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@dzeelife5 жыл бұрын
I’m scared of being emotionally attached to someone but at the same time I’m scared to end up living alone my entire life..
@elephantintheroom0305 жыл бұрын
Same :(
@august70395 жыл бұрын
Literally me...
@1014perry5 жыл бұрын
We were never meant to be alone just gotta be patient in life and the right person will come around.
@mariademetriou15265 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Whopcap5 жыл бұрын
Yup same!
@LeaLikesIcecream5 жыл бұрын
That first woman seems like such a nice person :)
@Vmieee5 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing! And so pretty, too. Lovely aura.
@shriyasrivaz33695 жыл бұрын
Yeah the way she said "sure"... So sweet ❤️❤️❤️
@Booz235 жыл бұрын
LeaLikesIcecream shes so pretty
@JG-on2wx5 жыл бұрын
She reminds me of that nice and calm type of aunt or cousin that never gets into any family fights or drama, I don't know 😂💙
@See-if_I_care4 жыл бұрын
For 40...wow she looks amazing
@lorcldia5 жыл бұрын
People assume everyone has friends and I'm scared to share with them that I don't have any.
@charlenemesa19035 жыл бұрын
lorcldia I could definitely be your friend.
@ryt69405 жыл бұрын
lorcldia like honestly a lot of people don't have friends, not everyone is an extrovert. Don't worry your not .alone.
@beny-yr7vf5 жыл бұрын
Im scared to share that too but i think that they already know and thats just makes me feel ashamed and feel like shit
@frecklesandblackroses34535 жыл бұрын
I get you! Yesterday someone told me "as if you don't have friends"...well yeah I do, but they don't really care about me...they do not feel like friends...they text me once in a while (why I try to text them almost every day (and they reply 5 days later o_o)) and I only meet them about 3-4 times A YEAR, because they are living "far" away... like... they are living in my area, but we still gotta drive around 1,5 h to get there....and they all live at the same place, so they meet up while I am staying at home - alone...
@sdprz78935 жыл бұрын
Well you've got one here buddy, just message me on my instagram @arionwastaken and we can talk whenever you'd like about whatever you want. This goes to anyone who needs someone to talk to btw
@warpzoneable5 жыл бұрын
it is sooooo sad that mostly we are afraid of each other.
@wenhuber5 жыл бұрын
m sh it’s actually so crazy:(
@NoName-lp1qu5 жыл бұрын
That hit me hard
@nefelibata41905 жыл бұрын
It is sad innit
@MrsJasmyn455 жыл бұрын
M sh, mainly its because some people's intentions are not pleasant.
@feyzaoz84315 жыл бұрын
I think it is because we are hurting each other to protect ourselves if this makes sense... we are all so afraid of being hurt that we would do everything to avoid that
@MRCAVALIER345 жыл бұрын
I’m scared that I’ll never find someone who can love me as much as I’ll love them
@Cutegirl86145 жыл бұрын
This hit me hard.
@sammyjonez51925 жыл бұрын
@@empty_seat Oh no, you will find someone who loves you very much and will do everything to be with you. Maybe there is someone now too, but you didn't noticed. Your love is precious and once you find someone who loves you will be very thankful for it
@souphater64285 жыл бұрын
Same
@lolasart34085 жыл бұрын
People really do love, but are not very good at showing it. At least it looks like that to me.
@sammyjonez51925 жыл бұрын
@@lolasart3408 yes that's right. It's difficult to show it. Especially when you love someone and u aren't sure if he likes you back, but u don't want to tell him that u like him, because it could be embarrassing after that
@beewills94925 жыл бұрын
2:48 "My ethnicity.. Because I want it not to matter, but it matters." Realest shit..
@hotkebab33175 жыл бұрын
Felt that
@lee48lee685 жыл бұрын
Bee Wills -I’ve never heard anyone say that before. What exactly is she ashamed of?
@lee48lee685 жыл бұрын
Kayden Beyer -Thanks for the response. It seems so obvious now but I completely missed it.
@kavya14595 жыл бұрын
I'm scared to tell people about how I actually feel. I'm kinda sad all the time but I cover that up with very terrible humour 😂😂. But I'm scared people won't understand
@kirstymadz82345 жыл бұрын
Me too
@naisaShip5 жыл бұрын
most of them won't, but there are those who will. and I'm one of them and I wish you all the best hun♥️
@saedyespinal41135 жыл бұрын
Are you a Pisces?
@singtalklaughli89995 жыл бұрын
Same
@1014perry5 жыл бұрын
Born 2 Pizza be you! I feel the same too. But when you find a way to let it all go it makes you feel better.
@letterme75685 жыл бұрын
My fear of people secretly hating me
@Thorayaa5 жыл бұрын
I've had that fear in the past as well... I just can't stand the idea of someone hating me. Do you think it's good or bad to have that fear?
@lolgrass_21655 жыл бұрын
@@Thorayaa I don't understand this fear, my crush has it and I can see it take a toll on her
@jackien4045 жыл бұрын
For me it's not a fear. It's more like I don't appreciate people presuming things or perceiving me in a different light based off of what they hear from other people without knowing who I truly am.
