WHAT DO MEN WANT IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? Advice for girls, women, & how to maintain an LDR!

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Cristin Cares

Cristin Cares

Күн бұрын

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@starlynatienza6479
@starlynatienza6479 2 жыл бұрын
Hello, Cristin! You just dont know how blessed I am to have found your vlogs and youtube channel. Ive been searching for this kind of content that is focused on providing LDR support most especially with a Christian perspective. Ive watched your vlog with your Filipino boyfriend. Im also from the Philippines. This vlog of yours in particular is so helpful. Feels like you are talking to me one-on-one😁. Ive found the man whom I believe the answer to my prayers. He's Christian and 16 years older.. he's 56 and im 40. We're both believe that God brought us together. We have not seen each other in person yet because of this pandemic. I can see that he's secure and at peace with our relationship but im the one who's emotionally unstable and insecure. Im afraid he'd get fed up and just break up with me. We have marriage plans already but all of these uncertainties between us make me feel insecure and its affecting our relationship already. Please give us suggestions on how we can be more creative with the way we communicate. We do prayer time and Bible study via video call daily which was his idea.. God is our Anchor and our relationship is centered in faith.. but im still struggling😔
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Starlyn! I praise God that you were able to find encouragement through this channel. I’m so touched by your kind words. 🥰🤲🏻 First, thank you for allowing me to help you with your struggles in LDR and faith.. I pray that the Lord will show you His comfort and love amidst your anxieties and worries. By the story you have shared with me, it seems like your man is a man of God (i admire that he is leading you closer to Jesus through the bible studies that he initiated) - this is a GREEN FLAG character that we all need to check when it comes to praying for our God’s Best (or suitable spouse). If you are fully confident in your boyfriend’s walk with the Lord, then you should not be worried. A Christ-centered man is a dependable man. 😌 I always tell people that if they prayed for God’s will in their relationships and both the man and the woman get a clear confirmation from God (that they should be with each other), then there’s no need to feel insecure or anxious. If God orchestrated this relationship, and if it is His will for this relationship to lead up to marriage, then NOTHING can tear it apart. 🤍 The big question is: Do you TRUST God’s sovereignty over your relationship? Sometimes our worries are caused by our lack of trust in God’s ability and power to make something happen. Maybe due to past traumas, pains, and hurts. But, we must remember that our personal history and past can never stop God’s will. Thus, if you truly believe that this man is the one God has for you, then you should be able to REST in the Lord’s promise. Don’t let your inner hurts cloud your judgment in your current situation. Yes, there will be storms in your LDR and the relationship can also have problems, but when the relationship is centered in the Lord, you can rest in knowing that it can WITHSTAND anything. ‭‭Ecclesiastes‬ ‭4:12‬ ‭ “Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” As per the recommendation or suggestions on how to be more creative in communication, you two can begin by getting more acquainted with technology and apps or websites. - I have provided here in the channel different kinds of videos that help in making LDR connection more fun so feel free to watch them on your own time! You can look under “LDR Couple Tries” or “LDR Recommended” section here in the channel. Communication can be tricky if we don’t know our partner’s love language (LL). So, i suggest to learn about each other’s specific love languages (try to understand it deeper) and then come watch my playlist called: “The Virtual Love Language” (VLL) in order for you two to be able to translate the LL’s into VLL’s while you’re not physically together. I hope this has helped you in some ways, Starlyn! I really appreciate your comment!! 💕 God bless you always and please lemme know how you two are doing after some time. ☺️ 🤍🤎 CC
@amandabotafogo5738
@amandabotafogo5738 2 жыл бұрын
Girl... You pratically described me! And that video came FOR SURE in the right moment, I need to control myself more cause I've been complaining with him a lot about he being so busy sometimes... At the same time I understand why he is busier now, my love language is quality time (his LL is acts of service) and I get sooo frustrated when he can't talk because he is hella busy, not even for a bit... it is really stressful and I recognize that sometimes we can become toxic without noticing, but I will try to work on it, control myself, do other things to keep my mind busy or whatever. About to see this video on a replay as a reminder everyday cause damn... haha but thank you
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Amanda, giiiirl! Just the fact that you already know and admit the things you need to improve on is already a sign of maturity and great love for your partner - i truly admire you for that 💕 Don’t feel discouraged whenever you make mistakes when it comes to progress because atleast you have the end goal in mind (to make your LDR a loving and healthy safe space for each other). I am rooting for you as you work on yourself!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻 I appreciate your feedback so much 🥺 I feel genuinely happy when I know i’ve been able to help someone in their journey. *BIG HUGS* 🤗🫂 You can do this!!
