we've been keeping a secret... 🤭 Q&A date day, tea house & gwangjang market | Sissel

[@marcy.c]

Having seen the videos from the moment of "the boyfriend is filming me" and never calling his name, to you introducing him to your subscribers, introducing the home you share, to you guys being fiancés and now legally married, that's a crazy ride. Time flies so quickly. There's this talk you guys had in a video (maybe the tipsy talk, I'm not sure), about how you guys handle fights and disagreements and you were just talking that you have different ways of coping (like being hugged and reassured and the other having alone time to think and calm). I think that influenced me to ask about and look for it with the people I live with or have close friendships or partners until this day. Being a witness, hidden behind a screen, of such beautiful humans and of this love you share, gives me a very warm feeling. I honestly wish you guys the best with anything you'll do in life and send you lots of love! 💜

[@sisselab]

Such a sweet comment that really puts our timeline into perspective ! Fun fact, we were never engaged, im waiting for the proposal haha 💚

[@IrendaYamarisArtHealing]

I love these videos with Jake. He's usually so quiet, but when he speaks there's such deep meaning in his words. I appreciate that. My son is that way! I'm proud to see your growth. I pray you keep growing and loving in a deep way! Hugs!

[@sisselab]

That’s so kind of you, Jake says thanks 💚

[@elyse3884]

Jake- “…she’s still waiting for my proposal..” So adorable! Congratulations to the both of you. Wishing you both a lifetime of love and happiness! 🥰🥰🤙🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@sisselab]

Thank you love 🥹💚

[@jarisaleh3931]

never been happier about someone being legally married

[@sisselab]

Awww that’s so sweet, thanks love 💚

[@alinegreen7266]

Jake just dropping this BIG NEWS SO CASUALLY?! Congratulations 💚 I really like your relationship vibe, if that makes sense, I always find myself smiling watching you guys together🥰 I wish you guys only the best for the future, stay healthy and happy with each other 💚🥰🙌

[@sisselab]

Hahaha right? I was so shocked 🤣💚 Thank you so much!

[@amorfati3559]

You are the only KZbinr that didn’t make a click bait video for this announcement. So real and honest. love for you both!!

[@0ryx]

im so happy you guys went through the legal documents it is such a thoughtful practical step, and it shows how mature you guys are and the relationship is.

[@sisselab]

It has definitely made our life much easier, and also strengthened our relationship ! 💚

[@piadabrown]

I personally don´t wanna spoil anything for the viewers who haven´t seen this video yet, so let´s just say I´m totally stoked for you guys! Also, I´m grateful the both of you were so open with the questions, especially you addressing that one topic at the end- which every woman should care about way more . I feel like I have stressed out my body through this particular method for way too long. I got on it at the age of 17 and stopped at the age of 35 when my body had started showing signs of side effects for a few years- like feeling depressed a lot and my body changing as well. So this is a decision every girl/woman should think about well and maybe re-think it every few years. Once I had stopped with this particular method my body and mind changed for the better, but it also transformed and I struggled with the same issues that led me to take it in the first place: hormonal issues and acne (aside from the obvios reason). But over all it was the right decision to cancel taking it. I feel healthier and more content with myself and - you can always change your body for the better if you just put enough care and effort in, like work outs, a healthy diet or researching and changing skincare until you have found the right path for yourself. I am truly glad for you, Sissel that you`ve stopped early in your life and I am thrilled for the both of you guys and am rooting for youuuuuuu 🙆‍♀

[@georgettec938]

congratulations on being legally married! My husband and I also went through a similar process for similar reasons and got legally married first with a ceremony about a year later :) the legal marriage is just as special to us, so I'm so happy for you!!

[@sisselab]

Congrats to you too 🥹💚

[@aprilsketchbook]

I’ve been watching your videos for a couple of years now and I’m so happy to see you evolve into this new stage of your life, congratulations to the both of you ❤

[@sisselab]

That’s so sweet of you, thank you 💚

[@irenefung6221]

oh jake and his deep dimples…so adorable, absolutely love you guys and how open and natural you guys look and feel about one another. The fact that Jake was nonchalant about your sexual history makes me want to say that he understands you and cherish your ❤

[@sisselab]

I love his dimples so much 😭 thank you for the sweet words 💚

[@Zeddoeseverything]

Congratulations! It’s crazy how much changed over the years - it feels like yesterday I followed along with your makeup tutorials before Korea! To growing up, together and toward happiness ❤️

