Well, that's just disrespectful

Do you remember a time someone just flat out disrespected you? Our Instagram audience shared things they find disrespectful, and we gave our views

[@Sharon_Njoki.M]

Applauding Jules for choosing to be vulnerable every single episode. I learn so much from your experiences. Your fits are dope AF 🔥

[@clairemwangi.]

🤣Walai Jules needs a whole episode to tell us all the shit she's been through 😂😂 OMG, it's a lot! Jules are you okay?? 😭 Every episode is a new story

[@lizlilly3246]

It's aloot aki😭😂😂

[@TrioKE]

@Rukundo58 yeeesss

[@Prosperity23846]

You remember Jules told us she loves bad boys🤣😣. Those boys give character development a good one🥺! I had to leave them alone juu wueh💔

[@lilywhite8029]

😂😂😂I know

[@laurakorir5611]

First born daughters😂⚡sometimes I think I'm Jules when she was 20

[@graceelkana2002]

Jules is always relatable and always willing to share her experiences i love that about her

[@merlene_k]

Jules you are so amazing for being open. honest and vulnerable. We really appreciate that about you. ❤

[@annwambui3229]

So true ❤️love how real she is👍

[@lilianmwenda4780]

Weaponized incompetence is a behavior pattern where one partner pretends to be bad at simple tasks to get out of shared responsibilities. E.g burning food so that you don't ask him to cook again.

[@shadiahfaisal6315]

Well said!

[@324elijah]

Or... Pretending not to know how to do an engine swap on a vehicle 🤔

[@surpeleisurpelei7501]

Equality is not wanting to be identical but wanting a state of having equal political, social, economic rights (right to vote, to fair trial, to education, to own property/enter legal contracts, to hold public office, to fair wages). Chivalry (wanting your door opened is like wanting to wear a scarf) is a matter of personal preference, i.e., neither here nor there matters gender equality. Whenever you are confused about what gender equality comprises, think of the other "forms of equality", such as racial equality, and what exactly those of minority race(s) (encompassing all genders) mean when they seek racial equality, they are not seeking to be whites. Or when persons with disabilities push for equality, etc.

[@emmangumo3375]

Thank you for the clear explanation. Right on it.

[@surpeleisurpelei7501]

@@emmangumo3375 🤝 you're most welcome 🙂

[@MsThe1girl]

If my husband every brings a side chick to my house, I won't even fight him. I will just find a side guy, bring him and we shall live as one big happy family. The 4 of us. It takes a village after all aiiiiii.

[@rosynyanjom7221]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 ah this made my day

[@WachekeMurimi]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@florenceojukwuh8199]

Atomic bomb

[@twinerehema2508]

Ivy your moderation is even more fabulous in this episode ❤️❤️

[@ritahgatwiri6303]

It's the little giggle for me at the begining

[@PiusNgilaTV]

Don't disrespect back if someone disrespects you because you will be allowing someone to change you into a person you are not...its better you dissociate or love them from a distance if it has come to that...

[@bumblebee4280]

Oh yes, stay away from them. It doesn't leave them unchanged either. They know they're not worth your attention anymore.

[@heidimumia]

Once a relative was staying at my house and I came late from work only to find they had cooked just for themselves without considering me. My house, my food and they couldn’t even spare a thought. Never felt so disrespected like that

[@3amthoughts270]

The nerve😅

[@wangarijskamau]

Aki the way I related with Julia about how stunned you become and continue with tasks after a disrespectful episode just shook me. Now I am an alright human but mahn! The things I have ignored in some relationships are inexcusable. Weuh! Lemme go heal again.

[@sq6858]

Same here 🙆🏾‍♀️..but it’s never too late to rewrite your story. Happy healing to you 😊

[@jiranika]

Disrespect = lack of due regard. Any time someone doesn't give you (or you don't give) due regard its straight up disrespect. The standard for respect is so high that it requires humility to fully give it. And disrespect is not a petty offence. One act is enough to give you enough information to let you know who are dealing with. Also goes hand in hand with forgiveness/grace because ego always looks out for no.1. in which case how would due regard be given to anyone if you're the most important character? These concepts are transcendent

[@Valariea]

"That's the end of my story" 😂😂😂 don't I love how Jules explains herself😂

[@cheptookirui5017]

I love how Ivy listens so intently before answering back

[@assumptanini4252]

Jules is such a mirror image ... I like how she was honest bout how she handles provocations ..as a reactive person I strike right back.n yes the kind of men uphold women's rights n protects women do sweep feet off.yes the higher rd is quite a challenge

[@MsIpps]

Thank you so much for adding subtitles, From SA 🇿🇦 with love.

