl-self boy style" She seems to identify as female, she just likes clothes that are both masculine and feminine. Just seems like a kid to me

[@stahhpppitttt]

Plot twist The parents wanted a boy

[@zoexxjane]

Well maybe it’s because that’s what this document is about?

[@jaykay415]

@@zoexxjane lol exactly.

[@cici2562]

@@stahhpppitttt I think they wanted boy/girl twins.

[@chloe_3787]

The fact that she is calling them “girl clothes” and “boy clothes” show that she is not being raised in a household without labels. They’re pushing something on her, but missing the real issue. If you simply take gender stereotypes out of your language, kids will figure out who they are for themselves; they don’t need two parents who talk about gender identity 24/7.

[@siimplykennaa5887]

Nobody said they were talking abt that 24/7

[@はちみつ-z6p]

FACTS ON FACTS ON FACTS

[@genussmensch4683]

I was thinking the exact same thing! I was very determined on what i wanted to wear as a little child, enoying the sh*t out of my mother every morning, mainly wanting to wear the prettiest dresses every day till i was 9 maybe, then switched to all old "male" cloth from my older brothers for a year or two and then developed my "unique clothing style" till i was 14/15: I wore these hiphop printed "male" shirts with these tight 90s flared jeans with glitter on them in combination 😅. Never thought about it too long, never had to talk about it. This seems like ideology.

[@kamkam7964]

PREACH GUYS

[@celestek.2395]

The kid is speaking that way for US the viewers, So we understand what’s being talked about. And please, I’m sure they don’t talk about unless the kid asks a question, or brings it up.

[@IMTWalrus01]

Why do I get the feeling that these two would accept their child as anything BUT a straight, cisgendered female?

[@tiktokclout9012]

Same

[@jennymkhol]

IMTWalrus01 I feel they are imposing their lifestyle in that poor kid

[@paulhill2366]

we've all seen women wear mens clothes indoors because theyre comfortable... theyd probably wear them outdoors too if they werent berated by the "why cant we just keep things the same" brigade!

[@nesrinisli6921]

true😂

[@Noobmaster-oe5cw]

@Macaron Glitter BAHAHAHHAHAH CISPHOBIC AND HETEROPHOBIC ARENT A THING SIS

[@nazat.9125]

Clothes don't really define your gender lol

[@lavitamichelle]

Sciapodous they sure don’t but it’s an important part too

[@EM-ed5no]

To specify, whether you buy your clothes from the girls or boys section doesn’t define your gender. A plain colored t shirt from the boy’s section doesn’t make a girl something else...

[@mylenezapata754]

I agree, I mean I shop at the boy section sometimes because they have cute stuff lol

[@miszminska7594]

These people are obsessed with stereotypes and silly things like clothes, toys and pronouns.

[@kiannag2276]

Sciapodous yeah but it’s also important because say you wear girl clothes but you say I’m not a girl

[@meganmchugh8841]

I'm genderfluid, and even I'm sick of this. Telling your child they're genderfluid even if they might not be is ridiculous. You can still raise a kid without strict gender roles, but please don't force a label onto a child if they don't want it. I'm genderfluid because of the way my brain is wired, not because of how I was raised.

[@hellom3laniehere]

I agree 100%.

[@aubreynaarcher8916]

Exactly. I'm pregnant with my first child, a boy. Do I agree with all of the gender roles associated with men/ boys? No. Will I deny that he is biologically a male? Also no. Two concepts can simultaneously exist.

[@RYCH3]

You're not genderfluid bro. You are either a man or a woman.

[@enbyenby5953]

@@RYCH3 I don't think you can force labels on someone else. Thats actually pretty rude.

[@thebakingvet]

Facts

[@hannahgraham7298]

You know, people say they don’t want labels... well you’re labeling your child by calling them gender fluid and constantly pressuring that child to consistently have to correct themselves on how they are supposed to label people. For a community with no rules and “no bounds”, y’all have a lot of things you can’t say or do.

[@slg5660]

Hannah Graham true

[@kickthefog198]

Since when did they force anything? People need to pay attention to the video jesus lol they are teaching her not pressuring and they obviously can say or do whatever they like.. Its MOST heterosexuals that force things onto children.

[@odd-duck]

@@kickthefog198 I feel like you are so swept up in the ideation that everyone should just accept this that you put on blinders to the fact that it's a kid. Kids don't need to learn about gender and sexuality they need to be using their imaginations and learning how to ride bikes.

[@kickthefog198]

@@odd-duck yes they do or they grow up confused or hating themselves because their parents never educated them on a huge part of what makes them human.

[@WilliamLucian]

kick the fog Grace children’s brains are more susceptible to pre disposition when forced upon them. Like religion, it’s easier to convince a child that God exists than a grown adult. It’s why pedophiles “groom” their victims because they are easier to take advantage of. This is the exact same thing. So no. Children should under no circumstance be exposed to this at a young age. All these parents are doing is brain washing her.

[@shelllbbbyyy]

Why cant children just be raised as children. Let them naturally gravitate towards what feels right for them? Boy or girl. Also, what are boy clothes and girl clothes? It’s just CLOTHES

[@angrydonutface7420]

Her mother literally said, "We're really raising her just to be open to be however she wants to be, without any need for a label or identity and that she will in time discover who she is", but go off.

[@shelllbbbyyy]

Angrydonutface Nah! Angrydonutface you’ve misinterpreted my question. In general, why can’t these children be raised as that, simply children. I’m not directly or specifically talking about this little girl in the video. This kid is being exposed to too much far too soon. Too many labels. She’s basically being raised ‘gender fluid’

[@shelllbbbyyy]

Lilly R 118 people must also be brain damaged then.... Shut up, fool

[@oliviawellsedits]

Girl clothes are dresses skirts crop tops you get it

[@shelllbbbyyy]

@@oliviawellsedits No they are not. They are just clothes, just material....

[@TheChinalou]

Saying they are bringing the child up without labels whilst putting the label of gender fluid on her 🤦‍♀️

[@xxamoraxx4252]

That wasn't the parents though. That's what seemed so off about it. The parents never said that, they just used it as clickbait.

[@land417]

"WE WONT BE LABELED!" "YOU USED WRONG LABEL, I'M OFFENDED!"

[@thethinkingbeing9817]

I know. It's stupid. You are born gender fluid. You don't get to decide when you have episodes of wanting to be the other gender

[@jestaplushgal3528]

Even as a gender fluid, I think this is wrong, just raise them to be open minded, forcing them into a role is literally the worst thing you can do

[@charliedawson8509]

It’s amazing hypocrisy

[@maryc4152]

It's so sad that this beautiful, sweet, angel of a little girl feels she has to be a certain way to keep her parents impressed.

[@championsrus1895]

How do you know that?

[@jessrouse8475]

I agree ...it's child abuse in my opinion

[@heyborttheeditor1608]

@@jessrouse8475 oh chill out, there is clearly lots of love in that house. I don’t think they’re forcing her any more than most households force femininity on girls and masculinity on boys. They seem like sane people to me

[@arirose5887]

@@heyborttheeditor1608 Exactly!

[@RabidDisposition]

@@jessrouse8475 it is objectively child abuse. It's just as abusive as the parents that push femininity on their daughters or masculinity on their sons. These "parents" refuse to just let this little girl be herself.

[@quincymangi8899]

You’re teaching her about fluidity but you teach her these are boy clothes and those are girl clothes which is reinforcing standards

[@unicornsprinkles3277]

Quincy Mangi well I mean there are some gendered clothing. Bras for example or clothes that have extra room for breasts. But yeah I get what you mean

[@WilliamLucian]

Quincy Mangi biologically men and women are different, studies show that baby girls on average prefer toys that are of the doll variety and boys prefer mechanical toys when placed in a room with both. They should not be raising her this way...

[@nikita19891]

@@WilliamLucian We have a boy 2 years old and a girl 3 years old and so we have both boy toys and girl toys. They both play with the tools like hammer and saw and they also both play with the my little pony and dollhouse. So that isn't always the case. And our little girl loves paw patrol and then not the girl pups but the boy pups. Our little boy loves all clothes with glimmers on it and soft colors like lilac or mint. We raise our kids to be who they are without saying this is for boys and this is for girls.

