What does INFJ love look like?

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@jiwon5315
@jiwon5315 6 жыл бұрын
The reason why i can’t have more than 3-5 close friends is because i put a lot of effort to learn about them and remember everything they tell me. If i ever consider you as a friend, i treasure your mind and words even when we are no longer in touch.
@daveware4117
@daveware4117 5 жыл бұрын
Thats really cool
@dharmadharma3960
@dharmadharma3960 5 жыл бұрын
@The_Ghost Tiger they're the worst!
@faithhope9631
@faithhope9631 4 жыл бұрын
I totally relate to this, I have quite some friends I love but, only 3 of them are close and actually know the real me
@naziaasad785
@naziaasad785 4 жыл бұрын
@@faithhope9631 For me it's just 1. Still she don't know me entirely . She haven't seen my rage it so thinks I'm a loyal n polite human. But I'll never hesitate to cut anyone out of my life when they break my limit or be that forward to use any criticising word to my family.
@astoldbynickgerr
@astoldbynickgerr 4 жыл бұрын
I used to be like this! But then I stopped because I realized no one would ever do the same for me. But now I want to get back into it, but my memory is yikes
@shirasagi9390
@shirasagi9390 6 жыл бұрын
''it's the way that they demonstrate love : by getting inside the heads of other people and appreciating them for who they are, and listening and encouraging those people to grow'' -- absolutely.
@brookeflood5683
@brookeflood5683 5 жыл бұрын
I have been told over and over that, I can go deep really fast. Like my husband told me he was a little taken aback when we were first dating how deep I went right away (he is an INTP). I was craving for someone who could understand and listen so I may have jumped deep sooner than my usual, but what was funny was he discovered that was not my deep side at all he said. That "deep" was my surface level lol! I find that most people are unwilling to go that deep and often want to talk about day to day life things which I feel is kinda boring and meaningless for the most part. So if I find someone who is willing, I jump right in the deep end, so we waste no time with small talk to get to the deeper, meaningful stuff lol. Those are the conversations I crave and live for- that is the quality time I value, but it's quite rare.
@daveware4117
@daveware4117 5 жыл бұрын
Im the same way. Your husband is a lucky man. I would love to find a woman that could talk on a deep level. I havent meet many men that could either.
@bettye444
@bettye444 5 жыл бұрын
Brooke Flood wish you were my next door neighbor.
@denadear
@denadear 5 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, Brooke! You are speaking my language! I feel the same way. I want to get right to the nitty-gritty of a person. The superficial makes me uncomfortable. I grew up in a family that was all superficial. You weren't allowed to talk emotions or whatever. And this going deep as well as using people's body signals and cues also make me want to avoid talking on the phone. It makes me uncomfortable not knowing what they are doing on the other end. I avoid it as much as possible.
@lunastariaspiritdiva8662
@lunastariaspiritdiva8662 5 жыл бұрын
I'm Intense, and extremely way to overwhelming and deep, because I can't stand shallow small talk and chit-chat, or dating/casual flings/one night stands. Yeah, INFJs jump right into monogamous exclusive relationships pretty quickly, and then we can't stand to leave a bad relationship, so we get stuck in a stagnant rut >
@dariv5615
@dariv5615 5 жыл бұрын
@@lunastariaspiritdiva8662 I've always known I was different than my friends growing up. People think I'm weird. I love and hate the same things. I thought I was the only person like this. So much wasted time. Makes me feel a little tiny bit better that there are others out there, though I know I probably will never meet anyone.
@thewarriorsway23
@thewarriorsway23 6 жыл бұрын
I feel that no one can love me how I deserve to be loved so therefore maybe I should just be on my own for the rest of my life.
@RamonGoudeauDoneX2
@RamonGoudeauDoneX2 5 жыл бұрын
Spoken like a true infj. I have a plan all the way to living like a hermit to be alone, because I dont feel good enough or deserve love. I cant have that one person. For me. So I'll just be alone, or exchange pain for love. I feel you 1000%
@carriesmith4357
@carriesmith4357 5 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way most of the time... No one is as serious as I am about marriage.
@bettye444
@bettye444 5 жыл бұрын
Leyandra Van Sertima Sometimes we need to lower our expectations.