[@sisselab]

Wow time flies! Thanks for being here through all that 💚

[@sophieballou4604]

HAHA the way you spilled as Jake announced that so casually 😂 Very supportive of you two and seeing your journey and relationship flourish is so nice ❤️

[@sisselab]

Major shocked hahaha 💚

[@shasisstuff]

Wait omg. I started watching you in 2021 and I would always tell my best friend about your little apartment updates (she doesn’t care much for youtube) and how it’s just so wonderful that this couple are moving in together and decorating their apartment together and finding harmony. Now y’all I married🥺 I wish we were still friends so I could share this with her wow 🥺❤️ congratulations again, y’all truly are good together 💗

[@sisselab]

That’s so cute!!! 💚 thank you!

[@daxo7833]

Legally married is still a marriage to celebrate no matter what the reasons behind it are, as long as you two love each other! Congratulations to both of you and I wish you all the happiness 🎉❤

[@rysa.tarts07]

It doesn't always need to be some grand or elaborate proposal, as long as you both know that you want to be with and grow together, that is the best thing and what makes it work ❤️ also practicality is nothing to be ashamed of! My husband and I decided to get married for tax purposes, but eventually had a ceremony with our family and closest friends. congratulations to you both ❤️😍

[@chamenchamen8171]

I really like your Q&A video with Jake (watch the other one when it came out too) It's just so simple yet so "thought enriching". I always always learn something. "Argue like you" like each other" and not like you're bringing each other down". This is something I'd like to incorporate in my life.

[@amarjaana6137]

Congratulations! It’s the best thing when you find someone who is willing to grow together with you and stays with you even through hardships 💚

[@sisselab]

Absolutely, thank you so much 💚

[@tessaa5834]

ÄLSKAR detta format av frågestund inbakat i era aktiviteter! Så mysigt att kolla på! Så kul att lyssna på er båda prata om er syn på förhållanden etc.

[@dalilak1871]

I've been watching you for a few years now and seeing you grow like this makes my heart feel warm. It feels like you've changed a lot but at the same time you stayed the same.

[@sisselab]

Awwwwww thank you 🥹💚

[@effie.calliope]

Thank you for this video! You guys are adorable! It’s so nice to see such a beautiful and healthy relationship! And I love how honest you guys are with everything. And how fun you make your relationship.

[@sisselab]

Thanks love 💚

[@end3start]

new fav ‘husband and wife’!!!! haha love the casual marriage announcement

[@sisselab]

Awwwwwww💚💚💚

[@noodle_witch]

18:23 About birth control, I think is very important to acknowledge that every body is different, and some body’s may need the hormones that come with the birth control to regulate and actually function as it’s supposed to, I don’t think there’s such thing as “a fake period” but again, every body it’s different and I do agree that some doctors are to quick on prescribing you birth control when you may not need it or even want it, so yeah, if you have questions about it I would recommend to do your research, ask your doctor, find different opinions and get what’s best for you, and if it doesn’t feel right then don’t feel pressured into keep using it ☺️

[@noodle_witch]

Also not because something it’s not “natural” means it’s automatically bad for you, and not because something is “natural” means it’s automatically good for you, always research and listen to your body so you can find what’s best for you ❤❤

[@ohnanariri]

i finally finished this, and omg congratulations sissel and jake! how practical and low-key you guys do things, just real and honest, including the announcement is why i vibe with you so much. cheers!

[@saradjebbar2542]

The pieces of advice ur gave about being a couple are priceless. People rush to being in a relationship or to marriage ( in my country) before knowing how to be a couple

[@fatimaezzahraejjebli1133]

Your relationship is so realistic and romantic at the same time. Congratulations for getting married. I can't wait to watch your weeding preparation videos and honeymoon. You deserve this and thank you for sharing your experiences with us.

[@AnneVic3]

I knew that you were marrieeeeeed !!! I’m so happy for you guys, I loved how Jake said it like it’s not a big deal ! And that you’re planning to do it “properly” you’re doing your own thing at your own pace and that’s amazing ! I waited for the morning to watch your video while getting ready it’s like my own little thing ! Just wanted to say something about the birth control thing, I totally understand you and I agree, I’ve been off it for a long time now, and I feel so much more in tune with my body it’s insane ! Thanks for an amazing and soothing (for me at least) video ! Take care 💚

[@SusJournal]

Loving your latest shooting and editing aesthetics 🫶 I never dated Korean men either and never introduced my parents to anyone until I met my Swedish partner who speaks little to zero Korean. I personally think speaking the same language doesn’t necessarily mean you communicate well with one another. If you are willing to communicate with the person, that will itself and your decision to meet in the middle for each other will overcome any inconveniences. It works both ways when my partner interacts with my Korean parents and when I talk to his Swedish family.

