Wedding & Engagement Q&A | Brooklyn & Dakota

[@meganwarrick5804]

would you guys consider doing an after the wedding q&a so we can hear all the details? things that should stay private for now like where exactly the venue is, why and how did you choose the the date, why did you choose that specific dress, things like that.

[@kinley20061]

@@Ucerrrzcb939 they are, they just seem a little more relaxed than the stereotypical “mormon”

[@kinley20061]

@@Ucerrrzcb939 like what rules

[@asianbaddie6867]

i’m sure they will but not directly after the wedding?

[@apriltownsend8463]

I think Bailey & Asa did one like that

[@zairabandy8695]

You cannot be Mormon and choose what rules to follow and which once not??? I don’t think they want to follow exactly what the church says because they can think for themselves, no need help from any priest or whatever. Plus, who needs more guilt coming from religion?? No one

[@sero78744]

I also didn’t take my husband’s last time because thats not my identity, but my dad did walk me and its not because he owns me and is giving me away. In the same sense, my husband doesn’t “own” me either when I walk towards him. My dad is my father and my husband is my partner and its just a symbol of agreement to expanding with love.

[@silenteyes3537]

So i noticed u deleted all the comments calling u out about the “blood sister” comment. And a few of the feminism comments are gone too. So immature. Considering ur family motto is “Never say you’re sorry” , You can’t even apologize to ur own sister. Shame on u! I have screenshot of all the comments that u deleted. If anyone wanna see, go to tattle life threads Brooklyn & Bailey #3! Edit: They just cut out the part of her saying "blood sister"! Time-stamp- 7:42. Shame on u Brooklyn!

[@lastinghappiness3977]

I came here from a different discord. Do you know what time she mentions “blood sister”? So wrong of her 😬

[@leslydiaz1168]

@@lastinghappiness3977 They cut it out of the video, but if you go to 7:42 you can tell it was edited.

[@Ashlyn-hz7jd]

Can someone please explain that. I don’t have discord but her comments were getting on my nerves. What is the blood sister thing.

[@crystalr6777]

She originally said “my 3 blood sisters and his blood sister will be the bridesmaids and Paisley and Dax will be junior bridesmaid/groomsman since they’re still too young”.

[@Jennifer-wk2zb]

​@@crystalr6777 i feel like they always try to exclude them

[@Jennifer-wk2zb]

I really hope Paisley and Daxton will never hear their siblings talking about blood sister and what not, it's actually quite rude imo. You could've just named the girls or just say "the older sisters"

[@chelseaxoxo784]

Wait, when did she say this?

[@Jennifer-wk2zb]

@@chelseaxoxo784 tbey edited the video and removed that part

[@chelseaxoxo784]

@@Jennifer-wk2zb omg! That is disgusting and scary if it is true. I literally thought this was made up

[@jessicaolson1914]

@chelsea xoxo it’s 100% true I saw the original clip right after they posted the video and to say my jaw dropped was an understatement, these people are nasty

[@n.4822]

@@chelseaxoxo784 its true!

[@LoganCassidy]

I just got married and didn’t have dancing at my wedding either and it’s so refreshing to hear that you aren’t! It wasn’t my thing and I know certain people thought it was odd but it was the perfect wedding for me! We also had a nice sit-down dinner and music was playing after the ceremony.

[@zairabandy8695]

And then what?? When you finish dinner, you just leave??

[@LoganCassidy]

@@zairabandy8695 yeah basically? It was a small wedding. Weddings can be however the person wants them to be.

[@boredreceptionist]

I’m totally doing that if/when I get married. I hate dancing 😂

[@LoganCassidy]

@@boredreceptionist and that’s totally fine! I would’ve been extremely uncomfortable, that’s just not our vibe when it comes to “fun” lol.

[@syniahthomas977]

@@zairabandy8695 exactly 😂💀

[@caryntonh1037]

It’s sounding like this wedding is really you and unique, not falling in line with what everyone else may want. Wish we had more of that around these days when it comes to weddings

[@DreamweavrHairDesign]

I noticed this too. My daughter and fiancé are very unique. They are having a chicken nugget bar with all the sauces, and possibly mini cinnamon rolls with bamboo sticks and a glaze fountain!

[@kayla4952]

So you’d rather HIDE what you said instead of just apologizing to Paisley? I guess your family motto really is “never say sorry” That’s so disrespectful to Paisley… and she’s going into 6th grade, that’s not “too young” to be a bridesmaid. Bailey and Asa included them in their wedding

[@nay0916]

Their true colors are showing now that they are older.

[@chelseaxoxo784]

What happened?