@justinecallen27185 жыл бұрын
I’m scared of people talking behind my back
@bugeye87495 жыл бұрын
Pussy.
@lilianat84135 жыл бұрын
that woman is 40????!!! amazing
@islandghoul4175 жыл бұрын
Liliana Trevino she's so gorgeous
@bempomaa4895 жыл бұрын
Black Don't crack...
@jonathansjrslevmikkelsen6385 жыл бұрын
I would've guessed 50 or somewhere in the region of that
@loredanaoresnik52625 жыл бұрын
Liliana Trevino she looks much younger
@marinaschernthanner41055 жыл бұрын
She looks sooo young! Never thought of that.
@AbsoluteVuqe5 жыл бұрын
I am scared of opening up to someone about how I really feel. I feel alone and try to hide my feelings with humour.
@javierglopeztavarez40475 жыл бұрын
Wow...I feel you!!
@mariee_e5 жыл бұрын
Look up avoidant attachment!
@winaadeline83545 жыл бұрын
I feel u
@Zeke14605 жыл бұрын
Diego i know i’m late with the reply but i hope u get better at opening up. Maybe show your feelings through humor instead of hiding them with it?
@maxXxbecks5 жыл бұрын
thats not bad, humour can touch people deeply, you might try to just be more authentic to yourself and to communicate this way
@dyardsale54755 жыл бұрын
I just found this girl's channel. I keep watching.
@mariguzman77525 жыл бұрын
Dmitry S currently binging her vids
@elizabethlohman53355 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@shobikabai68793 жыл бұрын
Me too bru
@colinsacedor76503 жыл бұрын
Me too 😍
@abady5015 жыл бұрын
I'm scared of failure so I always end up doing nothing
@bootlegrascal225 жыл бұрын
MrBurnSuckers I use the fear of failure as an excuse to do nothing.
@monymir40625 жыл бұрын
It's really sad, I am sharing this feeling with you it always holding me back from doing more or trying I don't have the confidence as well
@anonimo59125 жыл бұрын
I'm from this club aswell
@lolaispure42965 жыл бұрын
@@bootlegrascal22 ur being judgemental
@Zeke14605 жыл бұрын
MrBurnSuckers same. But we all have our faults. It be like that sometimes
@jordanparks64145 жыл бұрын
I relate to the Christian boy so much. Its hard talking about something that makes you happy, and that you truly believe in, when the topic can so easily upset alot of people
@jordanparks64145 жыл бұрын
Simone McGowan I have an Instagram! @skrapboy
@jordanparks64145 жыл бұрын
Simone McGowan you too :)
@stockholmstyles5 жыл бұрын
I'm Catholic and I feel the same way, it makes me sad.
@ynkrock75 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way but I am an atheist/stronger believer in the scientific method. I think a lot comes down to the fact that I don't want to come down as preachy, so though it's something that makes me extremely happy (I'm a chemistry graduate student) I don't share the underlying belief/reasons unless I'm asked.
@grootiie47875 жыл бұрын
True, i know how it feels especially when you're surrounded by ppl who doesnt believe in Him 😭💔
@caludiapez9245 жыл бұрын
"I'm not attached to the outcome of things" 🙌🏻 I died right there
@lee48lee685 жыл бұрын
Caludia Pez -That was powerful.
@anonimo59125 жыл бұрын
Waoooowww!! Just waow!!
@MelissaLeao4 жыл бұрын
Right? Amazing!
@jac33463 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that was very well-expressed - very deep.
@gamingxsmoking30073 жыл бұрын
Just doing it and if it goes well cool and if it doesn’t go well cool. Move on.
@savannajade4455 жыл бұрын
I'm scared of showing my true self and talking about my anxiety, depression etc. I fear that I will be judged. I feel like I have to wear a mask to make others happy where in reality I'm the one who is unhappy and suffering. I want to be free and happy.
@mp-ig6zb5 жыл бұрын
I do that too. And I hate it. Having a mask on all the time.
@charlotteblx90505 жыл бұрын
Savanna Jade it's okay. put off the mask. let the sun shine on your skin. dunno how to say this but be yourself, life is short enough. it's going to be painful at the beginning but it's kinda sooo Worth it
@kayleyyes5 жыл бұрын
awe b
@kayleyyes5 жыл бұрын
Savanna Jade tip: find someone who makes you feel like sunshine & find a non toxic person promise u it will come
@kayleyyes5 жыл бұрын
as long as u spread positivity: love to ppl bcz if you’re kind kind ppl r attracted to u
@gbritto985 жыл бұрын
I felt like I could relate to at least half of these people and its funny because I think most people can but yet we all think were alone in this
@zeinm.73915 жыл бұрын
true
@goneclimbing5485 жыл бұрын
Im scared to let people know that I'm emotionally sensitive and that I'm always putting up a face to hide it
@chels47235 жыл бұрын
I have a big fear of being on my own. And not like alone in my room or something, just in life. My biggest fear is having no friends and it also pairs with my fear of people not liking me. I just wanna be luved :(
@facundorobles4475 жыл бұрын
Guess what? I was afraid of that too, now i am actually alone. It feels like shit, but it is better than being with the wrong people, so don't freak out, just get some good friends and keep them. Create high quality relationships!
