“We’re worth $700,000+ but my wife took away my credit card”

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I Will Teach You To Be Rich

I Will Teach You To Be Rich

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@ramitsethi
@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын
0:00 Please remember: These are real people who had the courage to come on my podcast and ask for help. Would you be willing to come on this podcast and share every detail of your financial life? Feel free to leave comments based on what you think, but remember that we are here to help in a supportive way, not to demean and criticize.
@tomgold5646
@tomgold5646 Жыл бұрын
ramit the people on your show are legit but, holly are they ever spoiled. It is only in the US where you can have a bachelors degree 4 years of schooling and get a JOB not even be a risk taking business man or woman, and earn 18k per month. These ppl need to kiss the dirt of the country they live in. Every where else you are luck if you are twice as educated and qualified doing the same job to earn half that. Including Canada, a nurse here clears 5k if he is lucky, an engineer clears 7k at best. I know couples with doctorates who do not clear 15 as a couple. The US is 100 percent the land of opportunity by all definitions, unless you are a pure moron.
@candecarro
@candecarro Жыл бұрын
I think Ramit does incredible work! Would love to see an interview, similar to these, that interviews couples or singles who feel they are living a rich life! I watch this and I think wow, I think I have found a rich life!
@dsouzk23
@dsouzk23 5 ай бұрын
Ddydgdddggtfsaytyf lol qxdrdq to😊r kkw😢😢 exp and l🎉et 🎉😢laeswwsogtsdw ❤​@@candecarro
@susank.4945
@susank.4945 Жыл бұрын
You are really like a money therapist, not getting upset and helping couples talk to each other... it is really the best finance channel out there..
@lowlowseesee
@lowlowseesee 7 ай бұрын
facts and even marriage counselor type of stuff. therapist in hidin lol
@garrettancel
@garrettancel 6 ай бұрын
@@lowlowseeseeexactly my thoughts!!
@patienceisalpha
@patienceisalpha Жыл бұрын
This channel is golden. There are four discussions you need to seriously have with you future spouse before considering a marriage: 1- Money goals. 2- Kids (to have or not) 3- The role of in-laws. 4- Religion if you plan to have kids.
@staceyswanson3918
@staceyswanson3918 Жыл бұрын
Yes! And #1 is usually never discussed but becomes the number 1 reason couples split up. Learn about money prior to marriage and have many discussions before getting engaged.
@deirdrekiely6187
@deirdrekiely6187 Жыл бұрын
YES YES YES YES !!!!
@ClarisNdoroRealEstate
@ClarisNdoroRealEstate 9 ай бұрын
We talked about all this before the marriage !
@patienceisalpha
@patienceisalpha 9 ай бұрын
@@ClarisNdoroRealEstate then you should be good. These are the tension points
@distantcam
@distantcam 4 ай бұрын
I love how the engineers took your spreadsheet, and then over-engineered the stuffing out of it! Disclaimer: I am also an engineer.
@AliceChen
@AliceChen Жыл бұрын
I loved how much you loved their kids running around throughout the show and even being able to hear them in the background of the recording as well - great reminder that it doesn't have to be perfect because life is complex, but you have to start somewhere
@ramitsethi
@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын
The best! I love being able to get a glimpse into my guests' lives. It's such a gift and it tells me so much about what's really going on.
@jameschalmers9939
@jameschalmers9939 Жыл бұрын
Kirsten and Jon, you guys are legends. Thank you for being so open about money and your lives. Crazy brave and so much learning for all of us!
@mamalovesthebeach437
@mamalovesthebeach437 Жыл бұрын
This is one of the best podcasts on finances that I’ve heard/seen. This couple is so much like my husband and myself, but without their level of finances, even at twice their age. I overwork our finances. My husband for most of our life together has ignored our finances. He now lets me handle it all but if he’s confused or things are not as he thinks they should be, he takes more of a parental role scolding me and I get defensive. We have a monthly financial meeting where I bring him the numbers, but it isn’t a partnership. It’s me doing all the work, all the management, all the figuring out, and he tells me if he approves. Listening and watching this courageous couple work through this so beautifully with you Ramit, has encouraged me to think differently. I will have a conversation with my husband and talk about this podcast episode and see if he’ll watch this with me. It’s so important for couples to both be on board with finances and work together as partners. I wish them luck and would love to hear from them again in six months to see what they’ve accomplished.