@zheens5749
@zheens5749 3 жыл бұрын
You're full of wisdom with sense of humor. Thanks for this tips.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you and you’re most welcome! I’m happy to share tips ☺️
@m4ny859
@m4ny859 3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I need right now! Thank you so much
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
I’m delighted to help!! You’re welcome ☺️
@SherylFontecilla
@SherylFontecilla 9 ай бұрын
It hit me. Oh my gosh. Thanks for this video. I will save it to remind myself always. God bless you
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 9 ай бұрын
Hi Sheryl! I’m glad that this video was helpful. I hope that it goes well with you. 🤲🏻 God bless you always!
@oviecarroll126
@oviecarroll126 Жыл бұрын
Wow, first time watching you and love the video production work.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I appreciate you 🤍🤲🏻
@cuzproductions5041
@cuzproductions5041 3 жыл бұрын
Waitt...I- I should have watched this video first. This is my answer! 😱😭 I need to improve in all of this. I'll give him a challenge alright 😏😏🤣🤣
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Oh yayyy! I’m glad you got your answers here 🥰 I admire your humility in saying that you need to improve on all of the points mentioned here.. It shows alot about your character 🤗 HAHAHAHA just enough challenge 😉🤎🤍
@SE-yi3es
@SE-yi3es 2 жыл бұрын
I was able to relate with everything you said. Thanks for the advices. New subscriber here.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Hello, S E! Is that your name? ☺️ I’m really glad that I was able to help in some way- thank you so much and welcome to the Care Circle!! *hug* 🫂🤍🤎🥰
@ronadelacruz9527
@ronadelacruz9527 3 жыл бұрын
Hi sis..thanks for the shout out and for answering my question..very much appreciated..keep safe & God bless always sis!,😘
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
You’re always welcome sis!! Thank you for always supporting and sending me your question! God bless always and stay safe from all the flooding there in the Philippines 🤎🤍🤗
@sunchillsehrawat5899
@sunchillsehrawat5899 2 жыл бұрын
Got all my answer...hoping positive , let's see how the things goes from now onwards.🙏🏼
@worshipandstrings
@worshipandstrings 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this. Thank you for uploading.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad to be of help! You’re most welcome 🫂🙌🏻
@JuriHanFan7
@JuriHanFan7 2 жыл бұрын
I love ur video, I would love my girlfriend to be clingy tbh. I'm in Florida & she is in the Philippines, we are going great, she's so sweet & I love her. She's a trans girl & I'm not ashamed of being with her. I love you Drizell! Forever and ever babe ❤🥰😘
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you so much!! 🙏🏻🤲🏻
@ricklegendary2990
@ricklegendary2990 2 жыл бұрын
as a man in a LDR I have to say one of the most important things I want is communicating, she's text while at work, when she gets home it's 50/50 that we even speak, she's video chatted and works alot of hours,
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
I agree! Communication is a definite MUST in LDR. I do hope that you guys will be able to figure something out to help strengthen your relationship 🤲🏻
@ricklegendary2990
@ricklegendary2990 2 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares its a roller coaster, she says she's going to call but doesn't, but loves to chat, it's pretty frustrating.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Oh man.. I’m truly sorry that you have to experience these, but have you tried telling her your frustrations? ☺️
@ricklegendary2990
@ricklegendary2990 2 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares I have, her job has her burnt out plus she's a single mother, we've invested a year into it, she's relocating supposedly in May 2023, at this point I'm pessimistic as I don't want to get my hopes up in case she can't find the employment she's seeking
@cindyhernandez6290
@cindyhernandez6290 Жыл бұрын
@Ricklevendary so did she reloacate?
@littlemissgwynn_
@littlemissgwynn_ 2 жыл бұрын
Hi ate Cristin! I'm grateful that you really care.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Alea! Aww that means alot to me 🥺💕 *big hugs*
@lukhamliugangmei2109
@lukhamliugangmei2109 2 жыл бұрын
Simple easy n hard..... Realy touch...