[@kayla4952]

@@chelseaxoxo784 When talking about their bridesmaids and groomsmen, Brooklyn said, “We have 4 each. My blood sisters and his blood sister.” Then she said Paisley and Daxton are juniors bc they’re too young to be an actual bridesmaid and groomsman. When ppl called her out for that word being disrespectful to Paisley, she deleted the comments and EDITED THE VIDEO… the tiktok “truth about the McKnights” has the unedited video

[@MrChocolateunicornpi]

What she said was wrong, but I was a Jr at 13! Absolutely appropriate to be a jr!

[@adelehattrup8057]

@@kayla4952 she probably just realized that it was wrong and didn’t want to keep that on the internet and deleted it. just because she didn’t make an apology video for that comment doesn’t mean that she didn’t apologize

[@destinylaurajo2645]

I see y’all are still deleting comments about saying Daxton and paisley aren’t y’all’s blood siblings so they won’t be a real part of the wedding 😒 love that for you.

[@koalabear9632]

it’s bc dakota is anti-blm

[@iamacockroach6218]

And its their wedding So what???

[@arganthone5079]

when she say that? i dont get the comments >.

[@faithy1299]

@@arganthone5079 in the original video they edited this one because of the amount of hate they were getting and pretended like it wasn’t said

[@julianaramsey2933]

Yeah, I’d give this video a like but not including your siblings is wrong….

[@annieclare6449]

True feminism allows you to do what you want. Take his name, hyphenate, keep your own. Because you’re a feminist doesn’t mean you lose that by taking his name

[@zairabandy8695]

This!!!!!!!!

[@Rubi002]

True, for me it means to have the freedom to choose whatever she prefers.

[@NS-s951]

I agree

[@bandgeeksrul]

SAY IT AGAIN!!!!!!!

[@cecexcar]

I think she says that because the origin of the woman taking the man’s last name was because of sexism and how men viewed getting married as the woman is now in possession of the man she married. That’s why she as a feminist is not comfortable following that “tradition”.

[@laurenbee602]

I find the tone of this video really judgemental and patronising. I was 32 when I got married. I in no way felt like my dad ‘owned’ me, and he was never under the impression that he owned me either. I walked down the aisle with him because I am an anxious person and it was comforting to know I was walking in with someone and not alone. I took my husbands name because I wanted to, again not because I think my husband owns me and he has never once been under the impression he ‘owns’ me. We are equals. We wanted to have the same name so we share that bond and will with our children. I in no way judge people who decide to do the opposite of what we did - everyone should do what makes them happy - but to make it sound as if anyone who walks in with a family member or takes a different name thinks they are ‘owned’ by a man is extremely patronising - people have their own reasons for doing things! The whole tone in this comes off as rude and superior.

[@cegecej]

I think Dakota is naturally a go with the flow kind of guy. He's just like, babe, plan away and I'll be there. 😊

[@annamcaffee]

I’m so happy for Brooklyn🥹 She’s finally getting her happily ever after🤍🤍 They’re so cute together!!! Can’t wait for the wedding

[@mahnoorbaig5763]

That was cute how he said “girls have this thing planned there whole life so I am like go for it” , glad he gets it!! God bless you both so happy for u both

[@charlottem285]

I read that as he said it in the video 😳😂

[@misstree2604]

@@charlottem285 samee

[@evabent1322]

The fact that Dakota is so supportive of Brooklyn in the wedding planning is so cute! I love that he's behind her in the decisions that she's making

[@nay0916]

Of course he is supportive. He is 27, and Mormon and not married yet. He's going to take what he can get.

[@diana27561]

he's obviously not happy about only being able to invite 50 people from his family lol

[@abbycat000]

Of course he has to be. It seems he doesn’t have a choice. Brooklyn barely lets himself speak.

[@sophiegardiner2866]

Poor Paisley and Dax, family shouldn't be about "blood'. Family means that you always have each others backs and the love you all share together. If they make another comment like that I don't know if I want to watch them anymore if I'm being honest

[@maximom-n3k]

Didn’t catch the comment but that’s such a horrible thing to say even if by mistake. I guess why she’s not addressing it; nothing she says can make it better

[@Godislovedayany5098]

@@maximom-n3k they edited the comment out

[@boojames4424]

@Annie what did they say?? I’m so confused

[@vcookie718]

What did they say??

[@rr3820]

@@maximom-n3k what happened ? Confused

[@daphnebrouse1673]

Your wedding sounds so chill and personal. Reminds me of my own wedding, under 100 people, no dancing, chill lol Marriage is literally the best! 10/10 recommend!!

[@GlitzChickz]

I think the wedding sounds like Brooklyn’a perfect birthday party, not their shared vision. He can’t even invite everyone in his family & doesn’t know the theme

[@beccazepol3436]

Right.. shows that they are not ready to be married… just think she wants a wedding like her twin which is sad

[@elizabethgordon2596]

From my experience, the woman usually does most of the wedding planning and the guy literally does not care as long as he ends up with his bride.

