What Are the Best Romantic Gestures? - Ep 28 - Big Mood

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[@aliyahrowe5412]

OMG, I love that K-Drama Gina is talking bout " What's wrong with secretary Kim" I LOVE that show, one of my absolute favs.

[@Black8Apple]

my bf changed his pokemon go team to mine, so we weren't battling against each other. that moment i knew he was the one.

[@Sirnayooo]

My ex didnt play pokemon go. So i had her transferred.

[@wanglee21]

lol good one!

[@leilani2258]

One romantic gesture that happened recently was when me and my bf went out for a hike on a trail by a river. We had stopped at this point in the trail with an amazing view of the river and we both were listening to music on our own headphones. He had asked me to give him my headphones for a second. And when I put them back on he had synced our headphones to our song "can't help falling in love" by Elvis and we slowed dance in the sunlight and for that special moment, it was just me and him. ❤

[@B34RXO]

Omg this is so cute! I hope when I’m older I’ll find someone like that🥺🥺🥺

[@leilani2258]

I promise you it's 100% real, he's a rare one...we're both real cheesy too. ❤

[@kaleyc3418]

Steve and Nikki's romance 🥺🥺 i literally cannot 😩😩

[@LolaLaura1993]

I know, I want a relationship like theirs ❤

[@alexlilano1931]

I like looking at their romance from the outside, but I don't want a relationship which is too lovey dovey.

[@cmar7384]

I’m just like Jess, wanting luv then rejecting it out of my own inner fear

[@LMason-qd7sq]

What is that fear of, specifically? Not that you have to post your response, but reflecting on what that fear is and little ways to combat it (at your own pace) helped me begin to open up

[@blastroisehunt6546]

L. Mason fear of only freedom n only stuck with one person. That often happens if u haven’t dated enough

[@getgot3461]

@@LMason-qd7sq could also be fear of opening up to someone only to get betrayed and taken for granted

[@ft.jackjimmy7282]

@@LMason-qd7sq I'm like Jess with not thinking I deserve love because I have a history of not having the same attention or care reciprocated when I give my love and care to friends, family, or crushes. Thinking that people would just ignore me in the end anyway so I reject them before they have a chance to reject or abandon me. It's like a defense mechanism, I've never been in a serious relationship because of always seeing how they'd just leave me anyway so I can't open up too much to them.

[@LaventerLigaments]

Nikki can we all get the spell you used to summon a Steve? please and thank you ♡

[@angelakim5228]

romantic gestures are so cute, just gets you all warm and fuzzy inside 😭😭

[@missbesss]

Tiffany you have a cute voice for an animated movie! 😍

[@laurafuentes1210]

Steve is seriously a sweetheart. Every time Nikki talks about him is like where can I get a Steve. Their whole relationship is written in the stars and the cutest.

[@waadalias9579]

Literally my favourite part of the day is this podcast 🥺

[@GinaDarlingChannel]

My favorite part of the day is you 🥺❤️

[@giovannicarias]

Who else noticed Tim 😂 pop out of nowhere when the add started for door dash like what!?!

[@chibisaraface]

When my fiance and I had just started dating, there was an insane heatwave and all window AC units were sold out everywhere. He bought one somewhere without telling me and brought it up to my 4th floor walk up and installed it for me. 😭

[@marvahinspace]

Just here to let you know when someone is doing some great romantic gestures doesn't mean they are a nice person. My ex was absolute gentleman, opening doors (including car), buying flowers, helping jackets on etc etc etc, he also was an abuser and r*pist behind closed doors. Abusers know how to love bomb you, be alert.

[@SS-vt1hb]

I'm like Jess, no one's done anything like that for me cos I choose emotionally unavailable men

[@SharkAcademy]

Talk to a therapist. It’s very common. Every time Jess says something I say, I knew she was going to say that, because she is exactly like my cousin :(. She drives away any good men, both on purpose, and then also the good smart men run away after a few dates. It’s sad because we were talking and she was saying how she probably won’t have children because she’s 36 and was trying not to cry

[@lupejinx5469]

my boyfriend took me out to my favourite restaurant that was like 30 minutes away, for our six months anniversary. I literally teared up because even though it wasnt much, I never had someone do that kind of gesture for me. He also drove up to surprise me at work and it was just amazing cause he kept it a secret and he’s really bad at keeping secrets.