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, i agree 🥺
@emankhadijah1119
@emankhadijah1119 2 жыл бұрын
So helpful thanks gal I needed this
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Faith! I’m so glad to be of help to you 🥰🤲🏻
@krystalmanlangit5286
@krystalmanlangit5286 3 жыл бұрын
Love this!! Very informative😍
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Awww, i’m so glad you were able to get value from this one! 🥰 thank you so much for the feedback 🤍🤎
@Danno_A_Jyd
@Danno_A_Jyd Жыл бұрын
'WHAT DO MEN WANT IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP?' Naked pictures! [joke] All I want today is to know her thoughts and desires. When we meet in a few months I hope she will agree to marry me. I trust her to be a good girl while I'm in the USA and she has no reason to not trust me. Privacy is of no concern to me as long as she lets me know when she accessed my sites. My pinay is welcome to everything I have and when we are married I will take her everywhere I do because that pleases me. My personal challenge is to believe I am good for her. Our 30 year difference worries me. I hope she clings to me like sweat. I was married for 30 years, so I'm prepared for whatever she puts on the plate. Good video. Thank you for your efforts, Cristin.
@gilroyselgado2092
@gilroyselgado2092 3 жыл бұрын
Very informative, thanks, you made my day.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Gilroy!! Your comment definitely encouraged me 🥺🤎🤍
@marianainmilan
@marianainmilan 2 жыл бұрын
I luuuv the sassiness in this video, the confidence shows hahah but jokes aside these points are important to take note! Thank you😊
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
You are most definitely welcome! I'm so glad it has helped in some ways 🤲🏻🤍
@Henshin0101
@Henshin0101 2 жыл бұрын
As a man... This is pretty damn good 👍🏻
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for affirming! I hope this will help more couples in LDR ☺️🙌🏻
@saloniraj5632
@saloniraj5632 2 жыл бұрын
thank you friend, for making such a good content .
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Aww, you’re welcome, Saloni! I’m happy to help 🤲🏻💕
@FlordelizaQue-py6ui
@FlordelizaQue-py6ui Жыл бұрын
I love this ❤️
@CristinCares
@CristinCares Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 🤍
@elizabethwalker7747
@elizabethwalker7747 2 жыл бұрын
girl u good lol, 😂😂😂😂 I'm so guilty, forgive me Lord. thank you so much for this!
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Aww praise God! I’m so glad that it helped you in some way 🤲🏻
@elizabethwalker7747
@elizabethwalker7747 2 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares 🙂
@atemelds3548
@atemelds3548 3 жыл бұрын
wow.. why its only now I.saw.these..😞 yes trust ..
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Aww, Ate Melds I hope you’re doing okay?
@atemelds3548
@atemelds3548 3 жыл бұрын
@cristin cares.im in the process of moving on.💔💔💔💔.I am heartbroken now😞😞 he already ignored my messages in messenger and whats app.Its my fault im too suspicious.😞😢
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
🥺🫂 *big hugs I know things feel so heavy right now.. and the healing process is very difficult ❤️‍🩹 But, God is working in you. May you be encouraged with these words: Mark‬ ‭5:34‬ ‭ He said to her, “Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.” ‭‭ 🤍🤎 CC
@jabsorianoTV
@jabsorianoTV 3 жыл бұрын
Hi sis, what if you've been talking to this man for a year na then you just made it official with him a month ago but suddenly you found out something he did on the 6th mark (month) of your getting to know each other which made you doubt everything you talked about for bit? Thank you!
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Hi sis, For me, personally, it’s a red flag if the person you’re dating is hiding something important from you. Especially if that information is crucial in building a healthy & trustworthy relationship. HONESTY plays a big role in keeping LDRs strong especially when you don’t see each other very often (or at all). May i ask: When you found out the “something” - was he the one who opened up about it? Or did you find out from someone else? If you truly want to be able to have peace in your heart/mind, it’s BEST to ask him about it first before allowing yourself to overthink or to doubt your relationship. I know it’s a difficult situation to be in because you love the person, but COMMUNICATING your feelings and doubts to him will let him know how he can love you better. Hey, if you need to reach me to ask more about this and you don’t feel comfortable sharing your personal information/story here publicly, you can message me on INSTAGRAM: @cristingapasin I hope this was able to help you in some way! Take care & Merry Christmas, sweetie! 🤎🤍 CC
@jabsorianoTV
@jabsorianoTV 3 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares thank you sis! I sent you a dm on instagram. A heads up it’s gonna be so long hahahah. Thank you so much huhuhu Merrier Christmas po! 💖
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
You’re MOST welcome!! I’ll go read it now.. AWW thank you for the heads up hahaha! God bless always 🤎🤍 chat soon!
