Wedding Planner Tries To Keep Couple From Fighting - Rich Bride Poor Bride 309 - Fighting Form

[@Jackie-dm1ye]

“I do lots of stuff without talking to you”. What a way to start a marriage!

[@MsJubjubbird]

I'm not sure why these two are engaged

[@nociaauguste5170]

I k r ...this sounds so one way and unhealthy start

[@november132]

I don't understand why on this show whenever the couple says they don't want a cake or it's too expensive etc, why don't the wedding planners tell them they can pay for 1 tier and the rest of the tiers be decorated fakes? It would save a lot of money!

[@marymacdonald7826]

A lot of the time fake tiers cost just as much as real cake. The cake decorator is still using the same materials, time and skills they'd use if they were decorating a real cake.

[@barbtastad6393]

I had a small cake that was 3 tier. Then had 2 flat cakes. (decorated) that were cut and served. Looked nice along with an ice cream slice ( that had a decorated stencil) on top.

[@janicemaze2607]

Not eating a small slice of Wedding cake is bad luck!

[@wendywestcott-reynoso441]

They often do tell them.

[@nickis429]

I always wonder this too!

[@katrinaquezada42]

I don’t understand all these brides who claim no one eats the cake. I’ve never been to a wedding where the cake wasn’t eaten??

[@sngray11]

Same!

[@Mypretty2]

I agree

[@ayla9905]

Same I haven't been to a wedding 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 where they don't serve cake they always do at the weddings and parties I have been too if I was the bride I would have been more understanding and served cake at the weddings

[@arielevenson3108]

Idk why but cupcakes have been really popular but cake is better

[@stayfrostypatrick]

I've been to weddings where I didn't eat the cakes. Mostly because I ate too much, and the cake was the green Asian traditional cake.

[@kamo9480]

It was so rude that that lady was telling the bride not to get heels because her fiancé is a “shrimp”. Like who is she? She’s not a part of their relationship. Maybe her husband/boyfriend shouldn’t wear those tight pants because his ass looks better than hers! Who cares what they look like if they want to marry each other. Just rude.

[@ayla9905]

Fr I was like girl who are you you arent even getting married here

[@cherryblossom72555]

For some reason I think she is the bride from the masquerade episode. I can be wrong it's just my opinion

[@AriMachado-lu3ym]

As the DAUGHTER of this couple, the 'lady' who called the fiancé a shrimp is his sister😌I get you people think she's being rude by calling him a 'shrimp' but this is sibling banter. I know you didn't know who that lady was, and I'm not trying to be rude or say anything disrespectful to you guys. I'm just trying to clear some peoples confusion🩷

[@annieroydube]

I really don’t understand the big issue with the bride wearing heels & being taller than the groom? I’m the same height as my man & if I wanna wear heels, I’ll wear heels. It’s her wedding. If she wants the high heels, let her have the high heels. Why are people so concerned?🙄

[@SD-hs2pk]

Because typical couple pictures have the groom taller, they just wanted to keep it as close to that as possible. If the couple dosent care who cares

[@TheVeggiekat]

11:23 the guy says “she’s not that much taller than me.” She didn’t say anything but the look she gave him and truthfully anyone would give him. Obviously, if she had really high heels and was noticeably taller than him in pics he would have a problem.

[@raydenrichards8767]

@@SD-hs2pk but who cares? I'm the same high as my man and I wear heals and he is ok with it. It doesn't matter what it is traditionally

[@SD-hs2pk]

@@raydenrichards8767 if the couple doesn't care then where is the issue. I'm explaining where it came from. Some care, others don't.

[@annedalton289]

Men really love the woman being taller than them , they love the comments from other people saying they are punching above their weight ! I’m 5”11 and wear heels 3 in or more most boyfriends have been 5”9 and under !

[@primaveraitaly5002]

He is stubborn but his now wife sounds like a nightmare.

[@zephheine9681]

🤣🤣poor dude

[@cree_VI]

she is a bully

[@joannephillips4110]

Is she Irish???

[@joannephillips4110]

@@zephheine9681 They are both ridiculous! This has to be fake. They argued about the groom and groomsmen wearing their own pants. Not having a cake? Is she even Irish? Seriously???

