🔥What About Psychopaths and Sleepwalking🔥

[@umigram]

I’m thinking a lot of people are crushing on Scott. I like listening to him talk. He’s just great and he has such wonderful energy.

[@ScottRouse]

😮

[@twirlingparasol_]

Well speaking for myself, for sure! 🙈😅

[@shirleymason3853]

Well I think he’s a really nice man and it shows and he does have a good voice for enhancing sleep

[@51page]

I Totally Have A Man Crush on All 4 of Them

[@wendieking4184]

He has a very calm voice. I often rewatch older eps, when I’m crafting. Tinnitus in a quiet room, is stressful, so voices especially calm ones help. In a chaotic world.

[@EliciaWendling]

I appreciate your humanity and appeal for others to be gentle.

[@SevasTra1900]

I was abused and am hyper aware of everything to the point of I'm not comfortable unless I'm alone.

[@mzmoth]

I get you. I joke that one of the pluses to being bellowed at when you're in someone's way is that you get 360° vision and never miss a trick 😅

[@yanceyparnell3900]

Thank you for sharing. All three of you.

[@h0rriphic]

@@yanceyparnell3900 Are you thanking the two people who commented on this thread before you? Who is the third person? Am I missing something obvious? Are you referring to a different group of three people? Am i just thinking too deeply into a typo? Seriously asking plz tell meeee 😅

[@yanceyparnell3900]

@@h0rriphic Haha - Honestly I’m not sure! I’m not good at following conversation threads on here. I was sort of commenting generally, although I might have specifically been responding to the person I @‘ed. My overall point was that some people respond to extreme abuse by going down a really deep dark hole afterward, with an “At least I’m the one in control of what’s happen to my body” mindset. It really frustrates me when people have their characters assassinated because they cope with trauma in an unhealthy way. I’m not even remotely into anything degrading now, but at the time it was…I don’t know how to describe what was going on in my head - except that I was empty and just trying to feel SOMETHING. I just wish that, when people come across behavior they don’t understand, they consider the fact that they haven’t lived that person’s life, and it’s not fair to judge how another person responded to trauma.

[@yanceyparnell3900]

@@h0rriphic See - even when I was responding to you I didn’t know what post YOU were responding to! 🤣😂🤣

[@dragonclaws9367]

I would feel very safe in an interview with Scott. My anxiety is sorta crippling. Scott is very approachable. And to me that is unusual. I get overwhelmed fast. Thank You Scott.

[@ScottRouse]

You sure are welcome. You hang in there. 👍🙂

[@NicolaMaxwell]

I'm the same way! Scotts great, maybe that's why my teenager loves his stuff he can learn from a great teacher and he enjoys it. I'm such a proud Mum with this kid and learning body language 😁

[@NicolaMaxwell]

@@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin Of course! I believe that is why the feeling was stated not fact lol.

[@Barb.T]

Thanks for making these videos and putting them on KZbin, Scott. You’re wonderful! ❤ I really appreciate the learning.

[@ScottRouse]

Thanks Barb. I’m glad they help. 🙂👍

[@ConsciousConversations]

😎thank you Scott for finding value in your day to share here as you do!

[@shirleymason3853]

I second that emotion!

[@mandychadwick8762]

❤ I love you compassionate heart ❤ blended with professional experience and integrity ❤

[@ScottRouse]

Thank you Mandy. 🙂

[@tinarollings8719]

Scott: I did the lifting eye brows to a baby in Dr office. (You suggested)AND that baby followed me with his eyes and kept looking at me!! ❤ It worked! I'm gonna do it again thank you! ❤

[@gazpearce3700]

😂😂 awesome, I tried it on my sister's new born (my niece) might be a bit young she watched me for 40/50 second's, she did raise her eye brows back but cracked up laughing. But my sister came up and laughed at me and said what the .... are you doing 😂😂 I said watch I just put a spell on her she will keep trying to look for me, didn't go to well but again she might be to immature to get it, also Bub's might be to young 😂😂😂. I did explain what I was doing so I didn't look even madder

[@bethtaylor9773]

It's true; my grandson with autism has learned so much from theater arts especially and from movies about reading social cues.

