What do you think should happen to the child’s surname after separation and only ilobolo was paid

[@hetanimhlongo8064]

Hi, I want to to sign up for the online classes starting in February 2023.

[@sizakelemyeni4819]

What if you have separated under these conditions but nothing has been discussed. The father and the family are no longer involved in the child life. What should one do. If I change the child surname and welcome the child into my family. Will I be wrong???