What Do I Do If My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore? | Paul Friedman

This is a tough one for anyone who has that feeling it can be extremely discouraging, very painful, really confusing, and really there is a lot you can do about and that's what we're going to talk about. Understand this almost 99% certainly changed that, 99.9% certainly didn't get married with the right prescription for a happy marriage. Everyone seems to get married because it's the next thing to do and/or "I met my soul mate" and/or "it's time" and/or etc. etc. missing the real reasons for getting married and it's laughable that we don't consciously consider. Wait a minute! I want to get married in order to be happier. Who doesn't? Let's take that further, I want to be happier every day of my life. I want to be with the person who really just completes my life, makes my world so much better. How does that happiness happen if you're not moving towards it? If you're not actually doing something to make that happen? Why be shocked if you're feeling like your husband doesn't love you anymore? I'm not saying it's okay but why be shocked when you haven't done anything for the second reason we get married to be in marital love to experience unconditional love that's why we get married.
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[@brittanyrothmann7536]

My heart hurts so bad my husband doesn't love me anymore. I been with him almost 12 years. How can you just write off my mother of your children? Soon as they were born I was the bad guy and invisible.

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[@MValerie444]

I understand.

[@EvilTink1_]

I’ve been with him since I was 16.we are now 46 and 45 and he has affairs on me with children hookers .Even proposed to one of them.She Blackmailed him for money and he cheated on me before .I’m begging him to get counseling ,to renew our vows and to buy a home .He’s not wanting too .

[@queenclaire9998]

I feel you. He doesnt love me anymore

[@lynettebangert4737]

Your not alone im going through this as well 💔❤️‍🩹 hang in there talk to the Lord god can help you he can help US 🙏🏼🧎🏻‍♀️

[@taja7056]

Thanks for the wonderful advice 🙏

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

I pray for those who come to us for help and pray they find it in our teachings 🙏

[@MSEAD123]

What if your husband thinks he never loved you and he should’ve never married you? Ouch, right!?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

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[@v-vettavetta]

Thank you

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Blessings!🙏

[@katykins2010]

What do I do if I still love him so much and can’t picture loving anyone else ever

[@AyakBuol21]

That's was my question

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

You keep loving him, as that is what we are supposed to do. But love is true when there are no conditions, or expectations. Learn to love from yourself, the soul.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

see the answer to Katy Elizabeth, Ayak

[@ginadavis3542]

Hi Katy! I hope you see this. My husband told me he doesn't love me. However, love is a choice. What he should have said is that he's choosing not to love me. It broke my heart, and I've decided to become the best wife ever. I'm taking it one day at a time. I stopped complaining, bickering, arguing, and reacting badly. I was doing many bad things without realizing it. And I know part of my bad reactions were because I was feeling ignored by him, but I still decided to take control of my actions and not let his bad actions influence mine. I decided I love him unconditionally, and it hurts my heart every night when I go to sleep that he still doesn't pursue me. However, I'm seeing small changes in him after 5 days of me being extremely nice and lovely with him. We can do this! 💖 I'll advise you to have a female friend who can cheer you up!

[@karinabenavides9666]

@@ginadavis3542I feel the same way and took your approach. I am seeing some changes on him and I hope he continues ❤ we can do this 😊

[@breannagayhart8963]

My husband feels we was rushed to get married.. and he said that he still loves me a little bit and how can i get that love to be alot. We been married for 6 months?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

See what we have to offer here themarriagefoundation.org/ It is not too late but think of your moment as the beginning and you can make it all shine with love. 🙏

[@nancyparra5741]

Do you also have a spanish one

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

I am sorry, not at this time.

[@humanityfirst8712]

Thanks, he says he loves me But Is not attracted to me as a girl or Precious lady any more.... Says he adores me as a kid love when I keep calling him and he recieves , but he dosent complete financial requirements, or gifts ..like not interested

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

... a man is attracted to true love, from the heart, like bees to honey. Cultivate the love in your heart for him alone (God first, of course) and he will be drawn to you, again.

[@humanityfirst8712]

@@TheMarriageFoundation okay Sir , thanks a lot and I will do apply to as you said. It was just a cloud for me that can a Spousd love be complete without romantic interest, which he has admitted many times that a Love For a Lady romantically hes not in.. Can a marriage go long with I trying to ignore this and be with him because he said he feels sad to leave and cant divorce. I gave him a free space that he can opt for any ways he feels right but he said its upto you If you think you can live without that Lady love so its okay come live with me. He is a very genrous man with all family but here he has sadly admitted many times that its being tough for me to decide, to leave him in peace and move on or live with him and try(afraid of more worst scnerios and anger.).. But Thanks Sir, I will definately try as you said. 💐❤

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

When love is truly there and manifesting there is only room for joy and more joy _🙏_

[@shroomssadow4981]

Let me give you a hint…Men rarely ever suddenly fall out of love or without warning. Chances are he has shown these signs or has said it before. Just falls on deaf ears most of the time

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

People want to know what to do, not what they should have done. Isn't that true? That is what we are here for, to give you the answer to "now what do I do?" I pray you learn from us and apply 🙏