[@lysbrendakalisa2020]

On having a problem and telling the other spouse, yes Jules, we need context😂! Sometimes it really gets out of hand and you go to the spouse to see if they can help!

[@Rhenadhis]

The amount of laughter i have had for the very last segment when Jules asked, "Are you still rolling?"

[@hallejudy]

Dating someone and they are also seeing someone else. That's disrespectful

[@emmaonduko6428]

Mansplaining an example ~~ When a man will automatically feel the need to "direct a lady" park or "exit" a parking spot 😃

[@Mumo_Mailu]

Aki for me it's the opposite. I welcome it because sijui kupark uuui🤣🤣🤣

[@teyoshariff5598]

Mschew

[@muchemikimani5318]

@@Mumo_Mailu purrrfect real life come back. Men are just being helpful. Radical feminism is a problem.

[@joymutiga3219]

And I welcome that because exiting parking spots esp via reverse to me is an extreme spott.

[@mercymurugi259]

Ai. No they only do that if they see you're struggling otherwise it's a welcome for me I love it

[@medrinelogan212]

I've learned so much on this channel, growing up with no aunties to teach you some stuff, Good work... I Love you guys

[@victorngukunjagi526]

That Dude ...WTF...Food...I can't eat if she had nothing to eat...I would never!!

[@J.O.A.N]

I almost thought you guys won't post today....the disappointed... I'm glad you did....you make my Mondays better

[@Nonny_Muthoni]

Girl same!! Happy they posted

[@frida.k.mwangire]

The evening couldn't get any better. hot cup of coffee and an awesome vlog by 3 intelligent babes.

[@maggymutire2580]

Kila time Jules akiongea I see myself in those stories 🤣🤣🤣...life full of drama.....aaah! you just reminded me of that church leader when I was in highschool 😂😂...then the lady went home to tell my Dad 🤦..giiiiirrl, this is my buddy!!

[@WangariTheuri]

According to Google, mansplaining is the ''explanation of something by a man, typically to a woman, in a manner regarded as condescending or patronizing.'' When men explain a concept to a woman the same way they would talk to a child because they think you are not able to comprehend the 'complex' details. It mostly happens in the work place for example, they are both competent and certified financial modelers but the man will explain a concept to the woman peer like he is talking to a child.

[@alexmacharia4549]

The reason people overreact on things definitely relates to their perceived ego. But the truth is the ego doesn't really exist, it is an illusion. Once you realise that, it becomes so easy to not react at all to things.

[@nguta.diaries]

It’s so much fun watching your episodes. My highlight was at the end lol. With traffic etiquette lol

[@bosibori_nyamache]

"When we talk about equality and opportunity, we talk about cerebral opportunity..." -Priyanka Chopra.

[@moreennyambura960]

"This watch looks expensive but it will only cost you 7500 Ksh" 😂😂😂😂

[@terrybouko8961]

Jules and the stories 😂😂😂ivy needs to finish the boxer and pand t shirt story

[@dazzlebeeable]

Thanks for highlighting the bit on culture, it's very disrespectful for culture to be disregarded

[@PiusNgilaTV]

I Love Your Different Personalities...I Love The Laughter on Set...And How You Gel.

[@janewanjiru4222]

Watched the whole episode very entertaining. Ivy glowing as usual. Glasses on point.

[@irenenjeri9683]

Julia is so beautiful. Inside and out.!!

[@robi_nite]

I strike right back, you disrespect me,! ni Mimi na wewe😂😂thank you Jules for always being vulnerable

[@bumblebee4280]

😂😂

[@Beautifullyvee]

Ivy ivy and the whole Squad just soo cute ❣️

[@beloncekamz2821]

Not me watching this on a Tuesday, sema kuchelewa🤦🏿‍♀️. Interesting convo👌🏾🔥. I live for Jules storoz😅🔥. Nyinyi ni warembo💕💕. Just Ivy looking good🤓. Lornzie❤️.

[@wilfredogake8597]

Lite 🔥🔥🔥 quite informative. Hii nayo ni Beauty with lots of Brains🔥🔥🔥💯👌

[@shammahnzaana214]

It's not really disrespectful if you disrespect someone for disrespecting you. It's just reciprocation. What you give is what you receive. It's not even about revenge

[@lizlilly3246]

Okay now I miss sweet lornzie 😩😭❤️

[@shiigitonga494]

I can relate with Shikkie , I bet it's the introversion, but all of you girls are awesome.

