What All Of Jennifer Lopez's Exes Have Said About Her | Rumour Juice

While Jennifer Lopez is a self-proclaimed hopeless romantic, some may call her a femme fatale.
The singer has had her fair share of heartache and breakups, but perhaps her previous relationships didn't work out because Ben had been the one this whole time. Following her reunion with Affleck, some of her famous exes have opened up about what they really think of her.
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[@pitalitta8814]

JLo is in love with JLo

[@michele695]

You got that right.

[@stk6755]

@@michele695 Good one 👍🏼😂

[@alberttrinidad1750]

OH she loves her assortment and huge variety of pe. I. ses .

[@tsevneegsovsiab7587]

so it'll never work with whoever she ends up being with, b/c it's always about her. She'll break up from a relationship and ended up marrying or dating someone in the same year. Her poor kids... Constantly getting introduced to new man in their mamma's life every couple of years.

[@user-dl1uz2lb6s]

Yup

[@trish9910]

P Diddy is one HOMELY dude. Yuck and more yuck . . .

[@Thaddeus-ml8if]

I wonder if he gave her herps.

[@theriddlerUSA]

💯

[@johntower2005]

Cheechee is that you?😱🙀

[@Letisia-qb8cf]

Ben affleck and more yuck yuck

[@Thaddeus-ml8if]

Think of how many of them have es tee dees like HIV.

[@lisajones385]

JLO has been married numerous times. The only thing all these marriages have in common is JLO.

[@roseannmiller3877]

I just love the fact that Affleck is married to P. Diddy’s sloppy seconds. That should take the arrogant Affleck down a few pegs.

[@CorinneWoods]

That’s a lot of men coming in and out of her kids lives

[@RumourJuice]

it's definitely a lot for the kids to process. Hopefully, they have strong support around them.

[@user-lz5bv3yz9g]

Yes..I have always thought this. And..why do we not. Ever see her son. I think he may have issues

[@nancyseale8710]

Jennifer loves tha spotlight on her she don’t think about anyone but herself

[@marydobney8615]

Now you are true.

[@dgator3599]

She's the new Liz Taylor...without the acting talent.

[@Jegebruikersnaam]

And her kind heart

[@cannabismedicinalpremium743]

SHE'S OVERRATED ....

[@kemenyistvanne1617]

Pontosan nem túlértékelt.

[@noellarash367]

Poor “Ben”😂

[@shellyt1983]

Nah!

[@user-ov2nm4su8q]

She’s WACK . JAYHOE

[@user-lz5bv3yz9g]

Totally

[@julieschubert6341]

She's in love with being in love.

[@bernieoconnell5515]

If she has respect for Diddy then that says it all.

[@Theendisnear429]

Exactly!

[@fatimamoncada6026]

This woman changed men like changing underwear

[@shellyt1983]

Say that about Taylor Swift. Ben changes women the same way.

[@houston5568]

@@shellyt1983 True and I wouldn't start a relationship with a person who has been passed around like a hot potato.

[@shellyt1983]

@@houston5568 That’s ok as they’ve decided to be together despite their other previous relationships.

[@milax2730]

Me to , so what ?

[@tezetaaschalew6468]

Awwww 😂please don't judge 🙏 😢

[@user-le5bb9pe5n]

JLo does not come off as a romantic whatsoever. She destroyed her own career. She is going downhill fast.

[@user-tv3ls4oq4w]

She is so rude and arrogant!

[@shirleymcdaniel1854]

Kim was married to Diddy at the time.

[@Ashnesss]

lol she didn’t destroy anything

[@user-le5bb9pe5n]

She reminds me of a narcissist who abuses people. Notice she can never hold on into any man. How can JLo talk about being faithful when she was sleeping around. Nobody is fooled.

[@gloriaseramulet4683]

She is not, the marriage will end but not her. She works hard.

