Wedding Regrets, Budget, Rings & Pictures 👰🏻🤵🏻 Tea Time

[@pheart2381]

It looks like a really happy occasion rather than an overblown theatrical performance.

[@SamNumberOneFan]

You have such a calming and comfortable energy. I've been consuming a lot of wedding content because mine is in 2022. This video was lovely.

[@KatieM786]

Good luck for next year. Weddings are stressful af but being married is really fun (in my personal experience).

[@junejun8]

Same! I’ll be getting married next year as well!!! Good luck with the planning and congrats!! :)

[@ziesnowleopard]

Congratulations! I hope your wedding is spectacular and your marriage happy and long lasting.

[@JV-bc8um]

Bro mines in 2 months and the thing I'm struggling the most is the guest list. I have 70 invites planned and I really want to cut it to 50 but I can't decide if to do it or not.

[@SamNumberOneFan]

@@JV-bc8um My friend narrowed her guest list by removing anyone she hasn't spoken to in the last six months.

[@dgirllamius____x]

I married my husband on the 7.7.17, we were at the time together for 7 years 😊 celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary next month. Congratulations to you and your new husband ♥️

[@dgirllamius____x]

@Sam Martin I have no idea what that is so I had to google it. Was sweet to read ^^

[@KatieRoseHere]

@Sam Martin That is a super cute festival! Thank you for enlightening me on this:)

[@beckmannm]

I'm not personally interested in getting married, but I love weddings and hearing about them! It's so nice to see how happy you are!!! 🥰

[@luckagurbanova8993]

Congratulations! I am so happy for you! And I love that you do keep parts of your life just to your self when you don't feel comfortable with sharing them, stand your ground ;)

[@Loepsie]

Thank you!

[@anieth]

You look so happy. No way you look crazy, girl!

[@EllenDocker]

Re: guests that you feel you “have to” invite, my fiancé and I took the exact same approach! I have had family try once or twice tell me to invite someone or ask to bring an extra friend (who I personally don’t even like) and I stood my ground and said no. After you say no once or twice most reasonable people will back off. Remember everyone; it’s your day! I think even if your family would like to help pay for the wedding they have no right to tell you who to invite. Is someone tries to use money to leverage what they want from your wedding that’s nasty 🤮 and they can keep their cash.

[@deedeeisprettierthanyou]

You both looked so happy in the pictures ✨✨ Congrats (again) Lucy 🤍

[@anna_mar]

I literally thought of Iceland's Eurovision song when you were talking about having been together for ten years and when you mentioned music, I hoped it would come up!! Excellent song choice :D

[@hestia203]

Where can hear the song and Idk how to write the title please help 😓😅

[@strawberry1025]

So lovely listening to this and seeing the gorgeous photos on your blog. Oh the memories you bring back. I adored my wedding. Held in my local church and back to my parents house for a catered informal meal. I remember sitting on the floor of our sitting room with my friends all sitting around me on the satin of my wedding dress. My only regret was allowing my wonderful Dad to take the photos, his latest hobby at the time. He took a photo of me ready in my wedding dress with my flowers, during those special moments with just him and me when everyone else had left for the church. However he had forgotten to remove some sort of green filter on his camera by mistake and I look biliously ill....lol. In the end we were given beautiful candid photos that guests had taken during the day which we loved. But yes indeed, I counsel every bride that however informal she wants her wedding to be, please, please get a good photographer. :D

[@Lady_Nana_Benedetti]

I love how happy you look in all your photos :3 it's adorable! I'm so happy to see that you truly enjoyed your special day ❤️ that's all that matters!

[@planningtolive_thebestlife453]

I did my own wedding makeup because I felt more confident in my own abilities vs trusting someone else to do it just how I like things. Same though, I did friends wedding makeup as well. It was way more stressful doing theirs!😂 but I was doing the bridesmaids and mother’s makeup as well so it was like 5-7 people as opposed to just mine. Lol! Tbh tho on my day I also did a couple other people’s makeup. 😂 that was kinda crazy haha!

[@lunatonkens7933]

Hahahah yeah. A friend of mine hired some make-up artists for her birthday to do our make-up, but I absolutely hated how it turned out! Hahaha. But I'm happy with the experience because now I know not to trust anyone but me with my own make-up. I can't imagine hiring someone for my wedding thinking it will look better, but ending up having to stressfully do it myself haha!

[@JelleeASMR]

Your dress is absolutely beautiful!! You are very Talented. I couldn't even imagine making any dress, much less one for such an important occasion.

