What Being a Therapist is Really Like

[@gocubs1815]

I LOL'd so hard at the "reading a good book" part when you were reading the DSM 🤣

[@starticegalmore8602]

Yes I cried! Lol

[@artrayus3]

I also laughed out loud at that part. It's the little details that get me!

[@actingfan11]

As a psych undergrad, thank you SO much for covering this’ This is the closest thing I’ll get to “shadowing” a therapist until grad school.

[@Johndoe-g2w]

Agency work is intense, paperwork heavy, low paying, but very rewarding. Private practice is less paperwork and intense in a different way, but still very rewarding. It can by higher paying but you need to be comfortable with networking and taking on a more business mindset than what they teach you in grad school. Counseling is amazing and I love it, but know what your getting into before dedicating years of education and money to it.

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

So true! There are pros and cons to every type of therapy work

[@chaoticfroggo6852]

I'm a student in high school that wants to be a therapist!! I loved this way of showing what being a therapist is like through visuals. I think I got most of my questions answered, thank you!!

[@terseandtiny1746]

Yes! Running to the bathroom is a major part of it lol

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

💯

[@Malin0908]

Me in therapy after a year: Shaking, trying to be as small as possible, ready to be rolled eyes at and told to get the hell out. Working on opening up more, relaxing, but i’m always so anxious around other people.

[@markusmcschallenburger4151]

3:30 "or maybe reading a good book" - DSM-5! Ha, I love it!

[@hey.kiersten]

I literally laughed out loud when she pulled out the DSM-5!!

[@mocohospo12]

Yet another personal reflection. That killed me. 😂😂 too true.

[@alexmurphy5289]

Thank you for this. I am honestly really jealous that you knew early on what you wanted to do for a living. I’m 31 in corporate and going back to school soon to become a LPC. It’s tough switching careers so late but better than never

[@angelicadevera1992]

Good luck! U got this

[@HammyGirl999]

Im doing it at 45. So… You’re early! 🤣

[@terrancekayton007]

Psst, I’m 40 😂😂

[@holistikirsty3167]

I'm doing it at 33...it's never too late! :)

[@bignoknow]

37 and going back to school 🎉

[@paulhornbogen980]

Dealing with unexpected, planning for the remainder of the year, note taking, family, daily health, organizational dynamics-informal organization-how things are really done, But truly enjoy your humor at this field.

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

Absolutely! I had scripted several segments about family life, but it was going to be more work than I bargained for to film that so I skipped it :)

[@michellebee1117]

😂 Spot on about grad school and agency work!! The No Shows! The paperwork and trainings! 😖

[@phylliswillis1298]

I've been licensed for a year & practicing since last July... all this is True.

[@AkashicEFT]

Oh wow, thank you so much for this video. My bubble is definitely burst about a couple of things! I really really don't want to deal with insurance. And you're acting skills are on par! lol I felt this 4:53

[@mattmoore88]

I feel the comment about grad school being a place where I am doing yet another reflection paper. In my third year and those reflection papers seem silly but are so very helpful to me now

[@zachpackard]

This looked so much fun to create😆 I finally returned to school to become a therapist after all these years and I’ll attest the all nighter piece couldn’t be more accurate 😴 bravo on another gem Dr Fang👍

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

I did have fun making it! Gotta keep ourselves entertained during the pandemic somehow right?

[@cat999991]

Nice video. I have 2 speeds, fast and quick which i work before, between and after sessions and a slowed down, calm and very present speed I have during session. My clients think my job must be wonderful and easy. But that's because I work hard to create a safe and conducive environment for them. There is definitely a behind the scenes difference. 🙂

[@psichologelina]

Great video, Marie. Therapist are human too, that's the part to remember :) Today I had something fall into my right eye the second the session started and I couldn't remove it easily. It was like "yeah, I'm listening", but at the same time browsing my eye and crying. Fortunately, that didn't take very long and I managed to fix my eye :)

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

Oh no that's the worst! Glad it resolved quickly

[@starview87]

Thanks, this was super helpful for me. I just graduated with my bachelor's degree, finally, and I am working on trying to find a job. Also, I really want to get into "real counseling" as soon as possible. I know that I still have some more work. I am looking forward to the day when I get there and this made me smile!

[@joannamcameron]

You totally nailed it! So much time on hold verifying insurance.. love that my client’s get to relax and it’s not stuffy at all!