[@pamela5495]

Thank you so much Scott for explaining about Autism. My sons are autistic but they’re the sweetest people in the world! The World! 🥰

[@ScottRouse]

Yay!!!🙂👍

[@AnamLiath]

I'm in a family of 4 generations of diagnosed autistics. My father and brother are fairly oblivious to their own behavior, but have a fair amount of charm and get by. I am socially awkward with Americans, but found my niche working with Asians, where my body language naturally is comfortable for both of us. I sent my sons through our heartland counseling as little kiddles. They worked with them starting as toddlers figuring out, naming, and recognizing body language and emotions. My grandkids did the same. They are socially comfortable and connect with others easily, and have families and friends. Body language is a struggle for me. It takes so much of my executive function to analyze and emulate, exhausting. I think often of the the autistic quote "The NTs are saying things with their eyes. What are they saying?". We know it's going on, but can't tell where it's directed or if it's important. Makes us very nervous. One other thing, we drive people away with our need for clarity and parameters. After some time, people feel "grilled" by us, but we're just trying for conversation. I love talking with other autistics in my field -- it's a glorious, heady, rush of information and attached autistic humor. I can spot the other aspies in the room. We all crack up at things (often incongruity) and the NTs look at us, wondering what the hell is so funny.

[@andrewmoss3681]

At an old job of mine we had a new assistant manager join the group who had Asperger's. He really struggled to connect with everyone at first, cause we were a kind of weird group. So we all sat down & had a good chat. Part of what made us such a tight group was the in team banter & mickey taking. He'd thought we were bickering & being a bit mean to each other. So we explained the rules. When he needs to talk business, tell us. That needs attention. But us throwing insults & things at each other broke down walls & made us closer friends. So if he didn't need to talk business, join in with the banter. But a few rules. It's all meant in good humour. If you ever do poke a tough thing for someone, they'll talk to you about it. & most importantly of ALL. It goes both ways. If you can't tale a light hearted joke, don't make fun of others. Just throw in normal jokes & stuff to get us all laughing together. As soon as he learned that he became a very valuable part of the group. Lovely guy & a VERY sharp whit. If you take the time & work together to learn, that helps individuals like him become better alongside everyone else

[@Swaggler1]

Switzerland is nice -- but it's super expensive there. Go south a bit to Italy and you'll find paradise! I lived in Naples, Italy for four years and it was heavenly. LOVE the Italian body language -- so very expressive.

[@paukahdus]

Hey Scott, THANK YOU for your night series!❤ I've always had problems sleeping. Right now, that series is the thing that can make me fall asleep ❤️

[@ScottRouse]

Yes!👍

[@tiffanyhawthorne2687]

The most soothing voice, I could listen to forever. Love you Scott

[@ScottRouse]

🙂

[@aletha460]

I used to share a room with my younger sister when we were kids. She talked in her sleep. I could have a conversation with her and she'd tell me the truth about things she wouldnt admit to if she was awake. Was fun!

[@megonvi]

😅 Hahaa. That reminded me of some close relatives that are sleep walkers and sleep talkers. They're brothers. Once one of them was sleeping and started yelling something, and his brother would reply back to him while being asleep too! That was so curious...

[@aletha460]

@@megonvi that's funny. Wonder how that happens? Maybe people slightly wake-up from dreaming but aren't fully conscious and the convos happen then? In between dream-states or something? I don't know. I just know I could tell if my sister was hiding something, so I'd wait till she was asleep to get it out of her. Would sometimes be v garbled and make no sense-other times though, she'd be much clearer.

[@megonvi]

@@aletha460 Right, I wonder all those things too 🤔. I noticed what you say about it sounding garbled sometimes, but then other words and phrases being crystal clear. So, it wasn't like a regular conversation when people are awake, but they seemed to be in sync or understand each other at some level... Your advantage is that you were awake. Did you ever confess to your sister that you were trying to get info from her on her sleep?

[@aletha460]

@@megonvi yes, I was open and told her she talked in her sleep, plus we had conversations. If I knew she'd be upset about certain things she'd said, then no, I wouldn't tell her. I was a protective older sister-i never told anyone else about what she said when asleep. I think it was just a childhood thing-i hope so, anyway-she hasn't exactly been the faithful wife in her marriage!

