What Does The Bible Say About Divorce & Remarriage?

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Tiff Shuttlesworth

Күн бұрын

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@clivehodge3011 Жыл бұрын

I have listened to countless preachers. This man is the best!

@ericdubose9311 8 ай бұрын

False teaching.

@joesanchez3646 7 ай бұрын

Then why is there lines drawn through the words I post?

@patricecharbonneau8536 5 ай бұрын

@@ericdubose9311 explain?

@jpgrant2861 2 ай бұрын

@@ericdubose9311 the flesh can't marry if your spouse is still living

@WestIndiesBird 11 күн бұрын

@@ericdubose9311Why ?

@evelynfoster2706 3 жыл бұрын

Bro Tiff, I was married to my husband for almost 48 yrs before he went to his Heavenly home almost 2 yrs ago. Some days we DID NOT LIKE. EACH OTHER but. We ALWAYS AND FOR EVER LOVED EACH OTHER. I was so blessed with a CHRISTIAN husband

@grant2149 2 жыл бұрын

🇿🇦🙏

@tammyhartley6848 2 жыл бұрын

You are all Lucky to be.married

@tammyhartley6848 2 жыл бұрын

Thats when you pray and be together its better stronger together

@tammyhartley6848 2 жыл бұрын

So if God wants you to marry than you.would marry from Australia?

@BeverleyMinter 6 ай бұрын

😢nice uh

@WendyTucker-x2w 6 ай бұрын

My beloved husband and I were married for 52 years before he was transported to heaven. Our marriage was abundantly blessed because right from the beginning we decided to invite the Holy Spirit to be the third person in our marriage. All glory to our Heavenly Father. 🙏

@yahuwaswarrior4046 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this teaching Tiff. You have given me biblical proof that I divorced my first husband due to all of the items you mentioned in No.2. I've always worried that I would not be forgiven for divorce. My second husband was God given as I prayed about this. With 2 small children, I didn't want to date various men. God led me to the man I met and started dating which started with marriage. We have been and are still going through a very difficult time but no biblical laws have been broken and we are working on our marriage. In July, we will be celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary. Praise God!

@annejames890 2 жыл бұрын

My name is Anne and I need your prayers . My prayer is that God will change my husband .

@AnitaLuper 9 ай бұрын

Because I prayed for my husband to change but it was useless,he loved his mother's money and house and a woman that lived close to his mother.

@Jericho-xs3ju 5 ай бұрын

Anne maybe you should pray for God to change yourself

@Miranda-o9n Жыл бұрын

Thank you Pasto for preaching God's unadulterated word. By following your teachings on you tube ,I have found my way back to God . May God keep and bless you and your family.I faced many dark times in my live ,but God always gave me a way of escape .God bless your ministry.

@reginaldstephenson3705 3 жыл бұрын

I want you to know that you have had a huge impact on my life..I will be forever greatfull for your faithfulness to God's word

@marleymayfield2635 3 жыл бұрын

Tiff, I'm struggling to keep up with all your messages. Lol Your a warrior for the Lord 👍

@annejames890 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this lesson . I fell away and married and into the marriage my husband was unfaithful . Finally after 5 years we parted . We have been separated for over 2 years and while at church my husband, ask me to take him back . I am solely trusting God in this matter .

@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways Жыл бұрын

My channel is to help those who are divorced to obey God to remain unmarried or else be reconciled. This teacher did not give the truth since he said there are biblical grounds for divorce and then remarriage is allowed. ONLY death or rapture ends the marriage covenant. Glad that you are coming back to Jesus, and I hope you are ready for the rapture. Maranatha.

@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways Жыл бұрын

@@marriageranger Hi, I'm a sister, but I didn't learn this truth about divorce and remarriage from a book other than THE BOOK and the Holy Spirit. March 2005 when I got born again, the Lord told me to read the Bible every day, and I know the Scriptures are completely true and inerrant that marriage is for life between only one man and only one woman. My channel has been teaching the truth for over six years, and I have listened to thousands of false teaching sermons too but I have a playlist of over 450 videos that have correct doctrine. There are about four or five books that are correct too. Sorry that you have found what your itching ears want to hear. There is no exception clause in Mark 10 or Luke 16, Romans 7:1-3 or 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 & 39.

@lynnhester8211 Жыл бұрын

The only book to go by is the Bjble.

@johannadennis-demby452 Жыл бұрын

Hell cheat again they all do

@opheliasarnyeneh6566 Жыл бұрын

@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysSorry, but 4 or 5 books, or 450 videos other than the bible will not do. No matter who the authors are. If they aren't the written word , it's a no, no. The scripture is complete and needs no added notes from another. Scriptures warn to not add, neither subtract.

@LindaStricklandMcEathron 11 ай бұрын

Lord please forgive me for 3 divorces. You alone knows all the reasons. Thank you Lord for always being here for me ❤️ i love and worship you Lord 🙌

@philipbuckley759 9 ай бұрын

divorce is not the sin, remarriage is.....if you are not married to your original partner, and you are married, to someone else, that is adultery...

@dianawhitehead7015 8 ай бұрын

Marriage is a covenant relationship, one man & one woman until death parts, the exception clause in Matthew is fornication, not adultery or all sexual immorality as some translations read. It is speaking about a betrothal divorce. Only the Jews had this marriage law. Mary & Joseph were considered husband & wife before the marriage was legal. but were only betrothed.

@josefjking308 7 ай бұрын

Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No. Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No. Under what circumstances can I get a divorce? None. The Bible is clear; only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and remain single. If things improve between us and our spouse, reconciliation is possible (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). What about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew's gospel: Once married, always married until death do us part, no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.

@Kathleensplace71 3 ай бұрын

@@josefjking308this is untrue

@susanj9186 Ай бұрын

@josefjking308 Wow! So what Jesus said about adultery in marriage as a reason doesn't matter? Jesus statement doesn't matter to you? Wow!

@jtjwhite Жыл бұрын

Solid message. I respect that about you - that you’re an uncompromising AND loving teacher of the LORD’s Word. Extremely grateful that GOD put you in my path. Blessings to you and yours.

@grant2149 9 ай бұрын

Well you in the wrong path. This Man is a liar.

@cindylinschoten7823 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks to u and praised God thanks for explaining this to me and to us i am divorce and the the word give me chills but thanks once again in Jesus Name amen

@Canada4evermore 2 жыл бұрын

I was abandoned after a long marriage. Found out after he left that he had been with someone else. After a year I had to file for divorce to get the money settled as he didn’t want to give me support. The marriage was one of neglect and lies so him leaving me was actually a good thing in the long run. I have no intention to remarry. Too afraid and I’m not able to trust anyone. Thank you for speaking on this subject. There is a lot talked on in churches about reconciliation but not on divorce and remarriage.