@cooleex90365 жыл бұрын
I feel you but I'll tell even in your head people don't love you its actually not true at all Of course there will be people you don't vibe with and people who don't like and that's okay You will find your true friends if you don't already have and just remember that of course there people who loves you so much even you tell yourself otherwise Even people who you don't interact with that much You don't know the effect you have on people Sorry for my very bad english lol 💙
@charlotteblx90505 жыл бұрын
chelseatruman maybe just try to be who you want to be deep Inside. maybe you feel weird about it, but it's sooôo Worth it. and you will find the good persons if you Don't expect anything from anyone. just evolve, progress, attraction law. More empathy. becoming a better human, as a sense of life.
@samlouvrier20385 жыл бұрын
❤️
@lolasart34085 жыл бұрын
Just keep looking for friends, be friendly, help, you'll eventually find someome who will apreciate you for who you are and love you! Don't give up and don't be scared. We live once, make most of it!
@Cutegirl86145 жыл бұрын
I'm scared of never being loved romantically.
@lolaispure42965 жыл бұрын
Right??
@Zeke14605 жыл бұрын
You’ve got time. As long as you’re not like 100 years old, you’ve got time
@sheisbrit175 жыл бұрын
I know right?
@eshasibale62913 жыл бұрын
same here:(
@Cutegirl86143 жыл бұрын
@@Zeke1460 you are so right. Thank you.
@emmam98815 жыл бұрын
I’m scared to tell people how messed up my family is and how bad things can get
@ohwow91245 жыл бұрын
Emma M Please seek help if you need it!! Stay strong
@captainchumbuwumba58355 жыл бұрын
Emma M so am I, I'm in my 20's and only me and my significant other knows what goes on, all that I feel like I can do is just do my part
@simonavaleria58885 жыл бұрын
I have been there too, what made me open up was realizing i am not the only one with family issues, when a friend opened up to me in high school i was like oh, this is not only my secret, it is not a singular situation, it happens, people will not be totally shocked to hear about it. I am really open on the subject since then, before that basically no one knew.
@cierrafountain92465 жыл бұрын
Yeah I get this. It’s hard to find people who will understand and not see you in a different light because of what happens/has happened.
@charlotteblx90505 жыл бұрын
Emma M seek for help. talk about it ! go your own road, take care of YOURSELF because who's gonna do it if not YOU
@Jack-kf9wd4 жыл бұрын
Im scared of being misunderstood. Because of my social anxiety. I feel like it makes me seem like an offish person and i hate that it gives people the wrong impression of me. Im scared of not being liked. Im scared that if i open up to people about it that it will put them off. Im scared to carry on.
@imjustasnail5 жыл бұрын
I'm scared to show people my arms, and wear shorts in public. If you know you know :/
@el75124 жыл бұрын
Im just a snail I feel you on this one❤️ I know it's important to not be ashamed of what's on our skin, but I can't wait to get tattoos over what's on mine. Stay strong lovely, we don't know each other but we're in this together
@Pathrissia5 жыл бұрын
Afraid of not being intelligent and good enough. Feeling lonely. About parts of my past.
@itzelmayoral7294 жыл бұрын
I hear you
@Thorayaa5 жыл бұрын
Hi everyone!! In my previous comment I asked you guys to share your answer to this question... I've been reading through a lot of them and it makes me happy to see that you find my page a safe place to share what you are going through. With that being said, I want you all to know that unfortunately I'm unable to read all the comments and I feel awful because some of you have been sharing really personal experiences that I think should be acknowledged by someone. So please if any of you are having suicidal thoughts here is the number to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 and if any of you have been sexually assaulted and are looking to speak to someone, here is the number to National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 ..... If you're not looking to reach a professional I really hope you'll consider talking to someone close to you that you can trust! Lastly, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't think that I'm ignoring any of your comments
@mynameisralfbob22764 жыл бұрын
Thoraya Maronesy Please don’t ever apologize to us ever again for something like this. YOU created this “safe space” where people can get stuff off there minds with out being judged. YOU gave us a place to feel. YOU have saved countless lives already I promise you. I would know I’m one of them. Hearing people of all ages talk about this stuff actually helps a lot. It puts my mind at ease. Honestly I think humanity needed this. It’s kind of like reverse therapy if that makes sense. It makes you realize how small your own personal problems are, and at the same time realize what we need to do in our lives to enjoy our selves again. I found your chAnnel today. I think I’ve watched 12 hours nonstop. I’ve cried, I’ve laughed, I’ve remembered, but most importantly i feel. For the first time in 20 years I’m not numb! It’s truly amazing! From the bottom of my heart. THANK YOU!