[@Jasmine-to7ss]

It's funny how you guys cut out the 'blood sisters' part in the vid and are deleting comments instead of addressing the issue

[@Jennifer-wk2zb]

I hate this so much, did they cut it out?

[@jessicaolson1914]

Yes! Please keep putting the truth back out there, we will not let them just try to erase it and act like it never happened

[@helenanonamewatching7337]

What happened?

[@stephiesealys2959]

Was that @7:43?

[@ms.soapii]

wait someone explain what happened

[@valentinaguzman892]

I just noticed that they edited out the blood sisters comment 😳 good thing many of us saw it before it was cut out 💀😭

[@jessicaolson1914]

I saw it and to say my jaw dropped was an understatement

[@jocelynhenderson2632]

Can you explain this I didn’t see the comment

[@kyndalserenko6519]

I need the context hah

[@CrazyButLazyGirl13]

What?

[@evelynnn5579]

@@jocelynhenderson2632 same

[@tashamarie9206]

i get not wanting to be owned or “given away” but that’s such a special moment with your dad id think it more as him just being there supporting you even having your mom

[@zoefoley6818]

please stop. she doesn’t want to and you need to support her. i want that moment with my dad but she doesn’t and that’s that. stop.

[@zoefoley6818]

@@Ucerrrzcb939 what did this have anything to do with my comment?

[@isabellaevens8334]

Yall are so close to 7 million! I can't wait for the wedding, I'm so excited! You and Bailey are so beautiful! Love yall! ❤

[@jesspagge]

I haven’t seen a lot of people do this but I actually love the idea of walking down the aisle as a couple instead of walking down the aisle by yourself.

[@Cassandra-Isabell]

My brother and his wife did that, it was so beautiful and unexpected and they came walking out of the forest together into the field :)

[@ValeriaSalinas-pp7xf]

i guess their solution will always be delete everything instead of apologizing or saying something about it

[@ValeriaSalinas-pp7xf]

@@katm1906 the way that shouldn’t even be a motto wtf I didn’t know that

[@miam7756]

can someone explain what happened??

[@taylordavison4307]

@@miam7756 They edited the video but originally Brooklyn said her bridesmaids were going to be her 3 "blood sisters" so not including paisley

[@ebonyscruggs8619]

@Taylor Davison 😔

[@chloe5375]

@@katm1906 its “never say you’re sorry always play to win” because they’re competitive in games, its not a motto for real life jesus its just for games. and you can be sorry and not say it.

[@chloeteagardner3448]

Father walking a daughter down the aisle doesn’t mean anything about owning you it means he gets to Walk his daughter into a new phase of her life. Marriage has always been two people becoming one choosing to share their life together.

[@maxinetolman8559]

The traditional did originate from ownership. At the end of the isle, dad is asked "Who gives this woman away"... The same as taking man's last name. That's what a lot of people don't like about it. Ofc you don't have to take it that way or only get rid of the phrase at the end of the isle. It is beautiful to have an important figure who watched you grow up or has always supported you. For me that's my mom 🥰

[@dianec9656]

This^^^

[@elizabethgordon2596]

Yes, in my mind a father walking his daughter down the aisle is a way for the bride to say, "This person has had a great influence in my life and I really respect them."

[@membermee]

I agree 100%. It's not about owning anyone, it's about being grateful.

[@peachyyy662]

Right with that ideology then why have a marriage. since marriage is a construct that was born out of patriarchy and puritanical society that have been pushed on women for centuries to strive towards. marriage was a form of ownership.

[@hannahm782]

brooklyn, fablehaven is legtimately my favorite series, i’m so glad that someone else loves it as much as i do

[@zoefoley6818]

my mom was best friends with the authors wife and has been to their house before. then we moved. 🫤😐

[@DreamweavrHairDesign]

My daughter (Brooklyn’s age) has dresses shopping day 2 today!! It’s fun and hectic but your wedding will be amazing especially when you have such Wide variety of talented people helping you. Loved this video!!❤️💗💍 Update: she found her dress! It literally came off the mannequin and onto her and fits PERFECTLY. She’s the only human to wear it and it fits her theme perfectly! Total fate 💗👰🏼

[@Brigitteee3]

Did you guys seriously edit out the 'blood siblings' comment and not address it?

[@Kattt2021]

They always delete comments. They’re family motto is “never say sorry” so I guess she won’t even apologize to her own sister. Poor Paisley (and Daxton)

[@erincassidy5134]

they literally just do not care its honestly disgusting. They've been deleting comments since people started finding out about Dakota's trumpie posts and them rushing their marriage

[@trishajohnson4692]

Wow that’s crazy

[@katherinedrain6231]

What did the comment say exactly?

[@oria222]

what happened ?