[@Kfred1]

That was a great gift (having the owner of the hall) fixing the decorations!

[@pipo5933]

The lady is pretty, but she sounds rude and condescending.

[@recoveryrocks1]

It's t.v.! They act differently when not on camera.

[@jvdk9865]

Oh that bride trouble argumentative cold and unloving.

[@sassibrit]

The level of maturity🤦‍♀️

[@annikatan378]

Esp the bride. She always looked to compete against her fiancé.

[@mywihousehunter]

The venue owner was awesome for absorbing the cost to fix the decor. The venue decorator had to of had a steamer she could have lent to Heidi. I did not like the venue decorator's attitude when Heidi needed help.

[@gab19guerin72]

Yeah she was trash for her response.

[@sheristewart3940]

IMO, you don't do the job you're contracted to do, you don't get paid. I couldn't believe my ears, when she said she wanted $200 to redo the bunting on the head table!

[@chefvld]

Have not of…

[@dhollwedel9342]

These two will not communicate nor compromise ...which you have to have in a happy marriage!!

[@janetyoung6097]

he was willing to have a sea food buffet at 20 dollars extra. And thinks that 175.00 is too high.

[@carol-annebragancaborba6134]

I am married to azorean Portuguese they love their seafood

[@MsJubjubbird]

it's a cultural thing for the Portugese to have seafood at a wedding. Relatives would think they were weird or cheap if they didn't. It would be like not having a cake at a birthday party

[@caryn8234]

I'll be surprised if this couple lasts. She's horrible. It's literally painful to watch her. She constantly mocks him and puts him down. If she's like this in front of the cameras . . . imagine what she's like in private. Poor guy.

[@samantha6564]

The older couple and the frozen cake story 😂

[@amyannshipyor4096]

Me and my husband got are wedding venue back in gifts. I could not imagine going into debt for a wedding. Always remember that you have to live after your wedding.

[@GodsOath_com]

Honestly I think it’s great that a groom is excited and involved by adding good stuff rather than complaining.

[@spicychickenstew]

The owner of the banquet hall was so generous and nice to absorb the cost of redoing the decor. The decorator the bride hired was terrible 😕

[@franmoorad2280]

85

[@ayla9905]

@@franmoorad2280 I don't think so weddings aren't about money it's about spending time with the people you love your decorations can be whatever you make it

[@cree_VI]

@@ayla9905 but they spend lost of money for the crap, they throw out the money in the bin...

[@ayla9905]

@@cree_VI okay and so what it's her wedding

[@ayla9905]

@@cree_VI ik but it's the brides decision

[@fergieingrid2521]

This wedding planner s the nightmare she always sides with the one who is going over budget and discards the other.

[@valerielinares2068]

I just can't get over how the wife completely disregards her husband's culture. Here's the thing, if you are entering into an inter-cultural marriage, your wedding should honor BOTH or ALL cultures in question equally. I find it so disgusting how prejudice she's being by disregarding her husband's culture. That's so disrespectful.

[@pwallace5359]

Watching this show was more stressful than my own wedding!

[@kimstarkey6154]

7 months later watching this..pretty sure that couples not together anymore! What a way to start a marriage..arguing and not thinking about your spouse more than you do yourself... if both did that no more arguing and budget wouldn't have been a problem...just saying!

[@roxannemachado2963]

Just how sure are you that this couple isn't together????

[@Slytherin14567]

It's a constant battle with them. Sr Stressful to watch

[@hayaglamazonluxe]

God bless you for posting these!

[@SD-hs2pk]

It's like they don't get that this is for both of them

[@DeloresBryant-l5f]

My God! She never stops: never stops talking, never stops demanding, never stops demeaning this poor guy. She has no limits on her lip, her attitude, or her behavior.

[@dianaweasley7719]

As a Portuguese person I was slightly offended at her ignorance towards my culture. But the groom's behavior did not surprise me, I could name uncles and cousins who act exactly like him. Both of them were incredibly immature.

[@Sparrowdean]

For the life of me I can't understand why this man married this woman. I'm glad I'm not his mother.

[@monicaolteanu7490]

The way she spoke when it came to his culture was saddening. There could be children in their future and they should be taught to embrace their fathers and their mothers background.