@natalinacampisi4606 3 жыл бұрын

This teaching is so vital to know and to understand, thank you Brother Tiff. This gave me a better understanding on the subject. Not many churches teaches this stuff anymore, very sad.

@anitatomlinson9610 2 жыл бұрын

They don't want to offend anyone because so many of us have been divorced. But, they should teach in it. We need to have the truth taught.

@philipbuckley759 2 жыл бұрын

@@anitatomlinson9610 with utube we have more access to these types, of teachings.....

@maxineloftis9387 3 жыл бұрын

I found you about 7 months ago and have learned so much listening to your teaching. Understanding a lot of the Bible so much better.

@rachelbinson3660 7 ай бұрын

Thank you brother Tiff ..I was so looking for an answer for my brother..i asked the Holy Spirit to give me a definite answer to my question.....the last few minutes you spoke was definitely for my brother ...my brother an unbeliever who was married to a believer gets divorced and after three years he becomes a believer....how you said becoming a new creation is so true and literal....God does not lie...what He says he does...Thank you Bro Tiff ..God bless you to speak the word of the Lord to millions...

@jpgrant2861 2 ай бұрын

@@rachelbinson3660 Mark 10-11

@joethebar1 3 жыл бұрын

I made a huge mistake when I was 19. I was manipulated by an older woman who was a professional con artist. After she got pregnant, I stayed in a horribly unhappy marriage for ten years. She eventually left me and took the kids. The moment she left, a huge black cloud left with her. I decided to file for divorce. I eventually married a beautiful lady who cannot be bettered; we’ve been together 20 years. The Lord told me years after I divorced the first wife, that she wasn’t truly saved; we were unequally yoked. That explains a lot that happened. I honestly believe He put it in her heart to leave me so I had a fighting chance at a proper life. Looking backwards, I realize she was likely cheating on me at various times as well.

@philipbuckley759 2 жыл бұрын

she was probably.....that is thin ice.....and as adultery is not a Biblical reason, for divorce and remarriage....it is likely that you, too have been fooled by this speaker and are living in adultery....

@godgavemeeyestosee 2 жыл бұрын

If your first marriage was to a woman who had never been married, then she is your covenant wife. If after you divorced her and married another woman and your covenant wife is still alive, then you are in adultery. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).” “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)” Anyone who does not repent and forsake an adulterous marriage will go to hell. “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 NKJV).” “Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: ADULTERY, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God (Galatians 5:19-21)." Please believe the Bible. Your eternal life depends on it.

@godgavemeeyestosee 2 жыл бұрын

@Janet HickeyMark 10:11-12 and Luke 16:18, which also discuss what Jesus said about divorce and remarriage, do not have the clause "except for fornication." These two books were written to a Gentile audience. Because the book of Matthew is written to a Jewish audience, and does contain the clause, "except for fornication", you need to study the Jewish marriage customs during that time to understand why this clause is included. You will find that the Jews recognized two types of husbands and wives. They had a married husband and a married wife and a betrothed (or espoused) husband and a betrothed (or espoused) wife. A betrothed couple is similar to a couple that we say are engaged to be married. However, a betrothal was a legally binding "engagement to be married". It could only be broken if the betrothed wife committed fornication (sexual relations outside of marriage) with another man. She was to remain a virgin until her marriage to her betrothed husband. If she was found to have committed fornication, her betrothed husband could break the betrothal only through a divorce. This means that the Jewish culture had two types of divorce, one from a betrothal and one from a marriage. You can verify this in the Bible in Matthew 1:18-25 where Joseph was referred to as Mary's husband and Mary was referred to as Joseph's wife when they were only betrothed and not married. In these scriptures, Joseph was thinking about divorcing Mary because he thought she had committed fornication when he found out that she was pregnant with Jesus. So, the "except for fornication" clause in Matthew 19:9 meant that Jesus was only allowing a divorce from a betrothal and not a divorce from a marriage. Jesus did not have an exception clause for the Gentiles because they did not practice betrothal in their marriage customs. When people use their own cultural norms to interpret scriptures, they can often misinterpret them. I hope this helps your understanding.

@godgavemeeyestosee Жыл бұрын

@@eruiz1180 Haven’t you read in Mark 10:11-12 and Matthew 19:9 and Luke 16:18 where Jesus said that any marriage to another that happens after the divorce is adultery. It is adultery. It is not a marriage. Adultery will land anyone in hell if they do not repent and forsake the adultery (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 and Galatians 5:19-21). Only the death of a covenant spouse frees the surviving spouse from the marriage allowing him or her to get married again (1 Corinthians 7:39 and Romans 7:2-3).

@TheLordismyshepard414 9 ай бұрын

@@godgavemeeyestosee Amen! Amen!

@curiouscat9204 3 жыл бұрын

I had to listen attentively to this teaching. I want to say thank you for taking the time to explain this to me. I am married to an unsaved spouse to which have been divorced more than once. This is my first marriage and I am a believer. I wrestled with this topic for quite sometime and could not understand the teachings of marriage and divorce in the bible. I tried to figure it out on my own but each time I tried, I became so afraid of what the truth will turn out to be that my mind could not comprehend what was right in the sight of God as it pertains to marriage to someone who has been divorced. I want to be ready to meet the lord and I am also helping my husband along the way. Lately he seem to be very interested in learning about Christ and how to be prepared for his return. It was amazing to hear you talk about that. Thanks for praying for me prior to your preparation of this sermon and after you were finished with it.

@dalepruett3747 2 жыл бұрын

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@ddzl6209 2 жыл бұрын

All that satanic cult believing pastors of sola scriptura has to say is to hate towards the the church of saints established by Jesus under the stewardship of Peter regardless of divorce or marriage they interpret Bible on their own wild imagination and use to add their wishful thinking.

@anandocross6616 2 жыл бұрын

You are living in adultery. Read your Bible and pray and seek diligently. God is not like man. Don't listen to what you want to hear but seek truth. Your husband is causing you to commit adultery because he has been married before. It is in the Bible. Who marry a person who is divorced commit adultery.. please seek God and not answers from men that will make us live comfortably in sin.

@curiouscat9204 2 жыл бұрын

@@anandocross6616 After listening to Tiff What you are saying here is conflicting.