@ramitsethi
@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@excitedaboutlearning1639
@excitedaboutlearning1639 Жыл бұрын
A great episode! Ramit saying,"What if, for one day, you didn't think of how things could go wrong and rather thought how they can go right?" is such an important lesson. For months, I've realized that I've wanted to study and do the assigned work, but I've found it hard, but yesterday for the first time, I decided that I'm going to get it done. I did get a small win and took it as I did the exercises I needed to do.
@bethanyharrison3310
@bethanyharrison3310 6 ай бұрын
This one made me cry. I think this couple might mirror myself and my husband the most closely out of all the episodes I've seen. I thought it was my husband "ignoring" finances because he doesn't care. But it occurred to me listening to Jon speak so bravely and openly about his internalized fears of incompetence wifh money... That my husband has actually voiced before that I'm "smarter" than him... Which is ludicrous to me because he's genuinely SO crazy intelligent. We just happen to have different areas of expertise. I forget that he might truly believe he's not enough for the partnership when it comes to areas like finance. 💔 Thank you so much Kristin and Jon, and Ramit as well. You've opened my eyes today and taught me things about my own marriage. I'm seeing new doorways into better supporting my husband and encouraging him to come alongside me as a partner, while we figure it out together. I could be so much kinder about it all too, respecting that he is wading into the unfamiliar water of finances-I want to be a buoy to lift him up and help him garner a sense of capability and control, not an anchor pulling him deeper than he's ready for.
@acissej821
@acissej821 Жыл бұрын
I’m only 5 minutes in but I’m so excited to see how Ramit tackles these issues of transparency and control
@davidhumphrey1366
@davidhumphrey1366 Жыл бұрын
Kudos to Kirsten and Jon for their courage to share their situation to help others. Would be interested to know when Jon's hatred for talking about money started. Did he come into the marriage with the aversion, or did it grow only because of these non-productive interactions?
@Indy4Cookie
@Indy4Cookie Жыл бұрын
this was a lovely podcast ❤ huge credit to these two for opening up and working towards a more rich life
@ramitsethi
@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. I'm so glad they were so candid in sharing their story
@sussie9895
@sussie9895 Жыл бұрын
Again, I am blown away every week by how you manage to delve into people's psychology. Really happy for this couple!
@wayen8
@wayen8 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the honest discussion and sharing your story!
@CAROCARMEN
@CAROCARMEN 9 ай бұрын
This couple made me so emotional. I really wish them all the best financial unity and prosperity for their family! ❤
@amendezmuniz
@amendezmuniz Жыл бұрын
Omgsh! So far the most raw and real episode! I feel so much empathy so him.
@egdapo
@egdapo Жыл бұрын
Bravo to this couple. Absolutely courageous on both of them. I really wish them the best! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
@anwmusic
@anwmusic Жыл бұрын
Thank you to this couple for sharing! THANK YOU RAMIT! You offer us so much and so many ways to learn.
@PedroPerez-nk7nx
@PedroPerez-nk7nx Жыл бұрын
My god I want to see that custom spreadsheet so bad lol
@lowlowseesee
@lowlowseesee 7 ай бұрын
YES!!! i want to pitch an idea to IWT that he lets guests or supporters like us get to show off how we use our personal systems. im always so curious and also want to show off how I use the CSP lol
@jquigley06
@jquigley06 5 ай бұрын
I want to see, also
@m0e87
@m0e87 9 ай бұрын
What a wonderful episode.❤
@TH-eb5ro
@TH-eb5ro Жыл бұрын
Family planning is so important. Try to plan for those children and have the programs in place before you have children, things such as an emergency fund and discussions about children and what that means financially in the chapters of your lives. I had a housekeeper before I got married. I was able to attend school, have a full time and part-time job and start a company. That housekeeper was so valuable to my life. I think this couple could have a date night weekly, even a few hours to hang out and financial planning on another day. Interesting is how you can tell they care for each other. This was very cool. Maybe take notes to save for the meeting.
@myinnerbeingknows
@myinnerbeingknows Жыл бұрын
Thank you for handling this with so much grace and giving hope to both of them.i really believe you have helped them save there marriage. Shout out all the way from South Africa 🌺
@thestembieshow
@thestembieshow 10 ай бұрын
Fun Money Fridays!!!
@rowddyone3570
@rowddyone3570 Жыл бұрын
I would really like to see there budget breakdown and where the money goes
@firefalcoln
@firefalcoln 8 ай бұрын
Excellent couple in this episode. I wish them the best. I was amused by Kirsten enhancing the conscious spending plan template to Ramit's annoyance.
