What Does Queer Really Mean?

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"I thought that my confusion with my presentation was me just trying to fit into one of those boxes." This is what it really means to be queer.
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@SeventeenMagazine
@SeventeenMagazine 4 жыл бұрын
What does being queer mean to you?
@the_goldfish_god6897
@the_goldfish_god6897 4 жыл бұрын
It means I can be my self without knowing what and who I am
@jessdelasouza
@jessdelasouza 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t have a perfect definition and people can help me out, Queer people love people for who they are no matter what their significant other decides to label themselves under the umbrella of sex, gender, presentation, sexual orientation etc. straight, trans, gender fluid, pansexual, etc. Sometimes people are born with a sexual organ that does or doesn’t fit their outlook of themselves example an individual who identifies themselves as a woman as XXY and was born with a penis etc. The possibilities are endless. There is a really interesting documentary I watched in Netflix of babies born with a different sexual organ and parents ultimately end up deciding for their child by proceeding to have then operated without the child’s consent and down the line the child ends up growing up feeling like their the opposite sex or gender
@ileanarias
@ileanarias 4 жыл бұрын
Recognize the complexity and fluidity of human sexuality. Embrace the need to love, and build relationships and identities beyond labels.
@ileanarias
@ileanarias 4 жыл бұрын
@@turnipspickled9192 It's okay... Frustration is normal when someone can't understand why he can't impose his points of view. But welI, I had to answer because maybe someone who is searching will read this and find we are not all emotionally constipated, and maybe, this person needs to remember how valuable every human is, with or without label... And I sincerely hope, someday you get the courage to find yourself by questioning your own prejudices instead of trying to impose them 😉.
@ileanarias
@ileanarias 4 жыл бұрын
@@turnipspickled9192 By the way, I'm not condescending. I really think I always should answer in good terms and explain because obviously, it's hard to know how other people think and feel if we don't say it. But you repeated it two or three times, so it sounds like an obsession. So, that was your point? ... You feel you have to say in all places how "only exist" heterosexuals, bisexuals and homosexuals because you feel we are dumb and you have to enlight us?.. Mmm... You know "queer" is not new right? You should read about Queer Theory, even the identities you accept today are recognized with a lot of help of it.
@rowanmunroe3382
@rowanmunroe3382 4 жыл бұрын
so basically, "I hate all these labels so I made a new label to separate me from labels"
@beingmary-ann9104
@beingmary-ann9104 4 жыл бұрын
Basically 👌🤣
@jasper823
@jasper823 4 жыл бұрын
Hating labels, so create your own basically
@burburfrozen5737
@burburfrozen5737 4 жыл бұрын
so its like pansexuality but like different name? I dont understand omg
@ileanarias
@ileanarias 4 жыл бұрын
​@@burburfrozen5737 Not really. This is a word that allows people to say they don't fit the heteronormative, even if they don't find themselves in one of the sexual identities we recognize today, due to their fluidity or other reasons. This is useful because it helps them to make a statement and reminds us how colorful humanity is.
@bamboozledtree6803
@bamboozledtree6803 4 жыл бұрын
Yea it basically is a label for "no labels" it's pretty necessary for me because when people come up to me and asked what my sexuality is, I don't have to come up with a thousand word essay on describing how my sexuality sometimes fluctuates and just tell them that I'm "queer" and if they need further explanations, just ask them to look up Google or just give them a link to an article about the label 'queer' or a link to this video. It's efficient, it saves time and I don't need the whole conversation to be awkwardly only about me
@asiabawse
@asiabawse 7 жыл бұрын
i still don't understand it..
@swedcuck6917
@swedcuck6917 6 жыл бұрын
It means they're in the middle somewhat. They're somewhat gay but not entirely, it's a bit confusiong, I had to search it up too because the video didn't explain it.
@camidanielix2529
@camidanielix2529 6 жыл бұрын
I'm asia same
@mossymoths2742
@mossymoths2742 6 жыл бұрын
I'm asia Im currently reading a book about what queer means and in the beginning they say that summon it up to that queer can mean a bunch of different things. Its not suppose to have a single defined label but is there to twist our sense of what is normal and what is not and that it basically means different and going against the norm(Kinda). Defining the word would kinda ruin its meaning?
@KennethHuntington1
@KennethHuntington1 6 жыл бұрын
I'm not super educated on the matter but to my understanding queer simply means not submitting to society's gender binary. It's important to understand that sex and gender are completely different thing
@kennyxsd
@kennyxsd 6 жыл бұрын
Haha makes no sense!