[@SusJournal]

No waaaaait omg congrats on your legal marriage 😫😭❤️ love how Jake was casually dropping 🍵

[@katherynne8241]

I agree with you re: communication without language fluency! My husband is Korean and his mother speaks not much English at all despite having lived in the USA for many years. I am learning Korean but I'm still not very confident or good, so we have to communicate in a blend of languages and nonverbal communication. So far we're doing okay! The effort and intentionality of communication makes a big difference even if the language fluency isn't complete. :)

[@flouce]

Jake made me laugh so hard being so casual about it 😭😂😂💚 I love the vibe about this vlog, and generally how your channel grows and evolves with you! I’ve been following you for a few years now, and your videos are always such a calm safe moment, thanks so much for your work and good energy Sissel!

[@sisselab]

💚🥹 thank you love

[@flouce]

@@sisselab 🫶🏽💚

[@oliwiakaniewska4723]

I’m so happy for you guys 🙈🤍 I kinda did the same, signed up marriage papers to be able to stay in the US with a love of my life because long distance between Poland and US was really difficult, and we’re planning to have a party later on. It was so funny when you said that Jake doesn’t mind what he do and you care how it’s done hahha I’m a Virgo too and I can feel you sis 😂🤍 Love you guys ❤️

[@Justbrenn]

I’ve been watching you for years and I’m so happy you found someone that makes you feels soo happy and loved, since you showed up your relationship with Jake there was a special something between you two, I’m so happy for you guys, congratsss!!! 😭🤍🤍

[@sisselab]

🥹💚

[@djinn4895]

Congratulations dear Sissel and Jake! 💚 You pulled a "Never let them know your next move" I was so surprised to hear you're legally married?!?!, even though we all knew it was going to happen one day , you just dropped the news so casually 💚

[@CaseyLouise149]

I have been off the pill for 5 years now (9 years on it before that) and I have absolutely no wish to go back on it. It took me about a year to a year and a half to really feel regulated and connected with my body and cycle, but I think it really helped me connect much better with my body and overall self. I 100% agree with you.

[@katarinaohlsson1160]

From this Swedish-Korean couple (married 19 years this October) to you, the Danish-Korean couple - CONGRATS!!

[@sisselab]

Congrats on your love, how beautiful 💚🥹

[@eleopolps]

ME AT 9:03 😧😧😧😧😧 AHAHAHA I was so shocked, thank you Jake, best marriage reveal lol so happy for you, guys 💚 And I really liked the way you talked about arguments. Recently, our friends broke up after 8 years beeing together because of difficulty in communication. Even if people going separate ways it's normal, it shocked us cause we rarely argue and we can't understand what did not work between the two that did with us for the same amount of years. You said it: while arguing, we don't try to win, we argue "like we like each other". When we have some kind of disagreement, we do not offend each other nor we try to impose our mindset on the other. We talk while trying to find a balance, a common point between our different mindsets. It's not easy, we say sorry a lot even if we're angry, sometimes we don't even come to a balance, but we still respect our ideas, listen to the other and go through it because we love each other so much that having an "unproductive" disagreement (that has no benefit on our relationship or doesn't let us understand smth new about the other) isn't even worth it. This was such a cute video 💚 Oh, and I missed you, Sissel eheh

[@eleb]

Che bello vedere un’altra sua supporter italiana ☺️ Ah, e tra l’altro mi chiamo anch’io Eleonora 😆

[@eleopolps]

@@eleb Oh, ciao cara! 🫶🏻 Che coincidenze, magari abitiamo anche vicine ahahah

[@sisselab]

So so so spot on and SO beautiful!! You have a strong relationship love 💚

[@AgatheWiesner]

I love how realistic this video feels, and how I which I had a big sister like you when I was younger to tell me few things! I feel exactly the same about lots of thing and the thing that strongly touched me was when you talked about how you would have loved to honour your body and intimacy a little bit more when you were à young woman discovering your sexuality, I think for a way to long period of my life sexuality defined to many of my relationships with peoples and questions about who I was. But there is so much more to life than that !! Sending you lot’s of love ❤️