[@megonvi]

@@aletha460 Oh ok, I see

[@PippyPan]

I sleep walk/jump. I once jumped out a window, and once I dove through a door and down a flight of stairs. Ive always warned everyone NOT to interfere, because youll become a part of my dream, which is usually a terror, and I have super human strenth when it happens. It was my ex husband chasing me and trying to stop me that caused me to go through the window. It's as dangerous to others as it is terrifying to me when I begin to wake up and I'm in both worlds at once. Do NOT interfere with sleepwalkers!!!

[@livewithmeterandnomeasureb1679]

Depends on the person. And the type of parasomnia.

[@twirlingparasol_]

Love you Scott!! 😘🥰

[@ScottRouse]

Yay for me!

[@twirlingparasol_]

@@ScottRouse I mean, that's what I think every time you upload! You are appreciated. Hope you have a great day.

[@ChristiColonel]

I liked when you spoke of neuro divergent ppl. When I heard you say they were very sensitive, I did an audible "aww", with a right slight head tilt. I don't know anyone like that but thank you for teaching me awareness. Life is hard enuff and it is possibly harder for them.

[@cgskates2]

My Dad used to sleepwalk, often acting out heroic acts, clearly during nightmares. He was a police officer and ww2 vet.

[@suzette42]

As a neurodivergent person myself, I absolutely love these videos! It’s taken almost 50 years, but eventually I was diagnosed and told that females are better at masking as “normal” instead of autistic. When someone asks, “How are you?” I have to quickly filter the question through my mind and suppress the urge to speak the truth. It’s so strange to me that people ask that question when they really only want a shallow and/or polite non-answer 😂😂😂 Learning to recognize body language is certainly fascinating to me. I feel as though I was never given a manual on “How to be a Human, and Interact with Other Humans.” Not sure if you, Scott, have heard of the condition called Prosopagnosia, but I have a form of that as well. It’s of utmost importance to me to recognize voices, scents, hairstyles, and mannerisms of movement in order to identify people I actually know. Women present an extreme challenge sometimes, because we change hairstyles far more frequently than men. The women I know have gotten really annoyed with me for not recognizing them in settings where I don’t normally see them. I loved working in the medical clinic because everyone wore badges and name tags 😇

[@LR-yu3mx]

yes, Scott is very handsome,

[@ginger5811]

I have ASD and have recently stumbled across your channels. I have found myself learning from your videos, they are very informative and done in a way where I can actually make sense of things.

[@ScottRouse]

🙂👍❤️

[@lw47646]

“Getting people to sleep by what they listen to.” Ironically, I usually listen to binaural beats, but the other night I fell asleep watching a History Channel documentary on KZbin. When I woke up, I was excited to write down what my dream was about. The documentary I was watching had nothing to do with what happened in my dreams. At some point in the middle of the night a 3.5 hour video “THE KYBALION - A Study Guide For Hermetic Philosophy” played. I woke up and had all these random facts that I didn’t know before. I was completely dumbfounded by the intensity of my dream and wanted to check facts online. Turns out, the facts were correct. I looked on my KZbin account and realized I only knew those facts because of a video that played while I was asleep. Wild!

[@danf7411]

I usually sleep to low music lots of talking videos like that. One time an hour long ad for a science lecture started playing. I dreamed I was in my living room with a man lecturing me while watching the tv.. all this stuff about atoms and the nucleus was animated on the TV and the scenes would change as he lectured. Idk how long I dreamed but when I woke up I was halfway through the hour long ad that was a lecture. It blew my mind how my mind could conjure up images of things I don't really understand and the fact i could hear everything while asleep

[@sarahfullerton6894]

Re: Identical twins: Two of the people in my best girl pals group of 5 growing up, were identical twins, Nancy and Laura. A lot of people had a tough time figuring out who was who, but not me. The two girls even sounded alike, vocally. About 40 years ago, they moved away from our childhood Midwest state, to the West coast. Several years ago, after talking to Nancy on the phone, I then called Laura. Felt like The Twilight Zone, because when Laura picked up the phone, I heard that same voice, but with a totally different personality coming through the line. Nancy has always been the more outgoing twin, whereas Laura has always been more introverted. Very weird feeling, hearing such a similar voice, from two very distinct individuals. Both Nancy and Laura are very nice women.