[@ValeriaSalinas-pp7xf]

Also it’s kinda sad that Dakota wants to invite all his family but he can’t.. Brooklyn you should let him have a say too, remember that wedding is for the two of you

[@emilylombardi4691]

Coming from someone who won’t have their father be able to walk them down the aisle and will never get the chance too since he’s passed away, I would really think about not having your dad walk you down the aisle, it’s a once in a lifetime opportunity to have and would be so special. I’m not trying to diss your reasoning I just want to really think about it because it is something so special! I love you and Bailey so much, have been following you since you your first video!! Keep being you and putting out great content :)

[@kawtharseyeed6715]

Not even hating but Brooklyn, babe please let Dakota talk as well. We all know you're super excited and we are super excited for you too! but it'd be sweet to hear his pov's as well🤍

[@jessicaolson1914]

Please do hate on her though she deserves it. Anyone who even has blood siblings in their vocabulary is a sick freak

[@RobTheEnby]

I was the only sibling left out of my brother's wedding. I'm also adopted! - I swear to god you people don't deserve Dax and Paisley! They are too good for your entitled behinds!

[@ValeriaSalinas-pp7xf]

I’m so sorry you went through that, I hope you know you’re loved!

[@jessicaolson1914]

How awful! That truly makes me heartbroken

[@beccazepol3436]

And to think that’s all they know because they were adopted when they were still babies!! I feel terrible😔

[@MsCarlyMc]

When was the blood siblings comment mentioned?

[@Peanutnut2907]

@@MsCarlyMc 7:42 you can see it's edited out

[@nonarelx]

Brooklyn says that Dakota sometimes calls her “his wife” and she says “I’m not your wife yet buddy” but at the middle of the video she calls him her husband. Also she said that Dakota is not participating in the wedding planning, but he said that he did this on purpose to let her have her dream wedding. I feel like she’s more controlling.

[@madalynlawton8146]

Idk if it was just me but when they were talking about the venue being small and how dakota has to cut down on his family brooklyn just cut him off and said anyway to move on…. brooklyn has a ton of family too i hope she had to make cuts as well and not just dakota

[@morgyn1002]

After reading the comments, I really hope Brooklyn didn’t say what she said about Dax and Paisley. How wonderful it must feel for the kids you were raised with not to be your “blood siblings”. We see how you feel Brooklyn. SMH I’m so disappointed.

[@trishajohnson4692]

Its because of dakotas family

[@katherinedrain6231]

What? She said that Paisley was too young to be a bridesmaid and that she was going to be a junior bridesmaid. Ya’ll are completely overreacting. I know a family who is white that adopted to little brown skinned girls and they explain that the white girls are their tummy babies and the brown skinned girls are their heart babies. It’s normal to make that distinction, one of the brown skinned girls and one of the white girls are the same age and are called the twins.. she also said she was having four bridesmaids so she obviously counts Paisley as one of her bridesmaids.

[@ionafreeman6558]

Wait what did she say exactly

[@TheRealGraceOlivia]

💯

[@silviaortiz6271]

I see the Dad walking you down the aisle different. I was walked by both mom and dad. I see it as I took care of you until now and when we are gone he will be there since we won't 😌

[@evelynbell4335]

When he said he felt like girls had everything planned out and he just wanted to let Brooklyn go for it 😭😭😭😭😭 soooooo sweet

[@coraimavaldivia5685]

I am excited to see the wedding, but I feel like they are not going to last married. I'm not seeing Brooklyn 100% enthusiastic, about the weeding she's like mehh..

[@louvaissh]

exactly i was expecting her and them to be more excited about the engagement question and how they feel i completely agree she's like eh

[@AI-vl1by]

Brooklyn, calling Paisley your "blood sister" is so out of line... It's heartbreaking you don't consider her a real sister. I know your family doesn't say sorry, but I hope you can make an exception for Paisley.

[@carissaewhite]

she does consider her her real sister-

[@mayarose4171]

the vibe that brooklyn and dakota r talking about for the venue is kinda reminding me of the wedding from twilight breaking dawn and i love it lol

[@daisypearce8830]

I love that Dakota offered to help Brooklyn chose a hairstyle for the wedding so he can have a sneak peak at the dress

[@melanienaranjo2338]

I love how Dakota is getting more comfortable on camera! Btw it sounds like an amazing wedding

[@sophieretallick5383]

i dont look at it that my dad is giving me away, i just see that my dad is the first and only man that loved me regardless of whether the marriage lasts or not or regardless of comes in and out of my life and he is entrusting my Husband to be to love me and take care of me and that im seeing it as more of a nice moment and memory for me and my dad. you don't have to have him "give you away" because lets face it he's not and his his mind he knows your still his child his baby and you always will be. i love the idea of a first look with my dad too especially as im the youngest and will be the last to get married

[@vrsashipley8309]

brooklyn you need to give him a chance to speak. this legit happened with brooks too. please be a little more considerate

[@jessicaolson1914]