[@mikaellabacho4415]

can’t wait to see u wearing wedding gown!!🥰 love your outfit as always😊

[@sisselab]

Hahaha it’ll be a while since he’ll have to propose first, but I’m excited too hehe 💚

[@AnaCW]

I have been following you for quite a long time and wow your growth is palpable 👏🏻👏🏻 very refreshing to see someone becoming wise and accepting things than maybe a few years back you wouldnt. I am brazilian and my husband in english, living in England and this year married for 18yrs 🎉😊 and one of the things you said in this video about gender roles are SO SO TRUE. 50/50 in a relationship might work for a time then the cracks and resentment will start to show, thats why, in my opinion, so many relationships dont last anymore. Respecting each others limitations and roles are vital for a peaceful life together. Being a team with each other and not against. Really refreshing seeing you saying this as in my opinion is what makes or breaks a couple 😊 honour your partner strengths and love them for who they are , accepting and not want to change to fit in our expectations. Its really simple and its what real love really is. Wishing you both all the best ❤

[@glitterchibi3041]

Loved you talking about not being on hormonal contraceptives. ❤I quit mine, had an implant, 3/4 years ago since it did NOT work for me. My body hated it and was so unbalanced. I loved being able to «check up» on my bodily functiona by monitoring my period. A steady period is often a signal for balance. Everything had to change tho because I got Endometriosis, and if I wantet do have the choise of having children later on, i had to get back to it again. Hate it. Why don’t they have better solutions to these things? Female health is so undervalued. I have no limits to how many times I’ve been medically gaslighted.

[@sisselab]

Big pharma ugh, so scary… sorry to hear about your struggles! 💚🥺

[@boshra]

usually these kind of videos make me extremely sad and lonely, but this one is so good and radiates healthy relationship vibes :')

[@aditib63]

I'm so happy.. You guys are married! Oh, it's like my thoughts about you came to life! You are more understanding and perfect for each other than anyone could be! I'm beyond happy for both of you cutiesss!😍😍💌😘

[@charlottetdondon.4013]

Congratulations guys!🎉. I’ve been watching your videos for a while now & I’m just so pleased to see you and Jake so happy together, but also yourself being so happy! You’re glowing :) hope you enjoyed America, and are safely back home with Jake❤

[@fressyj]

I rarely comment, but I feel SO happy for you!! I remember your first video about moving to Korea, then your first appartment... then introducing Jake as 'the boyfriend', then moving together. I just feel so proud of you, you look happier not just because of your relationship, but because of all the other things you've achieve. Wish you nothing but the best for the future 💚💚

[@sisselab]

Thank you so much for being here with me in this journey, I’m so honored 💚

[@cyne_]

Now she understands. Glad she grew up nicely. Life is growth. So happy for you ❤.

[@Vickiboe592]

I early in vlog I thought “this is Sissel’s best vlog so far…” and then you announced you’re married. 🥰. Congratulations guys. Your both just too cute. I live in Florida USA.

[@sisselab]

Awww I love that, thank you 💚

[@ODriscolls]

My husband and I legally married after 10 years together so we could get an apartment together when we were applying to work abroad. We had planned to get officially married a few months later. That was 6 years ago we have had 2 children but no wedding 🤣🤣

[@sisselab]

HHhahah aww, life is beautiful when it takes so many unexpected turns. Sending love 💚

[@edithnaike]

Watched an apartment video from 2020 and you joked about being single 😂. Crazy how so much has changed. Congrats Sissel ⭐💫💚

[@katscozycorner]

@17:46 Hi, what you said about the contraceptive pill is partly true, but not the whole truth. While you’re right in that the contraceptive pill creates a more structured cycle instead of your own natural cycle, it’s not true that you don’t have real periods. You still get your period, the contraceptive pill can just reduces the flow (if you have heavier periods that are difficult to manage) or creates a more regular cycle (because some people have really long or very irregular cycles). So, if you take the contraceptive pill you will either take it for 3 weeks and then have a 1 week off without taking the pill, which is when you would get your period, or the other type of pill where you take it for 4 weeks, but the 4th week is a placebo/sugar pill, so you’re not actually taking the hormones that week and instead can cycle through your period. Also, you may not be aware, but a person can be prescribed the contraceptive pill to manage particularly heavy/unmanageable bleeds/pain, or to help with the symptoms of managing PMDD (Pre-menstrual Dysphoric Disorder), without having anything to do with having sex. Thank you for trying to speak openly about important topics 😊