@valenciay4592
@valenciay4592 6 жыл бұрын
I think queer is when you know you're on the spectrum but you don't really want to label yourself
@edwardmiessner6502
@edwardmiessner6502 6 жыл бұрын
Queer is also an umbrella term for the whole LGBTQ+ community.
@tinakrisnaibot3233
@tinakrisnaibot3233 4 жыл бұрын
Yup basically bisexuality
@tinakrisnaibot3233
@tinakrisnaibot3233 4 жыл бұрын
@@polygentle5679 yes, it is
@gjk-arts5855
@gjk-arts5855 4 жыл бұрын
tinakris naibot bisexuality is loving 2 genders (mostly males and females)
@JeskaRain
@JeskaRain 4 жыл бұрын
"What are you?" - yes.
@shokosketches
@shokosketches 4 жыл бұрын
XD
@jesusmaria.paraguay
@jesusmaria.paraguay 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭
@freezefrvme
@freezefrvme 6 жыл бұрын
They never got to the point and I'm still uneducated
@カカシ-v2h
@カカシ-v2h 5 жыл бұрын
It means gender neutral.
@poetrysd2574
@poetrysd2574 4 жыл бұрын
This comment is old af, but Queer just means not straight and/or cis.
@lorstyle.lorena2800
@lorstyle.lorena2800 4 жыл бұрын
@@カカシ-v2h NOOO
@Thisisthemichealceraexperience
@Thisisthemichealceraexperience 4 жыл бұрын
It means that they dont have a set kind of 'rules' for their sexuality and that even though they have same sex attraction there will be exceptions
@freezefrvme
@freezefrvme 4 жыл бұрын
Emma Cadence thanks emma :)
@little_N_mixx
@little_N_mixx 4 жыл бұрын
So it's when you don't really know what you are, but you just know that you're not straight
@morganj8978
@morganj8978 4 жыл бұрын
since people still seem to be confused: identifying as queer means loving whoever you want, despite you or the other person’s gender identity; it’s basically an umbrella term which many other sexualities/identities can fall under
@MrMonst3rQc
@MrMonst3rQc 3 жыл бұрын
Isn't that pansexual?
@morganj8978
@morganj8978 3 жыл бұрын
@@MrMonst3rQc it can be! pansexual could fall under the umbrella term of queer
@iimiriss
@iimiriss 3 жыл бұрын
@@morganj8978 so I can identify as pansexual/queer??
@christinelink6320
@christinelink6320 3 жыл бұрын
@@iimiriss yes! I do :) For me, queer is more about how I identify, my presentation, my mindset. Pansexual is who I am attracted to.
@gontlemanggeneral-segolodi5222
@gontlemanggeneral-segolodi5222 3 жыл бұрын
Sooooo, if it means everything, it also means nothing.
@versecorner507
@versecorner507 5 жыл бұрын
*theme's about the meaning of queer* "I realized I can be with anyone" *but honey that is pansexual*
@esme1743
@esme1743 5 жыл бұрын
G DRP it's their label. Maybe they don't feel comfortable with the label of "pansexual"
@esme1743
@esme1743 5 жыл бұрын
z bowyer that's actually not the definition of pan. Pan includes every single gender, and trans doesn't matter. Pan also includes non-bin.
@a.kamileon
@a.kamileon 5 жыл бұрын
*bisexual
@esme1743
@esme1743 5 жыл бұрын
Aish Tuli who are you to tell people what sexuality they are? Don't correct people. It's not cute.
@sinhuujk
@sinhuujk 4 жыл бұрын
yep me when I figured out I was pansexual XD
@shokosketches
@shokosketches 4 жыл бұрын
You don't feel fit in any label, or you can't identify or "choose" any label, I guess that's it
@gianna8993
@gianna8993 6 жыл бұрын
I support LGBT+ but i dont agree with what rowan said. Gender does exist, dont pretend that male and female isn't a thing. If you have no gender identity then thats different but dont just straight up say that gender is made up. You can argue that sexuality is made up but not gender. Female and male is a real thing. Having a Penis or a vagina is a real thing BUT you Dont have to identify with that. Just wanted to state the differences between the fact that female and male does exist and isnt made up and the freedom of opinion to choose to be neither or both or whatever you want! 😀
@ADAM-uf3my
@ADAM-uf3my 6 жыл бұрын
Gigi male and Female is sex. Its not gender. 🙈
@halfseen4777
@halfseen4777 6 жыл бұрын
@@ADAM-uf3my Sex and gender are the same thing. Gender Role may be what you're thinking of.