@Storyanizaeda
@Storyanizaeda 3 жыл бұрын
@@jabsorianoTV thankyou❤
@aidahh5419
@aidahh5419 3 жыл бұрын
This is really good. It made subscribe to your channel
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Aidah! You’re so kind- thank you so much and welcome to the Care Circle!! 🫂🫂🫂
@brijitarellano4628
@brijitarellano4628 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so.much for your info..i.am in a.long distance realationship..
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
You are most welcome 🤲🏻 happy to be of help! 🤍
@isatushadiajalloh4057
@isatushadiajalloh4057 3 жыл бұрын
This is very educative ❤
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Isatu! I’m so glad that it was helpful 🤍🤎
@littlemissgwynn_
@littlemissgwynn_ 2 жыл бұрын
Hello, ate Cristin! Sa tingin ko po ang easy-to-get ko, and I can't help it. I'm worried na baka kapag naging distant ako para makaramdam siya ng challenge, ma-feel niya na di ko siya need or di siya appreciated :((
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Alea! Ano yung culture niya? Minsan kasi depende din sa kung pano siya lumaki. ☺️ Wag ka muna mag-alala.. i think baka it’s better to learn more about his upbringing din muna tapos wag ka din matakot mag tanong sa kanya how you can best show your love for him. Or ask mo siya if gusto niya ng space paminsan. A healthy space is also really good for LDRs 💕 I hope this helps you! Wag ka na malungkot 🥺🫂
@EB_EAH
@EB_EAH 3 жыл бұрын
Love you. Think you for your advice
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Awww sending love your way 🤍 You’re most welcome!! 🥰
@Cap49ers
@Cap49ers Жыл бұрын
Hello Cristin, Could help me with the situation in my LDR, I am an American male and I am with a woman in China, we have been together around eight months, she always tels me how much she loves me, she went on vacation, it is the new year in China, she said she was going to a cousin, it started with her not saying a thing about her plans until the day before she was leaving, she did not tell me where she would be and did not share with me her plans, she had me think she would only be gone a day are two and she and I would not hear from her the first day, I did not hear from her for six days I ask why she hasen't contacked me and she said she had been to busy, and I was angree I let my emotions take me over and I told her she was being very rude with me and un carring so we had words and settled down, well she texted me and we were talking the she did not respond for about 20 minuts and when she did she said she was sorry her cousin call and she needed to go and be with her, then I did not hear from her the next day, I think I should break it off with her for how inconsidert she has been to me but she says her love for me has not changed and she still doesen't give me any attention, what are your your thoughts about this, thank for your time
@CristinCares
@CristinCares Жыл бұрын
Hi there! Thank you so much for taking some time to share your story and ask. I appreciate that you trust me in helping you. 1. May I ask if you’ve been able to speak via Video Call? I think there may be some things that could get lost in communication whenever it’s done through messaging/texting. Seeing your partner face-to-face in order to ask about the situation is the best option. 2. Try not to make a rash decision when you are consumed with emotion. Allow yourself some time to process what happened. And then, when you feel more calm… you can reflect and decide if breaking up is the right thing to do. 3. Is this the first time you’ve been let down by her? Or is it a series of multiple let downs (one after another)? Is it out of character for her to do what she did? Or is this her normal? 4. If she ghosts you, blocks you, avoids you, and cuts contact COMPLETELY… then, it’s safe to say that you should consider ending the relationship. Because communication is the only bridge that keeps LDRs together. Without it- there’s no relationship. But, yes. Proceed with caution.. you wouldn’t want to do step 4 if you haven’t done steps 1-3. I would personally give them AT MOST 1 week to respond. After that, I’m gone. I hope this helps!! 🤲🏻
@CoralineOceana
@CoralineOceana Жыл бұрын
How lonh the communication gap should we there in a ldr?? With a husy bf
@CristinCares
@CristinCares Жыл бұрын
It depends on his schedule, maybe you could ask his times at work as well. But, ideally not more than 3 days? Some couples talk once a week or more gaps in between, however it should be a mutual agreement. As long as it’s consistent and the communication is open. ☺️
@anniesv1051
@anniesv1051 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Christin! I watched your video by accidentally and I like it “the tips” on how to manage LDR. So far, my boyfriend is living in USA and I’m living in Asia. We are the same nationality but He’s American, so we been in LDR for 15 months and 10 days now. However recently I got upset with him about something, and I told him that I won’t disturb him anymore. In fact, it’s about 4 days already and he sent sms “I am sorry” but I didn’t reply back and wait to see whether he gives me a call or not, and he didn’t. His birthday is on 6th this month, and actually I want to surprise him with a birthday 🎂 and gift 🎁. My question to you is “ do you think I should prepare a birthday as my plan?”, “what if he doesn’t online?” I’m looking for your answers and thanks in advance 🙏