[@ItscharliebabyXD]

I’d be interested in hearing more about what it’s like being a scout leader in the Netherlands is like. How did you and Robert get into it? Maybe next time you do a Q&A I’ll ask 🤗

[@lunatonkens7933]

Yeah me too!

[@Loepsie]

We were both scouts as kids, Robbert never left his group and I joined them when he was old enough to become a leader there :)

[@linsey4302]

I think with how the wedding industry/cost is, wedding have lost their meanings. I think it is still important and I think it's something special to continue.

[@dawngable4622]

Congratulations to you and Robert, you did a wonderful job with the wedding.

[@jameshurst6344]

How are you doing?

[@Clarytee217]

Ohhhh, the setup and your outfit are sooo beautiful. Makes me daydream. Congratulations! Your wedding sounds fantastisc!💞🌺💕

[@momobunny1234]

I am so happy for you and your new husband! I wish you all the best moving forward into your marriage and hope that your fairytale dreams come true. Thank you so much for uploading and allowing us to be a part of this. So sweet to see!

[@luckyahmed200]

If you’re comfortable, could you do a video on how you keep your relationship so strong after 10 years of being together?

[@lunatonkens7933]

Hi! I've been in a relationship for 6 years, and we've never had a single fight. I'd say the biggest things are accepting each other fully, and with that being completely yourself. Also communicating everything and really trying to understand what the other person feels and why. Keep an open mind. Also something that I think really helps is the fact that our relationship came after a friendship. We knew what we were getting ourselves into because we weren't trying to be perfectly attractive from the start if that makes sense. And of course part of it is just compatibility and luck. What also helps with not having fights is that only one of us (me, lol) has a strong will/opinions. He is very easy going so we don't really disagree on a lot of stuff. We also hate drama and avoiding conflict is in our nature. We also go on dates a lot to have fun (dinner, cinema, bike-rides, walks, bowling, picknicks, swimming, etc.) All that combined is basically how we have a succesful relationship! Hope that helps :)

[@Loepsie]

Hahaha I could've written that! Minus the many dates but yeah, fully agree with what Luna said 😊

[@lunatonkens7933]

@@Loepsie hahaha! Yeah I always thought our relationships are alike! And on top of that we have the same interests (history, sewing, cottagecore etc) and our boyfriends are both computer/programmer nerds 😂

[@makisekurisu6778]

You are a really nice storyteller! I feel cozy whenever I listen to you

[@AgnesN]

You don't look insane on the photos, you look insanely happy!!! :)

[@merindymorgenson3184]

It’s so fun to hear of all the beautiful elements that went into your wedding. Ours didn’t go quite so smoothly as yours, due to a couple people dropping the ball, but other people just stepped in without us even asking and took care of those tasks, or we just did without and it all worked out anyway. My hair, which had worked out beautifully in my practice session, would not cooperate at all on the day of, but it wasn’t absolutely horrible. Anyway, it all came together in the end. We have lovely pictures of our wedding on the beach, and everyone seemed to enjoy it, which I think that means it was a success.

[@pansyrock]

I have been watching your videos for a long time now, and I'm so happy for you both

[@danagibbs94]

You totally do NOT look insane during all your photos! I'm sure many brides wish they looked as ecstatic as you did that day ☺️

[@MoriMekan]

Your mug is beautiful , couldn’t be more happier for you dear wishing you guys all the happiness & more 🌷☺️

[@Loepsie]

Thank you so much!

[@bhumikumbhavdekar50]

You look beautiful in all photos! Everyone is insane on their wedding day😂🥰

[@Loepsie]

Hahaha I suppose it's inevitable!

[@ZackRekeSkjell]

It sounds like a dream day and I love that you did it your way! I’d love to have only vegetarian food for my wedding this summer, but I know it will be extremely controversial amongst some family members. Other than that I’m super happy by all our choices.

[@rebekah7426]

I did my own makeup on my wedding day. So glad I did. I wanted a natural look similar to yours. We're very traditional, so we were both virgins l. I'm so glad we waited. But to each his own.

[@jo-annebotha9609]

You look so happy and the wedding day sounds magical, which I think is what you were aiming for.

[@kazzagreen84]

Congratulations. And 27 degrees, what a lovely cool day. I'm from Australia, so that's a nice and cool Spring or even early Winter temp. Lol.

[@elizabethhopp1]

Your wedding looks like an absolutely dream!