[@CronoDyne]

Claire Reberger That's not a "study," that's a politically motivated video you saw on KZbin. Actual scientific studies show that little boys and little girls naturally gravitate towards toys that fit their gender. It's almost as if gender isn't something you make up on a whim.

[@Andshewasafairy]

Yeah I can vouch for that having both a boy and girl. My boys always gravitated more towards "boy toys", even as infants. They occasionally played with baby dolls but it definitely wasn't their favorite. Trucks, dinosaurs, loud toys were their favorite. My daughter is the complete opposite!! She always gravitated more towards stuffed animals and toys with "girly" soft voices. She loves baby dolls and animals. She's actually a little scared of some of her brothers loud "boy" toys. Maybe that's just my children's personalities? But I see a likewise trend in my friends children.

[@user-vf6qi9mh5u]

i didnt think anything was wrong until I saw her self portrait. Theyre giving her gender dysphoria by exposing her to this topic too soon. She's getting confused.

[@bobsonbobbybobson6888]

exactly

[@tanyavandermerwe8330]

Exactly!! Its like thats all she thinks about. All this grown up stuff. She needs to be a little GIRL playing and running and not have to worry about her parents forcing being trans or gender fluid on her! This is a recipe for disaster and bullying.

[@myluis617]

She is emulating her parents yall. That don't mean that she is having gender dysphoria. Most kids do this with their parents, most of them don't get chance to emulate their parent of the opposite gender because most parents prevent kids from wearing their clothes or from acting like them. There is Ignorance inside of yall coming to these assumptions without thinking.

[@jw4673]

Dysphoria????

[@myluis617]

@@jw4673 ignorant people girl, they don't know what their talking about.

[@bhavyajha9269]

I being a completely straight female (21 yrs), still prefer wearing mens tshirt... Clothes doesn't change your gender..thinking that is just stupidity

[@danielj8085]

U r gey

[@bhavyajha9269]

@@danielj8085 atleast spell correctly.

[@danielj8085]

@@bhavyajha9269 no u

[@crybaby3702]

@@danielj8085 no u

[@danielj8085]

@@bhavyajha9269 Btw I was obviously kidding.

[@halokit9000]

I plan on raising my kid to let them dress and play with and how they want regardless of what gender the clothing or toy is. I’m still going to refer to them as gender assigned at birth. You can fight gender roles without taking away a kids gender. If my child were to grow up and want to use they/them pronouns or end up being transgender then okay but for now they’re a girl or boy until they grow up and discover anything contradicting that on their own. My son wants to play with barbies? Cool. My daughter wants to play with trucks? Perfectly fine. But if my son wants to play with trucks and daughter with barbies then that’s perfectly fine to. Wanting your kid to develop an identity outside of gender stereotypes is fine not letting your son play with traditionally “boy” toys isn’t. You’re just making them self conscious and confused of their gender and sense of self rather then just letting them be kids and that’s sad.

[@Foxy-cm3pt]

I agree with you 100% this is how I want to raise my kids.

[@julia_biss]

exactly. i’m transgender myself and i feel that many trans kids had ideas pushed on them. not assigning your kid to a gender until they’re old enough to choose it can make the concept of gender super confusing for them

[@godschild483]

@@julia_biss Jesus loves you ❤️

[@Vero2yu]

@@julia_biss First of you can not ''choose'' a gender, it has already been chosen for you when the children are inside the belly, as fetuses you become either male or female and that is permanent. There is no options to change it. All you can ever do is alter your appearance. Nothing more.

[@ashleyscali8438]

How about you let the kid figure it out herself who she is. This is way over the top.

[@monicacespedes4406]

no, because society tells her to be a girl so she couldnt otherwise...

[@ashleyscali8438]

@@monicacespedes4406 call me old fashioned but that s because SHE IS A GIRL!!!!

[@chicoval8451]

Ashley Scali facts

[@monicacespedes4406]

@@ashleyscali8438 you still dont get that some poeple feel different thatn what their body and society tells them to be? You cannot deny other's feelings. Also, why only girls can wear skirts and dresses? I mean, society makes so many differences between man and women....I love gender fluidity :)

[@ashleyscali8438]

@@monicacespedes4406 guess I'm just old fashioned. Boy is a boy and girl is a girl. 🤷‍♀️

[@sallyk9834]

These people are not eliminating gender they are obsessed with it!

[@sallyk9834]

@KStar most people don't care if their child plays with Barbies or cars. They don't cancel the entire gender just because their son chose to play with a Barbie! No one cares as much as they do about gender roles!!!

[@saherkhan9845]

Very monotone too

[@music2012pink]

There raising her gender fluid not gender neutral. Not trying to eliminate gender. Their just saying she can be who ever she wants to be. Instead of putting her into a box, they feel, can come with a lot of baggage. They found it uncomfortable, so are taking measures to make sure she is not.

[@autumnacker5310]

Yup

[@judithg597]

The entire point of this interview was about gender. I wouldn't expect them to discuss what they're eating...

[@rosemary.-6576]

Why don't they just let the kid pick out her own stuff and see what she likes? She says she likes to be a tomboy.

[@jordanmurphy7143]

flutt3rby3 _ they do what are u talking about

[@jooniebug480]

She does pick out her own clothes,

[@catalina7904]

That's exactly what they are doing. Gosh

[@jessicareid7613]

She said she likes being both

[@adriannamichalski3359]

thats what they are doing

[@Kiwi-ws4op]

It feels like everything has a label now when it's really just your personality. I'm scared for the kids in the future being told they can be a boy or girl, neither, be another gender, that there's "infinite genders", they can be a boy today, a girl tomorrow, it's literally just so stupid.

[@momo-wp5mb]

For real.. why should someone be less of a men or a woman just because they (as example) like cards and skirts and the same time? This is just pushing the genderroles to another level. I like wering dresses and i also like wearing star wars merchandise and sport, does this now make me less of a female? Should i call mself a boy because i like playing football today and tomorrow a woman because i do make up? This is not it and its not chaning zhe problems😥

[@DinosaurDrummer]

Honestly not to be rude, but I disagree with y’all. Because I personally think that you can be anyone you want to be. You shouldn’t have to grow up with everyone enforcing stereotypes depending on gender. I believe that a child should be able to know what they identify as and be accepted instead of judged. I hate when I here people be like “your a girl so you have to like girl clothes,like pink and purple,you Can’t trust men,you can’t be shirtless,wear makeup,do your hair, and like nail polish,drums are for boys,skaters are not supposed to be girls” and then also “Your a boy, you have to like boy clothes,don’t hit girls,you can’t wear pink and purple, you can’t have long hair,you can play drums,you can be a skater,you can’t wear dresses or girl clothes” Then teachers be like “girls on this side and boys on the other” and then they are making kids be put in a group of kids even if they don’t feel like there that gender cause of what’s in there pants.

[@xdranzer0004]

@Dinosaur Drummer Not thinking that personality = gender is not saying « you can’t be whatever (or rather WHOEVER) you are ». At the end of the day, everyone is capable of thinking for themselves as individuals. Just be you, but PLEASE don’t try to change science to fit your fictional views of yourself (as if religious people haven’t done that already, and I know the non-binary, LGBTQXYZ crowd’s general opinion on religions, you’re with me).

[@Castformsupremacy]

@@DinosaurDrummer but they didn’t say anything about stereotypes Did you even read what they had to say, no you didn’t They said that this is stupid. Like if you like “masculine” stuff then you can’t be a girl anymore, you need to change into a boy Then everyday you will change from a girl, to a boy, to a trans, to an infinite amount of genders that can all be boils down to what you like and do So, next time, read what they said before you disagree

[@aspyatkova]

I’m surprised they don’t make her call them parent A and parent B instead of mom and dad. She’s such a sweet kid, so smart. But she doesn’t sound like a happy kid, They’re trying to be open about the sexuality and gender but maybe that’s not what the kid needs at this age

[@michellexnicole6181]

Anna Pyatkova Trueee !!

[@elrapakbeats8712]

word !

[@urischic1668]

“Hey mo-“ “PARENT A” “Mom, chill it’s just a-“ “PARENT A”

[@cooliodiablo6117]

Yeah you can tell the kid's confused as hell and doesn't really understand. Yet she's idolized the idea and is essentially trying to act like a boy just to appease them for their affection. They're throwing their sexuality in that kids face too much.