[@shirleyadriazola8532]

I love Jess, Gina and Tiff. They're naturally funny and have great personalities 💕

[@jeanettekakareka]

Some things romantic gestures, just to give ideas out :-)... For the first birthday we spent together (my fiancé's) I knew he loved meat and bbq but he always thought about me not liking meat when picking restaurants. So I bought some of those disposable bbq's and we did one on my roof. I also made a stack of present boxes and wrapped them in a special wrapping paper that had koalas all over them because I used to call him that. For a more recent birthday I also took him to a famous steakhouse for the same reason and ordered his favorite cocktail all night instead of splitting wine, which we usually do because he knows I love it. For my first birthday we spent together he got me out of my apartment to go to meet him, but first he ran to my place. With the help of my roommate letting him in, made a rose petal path up to where he had petals and my presents in a big heart shape. Somehow he wasn't even noticeably late to meet up with me! I had no idea so when we came home from the niiiiiice bday dinner he also ran ahead and lit candles and I came in so surprised and confused!! One of the bigger things I've done is made a compilation video of our first two years together and I wrote all this romantic shit at the end... it's now kinda become a thing and I do it at every two year mark. It's time for another one this year! But this year I might hide it in this exploding box Gina is talking about 😍

[@milesdoodling1054]

I also am in love with Steve.

[@ukaiibakuryu9214]

I love this podcast but at this rate I'm kinda expecting for the cast to drop to 3 members. Damn Boze where are you😕

[@Buttsceatcgee]

Has a new job with mia or project. Whatever it is, they signed up for it.

[@koradelmar7399]

Oh damn I didn’t even know she was gone what happened to her?? I haven’t kept up with jk for a while

[@caseyholder7719]

I love how Gina is the only one who brought a different outfit for each episode 😂❤️

[@jessicahunkler4002]

55:44 There are two types of women: "Awwwwwww" vs. "THAT'S RIGHT BITCH" 😂

[@jessicapyrope]

What y'all didn't know is that the secret guest star of this episode is timothy Delaghetto.

[@shanikaudumalagala7670]

1:00:08 i died laughing when Gina talked about that😂 The K-drama is called what’s wrong with secretary Kim, and warning it will set your expectations way to high🤣

[@deshoward1888]

Omoo I think Gina was talking about What's wrong with secretary Kim? Issa so good

[@abee-dabee-doo9647]

*Jess sneezes* Me: I'd say bless you but... it looks like you already have been

[@cosmicblitzgaming9257]

Me a man crying hearings the steve stories

[@roxfoxcreates1575]

Romantic gesture I have done: My partner really wanted 2k20 last year.. he kept looking it up on the PlayStation store to see if it was on sale to see IF he really wanted it / deserved it. Now one night while out before reaching our destination we walked into our local GameStop to browse. 2k was on sale! but he really was fighting the urge not to buy it because he was about to spend money on our outing and we left. While still out a block over while doing our thing I told him I had to go to restroom and RAN literally RAN my butt to gamestop purchased the game and he never noticed I was gone from the establishment. haha Now back at home while having dinner he went to the restroom I put the game on the table he came back (didn’t notice) started doing dishes.. FINALLY glances over and starts fan girling about what it was ahaha first time I’d ever done something like that 🌹✨☺️

[@FernzWife]

Omg... 😳 Nikki is pregnant 🤰 she’s not drinking and Nikki likes drinking! Omg I’m so happy!

[@LELAisLEAN]

Where’s my baby Boze?

[@alwayspari]

They’re gonna announce it one day apparently but she isn’t part of Bigmood anymore

[@LELAisLEAN]

Pacman Oh no :(

[@ButtaButta90]

Poor Jess, I love her who doesn’t. One day your time will come. Show some love for Jess ❤️

[@vodkanockers5098]

Always compliment your girl even if she looks bad just don't make an argument for later.

[@vodkanockers5098]

@Betty Tran true

[@Sirnayooo]

Jess just made it seem like joe was just a hopeless romantic

[@ft.jackjimmy7282]

Personally, I don't see Joe as someone that can really settle, he's a free-range spiritual dude while Jess wants someone stable. Joe travels a lot and love learning new things and starting new businesses, he needs adventure and something stimulating to be happy. Can you imagine Joe with a child and living his life like Bart and Geo? Maybe but it might take a while.