[@NicolaMaxwell]

I'll say it again - kids should be taught these skills. My son read Scott's book when he was 12, loves his meditations for sleep and TBP. If I learned this younger I'd have saved myself a lot of heart ache! 😬 If you have younger kids in your family James Pyle has a fantastic body language book for kids.👌 Scott's book is fab for teenagers as well as adults. My son's going to do the body language tactics course with me soon too. So proud and grateful. Love and light to you all, from bonnie Scotland.🙂

[@ScottRouse]

Thanks Bonnie! 🙂👍

[@melindalewis7235]

You might find this interesting - our youngest son, 25 years old now, has always slept with his hands behind his head in what you're describing as the Cobra position. The funny thing is, he did that in utero, when he was lying transverse, before he was born, I could feel and even see his elbow poking out, and it was confirmed through ultrasound. So if there's associated body language, he was giving us clues about his personality and behavior pre-birth. LOL

[@susanlewis1875]

"Fens are home to rare plants, insects, and small mammals, and are important for groundwater discharge, nutrient recycling, and erosion control." I lived on Boylston St. and learned that in the '60s. I really appreciate your self-deprecating humor ('that's probably what's wrong with me now'). It's a great teaching tool.

[@Faith-jb1ey]

My son is 16 and has autism, thank you for explaining so clearly how they interact and understand

[@Maybe.later1]

Switzerland has the most beautiful landscape all over the country! Really, really beautiful landscape. I'd love to live there.

[@malindaallen718]

A FEN is a wetland with a particular type of soil and drainage. It is a specific ecological niche for unique plants and animals.

[@tracyengle7829]

The place where I have seen blended facial expressions, body language is at a funeral. Seen people smile at others and ask another how they are doing while part of an expression is the eyebrows in and sad eyes, tears yet, I heard people laugh some and smile and show empathy for another. That maybe a place to spot a narcissist, sociopath, and or psychopath. If you wasn't sure about a family member or friend, they could display the body language of such. That is my opinion. Thank you and God Bless!

[@PamsMountainGarden]

I’m laughing. My mother-in-law is from Zurich. She is the most humorless, uptight, judgmental human on the planet. I have know her for 37 years and I have never detested a person more. She comes twice a year and her ability to play nice ends between 36 to 48 hours. I keep a bottle of wine in my room and go to bed early. Zurich is a lovely city, I will admit.

[@ScottRouse]

I loved it there.

[@annaellem2344]

My eldest was a big sleep walker, when he was young i learned to guide him to the toilet, then back to bed when he was done. As an older teenager you could tell he had been eating in the night. I did a lot of research and there are some very common triggers. Being tired, new places, stress. Then physical needs like using the toilet. Creepy when you wake up to people 'staring' at you though.

[@princessskennnyy]

22:58 Scott, you’re on your own show right now 😭♥️

[@RobertaTourville]

Scott, I love the personal stories you share. You really are so personable and funny!! Enjoy the channel very much, it’s always interesting and informative.

[@TriniStarr3527]

I live in Switzerland! Canton de Fribourg. That was lovely to hear (about Zürich)!! ❤ Yes, we Swiss people are very calm. We talk slowly, walk slowly, are friendly and many of us speak several languages 🙂I speak French, which is my usual language but I also speak Spanish, Italian and English. This is the best country to retire! P.S. I LOVE Scott's voice!

[@ScottRouse]

You’re very lucky to live there. I absolutely love that place. Love it.🙂

[@ivyhill8174]

Scott, you appear to be so comfortable talking to the camera! Have you always been that way? - By the way, when you told the story about getting kicked out of RiverDance, I was laughing so hard, I was crying!! 😂😂😂

[@ScottRouse]

😮

[@PaulGadoury]

I'm from Boston and "Fens" is a kind of marsh that has been cut off from the Atlantic Ocean. The water in them gets neutral and a limited type of plants will grow there and they are referred to as the fens. Also, it is why Fenway Park got its name. It's near the fens.