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Annie! Thank you so much for your kind words ☺️ As per your question, I think it’s best to resolve your conflict with each other first and acknowledge his apologies.. Then, talk to each other about what happened via video call so you can both clear out the issue. Open communication always helps strengthen your LDR ☺️ Then, if all is well you can start preparing your surprise!! Lastly, ask yourself this: What’s more important? This issue? Or your relationship? I hope this helps you 🤲🏻☺️ 🤍🤎 CC
@anniesv1051
@anniesv1051 3 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares thank you and I’ll try as what your suggestion. Just hope he’ll online.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
You’re most welcome! May it go well with you 🤲🏻🤍
@brijitarellano4628
@brijitarellano4628 2 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend wanted to talked everyday but i dont like...first so expensive dating site...then he wants me to vedeo while im talking still i dont like because like what i said expensive...i was thinking if he realy want to see me why he is the one vedeo call me...i am honest and sincere to him but litlle by little he realy wanted to talk to me everyday....what will i do.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Perhaps you could explain to him that you don’t have the budget or enough money to spend on the dating site and the video calls.. try to give him other options to choose from to make it easier for you 🤲🏻☺️
@danielpearson4972
@danielpearson4972 Жыл бұрын
I am in a LDR relationship. It is difficult as I want her to be honest, trustworthy and truthful. Not sure of her work and if she out partying. She is 40 no kids. Yes I bit jealous and her 7000 miles away.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares Жыл бұрын
Hello 👋🏻 were you able to tell her how you feel? ☺️
@danielpearson4972
@danielpearson4972 Жыл бұрын
Yes Cristin I did. We discuss most everything. It solidify are relationship more. After over 2 years that is the reason I am in love with her. Have not had a physical intimacy in 11 years after an attack my 5 illegals and half my skull off for 3 months and learning to walk and speak. Very worry my lower equipment not working. She told me she will help me we will practice a lot. Another reason I love her. 11 years without intimacy because I must have been waiting on her. Thanks Cristin.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares Жыл бұрын
@@danielpearson4972thank you very much for sharing your story! I hope that you two will be able to communicate these feelings with each other in a deeper way that will help build your relationship. Hopefully one day you two will meet physically and be together. ☺️
@jennofficial447
@jennofficial447 2 жыл бұрын
I need to work on all step yet. Is it too late for me ?
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
It's not too late yet.. there's hope! 🤲🏻
@jennofficial447
@jennofficial447 2 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares thank you
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
You’re most welcome 🤍 By what you have told me.. it looks like he just needs some space to calm down and for his emotions to settle. Perhaps, you can send him a message that you’re sorry and that you understand if he won’t reply.. then, just say that you will leave him alone for now (not texting him or calling him).. but, assure him that you’re going to wait for him when he’s ready to talk. Then, maybe you can check back again 1 week later? Or 3-4 days later? It’s up to you ☺️🤲🏻
@jennofficial447
@jennofficial447 2 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares Thanks for this :( im feeling so nervous like i dont understand how i feel. I have question in my mind like does he still love me? is he already seeing another woman? :( the feeling is getting into my nerve :(
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
@@jennofficial447 I know it can be uncomfortable when they don’t respond, but try not to think that far ahead… it looks to me like he was just hurt and needs time to recover. 🤲🏻
@stephaniegrande9103
@stephaniegrande9103 3 жыл бұрын
miss you cristin love love ko channel mo😊🥰❤️
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Stephanie!! *big hugs* 🫂 💕
@stephaniegrande9103
@stephaniegrande9103 3 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares 😊welcome more more vlog to come...big hugs too and congrats beh❤️👏💐🎉
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
@@stephaniegrande9103 Yes, more to come!! 🥰🤍
@zheens5749
@zheens5749 3 жыл бұрын
11:50 but what if he doesn't even asks questions to stir up the conversations?! 😣
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Have you had any chance to tell him how you feel about him not asking questions or starting conversations? ☺️
@zheens5749
@zheens5749 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I did.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
That’s good. What did he say? Did he make any changes?