[@helpkelp3595]

coolio diablo I agree. I get what her parents were trying to do but right now just isn't the time for her to be thinking about things like her gender and sexuality.

[@madtingz2288]

I understand their point but I don’t see the need to constantly talk about it or have labels, that’s what makes it confusing

[@raicellina8305]

y'all are stupid , she is basically a bisexual that means she is attracted to the both genders... 4 example you're a boy/girl and you are quiet straight but you also like the same gender as yours .

[@oo0626]

fr

[@Jake-oy4nr]

Exactly! The same people talking about “labels don’t matter!” “don’t judge because of a label!!” are the same ones who have labels for most anything..

[@kickthefog198]

So talking about it and having better understanding of the issue makes it harder? ....ok..

[@anoukpink]

for people saying they dont care about gender, they talk about gender A LOT

[@missmarshmellowmouth]

"boy clothes?" "girl clothes?" I thought they intended to raise their child gender-fluid.... so why not just "clothes" ??? 😐

[@lycaptain]

Yeah-

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

Yep

[@moose5996]

Ikr

[@pinbunny1]

That's what I thought and they are still saying her.

[@deficator750]

Because gender is natural.

[@sharanya_anoop]

I'm 16 and I totally support all non-traditional gender norms, but my only issue here is that this will all be extremely confusing to small children. Either that or I feel the kids will mature quick in terms of their thinking and might not enjoy their childhoods as much as I did. Like they figure thing out themselves once they're older. You as parents just need to support us throughout.

[@Nick07900]

This and the encouragement of relationships with all genders. Why would you even be encouraging relationships at all to a child right now? She's 9

[@sharanya_anoop]

@@Nick07900 Exactly

[@ayan9202]

Has it ever occurred to them maybe their daughter might just want to be a girl without having her parents constantly pressuring her to be like them. I have no problem with the way the parents live their life their life their choice is my philosophy but at this point it just feels like she might feel like she’ll be disappointing her parents if she just identifies as a heterosexual.

[@reddonna8022]

I agree ..

[@aubreymixon7028]

Agreed, and I’m not discriminating, my partner is trans

[@pinkpink-kb6dl]

This is so dumb..... her father seems to be quite straight himself. He has married two women. The mom has married two men. You're reaching so hard

[@faithogg7273]

Perioddtt no if they wanted to be a girl and dress “girly” they would be totally allowed

[@ayan9202]

Faith Ogg it’s not that they wouldn’t allow her to be it’s more of the fact thar she might feel pressured. How would she ever know if she wants to live a “girly” lifestyle if she was never introduced to that lifestyle.

[@heatheranderson5434]

As a trans person, I would NEVER raise my kid like that. I would raise them like I was raised and tell them about LGBT when they are older and can comprehend a subject like that.

[@Solace_System]

I can't stand all of these, infinite/fluid/no gender bullshiting FUCKTARDS! All they do is make the actual trans community look like the joke people think it is... I'm not trans myself, but a coworker - and good friend of mine at that - is, but he has felt that way since a young age, and now is on HRT, and has had his top surgery, changed his name legally, the gender labelled on his driver's liscense, passport, etc... He IS trans! These people are just trying to find and make an identity crisis, when and where there neither should nor is one... Someone should call CPS and get Claire away from them before she gets confused with all this nonsense! She is 7 God Damned years old... She hasn't even gotten close to hitting puberty yet, and they are telling here to think about relationships that she won't even be interested in - if she even ends up being romantically and or sexually attracted to anyone at all, and isn't an AroAce - until she is half to bouble her age older! These people are shoving their overzealous ideals upon the poor girl, and one day it's going to really cause a war inside her mind... These two assholes should never have become parents, perhaps even have been born and able to share their "message" with the world!

[@LoriSF124]

Heather Anderson Exactly

[@amayaglinka4052]

Heather Anderson what do u mean there letting her be who she is aren’t they

[@bushdid7117]

Amaya Glinka nope, not at all

[@Irishmama74]

That's the right thing to do someone with sense!

[@jessflorea8579]

She seems confused, and I don’t blame her. Let her be a kid

[@Hiabsdefg]

She is being a kid, mind ur own business

[@catmani2]

@@Hiabsdefg An abused kid by psychopathic parents.

[@Winterappleby]

She's actually incredibly intelligent to have such an advanced understanding of her inner self, she's being raised to be open, not funneled into an "acceptable" idea of what she should and shouldn't do, like most kids are when they're told "girls like this, boys like this".

[@BlueBubblesMelrose]

Ashley _ Reality It’s everyone’s business now since her parents put it out for the world to see.

[@blackmirrah5375]

@@Hiabsdefg it's on the internet you dummy

[@AaronBr00mfie7d]

I loved growing up in the late 20th Century. Building forts, playing football, coming home to Mom and Dad and home-cooked meals. I'm so lucky.

[@Strawberrylovestacobellright]

Damn lucky :D

[@cmAwesome207]

Don't forget another lucky part..you agreed with your body what gender you are

[@lovelyafternoon]

As someone who is genderfluid, I honestly don't think telling a child to be genderfluid is healthy for them. Just let them figure things out themselves and answer any questions they may have with open arms. I think these parents are trying their best, but I think they're trying too hard. At first I thought they were forcing Claire to be genderfluid, but I think they're just trying to be open. Still, they're making her think that she SHOULD be genderfluid. They're destroying normal boxes but creating new ones in the process...

[@ragecat.9521]

Yes! Agreed! It's awesome that the parents are so open and loving, but there should be a time and place when these things are discussed, much like with sex education. You probably wouldn't start teaching sex Ed when the child is 5-6 right? Same with this - it should be left until a later discussion when a child is discovering who they are and what they want to be

[@MAPALOPI]

Yep. Totally agreed. In my opinion, they should let things flow at its own rythym, and (in a future) if she decides to be something, I’m pretty sure she will find her way:) There is a nice quote that says “Don’t rush and never settle. If it’s meant to be it will be”.... ps. I am genderfluid as well ;D

[@lovelyafternoon]

@Ben Affleck I assure you, I am not a "fake gender fluid". What makes you think that I am?

[@ragecat.9521]

@Ben Affleck I'm confused what you're referring to?

[@Swtch_blade]

Agreed

[@sophier315]

She is going to have to actually come out as straight because that isn’t the norm in her house

[@typhooni3149]

That's a yikes from me matey, but oh so true.

[@queen_of_domination]

Confused people shouldn’t have kids, as it hurts the children.

[@hughjass6011]

They're raising her without GENDER norms. That's not sexuality.

[@queen_of_domination]

Micheal Hunt I get what she means. She means that while sex and gender are different, she might be expected to be open-minded with her sexual preferences as an adult. So, she may wind up accepting her biological sex of birth, as well as embracing heterosexuality, or “traditional genders and preferences,” instead of the openness that she was raised with. It might not have been immediately clear to you; however, I can see that’s what she meant.

[@rickydelion2411]

Thats the sad thing...heterofobia exist

[@uniquelymumu7692]

The little girl sounds like she’s 20 let her be a kid

[@ceo5071]

She just sounds educated. They’ve empowered her with choices and knowledge most kids don’t get.

[@abdulrahmanshahin7023]

@@ceo5071 😂😂😂😂

[@icrushchildrensdreams4556]

CEO yes basically teaching the complete opposite of natural law and the standard sexual education of the western world is very educating. This is basically putting fiction books in the non-fiction section

[@cool_kid103]

That’s not knowledge it’s just unneeded crap

[@frozen_tortus]

@@icrushchildrensdreams4556 you can't reasone with those people.

[@strikingsarcophagus]

The fact this has more likes than dislikes makes me lose hope in humanity

[@puglover6113]

Sameeee

[@xcelephais3439]

I feel like they’re manipulating the likes/dislike ratio. It doesn’t make sense how this video has more likes than dislikes, yet 99 percent of the comments are negative. Idk maybe I’m wrong.