[@YourNextDoorNeighborA]

My daughter is a sleepwalker. I'd wake up in the middle of the night to her just standing there. As soon as I talked to her sshe'd stammer and stutter about something. I'd cheerfully get her back to bed, tuck her in (even as a teen) and she'd just cheerfully ramble something and that was it lol.

[@wendieking4184]

One example of two things speaking at once is dupers delight coupled with any other body language. Sad, mad, bad, glad, but those eyes are smiling.

[@mont004]

Always brilliant and informative. Thank you very much

[@katfromthekong414]

Scott, I really needed to hear the "just do it as yourself" bit! I am currently on job hunt and I tend to get in my head about how I should behave in a professional setting (even 16 yeats into my career) cause I am quite a casual person privately. Thanks, man! 🤘

[@ScottRouse]

Yeah man. Good luck!👍

[@Beaumirabel]

Ha ha! Just watching the sleep walking bit so far, when I was younger i was staying at my friend's house , we were sharing a bed... now i knew she had a history of sleep walking because her mum warned me, anyway there was one night I was woken up to her getting up out if bed, she stood for about 5 minutes staring into space, then she left the room and went downstairs. 5 mins later she came upstairs sat on the bed with an empty bowl and proceeded to 'eat' from the bowl with a imaginary spoon 😂 i was so spooked, because she just wasn't aware of anything, then she put the bowl down got into bed and went back to 'sleep' haha

[@zeerohour8129]

Scott, you need to explain to Mark that hanging out in parking lots and going to the bootlegger are considered formative experiences in the South.

[@repoocrj]

All 4 of you from the Behavior Panel are each a treasure trove of fascinating and useful information… thank you, I always learn something new!

[@NicolaMaxwell]

Replay crew! Hit the like button please. Thanks for doing these, appreciate you! It's 7am, got broken ribs which kindly gave me pneumonia so I'll definitely be listening to your sleep meditation today!😴 Learn whilst I rest and recover.🥰 Hope you and yours are doing great Scott! 🙏♥️

[@ScottRouse]

Thank you so much. I hope you feel better!🙂👍

[@NicolaMaxwell]

@@ScottRouse Thank you, your meditation helps a lot! 🙂

[@AdeebaZamaan]

The best example I know of two conflicting emotions at once is a good memorial service, where everyone comes out crying and laughing at the same time. Mark will no doubt be able to add some stuff about Greek drama! ❤

[@nancypiros9133]

I use to sleep walk when I was younger. I usually did it when I was upset or worried about something. We were spending the night at my Grandma’s house before we moved out of state the next day . Mom told me the next morning- I sat up in bed saying something that was audible I looked at Mom she told me to go back to sleep. So I laid back down and was asleep. The next morning Mom told me what happened I had no idea about it.

[@LorieSparkles]

I LOVE the sleep videos! I don't know which I like best, but i sleep perfectly. Thank you ❤ ( btw, when you get a chance, would you add them all to the playlist in your channel? I think there are only two so far.)

[@Blacksquareable]

Yep, Switzerland figures. We only visited for a couple of days but it was totally relaxed like you say and it#s so unbelievably clean.

[@lizzyja3549]

Yes, my question got answered! :D I'll be sure to come with more. Thank you again. Love your videos and the stories you put into them.

[@ScottRouse]

You sure are welcome. That was a great question. 🙂

[@Anni.things]

Scott, thank you for your service and support. The mentorship I have received remotely is priceless, and respectfully professional. Stoked, you know I ain’t no Pinocchio . 🙏🌻🍝💯

[@ScottRouse]

👍❤️🙂

[@margaretsgirl]

Thank you for the comments on people with Asperger’s! My 21-year-old son was diagnosed at age 8. He has had so many issues through his lifetime with peers misunderstanding him. He was bullied mercilessly in elementary and middle school. He has a heart of gold and is highly empathetic, but he legitimately cannot read social cues like neurotypical people. I wish I could find a coach like you for him. Do you know of a network of people like you who specifically help adults with Asperger’s to read body language??