[@leanabrown7864]

I died when you said the running to the bathroom or getting a snack 🤣😂 the story of my life. I feel a lot more busier doing my private practice then when I worked in an agency but I know that is due to all the administration work that comes along with it.. as for the insurance.. I ABSOLUTELY HAVE A BILLER... I won't accept insurance without one lol.. but overall I LOVED this video! So true!

[@beccakrist96]

I am so happy you made this video. I am currently doing my degree in psychotherapy and counselling. This really took some pressure off of me. 💛💛💛💛

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

Congrats! You're doing it! Glad this was helpful :)

[@XxKatie95]

I have been a social worker for 7 years, but only recently moved to providing therapy. I'm so glad for this video! I went in cold turkey (no experience in career or internships) and am always wondering if I'm doing things right. This was very validating lol thank you!

[@deerkeeper]

Such a fun video. Extremely spot on! I particularly appreciated what you said about humor in therapy. As a therapist myself who uses lots of humor, I was beginning to think I was the only one. It's nice to be validated!

[@JustChristianThings]

Now I see why I had such bad experiences with therapists in the past if that's what they expect..Coffee with a friend? really? The whole point of going to see a therapist is getting professional help when you're struggling in life. I've tried so many therapists and they made me feel even worse! Worthless, Like I wasn't even worth their time. I was falling apart and suffering and they didn't say anything to help me. I remember them all being so cold and heartless. I had such terrible experiences so I finally gave up on therapy and never got the help I needed. Knowing how many bad therapists are out there that just want easy money makes me want to become a therapist because I genuinely want to help people so they don't have to suffer and struggle their whole life the way I did.

[@BerthaBoyd-eh9dp]

I agree I feel they just look at you, and stare waiting for you to say something else, that’s not helpful, what is therapy for?

[@КсенияЯцкив]

Thank you SO much for showing routine aspects of your work :> Because I was struggling to find any non-official but everyday life information. Your video was a treasure ❤

[@sandyzuniga1]

OMG!! As a Grad student in her last quarter and 1.5 years of practicum, in both community mental health and private practice model, I soooooo agree with everything you said!! Thank you so much for this video, I feel less worried knowing it is not just me. 😝

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

It's definitely not just you! :)

[@-AnnaAnna-]

Love this video!

[@Jana_14320]

100% accurate. Thank you for the honesty

[@ri.assure]

This was so helpful. Really appreciate the work you do. I am an undergrad rn, hoping to do a masters in counselling. I would really appreciate it if you could do a video on what you think about the diff options for masters such as thesis vs non-thesis. My university offers an M.A vs M.ed and I cant wrap my brain around which would be a good fit. Thank you for your consideration.

[@Honest000w]

I love it... Phd seems eons away. Just trying to pass my exam to get my license first! I’ll have to apply for next year🤷🏾‍♀️

[@maximus4691]

That was informative and very funny lol, thank you

[@KarmaK1984]

The paperwork overload of agency work is soooooo spot on!! It was all I did and all anyone in my life ever heard from me: ‘I’m doing paperwork’ 🤪🤪🤪 I was incredibly fortunate that I got an opportunity to leave the agency and work on a teletherapy platform in March 2020 right before things shut down (this was something I had planned since getting my license 2 months earlier - the most perfect timing!). As for insurance hassles, I just recently signed up with Headway and they do all that for me. No headache there! Thanks as always for the videos!

[@alexandrau992]

Thank you for making this video!! Can you please make one discussing life right after grad school or the path you took right after grad school? ☺️☺️

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

I have a video covering being a postdoc kzbin.info/www/bejne/faPCaqiHp8qqg6M Not sure if that's what you meant, or if you're wondering about some other aspect of life after grad school?

[@alexandrau992]

@@PrivatePracticeSkills So amazing! Thank you! I've been stressing over after grad school finding something career-wise to get me started. I just recently subscribed to you & am just starting to binge on your videos!

[@oliviaflorestal3791]

I’m so excited for my future

[@jpsmith81]

You NAILED it!!

[@AThousandWords]

Thank you for this video! It was helpful to me to see that your reality = my expectations already :)

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

That's great!