[@mercywanjiru1482]

I am doing my MBA in Finance. But every once in a while, some guy who doesn't work in field or hasn't gone to school for it will try to mansplain basic Finance to me. I'm sure they wouldn't do it if I we're a guy.

[@honeststranger1070]

What is mansplaining 😂😂....mnachukua terms za upuzi za hao woke feminsts majuu mnatumia hapa

[@mercywanjiru1482]

@@honeststranger1070 the act of explaining something to someone in a way that suggests that they are stupid; used especially when a man explains something to a woman that she already understands. It's often rooted in the assumption that a man is likely to be more knowledgeable than a woman.

[@bumblebee4280]

@@honeststranger1070 You just have to level up. Ignorance is not cute.

[@Msomale]

​​@@honeststranger1070 watu walikuwa wakisoma ww ulikuwa unajikuna matako ukinusa !?? Mbuz ww😂

[@kigotho9302]

Shikie please tell me where you got that too and that trouser pleaseeee I need to know. You look so good ❤

[@kigotho9302]

Top *^

[@brendabree3975]

Jules like seriously u are my soul sister it's like everything uve gone through I have as well.. your likes, talents.. we share a lot it's crazy to me. I love u girl...

[@margaretwanjikukariuki356]

Ivy Ivy Ivy 😂😂😂I don't know why am laughing at "we didn't do anything"

[@2009baglady]

Fantastic seeing you all lovely ladies…love the engagement..Julez you’ve really lived walai, we need more info huko tiny little channel! I’m stuck hapo my man giving my friend time to talk about me in my absence…I can’t move past there I’ve not even tried to think whether it’s right or wrong of my friend..I’m frozen there. There’s different levels of loyalty at play here, my soon to be x friend on one and my man : read hubby on another..once man is elevated from boyfriend to fiancé to hubby..I wouldn’t except this move.

[@megkago3703]

I'm looking for that link that Jules said she'll add on the description below.

[@stephaniepownall8190]

This was a fantastic segment! I’ve laughed so hard😂thank you ladies for always coming through with another banger!💃🏽

[@vickie3272]

Love this ladies I learn so much from you guys

[@agathalutalala554]

I felt every single point here! Kwanza the driving ones! Let's not get there😭😭😭

[@fu_raha]

Key lessons! * Context is key always. * Be mindful of your tone * Disrespect is just DISRESPECT😂😂😂😂😂

[@ashleykerubo6053]

I truly admire Just Ivy Africa🥰, sijui ni nini😂😂

[@catherinemudachi5391]

I feel its so disrespectful to announce other people's news ,like success or even failures without their permission or before they do. like we've seen alot of people sharing something like pregnancy news ,miscarriage or promotion or even new business news before the owner. RESPECT PRIVACY, .u never know what one is going through to come to terms with the situation or news.

[@annkioko5916]

Besides the content,y’all ATE!!!! You girls are looking good👌🏾

[@agathalutalala554]

Yes let's have the automobile etiquette video😂😂😂😂😂😂 there's so much to say!

[@marylynnmonroe7133]

Lakini Julia umekapitia 😂😂😂

[@dreamland480]

Jules forgot to leave the link in the description box😭

[@btsstreamsdata]

Ivy's fashion sense has improved...lol

[@whisperywind8768]

Not automobile decorum 😭😭😭😭😭 We need that as an episode on its own

[@preshantimassie9240]

South Africa is here ❤😊😘

[@wam1549]

You babes have triggered me from here to Timbuktu. 😩 My then hubby brought home his side babe when he thought I was at my parents. Side babe walked in first and welcomed me into my matrimonial home. 🥴 I was speechless.

[@mwihaki__]

Not keeping time is disrespectful

[@fionanjeriii9229]

Going for equality is where we go wrong. Equity is what we should be going for.( fairness)

[@wangari_wa_kamau]

Lack of Regard** for other people.

[@margaretmunge6978]

I don't take gizzard and I can't take kuku kienyeji thigh. They were and are still dad's parts. You know the way some foods are not in your taste pallet and you have to learn, that's me with gizzards. 😂

[@sarahakinyi3879]

On an unrelated note, how did the name Miss Tiramisu come about?

[@emmywaruguru7833]

i find it very disrespect when someone ask me about having children in arude way. i have infertility issue its not easy like everyone else

[@carolinekanorio7767]

Can you please guys bring in pumla as a guest from bump love uganda you girls would blend together lots

[@W-NJERI-MUTHONI]

Jules. Jules. 😂😂😂😂 hapo pa massage aki I am just face palming. Massage him as who?😂😂😂😂

[@anyango.4433]

Jules is just the best. Realest person in these kenyan nets

[@catherinemwalwanda136]

I had missed the energy like that of the last 2 minutes

[@lilywhite8029]

I looove Jules' braids. Do them more often.