@ramitsethi
@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын
46:19 What are some $3 questions you can leave behind?
@janeenharrison1953
@janeenharrison1953 Жыл бұрын
I looove it when you call out their bullsh%$t, way to go! Some of us truly are tooo preoccupied with the small things putting their priceless relationships in jeopardy.
@ValerySherina
@ValerySherina 6 ай бұрын
This is so powerful! Bravo Ramit. Putting themselves into another person's shoes is so hard. She is craving for help and partnership, he assumes she knows it all and has it all figured out. He thinks he doesn't know much about money, but is willing to learn if asked. Thank you Ramit for opening their eyes on it.
@rd904
@rd904 Жыл бұрын
I like her and I like him.....I hope they find a way to find a happy financial life together
@cenzo_rex
@cenzo_rex 11 ай бұрын
Am I the only one noticing that so many of the couples that appear on this show just make insane amounts of money?
@debbielockhart7762
@debbielockhart7762 4 ай бұрын
Not just you. It is kind of depressing sometimes when they are making like $400k - and I'm at the $100k level (and it has taken me.decades at my work to break that 6 figure barrier).
@isaacwilson2240
@isaacwilson2240 3 ай бұрын
You are correct. However, the amounts are largely irrelevant… what’s important are the percentages. If the percentages are out of whack, it doesn’t work no matter how insane the income. Some of them do strike my funny bone, though, like the mom whose guilt-free spending was supposed to include $3k a month for her daughter’s activities? WTF? I don’t have that much TOTAL GF spending and I’m a 50-yr old business owner.
@juditharsenault2131
@juditharsenault2131 Жыл бұрын
When John closed his eyes and listened to the host say what Kirsten was thinking, he didnt hear the overspending. He heard everything but that. Other than that, this couple seem to genuinely want to solve their financial probkems.
@dude_dude_
@dude_dude_ Жыл бұрын
Great episode! Small question, (maybe i missed it), but what was the breakdown of who was bringing in the $18.3k/month? Not sure if it is the same case here, but the trend i've noticed in all these podcasts is that the lower income earner often feels that because their partner earns more, their partner understand money better. So therefore, because I earn less, i will never be able to understand money as well as the higher income earner and i am not qualified to manage the money. Plus, im not the one bringing in the money, so who am I to manage it. Obviously, this thinking is flawed because a low income earner can be better with money than a high income earner. But based off this trend, i assume he brings in less money and feels this way. I could be totally wrong, would be interesting to know if that is the case here.
@Coastpsych_fi99
@Coastpsych_fi99 Жыл бұрын
It’s also overlapped with the fact that if your partner runs a business, is an engineer or computer scientist or other high paying fields they are usually good at math. You’d assume they are going to make good financial decisions and plans as they can understand the math at an extremely high level. Whereas I understand money enough to get by but I’m not genius.
@velvetgardenia
@velvetgardenia Жыл бұрын
​@@Coastpsych_fi99 agree, in THEORY that is what we tend to assume, but I learned that the hard way.
@velvetgardenia
@velvetgardenia Жыл бұрын
Totally. I really enjoy watching the body language and the energies that the parties display, combined with the verbal- it's powerful.
@verb0ze
@verb0ze Жыл бұрын
​@@Coastpsych_fi99agreed. I think that's because the rules of money are about simple math + psychology, and we engineers can tend to over-complicate things with our crazy formulas 😅
@Erin-rg3dw
@Erin-rg3dw 11 ай бұрын
I haven't heard it on this episode or show, but it's definitely something I've seen in other places. Sometimes it's a case of the lower income (or sometimes SAH parent) intentionally backing off, other times it's the higher income one pushing the other away, which I find unhealthy since it's supposed to be a team effort.
@gmarrese91
@gmarrese91 Жыл бұрын
Maybe it’s just me, but alone by a river doesn’t sound too bad lol
@robnelson6545
@robnelson6545 Жыл бұрын
We were worth almost exactly the same when I was their age. Now early 50s and it is about 4x that. I am also an engineer and was worried I wouldn’t be able to sustain my job performance and that is coming to fruition now and it’s super nice to have the cushion now that the job expectations are getting crazy. Most people don’t want to be an engineer because of how difficult it is. I totally understand from that perspective.