@MrTimmytimmytimtim Жыл бұрын
@@mynameisralfbob2276❤
@MystehMonz6 жыл бұрын
I wish I could "not be attached to the outcome of things". That has to be the ultimate freedom. I think I'm right there with the guy not wanting to disclose his past and the upbringing in his home. While doing so can give the freedom to breathe easier, no longer being stifled by the hurtful or "shameful" things in your past, you still have to be careful with whom you share those deepest, darkest moments because so many people are judgemental and/or looking for ammunition to add to their arsenal should the relationship tide ever turn. I really liked the answer from the blonde with the black glasses about being conditioned to give an appearance everything is alright and the fear of admitting it's not and that we're a hot mess, or lost, or clueless. It's all relevant and I often feel like social media perpetuates that need to be socially successful even when we're struggling just to not fail.
@kaleysimms59095 жыл бұрын
MystehMonz it’s not just social media, but Society on a whole🤦🏾♀️
@halcyon_echo423 жыл бұрын
I'm allowing myself to finally learn piano, finally letting go of those preconceived notions of not ever being good enough, because being better than yesterday or last week is all you really remember
@yuukipuun5 жыл бұрын
I am scared to tell people that I actually am not as happy as I look... And I constantly think of death.. But I keep smiling to hide how messed up I am. ___.
@rinarodriguez42345 жыл бұрын
You are loved! You are special! You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Read Psalm 139:13 and forward. Jesus loves you! He died on the cross for our sins. ❤️ Much love to you.
@kangarushi46135 жыл бұрын
Hold On Pain Ends No but seriously. And talk to someone. There's no shame. Even if it's just a friend, or a guidance counselor. ANYONE who you know cares for you.
@stephaniescribes18005 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say that, I love your content. It's raw. Unrefined and beautiful.
@Mienarrr6 жыл бұрын
This just makes me think how important it is to be accepting of others and constantly remind yourself that other people like different things and that‘s okay. I‘m scared to share my sexuality with people, I lie to my parents about it and hide my true self inside. Also the fact that I was suicidal and go to therapy now, which helps a bit. Nobody who knows me genuinely knows, except for an ex boyfriend. I just keep it to myself, because I don‘t like showing weakness in front of others
@Thorayaa6 жыл бұрын
I completely agree! I think we'd solve a lot of problems if we were more accepting of other people and their struggles. Just from your comment alone I can tell you're a very strong person... and I know I don't know you personally but you sound pretty awesome! All your comments have made my day today! Thanks for sharing everything that you did and I'm glad you are past the suicidal thoughts. And finally, I know you're not asking for advice or anything but I just wanted to let you know that it'll get better
@Mienarrr6 жыл бұрын
Thoraya Maronesy Thank you so much ❤️ You seem like such a beautiful person inside and outside as well! Your videos made my night yesterday and really inspired me to be more myself in the future, i‘ll watch your videos from now on whenever i feel weak or lonely :) Again thank you!! you‘re awesome
@aritobias81435 жыл бұрын
I love these videos ! I literally started crying when people said they have anxiety and depression. That’s something I’m afraid to share with someone too.
@Mienarrr6 жыл бұрын
Also I want to hug the cute boy at 4:25 ❤️ I know how it feels
@Thorayaa6 жыл бұрын
Haha! Same!! :]
@graysonadams70965 жыл бұрын
Zu Zu his teeth are pretty
@lilamhk72655 жыл бұрын
I am in LOVE with him!!! Pleaaasseee what's his insta ? If he sees this.. mine is : priscillacarlota
@SnootzDog5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, he has lovely skin. :3
@tblueberry20095 жыл бұрын
He’s adorable!
@nathanjames23125 жыл бұрын
I am scared to share with people that i am unhappy with myself because i am not confident in who i am and most of the time feel mentally and emotionally unstable.
@spyYoOnJIiN4 жыл бұрын
Nathan James Do sports
@BethanyKay3 жыл бұрын
I'm scared that maybe I'm on the Truman show, or I'm the only person who actually exists and this is all an illusion, scared of losing sanity. Can't tell people that stuff... It's insane just to think about it.
@TheLatinn3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same!
@choosecarefully4082 жыл бұрын
Okay, our sound system had a glitch & didn't pick that up correctly the first time. so can you do another take?
@laylahernandez43823 жыл бұрын
i’m really proud of that man who grew up homeless & was the first to graduate college in his family, that’s really awesome
@Thorayaa6 жыл бұрын
If you're willing to share... what are you guys scared to share with people?
@genevievebatista68095 жыл бұрын
Im scared to share my trust issues with others. My mental illness makes my perspective on things warped and i often percieve normal actions as abandonment. People often stigmatize bpd and judge me when they find out. Im also scared to share that i have chronic pain, people will either say its not real or baby me
@loveforeignaccents5 жыл бұрын
That I abuse alcohol on a daily (nightly actually) basis...
@naisaShip5 жыл бұрын
that I'm afraid of never finding the love of my life and ending up alone for the rest of my life (romantically)
@beny-yr7vf5 жыл бұрын
That i don't have any friends and im alone and scared and have social anxiety and very insecure (i think they already know but still)
@HooDRidEWhiteY5 жыл бұрын
@@loveforeignaccents Im an alcoholic too. When youre ready to change, go to an AA meeting. Zero stigma and a room full of people who want to help you.