[@casscat7]

i dont think this video is all too bad tbh, maybe im just not seeing where everyone is coming from

[@arirose5887]

@E R You for one would never be a reputable enough employer to be in the position to even offer employment with that attitude. Its against the law to discriminate based on gender and sexual identity for hiring. But if it makes you feel big and empowered to say you wouldn't hire them, keep telling yourself that sweetheart. Cuz I can tell you the millions of LGBTQ+ folks in the workforce in the world are doing just fine with employers who can see the value of an employee based on their abilities rather than identity.

[@madisonlewe1057]

Can we just not label kids as anything other than kids?

[@Skatejock21]

That is the problem. We need to identify as if you are boy or girl, biologically. Medically, you cannot treat someone's illness accurately without what you are born as. Everyone is insisting that you can just blanket label. Kids are kids, thats the generalization term, but they aren't just kids. They are a boy or girl. The brain MUST organize and label. We would go actually insane if we did not use boy or girl. When you tag on this notion of being transgender... the brain does not naturally assume that is correct. If anything is simple in this scenario, is that people are messing with natural man. I spent time in college studying how the brain functions in terms of how the brain organizes and why we label. The brain is a computer. This computer however, cannot just keep general terms. Especially when we already have an obvious born gender. You cannot just take it away and say it doesn't exist and say lets just call them kids. Kids grow up and puberty happens. Then they are no longer kids. That changed, they matured; yet today people want to mess with mother nature. Mother nature will always win. Our brain, will never fully digest the concept of transgender, it cannot.

[@heidycoleman9043]

That's what they are teaching their daughter that it's okay to do whatever her heart desires

[@heidycoleman9043]

@@Skatejock21 I I don't know if you are accepting of this video or not I'm confused

[@Skatejock21]

@@heidycoleman9043 acceptance is not the problem. Its hardly relevant. It is common sense though

[@Skatejock21]

@@xtina1fan and to add to that, I do recall as a child thinking that I must be a boy because I like boy things. My family never entertained the idea. Sure I didn't have to wear pink and purple, I still don't. However studies do show that 70% of kids grow out of it. Now, had my parents entertained the idea, I wouldnt be as happy as I am now. I am happy to be girl, I eventually accepted it. I am happily married to a great guy and I just wouldn't have this if my parents just followed what I said. These kids have no idea what they're talking about. The do not understand the concept. They haven't even reached physical or mental maturity yet to comprehend. I think much of today is solely for attention, gender dysphoria may be real, but it certainly cannot be the case for the vast majority. We all know that this idea gets a ton of media attention and here we are now, talking about it. We didn't talk about this 10 years ago. Nobody really cared 10 years ago. It's when you bring non issues to the surface and make a big deal. There is plenty of science telling us how the body and mind behave together, depression being one of them and even that concept is greatly ignored. People talk depression, but refuse to talk about how the concept coincides with other mental illness's regarding how the body and mind match. Gender dysphoria can be more easily treated if people were not pushing their agenda so hard on thinking acceptance is the only problem, when its not. It hardly has to do with acceptance. The only acceptance is that it is not socially accepted and the left is increasingly asking the wrong things from the general population. They want things to speed up faster then what has been known for centuries. They quite literally have to make up centuries worth of knowledge and experience to assume that transgender is a real thing and that kids can choose their gender.

[@lizzy3990]

Im not hating on the transgender part, but., Raising a child in this, to be this, is wrong. If she wants to be a girl, let her be a girl. Let her make up her mind. let her be who she wants to be.

[@yoongi196]

Liz Riba they are letting her choose what she wants to be

[@MICHBSTTWINDTRYR]

@@yoongi196 to it right

[@lizzy3990]

@@yoongi196 I know, but she may feel like she's going to be forced into being trans

[@shatterberry]

Right. I feel like this is more confusing for the child than anything.

[@pumpk1nm34t9]

Thats exactly what the are doing they are letting her choose exactly what she wants to wear they arnt forcing get to do anything.

[@kassidyquintessaamaryllis6496]

I thought you let the kid decide but I guess not

[@aneyapitts9350]

Tess The Dreamer. ...but isn't the child choosing tho?

[@maddfinn11]

aneya pitts not really maybe she doesn’t want to be gender fluid

[@noahbundonis]

Did you even watch the video/pay attention during it? They literally said they would give their child the choice to decide who she wants to be personally and who she wants to be with when she gets older. 💁🏻‍♂️

[@AppleVest]

@@noahbundonis is it though? Since when did kids know what they really want, what is right and wrong from the beginning? They lack wisdom that adults have. Lets put it this way, I say you can eat anything you want but dont know about food much so you would look only what near or what you only know. At this point their parenting is terrible. Parents should guide their kids not tossing them out in the wild.

[@wisecracker1294]

By that logic, if a 3-year-old should decide it's okay for him/her/whatever to drive a 3-ton vehicle down the middle of Main Street, we should let them do it.

[@firsttimeisawjupiter1031]

Kids are fluid in their interest. I saw myself as kid before a girl when I was little. For people who hate labels are pretty much pushing labels and stereotypes of what a girl and boy looks like and likes Let kids be kids and then when they grow up you let the know and decide about this stuff

[@Renayeheartsmakeup12]

I got confused as hell when Claire was describing her clothing and stuff. She is so adorable and very articulate. They need to let her be a child tho.

[@dariinaa9280]

this is the most accurate comment

[@rockpaperscissors82]

She's being brainwashed, as most of our culture is now. The "guy" even says that if he doesn't take his testosterone injections then he'll go back to his natural state. These people are perverse. Poor child.

[@Renayeheartsmakeup12]

rockpaperscissors82 right. It just doesn’t make sense to me. No label but the things they identify as are labels? I just feel for her and hope she finds her own way.

[@casuallym3]

Right like damn let her get to highschool , and learn about the LGBT first so then she can tell you how she feel

[@kalindamcnulty-uw4yh]

She is being a kid

[@marleyhawkins4841]

This is ridiculous they’re gonna give her an identity crisis trying to avoid an identity crisis

[@ebonyloveivory]

🤣😭🤣😭🤣 Legit.

[@MsLhuntMartinez79]

Not saying you're right or wrong but dammit your comment was clever 😆

[@badbunny6572]

True story there...

[@Jelly_Jay_15]

Your ridiculous this is completely fine this hurts no one

[@user-pt1ok8rg1u]

Hurts no one? Psychologically speaking a child it witnessing a parent injecting anabolic steroids? That's normal behaviour to you?

[@mochicatt4476]

Feel a little sad for the little girl for some unknown reason .....

[@badgebunny87]

Mochi Catt I know the reason 👀 and I’m with you

[@dlemon90]

Same here but it's not really an unknown reason, it's cause you're looking at what amounts to child abuse... clearly her parents love her, but they are confusing her 🙁

[@tinaberry7215]

Are you serious unknown reason this is the reason you looking at it now

[@oliversmith5927]

Mochi Catt It is sad. You can’t force a child’s gender to be fluid. You can let them explore what feels comfortable or not, but “raising them to be gender fluid” is wrong.

[@dreamwishergirl]

There was a boy who was raised as a girl and he ended up committing suicide. I don’t think this is right. 😢 it’s too young.

[@MrAwesomeMatty]

Seeing parents like these make me super grateful and appreciative of who my parents are and how they raised me and didn't try to force this kind of stuff on me.

[@kalindamcnulty-uw4yh]

Their not forcing everything on her. They are letting her experience her self.

[@samlauer8855]

Raise your kid as the gender they are and if they’re transgender then they’ll figure it out on their own and the best you can do is support them if that happens

[@cassiekittyy]

preach 👏👏👏

[@frenchpoutine1721]

SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

[@soapycat17]

That or you could just use they them pronouns and not pressure them to be a specific gender

[@HanboSlimoffical]

Exactly

[@brianjones8027]

I have associated my self as a cat and someday I hope my children will fallow after my example ..I will let them figure it out for themselves....you are right on man..

[@gabby1304_]

i feel like they want her to be anything BUT straight and identifying as a female Edit: Holy fricking moly guys! Thanks for 1K likes I've never got that much before!!!

[@icepenguin4437]

gabby 1304 I thought they want her to be more open minded

[@cassiedonaldson9152]

Agree 100%

[@ukok6961]

exactly. utter fkin bollocks

[@eramnesia.]

Yeah I agree

[@Maria-yh5ul]

according to them, open minded are only the non-straight people, so yes i agree, it s so obvious, lord save us

[@deb_xp4851]

Raise your child as the gender they are. If they aren’t comfortable with that they will figure it out themselves. It’s their choice...not the parents choice.