@carriesmith4357
@carriesmith4357 5 жыл бұрын
@@bettye444 How low should we go 😄💖😘
@bettye444
@bettye444 5 жыл бұрын
Carrie Smith Wow! I could have given the same answer. Wish we could sit down and talk face to face because this is one of those really deep questions.
@paola4uchi
@paola4uchi 7 жыл бұрын
It is very strange to people that our intentions are always literally “I just want to make you happy.” Good tip is to keep that in mind if you are dating an infj, or are curious about how you can spot their affection or if they care about you (you are that special person). It is in the moment they start digging into what you like without you asking and they come to you about it, and mimicking you. 😂 it’s so dopey. I’m an INFJ, too. So true.
@bookmouse770
@bookmouse770 6 жыл бұрын
You explained having company with Infj well, I like to talk about crazy things, serious things, painful things and comic things in a conversation with a good friend...it all just comes up. Many probably don't understand me. I have been told I am too sensitive when sometimes I can detect hostility from extended in-law family.....but I believe that those people are narcisitic manipulators and I try my best to avoid those. Sometimes I find it hard to understand myself and wonder why there are those that want to be friends with me.
@MelB868
@MelB868 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes my sister in law is mean towards me like rude towards me and has hurt my feelings
@jamessoroe5605
@jamessoroe5605 7 жыл бұрын
Great insight. It should be said that not everyone appreciates the INFJs way of showing love. It can be perceived as manufactured and maybe a bit intrusive. But many do find it refreshing that someone would care enough to actually know their deepest likes and hobbies.
@BritishJamaican777
@BritishJamaican777 6 жыл бұрын
James soroe< That's good insight and it may be seen that way because the person who is upset by it may have their own issues, are hiding something and is not happy that we can 'read' them so well. I have actually been told by someone I was dating that I make them 'feel naked' because of how well I read them, they were quite defensive with the statement and went on to gaslight me everytime I sensed a discrepancy in things they said in conversations. It turned out they were dating me whilst holding onto a relationship they claimed was over. Most honest people have been happy with the way I get to know them deeply and I have deep connections with them. The ones who complain about me 'being intrusive/manufactured (aka, fake, phoney)', usually have something to hide and know we can see their shadow self, or are emotional vampires themselves and don't want to have to return in kind, or are very immature and don't yet know themselves and are in denial about their nasty side. I have encountered them all, and I walk away from all deceivers/self-deceivers, they create too much stress and I refuse to throw my pearls to pigs and swines, knowing that they will tear me apart in return. peace
@crystalbalas9179
@crystalbalas9179 5 жыл бұрын
BritishJamaican777 Wow! This is so true for me as well. Not just romantic relationships either. Great insight. It’s nice to know I’m not alone.
@pinkpeonyy
@pinkpeonyy 7 жыл бұрын
I'm fascinated, I am just learning about this. btw, I'm a teacher, and I want to let you know, you rock at explaining all of this. I also have a BA in Psychology and I never really delved into this type of stuff until now, when it is pertaining to me and my life. I wanted to add another thing I believe INFJs pick up on that we somehow (or at least what I think I do) I'm really good at identifying/profiling based on peoples' speech, word choice, accent, roots, clothing, labels, preferred cars, shelter, etc...products, music, political views, I can really size people up, and they don't even know. not in a bad way, my brain tries to make sense of everything that happens around and inside me, it's quite exhausting tbh with you. it has led to depression, and burnout
@lisajewell7148
@lisajewell7148 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@AccidentalWarrior144
@AccidentalWarrior144 4 жыл бұрын
Dude, dudette? I actually don't know for the first time ever (I will check out your channel lol) Then please by all means size me up. Check me out on my youtube channel. I am curious to hear from a fellow INFJ their perspective because nobody seems to be able to read me. While I am asked to read people and even do psychic readings on others. I cannot for the life of me fathom myself. I can read others but not myself very well. So please check out my youtube channel if you are still alive.
@judygraessle1442
@judygraessle1442 4 жыл бұрын
You just described a man I know. He's an open minded listener who understands me better than I know myself sometimes. It's like he knows my next move and response beforehand. He's like a comic magazine and doesn't know it and a cord who keeps me grounded. He's someone I can relax with and just shoot the breeze. I love him!