@juditharsenault2131
@juditharsenault2131 Жыл бұрын
I relate to your job getting more complex and probably more stressful. Iwas a Registered Nurse and retired about 5 years ago. The job kept getting more and more complex so i retired at 62. I had started to hate nursing the last few years before I retired. I retired a year before the plandemic. Missed that bullet. God led me to retire. His timing is perfect! He's so good to me.
@mmp495
@mmp495 11 ай бұрын
My dad always told me to stay away from debt and credit cards. My mom always provided us kids all the necessities and also avoided debt. Niether of my parents were educated or learned about investments. I changed my family tree on this one.
@ChristyMurphyWriter
@ChristyMurphyWriter 11 ай бұрын
I didn't expect this to go as well as it did by the end. I've watched about a half dozen of these episodes, and I have the highest hopes for Kirsten and Jon.
@SydPeppa
@SydPeppa Жыл бұрын
15:31 I never saw this conversation happen with my folks and it's almost taboo like.
@lowlowseesee
@lowlowseesee 7 ай бұрын
i came in mad at these two, mainly him but i love them both by the end hhahahaha. wish them the best, sweet folks
@candecarro
@candecarro Жыл бұрын
I would have edited the CSP also, and I haven’t even seen the template yet!
@ramitsethi
@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын
15:16 How did your parents talk to you about money growing up?
@penelopeaponte4563
@penelopeaponte4563 Жыл бұрын
One of my earliest memories is of my mom trying to teach me how to write a check because it was important I paid my bills on time. I was like 5 😂. My mom is from the Dominican Republic, bless her she tried lol
@NFPwife
@NFPwife Жыл бұрын
My parents made me earn my luxury items, they'd say "We're not the kind of people who pay $50 for jeans. We're $25 jeans people," and I'd have to earn the difference. I got great at earning $$ and finding sales or thrifting luxury items. Now I just have to shift to, "I earned it!" and loosening up a bit.
@rileygiordano2380
@rileygiordano2380 Жыл бұрын
I love this question, because my parents were bad with money (if they had money, they were spending it), but they gave me full transparency. My friends, as I found out later in life, had no idea how much their parents made or how much was needed for mortgage, food, etc. The one thing I did learn from my friends was how the market worked (I still only buy index funds), and how to invest a piece of each check and leave it to compound long-term. I learned with my friends, though, and they learned from me.
@EmilyLucille523
@EmilyLucille523 Жыл бұрын
They didn’t but I know they weren’t smart about it. My Mom loved her credit cards and my Dad loved using he’s house equity has a bank.
@mmp495
@mmp495 Жыл бұрын
No education or discussions about money other than knowing that my single mom of 3 provided us a house, food, utilities on her own. She had a pension and some savings, no investment. If anything she taught me good work ethics and how to sustain necessities.
@Azel247
@Azel247 8 ай бұрын
If I may, the issue is not with the credit card or with regular spending. The issue is an addiction to gambling in mobile games. I know these types of games well and they are all designed to have a loot box (aka gambling) component to them. These games are sinister and the pricing for in-game currency are so jaw-droppingly inflated that anyone who doesn't game will likely think the developers are insane.... yet they sell. There's no end to the spending in these games. Once you spend all that money getting the best characters or items in the game, they release a new, better, shinier, character you must have, and the cycle continues.
@IrisP989
@IrisP989 9 ай бұрын
Great couple. I am a bit disappointed for them. They have no debt and their net worth is $700K plus. Especially with a great income. They can have so much more. Hopefully this conversation helped them.
@debbielockhart7762
@debbielockhart7762 4 ай бұрын
There is more to life than just massive accumulation of money. $700k is awesome for mid-30s. Got to live along the way too.
@IrisP989
@IrisP989 4 ай бұрын
@@debbielockhart7762 Net worth is not just accumulation of money. It can consist of a retirement account, etc. and you can definitely live, still be responsible with money, have a higher net worth and not come on the show. Especially with that high income.
@taylamayde
@taylamayde 6 ай бұрын
this is one reason why it’s said that when people say "we always pay balance off we don't pay interest " is dangerous it's not worth the points or rewards. Something might happen as in this Situation
@dareeltoro6681
@dareeltoro6681 5 ай бұрын
Regarding the savings account. There was a misunderstanding in there. I do this, we pay all of our bills (automatic) including home with a high yield savings account which we never let go below 6 month worth of fixed expenses (Emergency Fund). That’s on average $110 a month on interest itself. This is what she is doing.