I met them both at a CVX live convention a few years back and she acts just like this in person, she was super rude and stand off ish even to her fans

[@jessicaolson1914]

@@savannah7787 Bailey was actually exactly how she is on videos, she was super happy and friendly and was saying hi to us and was super happy to hug us and take a pic and Brooklyn didn’t really say anything and just looked super annoyed that she had to be there, she put on a fake smile for the pic but then went straight back to this really annoyed face 😂🤷🏽‍♀️ I was kind of shocked, I mean she might have been having a rough day but it seemed that was just how she was. Also super random and I hope this doesn’t sound creepy but they smell really good in person, I don’t know if it was perfume or lotion. I used to be a pretty hard core fan, I’ve been watching them for 7 years but recently I’ve found out a lot of things about their true colors and I’m shocked.

[@taylortay9393]

Poor Dakota wish you can invite all your family!.i that Brooklyn was like “anyways way needless to say”. i hope Dakota will be able to answer some questions ☺️.

[@ayushisahu9879]

Did anyone notice Brooklyn’s nails? They are exactly the colors and vibe she explained for her wedding theme 👀

[@izzies758]

The “giving the bride away” is not about ownership. It’s about your father (the first man to ever love you) holding your hand one last time before your husband becomes your hand to hold and shoulder to lean on. It’s supposed to symbolize love and trust, not ownership.

[@animalgirl3334]

Facts

[@smileyfan16]

You stop needing your father once you get married? Lord have mercy.

[@smileyfan16]

Not all daughters have good relationships with their fathers.

[@elisabeth859]

@@smileyfan16 and they can have someone else walk them down the aisle or no one at all. But don’t hate on people who have loving fathers

[@Melaniesmakeupbag]

@@elisabeth859 how was that hating on those who have good fathers?

[@CHarlotte-ro4yi]

I don’t know if that is a thing but I actually quite like the idea of walking down the aisle as a couple because in the end it’s you both choosing each other and not one receiving or awaiting the other if that makes sense. But especially with a wedding it really comes down to personal preference. A wedding should be as individual as the couple getting married and fit their personality, so props to you guys for doing you 😊

[@sarahjohnson6407]

It is a thing! My mom and dad walked down the aisle together! They had both been in bad marriages before and both got divorced before they met each other. They wanted their wedding to be simple and more about love than anything else. Like you said, they both chose each other!

[@CHarlotte-ro4yi]

@@sarahjohnson6407 that’s so beautiful! My parents did the same but I feel like our parents might be more of an exemption than the norm in that matter 😅

[@sarahjohnson6407]

@@CHarlotte-ro4yi yeah probably lol I'm definitely considering it if i ever get married

[@Kimprendo]

Something about this couple is just very odd. First, they lied about his age in their first video saying he was 21 but he was actually MUCH older. I just feel like with the pace they are going it may not last long in the future :/

[@Peachy-k1d]

honestly same. and it looks like brooklyn is just marry him because bailey already got married and she didn't want to be the odd one out.

[@MissyDcherrydaisypie25]

Brooklyn I can so relate even though I got married 22 years ago I remember the stress . Cherish this special time in your lives . Congratulations

[@bandgeeksrul]

“Never say you’re sorry”

[@ivonnegalarde9383]

Where did this come from? I see a lot of people commenting the same thing but I don't know where they got that

[@bandgeeksrul]

@@ivonnegalarde9383 Brooklyn & Bailey and Kamri said (quite proudly) in their instagram stories that their family motto is "never say you're sorry and always play to win"

[@user-ci7xt3uc5o]

I think Brooklyn is rushing everything too much, i mean they engaged when they've been dating for only 10 months... No hate, I love the twins, but it feels like since Bailey just got married Brooklyn started to rush the events in her life as well

[@shirosh809]

I was looking for a comment on that! She's so nervous to catch up with bailey's life that she's getting engaged after only 10 months of dating this guy and sounds like she wants to start a family right away..looks like she doesn't even care who's next to her-dakota or someone else, only the wedding and kids part matter!

[@tatumhigh5504]

I’m so happy for guys!! They wedding is going to be beautiful, I can’t wait to see how it turns out!!

[@caitlynknight485]

The way she described her wedding sounds like it’s going to be in the fall.

[@kara_jacques9042]

I’m calling November

[@lm8281]

@@kara_jacques9042 its outside tho so maybe more october/september?

[@kara_jacques9042]

@@lm8281 but they said California so it’s 60 in november sometimes

[@1800lyra]

im thinking late august

[@LoganCassidy]

My guess is September!

[@xLexiMarie]

Don’t know if this has ever been addressed, but why was Dakota’s age listed as 21 in the 10 dates series? Was it a typo or just to avoid people judging that he’s “too old”?

[@savannahromero6771]

I believe it was a typo

[@nay0916]

@@savannahromero6771 it wasn't a typo. They knew how old he was.