@sophielast94155 жыл бұрын
I’m scared to tell people that I was abused growing up, and also that I have hundreds of self harm scares.
@Haileyjane20044 жыл бұрын
You are so very strong🤗
@hhm47405 жыл бұрын
"I'm not attached to the outcome of things"....Miss lady I hear you all the way over here with that one!!!
@peppa_pig_4 жыл бұрын
The reason for growing anxiety and depression in this country is increasing *isolation.* We're all afraid of each other, afraid of being vulnerable and getting rejected so instead of taking actions towards starting friendships, we retreat into our minds and overthink everything. At least I do, I never approach or talk to anyone first even though others have proven me wrong in the past by approaching me first.
@crimsonfatalis96915 жыл бұрын
I'm really scared to be myself around my friends and other people. I wasn't always this way and I have this front that I put up when I'm around others. Been putting up this front since high school. Recently tho I've been trying my hardest to break that shell and truly be myself.
@shaniabaileyedmonds33735 жыл бұрын
I am scared of intimacy. I was brought here to voice it and give more awareness to it. Yikes.. this is public af but I stand behind it. Thank you for allowing these people to bring light
@AxeMeKnot5 жыл бұрын
I just listened to Laura's Playlist Investigation. Those songs are incredibly romantic. Isn't it strange how we can go to such intimate places in our own head (which, truth be told, can itself be fear-inducing, but usually is quite nice), but when faced with a real person we become paralyzed with fear.
@yessenia17316 жыл бұрын
As I walked away I thought of a better answer which is...im scared to share that I've been bullied because than people view me differently and some even judge me for not standing up for myself.
@Thorayaa6 жыл бұрын
Hi! So glad we meet and that you shared what you did- I don't think you would be judged for it... it's brave of you to share that :]
@hoi1225 жыл бұрын
Your channel is one of the first that makes videos that actually make me feel better about myself. Thank you for your contribution to the world. Thank you for showing me how many things we humans have in common, we have the same fears. You inspire me
@miked62325 жыл бұрын
I fear a number of things... Being judged for not seeing the world the way everyone around me does, the fact that the ONLY reason i'm still married is because of the damage to the kids that it would do if i left, and that I struggle so much with high functioning depression that I am on a downward spiral all the time but too many people reltly on me. Being lonely in a crowd of people you know is painful.
@Thorayaa5 жыл бұрын
If you have a suggestion for a question I should ask strangers please direct message me on Instagram: @thor.aya
@patricialovell77535 жыл бұрын
what is the hardest thing you've ever done/had to do
@goratanemaorani52905 жыл бұрын
What saves you?
@Hannah-wk8jc5 жыл бұрын
Cookies And poetry That Is a very good question, that would get some deep answers
@felixsrm33575 жыл бұрын
did your dreams come true? Can you catch them?
@HoomanthingMeetDog5 жыл бұрын
Ask people do you believe in the paranormal and why or why not?
@Josue-cv3zk5 жыл бұрын
I’m scared to let people know that I’m depressed, insecure and have anxiety, I’m anti social and I become very attached to the few people I interact with I don’t wanna be treated differently or judged
@some1055 жыл бұрын
I'm really scared of being ridiculed... I was always bullied because of my looks so I assume that's the problem. I absolutely accept the way I am but I still avoid to put myself in situations that could trigger those feelings once again. The problem is it did evolve into fear of failure in my life in general. So I have just hid from major life changing events just in fear of failing and being made fun of... for example my education. I'm 28 and still fighting to finish it as an on-and-off student.
@Thorayaa5 жыл бұрын
Hey! Thank you for sharing your answer. I wanted to reply to your comment because I connect with it on so many different levels. I think you're absolutely right, certain experiences from childhood definitely stick with us as adults and it's crazy how certain situations can trigger old unwanted feelings. I'm 28 as well and this project has pushed me to do things I never thought I would do, but fighting through it (no matter how long it takes) can result in something good. You mentioned "fighting to the finish" in your last sentence and I hope you know just how powerful that is. Struggles feel like a fight sometimes but as long as we're not giving up I don't think we're failing at all. Thank you again for you comment, take care!! :]
@some1055 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your reply :) I guess we can relate a lot and maybe that's why I pretty much have seen every one of your videos since I found your channel last week. I think your project is amazing and a VEEEERY brave thing to do specially since we are in our late twenties and I know that time for taking risks like you're doing by making videos for youtube is a much bigger issue than in our early twenties. Hope to see more of your heartwarming content. You have a fan from Portugal here. If you ever visit, send me a message and I'll help you in any way I can.
@kendyllcole52765 жыл бұрын
I'm afraid to show people my complexity upon first meeting them. I'm extremely multi-faceted.. maybe too much for my own good. I'm a very polarizing person that wraps herself in empathy, insight and intersectionality. I'm a walking paradox and that makes ppl really uncomfortable and intimidated.
@anaclara-bl4qh5 жыл бұрын
SAAAAAAAAAMEEEEEEEEE!! You described me better than I ever could. Glad to hear I'm not alone
@memrod6675 жыл бұрын
☝️
@heathertaylor28055 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@juzrhyme7124 жыл бұрын
Kendyll Cole so basically you’re fake?