@bahiyahazli3367
@bahiyahazli3367 6 жыл бұрын
True for no 1 (atleast for me, it is). People always say that I laugh to the smallest things. And every single time I reasoned back, “Ohh I just dont set a high benchmark on what funny is. Thus, every joke is funny even bad ones”
@aestheticsoul4075
@aestheticsoul4075 5 жыл бұрын
Bahiyah Azli I laughed at this and realized that I laughed of this joke which made me laugh again lol thanks bro
@eline.ps23
@eline.ps23 4 жыл бұрын
@@aestheticsoul4075 awww oh no sameee lol
@brittonybriscoe6496
@brittonybriscoe6496 6 жыл бұрын
I could probably not agree more with this. I was already thinking "Words of Affirmation, and Quality Time" before you even said it. It seems like something so easy to give, and yet very few are willing to. I suppose that makes it more worthwhile when finding someone that wholeheartedly gives those things.
@Paraboxer
@Paraboxer 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your videos, it really helped my fiance and I to understand ourselves better. We are an INFP/INFJ couple and truly found our soulmates in each other and couldn't be happier about "us" as partners.
@ispeakpeople
@ispeakpeople 7 жыл бұрын
That's fantastic, Paradoxa! I'm excited for you both. Thank you for sharing. :-)
@Rabbitromance
@Rabbitromance 7 жыл бұрын
My bf is an enfp and OMG can he lay on that charm! Words or affirmation are definitely not something I'm interested in considering how often people use pretty words to manipulate me my bf has even tried to use words to change the mood or subject or to try to get out of being responsible and each time he's floored when I call him out haha I think that's one of the reasons he fell for me. I saw him completely and even with his bad habits I love him completely, he certainly loves me for my bad habits. Acts of service are more tangible, it's something I can see and feel, it holds more weight in this world. "He really heard me" is what I think when he preforms an act of service.
@carriesmith4357
@carriesmith4357 5 жыл бұрын
I'm an awesome lover 😁💖 What I need most is your "time" and "attention..." I'm very affectionate.
@PackClickSite
@PackClickSite 7 жыл бұрын
This really resonates with my approach to giving and receiving love. Affirmation and quality time (along with consistency) because that brings a sense of safety and comfort. I found out I'm an INFJ a couple of months ago, and finding these videos has been extremely helpful. Thank you!
@RubyRobbins88
@RubyRobbins88 6 жыл бұрын
My ENFP friend makes me feel loved. I really love spending time with her because we have a healthy relationship. There are not very many people I feel this way with. You are going to have to be a very special person if I want to spend lots of time with you.
@ytaylor1434
@ytaylor1434 7 жыл бұрын
You are a sweet husband
@jamesjosephkeating7687
@jamesjosephkeating7687 6 жыл бұрын
For such a rare personality a lot of folks claim it . I’m starting to like the fact I scored infj I’m a disabled veteran and took test at VA . Thank you for your knowledge.
@Sweetest13Poison
@Sweetest13Poison 4 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best INFJ videos I’ve seen. Thank you for approaching the topics of giving and receiving love.
@TarkMcCoy
@TarkMcCoy 7 жыл бұрын
I disagree about INFJs tending towards Affirming words and Touch being a dominant love language. Affirmation smells like BS to intuitives, and Touch takes a bit of time to be comfortable with. If you REALLY want to impress an INFJ you need to show the rubber hitting the road, so to speak: Acts of Service.
@Rabbitromance
@Rabbitromance 7 жыл бұрын
Tark McCoy OMG THANK YOU I was like hmm words are very pretty but one of my favorite sayings "actions speak louder then words" I almost thought maybe I'm not an infj? I suppose only time will tell I certainly don't feel rare just lonely but I don't blame humanity for that although I wonder why so many are the way they are.
@richm3838
@richm3838 7 жыл бұрын
I agree with you Tark,the rubber has to hit the road,no games,no BS,get to the point and be honest.We will know if you're lying to us.
@nursewriter
@nursewriter 6 жыл бұрын
As for myself, I disagree about acts of service. Need to sense emotional connection and words help get there.