[@suzettefrantz6971]

Scott you nail this Psychopath thing down .. Some people are born with a box of 24 crayons ..Some only 12 but they learn to blend colors.. I find your channel very interesting and educational. ..you are relaxing to listen to..I do have some questions ❓ I'm going to find time and write ..always busy with work..keep up your good work !!

[@JoyceTelfer]

Scott, thank you for including the footage of the Switzerland chocolate shop and your words on your trip there. Enjoyable!

[@ScottRouse]

Thank you so much. 👍🙂

[@chrissyakers]

Swiss folks speak Swiss German & prolly Swiss Italian, depending on which country they’re living closest to. I lived in Germany for 11 years & visited Switzerland about 10-15 times. It is by far my favorite country in North America & Europe.💖 The geography is stunning!

[@lorcashine]

I loved it too. Seems so sane compared to other countries. Clean, safer, pride in beautiful villages, food and welcoming personalities. Would love to live there, but I don’t have a very good ability with foreign languages and I’ve tried for years.

[@PaulGadoury]

Scott, I can't believe you said that about you starting to learn body language as a kid. I was a sensitive perceptive kid, and I always knew when I was being lied to. Or if an adult said they were going to do things with you, but you knew it was never going to happen. I considered myself as somewhat of a body language reader before I even knew it was a thing.

[@padilou]

Appreciated the bit on asbergers....took me 2 years to clearly see a microexpression in real time, I was so stokes, there were 2

[@lynnschaeferle-zh4go]

Pretty much the whole fam is Asberger’s. As they got older socializing was easier. Even the schools were mean. My daughter’s Asberger’s just put people off enough to keep the jerks away. As adults their stillness makes it hard for others to get a reaction ;)

[@caireengraham]

Scott is so entertaining and informative. Highly enjoy these videos. Thank you sir 💯😎

[@ThePlasterer]

Thanks for answering my question Scott 😀👍

[@angelabuchan9872]

I knew a psychopath who was petrified of beetles. Turned into a scared two year old at the sight of one. Psychopaths do have nightmares and 'feelings' in that sense.

[@yourconnection9303]

When my sister first went out to live on her own in a high rise apartment building, she woke up in the middle of the night where she found herself down the hall from her suite, across from the elevator, trying to get into a locked door of a utility room. When she woke up there, she was NAKED!!! She said she ran down the hall back to her suite and didn't think anyone was around to see that. It was common for her to sleep walk while we were growing up, and she still continues to do so as a married woman.

[@lorcashine]

Got to worry about those Ring doorbell cameras through those hallways though!

[@yourconnection9303]

@@lorcashine Good point.

[@maisy9316]

Oh Scott you even describe autism so beautifully 🥰 thank you 🙏

[@ScottRouse]

Thank you. 🙂

[@AdeebaZamaan]

My then husband and I hitchhiked through Europe after we graduated from college, à la "Europe On $5 a Day." We wanted to see Switzerland but we arrived after 5pm on a Friday and were given to understand that Switzerland would not reopen until 9am Monday. ❤

[@T.Rex530]

Fens is an old-time word for isolated marshland that is usually not connected to a larger waterway. Fenway Park. Back Bay Fens.

[@ScottRouse]

THATS EXACTLY WHAT IT WAS TOO! I never knew that. Thanks. 👍

[@RobertaTourville]

Learn body language while I sleep, sign me up! I will look for those videos…awesome!!

[@menarussell]

Scott, you do have a great voice. I consider it similar to Garrison Keillor, which I refer to as a buttery smooth voice. I'm not crushing. I love people and all their unique qualities, etc.

[@menarussell]

Great one, Scott. Thank you. I'm going to email you about my sister and I. We are 14 months apart, met when we were 20 & 21, a lot like twins separated at birth. It's wild how many things we have in common. I mean REALLY wild. :)

[@Itsgr8-GR8]

I love, love, love your sleep videos! Versions 3 and 4 are my favs. I listened to version 4 for the first time last night. It’s my new very fav. I like how you’ve adjusted the balance and volume of music-to-voice on v. 3 & 4. 💤🛌 Thank you for putting these out, I can’t wait to hit the pillow at night. 😴

[@ScottRouse]

Yay! 🙂

[@mzmoth]

That's a good idea, playing informative stuff to the subconscious. Might try. The things you repeat on a daily basis will eventually become subconscious too because our brain knows that when something is being done on repeat, we need to make it subconscious so we can go on autopilot and expend less energy doing it. That's also how you get lucid and form a connection between the two minds, by paying more attention to dreams when you're awake!