[@Emmmmak24]

Yeah or else they’ll just get confused

[@valeriadelrio-rodriguez4953]

Agreed

[@iriso182]

She clearly isn’t bothered anyway, it shouldn’t really bother her anyway. She could simply tell her parents she feels more comfortable with girl clothes. If I’m being honest, I hate people like you, you clearly don’t understand them 😒😒😒🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@acedo4564]

@@iriso182 libtard

[@alexjose2039]

The pain I feel for this child is immeasurable. These parents are disrupting the growth of there child’s psyche

[@corinad9906]

Why don’t you let her choose when she older, she isn’t a puppet

[@Harry-jz1dn]

unless she identifies as a puppet, that's totally up to her :)

[@rainbowwolf6651]

@@Harry-jz1dn :D

[@Rebecca-xk9of]

Mattattack 501 You’re not serious are you?

[@kathleenmorales9351]

LMAO HOW IT BE NOWADAYS

[@luzygrindelwald4911]

Yea that's why they don't rase her him as a git or boy he she can deside by her his own

[@burtjulia0]

For a little kid, she sounds so depressed

[@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690]

I am a mother of two daughters. I think she is sas

[@tarnishedanachronism4914]

How come?

[@fannypinka1973]

you know nothing. nothing in this video shows she’s depressed

[@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690]

@@fannypinka1973 but how do you really know? Maybe one of us people suffer with depression and have others in our lives who do including children and maybe we know what it's like .

[@dose9069]

That was the first thing I noticed.

[@Ashley-mc5bi]

Coming from a straight woman's perspective, I dont understand how wearing girls and boys clothes makes you a whole different gender. Likeee you can be a girl and wear "boys' clothes". How you dress is how you dress. I also feel as if they're pressuring her to be everything but straight. The only time they should be educating her in this form is when she becomes close minded to something dealing with gender and sexuality.

[@lailacopeland6884]

Ashley agree

[@abbywolffe4114]

Yeah like I wear a lot of men's graphic tees and sweatshirts because they're big and comfy but I'm also a feminine straight girl, doesn't make me genderfluid

[@Hana-F]

Yeah I've bought clothes from the mens department many times doesn't make me a different gender! Stop making a big deal out of nothing!

[@ari3681]

Clothing is just gender expression, not gender identity. So some people who identify as genderqueer born as female would wear 'boys clothes' because they feel it reflects their emotional or mental feelings that make up your gender identity. In no way does the action of putting certain clothes on 'magically' change your gender. They're not pressuring her to not be straight they are literally saying you can be anything you want and you'll figure it out.

[@icecreamleopards5678]

Just so you know, your sexuality doesn’t affect your gender at all and saying “coming from a straight woman’s perspective” and then talking about gender aren’t things that go together. You could be straight but trans or cisgender (being born the gender that you truly are) and bisexual. But also I agree about the kid.

[@illbebackforbreakfastok4701]

As genderfluid myself, it’s not something that you should raise a kid as. Like it’s THEIR choice later down the line if they feel that way. The chances are that they won’t so it’s not healthy to force it upon them even if it’s with good intentions.

[@gracie6679]

Educate all you want. But its wrong to force somebody to be something they're not.

[@annagitana1]

What are they forcing her to be? Sounds like they said they weren't forcing any labels on her of any kind. The title is misleading and nowadays no one seems to have the patience to sit through anything. Did you watch this?

[@rieweeg]

@@annagitana1 they are forcing labels though. They're forcing her to be nonbinary. Thats a label

[@nobuttchin]

that's literally what doctors are doing when the kid is born and declare "IT'S A BOY"/"IT'S A GIRL" idiot🙄

[@wonderlandisalanguage9646]

They're not forcing anything on her.

[@coffeecatichino5332]

Smoky Robinson Doctors aren’t there to dictate your gender. They’re there to dictate what you are BIOLOGICALLY. If you feel like your gender doesn’t correspond to you biological sex, you can’t blame the doctor for that. They aren’t the ones that are going to force gender roles on you.

[@dannydevitoissexc200]

Why can’t they let the child BE a child?? What if she is cis? Let her find that out

[@seven9028]

That's whay they are doing, lettong her explore her gender and decide

[@isaac-ck6jp]

@@seven9028 what do you mean by that? There's nothing to explore, she's a female, you even said it yourself.

[@dannydevitoissexc200]

isaac well they could be a female, but they could be genderfluid. That’s for them to find out themself, not there parents

[@JM-rz3iu]

Danny DeVito is sexc o please. She is CIS. She’s gonna only be trans from these morons brainwashing her and talking about it 24/7. 99% of this world is fricken cis. Ever since stupid I am jazz came out about a very rare case of someone feeling transgender since birth now no one knows what the hell gender they are. There’s no such thing as being a Tom boy anymore. I was a Tom boy as a kid and grew up to be way more girly. Now if ur a Tom boy it means be a boy. This society is full of mentally ill morons now. Everyone needs to stop normalizing this it’s an absolute mental illness!!!!!!!

[@intessign543]

@@JM-rz3iu tomboys are quite definitely still a thing

[@Paraplegicoctopus-jh3mn]

''We're trans, so our kid must be too.'' In a nutshell. How sad.

[@petal1475]

They literally never said that

[@Paraplegicoctopus-jh3mn]

@@petal1475 Subtext, my friend. Pay close attention to what they're actually saying (and not saying), and it becomes obviously apparent that they don't want this kid to be a little cis girl.

[@andithepotato7892]

"We're cis so our kid has to be too".......people have been doing it for ages also that's not what they are doing.

[@MaelZack]

@@andithepotato7892 No because influencing your own Mental illnesses aren't way to influence childhood... I support trans But Strike me down I don't want ANY child have go throw the early Puberty mixed with dysphoria problems. Let kids be kids. Parents influence the kids. Those kids CHOSEN their gender because their parents Influenced them even unintentionally. They not DYSPHORIC. they confused and everything what they going throw will be a huge Brick wall once they see society rejecting them.

[@videoshow7742]

Who cares

[@this_is_my_stop]

Original message: "Only girls can play with dolls and only boys can play with trucks!"; Later message: "Boys and girls can play with dolls or trucks, it's all fine!"; Current message: "If you play with dolls you're a girl, and if you play with trucks you're a boy, or neither, or both, or maybe a cat or something"

[@MK-uz4mo]

Yep, pretty much. I wish we got back to "Boys and girls can play with dolls or trucks, it's all fine!". That was ACTUALLY progressive, and healthy.

[@stefolani2986]

I guess the word “tomboy” doesn’t exist anymore.

[@Rose-qd2bl]

It sure doesn't. As a tomboy I feel really marginalized and I'm not joking.

[@jessiefairley2748]

I was a tomboy in middle school :(

[@nataliesfinedesigns]

Now it's crazo!

[@connoranderson3380]

Adorable butch female? That's a tomboy???

[@ookipuki]

Nope. :/

[@ellieellie6598]

*wears a boys hoodie* well according to this I’m gender fluid now

[@ria8847]

Clearly you don't even know what genderfluid is..

[@algriffin7630]

@@ria8847 it's sarcasm.

[@ria8847]

@@algriffin7630 To me it isn't, which is kinda a problem. 😬😬

[@BAgee-lw9ct]

@@ria8847 your problem

[@Noa......]

What is a boys hoodie?

[@graphite2786]

When your family prioritises a specific issue or cause, it has a high chance of backfiring as the children become teenagers. Christian kids become atheists, vegan kids eat meat; children rebel! While this family seems nice and inclusive, pushing an agenda and worse, making it public, is not in the child's interest. I think parent A and B ( I'm not going to misgender here) are doing this to justify their lifestyle, more so than raising a self aware kid. Not everything has to be a cause, give the child lots of options and let it make it's own mind up.

[@DeadAngel14]

Totally agree. I'm not against what the parents identify as, what sucks is the fact that they are still pushing their own believes and ideas on that young girl. How is that any different from raising a child and telling them that they are and should behave according to their birth assigned gender ?

[@itsrainingcatsanddogs2651]

I 100% agree with your point of view.