[@badgerinabluedress4866]

Congratulations!! It looks like you both had an absolutely wonderful day!!

[@Sof93]

This was so lovely! Thank you for making all of these, I'm finding it so helpful in organising my own wedding (and thank you for the reassurance on doing my own make up) 🥰🥰🥰

[@itsjustmel1217]

Omg I love your invitations! Sounds like a lovely Day... Congratulations!

[@JOURNEYIN2THEUNKNOWN]

NEW SUBBER! I found this as a recommend (making your wedding dress!) As I'm desperately trying to learn how to sew and LOVE watching people make their own wedding dresses. I just wanna say I'm so thankful to hear about another couple who didn't rush (i actually was married before and we married on our 5yr anniversary but didn't work out 🤷‍♀️) but with my fiance now we have been together almost 9yrs and really wanna tie the knot soon but people are always asking "when when when!" And I'm like omg when we are ready! We aren't rushing! But most people shy away from couples getting married after being together so long bc they think you should like.... asap. Idk why. So this gave me inspiration and hope that we may finally do it and maybe on our 10th anniversary too! :D And of course CONGRATS on your wedding and an absolutely stunning wedding dress you had!

[@eliselynne6805]

Lovely video. Beautiful wedding pictures and dress! Where did you get your tea mug? Thanks! 💗🌺

[@EggZackery]

We also eloped when we hit our 10 year anniversary! Congratulations! 💕

[@simrankhan2906]

Love you and many congratulations for your wedding 🤩💛

[@Em-bv7oo]

The wedding dress is absolutely beautiful.

[@poonyaTara]

Oh, this brings back memories! The only thing I ate on my wedding day was tomato soup I drank through a straw because my new sister-in-law is as kind as she is practical and didn't want me to ruin my makeup. Court wedding delayed because of building renovations, court wedding, honeymoon and/before-the(!) wedding, and then the wedding almost two months later to cope with legal issues related to the court wedding having straddled the court renovation dates (which had lasted a few days). Same sister-in-law said it was "a lovely arranged marriage."

[@lhoneyb1775]

Love that Dadi Freyr song! I have been thinking of using the same

[@ShivangiP1]

This felt like a nice little chat! :D When you mentioned about altering the look of your dress, I almost had a 'panic gasp' moment because your dress is so pretty

[@Loepsie]

Oh I'm going to make sure all alterations are reversible! I was thinking of bustling up the skirt to be more dancing-proof and possibly ruffling the sleeves to a shorter length as well, but it should go back to its original state easily :)

[@ShivangiP1]

@@Loepsie Oh that's a smart idea. It's the best of both worlds then- you'll get a different look for the party AND you'll be able to dance comfortably.... and then be able to reverse the dress back to it's original state. Very smart indeed. I'm excited to see how the dress would turn out :D All the best!!

[@brooke9297]

If you’d been my scout leader, I wouldn’t have quit scouts. 😁 Granted the US girl scout experience when I was a kiddo was probably very different from the modern scout experience in the Netherlands.

[@graceleathers5970]

Yeees! Come to NZ! It’s so lovely here

[@squibooks6567]

ahahah i loved that you used wingspan songs. I love that game

[@SophieW-z9r]

OMG..May I.ask you where did you get that lovely mug from..I spotted a Fly Agaric mushroom on the handle & remember a few very interesting afternoons in the 80' s &90' s after picking them ..lol.I' d love one of those mugs to remind me of my wild hippie/ goth younger days ;) x

[@Kx____]

congratulations both of you!

[@DarthVarda]

Hi Lucy, I'vefollwing you since a watched a video on how to make buns in your hair (I needed a Princess Leia costume). It's very nice to hear your experience with your wedding. I don't plan such a mega wedding, in fact, I probably just go for the civil ceremony and nothing else. What are your plans for the wedding dress? I mean, you'll use it again for your party and maybe with some changes but then?

[@Loepsie]

After the party the dress will probably disappear in a closet, only to resurface in 30 years 😂

[@AshleySimpkins666]

My bf and I are 6 1/2 years still together he's my first and we're thinking of marriage as well!

[@6895Anna]

Congratulations on the wedding, you both look so gorgeous and happy! Would you mind sharing where you got the dress you're wearing in the tea time q&a portion? It looks so comfortable and pretty.