@snsaraah
@snsaraah 6 жыл бұрын
Half Seen nah, gender and sex are different. Sex (male and female), gender (feminin and masculine). But being a female doen't make you feminin and vice versa.
@EmmayaSnowvideos
@EmmayaSnowvideos 5 жыл бұрын
so you say you identify as queer but you also don’t like labels 🤦‍♀️
@questionmark1110
@questionmark1110 5 жыл бұрын
Ur point??
@rajeerageleta1630
@rajeerageleta1630 5 жыл бұрын
Bruh......... I just wanted a defenition
@ewertonal
@ewertonal 6 жыл бұрын
So... "queer" means "bissexual" without wanting to call yourself bissexual?
@marksr.robles377
@marksr.robles377 3 жыл бұрын
If the word Queer can umbrella the entire LGBT community; than why do we need all the other letters? Not trying to be rude or condescending, would it be easier if queer was the standard terminology? Using the word queer in reference to the term odd is very 19th century. Our language has improved so why can't we just make this adjustment. I'm just a 50-year-old hetero male trying to make sense of the modern world and not offend anybody.
@tinakrisnaibot3233
@tinakrisnaibot3233 3 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right. For example im a lesbian and not queer.
@charleslaari6763
@charleslaari6763 3 жыл бұрын
I came out of this video more confused than these confused people
@malllllll
@malllllll 7 жыл бұрын
Joon is such a wonderful name oh my gosh !
@pearlrowell.
@pearlrowell. 7 жыл бұрын
Mal Nam it's Jun
@tinamccord5202
@tinamccord5202 6 жыл бұрын
Mal Nam I honestly want to name my future child that. This video really inspired me.
@nw_that_shuld_be_celebrate2322
@nw_that_shuld_be_celebrate2322 6 жыл бұрын
Mal woow 100th like♡
@cybermachi4084
@cybermachi4084 6 жыл бұрын
Namjoon. Sorry.
@akishamangila3448
@akishamangila3448 6 жыл бұрын
Nam Joon hihi
@NorfolkCatKickers
@NorfolkCatKickers 3 жыл бұрын
So if someone doesnt identify with any label including queer are they hyper queer. 4 Billion years of evolution and we somehow ended up at this.
@duke9354
@duke9354 6 жыл бұрын
people love labels
@duckcylinder9903
@duckcylinder9903 5 жыл бұрын
DUKE* I use queer because im not straight but im not gay or bi either, im not set and stone on anything. So i can go by queer or not straight, either one. Its just a quick explanation for me.
@pedrovitor5324
@pedrovitor5324 4 жыл бұрын
@@duckcylinder9903 Ohh, I understand. So u're gay! Now I understand! ^^
@celia1888
@celia1888 4 жыл бұрын
I mean... Languages is just putting labels on concepts so you can communicate with others. They get more specific as we get more understanding of them. If these people don't relate to the specific sexuality/gender identities/orientations that exist, it might be because they belong to one that hasn't been identified yet or it might be that it's a specific subtype they haven't heard of yet. Like atoms, they've technically always existed but were only named when discovered and started being communicated to other people.
@Shetasen
@Shetasen 5 жыл бұрын
Jun be wearing the same giant safety pin I use to keep my knitting together.
@foreverhungry5318
@foreverhungry5318 4 жыл бұрын
If you want to be something different then what you're born as then fine. But don't expect and force people to view you in the same light. You'll be seen as you are not as you want to be.
@verafosnow5858
@verafosnow5858 3 жыл бұрын
So basically what you're saying is your a bigot? Nobody wants to be different.
@foreverhungry5318
@foreverhungry5318 3 жыл бұрын
No I'm saying that you can't expect people to conform to your idealism because you believe it to be most right. Regardless of which side you're on. How you come to see victory will show the true side you stand.
@verafosnow5858
@verafosnow5858 3 жыл бұрын
@@foreverhungry5318 I expect people to not murder each other. I expect people to conform to not being racist. Not being a homophobe/transphobe is just basic human decency.