[@carol-annebragancaborba6134]

Married to azorean Portuguese born and raised I get you

[@aliciablanchard2500]

Redoing the head table was a night and day difference. The quality initially was very poor.

[@scarlettkhan9667]

Depending on the gifts as money? :D My sister ran out of money and couldnt afford the 50% of the filmography last payment. On the day of her wedding they collected envelopes and then we ran upstairs to count it and pay the photographer/filmography. Sorry but weddings cost too much money and you do end up doing silly things like that. It was bad but funny at the same time :) and something no bride should depend on doing. Definitely spend at least 1 year saving up money or save up before you even find a husband so you have money available for your wedding.

[@cynthiaspano6010]

Roxanne has rocks in her head. Where do these couples come from. Either one or both are unrealistic, rude, self centered and that is being kind.

[@ayla9905]

I mean that sounds like a horrible idea 💡 a wedding doesn't have to cost that much if your blowing over the budget spending they would have money left over if the groom didn't add the seafood buffet

[@ayla9905]

@@cynthiaspano6010 but the groom is annoying

[@erikarascon1347]

Nothing makes me not want to participate in the silliness of having a wedding more than watching these types of shows...

[@deewalker6944]

This girl just wants to be married it's one up all the way!she dosnt love him she loves herself. Divorce within a yr.

[@carol-annebragancaborba6134]

They are still married with kids

[@purplepixie274]

She's so disrespectful to his culture and about him generally. But he isn't helpful either, useless.

[@ccsilva6110]

Preach what a wedding planner have to go through referri and council and sometimes may get a whatever look never take it personally.

[@joycejohnson7640]

I think that it is asinine to spend that much money on a wedding!!!🤯🤯🤯

[@abcdef53015]

This woman seems to hate her soon-to-be-husband. She is so rude to him. I assume it's how he treats her in other aspects of the relationship. I don't understand why they married each other.

[@collettekrause3183]

Haha ----- so I want to know what happened when the Decorator was confronted with the crappy job she/he did on the head table !

[@rhanji2n820]

This seems to be a couple who is just together bc the make up s..x is awsome...They are just fighting all the time and seems to be in a competition all the time.

[@VirgoCali89]

They need premarital counseling and with how combative they are towards each other isn't healthy

[@beastshawnee]

The sad thing about the shows (maybe they’re doing it on purpose ) but is that they always wind up cutting the entertainers. Which is sad because if you got their hopes up for a small production that’s money out of their pockets but I’m assuming the show is paying them for their filmed part and they will get some publicity. But if that’s your budget Cut out something else and support the arts!

[@dannaseymour8404]

1. Until they are paid they don't lose any money. 2. A wedding is not a fundraiser for the "arts" 3. What do you propose they cut out instead? Food? Drinks? Photography? Music? 4. The couple is not responsible for the "hopes" of any entertainment business. Unless there is a contract signed there is no agreement.

[@nonacee5065]

Their height differences never made it seem important to them. She looked adoringly at him at the ceremony.

[@lindalane2244]

These two are made for each other!

[@hayaglamazonluxe]

LMAO waiting for the cash envelope gifts to pay for the wedding!

[@scarlettkhan9667]

my sister did that to pay for the last payment for her filmographer. Had to be done :D

[@ceciliapreziose3783]

if he spent 1,500 on her engagement ring she would be furious

[@music0326]

@CHARMAIN&SHARACARA WILSON WILSON do you say anything else?

[@maarithampton3520]

Amazing disaster! She’s obsessed with control.!!!💍🥵

[@maarithampton3520]

@CHARMAIN&SHARACARA WILSON WILSON how do you know?

[@annieorourke4822]

Damn that bride is NASTY

[@sarabuschepflorent1532]

Wedding planner totally caved into everything the bride wanted. Unfair to the groom.

[@southerngypsy1894]

She made her give up the dancers 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@Wyvernn2000]

Heidi tends to do that. Love her but she tends to bend for the brides easily and not for the groom

[@amyannshipyor4096]

Me and my husband planned everything for are wedding together. I could not imagine not including him in the decisions.

[@andreen4536]

I couldn't even finish watching this because they fight so much it's stressful. This is not entertainment.