[@sisselab]

Hey! Actually that’s not true, the bleeding you get is artificial, it’s not a real period. Everything happening on the pill is not real, your body thinks it’s pregnant when you take the pill. Also yes, people can get prescribed the pill for a heavy or unregulated flow, but that’s extremely unhealthy and completely ignoring the underlying issue. The pill in this case will only be a bandaid solution eventually creating more problems for you 💚

[@katscozycorner]

@@sisselab thanks for your comment and I appreciate that by manually changing your cycle with the pill it can feel forced or artificial. You’re right in that it simulates a pregnancy, but the reason you allow a week off the pill every fourth week is to allow your body to still cycle through your flow and bleed, even if it doesn’t release an egg. This way even if a cycle is forced into a very regular rhythm you still maintain the bleeding part of your cycle, because skipping the bleed altogether is what would be more unnatural and unhealthy. It’s also true that for some people the pill is not a bandaid, but the means to help them have a less painful and more manageable period. Of course everyone is different and the pill is not for everyone (just like the implant and other contraceptives are not for everyone). But I try not to judge anyone based on their very personal choices, because you cannot know what someone else is going through or experiencing or might be right for them (even if it may not be right for you) 💜

[@marion1226]

so very happy for you both!!! you guys give off so much love and warmth and i couldn’t be happier to this great things happen to great ppl

[@C.C.8441]

Congratulations on your official marriage! I did catch your comment in the last video. 💗

[@Pablo.hc_]

Purely constructive criticism but… I find it really messed up that you put the blame on non Korean women saying they get what they deserve if they meet guys in Hongdae or thru dating apps. Women meet men at clubs and use dating apps all over the world and that still doesn’t justify toxic behaviour from men. If foreign girls meet toxic men in Korea it’s those guys that should be held accountable… the way they met is no excuse and no one should be judged for using apps or meeting people at clubs.

[@sisselab]

I’m not putting blame on anyone, please don’t read into what I said to such an extend. Fault and responsibility are two entirely different things. Tinder in Korea is not used for dating like it is in other places, if you go on there and expect otherwise it’s up to you to logically rethink your your tactics at finding love. There’s also nothing wrong w just wanting casual physical relationships, we should stop calling that toxic 💚

[@chhesangtamang2750]

Congratulations for your pre marriage l do happy for you guys ❤️❤️

[@taysoo___]

awhhh loved your videos with jake!! he is very calming when he speak! he's such a sweet guy! you're both too lucky to have each other 🤍

[@sisselab]

I am so lucky 🥹💚

[@jt9603]

I see so much growth in you Sissel. May God bless you and Jake 💋

[@fadiafarid]

Your video always gives me the cozy feels, also appreciate the format of this Q&A video! I could tell that a lot of LOVE has been put towards making this video. You made it look effortless ✨

[@cherry4573]

Sissel you re a cure for my depression

[@noraflower8167]

Thanks to share your thoughts with us ❤️and congratulations !! You look so good together ✨🥹 I really wish you the best and I hope one day to find the right person and be happy like u ❤️

[@rubyanndrey_]

I kinda see it coming, but still I didn't manage to stop my jaw from dropping when Jake said it so matter-of-factly (in a positive way). I am sooooooo happy for you both, but most especially to our girl, Sissel. You went through so much and here you are now, you already have someone who loves you, cares for you and protects you. Can't wait for the ceremony, coz knowing her, it would definitely be aesthetically pleasing, detailed and lovely one. Best wishes!🍾🥂🫶🏻

[@sisselab]

Awww thank you so much love! It definitely will be aesthetically pleasing! We are thinking something small and intimate 🥹💚

[@katherynne8241]

Did you ever read the book, The Period Repair Manual??? If not I would highly recommend it!

[@scarsinapansy]

Sissel, I have tears in my eyes. Congratulations!💚💚 I've been watching your videos since 2018 and I always find comfort listening to you.... but this, Jake just casually saying ''We'Re LEgaLly MarRieD'' and then the taxes part HAHAHAHAHHA I love you both so much and I'm so excited to see the new aparment series!💚

[@isabellamathea]

I’m hereeee for the premiere!! 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@sisselab]

Helloooo💚

[@nidalhammoumi2]

i know we have to wait for the proposal and all to start actually congratulating u but being here since day one and seeing jake go from the boyfriend is coming to we are legaly married i can't help it i feel like we know each other and i really really feel happy for you i wish u all the best this world could ever give

[@sisselab]

Thank you love, that means a lot to me 💚

[@nalaa9618]

I got a spirale as birth control and it hurt so freaking much....I will never get on birth control ever again when this thing gets out of me at 30

[@jasmineuelese730]

congradulations beautiful happy for you and jake :) cannot wait for that wedding vlog someday no pressure haha :P .you guys are so cute together i love how you both mellow eachother out .