@foreverhungry5318
@foreverhungry5318 3 жыл бұрын
@@verafosnow5858 you're right but you can't make someone feel the same way. At least not with brute force. But you can teach someone all you can but it's their choice to feel how they will.
@emmcovert1843
@emmcovert1843 4 жыл бұрын
if you don’t understand, it’s because you’re still trying to put people into a box who don’t fit. stop tryna label people and understand and categorize everything, that’s how we get divided when we are all connected
@SeventeenMagazine
@SeventeenMagazine 3 жыл бұрын
THIS
@domzalm1
@domzalm1 5 жыл бұрын
Lol when she says only i know who i am.... well clearely you dont.
@VishuencApp
@VishuencApp 4 жыл бұрын
we all are Human .. Love All. Care each other.
@retinopath9004
@retinopath9004 4 жыл бұрын
if u fall in love with anybody that means your pan right?
@drew3
@drew3 5 жыл бұрын
If you understand being confused about your identity you understand queer. Would you, queer identifying, agree?
@saturn877
@saturn877 4 жыл бұрын
They like who they like, love who they love, and are whatever or whoever they are. They don't want the stress of having a label claiming they're this, or that they're that, they are just human. (Also just a quick question: If you go by non binary pronouns or opposite gender pronouns, can you just say that's queer as well or do you have to say, "I'm non binary and queer." ?)
@tinakrisnaibot3233
@tinakrisnaibot3233 3 жыл бұрын
But they still have a sexuality by definition. Either they are confused and don't know yet or they don't want communicate their sexuality to others for different reasons.
@novastar3990
@novastar3990 3 жыл бұрын
@@tinakrisnaibot3233 No fuck off. You’ve been spreading your bigotry throughout this whole comment section.
@flamingo9045
@flamingo9045 3 жыл бұрын
pronouns don’t equal gender. so you could just say your pronouns are they/them. or different pronouns but still be queer. i don’t think you have to be non binary to use they/them pronouns. correct me if i’m wrong though. i use they/them pronouns but i’ve been doing lots of research to try and find a label for myself.
@driversseet6494
@driversseet6494 3 жыл бұрын
So you made your own label? Nice...
@ivxixi
@ivxixi 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of negative replies here so I want to add something! I’m queer and I identify as this because it’s an umbrella term meaning “not straight or not cisgender”. I’ve always felt fluid with my sexual orientation and gender identity so being queer allows me to like who I like and feel what I feel without worrying about whether or not I’m fitting into a specific box. So to anyone uncomfortable or upset about the usage of the term queer, it literally has nothing to do with you. Mind your own. 💖💗💕🌺🍒 Edit: instead of being pressed about what label somebody uses to explain their sexuality / gender how about focusing on actual issues that affect this community??? Do y’all get upset abt queer eye?? lol
@ivxixi
@ivxixi 4 жыл бұрын
Richard Ogura Lol
@michellepajarillo2021
@michellepajarillo2021 4 жыл бұрын
But is it the same as pansexual? Am so confused
@OgoLilly
@OgoLilly 4 жыл бұрын
Why not simply say you're bi?
@juli006
@juli006 4 жыл бұрын
Help me out here please. So if you don’t think or don’t identify with the fit label of heterosexual or homosexual than can you consider yourself queer from that?
@ivxixi
@ivxixi 3 жыл бұрын
@@irfankhalil9225 just use “they” my dude it’s much faster than saying “she or he”
@morphixnet
@morphixnet 5 жыл бұрын
Why do you need any kind of labels? Be yourself and embrace life. oooooh unless you have nothing else to do then throw labels around. It is really starting to get on my nerves...
@alichehab5804
@alichehab5804 3 жыл бұрын
I think... judging by this video, “queer” means you don’t know what the hell you want to identify yourself as. Literally.
@niagillies3358
@niagillies3358 3 жыл бұрын
An umbrella term used and reclaimed by many whose sexual orientations and/or gender identities fall outside of cisgender/straight norms.
@cassamoroll
@cassamoroll 3 жыл бұрын
the first person sounds like they’re about to cry so if that’s their normal voice then rip
@Yaboymoy
@Yaboymoy 3 жыл бұрын
This was no help 🤣
@imnotsurewhy
@imnotsurewhy 3 жыл бұрын
Welp, learned absolutely nothing because, well, there's nothing. There's literally nothing, no definite answer. I want to learn but there's literally nothing to learn because queer from what I've just watched means nothingness. So much confusion. So does queer mean outsider. I don't want to offend anyone but it's very very confusing.