@anandocross6616 2 жыл бұрын

Everything I said is in the Bible.. in the book of Matthew never stated that anyone can remarry. Remarry in the Bible is only stated after death. Please do listen to something because it suits you. Anyway my advice to u is to listen to tough preaching that preach against sin. My heart has recently been pricked by a message I don't really like but it is the truth...listen to the links I sent you. Also Gino Jennings preach on that a lot, he preach hard but he preach truth. Don't go with what you want to hear but go with what God said..

@tammyhartley6848 2 жыл бұрын

Its hard when your alone in life:(

@lucistheband6540 5 ай бұрын

Take solace my brother in knowing that one wrong or quick decision to marry a wrong person which can lead you to feel alone in a marriage 😕

@Mamarita3333 9 ай бұрын

I was married to a very abusive psychopathic husband who tried multiple times to kill me, my mother and my child multiple times. He was found to have severe mental illness. The law advised me I had to leave him or we would all die. I had to leave him to save my life and my families life. I don’t think God wanted me to stay in that situation. I later found a wonderful husband who also came from a very abusive situation where his ex wife would beat him daily and would torment him emotionally, mentally and physically. He turned out to be the love of my life. A wonderful kind and very gentle soul. He just passed away from Covid and I am so heartbroken. My first abusive husband has passed away as well. I am now a widow 😭

@sabinabucik2231 8 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss. The loss of a loved one particularly a spouse is very hard.May God now watch over you and keep you. God Bless you and your family.🦋💒

@josefjking308 7 ай бұрын

Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.

@venetiansun5401 5 ай бұрын

I'm sorry for your loss, you are blessed to have found a love that you can always keep in your heart ❤️

@floram3722 2 ай бұрын

I pray 🙏🏽 ALL is well with you. ❤

@jpgrant2861 2 ай бұрын

If your first husband still lives the second one is not acknowledged by God . 😢

@godgavemeeyestosee 3 жыл бұрын

The words “not bound” in 1 Corinthians 7:15 are actually the Greek words “ou dedoulotai” which mean “not under bondage”. The root word for “dedoulotai” is Strong’s G1402 “douloo” which means to enslave; bring under subjection. Therefore to interpret “not under bondage” in v. 15 to mean that one can remarry would contradict the command that God had given in 1 Corinthians 7:11 which says that a wife must remain unmarried or reconcile with her husband if she leaves him and a husband is not to divorce his wife. The interpretation of “not under bondage” means if the unbelieving spouse leaves the believing spouse, the believing spouse is not under bondage or obligation to keep the marriage together. However, the believing spouse is not to drive the unbelieving spouse away.

@bradanderson4202 9 ай бұрын

Be at peace

@mustardseedist 4 ай бұрын

Amen...This wicked blind guide will receive heavier judgement unless he repents. James 3:1

@godgavemeeyestosee 4 ай бұрын

@@mustardseedist Yes, he will receive a greater judgment for teaching falsely unless he repents.

@trishedwards9120 Жыл бұрын

The truth is God forgives divorce. Gods forgiveness, Gods Grace, and mercy will wash away every stain of divorce. Forgiven.

@ladypenelope99 8 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏🏻

@maricamaas2326 5 ай бұрын

Yes, all sins can be forgiven; that is if one truly repents. Divorce is one aspect. Remarriage after divorce needs more clarification, though, since Scripture clearly points towards remaining single; should reconciliation not prove possible. Had the unconverted remarried, and is therefore living in a state of habitual adultery; it makes no sense for God to allow for this sin to continue after conversion.

@jpgrant2861 2 ай бұрын

This guy is leaving out a lot

@mphomatshaya2740 Ай бұрын

⁠⁠@@maricamaas2326it was very clear to me after being saved that my second marriage is not marriage but adultery. Unless my husband pass on I can’t marry.

@caymenbrown2465 Жыл бұрын

This was so so good and informative. It definitely helps me to navigate the break down in my marriage better. I’m grateful to God for you and this message

@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways Жыл бұрын

I am sorry your marriage is having problems, but he's wrong that there are grounds for divorce that allow remarriage. Only death ends a covenant marriage.

@caymenbrown2465 Жыл бұрын

@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways I wasn’t considering divorce. I am being obedient to Christ to stand for my marriage

@dogosimon9584 Жыл бұрын

@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysA man got married to a woman and after about a year the wife absconded. She never came back but got another and started bearing children. Sometimes back Ii heard her call the new man her husband. It is now over 20 years, is the first husband permitted to remarry since it has become apparent that his wife has left him and moved in with her life with a new husband and children?

@tanyawatkins7206 2 жыл бұрын

This was such a thorough teaching. Done with love and honor. Thank you.

@godgavemeeyestosee 2 жыл бұрын

This teaching is in error. You cannot divorce and remarry UNLESS your covenant spouse is dead. “For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man (Romans 7:2-3 NKJV).” “A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:39 NKJV).”

@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways Жыл бұрын

It definitely is in error!

@mauricedelbe6894 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for clarification on this issue, my first wife committed adultery and so we divorced, I'm remarry now and I know for sure God has bless this one. Thanks...

@Seafarer62 9 ай бұрын

That is my story too. I have been happily remarried to a never-married Christian woman for 26 years now.

@philipbuckley759 2 жыл бұрын

I wonder how many will be lost, due to this teaching....

@Chuck_S 2 жыл бұрын

Maybe YOU are the one who is wrong? Isn't it possible that God reveals things differently to others? Every single person on this earth is different. The Bible teaches many things, different things in different scenarios. As individuals, we interpret things differently. God shows each of us what he wants us to see.

@philipbuckley759 2 жыл бұрын

@@Chuck_S if this were so.....the Bible woud be meaningless.....

@philipbuckley759 2 жыл бұрын

@@choch4075 the Bible is where one goes for guidance.....that is if it is properly taught...

@philipbuckley759 Жыл бұрын

so how does one know that....

@geneva1169 8 ай бұрын

@@philipbuckley759I bet you would’ve stoned the woman in adultery bc it was the law huh? Or gotten mad when Jesus and his disciples didn’t wash their hands before eating. Or perhaps rebuked the discipleship for picking food on the sabbath. It’s a fine line between obeying the law and becoming a Pharisee.

@cintie45 3 жыл бұрын

When I see the headlines of this teachings I know God is speaking directly to me in this teaching it's such an on time topic I appreciate your on time teachings Always Evangelist Tiff I'm sure glad for you and your ministry Blessings 🙌 🙏

@jpgrant2861 2 ай бұрын

This guy is teaching wrong...he is giving false teaching just read for yourself.