@davidhumphrey1366
@davidhumphrey1366 Жыл бұрын
@ramitsethi, If it frustrates you that no one reads the book or does the CSP together, is there a way to change your process of bringing folks on the show to increase compliance?
@ramitsethi
@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын
We could but it doesn't bother me enough. It's a funny quirk of human nature
@NFPwife
@NFPwife Жыл бұрын
Compliance?? That's a really loaded word. There may be a way to increase alignment with the process, like having a team member actively facilitate the completion. Or a video or two of couples completing CSPs together - I'd watch that.
@sussie9895
@sussie9895 Жыл бұрын
I suspect that couples who have read the book and done the CSP don't "need" to be on the show as much.
@NFPwife
@NFPwife Жыл бұрын
@sus sie - agree! Also, the process of getting (or not getting) the CSP done will likely reveal, or at least repeat, the couple dynamics around money. There's potentially more to learn from the why and how of the CSP completion than the data in the CSP.
@verb0ze
@verb0ze Жыл бұрын
I actually enjoy when couple come on sometimes but having done that prep work. It truly reveals their unbiased psychology about money, and highlights some blind spots I've had to wrestle with my partner / family. Seeing Ramit tackle those gives me a vocabulary to discuss similar scenarios with my loved ones.
@radical8039
@radical8039 Жыл бұрын
Hilarious! She changed the template 😂😂😂
@jquigley06
@jquigley06 5 ай бұрын
I find it interesting that the person who often applies for the show think Ramit will validate their viewpoint and "straighten out the other person and often they're often the person that needs the perspective adjustment.
@Playingwithproxies
@Playingwithproxies Жыл бұрын
If you are still investing a significant amount of money you should be thrilled if the markets are down and investing even more aggressively when you can get in at a lower price.
@Jason-zg6fr
@Jason-zg6fr Жыл бұрын
Just found you from the noah kagan podcast and I loved hearing you speak
@mangomadnnesss
@mangomadnnesss Жыл бұрын
They talk to each other like colleagues. A weekly meeting, a Sunday 1 hour discussion. No wonder he ends up leaving. I think a change in the language they use when speaking to each other needs to be wayy more interpersonal and less corporate or professional.
@tiffanyhunter6035
@tiffanyhunter6035 10 ай бұрын
Hi Ramit! Can you do premarital financial counseling?? I would looove to do that with you and me and my significant other!
@chillyfrost2011
@chillyfrost2011 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this podcast, a lot of emotions around money management from one spectrum to the other. I wanted to as a question, We are debt free and make a pretty good income but I'm having stress and anxiety because I feel there is no more obstacles like paying debt, saving, spending, etc.. Any advice?
@ramitsethi
@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын
Let's discuss in iwt.com/moneycoaching
@alialshamali3250
@alialshamali3250 Ай бұрын
Honestly as an engineer even if have no answer I would say I have it then spend a week figuring it out 😂
@jessicabender1301
@jessicabender1301 10 ай бұрын
John, you are making excuses for not knowing instead of facing your fear and learning a new tool. You are forcing your wife by your willful incompetence to be your mom. Kirsten, I want John to put himself in your shoes. That he has repeatedly committed financial adultery and has blamed you. How does Kirsten feel?
@bryce3323
@bryce3323 Жыл бұрын
Hey Ramit, I realize your applicant demographics may not support this, but would it be possible to mix up the couple's backgrounds a bit more? Would be super cool to hear from more couples from different cultures, orientations, etc.
@ramitsethi
@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын
I've spoken to the young, old, people with $800K in debt and $13mm, white, black, asian, US-based, international, gay, straight. Who else should we feature?
@bryce3323
@bryce3323 Жыл бұрын
@@ramitsethi I must've missed some of those episodes! I'm personally curious about international -- digital nomads, expats, couples with different cultural backgrounds and nationalities
@ramitsethi
@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын
Yeah check out the podcast. I've spoken to several couples like this. iwt.com/podcast
@holamissmusica
@holamissmusica Жыл бұрын
@@ramitsethi Er... perhaps a Black couple?
@mangomadnnesss
@mangomadnnesss Жыл бұрын
@@holamissmusicahe interviews people who apply. He’s not scouting them.
@lowlowseesee
@lowlowseesee 7 ай бұрын
Engineer with the sinister reactions lol
@paulturner4419
@paulturner4419 Жыл бұрын
She basically understands that risk management is the most important aspect in finance. The presenter doesn’t understand this.