@lilcinnamonroll9577
@lilcinnamonroll9577 3 жыл бұрын
Queer is basically an LGBTQIA+ term that people can identify as when they don't have or want a specific label. They like who they like, love who they love, and are whatever or whoever they are. They don't want the stress of having a label claiming they're this, or that they're that, they are just human. I personally identify as queer because I don't really know how else to label my sexuality.
@DiegoGo1133
@DiegoGo1133 3 жыл бұрын
@@lilcinnamonroll9577 then find out 🤓
@lilcinnamonroll9577
@lilcinnamonroll9577 3 жыл бұрын
@@DiegoGo1133 It's not that easy...
@leonbuzza
@leonbuzza 6 жыл бұрын
So it’s just a person who denies the label bi ?
@honeystly_disgusting6393
@honeystly_disgusting6393 6 жыл бұрын
people who prefer not to put their sexual preference in a box. Someone who is a queer does not want to identify himself as a lesbian, hetero, bisexual or panssexual. And that is why he or she uses the term queer. What does queer mean for him or her? The definition or meaning of queer can only actually be filled in by that person. there is also gender queer, you do not want to be in a gender box, so ur not a girl, boy, and genders like that
@lpsspiritwolf6636
@lpsspiritwolf6636 6 жыл бұрын
umm if your woundering google it cuz its im not 100 % sure but i think its like if you think you might be trans bi lesb or gay but your not sure i dont know exactely but i think so google said queer/questiong which would mean this if it does mean this im queer
@katiec1881
@katiec1881 6 жыл бұрын
No there different. Hi is when you like girls and boys. Queer is when you don't really know and it's this great big fluidity bubble where you can just exist and be you and be free
@caglacelik2680
@caglacelik2680 5 жыл бұрын
@@katiec1881 isn't that pansexuality?
@katiec1881
@katiec1881 5 жыл бұрын
@@caglacelik2680 kind of, but my kind of queer so to speak(cuz im queer) is weather or not I'm asexual or not. So if I find people attractive ect... queer can mean a range of different things when is why it's a big bubble of fluidity, where there are no rules to define you. Pan is when you love personalitys not gender. Sorry this is so long
@sophi7193
@sophi7193 4 жыл бұрын
It's basically a identity for people who cannot find a identity.
@shayafr9724
@shayafr9724 4 жыл бұрын
Too many hate comments. Let the people do them. Mind your own business Karen!
@PatrykPeylar
@PatrykPeylar 3 жыл бұрын
I wanted to know what does it mean and noone explained anything.
@TritiumCupcakes
@TritiumCupcakes 5 жыл бұрын
Lol I am so glad I didnt go to a giant high school where I felt like I had to join a group
@kaugummiballl
@kaugummiballl 6 жыл бұрын
So basically they are gay or r straight but don’t wanna call themselves gay or straight..... (maybe because they aren’t comfortable at all with who they are) Joon is still such a nice name holy fuck
@yasminechoerryscherry3701
@yasminechoerryscherry3701 3 жыл бұрын
I'm late af, but queer is a term used for all sexualities and gender identities that are not cishet: basically all ppl who are not cishet could identify as queer, bc it's an umbrella term, but some people (like me) use it more or less as a label, because they're unlabeled and don't want ot can't use other more specific labels like bi, pan, etc., maybe cuz they're unsure, maybe because they feel like they don't fit in any of them, and many other reasons. I hope that helped to clear the confusion
@ejectoseatocuzhaha
@ejectoseatocuzhaha 4 жыл бұрын
The most mysterious word that no one can define:Queer
@yagmuraslisenel9237
@yagmuraslisenel9237 4 жыл бұрын
why is this comment section full with straights that just can't except people being confused...
@novastar3990
@novastar3990 3 жыл бұрын
Because people can be horrible.
@georgesaynati3307
@georgesaynati3307 3 жыл бұрын
I believe the term you're trying to use is accept*
@yagmuraslisenel9237
@yagmuraslisenel9237 3 жыл бұрын
@@georgesaynati3307 yea sry english isn't my first language and i was confused lols
@viprasharma1074
@viprasharma1074 4 жыл бұрын
I think that there shouldn't be a label for kind of sexuality.... Because why should anybody care whom you are in love with? I think the idea of this came from reproduction... Because a female and a male can reproduce and that's what people identified as nature so the idea of a male and a male or a female and a female relationship seemed to them as something against the nature.... If you know what I mean. But these two things are totally different because love is more than just reproducing that's why I think that there shouldn't be a label like being gay or straight or whatever... That should not be significant. You love who you love.