[@jinlissul]

the hotel story gina was talking about is recent because i remember the ig stories of her in a hotel. plus she would put a bat emoji in her caption so i always thought the bat emoji was her bf. glad to see her dating well and i hope her bf is a good one this time!

[@annjessile4526]

My most memorable romantic thing I did was a huge fail. It was for my boyfriend atm and it was for his birthday. He wanted me to spend the weekend with him so I got called off work and surprised him with his favorite pastries and the yeezy he been wanting and trying to make it special with decorations. After I surprised him with it, he was like “oh cool thanks 😐”. He tried on the sneakers and was like can you return them I told you that wrong size and they are a bit small, he tried to sell them but didn’t get the amount he wanted, then told me i guess I’ll keep them and wear them. Then spent the whole weekend on that game and with his friends while he wanted me in the bedroom. After all of that he just told me he wanted cash for his birthday, so I just gave him $500 that Sunday and went home

[@blib4328]

I don't want to be that person but... if you're still together with that guy I'd suggest really looking into the relationship and wether you might be better off without him :/

[@annjessile4526]

Anna Köhler yeah... we broke up around March bc of Covid-19 bc he told me I shouldn’t care about my family bc they are old enough to take care of them. And then I realize that he was really controlling and manipulative in the relationship

[@blib4328]

@@annjessile4526 i'm sorry that it did not work but i'm happy for you. your desvere better and someone who would also care about your families health.

[@BuBs1970G]

Damn. They're making me miss my friends, we used to talk chisme, memories, upcoming events, etc. 😭

[@godfathermock61788]

Ooh, that drama was "whats wrong with secretary kim?" Its adorable!!

[@samanthatrevino4722]

aw I love niki and Steve together. I have always shipped them!!

[@vanessacabrera2115]

Where’s Boze and Geo? Did they leave;(? I miss them 🥺

[@danieltester766]

Geo stepped away from the podcast to spend more time with her family being a mom. Boze has been missing for months with zero explanation from the rest of the crew. They announced they would address it over a month ago and then proceeded to clickbait their whole audience with a "bonus episode" last week. It was supposed to answer allllllll of our burning questions. It did not.

[@pandalover1238]

Although they don't owe us an explanation, since it is their personal lives and we are not entitled to know, I can't help but wonder that are they all doing well as friends?? Did something happen?

[@santos7037]

@@pandalover1238 Yeah they're doing fine lol Boze and them all still interact on insta etc. dunno why people think there's some drama there, there obviously isn't. She just moved so probably taking a break or some shit and just doing her own thing.

[@Buttsceatcgee]

Daniel Tester Boze has a new job. She explained it in one of the podcasts. Maybe it got her busy or something. Mia khalifa did announce that her and boze signed a new contract.

[@jinlissul]

@@danieltester766 boze ditched them for mia. y'all clickbaited yourselves because they said that they'd surely address it in their own time so find a hobby lol

[@nobody-n9s]

Jess wants a Steve 😂 but honestly I thought caseys gestures were so much sweeter! Like he is a man and stepped up for her

[@PatrickFun]

Tiff puts them back on track after diverging from Tequilla lol

[@GrippysocksCC]

What happened to boze

[@abee-dabee-doo9647]

Be patient they keep their word :)

[@GrippysocksCC]

A Bee ???

[@geemorales3555]

@@GrippysocksCC she left. They said they're going to make a video about it.

[@ukeqtpie1516]

@@geemorales3555 how do you know she left??? She just hasn't been on. I know they've said they'll get together to address it, but?

[@Buttsceatcgee]

ukeqtpie she signed a new contract with mia for something. Might got her busy and don’t have time for podcasts.

[@derrekmcfarlane7872]

Where boze

[@hokum4466]

i miss geo on the podcast

[@mariarosep6208]

Ok yall can atleast tell us When its going to air. At this point yall dont care about your fans & all we care about is the truth & bose

[@abee-dabee-doo9647]

If all you care about is the truth, why even watch them in the first place before all this? go watch some drama channel if that's all you care about

[@mariarosep6208]

A Bee they dont care about their fans at this point

[@daiishi_kinyoubi]

"We"? speak for yourself...

[@Buttsceatcgee]

Calm doowwn. If you really do care about boze and them, you would know by now that boze and mia signed a new contract. Probably got so busy and had to drop out of the podcast.