[@PaulGadoury]

I have listened to you and your friends and then I watch interrogation videos that you guys have not discussed and it is amazing how much of what you guys say applies. It is an excellent way to put what you say into practice.

[@ScottRouse]

That’s awesome. 👍🙂

[@missydavis6678]

..."Probably what's wrong with me today." 😂 Funny story, NOW. But boy, that would have been awful at the time. Glad you can still do what you do. Thank you!

[@NicolaMaxwell]

I heard a body language "expert" say a man who said I love you in sign language to his little sister. I didn't watch the video. 🤟🏼ove and light Scott. Thank you!

[@ScottRouse]

🙂👍

[@NicolaMaxwell]

@@ScottRouse It was just a photo 😔 it made an entire little community not trust body language. They're missing out☹ stay awesome Scott@

[@megonvi]

Very interesting questions and answers, thanks! I enjoyed the stories and footage from Switzerland too. Now I'm craving some chocolate... 🍫 😜 BTW I like that hoodie you're wearing, so cozy.

[@NicolaMaxwell]

It's been my dream to go to Switzerland. I lived in the Netherlands for a while and everyone was so relaxed and nice. The big chocolate stores, bakery, cheese. I'd LOVE to go.

[@ScottRouse]

Do it. You’ll love it. 🙂

[@NicolaMaxwell]

@@ScottRouse Going to go next year, my youngest doesn't like "touristy places" 😥

[@vyvienvp3413]

Thoroughly enjoyed your references to your Zurich visit, fascinating. I knew it was very civilized, organized and clean. But had not considered the people, shall put that on my bucket list! Thank you.

[@wendieking4184]

I was all over Europe, as a child. I remember so much from then, and it was the mid 1960’s.

[@kjeans]

I'm glad i caught this video. I will check out the sleep video. I was in an explosion and as a result i have trouble falling asleep and staying asleep so that's how i use KZbin 80 percent of the time. Turns out if i listen to documentaries where the presenter has a English, Scottish or Welsh accent it comforts me into sleep. I often wonder why cause I'm not from Great Britain. My family has been in the South for over 10 generations. I never thought about learning through sleep but it makes sense. The mind always seems to be doing some type of work all the time. I know when i sleep my mind is making connections of information I've taken in during the day and making assumptions and conclusions and then spitting it back to me in dream form. Sometimes lucid dreams. Seems like the only thing i watch when I'm awake is The Behavior Panel and music. My free time is extremely limited so my one luxury is getting to catch a live chat now and then. You guys are awesome.

[@ScottRouse]

🙂👍

[@rosalynmoyle3766]

As you speak of another country with such enthusiasm and the points you make, it does throw a light on the supposed America the great etc, the so called freedoms you have. The freedoms that almost make you like in a security bubble , there is no freedom to be nice etc.

[@cecillekinnear4585]

Hi Scott. Does taking benzodiazepines show up in body language. I find that certain medications and recreational drugs change a persons personality. I have noticed how people can exhibit their health issues and even pregnancy. I have been able to tell if a woman in pregnant by a bit of puffiness around her face and a certainly vulnerability to her.

[@Blacksquareable]

Yeh, with Asperger's differentiating a smile from a smirk for instance, can be a challenge because often you can only see one part of the face at a time.

[@mystical_poncho]

I'm such a big fan of yours! THANK YOU for the the education.❤

[@ScottRouse]

You sure are welcome. Thank you for watching. 🙂

[@leelee69193]

I drove to the petrol station and filled up in my sleep once. Left my 6 year old daughter alone while doing so. So had to install a new lock and put the new key in my daughter’s duvet cover. Knowing if she waked up it would wake me up.

[@MissReneeMichelle]

"They both married a woman named Gladys." 🤣🤣 I love you so much, Scott. You're a national treasure.

[@ScottRouse]

😮Thank you 🙂!