@verafosnow5858
@verafosnow5858 3 жыл бұрын
Labels can make people more comfortable in who they are. When I took on a label it made me so happy because I was finally able to put a word to what I was feeling.
@kellyo8718
@kellyo8718 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I'm older, and when I was in middle and high school, calling someone "queer" was a horrible insult. I've always had a hard time saying it. Kind of like the "n" word. Thanks for helping me understand it's meaning and that it's not necessarily a bad word.
@b.163
@b.163 6 жыл бұрын
So Queer is when you don’t know what you are... I’m still confused 🤷🏽‍♀️???
@shokosketches
@shokosketches 4 жыл бұрын
You don't feel fit in any label, or you can't identify or "choose" any label, I guess that's it
@b.163
@b.163 4 жыл бұрын
lil_ catherine;-; Thank you 🙏🏽
@whyismylifeweird4251
@whyismylifeweird4251 4 жыл бұрын
lil_ catherine;-; So they don't like labels but they label themselves "queer"?
@shokosketches
@shokosketches 4 жыл бұрын
@@whyismylifeweird4251 it's not that they don't like, is just that they can't identify or find any label who fit them, and sometimes they choose the label "queer". Because is the closest thing they can find to identify themselves as
@whyismylifeweird4251
@whyismylifeweird4251 4 жыл бұрын
@@shokosketches You should have been in the video instead of the actual people on the video,none of them explained it,but you did.
@thescreamingcage5575
@thescreamingcage5575 4 жыл бұрын
So Basically “I’m bi, and I can’t pick a side”😂🤣
@av4ri3
@av4ri3 4 жыл бұрын
The screaming Cage hope that help you understand it more.
@talkwithaut1011
@talkwithaut1011 4 жыл бұрын
Hi I'm bisexual and non-binary and people always ask me as if I'm queer and I don't know 😂 thanks for this video I understand more ❤️ Edit: (2 weeks later) yeah I do understand. I am not queer. I am an label who needs to be stuck on to me and stay there. LOVE IS LOVE.. comment it. LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE LOVE IS LOVE
@lilylashelle1217
@lilylashelle1217 4 жыл бұрын
LOVE IS LOVE!!!🌈
@D.Purohit
@D.Purohit 3 жыл бұрын
Still i don't know really ...what is queer?!!!🤯🤯
@ayah777
@ayah777 5 жыл бұрын
So there's gay for men and men, there's lesbian for women and women, and bisexual for both, so what's left to call a queer? Would someone explain me!
@Mikeyj130
@Mikeyj130 6 жыл бұрын
Im a long hard yellow pencil with a white eraser on the tip
@halfseen4777
@halfseen4777 6 жыл бұрын
😮 And what's wrong with a black eraser?! All erasers are equal! Racist!
@neonmaple5259
@neonmaple5259 5 жыл бұрын
Doesn't fully explain it. But again, I'm not into the whole label BS. It just seems there's a label for everything now and it's becoming ridiculous. My opinion.
@glaucomflecken
@glaucomflecken 3 жыл бұрын
So queer means "none of the above".
@tusharchangoer8928
@tusharchangoer8928 5 жыл бұрын
Joon is such a badass name
@larabum3910
@larabum3910 4 жыл бұрын
The comment section did not fucking pass the vibe check.
@bjmo8302
@bjmo8302 3 жыл бұрын
So ..?? Where is the meaning??
@ishabhatta8042
@ishabhatta8042 5 жыл бұрын
Is there any labels like "Not interest in any human being!!!" ???If it does exist then I am one 😑😑😑
@The19Chris77
@The19Chris77 5 жыл бұрын
So for those who want equality, and be treated " JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE " is looking for a label?
@nelsonvazquez8104
@nelsonvazquez8104 3 жыл бұрын
But why use the word queer to identify with when queer means strange. Why not use a different label 🏷.
@pylchott9864
@pylchott9864 3 жыл бұрын
"Queer" and "black" both.