@VuongNgocHieu99
@VuongNgocHieu99 6 жыл бұрын
Definetly .action speak louder than word . Infj can see through word . And most of the time word can be acted out and be use to manipulate .
@VuongNgocHieu99
@VuongNgocHieu99 6 жыл бұрын
word need to go along with action . It doesn' have to be obvious action , or something really special . As long as its true and not fake .
@vicariousgamer2871
@vicariousgamer2871 7 жыл бұрын
I always figured that everyone else was the same way, they just had to be ? It is sad learning that there are only 2%. Do INFJ's get along with one another ? Do I know another ? Damn... Back inside my head I go.
@phoenixevanidus
@phoenixevanidus 6 жыл бұрын
I think it really depends on what the other INFJ is passionate about/their moral compass and if they've gone too far in one direction or the other. After all, both Ghandi and Hitler were supposed to be INFJ. INFJs might understand each other's processes and motivations, but that doesn't guarantee compatibility.
@VuongNgocHieu99
@VuongNgocHieu99 6 жыл бұрын
I would shay infj and intj is a great duo .
@kaliahlittle9557
@kaliahlittle9557 5 жыл бұрын
INFJ here and I have quality time as my highest love language and words of affirmation is last for me but I do agree that I am very sensitive to how people use word to uplift or appreciate people but if you want to show me you love me it’s quality time and physical touch.
@daughterofsarah2793
@daughterofsarah2793 2 жыл бұрын
I took the love test and as an INFJ my results where Act of Service and Words of Affirmation almost at 50/50. I really struggled with one question that posed a scenario of which one was important and both where equally important to me. So I had to break it down, " If you love me, then your actions would reflect that", however, I do feel extremely inspired and motivated when a person speaks highly to and of me. It lets me know that I am doing something right and it encourages me to continue. Quality time was the third and Gifts where the last.
@ispeakpeople
@ispeakpeople 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@skrimpshidy
@skrimpshidy 5 жыл бұрын
My INFJ didn’t make time for me. She even viewed my kind words and support as lies and manipulation. The only thing I ever asked was to spend time with her. Nope! She would rather me be hurt than make any time at all. Edited to add. I’m INFJ myself.
@heyyou3609
@heyyou3609 5 жыл бұрын
that sounds like maybe past trauma..
@Duncan984
@Duncan984 7 жыл бұрын
Affirming words and Touch are mine. Love being an INFJ
@777newworldlove
@777newworldlove 7 жыл бұрын
As an INFJ & HSP Empath I do not do human romantic love. It's a waste of my time and energy. I much prefer being ALONE compared to being around other humans. My cat is amazing company and gives ample unconditional love, unlike people.
@777newworldlove
@777newworldlove 7 жыл бұрын
Suzanne Pin. Thanks, but I find most human personal relationships turn out to be unhealthy. I use to crave a partner but now I realise I like living alone more than I do with a partner in my home. I think since I have found a connection with the universal energy through meditation I no longer crave romantic or sexual relationships.
@tgaw9659
@tgaw9659 6 жыл бұрын
Just don't sleep with your cat
@ina1815
@ina1815 5 жыл бұрын
I am the same exact way 🙂 I do want to find others worthy of my love. No more projects that need fixing though
@kylenz3140
@kylenz3140 6 жыл бұрын
I've been hurt so much ,I cant trust anymore
@annabellefritz3647
@annabellefritz3647 5 жыл бұрын
Awww.. beaming you Love 💗
@ina1815
@ina1815 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@srs1659
@srs1659 5 жыл бұрын
Kyle Gosnell I hear you. You can always trust yourself.
@Ariel-ou2rr
@Ariel-ou2rr 7 жыл бұрын
This man hardly ever blinks.
@HeathifyMyLife
@HeathifyMyLife 7 жыл бұрын
I would love to have Infj's friends 🙏💙
@cameronmarshall9918
@cameronmarshall9918 7 жыл бұрын
Healthify My Life Be my friend then! We can talk about universal law an things 99 % of the world could care less about. You'll be running within the first half an hour..