[@JuliaWallis-ie4wy]

I love your anecdotes, they’re hilarious!❤

[@miharuka7408]

Thank you Scott!

[@LetItBeSummer-1]

How interesting. I’ve never really thought about it, this blend of more than one emotion at the same time! But when I think about it, yeah, people do it all the time. I’m going to watch for that in people if I can remember. That’s cool

[@ScottRouse]

You’re learning! Yes!

[@rhondakennedy819]

Be kind to each other. Stay safe. Love to all

[@IAmTamiGirl]

Love everything about learning and finally sleeping!! Great job Scott

[@marilynn76]

One time my husband was in Switzerland on a business trip, and he was excited about seeing the watch factories. He was walking along on a path that ran behind some of them and he snapped a few pics on his phone. A security person came out from one of the factories and stopped him and called the police. 😆 There I was, sitting at work back in the U.S. and I get a call from my husband and he says he's in the back of a police car and they're heading to the station and he doesn't have time to talk but just wanted to let me know. I was like, what is happening? They let him go without incident, but they are SERIOUS about the watch stuff!

[@jillspianomusicstuff9972]

Crossing my arms is either because I'm cold, or I'm trying to hide fat, or I just have to put my arms somewhere! 😁🤷🏻‍♀️

[@ScottRouse]

I’m hiding fat. 😬

[@jillspianomusicstuff9972]

@@ScottRouse 😁

[@lonestarbellepk]

Sometimes I cross arms when I'm angry and holding it inside....or cold 🥶

[@Jenn_80]

😂😂

[@Sbw1976]

I love this comment! 😄

[@lindahomerealtor5461]

Zurich sounds great!! But please try some high-end Belgian chocolate, like Neuhaus- my understanding is that Belgian chocolate uses a different cocoa source.

[@ScottRouse]

Ah. I’ll check it out. Thanks.

[@user-bz4uz8jj2t]

@ScottRouse it was the first time with an assorted box of chocolates that one was satisfying enough that I didn't need a second one lol. If you so try it, let me know how it measures up!

[@rosannacellini2158]

Thanks for sharing Scott! I am usually a pleasant, friendly person, so when I greet people in general, I smile and shake their hand, and nice to meet you, etc... If I am introduced to an unpleasant person, by their demeanor, I quickly say, nice to meet you. Lol Some people are having a rotten day, or they're pissed off at something, or just plain miserable. So I hang out with the pleasant ones. Lol I've worked with the public, and I can kind of read people, so I stay guarded, just in case. The sleep walking story was amusing, lol 😁👍❤️🤓😎

[@JustClaireWood]

I love Scott's videos. This one especially. I have several Asbergers relatives. I totally agree with Scott's comments re these people. 3 of my relatives (2 nephews, 1 niece) were taught from An early age how to observe & respond to other people's body language & also trained& encouraged to engage in chit chat as a form of respect for the other person. Their lives have still had very difficult & hurtful moments but in general they have grown & are growing into happy & fulfilled adults with deep & loyal friendships, a far cry from the earlier generations of Asbergers relatives who ended up solitary, sad & difficult people.

[@tinarollings8719]

Thank you so much Scott!!!❤

[@lynnettecapozio7327]

I just love your private channel Scott!

[@ScottRouse]

Thank you Lynnette! 🙂

[@Blacksquareable]

Yep,, I live in a different country in a foreign language, so yes, one does become more aware of differences.

[@stevensavoie856]

On the topic of blends, I've seen a superficial tertiary expression of sadness in a fear anger blend. It only occured in the upper face while the fear/anger expression involved the whole face. When you consider the muscles involved in fear and anger, it's understandable how it came to be. It's like a phantom expression that is less visible than the felt expressions and probably without meaning.

[@praisingirl]

May granddaughter (grown now) would often sit straight up in bed and yell suddenly in middle of night, open eyes and looking around , turned towards me when I spoke, then fell back to bed asleep. Was always shocking and concerning but never a big problem. She did develop anxiety attacks as a preteen that have continued. She had a mom who was narcissistic and a lot of stressful confusion growing up. Is this a common result of this kind of childhood traumas?

[@FaithAndRepentance]

Yes