[@alberttrinidad1750]

I think she should pay attention to Jane Fonda. Dont spend time alone but try spending time with yourself. You ll be happier

[@RumourJuice]

wise advice! Taking time for self-reflection can definitely lead to greater happiness.

[@ezmereldagerard6999]

Without the movie, Selena Jennifer Lopez would not have had her music career launched by top powerful men in the entertainment field.

[@helenogbonna3361]

Jenny from the block

[@elaifa-pt6nc]

so?? everyone has to start somewhere.. Still she's Jennifer Lopez ane you're a NOBODY!!

[@elizabethcamacho615]

Selena made her.

[@Ashnesss]

Yes, she would because Waiting For Tonight was a hit. Tommy Mottola was determined to turn her into a star and she has star quality, that’s why there are artists before and after her debut, who have fizzled out when she hasn’t. Tommy Mottola didn’t support her because of Selena. He was looking for a singer and dancer, not an actress. He wanted a girl who he could turn into a global star not a local Latin star. Her first single was a smash hit. It topped the charts. So did all her movies. Globally, J Lo isn’t known for Selena but her romcoms. J Lo was determined to make it which is why she would’ve, come hell or high water. P Diddy didn’t sign J Lo. He just took a few songs from other artists and gave them to J Lo. But Tommy Mottola had already done that. P Diddy was just trying to compete with Tommy for her attention.

[@jedjules1952]

@@elaifa-pt6nc She’s right and everyone is someone. Hope you find love in your life

[@AbbyNormal777]

Did everyone forget about how she carried a gun into a club for Diddy and then she handed it to him and he shot a guy in the face with the gun. She was arrested but of course she got away with it.

[@Amy-466]

Had not heard that!

[@marlonclark-pp9wg]

actually, it was a girl he shot in the face

[@joycewalbert1413]

I never heard of it either- but if it's true- that says A WHOLE LOT!

[@patriciagurwitz509]

No I didn’t forget. Can’t help but wonder if she might make the news now that Diddy is back in the news.

[@G41251]

The girl gets around…😎

[@tammyroach3286]

Jenny from the corner of the block.

[@marlonclark-pp9wg]

i guess she took some lessons from Tupac

[@tammyroach3286]

@@marlonclark-pp9wg Jada must've took lessons from Tupac also.

[@Mrsg730]

Someone said “she has more rings than Tom Brady”

[@marycarroll-uf4jj]

I feel sorry for her kids. They have seen her with so many men.

[@RumourJuice]

it can be tough on kids seeing their parents go through so many changes. Hopefully, they have a strong support system

[@Nyteowl820]

Yeah a team of nannies

[@AlexL001]

She’s a mess

[@user-lz5bv3yz9g]

She realllly is

[@marlenekeenan6468]

Now the attention with Ben is the same but it’s negative attention

[@bangormaine3129]

Her story is exhausting! She needs to pump those breaks, slow down. Be alone for a while.

[@meryondonald7460]

She needs to 🛑 Stop Looking For L♥️VE In All The Wrong Places and Find It In GOD/JESUS, Then She Will Find It In Herself! She is not Alone ...she has the 🌍 for company!

[@eviehammond9509]

No one will ever love her as much as she loves herself. The harder she tries to make her life & love life look perfect, the further from perfect it actually is.

[@nt4081]

It is best to love yourself more than another, but she loves to show off and likes the idea of romanctic love and wants other to perceive her love life as special.

[@eviehammond9509]

@nt4081 What I find really sad is someone having as much as she does still not finding happiness or any amount of satisfaction to the point of almost desperation to prove to total strangers how perfect & happy she is. If that isn't rock solid proof that money can't buy happiness, then I don't know what is.

[@donabrams276]

The true story: A mediocre dancer that sleeps around with every men collecting diamont rings

[@user-xu8zy5xe9y]

I agree shes.not down to earth at all NO PERSONALITY JUST KARNAL BEAUTY.I Personally shes all about her earthly self which will fade like her looks .