@WhyAreUReadingMyName
@WhyAreUReadingMyName 6 жыл бұрын
cameron marshall sounds fun though
@joshuamckinley4187
@joshuamckinley4187 6 жыл бұрын
Ill be your friend. :) I'm an INFJ
@inhouseadmin9192
@inhouseadmin9192 5 жыл бұрын
Right here baby
@Mikearoniandcheese
@Mikearoniandcheese 4 жыл бұрын
Zoraida what is your personality type? If I let you in don't break anything.
@jamespurcer3730
@jamespurcer3730 5 жыл бұрын
I tried to love the way an INFJ loves, but every time, I was used, misused, abused, abandoned, discarded, and neglected. I stopped trying to please people and I am now very skeptical that a woman's love can be based on a man's character rather than his wealth and status. I'm pretty sure that I'm right about this.
@EmeraldEdge72
@EmeraldEdge72 4 жыл бұрын
For some it is like that, but you're going to have to dive into some deep research on that. It is easier to just think of their love as temporary as the moment in her mind she fancies someone else, she is no longer in a relationship with you even if she is standing right next to you. It is far easier to invest in yourself and do not invest too much into them, this way you are hurt less or not at all should things go awry or there's a breakup. Not saying they are all like this just most are and people tend to be products of their environment and will copy the other dominant behaviours even if they are bad. Do your own research into their behaviour!
@andir8119
@andir8119 4 жыл бұрын
James Purcer Don't let yourself be turned into a narcissist by narcissistic abuse. Don't make the same mistake they are making everyday. Even if you get hurt, it's worth because you can love!!
@jamespurcer3730
@jamespurcer3730 4 жыл бұрын
@@andir8119 I am hurt, but I'm not a narc. I'm INFJ, as thick as it gets. When I judge, it means that I have reached a conclusion, and from there, I stand resolute. I have much to say, and somewhat to teach, but nobody cares - fuckit.
@blogoosfera
@blogoosfera 5 жыл бұрын
5:49 I totally agree about "quality time" and "words of affirmation"!
@toriak4720
@toriak4720 6 жыл бұрын
I immediately notice wording, mannerisms in detail. I analyze everything. Especially I, and we. I do like everyone to be happy, and can pick up on people's feelings easily. I can usually guess things about them accurately.
@Intuitioncalling
@Intuitioncalling 4 жыл бұрын
No one can love an infj the way he/she deserves and that’s a fact
@lanitheromp7267
@lanitheromp7267 5 жыл бұрын
Agree 100% with you, when I met a new person ... i always listen very careful to what they have to say .. the don'ts and the likes, the color they love and any other thing which make them happy. i'm already happy in my own skin ....... but there are millions of people outside there who are very unhappy people and they need an INFJ in their lives! What i don't like is the touching - don't touch ... there are other ways to show love and faction without touch. we are good people but don't push us in the wrong way .... nope not good.
@13victoriasecret
@13victoriasecret 7 жыл бұрын
Great video!!! Thank you for all you do for “us”!!!!!! 😘😘😘
@lindsaycarlson2986
@lindsaycarlson2986 6 жыл бұрын
My favorite love language is words of affirmation. ☺️💜
@piano6142
@piano6142 7 жыл бұрын
This is so spot on! :) Thanks for your wonderful work! :)
@ispeakpeople
@ispeakpeople 7 жыл бұрын
So glad you're finding it helpful! Thanks for sharing!
@jeremiahwilson3873
@jeremiahwilson3873 7 жыл бұрын
This is spot on. Great job!
@ispeakpeople
@ispeakpeople 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Jeremiah!
@sarahlang7724
@sarahlang7724 7 жыл бұрын
Loved the video thank you so much everything that you said was just perfect!😇🙏
@ispeakpeople
@ispeakpeople 7 жыл бұрын
Glad you could relate, Fatima! :-)
@eaglefit8239
@eaglefit8239 5 жыл бұрын
I have a new INFJ friend and am interested in learning how to connect with him .. this was helpful!
@heathalee
@heathalee 5 жыл бұрын
Quality time is the one thing i want most from others and its the last thing they want to give. It doesnt have to be a lot of time but timecwell spent with attentativeness.
@RamonGoudeauDoneX2
@RamonGoudeauDoneX2 5 жыл бұрын
Show me love and tell me the world won't burn down if I dont give you my life right this moment.