[@ellieluna9494]

It’s great that they are open about this, but you’re right To be pressured will either cause the kid anxiety and not wanting to disappoint her parents, or will end up with her rebelling

[@UpsNdownZZZ]

Where is your proof on that vegan bit?

[@NoName-mm6gh]

graphite so much PC politics has made people so scared of making a little mistake

[@hidden.1609]

Claire: i’m coming out mom: oh that’s good! Claire: i’m straight Mom: …..

[@ar-1848]

Frrr

[@googoogaga9279]

Imagine when Claire was born Doctor: " congratulations,It's a girl!!!" Them: "Actually....."

[@legend-qw6rs]

I actually laughed AT this one

[@blerimleskovica5505]

well yes, but actually no

[@킴이치]

I kinda alredy havs som plans.....

[@entela7238]

Them: *how dare you you missgendered my child like get educated he/she/they is going to have a very serious trauma after that*

[@mdelonas]

They are talking to her about relationships and sexuality WAYYY too soon.

[@nia4267]

@mollymusicandstuff it’s never to soon to teach them that but I do thin they are pushing her a bit to be gender fluid

[@materialhell]

No such thing. I learned about how babies were made (at my level) at 3 years old. I was taught sex ed throughout my childhood.

[@blabla8296]

@@materialhell that's not good. Kids need to be kids. My parents never talked to me about that and I am so thankful for that.

[@materialhell]

@@blabla8296 I'm thankful that due to my parents telling me about sex early, I have never been uncomfortable coming to my mother about issues concerning sex including the time I was raped.

[@lilycatherinemacdonald4814]

@@materialhell That's amazing. I wish I had a childhood like that.

[@Jesss_M.]

People actually need to stop thinking stereotypes are genders.

[@4knewt505]

The confusing part is they don't want clothes to persuade gender but when they choose their gender it's apparent in the clothes they choose, too. If they identify as Male, on go the beanie hats and boots. If they identify as a girl, they pink it up and grow their hair. I think the emperor has on no clothes.

[@Atartee]

Totally agree.

[@tayloradair8186]

Arranoa THANK YOU.

[@haruhisenpai7886]

I agree

[@Fuchsia_aa]

I agree, same goes for people thinking personalities are genders

[@charliehorowitz6062]

She is far too young to know what she is, I'm in year 10 at the time of writing and I still don't know my sexual identity. It's important to give them time to learn and discover this for themselves

[@andreawannop8670]

Oh dear...you'll look at your words in 10 years, as an adult and not a kid, and think, what the hell was a talking about? You're being far too influenced by social media and are far too immature to know common sense.

[@dipfuk]

It’s like they are forcing their dysphoria on her

[@alexandralashelle273]

Jesse yes!

[@aria6265]

Ikr

[@brewsir4310]

exactly

[@Franskie266]

Or him lol

[@michellecameron7130]

Jesse she’s not questioning her sexuality whatsoever they’re just telling her that she can like whoever she likes!

[@dianaaguilar3025]

I'm annoyed that they expect her to be anything else other than straight.

[@christymack628]

RIGHT!!! SO RIGHT!!!

[@sierrakirksenn5099]

They dont expect her to be anything. Did you actuallh watch the video they are leaving her open to be whatever she wants, something I wish my parents did and shes happy so why doesnt matter regardless how someine raoses theornkid. And honestly this title is extremly misleading

[@honey-es5pc]

I quote from the video: 'fluid meaning anyone can like any genders, so she could be straight just as much as she could be any others. Ok..

[@kickthefog198]

No... They literally say she can be whoever she wants unlike the majority of straight parents..ironic..

[@itzjj8381]

No they expect her to be open minded but ok:/

[@nikolatesla1296]

So you're raising your kid to be just as confused as you are... I don't see this as a good thing.

[@grammarpolice2714]

Oh hey it’s the Tesla dude!

[@kirstenhouston435]

EXACTLY!!!!

[@berlinwall6674]

I don't think they're confused

[@leahjames6870]

It's not a good thing. But society won't realize it, until it's to late...

[@leahjames6870]

@@berlinwall6674 The whole family is confused...

[@mars_bars3428]

this is why people don’t take us seriously 😐 you can wear whatever you want and still be whatever gender you are

[@alijane6675]

Calling her transgender is just confusing her. I don't understand this. The world is a scary, confusing place for kids, and it is the job of parents to make it safer by placing boundaries, not removing them. They don't understand the damage they are doing to her psyche. Introducing gender dysphoria to a child who doesn't have it is criminal, imo.

[@nyaanyaa3621]

They didn't

[@brie9269]

They are not calling her transgender the are calling her gender fluid. The aren't forcing her to switch genders they are teaching her that its okay to be herself, its okay to wear girl clothes, its okay to wear boy clothes, its okay to have a girl hair cut or have a boy hair cut. If they were forcing her to be transgender then she would only be wearing boy stuff and she would have male pronouns but she doesn't therefore they aren't forcing her to be transgender.

[@huh5007]

Joley Exactly. The father should understand how awful dysphoria is. Being trans isn’t something one can casually identify with because they don’t like strict gender expectations. It’s an identity that comes with many struggles. I’m not trans myself but my brother is and he struggles every single day with dysphoria and not being treated as his correct gender. Clothing isn’t even in the equation. This little girl is cis and shouldn’t be led to believe otherwise. I don’t think they’re bad parents, but they’re very clearly pushing her in the direction of being trans. It’s not okay. She should be taught that trans people exist and that it is perfectly fine to be it, and that she can dress and act however she wants (very separate concepts!) It doesn’t need to go beyond that.

[@Stuffcrapnthings]

IThat person is not her father and her real dad should take her away from these absolutely wacky people. I can not see one healthy thing in this situation. Seems more like child abuse.

[@ewaaaewaaa9675]

If I was that kid I would be so confused

[@Domesticgoddess12]

I'm an ADULT and confused *for* the child!!

[@veneneify]

If I were*. I had to, sorry

[@Shad0wmoses]

dude its really simple. genderfluid just means the kid is like t-1000 from terminator 2 judgement day. not rocket science tbh.

[@beautychallengechannel6466]

😢😂😭

[@madeeinnheavenn]

It’s not confusing to her because it’s the way she’s being raised just like how your household may be different from someone else

[@isaaclikesturtles]

What happened to being a tomboy ?

[@gonegirl1374]

They took it to another level

[@metzs.5237]

This people believe strongly in gender stereotypes, so if a girl is a tomboy she's no longer a girl in their eyes.

[@katespaulding4563]

I agree, but honestly why do we even have to say "tomboy"? She can be a girl who wears masculine things, we don't even need a label for that if you know what I mean. Just let kids be kids

[@leave.me.alone189yearsago5]

Yea ikr. You don't have to be called a "boy" to be satisfied

[@Cloudybxnnie]

If you a tomboy in this generation you full male now 😂☠️

[@Timbergal]

My little grandchildren are riding bikes, talking about their birthday parties, learning how to play different instruments....playing with their new kitten....not discussing their parent’s sexuality

[@ish4638]

I must say, as a genderfluid person I fundamentally disagree with this. There's a difference between raising a child without gender stereotypes and raising a child genderfluid.

[@Jasmin-nu5th]

I agree. Completely

[@mistaajones]

Yeah it seems like they are reinforcing gender stereotypes. Your gender doesn't define your interests and your interests don't define your gender.

[@felucianfangirl4383]

Yeah, this seems like the type of family to call her trans as soon as she says she likes cars

[@cuentaalternativadeesther3206]

Agreed.

[@HaHeiX]

Both catastrophic.

[@anhedonia_anagapesis]

Edit: it’s been a year, my views have drastically changed, their kid looks happy, and that’s what really matters. They’re raising them to the best of their ability, and if that doesn’t scream excellent parenting, idk what does. Raise your child how you want, as long as they’re happy and healthy, and from what I see - they’re doing just that. I also want to apologize for my insensitive replies down below!

[@kierangillatt2892]

wiebil0 good one 😂😂😂

[@vanesafilipova1563]

you should definitely get one for making jokes like this

[@peachgames7484]

How it’s not even a problem? Like all that’ll happen is she won’t have to follow gender norms, she can wear what she wants and play whatever toys she wants. What’s the problem?

[@lms4712]

So can us tax payers who 9/10 are going to have to pay for it.