[@nancyseale8710]

Ben is not happy he doesn’t look happy alledgley

[@keepitreal665]

Yeah he looks miserable.Even at their wedding.I think he had a good thing with his first wife.I think JLo is self absorbed and immature.

[@Letisia-qb8cf]

@@keepitreal665 yes I agree jlo is not for ben

[@winnykooyman4851]

She adors herself too much. Don't like her.

[@perrieargent9997]

allegedly - try spelling properly even if all you want to do is be nasty to other people!

[@MelissaPatrick-nn1pu]

Who in the HELL HASN'T SHE Supposedly FELL HEAD OVER HEELS WITH....... PLEASE You only fall head over herls with one person in your life. she's a drama queen

[@gloriaseramulet4683]

Elizabeth Taylor did it too and several times, 8.

[@Theendisnear429]

She’s easy. How many men has she gone through?

[@tezetaaschalew6468]

Just like my past.when you have issues you become easy .Don't judge! Unless you know the reason behind it please. 😏

[@nt4081]

@@tezetaaschalew6468 Whatever the reason, it is not an excuse nor does it have to be the way you conduct yourself. Take care of your body and mind regardless of your past circumstances. Easy translates to reckless behavior. Young women who do not practise safe sex put themelves in danger of getting HPV's that are high risk and even worse diseases. Perhaps you should check out the you tube videos on men who trusted other men and got AIDS.

[@autumn7031]

Jennifer is the common denominator in her break ups. She divorces, then remarries 7 months later to a guy she dances with. What could go wrong? You marry an alcoholic and expect success in marriage? She is not the person she loves the most in the world, it's is the camera. The image, the status. It provides the shield for the fragile ego inside. Narcissists do not take accountability, nor do they self reflect or have self awareness. At this big age, it's time to check out of the game a while and figure out what YOU are lacking, what coping skills are missing, because it can't always be Everyone else!

[@gerdabyrd7861]

anybody that has been with diddy has seen it all. very disgusting

[@RumourJuice]

Everyone's experiences are unique, and it's often more complex than it appears 🌟

[@nancyseale8710]

This lady doesn’t marry for love she marrys for clout allledgley

[@eviehammond9509]

I think it's more that she fears being alone. None of her husbands' gave her anymore "clout" than she already has. For a strong, independent woman she seems to be in reality, she's not complete without a man in her life. How do I know this??? Actions will always speak louder than words. She can make all the documentaries & movies she wants cramming this idea that she's living this perfect life & is now with Ben her soul mate, etc. down everyone's throats, but I've yet to see a picture or interview with either of them where they look remotely happy, yet alone deep in love. I mean they are still within the "honeymoon" phase so it should show & it obviously doesn't. It's unfortunate that a woman like Jennifer who has achieved so much in life ( found love, has 2 beautiful children, huge amounts of wealth & fame, is multi-talented, etc) can still find a reason to be miserable & feel obsessed with telling anyone who will listen that's she's ultra happy while living this perfect life. Her "documentary" in reality is a comedy & the joke is on her.

[@user-lz5bv3yz9g]

She's like a 16 yo kid. In love w being in love..

[@StellaAdler_]

She can’t be a femme fatale when they all left her. And Ben is being paid to be with her cuz A Rod left her & got engaged immediately she didn’t wanna look like a fool again. There’s no love there

[@vickybennett3975]

She doesn’t know the difference between lust and love.

[@ramonaferrera6789]

When there is no natural talent and you resort to what is natural, sooner or later the universe takes its toll on you. Sorry for Ben 😢

[@rosariakalobwe6437]

She is in love with non other than Jlo

[@user-tv3ls4oq4w]

She still has A Rod’s residue when she hooked up with Ben…gross!

[@DS-mh5hb]

Not just his, dozens 😂

[@GretchenLoy]

What does that mean? I am clueless

[@shellyt1983]

So? Ben’s had residue from just as many. He’s not squeaky clean himself. 🙄

[@StellaAdler_]

Exactly!!