[@Vanes_a]

Boze mentioned in a stream that she didn't think it was fair for her to adress it without the rest of big mood and vice versa, so they're all waiting for a time where they're all available to film the explanation together.

[@danieltester766]

...Day number 67 and still no sign of Boze. The wait continues on.

[@Buttsceatcgee]

Calm down. If you follow them on social media, you would know boze is still alive and has signed a new contract with mia.

[@97musicaddict]

@@Buttsceatcgee yeah but the problem is they haven't adressed it like they said theh would and put out a clickbait vid and it doesnt make much sense so its okay for people to ask about it.

[@maplenerd22]

@@97musicaddict - They haven't address it probably because they are waiting for all details before addressing it. Notice how Boze have not addressed it either and she's the one that left.

[@postiebirdie336]

TLDR : Have been a longtime viewer of BigMood Jk HEybtch the lot; in a time like this we shouldn't get caught up in the drama and be so quick to point fingers; there may be controversies and unanswered Qs.. Take the time to be patient judge fairly and accordingly and most important *don't spread hate* If you don't agree with their content, go share and support those you do then Spread kindness Thank you for continuing to upload and being you Big Mood Team!

[@BIGMAMAisback]

This 🗣 yes, yes, and a hundred times yes

[@daiishi_kinyoubi]

T H I S 🙌

[@teampecsonfam8392]

Gina is watching “What’s Wrong with Secretary Kim?”

[@ericat1413]

wait, really??

[@jessica8739]

🥺I always wanted a giant bear

[@divardo1408]

I remember Joe doing the valentine's bouquet for jess

[@deeluvstee]

I relate soo much with Jess. ❤️

[@jacklcooper3216]

The tun is from a movie called fame

[@nydiarevuelta562]

This episode called me single

[@xoxx.Marcelina]

when are yall gonna talk abt boze :/

[@omelette429]

Wow, go Steve

[@bobbychase5616]

daamn mia like yoko breaking up the band

[@alwayspari]

😂

[@97musicaddict]

What does Mia have to do with it?

[@poisonkiss201]

👀

[@deshoward1888]

Its going around on Twitter how mia used the n word

[@97musicaddict]

Edit: So apparently Mia and Boze signed with a media company and Boze tweeted she and Mia may start their own show so I guess when Jess and Gina (the people that started the issue) were throwing shade on the Call Her Daddy episode about people not having loyalty, they possibly meant Boze starting to branch off with Mia, a connection she made bc the Big Mood Girls and JK in general.

[@deshoward1888]

Karmas have set my expectations up way too high

[@doreenonofia9693]

I remember when Tiff used to make Tuna cake 😂😂 I really wanna try em now

[@barahui9]

Steve's an angel and Casey is a knight

[@Vincisomething]

I haven't had romantic gestures done to me :(.

[@robello1740]

Lol I’ve been doing the technique niki talked about without knowing it

[@KazeNoYurei]

Bruh the love langue in Kdrama's are impossible to match!

[@TJ-1234]

yeah especially the violent wrist grabbing sooooo romantic or the piggy back rides when they let the girl drink so much she litterally can't walk anymore who says romance is dead?!

[@bree4174]

Tuna casserole..Midwest dinner staple

[@juananguita3288]

WE need to makeTHEM work for it.

[@incubus9188]

love you ladies

[@Blanca-yt4mu]

What happened to Boze? I miss her

[@oscarr2480]

She quit

[@joejujitsue9639]

They fired her for being black

[@daiishi_kinyoubi]

i enjoy how this is like a big sisters conversation and there is always some gold advice

[@CapeEniEer]

i made heart shaped hand sized sheets with a little hand drawn story on how a hero aka my ex, defeats an ice queen aka me and thaws her heart and turns the queen into a warm girl

[@jacklcooper3216]

Wow cool

[@Anny-uc6ev]

Hahaha Tim in the purple ad

[@jacklcooper3216]

How is that?

[@mizzsunshineful]

I love you guys!

[@Korsha89]

Can you share ideas for romantic gestures that would woo Julia? For research purposes, ofcourse

[@princessandra]

yes!! Jesse!! Sometimes I want to send these conversations to any guy I find attractive LOL! Like, listen to these ladies!!! LOL!!!

[@ashleyoreads]

I have no idea if this is the video but if its not-add a title card or pinned comment right when the video goes live so people just chilllll. We all r curious and want to know because we care about her.