[@Enchanteralle]

This is like 99.9% accurate haha. I used to think I'd be all chill and zen at work especially in between appts, but I find myself running to the restroom because of back to back appts! Also, only 1 client in my career so far came in lying down on the sofa while talking to me. No crying though. Everyone else sat down on the sofa. I think one thing I didn't realize is that what working as a therapist is like depends on the work setting. At least in private practice, I can schedule my own breaks and balance my schedule. I've worked in settings where it's just back and back appts, force booking, working over time, doing case mgt, having to go out in the field, doing social work that is not really what I went to school for, etc. Oh I also didn't think of doing teletherapy back then and I'm doing that 100% of the time now.

[@meghanwoods1111]

Loved your video and found it so validating. The part about the time spent in agency work was especially spot on. Random question - would you be willing to give a list of the books on your bookshelf in the background? No worries if not!!!

[@GraceFilled]

Hello! This is my first time commenting but I have watched about 60% to 75% of everything you have made and I just want to say thank you!! I'm still in undergrad but it doesn't change the fact this has been so useful and encouraging!!

[@hey.kiersten]

I felt all of this - so true! Some of my clients have such a fabulous sense of humor, and I agree, I think we spend a lot more of our day laughing/joking with our clients than people would expect. I have gotten questions about what I write in my progress notes after session. It is much more boring and clinical sounding than anyone expects!

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

haha, yes to all the above! On the rare occasion when it's made sense for a client to see my notes, it's always a very anticlimactic reaction from them :) Like "wait, that's it?"

[@kpopcereal_hobismilesugaab3075]

You are so good .. Great to watch ... Yes video HELPED!!!! ME A LOT

[@enatp6448]

Yes! Nailed it 😊

[@starticegalmore8602]

This was very helpful and makes me feel so much better about how sessions go. 😂

[@duncanhaywood4624]

Thanks for the advice

[@alotofmore]

I’m starting to second guess education all together now… I understand it needs to be challenging but I doubt people actually retain readings they skim over. What’s the point?

[@dianemorelos5910]

This was all SOOO accurate!

[@pbxh6740]

“Reading a good book” and it’s the DSM. LOL.

[@tooljack4439]

Really good job on the video. Loved it!

[@englishrose4388]

Love this. So creative and true to life.

[@mycatisromeo]

I'm 43 and i could probably retire are be semi retired and work part time. Or go back to school and rack up huge debts; like $70,000+ to become a therapist, plus the money lost not working. I'm debating if its worth it. Do i want to have a debt accruing interest that may take me until my mid or late 50s to pay off? I have one of the toughest decisions of my life here to deal with.

[@paigehansen6491]

Thank you so much!

[@theawakenedheart8783]

This was hilarious Marie 😆 and thank you (have heaps of binge watching to do to catch up though). Stay well and congrats 🤰🏻🧸🎊🎇🎆

[@Wilbem01]

The bathroom part!! So true!! 😂

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

If I'm ever having trouble ending a session on time, my mind is usually thinking about the bathroom and it gives me motivation to set that boundary and come to a close. Especially while pregnant :)

[@timvanwanrooij6810]

Loved it! So accurate and brings back fond memories for myself too :) Thanks for sharing!

[@Mitchlb452]

3:30 Being in Private Practice, can't you set your own schedule? I'd imagine you wouldn't have to schedule clients so closely together....

[@froginahut7077]

Y’all I need help. It’s about anxiety. I am going in to 7th grade and I am only 11 but turning 12 in September. I am also new. I’m thinking about so much stuff like I won’t get my period when everyone else does, I will get braces 3rd year of college, I won’t be able to drive until 3rd year of college, and generally getting made fun of. I’m so nervous and scared, can someone try to make me feel better?

[@veromarie2500]

You hit it on the nail, This is so accurate, everything you said is so true! Lol 😆

[@Iammarlonbrown]

Did you apply to your PsyD program after your junior year of undergrad or once you completed your bachelors degree

[@Honest000w]

Have you done any videos on billing and insurance for pp. I do appreciate your videos 🙏🏾

[@mathilde-qq1tz]

this video was so helpful :))

[@John_II]

Really great to have a look at the practice from the therapists point of view. :) And the editing on this video must have taken forever. It's so polished.

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

You're too kind! It takes a little bit longer than when I'm just talking at the camera, but not too much longer. These are fun to make too!

[@jaxmularkey8762]

Lol this is cracking me up - funny cause it's true!

[@lizdestefano4905]

I'm not a therapist but a fan of your channel and just a curious mind! I knew you took notes but honestly I thought you guys doodled lol no joke! But The whole laying down on the couch that's how I saw therapy 😆😅🤣yep and whole well my mom......my childhood started like.......while crying! And crying lying down isn't fun or comfortable!