[@jessicaolson1914]

They have always been and still are liars

[@alishajami7046]

Because it’s weird that he is 28. They’re pretending it was a typo. How was it a typo when he said it 😂

[@aliciashetter]

i laughed so hard when you said “one day i’m like YESSS BABIES and the next day i’m like 10 years” 😭😭

[@mariagregory6022]

My husband was 25 when we got married and I was 20, and we waited 5 years to have our son! Definitely a sweet spot, and I knew he wanted to have a little one at or right after he turned 30. I personally wasn’t sure if 25 was the age I wanted to have a baby but I feel like it’s a good age especially if you feel like you’ll be ready :)

[@Pnevesfma24]

Are you the only one making decisions for the wedding…no dancing….walking alone….Does Dakota have any say..

[@juliaayers9998]

I love how I’ve been watching y’all for 7 years!!! I love y’all Brooklyn and Dakota! So excited for y’all!!!

[@carlymorrison808]

There should be no difference between siblings adopted or blood as you put it. You could have the same blood type as a stranger blood means nothing. I see you have edited the video but maybe you should address it instead of editing

[@Sam-cm9wo]

What did she say?

[@abigailaquino9870]

They didn't say anything like that tho

[@romessatanvir]

I’m so excited for you guys! I cannot believe you guys are gonna be married. I’m so happy for y’all. Congratulations again! ❤️❤️

[@maryposa1998]

But where are the real important questions? Are you living together right now? What happened to waiting till marriage? I thought you had strong values

[@oliviaclairexo]

wait did they say that they did not wait til marriage.. haven't watched the video yet

[@maryposa1998]

@@oliviaclairexo no, they didn’t answer that, but they’ve been avoiding that question in every q&a on instagram, and in a ig live she said that she’s not comfortable answering the waiting til marriage question. However, she didn’t had problems answering with her exs

[@oliviaclairexo]

@@maryposa1998 ah yes. i'd heard about that

[@jessicaolson1914]

Had under emphasis

[@buttox8671]

i just realized that dakota looks exactly like the mom from bridgerton-

[@safaeadbib1231]

I cannot unsee it now!

[@NS-s951]

Oh my god yeah😂😂😂😂

[@Teashoe]

This comment needs more likes!! 😭

[@marys9026]

Dakotas facial expressions when she said she thought he’d be more involved in the wedding planning 😂😂

[@nosimkhize]

I definitely think November. It fits that vibe, with the colors and theme. Can't wait

[@neokhotle]

Whoop whoop! So excited to see how everything comes together. Best of luck in the planning process! ❤

[@raniaharris9912]

brooklyn definition of fun not dancing but speeches {wow}

[@emilialeilani8781]

Why do I feel I’ve gotten to know Brooklyn more in this video, than I have in the past four years I’ve been subscribed to this channel 😂😂

[@jlee2581]

Same.. made me like her less 🥴

[@emilialeilani8781]

@@jlee2581 well I wasn’t saying in a bad way :)

[@jessicaolson1914]

Not in a good way though obviously

[@savannahromero6771]

I feel like having your dad walk you down the isle represents his love for you and how he trusts Dakota to be a loving husband to you. I hope y'all are at least doing a father/daughter dance.

[@sweetgingerbread6292]

exactly, just because your “such a feminist” doesn’t mean you can’t include your father on YOUR WEDDING DAY. I think it’s dumb but whatever

[@cecetower8728]

Yeah.. but I think it’s special to have the walk down the aisle be yours and only your moments like that’s your wow moment and I think it’s also really empowering to say I am not anyone’s property and nobody needs to ‘give me away’

[@oliviascalfaro9508]

I guess it’s a great thing nobody was asking for your opinion

[@cecexcar]

You guys are not getting what she means; the fact that she doesn’t feel like her dad has to give her away in any way is because of the sexist ORIGIN of the tradition of dad’s walking down the aisle with their daughters. It was a way of showing how the woman was a object that was owned by her father and had to be passed by him to her new owner: her husband. That’s why she’s not comfortable following that tradition. Not because she doesn’t want to “include her dad in her wedding”.

[@Siriusly13Sirius]

The fact that y'all don't even see her pov or what she meant and what the issue is says a lot.

[@siarogers5725]

Not surprised the 1st Q was about the James Allen PR 🙄 Dakota's answer almost seemed rehearsed with all the key words 🥺😂

[@lizbeth6781]

Why she had to cut him off when he was talking about how he wished all his family was there 💀

[@puneetk]

Brooklyn I am so happy for you! Congrats you two! You guys deserve all the happiness in this world! 🎉

[@phonebayli]

You can be a feminist and still take his name. The fact that I took my husband’s last name doesn’t make me any less of a strong independent woman.