[@ceciliapreziose3783]

let them fight so they know what life will be like

[@marvinabigby6376]

We eat the cake and bring a piece home if possible.I enjoy the cake more than anything else.

[@MsJubjubbird]

If I get married I don't want a fitted dress specifically so I can have multiple slices of cake

[@patriciabarkley735]

When the bride starts one upping the groom, it is childish and totally rude. She talks about the budget and does everything she wants, but if he wants something, it is not important. They, especially he, should step back and give it a little more time. They don’t really know each other. I wonder, if they are still together.

[@intothemindshaft]

Cost per wear - £1500 for a ring is a bargain compared to same for a wedding dress.

[@shushuwu]

Well it goes without question, that Bouquet was hideous!

[@kimcampbell4472]

Seriously, this shrimp and his seafood buffet🤣🥳

[@annieroydube]

13,500 for the venue??? Holy😳

[@JodiLeaSnakeQueen]

One of these couples spent 37k on JUST the venue because they had 500 guests like holy shittacco

[@MsJubjubbird]

Includes drinks and food. Given they had a seafood buffet, four courses and an open bar for a hundred and fifty people, plus the room rental cost, that's reasonable.

[@carol-annebragancaborba6134]

Well open bar and seafood I am married to Portuguese

[@lavendersprig2905]

The couples argue throughout these shows . I am surprised to see weddings in the end .

[@farirabo]

This bride is mean, selfish and unloving! why the hell did he marry her?

[@Aria3210]

And childish 🙄

[@alejandracarlos625]

He's no gem either

[@Aria3210]

@@alejandracarlos625 true

[@maureennicholls5560]

She is just a total nightmare

[@shushuwu]

@@alejandracarlos625 He at least seems nice, easygoing.

[@anneliesekeller9792]

They are both ridiculous. This is not going to last if they cannot learn ro communicate.

[@crystalleblanc1157]

I'm half way through this episode and I feel so frustrated listening to her. She is extremely resentful and disrespectful. I couldn't imagine wanting to marry someone with so many red flags

[@angelawallace6317]

None of these couples have the concept of money and how to budget

[@Lovebug-ut8mx]

If there is no cake at the wedding dont invite me!!

[@kirstenelles4648]

Bad acting and drama for No reason…….. I’d rather watch a Healthy relationship with realistic compromise. Why are we drawn to chaos and negatively?

[@jodievukmir3187]

I'm with you..let's see compromise and beautiful love

[@noellebedard5712]

There are like 3 of these episodes where the couple is lovely and compromise with each other etc. And those are my favorite episodes!! All the other drama filled selfish bridezilla episodes like this get me all stressed and pissed off and i end up yelling at my phone 😂😂

[@nonacee5065]

@@noellebedard5712 I'll have to find those 3 episodes. It seems the formula for this show is to get as much drama, fights, high pitch shrieking and horror spending.

[@noellebedard5712]

@@nonacee5065 Oh yeah the producers live for the drama and all that and push for it. And I feel like a lot of these women aren't as bad as they are portraying themselves to be. I find that they way the act in the interviews on the couch and the way they act on the actually wedding day are their real personalities if that makes sense lol. One of the nice episodes that I can think of is " Is this rustic wedding really worth it? Rich Bride Poor Bride episode# 211" They are a really sweet couple and she looks like Jessica Biel in my opinion😊🥰

[@nonacee5065]

@@noellebedard5712 thank you, I'll look for it. Many times I think the couple aren't as bad as portrayed.

[@Robyn_Esterhuizen]

The closest to budget couple I have ever seen!!! Nice! LOL

[@shangreer9060]

It was almost as if they wanted him to reject the Irish dancers.

[@VirgoCali89]

Exactly

[@november132]

Wtf?? Why would you buy a wedding ring to keep in a safety deposit box?!!??!

[@grotemuis4889]

Because of our jobs we can't wear jewelry. If I had to do it all over again I would've never chose a ring, and ours were just plain gold bands. And now they don't even fit anymore.

[@DeloresBryant-l5f]

This woman is a nightmare. Why do the females on this show think it's "cute" to argue with, roll their eyes at, fight with, and be snide and demanding with the man they're going to marry? Don't they get it that such behavior predicts how their marriage will begin--and probably soon end?? I feel so sorry for the men. They are treated as a Daddy Warbucks, with their partner always demanding more, more more. Such selfishness.