[@Loepsie]

Thank you! It's from Mango, but I've had it for many years

[@justmeiam4996]

Oh come on "Thanx" to the pandemic you'll have a great story,you'll see after couple of years.Last year one of my boys that i used to look after finished university and normally we would be in some old sad building and now it was in a living room, with Zoom and cat's walking around in it and BBQ after.And quite honestly this is something you're not going to forget 🤗 Good luck Lucy- hodně štěstí 💗

[@digitaldgirl4459]

Beautiful couple and beautiful wedding.

[@jameshurst6344]

How are you doing?😊

[@Curlella]

Hoi wat leuk te horen dat je een super dag hebt gehad er zijn zelfs een paar dingen die ik hetzelfde deed bv alleen uitnodigen van de naasten mensen van wie je houd ik heb bewust een kleine bruiloft gedaan en mijn huwelijks reis was een week Efteling en heb er echt genoten kreeg een kaart van de receptie en alles .

[@Malakina1964]

Herzlichen Glückwünsche, seid gesegnet, behütet und beschützt, liebe Grüße aus München.

[@Rosannasfriend]

You’re gorgeous. I love your dress and hair.

[@penultimateh766]

Her beauty really is something. She's humble about it, but she's got one of the prettiest faces of any fashion you-tuber IMO.

[@iamflyingrainbow]

@@penultimateh766 agree

[@Deelester]

😍❤ Beautiful Lucy!

[@SophieW-z9r]

We were good friends for 7 yrs & became partners when I was 23 ( I.lived in Liverpool & be was in London) ..we eventually got married when I was 30 & sadly we were getting divorced within two years after he got into cocaine..Such a shame because I think people of all sexualities can have a really happy secure marriage..wish I could have experienced that too ..have lived alone now since 1999 .

[@Flona_0]

1:21 ohhh she's cuteee and funny😀 and hey loepsie I'm your biggest fan and looove watching your videos

[@raniarania9391]

Where is your dressing gown from? I love it!!

[@jlbeeen]

Ooh, I've been talking to my significant other about things, and we plan to do most things ourselves, or with close friends helping. I plan to do a lot of sewing, but neither of us can sew well enough to do men's suit. I also like the seated idea as I'm disabled/chronically ill, but in my region, it's typical to stand. I just can't physically stand that long without wearing some strange and rather ugly socks that I'd rather not have to deal with putting on under a dress.

[@martinaarmani]

I love that you made everything vegan! That's definately my dream

[@julithewizards1358]

I'm so happy for you. 💖

[@catdairy367]

Congratulations and You guys look so beautiful

[@caitlintiulenev9156]

Same view on marriage 😆 I did it mostly to feel like a princess

[@manisha5008]

I don't know why! Whenever i see , u remind me of emma stone. But honestly speaking..you are so beautiful and amazing. Also have a very happy married life🧡

[@roismireag]

Congratulations to both of you, so happy for you. When you showed us your ring is appeared that it was on your right hand, is that a tradition in your country?

[@Loepsie]

No, there is no tradition. I believe Catholic and Protestant Christians wear theirs on different hands traditionally, but we're neither 😂 I've just gotten so used to having my engagement ring on my left hand, it felt weird when I took it off so now I wear one ring on each hand :)

[@KatieM786]

I believe the left ring finger tradition started because there is supposed to be a nerve or layline running straight to your heart from there. Don't know if it's biological fact but it's a lovely story nonetheless.

[@Maya-zc4fl]

Very beautiful and very wonderful❤❤

[@diverse6010]

Congrats ❤ i love the aesthetic

[@Loepsie]

Thank you! ❤

[@Marilinaa]

Congrats!

[@MildlyRabid]

I see you are a Wingspan player too! And 10 Years by Daði Freyr... are we kindred spirits? xD

[@kthename08]

Congratulations 🎊🎉

[@Nur-dh1ju]

Arranged marriage isn’t like what ppl think It’s just two ppl being setup and suited and it’s left to the couple to get to know each other and decide if they want to continue.

[@Loepsie]

I know, but that doesn't happen where I live :)

[@Millenialknitting]

I LOVE your wedding invitiations! where did you get them?