[@ayushisharma6470]

I think she means that being a feminist she has the choice to not take his last name. Just like, you made a choice to take your husband's last name

[@lwolf101]

say that

[@cecexcar]

I think she says that because the origin of the woman taking the man’s last name was because of sexism and how men viewed getting married as the woman is now in possession of the man she married. That’s why she as a feminist is not comfortable following that “tradition”. Doesn’t mean that you can’t be a feminist while having taken your husband’s last name, I’m pretty sure she didn’t mean it that way.

[@ishtar-m5395]

completely misinterpreted what she said

[@Michelle_Gian]

Yes! feminism means you support every woman’s right to choose what is best for herself.

[@meganrodriguez815]

For bachelorette party, will you include paisley or do something one on one separate with her so she doesn’t feel left out?

[@TH-pn4nm]

Bachelorette parties usually aren't appropriate for children :)

[@mysticalmorn1953]

Yeah, sounds like poor paisley is gonna be left out, she wasnt with them dress shopping, and now Brooklyn is saying that shes only having her “blood sisters” as bridesmaids. That kind of hurt. But i agree, bachelorette parties aren’t children appropriate.

[@meganrodriguez815]

@@mysticalmorn1953 I’m saying it would prob be special if paisley isn’t included in the bachelorette party for Brooklyn to do something one on one with her to make her feel included. I know she’s young, but at the same time when she refers to the other bridesmaids as “blood sisters” and paisley being a different skin color, it could make her feel a certain way.

[@TH-pn4nm]

@@meganrodriguez815 yeah singling her out by skin color and talking about how only her "blood sisters" are included makes me feel super icky. Makes me wonder if it has something to do with Dakota and the anti BLM values of his family.

[@meganrodriguez815]

@@TH-pn4nm I doubt it has anything to do with Dakotas family. The exact same thing happened with Bailey’s wedding

[@arwynedwards1451]

Could you do like a TMI marriage Q&A as a part 2?

[@laurenreed7727]

Dakota has gotten so much more comfortable in front of the camera since the first time!

[@trippbradie3411]

How is Dakota more comfortable in front of the camera when she won't let him speak

[@n.4822]

Why are you deleting comments you dont like😂

[@n.4822]

@Bowser Fan right. She could at least respond to the comments

[@jessicaolson1914]

They are trying to act like it never happened but it’s too late thousands of people already saw and heard how they truly feel about their non blood siblings 🤮

[@tahliajayde15]

I feel like it’s an august wedding or maybe September. That’s the vibes I’m getting

[@Blackcat21943]

It’s a bit shame that Brooklyn did all the talking and Dakota did very little talking

[@Diana-tq4hb]

RIGHT!!! I never seen this side of her, he seems exhausted too.

[@Blackcat21943]

@@Diana-tq4hb what side of her?

[@Diana-tq4hb]

@@Blackcat21943 I always liked Brooklyn but it seems she’s on her high horse and her comment about Paisley and Dax was uncalled for.

[@alecw3874]

I feel bad for Dakota- you need to get a bigger venue!

[@mandy06060]

Maybe the video is cut this way, but it seems Dakota doesnt even get a chance to say something.

[@alaskawashington]

stop it I’m screaming fablehaven was my and my brother’s favorite series growing up and we would both read them over and over and fight over who got to read each book when because we would catch up and then try to lap each other. I literally have the first book sitting next to me on my bed right now but I’ve never heard anyone else talk about it (that I remember) and now I am ELATED to hear and see what your wedding looks like channeling that theme!! ah this is amazing that’s gonna be so pretty. :’)

[@dance4m]

Yay! This is so exciting! I can’t believe everyone is growing up so fast and I’m so proud of Brooklyn and Dakota!!! Love y’all!💗

[@kellster2193]

You both make such a cute couple. I am so glad the Dakota is getting more comfortable with the camera.

[@gwenvandenbroeck]

My stepsister is getting married in a week, I can't wait. I think it's gonna be beautiful! I wish you both so much luck with planning your dream wedding, I am sure it will be amazing and beautiful! Much love!

[@kaitymarie8358]

I’m currently planning my wedding so I’m LOVING all this wedding content!

[@jessicaharrington5305]

I am so exited to see how you’ve planned out your wedding day! It’s sounds amazing 💗🌸🎀💖💝🌷🌺

[@leahm4660]

The color pink your wearing would look pretty with the dark green. Like for the moms to wear.😍 congratulations! The fact that Bailey is married and you’re getting married is unreal! In my mind y’all are supposed to be still those little girls getting your hair braided.

[@charushekhar1148]

I’m so excited for you guys! ❤

[@corik1065]

I didn’t have a dance floor either. We did the traditional dances and that’s it. It was wonderful. Not weird at all. And honestly we got so many compliments on our wedding

[@zairabandy8695]

So after dinner and drink (?) what did you do?? That was the end of the wedding???