[@jct4294]

Hmm he is something but she is something else. The way she's really trying to not be involved in his culture and being condescending about it because it's not hers is weird. If you love your partner you should embrace his culture vice versa. She booked some traditional dancers but was pissed about the seafood buffet which they actually talked about. Okay missy.

[@BevPAMbir]

How she always changed her voice to repeat what her husband said is irritating. 🙄

[@annerose9219]

She argues with him about everything. Give the guy a break.

[@Ilayshaa]

“It wasn’t just good”

[@ayla9905]

Why doesn't the bride get a break also instead of him arguing with her about everything

[@sherrijohnson9377]

That woman is a witch! My son said,the only reason a man would marry a woman like that is he thinks nothing of himself. I pity this sweet man...

[@november132]

Wow those decorators should be put out of business!!!

[@sandrafrazier7486]

This program is ridiculous. Couples show their true selfish colors yet, profess their love. Disrespectful & don't know what REAL love is. How sad. Smh.

[@deannorwood643]

I'm not getting married for years but I'm buying the headpiece next month because it's tradition that every member of the family who follows in the same belief as me wears it if they don't want to don't have to but I thought it would be a nice family tradition

[@simpaticaism]

OMG why did that couple even get married , that women with her Portuguese husband is a dragon …… wow !

[@Musicaladykat]

Where do these men find these big mouth self centered women?

[@patriciaferrini8652]

Be careful when there violence in the couple....

[@sharmeeynkefee]

Its funny how we get irritated about how they talk to each other, they don't seem to mind though 😂😂

[@sexysax92]

These kinds of episodes are great for identifying Jihn Gottman's 4 Horsemen of the Marriage Apocolypse: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. She is SO full of contempt its crazy. Perhaps a but racist also, with her strong aversion to his Portuguese culture? (Listen to her tone of voice when she mentions anything about his culture). And defensiveness (ie. The dancers).

[@arielevenson3108]

😂😂😂😂😂 said a lot yet nothing

[@lindacarruthers3423]

Intercultural marriages can be full of big problems . Not just the wedding . These two will very possibly have difficulty with family interference with christenings , Easter , Christmas and so forth . They need to have a very strong bond to defend themselves against family dictators , and present a united front . As for the Irish dancers , I would consider them essential . The bride after all comes from an Irish background and that needs to be acknowledged before the poor girl is drowned in her groom’s culture . She is already gasping for breath .

[@MsJubjubbird]

It depends on how cultural they actually are though. A lot of people on their weddings refer back to a culture they never really practice or aren't a part of in their normal lives just for show. I could claim I'm Irish but that would be really lame if I made an exhibition of it given I don't practice any aspect of the Irish culture, I'm a citizen of another country, my surrounding family don't practice Irish culture and I have never been to Ireland. Sounds like his family quite involved with Portugese culture but I don't know if she's just pushing the Irish thing to say "look at me."

[@AshleySezRawrz]

@@MsJubjubbird that was my thought too. I noticed when she said she has Irish in her family line, but way back there. She had said it right after he mentioned his Portuguese traditions being important so it honestly feels like she said it in a spiteful way. It felt as if she doesn’t actually take part in any of her irish culture I think she did it because she didn’t think it was ‘fair’ he had Portuguese elements. She seems childish, but I don’t know her so can’t say.

[@lillyess385]

She obviously resents his heritage. She should have found herself a spouse as "Irish" as she is.

[@janicefurtado101]

Most Irish and Portuguese are Catholic so I don't see Christmas, Easter and baptisms being a problem. I'm Portuguese and I met my first boyfriend who was Irish in church.

[@lindacarruthers3423]

@@janicefurtado101 I suppose I meant pushing and pulling as to whose house , what dishes , and so on .

[@patriciaferrini8652]

Are they really match for a Wedding ? 🤔🤔🤔

[@coleworld4385]

The priest had me rollin though 😂

[@rositahuff4858]

…sometimes it is better to wait…..