[@virginiakariuki3389]

mansplaining is when a man says the exact same thing you've said and trys to take credit or pass it as their original thought/idea

[@muchemikimani5318]

And this happens in real life? Who are these people?

[@nyaradhiambo]

That's Hepeating (He + Repeating). When you say something and they pretend not hear or dismiss it but then repeat/reframe that same concept to you as if it was their idea. Like when you are in a meeting and you present an idea and it's not acknowledged but a man repeats it and they're applauded and given credit. Like if

[@bumblebee4280]

@@muchemikimani5318 It's men who don't respect the humanity of women. Like these things are perfectly okay to do to maintain an upper hand over women. It happens a lot.

[@germainewambua3688]

We need a part 2 please ladies🤣😂

[@jepchirchirbirir2737]

You have a good sense of fashion, beautiful bodies, and sharp brains

[@Quotesmega]

0:33 to 0:39 is the reason why divorce should be normalized; people act like am crazy for saying this but that's one disrespectful circumstance that nobody should have to go through

[@annewaituika3019]

I keep talking to myself everytime am on the road. My mum keeps telling me to be nice and calm. It's annoying and disrespectful for people to drive like they are the only ones on the road.

[@valentinemwangi8971]

Did Jules just say ''he feeds me''😂😂

[@damarisachieng7063]

Julia, it is possible the chapos and dengu had been prepared by the lady - ouch :-)

[@violetta268]

Where is the link in the description box💀💔

[@hotho4028]

our househelp AAFTER AASKING FFOUR TTIMES was still singing her weird songs

[@hotho4028]

this is after i gave her extra cash, gum and even chocolate. but i learnt that u should show ppl ur good side after they earn it. not before

[@marylineachiengoduor5920]

Hey Jules,the footballer is Ozil...he was victimized for speaking up for women and muslim rights in China

[@VGTV578]

😂😂😂😂😂 Jules...I love you for being honest and vulnerable.

[@margaretwanjikukariuki356]

Aki Jules 😂😂😂😂ur tu stories are funny..

[@fai602]

why am i discovering this chanel today nilikuwa wapi

[@peterkinungi9746]

Maybe the main was actually the side without knowing 😹 .....is hard

[@maryannnjoki2318]

Today I learnt so much vocabulary. Your English is amazing 👌

[@sinaidaaura8481]

Equity > Equality for me.

[@marylinekirabira3762]

men who do not honour their words

[@J.G7088]

Its beyond ok to disrespect a disrespectful person. Ok not right😅.

[@karimikagwe9263]

Ivy your whole outfit....is FIRE!!!!! daaang!😍💥💥💥💥

[@donnajoe4442]

Ladies, you look so lovely...I wish you could show us the outfits.

[@immynamanya8652]

Shikie and Ivy’s reaction when Jules said she had been in a similar situation😂😂😂😂😂

[@stellamainga8782]

We want to hear Jules sing

[@cynthiawambui9652]

Funny you say bullying someone for how they look/being mad that they're ugly. Hehe I was listening to this podcast @tomysisters- Courtney says that research show that men get so angry if you are not attractive,as in 'how dare you exist this ugly'. Women just assume you are not there. Intèressant!!!

[@eunicemaina9606]

mansplaining is also when a man explains something a woman had just explained, like in corporate, men who like to say, "what she is tying to say'...then goes ahead to say what the lady had said..

[@faithnyaata7521]

And I really hate it...juu he was last to say it ,it now looks like his idea

[@sharonkiptoo1090]

💯

[@cindykandie]

Okay so this is what mansplaining is when a woman says something and then a guy comes by and rephrases it and makes it seem like they can say it better or explain something better, it's like plagiarism but in speaking I think if I was a guy I would have mansplained over25 in this comment 😂😂😂but si ni life

[@muchemikimani5318]

It is not a real thing.

[@christinemuchangi4036]

For sure when talking with the girls its easier to call out bs, but as its happening to you in private, i too get in shock and i'm unable to respond/process immediately and let the disrespect fly Jules-thank you for being open to sharing all the things we too go through Ivy-thank you for such topnotch moderating and for this topic on disrespect Shikie-thank you for always having the words to express feelings we all feel but struggle to word them

[@roseb.5367]

♡♡♡♡♡♡🇿🇼 TedTalk link please 🙏 People felt disrespected by Davido's secret traditional marriage and they feel the girl's family was disrespected because dowry was paid at Davido's home... lol lol lol

[@irenenjagi2243]

Also waiting for it