@elvenafae
@elvenafae 7 жыл бұрын
I’m sharing this video and a few others of yours to my husband, an INTJ. So he can just understand a little deeper of what I talk about with our relationship
@ispeakpeople
@ispeakpeople 7 жыл бұрын
Glad you found them helpful. I hope they serve you all. :-)
@saranox7319
@saranox7319 4 жыл бұрын
#1: quality time #2: words of affirmation I show love in all 5 love languages, my INFP friend loves words of affirmations.
@robynmajors
@robynmajors 6 жыл бұрын
I am an INFJ and I am an Empath. (I feel others feelings as my own and sometimes their physical pain) Do you think all INfJ are Empathic to somedegree? Love and light Robyn Majors
@alinahMQuantum
@alinahMQuantum 5 жыл бұрын
Same here. Many if not all INFJs are empath.
@jeffabney2624
@jeffabney2624 5 жыл бұрын
I am an infj, and empath and have Rh negative bloodline
@JackieKay11
@JackieKay11 5 жыл бұрын
Jeff Abney I’m Rh- too, very sensitive and empathic and wondered how common that is within INFJ ....
@REV1517
@REV1517 5 жыл бұрын
INFJ all have some level of empath. Some have a higher level then others depending on other factors. I am a INJF and I was born on November 11 so I am very sensitive to people, animals and other things that I don't fully understand yet. It is about the journey not the end result I keep telling myself.
@EmeraldEdge72
@EmeraldEdge72 4 жыл бұрын
The answer is YES! If not some varying levels or degrees.
@Efi_C
@Efi_C 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks :) I'm an infp and my boyfriend is an infj :) was just watching some infp videos lol but then I saw some infj ones and thought I should watch this too
@ispeakpeople
@ispeakpeople 7 жыл бұрын
Awesome! You will be well-equipped. :-)
@Efi_C
@Efi_C 7 жыл бұрын
did you mean he is INFJ? my bf is an INFJ, I am the INFP lol, he can be little brooding sometimes yes
@PatriciaPereira-gp5pj
@PatriciaPereira-gp5pj 6 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFP too and I fell in love with an INFJ, but I do not know if it is reciprocal. He sends me mixed signals, for example: He is super extroverted, with many bad jokes when we talk face-to-face, but suddenly he gets serious and shy and avoid to look at me. Many friends of mine have seen him staring at me, but he hardly ever starts the conversation. When he texting me is very formal. Help me!
@MelB868
@MelB868 4 жыл бұрын
What do you mean by bad jokes? Are they dirty jokes or are they jokes are really not that funny and you think yeah that’s a dad joke for sure
@aliciamederos100
@aliciamederos100 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your good advice.i love an infj and these is very helpfull to understand him better.
@ramisen7964
@ramisen7964 5 жыл бұрын
Yes supporting the other person whatever they are doing
@pinkpeonyy
@pinkpeonyy 7 жыл бұрын
thank you for the validation!!!
@DesiLu4Life
@DesiLu4Life 6 жыл бұрын
Really helpful video. Thanks!
@ispeakpeople
@ispeakpeople 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome! You're welcome, Desiree!
@brigittevalerio2453
@brigittevalerio2453 5 жыл бұрын
Hello INFJs! I am also one of the rare pack and I’d love to make friends like minded! I am a special educator and nature and animal lover ... didI day empath as well?! 💜🌻🐝
@RamonGoudeauDoneX2
@RamonGoudeauDoneX2 5 жыл бұрын
Natural qualities of us.... hi
@thebudkellyfiles
@thebudkellyfiles 6 жыл бұрын
Very correct in my life experience. Thanks.
@AnjLove01
@AnjLove01 5 жыл бұрын
I relate esp to what you say on the 4th question of why we receive love ... 😉
@cassidyv6355
@cassidyv6355 6 жыл бұрын
spot on, mr. bo!
@bettye444
@bettye444 5 жыл бұрын
I have an MSW and worked for a state agency as a Medical SW. How many INFJs go into this or Psyc?
@deltaradiance9034
@deltaradiance9034 3 жыл бұрын
If you are an INFJ now in South Africa living in Pretoria please Hola let's meet
@P03ticJustice
@P03ticJustice 3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy I guess the 2 love languages before he said them
@Notthatguy23
@Notthatguy23 2 жыл бұрын
Long ago i met an infj and she stayed in my thoughts a long time before i realized i simply wanted to meet someone like her now that im an adult. Can an enfp meet an infj realistically these days?