@ritacaudle68 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the lesson i was married to a man who was abusive and he wanted to kick me out so we separated. And then he wanted the divorce. So he gave me the divorce. I got remarried a year after our divorce.

@otisisuluh4060 10 ай бұрын

Just a year after divorce? you must have been cheating on him 😅

@geneva1169 8 ай бұрын

@@otisisuluh4060shut your mouth! Where are your manners??!!

@elaineandstevecorke7006 7 ай бұрын

@@otisisuluh4060wow wasn't expecting creepy people to be here!

@josefjking308 7 ай бұрын

@aldafiedler2180 3 жыл бұрын

For 7 years I was married even knowing my husband wasn't honoring our marriage, the day he told me that he wasn't sold 100% in the existence of God and Christ I asked for the divorce, because I have no say so in the relationship I didn't want raise my kids with he's opinion about that .For many years I struggle with this ,today I feel peace hearing that teaching! God bless you pastor Tiff Shuttlesworth

@georgeteo8797 2 жыл бұрын

I hope you remain single... the only way not to commit adultery. I just learned that I have been living in adultery myself, my wife was unbiblically divorced and she lied about it. I am praying that I can find a peaceful way out since there are children involved and mental disorders on her side... living in sin can open doors for demons and no mater how much you pray nothing happens...

@325ariel Жыл бұрын

This is why preachers are leading people to hell saying that they can remarry, it’s not true! I feel so sorry for you and pray that he gives you guidance on the situation

@325ariel Жыл бұрын

This is why preachers are leading people to hell saying that they can remarry, it’s not true! I feel so sorry for you and pray that he gives you guidance on the situation

@anitatomlinson9610 2 жыл бұрын

I just went through another divorce. My husband left me for a man. This was extremely painful and I am still healing. This has been just over 2 years. Almost 3 year since I found out what was going on. I thought he was my forever.

@anitatomlinson9610 2 жыл бұрын

I just found you today.

@senderoestrecho9142 2 жыл бұрын

Well if your first spouse wasn´t a divorcee and he is still alive, that is your covenant spouse. No divorce can dissolve a one flesh union; only death does that.

@Canada4evermore 2 жыл бұрын

@@senderoestrecho9142 Did you not hear what the preacher just said? You have no idea what happened that lead to divorce of her first husband. It could have been one of the three reasons for divorce mentioned. In which cases she is no longer bound to her first husband or her second.

@senderoestrecho9142 2 жыл бұрын

@@Canada4evermore Did you not hear what Jesus Christ said? "he who marries a divorced woman commits adultery". There are no legal grounds to get remarried. Just because you can separate does not mean that person is no longer your spouse, in God's eyes. The word "bound" is either "deo" or "dooleo" in the Greek. One means "enslaved" and the other means "tied/joined." So you are not enslaved if your unbelieving spouse departs, that´s why you can let them depart. But you are still joined to them in God's eyes and CANNOT remarry unless you become widowed. God joins together in one flesh a man and a woman and they are tied in God's eyes until one of them dies, as per the scripture "a woman is bound by the law of her husband until death". So I don´t need to know the reason for the divorce. That´s what the Pharisees were trying to explain to Jesus and He wasn´t having it and took them back to the beginning, Genesis.

@grahamwhitman8605 Жыл бұрын

What did Jesus say about divorce? You will stand alone before Jesus on Judgement day.

@Nana_Mack Жыл бұрын

Thank you for preaching the word of God in our country and around the world

@jpgrant2861 2 ай бұрын

@@Nana_Mack this is not the word of God.. It doesn't align with all the other scriptures.

@amakaukpai9097 11 ай бұрын

Glorious teaching especially the way you expanciate in this topic divorce and remarry may your anointing never run dry sir.❤

@maryrobertson8712 Жыл бұрын

Yes, thank you for stating physical abuse !!!!!!!!!!!! This is so necessary to get away from physical abuse , and can be so hard to get away from !!!!!!!!!!!!! God help individuals in these situations!!!!!!!

@user-hs4wo8ry3z 11 ай бұрын

Yes, thank you. I'm divorce. I left my husband because of abuse. I was wrong for divorcing I should have left him...because I know God hates divorce. I

@grant2149 9 ай бұрын

No grounds for remarriage.

@georgeteo8797 2 жыл бұрын

I need prayers and wisdom, I found out that my marriage is not Biblical and I have been living in adultery for over 30 years. You see I grew up in a strict Christian family and my wife was my first because I was taught that there's only one person out there for me and in time God will bring us together...that was mistake #1. It was love at first sight, but when I found out she has been divorced my heart broke. But after talking to several pastors from different denominations they all agreed that it was okay to marry her because she was abandoned by her first husband. So I thought I was doing everything right; we even had premarital counseling and after they listen to her story about her divorce, they agreed with her and determined that since he abandoned her she was free to remarry...Mistake #2, I should have asked for Biblical proof, because there is none. Right after our honeymoon I realized that she was changing, the lovebombing turned into rejection, manipulation and discard. But I hanged in there through the worst and just when I was about to throw in the towel, she would love bomb again riling me back in. So to make the story short, somehow we had 3 children and then she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Her psychiatrist warned me that there's also a manipulation behavior there hiding behind the bipolar, and advised me to leave because he said; "You need to take the children and leave, the stress can and will kill you, your children need a father not a hero, and this behavior can be passed on to the children!'' ...mistake #3, I didn't listen, I said that my faith doesn't permits divorce, and my God can and will heal any illness. But the healing didn't happen, it got worse and over the years I ended up I the emergency room several times with severe chest pains...and the doctors said that it was stress related. But I still didn't give up, I kept praying, and as the years went on I realized that my youngest daughter was developing similar narcissistic behaviors. Then I ran into a friend who knew her ex very well and what he said stunned me. I further investigated it and realized that the real reason her ex left her was obvious... he didn't leave, he was forced out of marriage by her behavior. So we went to Christian counseling and I confronted her, but she denied it and was able to get the consoler on her side. Looking back at my life I realized that I have been tricked to live in adultery for over 30 years and that is the reason my prayers were not answered... What do I do now, how do I fix this? I can't continue like this, now that I know, I don't want to go to hell...

@msmlr5016 Жыл бұрын

My heart goes out to you and Im sorry that noone has responded to you. Find the most Biblically based pastor in real life and go and talk to them. I know whats its like to have this very troubling question on your heart.

@carolibouwer7170 Жыл бұрын

1 John 1:9

@pearlkoka4117 Жыл бұрын

Pray and hear directly from the Holy Spirit to know the right steps to take.