@allie44715 жыл бұрын
I'm completely scarred I won't live a life full of my dreams, but every time the opportunity arises I'm too scarred to act on them
@Zeke14605 жыл бұрын
I don’t really have any dreams. Never really did. I’m just kind of happy to go wherever i can. On the other hand having no future plans is a bit annoying. I’m in college rn but idk what i want to do so my degree may end up useless if i decide i want to do something else. I guess it be like that sometimes
@danilles.42475 жыл бұрын
The woman in the beginning is so amazingly gorgeous and beautiful. Watching her talk made a smile stretch across my face.
@MrsJasmyn455 жыл бұрын
What I don't tell anyone is, when I was 14 I was raped. A person I thought was a friend set the whole thing up. When her friend attacked, I screamed for her to help, and she just started laughing. I told my brother, and he didn't believe me. And I told one of my mother's friends, and she told me I probably deserved it. That was probably the only time I've ever felt alone.
@nadialabauve8955 жыл бұрын
I am scared to share my feelings with people because I have trust issues and I care to much about what people think about me
@maiiouma5 жыл бұрын
I'm scared of telling people that I mostly don't feel comfortable around them, sometimes even friends and family, and that my personality is different when I'm alone than when being with people.
@rebeccagarcia16473 жыл бұрын
I LOVE the lady that's not scared of anything!!!! We all need to strive to be more like her!!!
@miira43165 жыл бұрын
The woman saying that she's afraid to share her ethnicity broke my heart. Especially how she kinda hid behind her smile
@ImVicBlanco5 жыл бұрын
You capture people un such a beautiful way and the outcome is just marvellous.
@jam67183 жыл бұрын
"I'm not attached to the outcome of things" But it also seemed that she was a caring person. That is very powerful.
@frecklesandblackroses34535 жыл бұрын
I am scared of being lonely - and with that I don't mean being alone. I mean something like having friends, but they never reach out to you or they are too far away. Like they just don't care about you. I am also scared of talking to people. Usually people think I am just angry or something, but actually I am just really shy and that's probably one of the reasons why I am not finding any friends in my area. Sometimes I am scared to be myself. I got bullied for 7 years and that left its scars. I am always scared of what people think about me, my looks, my behaviour... I am scared of life everyday, but death kind of frightens me even more. The list is basically endless... I try to work on all these things, but somehow I never really make it permanently. It's always just a short period of time I feel confident or happy to be on my own or able to forget my past.
@hannes17345 жыл бұрын
Girl, i can relate to you in some points, i once was very shy too. It's a long way, but dont give up, you can make it!
@frecklesandblackroses34535 жыл бұрын
@@hannes1734 Ja, ich weiß schon...es ist nur ein ewiges hin und her...danke 🤗
@lilC6665 жыл бұрын
Mir geht es auch so, ich erinnere mich nicht mehr daran, wann ich das letzte mal richtig ehrlich lange gelacht habe und nicht mehr aufhören konnte. Ich habe das Gefühl, dass ich nie wirklich Spaß habe.
@frecklesandblackroses34535 жыл бұрын
@@lilC666 Ich kenne das. Mir kommt es oft auch so vor, besonders dann, wenn es mir gerade nicht so gut geht. Betrachte ich das ganze an einem anderen Tag mit neutraler Laune ganz objektiv, sieht es wieder ganz anders aus. Ich kann nie klar und objektiv denken und mein Leben betrachten, wenn ich nicht gut bzw. normal gelaunt bin 🙈
@kumaraadi99855 жыл бұрын
I can relate all ur insecurities.. I m at the same point of life.. have no one to talk.. I m scared of making new ppl frndz.. scared that they would leave if I get attached
@xrhynx_7685 жыл бұрын
I'm scared to tell people that I may look happy but deep down I'm truly broken.
@allisonreaser95006 жыл бұрын
I’m scared to tell people how OCD I actually am... or see me actually being OCD... shhh that’s a secret. Lol but really.
@lllbby_55 жыл бұрын
Hehe I kinda have ocd to
@ferretisland29455 жыл бұрын
I've had OCD since I was 4...and I'm 42. No shame. Meds help but have never taken it fully away. You're not alone🌺
@Nye0865 жыл бұрын
"I'm not attached to the outcome of things". So simple, and yet so brilliant! I will strive for this mindset. I honestly sounds like a key to a healthy mind.
@davidgrizz62865 жыл бұрын
I’m scared to tell people of how i truly feel from the inside
@mateusgoldoni675 жыл бұрын
Everyone has a similar answer and it would be probably mine: we are all scared to share our fears
@missjabberina5 жыл бұрын
I developed anxiety after having my children & I’m scared of something happening to me & leaving my little ones without a mother ): I think about it all the time & I don’t like to share that with anyone because they’ll tell me to relax, but I’m afraid that the moment I let my guard down something bad will happen so I’m always in a constant state of awareness...