[@anhedonia_anagapesis]

@@peachgames7484 I'm not gonna say it's right or wrong, because I really have no say in the matter. I *personally* feel like she may or may not have issues with it further on. You absolutely don't have to agree with me.

[@gwladysebah5195]

LGBT parents : "you should let your kid grow up to become whatever they want later in life, you shouldn't dictate them their way of life bc they are easily gullible at such a young age. " Also LGBT parents : *wE aRe rAiSiNg ouR kID tO bE gENdEr flUiD.*

[@animationdramanation5730]

Those parents in the video aren't apart of the LGBT community ( when it comes to parenting) that's not what we're about. Yes they are trans but the LGBT community will not support something like this. We will support you and your transition but we will not support you in this situation when it comes to parenting.

[@gwladysebah5195]

@@animationdramanation5730 I really hope what you say is true. Bc I think a kid shouldn't be force to be this or that but should grow up and discover themselves, with the guidance of the parents. Parents aren't suppose to put their desire and dreams on a kid but let the kid discover those themselves

[@jalab3]

It isn't all of us they just forcing it

[@snaowey8901]

@@animationdramanation5730 u dont know that

[@ashtherebel2346]

@animation dramanation you speak for the LGBT community?

[@killianvalentine9473]

When I was little, and even now, I still gravitate towards men's clothes because they're more comfortable. Wearing the "opposite genders" clothes means nothing. It's all based on how the person/child feels inside and in their heart, it shouldn't be forced. They have to discover who they are as they grow

[@tiamystic]

Ikr.

[@jlinus7251]

In other words we're unnecessarily confusing a poor kid for no reason

[@dreadservicegetcrowned]

Her hair cut said so much to me . It's to much this baby tho she seems to wise beyond her years .

[@demam4648]

This child is so brainwashed. Shes so innocent & Her mother destroyed her childhood as a beautiful little girl

[@haliemaxine3734]

Basically...

[@amarra7218]

Y’all wanna be different so bad, let her be a kid.

[@banapotato6940]

FACTS

[@carolinespence15]

Fun fact we are all different and teaching tolerance does not interfere with her being a kid.

[@goob008]

ong

[@user-iw1oj6to4r]

Isn’t it a biological boy

[@damnitadjwj]

The dad is trying to live out his childhood dreams through her . ..

[@xNaxxou]

Like any parent when they make their kids do football and ballet

[@xNaxxou]

@Elliot Rodger But you can't manipulate someone into being gender fluid. I'm wondering if you understood the meaning of gender fluid? It just means she can choose to be who she wants to be. How could she feel like she can't choose when her dad is transgender? Wouldn't it be hypocritical for the parents to say ''be a girl'' or ''be a boy'' when they themselves never fit into these categories?? Children can feel everything. The title is misleading and makes it sound like it's something you can impose on someone when it just frees someone from the social pressure that gender performance is. Maybe watch the video again with that in mind?

[@xNaxxou]

@Elliot Rodger and no I don't see the difference. Most hobbies are gendered. Most children in the USA are raised by religious parents. I come from France and we call that brainwashing.

[@nikita19891]

@Elliot Rodger I am lesbian and we are raising our children to be themselves, My little girl loves paw patrol and no not the girl pups she loves the fire pup the most, but she also loves my little pony. She is onl;y 3 but i allow her to pick out her own clothes ( I myself would only give her my little pony things to wear if it was up to me) But she loves to wear both boys and girl clothes. She loves her my little pony dresses and she loves her paw patrol fire pup sweater and sometimes the boys pants are nicer than the girl pants. She loves to play with her pony's and dollhouse but also fights with her 2 year old brother about his hammer and other tools. And her brother also loves to play with the pony's.

[@egy7167]

@@xNaxxou Ça n'a tout de même rien à voir. Ne compare pas ce qui n'est pas comparable. Inciter ses enfants aux pratiques sportives n'a rien à de contraignant ni d'impactant dans leur avenir.

[@tasha3757]

It's always better to raise children the *NORM* way, so they don't face issues fitting in with peers for being the "different" one. Definitely *educate* gender, and if they decide to change their gender along the way, then so be it. Forcing it on them at such a young age may lead to issues...

[@thankunext1625]

okay im trans but i dont agree with this. transgender people are literally 1% of the population, it is not common. and thats a good thing! gender dysphoria is awful. the chances of her falling along the spectrum are very low, statistically. It's okay to let her know thats its okay to be herself 200% and not forcing gender roles on her or saying "you have to play with barbies"; thats all positive. BUT I think its harmful when you enter the realm of "you dont have a gender" and pushing that on her and then the child is probably left confused. If they're trans, they're gonna know they're trans. If they're gender nonconforming, they're gonna know. I knew from a very young age that i was trans (like 6 or younger) and no one had to pressure me into being it. this video is just gonna bring hate to the trans community, thinking that we want all these radical (perhaps unhealthy) changes and we're crazy etc etc etc, and that does NOT represent the larger community.

[@thankunext1625]

barcroft yall love to go for the shock factor but this actually has implications for our day to day lives and how people view/treat us.

[@grammarpolice2714]

I agree..

[@deborahgate965]

I agree with u but didn't quite know how to say it. U did a great job of explaining.

[@meadowgailer5659]

You're beautiful. I agree it's fine to educate but not to push something on to the child.

[@Toseuteuu]

It’s all over Instagram. It’s like being non binary is a trend

[@deedeek.5387]

No. Just. No. She’s too young to know this! And even if she may like wearing boy clothes, that doesn’t make her a boy! That just makes her a tomboy!

[@BurritoMaster]

Tomboy?!

[@forgottenecho2163]

@@BurritoMaster a girl who dislikes doing the stereotypical things girls do, like, wearing dresses, playing with dolls e.c.t

[@groovystuff7632]

Well she is not too young to know about this then she would just be smart. Kids should learn alot when they are young not only in school but also about identities, genders and stuff. But what she wants to be in the end is her own decision. Nobody should force her to be something and pull her into a certain path.

[@BurritoMaster]

@@forgottenecho2163 thanks for explaining

[@yakiralovesall]

Burrito Master you never heard of a tomboy? Just a little girl who likes typical “boy” stuff. I was and still am a tomboy.

[@ScottEMyers]

"Hey honey, let's teach our child gender fluidity by making her totally obsessed with gender."

[@ashleykerlin]

Exactly the opposite. Seems you are being deliberately obtuse.

[@fluorescenteche7040]

Yup people so obsessed these days

[@tayanorgart2221]

Ashley Kerlin how exactly???

[@no-cx5ro]

this is what people do nowadays to stand out in the society and fell better with themselves? LOL

[@donotcare330]

There is nothing wrong with people breaking gender stereo types. We have women truck drivers that can float gears in a 10 speed Kenworth and our Peterbilt and drive a 53' trailer much better than other guys. So breaking the stereo type isn't bad. But when it comes to this. That is a child. They aren't psychologically ready to make those choices and are only sounding board what you tell them. The parents are confusing their child. Real great people... yeesh.

[@indyakeyes5430]

I was a HUGGGGEEE TOMBOY when I was younger and I'm soo glad my Mom didn't give me titles such as Gender Fluid or Trans. Not sayin it's a bad thing but I'm very feminine now and I would be confused as a kid

[@kaiachristensen4922]

“This household is fluid, meaning anyone can like anyone” *sweet home Alabama*

[@cherry414]

💀💀

[@Hiabsdefg]

😂☠

[@bungawowzers]

😭😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭

[@jasminehall3932]

COMMENT OF THE YEAR RIGHT HERE😂😂

[@boperez2841]

@@jasminehall3932 I AGREE GIRL 😂

[@adamwilliams8135]

I’m a girl and I wear boy clothes! I’m not trans I’m a tomboy! That kid is forced to be a gender fluid

[@zack-bn3ip]

Aj Williams sAmE xxx

[@shelleymatyasz9120]

It is abusive for this child!

[@cassidyanahi208]

I’m a girl that wears boy clothes and I hate being called a tomboy. My mom knows I’m gender fluid and she is okay with it.

[@isabellaspangenberg6550]

Cassie Nation so?