[@user-tv3ls4oq4w]

@@shellyt1983 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@anngilbert4250]

I don’t no what they have learned but it sure didn’t have anything to do about marriage.

[@MM-lq2nz]

With so many divorces under her belt it will always be easy to walk away from anyone who no longer suits the image she has of marriage which by the way is very immature.

[@helenogbonna3361]

Jenni is like I love low key men Ben is like the guy who wakes up for coffee every morning

[@barbaravyse660]

A waiter and a backup dancer?

[@gabbydeveau5100]

Poor Ben

[@RumourJuice]

it seems like Ben’s going through a tough time.

[@sexychocolateable]

Jlo is so narcissistic it's hilarious

[@Caper202]

Marriage is for life jalo narcissism

[@luzgo78]

Why if she really loves Ben keep their lives private , why show it to the world , clearly Ben is a private person , he is an actor and a director , not a celebrity.

[@tarahaugo4503]

None of all those men have the balls to tell on her she has something on them and they are afraid for their careers

[@isrberlinerin4063]

All the men she has been with were very kind in their answers , but i do bot believe everything i hear . What i think of JLO yes she is beautiful to look at , but she is a Jezebel .

[@Theendisnear429]

They’re afraid she’ll Sue them like she threatened to do with her first husband.

[@cynthiasmith4130]

She is in love with herself!!!!!!!!! Nobody can live with her expectations!!!!!!!

[@ezmereldagerard6999]

I wonder if they will re open the club shooting in 1999 when P Diddy and Jennifer Lopez were in the club? Three people were shot. Natonia was shot in the face and has said since this happened to her, P Diddy did this to her! 💔 Shyne went to jail for a crime he did not commit for 10 years. Will the truth finally come out ?

[@loism1965]

Jlo know more than she is saying about that night....she's Jenny with the Glock. I hope they do investigate.

[@user-zu2yq8lv1i]

How many men does it take for JLo to be in love?

[@rockymountain3245]

Ben’s a ticking time bomb

[@Letisia-qb8cf]

Ben is bored with jlo

[@Caper202]

Jennifer has no soul DIDDY DIDDLER FREAKOFFS

[@d.s.d69]

Chris dad told the truth about Jen and Ben , Ben was making a move on a married woman Jennifer Jennifer divorce Chris so she can be with Ben

[@caseyhstuver]

Chris seems to be the only ex giving some truth.

[@erinmette307]

He should have never left Jennifer gardener she's a far better person

[@carolhowson228]

Didn’t he blame his drinking on Jen G?

[@ezmereldagerard6999]

Jennifer Lopez music career belongs to Natasha Ramos, who sang all the big hits on her 1st album. Ashanti vocals, which she took credit for on her big hits. Christina Millian wrote and sang JLO songs, which became big hits. Also, Chante Moore and many other artists who are the ones singing on JLO albums. This is the reason her voice always sounds different as so many other gifted artists are singing JLO hits

[@ivelissesantana7185]

Well there shredding jlo to pieces. The media can do that. There bringing her down fast

[@i-tiyahman6519]

DAMN she did the whole. Block

[@getreal3445]

Yup😂😂😂

[@Nyteowl820]

And then some. In stead of chasing tail be a better mother to her children.

[@Stacyinthemiddle]

If Alex could have kept it in his pants I believe he is J. Lo’s match. Alex loves Alex just as much and he loves that spotlight too. It’s perfect!

[@carlacarson912]

She's nuts

[@tomlidot4871]

Had no idea she’d married that many times. Staged and launched a comeback around superbowl but didn’t take off. I feel sorry for BA. He looks totally drained.

[@savannahsmiles1797]

not feel bad for him, his idea of commitment is on par with JLo's

[@RumourJuice]

It's been quite a journey for her. The ups and downs in the spotlight can be exhausting.