@ana-marijasakac3426
@ana-marijasakac3426 7 жыл бұрын
This is totally true for me :)
@ispeakpeople
@ispeakpeople 7 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@robertallain8966
@robertallain8966 7 жыл бұрын
then I would love to meet you as I am exactly what this video said . reply here lol... 48 single Alaskan man no kids and debt free
@TrueSkoolMusic
@TrueSkoolMusic 5 жыл бұрын
recently found out i am INfj. . .. . .would 2- infjs be a good relationship. or what personality would work great or are we just ment to be misunderstood?
@mariamkinen8036
@mariamkinen8036 4 жыл бұрын
It is once in a lifetime. Sense of humour is the key. A bit fatalistic, but not totally. I don't quite follow you about this.
@cablo503
@cablo503 4 жыл бұрын
Funny... As an INFJ I have Touch and Words of affirmation as my top ones, I honestly don't know if there is a lot of correlation between The five love languages, and Myers Briggs. I've seen INfJ's for instance that have gifts as the top, ones with acts of service, or like mine, or what the maker of the video said. I base it on what my mom said, that the love languages that you have might reflect what you didn't have as a child. Mom is an INTJ pretty sure...
@gabrielbahat9107
@gabrielbahat9107 5 жыл бұрын
That’s me!
@ametrineambrosia4929
@ametrineambrosia4929 7 жыл бұрын
Very accurate!
@peterpaul3166
@peterpaul3166 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks subed
@dbst5136
@dbst5136 5 жыл бұрын
If an infj is a compassionate person and they hate conflict or violence then how can they say Hitler was an infj?
@flamingsword777
@flamingsword777 5 жыл бұрын
Because he worked the negative polarity of his personality.....
@somebodysomeone453
@somebodysomeone453 4 жыл бұрын
Cause Ni (introverted intuition) is going deep into a subject, a cause and his cause was the German people so he thought he was doing good for them (Fe) but didn't see the whole picture anymore so the bad he was doing to other people :(
@liabw05
@liabw05 Жыл бұрын
Because he was psychotic and had the dark triad…
@claudiamanta1943
@claudiamanta1943 Жыл бұрын
I am not sure about the ‘getting inside your lover’s head’. It’s their private place. Trying to understand him/her, yes, definitely. I don’t want to love my idea of him/her, but the real person as they are. Sometimes (many times… all the time, actually) I wish I didn’t ‘know’ so much about the other. I don’t probe, I just know (I can’t even explain it). I can and do actively probe like a silent interrogator if I smell deceit. As I am mostly right, I can and will hit them hard in their softest and most hidden spot- if they feign love or care in order to manipulate me. Love. My definition is different from the majority’s. Most are seeking their gratification first. Even when they help you, they derive something for them; I guess it’s natural. And yes, I do believe in putting yourself aside for a minute and just be there for the other without losing yourself. I’m not sure that I appreciate words of affirmation. I know pretty well my qualities (and defects), therefore the words of affirmation (providing they’re honest) either miss the point or they’re not good enough 😄 Gifts? Yes and no. I prefer someone to surprise me with a small chocolate they put in the shopping trolley when they did the food shopping than an expensive gift that feels contrived. I love flowers, though ☺️ but, then again, if the energy is not right, they don’t smell nice and they literally either don’t open fully or wither away very quickly. It’s the energy- I feel it when somebody cooks for us/me; foods taste differently when cooked with love or carelessly. Quality time is important but not essential. Everybody is busy. A single minute of really BEING with someone suffices. Touch… it depends on many things, but touch NEVER lies. Never- ever. It’s the raw energy that one cannot manipulate. I have received many hugs that were dishonest, I know how they feel. Not to embarrass the other, I had to pretend I didn’t know, but it hurt a lot. A lot. A lot. I know more about how I love than how I receive love. I haven’t had much of it. Not many can be so in tune with themselves and caring for the other. Oh, well… my favourite rationalisation is that it’s quality not quantity that matters. And I need to trust the other- if trust is not there, the relationship cannot work, it’s a no-go from the very start. In my books, trust cannot be restored- once gone, it’s gone forever.