[@sisselab]

Hahaha me too 💚💚💚

[@realgranolaappleraspberry]

You guys are such a beautiful couple. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us. 🫶🏽

[@damiendiem]

Great point about the division of labor. You don't have to split everything 50/50 to satisfy current cultural dictats! Whatever you and your partner decide to do is what is good for the relationship.

[@nisvetaninalang]

Such a intressting couple. It makes me happy to see you together, but at same time also sad. I wish all the best.

[@andreeasechely1041]

You said that right on birth control and period pain not being normal! They just don't put any money and research into the underlying issue 'cause they don't care if women suffer but let's just drop that dinosaur mentality already! I'm also dealing with a very bad period to the point that I have to plan my life around it because the bleeding is so heavy it makes me anemic, the pain makes me literally tremble and I'm barely able to walk and function during the first 2 days...and the doctors said 'it's fine, it's normal, it happens, just get on the pill' (I live in the UK by the way).

[@Artist7474]

Ahhhhhhhhhhhh🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 I was jumping up and down when you said you guys were legally married!!!! Congrats you two!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤

[@irulp]

Congrats you two!! Honestly, I should say I felt something when you mentioned the visa thing on your last video!! I hope you two are even happier now!! Big hugs!!

[@sisselab]

Haha thank you so much 💚

[@theakrlauritzen4954]

Omg KÆMPE TILLYKKE til jer! Super casual announcement, men det føles on brand for jer😂

[@beckaelenaceccon327]

I would say that I am a modern women, but we also have a very traditional way of sharing the chores. We both work full time and have a 4yrs old son. When it comes to him it's 50/50. The household is more bcs I want to have it a certain way🤣🤣🤣

[@theodora9717]

Guys, congratulations! You two are so beautiful together and it makes me feel so emotional watching you both. 🥰

[@sisselab]

Thank you so much 💚

[@millawitt1882]

Thank you for the respect of the roles in your home -women are meant to keep The Home and plz don’t take it negative-it just comes more naturally to women👍 and men are more about technological work and being said what to do while women it comes from our inner voice how to keep our family HAPPY, fed and at home❤👍💪

[@jonathonzins8063]

I love that Valentine’s Day just happened and you’re announcing you guys are legally married now! 😭 I’m crying happy tears

[@sisselab]

It was great timing! Although we’ve been married for 5 months actually 🙊💚

[@blanche4444]

Let's watch this beautiful vlog 💚 As always thank you for your work for each video !

[@sisselab]

Thank YOU 💚

[@itznotz]

I think it’s awesome that you got legally married, if you are set and in love, can see a forever future together then it’s a very good choice. So the actual celebration part of marriage can slowly take place and you won’t be in a rush to do all the grand things. Rooting for you, both 🤍

[@itznotz]

also i find it funny you posted this video just 1-3 hours after i told my friend “let’s get married” as i was drunk and stressing over life and potentially living in Korea while also starting my own business

[@sisselab]

Awwww that’s so cute !! Thank you love 💚

[@johannaxm]

I was smiling the whole video 🥹 you and jake are so cute and i don‘t know how to say but settled together that it‘s so calming to watch you ❤

[@mariamajibade]

What in the woorld...!!?? You guys are legally married!!! Congratulations, I am so happy for you!!😭😭 I hope you guys will be happy for a very long time and I wish you good luck with everything.

[@mirelamoolman]

ah you guys are so adorable, congratulations! i knew it the moment you got your residency . i have the same story with my husband, a romanian south african. sissel i love your vlogs, don’t ever stop!