@verb0ze
@verb0ze Жыл бұрын
Risk management at the expense of not living a fulfilled life is pointless. A balance is needed, and I think that's what this couple came to get here
@debbielockhart7762
@debbielockhart7762 4 ай бұрын
You honestly think Ramit doesn't understand risk management? Lol. There is also a.point to living that doesn't revolve around hoarding all your cash.
@martinfarrow2825
@martinfarrow2825 Жыл бұрын
she thinks its her money and not there money there is the problem right there.
@debbielockhart7762
@debbielockhart7762 4 ай бұрын
She does seem too controlling to me. She's yelling and screaming at him if his credit card is $2,000 -and they make $18k per month. And they have a great net worth for their age.
@scottyglenwalker2345
@scottyglenwalker2345 Жыл бұрын
Hahahaha I called it when she said I had to do a deep dive to see what he was spending 2k on and he replied phone games😂 Dude those google play games are no joke I spent 80k in 3 years then ended up giving rhe base away for 600😮 They are so addictive,what turned me off were the greedy ass Chinese In hongkong where the games last shelter survival is headquartered I was a loyal customer but one time I made a mistake purchase they wouldn't fix it so I did a charge back.They help my account hostage until I paid back what I got refund in order to get game diamonds again.They froze 1.5 million diamonds.That was the straw that broke the camels back never again will I get sucked into another pos google game! Shit had me spending 1200 to 2k every month it was crazy.
@BingingInPeace-ev3bp
@BingingInPeace-ev3bp 11 ай бұрын
I feel for John. What’s not being said is that John has low self esteem and his wife probably threatens and controls him. Yikes. You need a new therapist. Seven years of therapy and you’re still grappling with the same fears tells me therapy is not working. You are not just afraid of your wife, but also afraid of your own shadow. Money is not that complicated. Read Ramit’s book and a couple others and you won’t be intimidated by your wife and will feel like an equal partner.
@cooledcannon
@cooledcannon Жыл бұрын
If they can afford a babysitter why can they not afford to pay off their credit card every month?
@factorfitness3713
@factorfitness3713 Жыл бұрын
I get what you're saying, but that's a little simplistic. The answer is, as always, priorities. The better question is why they choose the babysitter over the credit card. The "if you can afford x, why can't you do y" question is heavily reductive and ignores the key element here - the psychology.
@debbielockhart7762
@debbielockhart7762 4 ай бұрын
They have no debt and a net worth of $700k in their 30s. They can afford to pay their credit cards every month (and it sounds like they do).
@simonscowled9925
@simonscowled9925 Жыл бұрын
Replace my wife with "my mommy"
@ramitsethi
@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын
Simon, read the pinned comment.
@EmilyLucille523
@EmilyLucille523 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, it is true though. My husband is the same way. I don’t know if it’s because I make more than twice what he makes, but when it comes to financial things I feel like his my “child” and I’m in charge of the budget. As much as I I’ve asked him to do it with me, he won’t. 🤷🏻‍♀️
@mangomadnnesss
@mangomadnnesss Жыл бұрын
@@EmilyLucille523stop asking an start doing, he needs to literally see the things you do. They only way he can is by it hitting him in the face. You are not his mom or rebound to fix his shortcomings. Yes it may bother you but until you stop, he wont start. Also he might make mistakes and play that whole weaponized incompetence thing. The same way you can do them he can and he will. These people need to learn from their mistakes.
@verb0ze
@verb0ze Жыл бұрын
​@@EmilyLucille523do you involve him in planning your finances? Or do you scold him for not knowing / doing what should be obvious with money? I ask because often times, people just don't have the education around money, and we project our assumptions of knowledge on them.
@EmilyLucille523
@EmilyLucille523 Жыл бұрын
@@verb0ze I don’t scold him and I’ve told him he should be involved because if I pass, he’ll be lost but he flat out says he’d rather not know about it. 🤷🏻‍♀️
@dawnkoplitz1825
@dawnkoplitz1825 Жыл бұрын
Too many ads. 😖
@ramitsethi
@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын
How many did you see? How many is the right amount?
@rory644
@rory644 Жыл бұрын
Get premium pal
@IMBLESSED-oe6dl
@IMBLESSED-oe6dl 5 ай бұрын
​​@@rory644well to get this content remit needs to get paid too unless u want to write him a personal ck 😂 He got bills to pay too.
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