@jamesjosephkeating4th569
@jamesjosephkeating4th569 5 жыл бұрын
Thank u brother
@ametrineambrosia4929
@ametrineambrosia4929 7 жыл бұрын
What are your thoughts on an INFJ with an INTJ as is my case? think it's incredibly deep.
@chinocao3881
@chinocao3881 5 жыл бұрын
Im curious... how tall are you?
@RamonGoudeauDoneX2
@RamonGoudeauDoneX2 5 жыл бұрын
As I read through the comments, so many are not even close to infj, and others clearly aren't, based on the type of attack: sideways and slick, or direct. Not us on either account.
@vanessativa2418
@vanessativa2418 6 жыл бұрын
Spot on
@zitto1107
@zitto1107 6 жыл бұрын
Dude. I feel like if you can talk like 2x speed. There will be more subscribes of his channel.
@ina1815
@ina1815 5 жыл бұрын
Zittosaurus 1998 Just change the speed yourself
@kimberliebyington5245
@kimberliebyington5245 5 жыл бұрын
Vibes
@Wwcnwo3n498cn
@Wwcnwo3n498cn 5 жыл бұрын
What is with all this categorization and obsession with labeling ourselves and others? Sounds sad to me, a whole lotta desperately insecure people needing to tag and put everyone into boxes. I don't approve of this shit
@weareonebrain1610
@weareonebrain1610 5 жыл бұрын
Jimini Krickit guess that is just a typical infj comment...I think exactly the same.The shit is realy weird but i see myself in too much of all this and start to believe!
@heyyou3609
@heyyou3609 5 жыл бұрын
It's not about labeling ourselves as much as it is trying to understand ourselves.. I felt alienated my whole life and as if I'm impossible to be understood no matter how hard I tried to explain myself to some people, so to actually realize that it depends on the personality types and that there are other people like me in this world with whom I might feel understood (INFJs and other personality types that match INFJs) is reassuring.. Life is already hard enough inside our heads and around us, there's no shame in trying to understand it a bit better
@christian1172-z9e
@christian1172-z9e Жыл бұрын
I think you’re reading motives Rather quickly here. Scientists label concepts because it is easier to talk about those concepts. In the same way, INFJs tend to be the scientists of psychology. They already naturally see the concepts. This gives them vocabulary to think and talk about the concepts easily. As far as categorizing goes, yeah, INFJs are abstract thinkers and value accuracy. Therefore they tend toward spending a lot of time categorizing abstract ideas into a “file system”.
@ronalddeem8154
@ronalddeem8154 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯😎😎👍🏻👍🏼
@Videoworl-p6y
@Videoworl-p6y 4 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@vicjr1910
@vicjr1910 7 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up
@steventhury8366
@steventhury8366 5 жыл бұрын
I don't know......You sound like you are describing a typical human being.
@wondon5997
@wondon5997 4 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯❤️❤️👍🏻👍🏿👍🏾
@egyptnz27
@egyptnz27 7 жыл бұрын
💯
@dancercarla1976
@dancercarla1976 3 жыл бұрын
👍
@rubyanaya4083
@rubyanaya4083 5 жыл бұрын
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@ravindernath2472
@ravindernath2472 5 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@AccidentalWarrior144
@AccidentalWarrior144 4 жыл бұрын
In constipated ways. Joke. Also I never forget, Ever.
@nickmoutevelidis9975
@nickmoutevelidis9975 6 жыл бұрын
Why ? Healtfy y life
@raojhanzaib627
@raojhanzaib627 2 жыл бұрын
🇵🇰
@nnnnnnnnnnn7292
@nnnnnnnnnnn7292 7 жыл бұрын
You are not an INFJ mate. You are describing a nice person. Some features are of INFJ. But you are not the one.
@heyyou3609
@heyyou3609 5 жыл бұрын
A nice person won't necessarily want to know your deepest secrets and desires and connect with you on a deeper level like an INFJ would
@tarugardiner4287
@tarugardiner4287 2 жыл бұрын
What a joke ! Love ? Yuk ! You will only get hurt , my advise is don't go there , you will only be disappointed , they just want to control you and use you .
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