@em77775 Жыл бұрын

You were not in adultery but you were tricked. God understands. Please stop beating yourself up. You and your kids needs to be safe and your wife needs real help.

@mchevalier-seawell4438 Жыл бұрын

First, are you under the blood of Christ. Have you asked forgiveness for any error you made? Then why are you accusing yourself of adultry? Don’t you believe that he died for our sins. Are these pastors suggesting that men and women who made mistakes early on can fix that by divorcing their current wives, husbands and children. So we fix divorce by divorcing. What really bothers me is that this pastor is ignoring the laws of Israel at the time. My husband (now dead) was transvestite. While dressed as a woman, he raped my 9 year old daughter. At the time of Jesus, he would have been taken outside the gates and stoned. That would have left the innocent party (me..I did not know about his perversion before marriage) free. But according to this man’s teaching, even though it would not have been that way in Jesus’s day, I would have to live alone the rest of my life. I guess since he raped my daughter you could say he was unfaithful. I have also read scholars who said that spousal abuse was a cause for divorce being granted in Israel, even to women. I’ll bet you abandonment was covered also under Jewish law because dowries were given. It is hard to believe that one sentence could possibly cover the whole complicated matter of marriage and divorce.

@nellieortiz7405 2 жыл бұрын

God bless. I want to acknowledge how well you explain this topic, the best thing of all is that it is all through the Bible, not man understanding and knowledge. I saved it for a blessing to other believers to hear. I am Hispanic but dominate the English language. I was wondering if any of your teachings or sermon are translated into Spanish. I would like to share for Hispanic believers. God bless and May God continue to use you to reach others with the truth.

@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways Жыл бұрын

His teaching is in error. I have checked the Spanish translations too, and only "fornication" during the JEWISH betrothal permits divorce and then the fornicating wife was put to death. Fornication is premarital sex, not adultery.

@ishmaeltarin2013 Жыл бұрын

@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysnot saying your wrong or right but betrothal is an engagement not a marrige

@Love_like_God 8 ай бұрын

⁠@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysfornication actual refers to two people that are not married and are engaging in sexual activity. This means either pre marital or one person is married and the other is not

@tadesirak7841 2 жыл бұрын

I admire your teachings of the word of God -no more, no less.Thank You.

@godgavemeeyestosee 2 жыл бұрын

You are admiring false teaching regarding divorce and remarriage. Read the following scriptures: “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).” “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)” “For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man (Romans 7:2-3 NKJV).” A person can only remarry if the covenant spouse is dead. If you divorce and remarry while your covenant spouse is still alive, you are committing adultery. Please study the Bible yourself so that you will know the truth.

@simonabanks8887 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Lord Jesus, you forgiven me..

@trishedwards9120 Жыл бұрын

1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness

@philipbuckley759 9 ай бұрын

do you confess and continue, in the sin.....does confession change adultery to a valid covenant relationship...

@ladypenelope99 8 ай бұрын

@@philipbuckley759if you seek repentance and the Lord’s help and guidance then he can turn any relationship round. The Lord performs miracles. ‘And the LORD said unto Moses, Is the LORD'S hand waxed short?‘ Numbers 11:23 (KJV)

@mphomatshaya2740 Ай бұрын

⁠@@philipbuckley759confession does not change adulterous relationship to be marriage.

@kevinbacon922 3 жыл бұрын

I receive your prayers. I would like to be remarried one day, but, I have decided not to seek marriage but rather allow God to build the house. I made poor choices in the past and I have no doubt I would again make another poor decision.

@senderoestrecho9142 2 жыл бұрын

Romans 7:3 - So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.

@Canada4evermore 2 жыл бұрын

God will decide if he wants you remarried. I did the same, left it with God and he must want me to remain single because no one has ever bothered with me. I’m ok with it although it’s hard to go through life without someone. He knew I could never fully trust anyone again. I was used, neglected and finally abandoned. God knew me better than I knew myself.

@Thomas116-m2n Жыл бұрын

@@senderoestrecho9142 A woman who has a husband is married. A woman who does not have a husband is not married. A marriage can be broken by sexual immorality by the other spouse or by desertion by an unbelieving spouse. Therefore, though divorce is not God's preference, it does exist and the Bible gives three reasons in which it can happen: death of the other spouse, adultery by the other spouse, desertion by the unbelieving spouse.

@erwinbrubacker7488 Жыл бұрын

@@Thomas116-m2nthe Bible doesnot teach divorce based on adultery, fornication yes, but not adultery.

@mchevalier-seawell4438 Жыл бұрын

@@erwinbrubacker7488. The word is porneia which means more than fornication. In fact when Esau sold his birthright for soup, that was porneia. In the OT

@dannywitt6932 Жыл бұрын

Tiffy, Tiffy, let people know that just because they are watching a recording, God still here's the recording and your prayers. It is still in real time with God.

@candydemientieff 7 ай бұрын

❤

@leilasimon6081 Жыл бұрын

God hates divorce!

@ladypenelope99 8 ай бұрын

Yes, but he also forgives it too. Jesus makes all things new! ‘Therefore if any man [be] in Christ, [he is] a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.’ 2 Corinthians 5:17

@Jericho-xs3ju 5 ай бұрын

God hates sending away. God himself is a divocee He have Israel a certificate of divorce AND sent her away. But he did not divorce her sister Judah. So wait. Did God just describe himself as having more than one wife 🤔

@mustardseedist 4 ай бұрын

@@Jericho-xs3ju You are a wicked scripture twister!!!

@Jericho-xs3ju 4 ай бұрын

Jeremiah 3:8 Read the whole chapter before and after. You will see how God did not divorce her sister Jiddah

@breflemontagnard3964 2 ай бұрын

@@ladypenelope99 be careful if you divorced and remarried and want to be forgiven by God ,you must get out from that adultery mariage, you cannot ask for God's forgiveness while stay in remariage .