@diegovisoso4084 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being unbiased, allowing all walks of life to share in their stories.
@gigistax3 жыл бұрын
Since finding your channel, I don’t feel so alone. Thank you for this very important work that you do. 🙏🏻
@Eliszzyy5 жыл бұрын
Wow that last lady is so inspiring! I can only strive to be like her one day! Playing her on repeat!!
@-SUM1-5 жыл бұрын
I can't say because I'm too scared to share it.
@steppentofortune79345 жыл бұрын
I wish you peace 🙏
@sadypack5 жыл бұрын
You aren't a pedophile, are you?
@leirae1725 жыл бұрын
I love your channel so so much, it's incredibly inspiring. I love you for doing what you do and what you do is beautiful. Hearing other people's fears, worries , struggles thoughts,opinions etc. Makes me not feel so strange ,because there is no such thing as normal! We are all human and we are all beautiful. And your channel has helped me love myself a little more each day. Xoxo
@elsf5 жыл бұрын
I’m afraid to let people know I feel I don’t have a lot to offer and that I’m not good enough.
@efoxkitsune94935 жыл бұрын
I know it probably means little coming from a total stranger, but I want to tell you you are enough. You are the only _you_ out there, and that is worth protecting and being proud of. It's tough struggling with these thoughts, and learning to love yourself and see all your strengths can be hard work, but trust me, they are there :). I hope you learn to see all your qualities and appreciate yourself the way you deserve! You are worthy of more than you think. Wishing you all the best and sending love!
@elsf5 жыл бұрын
EFoxKitsune Thank You, I appreciate your kind words.
@cassidydeneau70765 жыл бұрын
I'm scared to share my past and the way I really feel and how I'm doing.
@agam6945 жыл бұрын
That guy at 4:25 seems like an amazing and a super nice person I wanna hug him and tell him how relatable that is
@Ankesadventures4 жыл бұрын
Thoraya you are very good at asking questions. So respectful, so sensitive. Thank you for your kind way of approaching people!!
@glaeli11844 жыл бұрын
“I’m not attached to the outcome of things” that is some seriously great point of view.
@avalawrey57455 жыл бұрын
im scared of sharing about my social anxiety and opening up about general struggles because im scared of being seen as weak again.
@thegamingwolfe10385 жыл бұрын
Im scared to let other people into my heart, i've been hurt badly by multiple ex's and im really scared that when i find my guy, that i wont be able to open up to him
@Cutegirl86145 жыл бұрын
I have this same fear.
@ahesterman795 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite channel. I can't believe it doesn't have more views...and I was excited to see it's here in San Diego! :)
@jorevanwyk85995 жыл бұрын
I'm scared to tell my parents that I won't be able to give them grandchildren biologically because of my sexuality or lack there of. I'm also only just coming to terms with it and don't know how my friends or people in my area will react as it is often seen as just being pruny or celibate or broken.
@Mini-rt8bm5 жыл бұрын
Jore Van Wyk you actually can give them kids biologically no matter your sexuality
@Fezcon5 жыл бұрын
I’m afraid to tell people that i have Aspergers because they might mistake me for a violent person because 2 school shooters were diagnosed with aspergers and quite a few people know that,so people might mistake me for a murder. It’s a constant fear that i have. I am extremely aggressive towards people so the line between murderer and aggressive will probably be blurred for the people who know about that
@savannahrose88185 жыл бұрын
I’m scared to tell certain people (depending on the situation) that I am a vegetarian, because I’m afraid that they’ll think I look down on those who eat meat. I tend to avoid it as much as possible because it has made people uncomfortable to eat around me or talk about certain things with me after it is mentioned by myself or others. I always try to say it in a way that makes people feel comfortable and loved/accepted (nonchalantly) but I can’t help the stigma that comes with it unfortunately.
@anaclara-bl4qh5 жыл бұрын
You don't have to tell people. Just live your life normally, and if someone asks you and you feel comfortable to share it, than do it :)
@maebunny52982 жыл бұрын
No one cares (coming from a vegetarian)
@natalia30835 жыл бұрын
I'm scared to to tell my friends the real reason why I don't want to invite them to my house, it is because I'm ashamed of the bad atmosphere and obvious lack of love
@JL-lf7rf4 жыл бұрын
I felt the same way... i promise it gets better
@sunnyshadowsteen60315 жыл бұрын
The guy talking about faith, I really understand that. I used to be deeply afraid that people would disregard what I had to say because they didn't like my religion or thought everything I thought was motivated by it and therefore tainted by it. I love people, and I always want to be helpful and say things that are edifying, but I was always crushed when people ignored my opinion or judged me--even judged my family by my faith.
@justice4all9775 жыл бұрын
Not attached to the outcome of things!!...genius!
@jbye2144 жыл бұрын
Justice 4All thte girl who thinks her car will breakdown anytime... so disappointing hahaha
@dreamsister4ever5 жыл бұрын
A question to ask people is could they tell a whole story in only 6 words. My six words are I Never Got To Say Goodbye.