[@mathilde23]

I'm so happy for you both, you're such a beautiful couple. It's been so nice and inspiring to see your growth for the couple of years I've been following you 💚

[@sisselab]

Thank you, truly, you’re so kind 💚

[@malisha2116]

I gasped when you talked about you being legally married! If I wasn’t sitting I would have fallen down with the camera lolz My belated congratulations 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@sisselab]

Hahahaaha thank you 💚

[@sandinsasooriyaarachchi1590]

Sissel : " Hi guys. I missed you " Me : " ME TOO ! " HAVE A SAFE FLIGHT SISSEL ! LUV YOU SO MUCH 😊💚

[@sisselab]

I’m back already! But thanks love 💚

[@te1763]

ahhhh congrats on your marriage! ❤️

[@mariamazilu1921]

sissel I've been following you for a long time, when you still lived in your small apartment with the kitchen at the entrance lol. when I watched your videos I felt like I was on a video call with my older sister, I also remember when for the first time I heard that you had a boyfriend I was also a little jealous, I thought you wouldn't spend the same time with us anymore, but instead you always gave your best and I learned to appreciate the relationship and happiness you shared with Jake and now that you are legally married I can say I am really happy for you,you have changed with him but in a good way. I wish you all the best and lots of happiness❤

[@sisselab]

That’s so kind of you! Thank you so much for your words and for being here with me 💚

[@MeowMeow-yu3qp]

Hello Mrs Jake 🥰❤️congratulations sissel 🎉👏👏

[@sisselab]

Haha thanks 💚

[@solkai2323]

This video make me feel all warm and cozy for some reason! Congratulations to the both of you❤

[@RiniAbroad]

I questioned asking about the marriage thing last video but I didn't want to be uncomfortable or pressuring, i'm so happy for you both! You two are amazing and so inspirational. Love this video, thank you again so much. You have inspired me so much and now I'm also living abroad and fulfilled my 5+ year dream ;_;

[@sisselab]

Aww don’t you worry, thank you so much tho 💚💚

[@RiniAbroad]

@@sisselab 💚

[@Magda-jy5jr]

Sissel you are so cute 💞 take care of yourself 💜 I don't have time to watch you lately, but I love your videos, you are very positive 😊🥰

[@mads_martellacci]

So happy for the both of you!✨🤍

[@chriseli541]

Dude, I’m in tears! I’ve been watching you for years and I am so happy for you! If you haven’t watched this video, you absolutely need to. I was like, wait…did that just slip? Lol

[@sisselab]

Hahaha 💚💚💚

[@monobabyjoons9320]

Sis omg gurl i'm SHOOK but like in a very good way omg. I'm so happy for both of you, it's so nice seeing your growth and also being a part of your journey. i sincerely adore you and wish you everlasting joy 🧚🏻‍♀️💚

[@sisselab]

Thank you so much 💚

[@lari_mfreire]

Congratulations!!! Just love ur relationship! How real and casual it is 🥰 I was suspecting, actually kkkkk. The announcement was so funny though 😂

[@ichmonja3510]

another great video! was very interesting to hear your and Jake's answers to these questions. I always feel like you put so much wisdom and reflected opinions in it also congrats on getting "married" :D

[@sisselab]

Thank you love 💚

[@mariec5295]

I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS 💕

[@hibaelgharad910]

Hey sissiii you talked about you not using the pill but what is the alternative? How can we replace the pill without the other invasive ways ?

[@sisselab]

Use a condom! 💚

[@corneliastreets]

I highly suggest checking out Bedsider, it's an incredibly informative site and they have a whole section on contraceptive options. It's worth noting you can react incredibly different to different pill formulas and birth control methods, so there really is a trial-and-error when it comes to finding the right kind for you. If you'd like to avoid hormones, condom, the copper IUD, and fertility awareness (using basal body temperature + ovulation predictor kits) are great options!

[@lulu-kb2mm]

Congratulation!!!!! I've been watching your videos from the start and always loved everything you've done 😍 I feel like we've growned up together , so i'm really happy for you both . Here's for a hundred years of happiness and love for you two❤❤

[@engiself5158]

I loved this video! I started living with my boyfriend too since last year. The first few months were a bit rocky, being with each other all the time instead of only seeing in the weekends, or even before that our long distance relationship. I quickly noticed the 50/50 wasn't working for us either. I just decided that I am going to be a silly girl just doing my silly tasks and my man will do the heavy lifting indeed. It's just been so much harmonious since then 🥰

[@sisselab]

Love that, it’s about balance with your unique strong sides 💚 good luck love!

[@itshoneybii]

Loved this video! Totally relatable on the documents as well. For some reason that taxes were a big influence on my partner to rush the process XD Very happy for you both!

[@manalamara2777]

I can't wait to watch the whole video

[@sisselab]

🙊💚