[@abee-dabee-doo9647]

This isn't a drama channel... They said they will address it and they will. Could be production that's taking their time they do film videos in advance especially because of the pandemic going on right now. If you've watched them before all this just enjoy the video for what it is like you used to and be patient. I trust these girls I've been watching them for years on jk and here on the podcast. They'll keep their word :)

[@ashleyoreads]

@@abee-dabee-doo9647 True, I like the words "this isnt a drama channel." But because I know people would comment I thought I would mention that every video tell they can address it-a pinned comment in reminder might help them actually get comments on the video and not the drama. But absolutely, Im done commenting about it. Thanks! lol :)

[@koradelmar7399]

I love mezcal!!! What

[@animallover7857]

26:54 😭💀😂🤣

[@jacklcooper3216]

Hayley Westenra She was very young whn she started

[@oceanstaiga5928]

Why do I feel like this will fall apart like ask the feels did without explanation?

[@TheLoserface45]

@Nikki, in Steve’s present of the day thing, did he also have a sexy jersey pic? 😂😂😂

[@CiiityLights]

love y'all :)

[@ninhtran9438]

gina talking about what’s wrong with secretary kim 🥺🥺

[@yarelybanuelos1004]

Where is she?? Have u adressed it?

[@MIMIKU03]

TAKE 👏 NOTES 👏 LMFAO 26:54

[@TheMainSofia]

Where booze tho

[@CapeEniEer]

what is craft service that nikki talked about? sorry im not from the states

[@KowgirlKayla247]

"Rocky Mountain Oysters" are not oysters either, just so you girls know 😂😂

[@AYEitsVIC822]

Gina the only one who needs two pillows to hide her quarantine belly

[@graceknor5049]

I may be totally off, but I could really see Jess with Mike Tornabene!

[@sharicalamari7833]

Where is Boze Where is Boze No one Knowz Where is BOZEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[@jacklcooper3216]

My trouble is I have one job (don't be a idiot) the cook is like a copper and always points out I didn't o my job

[@mariarosep6208]

Will it be this video??

[@caseyholder7719]

For what? 😯

[@ayanapreston-hasley7272]

Casey Holder if they tell us what happened with boss like is she still on the show or not

[@tiffanybank5485]

No

[@daiishi_kinyoubi]

Ayana Preston-Hasley they said they will address why Boze isn't on the podcast anymore so yeah she moved on

[@yarelybanuelos1004]

Boze?

[@ashmay2397]

Ok, but where can i get nikki’s shoes???

[@beckisan5]

Nikki where did you get your shoes from?!

[@jamescamille84]

Wait.. Jess was a fan of Joe. But she doesnt want to date a fan of hers.. ??

[@cantonboi2]

What happened to bose?

[@lionelquiambao6575]

Where is the video of Steve and Nikki reacting to each other's presents at??? O:

[@jacklcooper3216]

The cry of the morepork keeps coming back to me. It is hooting out there where the paths meet. I was the one who allowed you to go. It was curbed, my deep love for you But now the formal return home; greetings to you, How my heart weeps with joy. Still standing tall is the prestige and the enchantment of the ancestors who have passed on. Bring back the true spirit of the people to help heal the survivor crying like a slave (i.e. with loneliness) and searching for the true path for us all. Te Hokinga Mai! Te Hokinga Mai! Stand tall! kzbin.info/www/bejne/bHmsaJWtf82niNk&feature=emb_logo

[@ohitsmaiii]

I didn't know that Mia and Boze were best friends. Pretty sure that's why the girls related to the Daddy podcast drama. Starting a business with friends and then starting a new one with another probably put a strain in the relationship. Especially with how Boze seemed closest to Jessica and Gina, it probably affected them most. Bc they all were super supportive when she had her marketing jobs again but if she left or wanted to pursue a podcast with Mia instead, it probably presented a conflict naturally. But sidenote, with if they're just doing this to create something to talk about? Bc it seemed like Gina and Jess stopped following Boze, and I checked like 1-2 weeks ago, Jess was following her again and then today it looks like boze and her unfollowed each other again. Weird, no. Anyways with that said, this podcast made me realized I'm just like Jessica. Want romantic gestures but reject them bc of fears. 😂😭 I personally liked this.

[@cheyennechee3540]

Yes Steve is sweet and everything, but DAMN Casey is pure gold. 💖