@Zeke14605 жыл бұрын
Sad story fam. I know what that’s like. Probably not in the same way but it be like that sometimes
@halcyon_echo423 жыл бұрын
"Big smile. Conserving life. Sharing kindness."
@jonnaschuler12693 жыл бұрын
I just want to know and embrace every single individual and beautiful soul in this video I love how honest everyone is and how you immediately take them to your heart
@lauryna2615 жыл бұрын
Watching this video has made me realize how terrified I am of many things, and as a human I’m working on how I overthink everything and instead just living in the moment trying not to think too much of the out come and more about the experience
@bayburtlu69886 жыл бұрын
Nice Interviews you Do Thoraya. Its good for human to seriosly think about things like that for a moment. Keep on goin. Subscribed to your Chanel 👍
@Thorayaa6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!!! I definitely plan to keep going and hope you keep watching :]
@flubberpopcornblubber70083 жыл бұрын
@@Thorayaa can you please do more strangers share there secrets but LGBTQ+ community I subbed 👍🏽
@aprilproffer98245 жыл бұрын
Im scared to tell people i have abandonment issues because of my family leaving me and disowning me.
@annregnitue16415 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful, please keep doing what you’re doing! Xx
@marae12345 жыл бұрын
i love you videos so much i cannot even tell you how humbling and although it is a video it shows so much unity in diversity from all backrounds but also the fact that everyone has stuff so matter how big or small we all do and you can’t discount your self or other because of that
@yessenia17316 жыл бұрын
Also Ive started watching ur videos they are awesome and I'm a subscriber to stay :)
@Thorayaa6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!! It means a lot :]
@sasenrich15 жыл бұрын
No one gonna talk about that girl who looks like Vanessa Hudgens?
@keischCoversPH5 жыл бұрын
Awe glad I've found your channel vulnerability is one of my favorites being a human and just have that connection you know.
@krystal5z5 жыл бұрын
@5:11 super relatable. People tend to be afraid of being knowing about how life is going for you. It is tough to share struggles. Keep going though ✨💫
@krystalriley105 жыл бұрын
I’m scared to tell people i have no close friends because my anxiety scares me away from hanging out with people.. When i tell people they really think i’m lying cause i tell all these funny stories and the worst part is explaining it cause it’s so much deeper than just not having friends but being closed off in your own mind not having One single person to talk to...
@MelleSalome88885 жыл бұрын
That's amazing how we are similar in our fears O_O
@iamjoy8885 жыл бұрын
That's totally true, that's why I do love videos like that. Or when people sit in front of each other and share what they don't like about themselves. It creates an instant connection between them, and they get a wider perception in few seconds. It's much worthier to me than hundreds of emty, false, socially accepted, sugar-coated talks about nothing.
@pegintx5 жыл бұрын
Wow I wish I knew how to not be afraid of the outcome of things. The answer was insecurities for so many people. Good reminder to be kinder to each other.
@sirinimmakayala68185 жыл бұрын
I love your videos a lot ..more power to you girl. you inspire me to be more of myself. thank you
@tiffanyholman87385 жыл бұрын
I'm scared knowing I will die one day and not knowing when that day will be. Also knowing that when I die, peoples memories of you will fade cause they will die too one day and none of it will exist anymore. Life continues always. With or without others.
@Zeke14605 жыл бұрын
I mean yeah but your existence is remembered by the earth itself. Air had to move around you to keep moving, and that affects the atmosphere today and every day until the atmosphere itself is gone. All your footprints in the dirt packed down the ground where you walked. Maybe you even helped some trees grow that will oneday become someone’s favorite hang out spot. Just because people won’t remember who it was behind the little things doesn’t mean that you won’t be appreciated for them long after everyone forgets your name.
@kole1ful5 жыл бұрын
I'm scared to tell most of the people I know that I actually do not care for them. (I dont like or hate them, I just don't feel anything for them). I just pretend to like them when I really do not care. I've never really cared about anyone in my life before.
@ThisIsMissCheeky5 жыл бұрын
kole ivy wow that's pretty awful, I really hope I don't have anyone like you in my life.
@kole1ful5 жыл бұрын
Serene Jaamac Amen 🙏🏼
@HooDRidEWhiteY5 жыл бұрын
I feel you 100%. So many annoying coworkers and ppl in my life that I have to pretend to care about. I even remeber to ask about their kids and hobbies but in reality I dont give a flying fuck. I find it offensive for people to assume that I want to be anything other than a coworker. Like...Im PAID to be around you for 9 hours per day; Why in the world would I want to be around you outside of work!?!?!
@frecklesandblackroses34535 жыл бұрын
@Serene Jaamac Well that doesn't really make things better and his/her fear smaller you know...
@jemiman48315 жыл бұрын
I feel you, but I thinks the fact that you scared to tell maybe means that you care unconsciously
@vanara25 жыл бұрын
Agree with the second person! I’m a Christian too and it’s super hard to tell people that because I spend a lot of time worrying about what other people think.
@jaiden30825 жыл бұрын
Thoraya has made me more open-minded and respectful towards other people for are less fortunate and every night I pray that the homeless get fed and sheltered, the African get water and that there is more equipment the world Xx