@zheens5749
@zheens5749 3 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares not really.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Is this issue something you’re willing to work on with him? Or not? If yes, continue to be honest with him about your needs (so he knows how to love you better). Tell him what you want. If not, then you may have to consider letting this relationship go…
@ivyapalacio9769
@ivyapalacio9769 3 жыл бұрын
Challenge
@indiangirlypiano8431
@indiangirlypiano8431 4 жыл бұрын
Pls see my text.....i think you will get how his nature is
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 4 жыл бұрын
Got it, sweetie 🤎🤍
@MidwifeJayde
@MidwifeJayde 2 жыл бұрын
Ahh shoot…I need to do so much better!! Hopefully I haven’t ruined it!!
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
It’s not too late, Jayde! I’m hopeful for you 🤲🏻🥺
@MidwifeJayde
@MidwifeJayde 2 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares thank you! Pray for me! I’ve shared both what men and women want videos with him to help explain why I’m so anxious some days. Hopefully it will help us both understand each other. They were both so on point!
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
@@MidwifeJayde I will include you in my prayers, Jayde. Hopefully, the videos will be able to help you two process things. In the meantime I hope this will encourage you: Philippians‬ ‭4:6-7‬ ‭ “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” *big hugs* 🫂 ‭‭
@MidwifeJayde
@MidwifeJayde 2 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares thank you so much 😊
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
@@MidwifeJayde you’re most welcome 🤗🤍
@Storyanizaeda
@Storyanizaeda 3 жыл бұрын
Hi i have i question too..me and him talking for 1 year now...we talked via video call everyday but sometimes just txt when we both busy.. but the thing is were not friends in fb so i dont know what he doing or going in his daily life is that okay he said he want to introduce me to his family in person someday.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Zaeda! Thank you for asking this question ☺️ I think there are a few things we need to consider when dealing with this dilemma: •In the 1 year you guys have been together, has he given you any reason to doubt? •Does he only call you when it’s convenient for him? Or can you reach him at any time? •Is your communication fading as time passes by? Or still strong? •And lastly, when he said he wants to introduce you to his family in person someday, did he mention when? Or have you met the family online? What about his friends?
@Storyanizaeda
@Storyanizaeda 3 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares i haven't meet his family or friends online. For now our relationship is strong its just a little curious why he didn't add me on fb.and yes i can call him anytime because he work at home..hi's on vacation currently which he send me the place and i saw that hi's ex post the place 6 days ago but he is on the way not on there yet..im thinking crazy is it just a coincidence or plan..they broke up 3 years ago based on his story..but on the other side i can tell that he serious too.but when he ho somewhere and i search his ex its always near wherever he go.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
@@Storyanizaeda I see.. I think the best way to give yourself a peace of mind is to ask him why he hasn't added you on FB yet.. Just let him know that you would like to be friends with him on social media and try to speak in a calm manner as well. As per his ex being in the same or near the places he goes to.. is quite interesting. I would say ask him directly about this as well to clear out the air, but try not to assume unless you find out the truth ☺️ I hope this will help you on your next steps, Zaeda! 🤲🏻
@Storyanizaeda
@Storyanizaeda 3 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares thankyou for a good advice❤
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 3 жыл бұрын
You’re most welcome! 🤍 I hope you you’ll have more assurance when you guys talk 🤲🏻☺️
@kuro_0._.026
@kuro_0._.026 2 жыл бұрын
Overthink ?? U mean late reply ???welll my English is not good so pls anybody tell me
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Viabhavi, “overthink” is when a person spends too much time thinking about a certain issue more than normal which usually results to wrong assumptions or imaginary issues that are not present. I hope this helps!! ☺️🤲🏻
@kuro_0._.026
@kuro_0._.026 2 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares thanku 😘
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
You are most welcome! 💕
@kuro_0._.026
@kuro_0._.026 2 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares hey you know it is hard ..... 😟
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, indeed. It’s a difficult situation to be in. I hope that you two are holding on 🤝🤝🤝
@way2girly
@way2girly 7 ай бұрын
I hate dating
@way2girly
@way2girly 7 ай бұрын
So basically don’t care too much lol
@sunchillsehrawat5899
@sunchillsehrawat5899 2 жыл бұрын
Got all my answer...hoping positive , let's see how the things goes from now onwards.🙏🏼
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Sunchill! I’m glad you were able to get all that you need ☺️ I hope that all goes well for you 🤲🏻
@sunchillsehrawat5899
@sunchillsehrawat5899 2 жыл бұрын
@@CristinCares good morning ma'am....will be revising this video🤣🤣again and again.
@CristinCares
@CristinCares 2 жыл бұрын
LOL!! 🤣 you’re welcome to come back again and again 😝🙌🏻🙌🏻
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