[@RumourJuice]

Relationships are complicated, especially under public scrutiny. Everyone has their own take on commitment.

[@luzgo78]

I know he looks tired , I guess she is too much.

[@tarahaugo4503]

How ducks is that and those are the ones who stuck around not the one nighters no wonder her and Diddy were together birds of a feather

[@maritzaporras4969]

She was unfaithful to Jud with Ben. She made lip singing in Selena. She's used to take the men she wants. She's crazy for Ben because he left her. All her rmoances iare the real love. She treats bad everibody. I hope they"re not going to have a kid. She's so narcissique. She wants a baby so maybe the people will be nice with her know that her.project makes a flop.

[@maritzaporras4969]

All her romances where real love

[@newpocacontus2032]

She is the center of everything 😅

[@mtee555]

Not surprised

[@theriddlerUSA]

JLO can't stand to be by herself.

[@carolynbrown5022]

Gosh a lot of marriages and men didn’t realise ?!

[@texadonkey34]

It’s seems to be her way Only. Rich men will not take that crap. After 3 wedding dresses, it’s time to give it up. Even Elizabeth Taylor finally quit marrying.

[@gloriaseramulet4683]

He felt she was not good enough for him. It turns out they are both dysfunctional.

[@user-mm3hp8hg9e]

I never heard if all these break ups. She goes from one Man to another. I am surprised that they did not criticize her at all. They spoke kindly of her.

[@triciaphillips741]

Jlo "Love is patience"? Not for you, honey. You have been with so many men in 20 years... that's not patience. That's called something else if you know what I meant.

[@leonoratesoro2586]

How many marriages was that?!…so many… not normal…

[@RumourJuice]

she's definitely had quite a few!

[@cathynielsen-kolding929]

18 year differences? I think she takes but can't give....

[@brunamagrini9014]

She marries again after just a few months after each split.

[@patron2022]

When talking about P Diddy🤢 She said “it’s the first time I’ve been with someone who was unfaithful” Da F 🤨 Giiiirl, you are like the Poster Child for “Being Unfaithful”…you out of all people have no right to talk on that subject 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@user-ke8st8jc1v]

If the “ pressure “ of public opinion destroys your marriage it’s not the public opinion

[@user-rd2cs7wk8v]

Yikes! Jlo should stay single bc marriage isn't working for her

[@RumourJuice]

It seems like she's had quite the rollercoaster ride with relationships. Maybe focusing on herself for a bit could be a good idea.

[@teresaantoniou5415]

She is obssessed by herself😆😆😆

[@RumourJuice]

She does come across as very self-focused to some people

[@Marcycat7]

She might expect a lot out of her relationships. More than a man can meet. Jlo marries Jlo.

[@marydobney8615]

I hated to say that to you. You been engaged so many time throughout your life. And married so many time too.

[@pq6bf]

'love' and 'marriage' DONT go together like a 'horse and carriage' in JLo's life😂

[@sophiaa884]

So, she sued one of her husband's because he wanted to do a tell all? Isn't it the same thing she's done to Ben, which is why i keep hearing he's had enough and wants outta of the marriage? Is Ben suing her? I don't get it...🤔

[@RumourJuice]

It’s definitely a tangled web of relationships and legal battles. It’s hard to keep up with all the drama!

[@cynthiaweir5697]

😅 I believe she had more in common with Alex and perhaps that marriage would’ve lasted longer. They seemed to be on the same page, where Ben is more a regular, blue jeans, type of guy.

[@barbaravyse660]

She didn’t marry Alex

[@jessica16m88]

Oh I remember Marc Anthony looked bad about getting married to Jennifer right after divorcing Daina Torres. Christina on the talk show told him on TV to “GROW UP!” while interviewing his exwife. Shame on these celebrities.

[@erosr1]

Patient my arse! Lol Going through long strings of lovers is not being patient.