@ChidiSamuel-b5r 11 ай бұрын

Wow that's a perfect teachings about marriage and divorce. The biblical teaching of the century

@sugarjones1 Жыл бұрын

Matt 12:30-31”31:Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men. 32:And whosoever speaketh a word against the Son of man, it shall be forgiven him: but whosoever speaketh against the Holy Ghost, it shall not be forgiven him, neither in this world, neither in the world to come. Know this according to his Word. We have all fallen short of the glory of God! We must realize that even Christians we have made mistakes, backslid, not to have excuses for what we have done wrong, or to make excuses, but God knows the heart we don’t even know our own heart he said the heart is desperately wicked! If your living in a marriage where both parties, have been in and adulterous relationship, and You both have repented , Do you not believe God will forgive or can? All anyone can do is totally rely on the Grace of God, when you have confessed that sin of Adultery and ask for forgiveness , then there is nothing left to do except Trust God, and just have to leave in his hands! Where sin abound Grace abound much more.. Marriage and Divorce is Very very serious. As the Minister says and yes God Hates Divorce, yet he hates all sin. But you have to repent is to turn away form that life style and have a change of Mind and heart about it….there is hope for the sinner and it’s only by forgiveness of sin that we can be restored Back to the right relation with God! And it’s only found in the atoning work of Christ on the Cross. Without his forgiveness there is no remission of sin! Today if you have made those mistakes or maybe your in this situation today ask God For his forgiveness and mean it and then put your faith and trust in him….and his Mercy..don’t continue to divorce and remarry. It’s Jesus’s Blood that cleanses us from all sin! Acknowledge the sin , and be sincere when repenting and depending On Christ to take care of the rest……once you have truly repented. Then continue to believe God for that cleansing! He has taken care of it on the Cross ! He who practices righteousness is righteous! And Jesus is our righteousness!

@alicebenson8607 Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@philipbuckley759 9 ай бұрын

what about living in sin.....

@sybelmoses5197 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks very much for what you you taught me through God's Holly Word...be forever blessed

@JohnsonSebastian-we9cp 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for teaching

@josephmuszik9375 9 ай бұрын

Thank you. I married a divorced woman. My spouse went on to heaven before I remarried. She left her husband because of blatant emotional abuse. I never heard it explained this way. Thank you.

@josefjking308 7 ай бұрын

@DarleneNixon242 2 жыл бұрын

This topic needs to be discuss and address to singles who want to be married to avoid having a lack of knowledge of what they are/ will get into. Marriage is ordained by God, a covenant between God, Man and his wife...until death. Divorce was NEVER of God, but it was permitted to Moses under the MOsaic law due to the hardness of man's heart. People who are on their 2nd marriage finds scripture or should I say twist scripture to satisfy their flesh so they dont feel guilty of committing adultery. Jesus clearly tells us about divorce and adultery in Matthew 5:32, Matthew 19:9, 1Corinthians 7:10-11. Fast, pray and read God's word for yourself to get a response from God on what to do. He'll speak to you.

@bradbenson2202 6 ай бұрын

What do I do then? Is there no hope for me? Do i leave another marriage to not be in adultery? I am asking for answers. I repent of my failures. But i can't change them now.

@debbie-annbarnes2315 6 ай бұрын

Thank you pastor my husband left me with my 6 weeks old while I was sick left me to pay rent when I did not have a job he moved on to have another child and now he is married again

@Anthony-yy3kc 2 жыл бұрын

I am recently separated from my wife. It's my fault that we are. She may take me back someday or she may not. I am learning some things about myself that I only recently discovered. I am willing to remain unmarried and celibate for the rest of my life if reconciliation is not achieved! Everyone is so afraid of the word celibacy. It is not a death sentence. I have lived most of my life single and celibate. I was married, but I may have to go back to the way I lived prior to marriage. If so God is good! I will be alright!

@laidback1.0.1.2 2 жыл бұрын

If you were not divorced because she committed fornication before you married her then she is still bound to you by law. The commandment for women are different from commandments of men

@josefjking308 7 ай бұрын

@joannerickards5319 2 жыл бұрын

I've listened to your services numerous times, and have learned quite a bit. What does the bible say about scientific research on the body? Thank you for your preaching

@mrsmomy5897 2 жыл бұрын

I thank God for your teaching pastor. I am very pleased to find your video.

@knowledgeofhealth7821 2 жыл бұрын

Man this just leaves me with so many questions I wish I could talk to this guy

@TiffShuttlesworth 2 жыл бұрын

I am aware of the complexities. I certainly can’t do an exhaustive study in one setting. Send your questions to info@lostlamb.org. and I will address them asap.

@godgavemeeyestosee 2 жыл бұрын

There are no complexities in the scriptures regarding divorce and remarriage. Jesus made is plain and simple. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).” “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)” These are the words of Jesus. You either believe them or you don't. DO NOT BE DECEIVED!

@senderoestrecho9142 2 жыл бұрын

@@TiffShuttlesworth Please stop leading people to hell.

@barbaramiller1412 2 жыл бұрын

Same here. I feel like I'm doomed to hell now and I feel like giving up. I was unfaithful. My husband divorced me. I thought I was saved. I married again. I have been so much closer to God in this marriage. We pray together and discuss biblical teachings. We consider ourselves saved. Now I'm left feeling that no matter if I confessed my sin of adultery to God and asked forgiveness I'm still not going to heaven. I'm heartbroken. Please help me understand why God cannot forgive me.

@Shay-lc9lz 2 жыл бұрын

@@barbaramiller1412I have the same story as you. Did we sin, YES. Is it forgivable? YES! You are not doomed to hell if you have accepted Christ as your Savior and repented of your sins. Praise God that our sins are covered in the blood of Jesus. Your first marriage is over and you can’t go back. repent and know that you are forgiven and loved by God. Go forward and honor God in the marriage you have now. Much love to you Sister in Christ🙏🏻💜

@darryltognarelli6769 Күн бұрын

If anyone is lonely after a divorce, the reason is, they have not picked up the Bible and read it and took Jesus Christ in as their savior I went through a divorce and the only one that I need now is Jesus Christ or he let me know that I am not Alone and it’s a beautiful life

@mikemendez4220 7 ай бұрын

Can I PLEASE watch this video with a stupid ad popping up every 40 seconds

@kendavidson6813 Ай бұрын

After all, listening to all rules and regulations about marriage, I can conclude I'm totally screwed, and if my eternal life in jeopardy, and because mistakes I made, on one hand as believer, and as for second marriage, according to this message I'm doomed and will not go up with the rapture, and if it is like that, why bother it all, church and all Christianity is useless, doomed anyway, might just get more ammo, if I'm going down into and through all 7 years of tribulation and have to go away that way, I will go down like the Man, standing up till last breath. Thank for this clarification, now I can direct my focus more correctly since I'm screwed.

@deliarussell2020 Жыл бұрын

If a husband tells you he no longer wants you to live with him and he is a believer…then is it considered abandonment/desertion? I think it is according to what I heard said around the 52-54 minute marker.