[@auntloni]

Watching these shows really confirms my beliefs in NEVER getting married ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@jilllowman9848]

The wedding planner is also obnoxious. She doesn't care what the groom thinks or wants.

[@naiadolling]

Heidi never caters to the groom. She literally never really thinks about what the man wants or his thoughts.

[@MsJubjubbird]

She does. She pushed for the DJ package he wanted and told the bride to get rid of the dancers and the fountain. It's just brides usually make more noise than grooms and she has to keep her clients happy.

[@cia1223]

They don't need a wedding planner but a pre-wedding counselor. Really really wonder if these guys are still together??!

[@lupita9583]

Omg I love the Bride's sass. So entertaining !

[@ayla9905]

Yass I do to she's just being honest that the bride is so annoyed with the groom 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣I would have been to

[@lilydiallo594]

maybe the bride needs to grow up or the marriage won’t last. What kind of man would marry someone who constantly puts him down. He can do much better than this!

[@doribrante5110]

When both partners can't agree on anything this should be enough to know there is trouble in paradise. 😬

[@brendaseverin5817]

Only going over $3000 that's not bad

[@e113jelly6]

If the bride is OK with being slightly taller than her groom in her heels why argue with her it’s her day

[@sweetvonbettie1]

This couple was hilarious upping each other smh lmao

[@jodievukmir3187]

A three inch heel is not high

[@suemcdonald6147]

wonder if this relationship lasted

[@joanesmith425]

these shows are old , they are still married and a couple kids

[@pksmith1275]

@@joanesmith425 how do you know this?

[@roxannemachado2963]

Me too 😉🧡

[@britvica]

​@@pksmith1275 probably googled, there were their names on the screen

[@janiebell]

Wow, the total disregard, disrespect and mockery of the poor groom. The bride seemed to love showing him up and ridiculing him at every given opportunity. Absolutely no idea why these two wanted to tie the knot?

[@meganjohnson5356]

Apparently this show is so scripted. Just stalled her on Facebook and they’re still happily married lol

[@dannirescototo5157]

Why are they allowing kids to get married? These people need to grow up 😂

[@cryptidscanada6884]

these two will be divorced inside three years. She is selfish and ditzy. It will drive him nuts

[@roxannemachado2963]

Or they might still be married 15 years later? You just never know.

[@mimishepard8298]

They are both obnoxious and very common acting.

[@cyndielake4092]

Weddings don’t have to cost the earth! You don’t have to provide a meal it can just be cake and punch. Have family members gift you parts of your wedding, my sister paid for our cake we paid for our invitations and the photographer. I had a custom made designed gown, I designed it and my mother made it, trust me no one knew and it didn’t look homemade either. Decor can be simple venues can be a church and keep your guest list small. My daughter got married three days after shut down in 2020 due to Covid. She had a simple white sheath dress there were 10 people there. I bought her a beautiful bouquet and her friend made them a small selection of finger foods and a lovely cake. It was probably one of the sweetest weddings I’ve been to. It wasn’t what they planned but she couldn’t be happier. People forget it’s the marriage not the wedding that’s important.

[@ayla9905]

Ik these people fail to realize that they just get married for the wedding not for the marriage weddings aren't about money they are about spending time with the people you love when it comes to my future wedding it's gonna be a homemade dinner with a regular hall with my aunt doing the decorations its crazy that people fail to realize that they want everything expensive for their wedding that's not the case

[@carol-annebragancaborba6134]

I am married to portugese them plus Italians do big weddings

[@nataliebarnwell7583]

This process looks like it would cancel a lot of weddings

[@grotemuis4889]

I remember weddings when just cake and punch were the norm, a lot healthier for ones wallet....I can't believe the amounts of money people are willing to throw away for a couple of hours with people you have most likely no close connection with.

[@pennypedersen6205]

This isn't GOING TO LAST !! TWO KIDS saying I DO !!!

[@roxannemachado2963]

Or they might still be married 15 years later WITH 2 kids. But who knows. I'm no expert.

[@myrakeefer5977]

I just saw one can't do anymore all of them are 🤬 nuts.

[@vbdonut7341]

I think this couple is very balanced.

[@crystalleblanc1157]

Anyone else wish there was a "Where are they now??" Episode?

[@carol-annebragancaborba6134]

They are still married with kids