@niagillies3358
@niagillies3358 3 жыл бұрын
I know it is like language and word meaning can change over time
@vellevitte
@vellevitte 6 жыл бұрын
"I'm bisexual but I've never actually dated a girl before, so I lot of people think I'm straight. Just because I only ever had boyfriends and don't find most girls attractive doesn't mean I'm not gay." 😵
@sinhuujk
@sinhuujk 4 жыл бұрын
X Dikr just because i like a girl dosent mean im straight up gay im still pan also get it STRAIGHT up gay XD
@sinhuujk
@sinhuujk 4 жыл бұрын
*XD ikr
@femmesapphic430
@femmesapphic430 4 жыл бұрын
Can homophobes and transphobes get out of the comment section? No one cares about your opinion and neither it’s your body
@heywussup6093
@heywussup6093 3 жыл бұрын
Why is everyone talking about that fucking umbrella wtf do you meaannn
@peterblack3555
@peterblack3555 5 жыл бұрын
nobody can't define queer
@gjk-arts5855
@gjk-arts5855 4 жыл бұрын
Quick tip: you can be female / male without following gender stereotypes!
@idk-nx7vo
@idk-nx7vo 4 жыл бұрын
these comments are so rude and disrespectful. it’s okay not to understand something but some of these comments are just straight up homophobic. let people do what they want, it doesn’t hurt you.
@aroma_say9919
@aroma_say9919 3 жыл бұрын
I thought "queer" was an umbrella term for people who dont identify as heterosexual or cisgender? Im so confused
@rickrossi7426
@rickrossi7426 3 жыл бұрын
So what is a queer?
@chopperman2122
@chopperman2122 5 жыл бұрын
If you're asking anyone what queer means, you won't get a straight answer.
@dhirukr007
@dhirukr007 3 жыл бұрын
Asian nerd had a safety pin stuck in earlobe
@gijjiga
@gijjiga 3 жыл бұрын
And he thought his name is a source of bullying 😂..I was like "dude seriously?? You have giant safety pin hanging from your ear"
@booppow7497
@booppow7497 3 жыл бұрын
I think I’m mostly straight. I’ve only dated one guy before but it didn’t work out. But a little part of me likes everyone. I honestly want to go Pansexual.
@davidfitcher2953
@davidfitcher2953 3 жыл бұрын
Experts of labels
@warlorddk2070
@warlorddk2070 3 жыл бұрын
Gender and sexuality is a lie? 🤣 You might not know yours but that doesnt make the concepts lies 🤣
@sircharles9591
@sircharles9591 4 жыл бұрын
My thoughts: I think there is a difference between sexuality and emotional attraction and physical attraction and spiritual attraction. So, to me, if Queer means solely sexual attraction, I'm heterosexual.
@rosea164
@rosea164 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure I grasped the idea of queer What is the difference between bisexual and queer?
@GypsyLove83
@GypsyLove83 5 жыл бұрын
That is not how the word queer was used in the book chronicles of Narnia. Or how it was taught when I was in school. QUEER =ODD
@dearruby4002
@dearruby4002 4 жыл бұрын
Their not even talking about what it means their just talking about what they feel what it's like to be that
@jesss7858
@jesss7858 4 жыл бұрын
Geezzz... people can be so wierd...
@greatestaxolotl4933
@greatestaxolotl4933 4 жыл бұрын
hì Bęstí 🌳 ær üoy çøming tö 🌴 då tré 🌲🌳🌴🎄 🍃🌳🌲
@alichehab5804
@alichehab5804 3 жыл бұрын
If you are still confused, it's understandable. You got an explanation from the confused ones
@cfisher466
@cfisher466 5 жыл бұрын
Head hurts
@bubbadavila5383
@bubbadavila5383 4 жыл бұрын
This comment section did not pass the vibe check...
@aprilsuxxx
@aprilsuxxx 5 жыл бұрын
I love what Join said. I think we all have something about us we are uncomfortable with when young that we learn to love as we get older. And I love that he not just comfortable with his name but himself.
@SquidyEsteTare
@SquidyEsteTare 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so confused right now. Do we even need this term ? there is already a term for everything why do we gotta do this more complicated ? XD
@celia1888
@celia1888 4 жыл бұрын
That's kind of how languages evolve tho? The more you learn the more specific you get.
@sophiam878
@sophiam878 7 жыл бұрын
Queer used to be a slur, just noticed it become a used term recently. Doesn't queer mean odd?
@SteveCarras
@SteveCarras 7 жыл бұрын
Sophia Maguire yes smiley 😊
@mattf.868
@mattf.868 7 жыл бұрын
Sophia Maguire Queer is still a negative word, it is synonymous with words such as freakish and unnatural, so these people are degrading themselves for no good reason.