@Prayforjerusalam 10 ай бұрын

Thankyou so much.. God bless you pastor. I love you jesus Christ

@online_now6834 18 күн бұрын

I think it’s very much more complex- you can be abandoned with being physically abandoned in your house- remember all sin is forgivable except blasphemy of the Holly spirit- God wants us to live in peace and sometimes that’s impossible with your spouse even though they have not cheated or physically abandoned you-

@JMKrech Жыл бұрын

Excellent!! This is a great teaching!

@Angel77_7 2 жыл бұрын

So commendable on so many levels, that this video while may not be popularly accepted, is exactly biblical. Thank you for your boldness in proclaiming these truths.

@godgavemeeyestosee 2 жыл бұрын

This teaching is against the Bible. To divorce and remarry is adultery. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).” “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)” Only death frees a person so that he can remarry. “For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man (Romans 7:2-3 NKJV).” “A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:39 NKJV).” Please study your Bible.

@Angel77_7 2 жыл бұрын

@@godgavemeeyestosee You’re absolutely right. I listened to it carefully a second time & did not realize he was saying there are ‘biblical’ grounds to remarry. The Bible states you can divorce if you so desire, but the marriage vows are what the persons agree to when they do their ceremonial vows, Until DEATH do us part. Having said that, to all contemplating marriage, do so with & only with much prayer & peace about it. If not, remember you will be ‘one’ with that person until either you, or they, die. Thank you for straightening me out on my comment. God bless!

@godgavemeeyestosee 2 жыл бұрын

@@Angel77_7 I am so glad that I could help. We are living in the end times and so many Christians will not make it into the kingdom of God because they are in adultery. “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 NKJV).” “Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: ADULTERY, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God (Galatians 5:19-21).” May God bless you as you seek His will for your life.

@Angel77_7 2 жыл бұрын

@@godgavemeeyestosee I know that some biblical truths are not at all popular, nor even welcome by most in this last generation, but Bible truths are not our truths but God’s. He will be the final judge, not us. Up to me anybody could do whatever they want, but what I want means nothing, only what our Creator wants will matter on our day of judgement. Thank You for your boldness in declaring them. God bless you too & all who read this.

@godgavemeeyestosee 2 жыл бұрын

@@Angel77_7 May those who are truly looking for the truth find it no matter how difficult that truth might be. Be blessed!

@bench111ful Жыл бұрын

There is only one unforgivable sin and it is not unscriptural divorce. It is the blasphemy of the Holy Spirit.

@bradanderson4202 9 ай бұрын

You can live a lifestyle of sin. Adulterous remarriage can lead you to hell. Repentance is required for salvation.

@ladypenelope99 8 ай бұрын

@@bradanderson4202you’re forgetting that breaking any of God’s law leads to Hell. Stop singling out divorce and remarriage.

@elaineandstevecorke7006 7 ай бұрын

@@ladypenelope99 wow, are you sure you know my Father? This does not sound like my loving Father at all.

@francissimbwa9726 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Tiff, I am in Africa and would very much love to hear your take on LGBTQ and same sex marriage. God bless

@user-hs4wo8ry3z 11 ай бұрын

Love this true and straight from the bible study on divirce

@josefjking308 7 ай бұрын

@locker1325 Жыл бұрын

Great lesson. Full of reason. But there are as many different teachings on divorce and remarriage as there are people who teach. Some are very frightening and some very permissive. The scary ones are without mercy stating that leaving the second marriage and remaining celibate is the only thing to do. And others are figuratively a free for all. What if I get it wrong and believe the wrong guy. Now I'm under God's wrath. How can you know?

@krissyyoung9264 9 ай бұрын

Do you believe what Christ Jesus accomplished for you on the cross? He died for the forgiveness of ALL SIN and rose again. Those who believe this truth have been transferred out of Adam (sin), baptized into Christ (righteousness) and are JUSTIFIED by His blood. We’ve died to the law by the body of Christ so that we can be married to another, even to Him who is raised from the dead.

@grant2149 9 ай бұрын

@@krissyyoung9264wake up we still cant continue in sin. Period.

@bradanderson4202 9 ай бұрын

Read the Bible. Do some research on poneia and mocheia.

@ladypenelope99 8 ай бұрын

@@grant2149 ‘If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us [our] sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.’ 1 John 1:9

@sistahloves8207 Жыл бұрын

I’m here because I’m planning to divorce my 22 years old marriage, due to my husband’s habit of adultery😢. Lord Help me this is making me unhealthy 😭

@philipbuckley759 9 ай бұрын

yes you may separate, or even divorce, but the options are to reconcile, or remain unmarried.....the Bible...

@Seafarer62 9 ай бұрын

Pharisee Philip is wrong about this. You have freedom to remarry some day, but only to a believer.

@bradanderson4202 9 ай бұрын

Adultery violates the marriage not breaks the covenat. Only death dissolves a marriage. Romans. So if you get a divorce you are still married under God's eyes. So you must remain single or need to reconcile. Corinthians. Fornication is the only reason for divorce and that is an unmarried person sex sin.

@malamuteaerospace6333 2 жыл бұрын

You cannot remarry after divorce PERIOD. Unless your ex spouse dies. Peace.

@grant2149 2 жыл бұрын

Excatly💯

@pearlkoka4117 Жыл бұрын

White truth that cannot be diluted

@johnborland7865 Жыл бұрын

I Samuel 11 and 12. You can, you just need to unalive the former partner like David did in 1 Samuel. After all God forgave David. Then your former partner isn't alive, so you can remarry. Easy Peazy, lemon squeezey.

@johndon-wauchope9116 Жыл бұрын

This is what does not makes sense. King David had the husband of the woman he desired killed so he was okay to marry her. So does God forgive murder but not divorce. Or do we all have to arrange for our ex-spouses to be accidently killed to free us to remarry? That would make no sense in the kingdom of God. A rule is either absolute with no exceptions or it is open to the truth that God forgives those that truly repent and frees you from your sin.

@livingbread6564 5 ай бұрын

I left my wife and staying with another woman now. Because my wife was always doubtful and abusive. Now I realised that I shouldn't have done that. But its too late now... Can I be forgiven? Please pray for me.. I don't want to be abandoned by my heavenly Father...

@Sarahbee-o8t 2 жыл бұрын

Well if the Bible says you can’t divorce anyone we are all going to hell .