[@forreal2009]

so helpful

[@knHebrew]

I’m a COTA and I’d like to do trauma therapy. What is the easiest way to start this journey?

[@rachelhinva1785]

I so appreciate this video. It made me laugh remembering the differences between my expectations and what I was actually experiencing. When I was a resident in a group practice I experienced so much anxiety because I thought these things were only happening to me. I stuck with it and love private practice and encourage anyone to pursue this career.

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

I'm glad it all worked out in the end! :)

[@Manisha-ec6rk]

Nice video 👍

[@Honest000w]

The bathroom run is so me! Lol omg 😆

[@apple1hun]

Very helpful and accurate. Watching this video made me feel normal again haha Gojng into therapy thinking it was all about the client, but there’s a lot of paper work, trainings and insurance work that gets done besides seeing clients.

[@jani4011]

hello, how do you become a therapist, can you become one without going to uni?

[@samanthaallison-evans3142]

I love this video

[@InconspicuousBabyDuck]

Short pee break I definitely didn't think about🤣 we do 55 min sessions...

[@jyotishachetty5784]

What did you study ??

[@ToniRichter11]

I’ve had teen clients ask what I do. Bathroom, stretch, chug coffee, scarf down a snack. Lol. It’s very glamorous. Lol

[@andrealudwig4160]

Can i ask how much you make? I'm debating between getting my masters vs. my psyd and don't know if it is worth it.

[@aprilm1866]

She made a video about how she should have gotten her masters

[@wealthyasamindframe1946]

Unless you work with a bpd patients they will take you for an emotional rollercoaster ride .. Agency work is a tough. I don't know about anyone else but I really don't like cassi/locust scores.

[@AJ-km1hp]

THAT WAS MY EXPECTATION OF MY THERAPISTS TOO 😩

[@mhknutritionclinic5733]

OK it is crazy the similarities between my life as an outpatient dietitian and being a therapist :D

[@taylorb3084]

Loved your inclusion of laughter!!!

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

It truly is a significant part of therapy!

[@justlauren3253]

Hi! I just found your channel. I have a question. Do you actually use the techniques you were taught in grad school like CBT or do you have your own eclectic approach to therapy? I am thinking about going back to school to become a therapist but I am very spiritual and i feel like I would find myself struggling between wanting to give worldly advice and wanting to share spiritual insight. Are you allowed to share personal experiences so your clients can better relate to you or is that considered inappropriate? Thanks in advance! 🙂

[@beckyd5542]

Therapists can use self- disclosure if it's for the benefit of the client. It should be limited and to the point. I works definitely not be connecting as much with my therapist if he didn't occasionally tell me relevant stuff from his life.

[@ingridfaro7442]

brilliant

[@arnobrahee1930]

Love you

[@HeatherThomCounselling]

LOL reading the DMS during our down time 😂

[@psichologelina]

As funny as it sounds, sometimes you have to, if you need to check something about the client's symptoms - it's a part of preparing for the sessions. I do that because remembering things from DSM-V or ICD-10 is not so simple - there is no way you could memorize the content very well. :)

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

So true! But it's definitely not something I leisurely pull off the shelf in a state of boredom ;)

[@HeatherThomCounselling]

@@PrivatePracticeSkills exactly!!

[@alexanderstefanini42]

Funny and so true.

[@zachjohnson3035]

Grad school and agency work reality was 100% accurate lol

[@the_StennisFactor]

ayooooooo this video made me LAUGH so hard lol. love it

[@teresa4385]

LOL reading the DSM-5

[@Smiles2U4Ever]

lol.. you'd be super fun to have as a therapist :)

[@user-ue1jb9bt9s]

Not dsm 5 bruh

[@MariaG-xh9il]

very accurate, hehe

[@skionen1781]

I imagine myself smoking a cigar pipe and listening patiently to others lol

[@reishajack5561]

Very accurate! lol

[@PrivatePracticeSkills]

:)

[@joan5734]

God you're so beautiful! Thanks for the video

[@staciamj1]

Funny stuff.

[@kimlec3592]

Thanks for this, it put me right off ! 🤣😂🤣

[@cookiemonster3824]

Lost me at Reading a bunch of books every week😭

[@viksaggu9085]

Lots of non- billable hours lol

[@catherinerichter8317]

hahahah LOL