@swedcuck6917
@swedcuck6917 6 жыл бұрын
It's like if the N-word were used as a normal term for race classification instead of "African-American" it would be, well, queer.
@rrt1592
@rrt1592 6 жыл бұрын
What's up? Are you a real female?
@tomdrake7950
@tomdrake7950 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah it means peculiar or strange in actual sense but has became a slang term used against gays and lesbians as they are "strange" and "peculiar". Not saying i think they strange or peculiar
@ungkesuleh4137
@ungkesuleh4137 5 жыл бұрын
In Indonesia we called them *"TOMBOY"*
@slavaukraine8556
@slavaukraine8556 5 жыл бұрын
Tomboy bukannya cewek tapi kek laki?
@Sincerit
@Sincerit 4 жыл бұрын
Lol... Guys having sex with guys and also have girlfend would be Tomboys? hahah
@Prod_by_808HEAD
@Prod_by_808HEAD 3 жыл бұрын
It means you should jumpoffabridge
@Hopefell
@Hopefell 4 жыл бұрын
What is it though? Can this be considered clickbait? I feel clickbaited
@devinjacquet5253
@devinjacquet5253 5 жыл бұрын
didn't explain anything...
@boia1277
@boia1277 6 жыл бұрын
I thought queer meant somebody who sits down when they pee. In 7th grade during band practice my friend randomly brought up something about aiming in the bathroom and I started laughing because I thought he was kidding because I was like dude are you like 5? So they started calling me a queer. Yea. That's it.
@deadchannellol7366
@deadchannellol7366 6 жыл бұрын
Um... Someone who sits down when they pee is called a girl
@halfseen4777
@halfseen4777 6 жыл бұрын
@@deadchannellol7366 Or a very self-conscious boy. 😂👌🏻
@Daily_Dose_of_Grass
@Daily_Dose_of_Grass 5 жыл бұрын
I just saw men but women but then also men but i didnt know what was queer ????
@ePotaito
@ePotaito 6 жыл бұрын
So.........being “queer” is being confused, cause that’s what all this different sexuality stuff is making me. Like damn why do when have to have all the people want to make this group and that group, People are people can’t we just be people like tf
@jmartin7721
@jmartin7721 5 жыл бұрын
They all have short hair , that's all i noticed during this video
@pgoszczyk
@pgoszczyk 4 жыл бұрын
Still don't understand, however I think you can be whatever you want to be.
@alainabug3486
@alainabug3486 4 жыл бұрын
Ok.. so I think it basically means that you don’t go by a label, but idk if that means like sexuality wise or gender wise..
@rollingthunder5944
@rollingthunder5944 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a three spirit penguin.
@greatestaxolotl4933
@greatestaxolotl4933 4 жыл бұрын
hì Bęstí 🌳 ær üoy çøming tö 🌴 då tré 🌲🌳🌴🎄 🍃🌳🌲
@verafosnow5858
@verafosnow5858 3 жыл бұрын
No, your simply a bigot.
@omolaraogunwuyi6683
@omolaraogunwuyi6683 5 жыл бұрын
I AM STILL SO FUCKING CONFUSED
@forniterockzz7717
@forniterockzz7717 5 жыл бұрын
In easy words = they can be bi or gay or pansexual but the thing is they don’t label themselves.
@IAmDeepSpace
@IAmDeepSpace 5 жыл бұрын
So what I gather from this video, is that "queer" means "confused as fuck."
@annybaibs4492
@annybaibs4492 5 жыл бұрын
Am i the only person who didnt get the answer?
@thechip2065
@thechip2065 6 жыл бұрын
I don't believe in labels
@snailsan7848
@snailsan7848 4 жыл бұрын
I love joon's earring ☺️☺️
@or-ren
@or-ren 6 жыл бұрын
So now some human didn't know what gender they are?
@halfseen4777
@halfseen4777 6 жыл бұрын
I think it comes from my generation wanting to define themselves TOO much. Some things we can't change. Like our height, gender, etc.
@or-ren
@or-ren 6 жыл бұрын
@@halfseen4777 yaa...Society..
@blueworldadam
@blueworldadam 5 жыл бұрын
I think they didn t see what s in the package down bellow i think if you have a penis you are a male and a vagin you are a female and if you think you are in the middle you need to seek help from a shrink master af
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