[@RumourJuice]

It's certainly a different kind of journey! Relationships can be complicated, and patience comes in many forms.

[@i-tiyahman6519]

😂 love can’t hold a thing

[@geena-g-777]

I thought Diddy was her heart break now it Ben

[@RumourJuice]

it seems like she's had her share of heartbreaks. Relationships can be really complex, especially in the spotlight 🤔

[@shelleycharlesworth5177]

Ben & Jen- 2 peacocks who want to be admired endlessly! rarely works long term....

[@jalex3645]

He (Ditty)put you in the music business he didn't help you

[@jairenesereno4519]

I think she is a good actress. She is obviously hard working and goes for what she wants. I don’t think she is the greatest at singing but she can dance. I do think she should maybe slow down and not taking herself so seriously though. She seems like a good person but she seems a bit too career driven in a toxic industry.

[@sonianieves2433]

It is so sad to see celebrity couples after they split up. they talk bad about their relationship..They need to close their chapter after their split or divorce...

[@vickybennett3975]

Another wedding and divorce. Stop it.

[@kris-vs7ed]

Ben took her out of the spotlight. Ultimatum. Out of the spotlight, retire, or we're done. lol.

[@kimshuster7084]

She’s coding the Bible love is patience and love is kind😂😂 but shes doesn’t understand a word. Comes out of Gods word. In love with her self.

[@RumourJuice]

Everyone interprets things differently. It’s definitely interesting to see how personal beliefs shape actions.

[@barbaravyse660]

coding the Bible?

[@MissV1604]

Imagine the book those guys could write if there was no NDA in their nuptials.

[@gtafam2119]

Narcissistic

[@ezmereldagerard6999]

JLO and A Rod broke up as they are too much alike. JLO cheated on her 1st husband Ojani Noa with P Diddy & other men. Her second husband, Chris Judd, with Ben Affleck. Then her 3rd marriage to Marc Anthony, when he was still married to his wife Daynara Torres She was not aware he was having affair with her husband until he ended their marriage suddenly and married JLO which devastated her. This is the reason Marc and JLO kept their wedding a secret as they got married days after his divorce from Daynara Torres was official.

[@joaniethomas9784]

ASK DIDDY

[@user-pz3bd3th1v]

Jennifer you guys are beyond Blessed sooo mauy of us don't find True Love once let along twice Shine your light God bless u guys and the world ❤️🌈❤️

[@anneschulman8712]

If she doesn't have a man attached to her, she's in big trouble! What's her problem? I don't know the exact number of divorces & engagements shes been through. But this isn't the end of it. Poor Ben. There's a difference between loving someone & being in love with someone. She's not the brightest anyway. U could see through her conversations & interviews. She's a good dancer, that's it. I don't get how she became so popular other than through her dancing. Her acting is so so & her voice is not good at all. Tired of her already.

[@callm6748]

I wonder if bens move out has.something.to do with.his Ex Jennifer garners marriage?

[@Letisia-qb8cf]

Ben is like trying to get in her way bc his not a dad

[@callm6748]

Also, I kept wondering why everyone is suddenly team ben when he has such negativity, alcoholic womanizer, grumpy, smoker. Oh, yeah jloi has her diva ways, but at heart she's a romantic .

[@mariamaboumia9284]

At least she married them.what a respectful woman 👠

[@YSapphireGroup]

So who is she with now, what. I got really lost there.

[@sylviaandreou5350]

She has had a few men, she gets bored with them

[@conquerorofbabylon]

I see you all know nothing about me, Zendaya’s biological father. JLo is her biological mother.

[@DoveBlue]

Ben Affleck 'was "temporarily insane" and Still maybe Insane…

[@amelianunez4229]

No Selena , JLO only a diva dancer 😂

[@shawnhunter228]

We have watched her marry over and over,she is just the marrying kind.She seems to think marriage holds a secrete she can’t find.