[@augustible9151]

1. It's clear they're being forced. 2. They TOLD their parents 3. That's so illogical.

[@amberrose2597]

Poor child. Y'all Force her to say those things

[@keyhottoddy]

It seems like they are pushing their agendas on the child...this is not normal!🙄 it’s actually kind of sad...😐

[@jw4673]

Borderline abuse

[@chosenbyGod..]

They Are!!

[@michellexnicole6181]

Fr 😒😒

[@RadioCyber]

So is dragging a kid to church and forcing baptism.

[@SquirrelASMR]

CALL CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES!!!

[@hannaelenalove9692]

Dude just because she wears boy clothes doesn’t make her a boyyy🤦🏼‍♀️ and you guys are like forcing her to be gender fluid

[@adriannamichalski3359]

thats literally not what they are doing. gender fluidity is when some chooses to express themselves in any way they want. they are not boy or girl, theyre a human.

[@lucygrainger8810]

Such an arrogant comment

[@evemphela]

So must they force her to be a girl now?

[@ozymandias8523]

Adrianna Michalski except that their parents force you at that age anything, from what you eat, to where you study.

[@urdadurdad569]

Really true! No hate though so don’t come for me please but here’s my opinion- I think you should raise the child as the gender they are, then later on in life if they want to be transgender then that’s fine but I just think they should be raised as their gender assigned at birth. I don’t completely know how someone could feel as both genders but I guess that it’s just something you will know. I don’t have to try to completely understand it I just have to accept it and I do.

[@riffraff9070]

My kid told me the other day he thinks he's a panda. So I'm raising him as such. Don't Hate.

[@user-wj5xc3ht1r]

oh you're paying wayy too much for bamboo.. who's your bamboo guy?

[@riffraff9070]

@@user-wj5xc3ht1r Lmao! Omg fuckin epic comment

[@beautychallengechannel6466]

Happy for yall😂😭

[@Quyllur1]

😂😂

[@donedone874]

My parents were raised religious so they indoctrinated us into it since we were young and even went to school for it. I was going to raise my children believing in the fairytale of God and make them live under such religous rules but Luckily We educated ourselves and didnt continue the idiocy. Hopefully soon religion is looked at the same way as this. Its even more ridiculous and false after all

[@DeePal072]

It's always astonishing what children can do to please their parents.

[@niamhdunne2592]

I’m genuinely concerned for the future of kids born in the 2010s like life is gonna be so complicated for them

[@dieselpatchesisthebiggay1253]

Not really I was born late 2009

[@talay2005]

I agree!

[@aistosee]

i disagree..most parents won’t be like this

[@why_why_do_you_do_this6693]

I was born in 2008. It is kinda difficult with labels and such, but it’s fine.

[@dieselpatchesisthebiggay1253]

@@why_why_do_you_do_this6693 I’m 11 born 2009

[@letsbereal3391]

I hate “boy clothes” and “girl clothes” like, you can’t assign a gender to a piece of fabric.

[@slay5907]

Tbh if I had a girl I would probably dress her in “girls clothes”

[@BuBs1970G]

@Vlavitir glutginskiya Most clothing for children are the same. When the clothes reach to young adult/teens then the clothing shapes and sizes change. (Female shirts have more fabric in the front to allow for breasts to fit. Another reason men have different clothing sizes, most don't have womanly breasts).

[@isaac-ck6jp]

Yes you can, do men wear bras?

[@squid2333]

I agree with you Clothing is clothing, it shouldn't be assigned to different people because of how their bodies were made You guys seem to be forgetting that people have different body shapes as well

[@HyperMotionDX]

@Vlavitir glutginskiya I've seen gender socks

[@ganondorfgaming7207]

I wonder if they will be disappointed if she comes out as straight and cis.

[@tonebone650]

Please excuse my ignorance but could you please tell me what cis means?

[@okamitatsumaki5754]

Tone Bone it means you identify as a girl if you're female, or a boy if you're male. Basically the opposite of transgender.

[@syd1735]

I doubt it bc they literally say they don't care how she will identify eventually. They love her unconditionally as all parents should

[@ganondorfgaming7207]

Sydney Trimble hopefully

[@zoe.h.nelson04]

They made it pretty clear that they would accept her for who she is and whoever she might become, and I don't see any reason to disbelieve them.

[@lightningmcdeutschland]

If you look at the parents social media and their recent posts, you will see that Claire is being refferred to with she/her pronouns and is a normal, happy girl. So glad these parents stopped with this madness and Claire is safe.

[@t.7952]

When I was five, I didn't even know women and men got together, I just knew that my parents were people who were just there. They can let them learn these things gradually, but stuffing all this information into their brain at such a young age can't be good for them.

[@ducknoisesintensify8007]

I thought you stood on a conveyer belt and your opposing gender would come through and you chose one 🤣

[@fuffy93]

Lmao That's a sad yet funny

[@beethoven1315]

@@ducknoisesintensify8007 lol

[@chapachuu]

Children's brains are amazingly absorbent. I feel sorry for the kids with ignorant normative parents. There's where the real struggle is at.

[@t.7952]

@@chapachuu What does that mean? Sometimes, that doesn't even matter. I grew up with parents who didn't talk about that stuff, but I learnt on my own and developed my own opinions on it by research. The parents don't always need to be educated for the child to be.

[@ericatompkins3859]

Why am I not surprised that the child is totally confused? 😩

[@seven9028]

That child is not confused. She has been educated to come to an understanding about these things and if you can't understand that she's less confused than you

[@mightyobserver12]

@@seven9028 disagree.

[@ivoriankoua3916]

@@seven9028 You're what we define as Bias in statistic...

[@masonfontenot1782]

@@seven9028 NO ONE is confused towards your one-sided opinion.

[@darkgogo225]

“Ok hunny just like we rehearsed”

[@miakwon5561]

Lmaoooo

[@shonna4545]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@juneypatuney]

😂

[@cryingtrouble]

Just like those preacher kids who clearly don't read yet, but know loads of vesicles from holy books

[@rileycoyote8275]

@@cryingtrouble Oh yeah, it's really the same thing. Whatever. So a child knowing scripture and repeating scripture is the same as a child reiterating her "parents" perverted Godless lifestyle?

[@fingerscrossed2453]

We're gonna see a large number of not contact adolescents in years to come. Parents have latched onto social media trends & impose this onto their kids. They put their ideology before their children. I feel sorry for the kid.

[@AddieandMia]

They just don’t want this kid to be straight because they are different

[@huna5923]

Truth is hurtful

[@seanleflyer540]

Mia your super cute 😍

[@jcdenton4621]

@revengejosy x They're definitely not giving her a choice. They're wanting to convince her that she's a boy on the grounds that she likes boy's clothing. Boys are boys and girls are girls. What part of that is so difficult to understand? If a boy likes to wear his Mom's dresses, or vice versa, then that definitely does not make that boy a girl...he's just a boy who likes to wear women's clothing.

[@mathisr.44]

@@jcdenton4621 I agree with you here

[@acidicrainbow7754]

@@jcdenton4621 How are they trying to convince her she's a boy?? Just because she's allowed to wear boy clothes?

[@giselleramirez4234]

If your child is wearing a choker at age 5 something is wrong.

[@xTheBOISx]

@Gemma Yeah God forbid the parent actually does some parenting and says no...

[@justmee5999]

I had that same choker when i was like 9.... Then again, I'm an adult failure.

[@stopbenedict2310]

It's only wrong cause that's the way you see it, I've seen plenty of young girls wear chokers before. I didn't know chokers we're for a specific age grouo

[@sydw1173]

I wore a choker when I was 5 lol didn't a lot of kids in the 90s wear them?

[@melissagreenwood8636]

Dr Phil at 0:06 I knew this kid was gonna be a tumblr quote queen 😂

[@runningred6694]

7 year olds today: ⬆️⬆️ Me when I was 7: *blowing and talking into the fan while mom was cooking me Dino Nuggets for lunch*

[@madisonshute4449]

Yooo sameee

[@TavoLL1511]

I had no mom but that sounds nice.

[@JesusChrist-bq6lu]

This is way to relatable

[@mikari.01]

@@TavoLL1511 Woah... I am so- sorry for your loss...

[@championsrus1895]

🍪

[@Hiloafer]

The girl sounds like she’s resisting the urge to say”This human form is limiting”