[@emmaohdeary]

@@zairabandy8695 chatting, socialising, food, listening to music and enjoying the atmosphere?

[@destinischatz6010]

that’s exactly what i’m doing (in 5 months!)

[@H0oLIgAnSsRo0lMaRrSz]

@@destinischatz6010 congratulations!!

[@xflinstoneeeee6154]

A friend of mine didn't do any dancing either. They had a lot of different games and activities. They had a campfire, boardgames, bigger field games and just loads of comfortable seats everywhere and some music playing in the background. It was such a lovely laid-back vibe and they actually had time to hang out with their guests and each other.

[@medim607]

Something I’m curious about and I know it’s none of my business lol but Bailey and Asa were so open about waiting till marriage, and I’m just wondering if you guys are too because you never address it 🤔

[@kdawg0921]

@@Ucerrrzcb939 That's basically meaning they're open to doing it before marriage lol

[@mysticalmorn1953]

So now its normal to just delete comments that you didnt like? I didnt know that was even possible. Maybe we should delete Brooklyns video since she said something that upsetted many of us. Still shook bu the term “ blood sisters”. You and Bailey really do have different mindsets. There is no hate, but your exposing yourself to your audience in many ways. Sad.

[@kayla4952]

@Bowser Fan she’s been showing her true colors lately.. remember the video where she reacted to her other dates and was gagging at the clip of Brooks?

[@chileanyways196]

It’s probably because Brooklyn is dating a trumpie

[@mysticalmorn1953]

@@chileanyways196 No, personally, I have observed that most people show their real selves when in a non- toxic relationship.

[@mysticalmorn1953]

@Bowser Fan i 100% agree. Some of them are better than others in some things, but when you look as a whole, they are totally becoming unliked. And I made the main comment just to prove that I wasnt the only one scrolling through the comments after watching the video to make sure other people heard what I heard.

[@Rebecca-my6es]

They should’ve been cancelled years ago imo

[@juniethegoon]

Did you decide to not wait for marriage?

[@LifeOfCandice]

I feel you on the eloping. At one point my husband and I considered eloping but still doing the wedding the same way but the idea of already being married would have made it better. Lol

[@samruetman3427]

I got married under Redwoods in California and it was so beautiful. I wonder if y’all will be getting married at the same venue as me and my husband or one of the ones we considered. So many beautiful places here

[@nataliefazio7252]

Ahhh so excited for you both!! And so happy that you’re happy 🥰

[@ashleyrosearc]

Oh my word. Since when did your dad walking you down the aisle mean he owns you? Um, he did raise you didn’t he? Take care of you from newborn - on right? Couldn’t it be seen as a sign of respect? If your mom walked you down, what would that mean? Girls, you’re not anti feminist if your dad walks you down the aisle. Not a fan of this kind of wokeism.

[@smileyfan16]

A father giving his daughter away at her wedding is ownership what the heck is marriage? There’s a lot wrong with this. A father walking his daughter down the aisle is tradition. Your husband is gonna own you. Your beliefs are all twisted around.

[@ashleyrosearc]

@@smileyfan16 respectfully, this isn’t the Middle Ages. Marriage is a bonding of two equals, each with different strengths. There is no dowry involved. This is a dad saying,” I’ve treated this woman like a queen her whole life, and I expect you to treat her the same.” And as someone that no longer has my dad anymore, it’s good to think twice about removing him from a special moment that means nothing more than mutual love and respect. And lastly, no, my husband doesn’t own me, but we are a team, and there is no “I” in team. Marriage cannot be successful if it’s all about just one individual.

[@ashleyrosearc]

@@Ucerrrzcb939 should she be paying for all their dates too? This is a silly question. There is a big difference in provide and protect and ownership. Chivalry isn’t dead.

[@ShaniceTheresa]

I love Bailey! Her and Asa’s love is so genuine, it’s like Brooklyn is only getting married to have a wedding 🤢

[@sparrow8534]

sounds like that to me too

[@Jasmine-to7ss]

I don't see their chemistry at all tbh

[@ShaniceTheresa]

@Bowser Fan he seems quiet & overpowered by her, like she controls him

[@annie-ys6nb]

no same

[@jessicastephenson9041]

don't compare them like that! It's not nice...

[@katherine7444]

I will never understand thinking you can tell guests what to wear for your wedding, especially if its a destination wedding and going to be costing your guests enough as is

[@boredomreliever3850]

I think choosing the color is fair, but choosing the exact gown and making them pay is a problem

[@nc3634]

It feels like it would be so hard to marry someone that wants kids right away but you could still see yourself waiting a long time

[@addelynthecoolgirl7588]

Brooklyn and Dakota, I am so happy for you and I know you guys are going to rock married life. You guys are literally made for each other and you guys are going to accomplish so much together in your future. ilysm Brooklyn 💖