[@Loepsie]

Cotton Bird! 😊

[@khkhkhkh17]

congratulations and i love you so much

[@irisgetkate3092]

En nu kom ik er achter dat je Nederlands bent😂🤦🏼‍♀️ en wow je bruiloft ziet er echt geweldig uit🥰🤩 volgend jaar is het de beurt voor mij en m’n vriend en dit is echt geweldige inspiratie 🌺🌸🌼🌻

[@Loepsie]

Aaah gefeliciteerd! Geniet van het proces 😄

[@Hollis_has_questions]

I found you because of your rats. I wanted to show someone who was disgusted when I told her that if I ever welcomed another animal into my life, it would definitely be rats. They get such a bad rap. Yours are totally adorable. Then I saw that you create your clothes and that you’re into retro, as am I. You were married on your 10th anniversary, as were my husband and I. John and I had 24-1/2 wonderful years. I love your engagement and wedding rings, your hair and makeup demos (even though I no longer wear makeup), etc.

[@nimnawilson8434]

Congrats and vishing u all the best ♡♡

[@shitalchawala31]

Tell about your diet, eating time for healthy skin

[@efjeK]

Did you know the Efteling doesn't do weddings?! I recently found out and I am shocked!

[@Loepsie]

Yep! They'll let you do a photoshoot but you can't get married there. Looked it up years ago 😂

[@shivangisah6235]

Lots of love from nepal🇳🇵😍

[@newchapterasmr]

How did you guys know you were ‘the one’ for each other?

[@lavendarcrash2941]

We were together for five years when we got married and had even already bought a home two years earlier. Other than changing my name it didn't feel different until filing our tax return six months later.

[@dishaghosh4440]

Mihirima❤

[@carole3680]

Can you and Robert be cloned? This world could certainly benefit from millions like yourselves.

[@Veronicacatto]

She literally looks the twin sister of Turkish actress Pelin karahan!

[@giselagarridoveron2134]

Waited 12:17 min to tell me the budgettt OMGGGG WHYYYY hahah

[@fashionlover835]

😘😘

[@lilknowledge5152]

Di I love ur video's.. from Kashmir 😁

[@PLiu-te3ok]

Your calatheas omg

[@RobinSandzaSL]

Did you receive some wedding presents btw? You didn't tell us... 😏

[@Loepsie]

It's quite customary in the Netherlands to receive money as a wedding gift- some people snuck in a little extra present here and there too 😜

[@RobinSandzaSL]

@@Loepsie So what were the little extras if I may ask? 😀 Books, plants...?

[@Loepsie]

Tabletop games, plants, champagne, tickets or vouchers for fun things :)

[@itsmystylepooja1399]

U r super cute dear.. 💕 just love ur vlogs... 🥰😘 #ItsMyStylePOOJA

[@badele7364]

Love your energy☺️ plz give us a houseplant tour💚💚💚

[@atimeforyou]

☺😊💚💚💚👍☕✌💚💚

[@fantasyprincessgirl]

I’m sorry, but I requests some beauty beacons in your past beauty beacons episodes.

[@Loepsie]

That series ended a while ago, sorry!

[@fantasyprincessgirl]

@@Loepsie ok

[@fantasyprincessgirl]

@@Loepsie ok I totally understand I like that series

[@elfenscheisse]

@@Loepsie Is Beauty beacons of fiction still running?

[@rojaskendall]

Wedding regret: THE WHOEL THING JKJKJK IM KIDDINF

[@dishaghosh4440]

How old are you beautiful!?

[@Loepsie]

28 :)

[@lmkays]

I think God is not important or a part of peoples lives anymore...... not like it was when I married 34 years ago. It’s sad how Christianity is slowly slipping away.

[@samd.2207]

What a shame to have that attitude towards marriage. As if it’s no big deal. Sad

[@Loepsie]

Oh it's a big deal for sure, I just don't necessarily think it's a much "bigger deal" than other types of commitment in our specific situation. That's how I interpreted the question, in any case. After 10 years together, several of those living together, realistically there just won't be much of a difference between being married and how it was before. There's a difference, but in my personal experience it's minor. I don't think that negates the experience or the concept of marriage, though!

[@gretchensmith3981]

Just so you know, the China virus thing is basically over so putting things on hold is just really unnecessary and kind of pathetic.

[@elfenscheisse]

for the netherlands, maybe, but in germany, the restrictions will stay forever. there will be no end, especially the masks, a long as they can make money with it...

[@gretchensmith3981]

@@elfenscheisse that goes along with Germanys fascist history doesn't it?

[@elfenscheisse]

@@gretchensmith3981 i am afraid it does. history repeats itself but never in a way we expect it...and when we recognize the structures, it already too late.

[@gretchensmith3981]

@@elfenscheisse yep. A few of us see it, the rest need to pick up a history book. It's right in there.

[@MinaDracula]

Trying to keep your loved ones safe… yes, very pathetic and unnecessary 🙄