@sandrataurman5842 Жыл бұрын

Well, I guess I might as well give up. I'm divorced after 33 years. I thought rejection of God, our Jesus Christ, and walking away from the Holy Spirit. 😢

@John_811KJV Жыл бұрын

*Remarriage after Divorce while 1st Spouse Lives = Adultery* Romans 7:2-3 Adulterers Do Not Inherit the Kingdom of God: 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 Unless they Confess and Forsake: Proverbs 28:13; Luke 13:3

@omegatafkal Жыл бұрын

AMEN

@John_811KJV Жыл бұрын

Praise the LORD!@@omegatafkal

@rickkilgore1147 6 ай бұрын

I really don't Care.I love my 2nd wife,but I can't stand U PHAIRASEE WHO APPOINTED U.

@spiroclimb2523 4 ай бұрын

And adulterers can repent and be forgiven just like you and your daily sins.

@CandicejlCook 4 ай бұрын

I divorced my first husband because of abuse, and remarried later. I now have 4 children with my 2nd husband. My first husband won't live much longer due to bad health. If my 1st husband dies can I be forgiven?

@SusanAnnB 4 ай бұрын

How can one say until death do we part then go on and repeat those same vows to another???? Also where in the Bible does it say remarriage is ok?

@debrabrookham6670 4 ай бұрын

Pastors have all these different interpretations. Some don't even believe adultery enables you to remarry. Hopefully, Jesus sacrifice will cleanse our sins, and God will read our hearts as to the reason for the divorce because apparently many of the clergy have so many different ideas about everything in the bible.

@doriscastro8414 5 ай бұрын

❤ thank you Lord for your grace!!!

@lepp6598 2 жыл бұрын

I left an abusive husband. I never had any desire to reconcile with him. I saw no good reason to deprive myself of a happy life, including sexual satisfaction. I am now married to a man who loves me more than he loves his next breath, and I feel the same way about him.

@grant2149 Жыл бұрын

You are livingbin continous Adultery. Believe what you want to.

@lindastevens2449 Жыл бұрын

@@grant2149 thou shalt not kill is a stronger commandment than staying together in a abusive marriage. 4 women are killed every day in the US by their husbands. FBI statistics - look it up. about 1,500 per year. God is against murder. if the women had children then the husband is in prison, the mother of the children is dead and they go to foster homes or who knows what - traffiking? God cares about the woman's life and the childrens even if legalistic Christians don't. wake up to reality and see the whole picture.

@omegatafkal Жыл бұрын

Sadly, you violated the biblical law - that is, except if your old marriage was an adulterous one and he was remarried. If that is not the case, your old marriage however was lawful and the new one is not. Then you must leave him. If possible, pray for the old husband's repentance - people CAN change! - and if it does not work, well, you must stay single

@omegatafkal Жыл бұрын

@@lindastevens2449 Do you know what legalism means?

@lepp6598 Жыл бұрын

@@omegatafkal leave the man I love, who loves me, to go back to the one who abused me? Not gonna happen.

@Robert-re5vk 3 жыл бұрын

Ty 4 teaching us

@ElladuPreez Жыл бұрын

Amen and Amen for the Word of God

@davidward6626 2 жыл бұрын

I know I done wrong I was married and remarried if I would have been close to the Lord I would of never got devorced but thank you preacher for your preaching God's Word

@alicebenson8607 Жыл бұрын

How is it that King David had Bathsheba’s husband killed. He married her but the Bible says David was a man after God’s own heart?

@marlabowers8376 3 жыл бұрын

My first marriage of 13 yrs my husband cheated multiple times I tried to work this out but after the 12th woman he had been with, divorce was filed. Now I understand the sexual immorality , but what about the abstinence of sex in a marriage. When one person has absolutely no desire for sex with anyone?

@TiffShuttlesworth 2 жыл бұрын

It is direct disobedience to withhold sexual intimacy in a marriage and a sin against God and the marriage covenant.

@philipbuckley759 2 жыл бұрын

you are being defrauded, but the Bible does not allow for divorce and remarriage, in this type of condition....

@paulokello5981 Жыл бұрын

@@philipbuckley759so the one being denied sex should stay celibate in the marriage and the one defrauding is free to live that way till death?

@michaelmartin9335 Ай бұрын

Yes what does the Bible have to say on all of the verses in the Bible about divorce and remarriage? And not just a few selective verses.

@maxinekeesic2437 2 жыл бұрын

When I got married in 1981, I was not a Christian. My husband had previously been a Christian but had fallen away. When we were married we already had one child and another on the way. We did not get married in a church but were married by a Justice of the Peace at the courthouse. I gave my life to Jesus on March 10, 2007, which was the best day of my life. My husband has still not rededicated his life to the Lord. My question is, are we married in the sight of God?

@bradarmstrong5033 2 жыл бұрын

Hello Maxine, I am not Tiff Shuttlesworth but I can tell you absolutely 100% you are married in the eyes of God. God has been with you from the day you were born, and everyday since, He was there at your wedding. As for your husband's rededication to Christ, I would like to pray and for you to come into agreement with this prayer. Father, I come before you today in the name of your son Jesus whom you sent to cleanse us of all unrighteousness. Without delay I ask that you instill peace into the heart of Maxine by reclaiming that which is yours, specifically the heart and mind of her husband. Please Lord reignite in him the desire to please you through repentance and obedience to your will. Show us the Peace that comes from the Power of your Mercy. All Glory and Praise to you God of the Universe and of everything seen and unseen. In Jesus name, Amen

@deborahwallace1847 6 ай бұрын

Amen!!! For God’s forgiveness!

@NokuthulaNyembezi Жыл бұрын

God bless you,Pastor

@tammyhartley6848 2 жыл бұрын

Not unless there is abusive or if there is been someone been unfaithfull

@JoanClark-o7e 6 ай бұрын

Thank you again

@KwakuKoomson 10 ай бұрын

I suggest we listen to David Pawson on this matter. It is a delicate issue to discuss.

@josefjking308 7 ай бұрын

Luke 16:18 conveys a clear message: "Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery." This uncompromising statement emphasises the severe consequences of attempting to dissolve a marriage through means other than death.

@senderoestrecho9142 2 жыл бұрын

AfterJesus's answer to the Pharisees' first question, they didn´t then ask Him as a follow up question "Then WHY can´t divorce be allowed for any reason?" nor "Then WHY is it allowed for any reason?". Instead they asked why Moses allowed divorce at all. That´s because Jesus didn´t believe in either of the two schools of thought that the Pharisees were divided on.

@dh605x 7 ай бұрын

This preacher was right about a lot of points regarding divorce and marriage, but I cannot recommend this sermon for one reason: he indicated that you can lose your salvation if you divorce and later remarry for a reason deemed inappropriate by God. I know of only one unpardonable sin, and divorce is not it - nor is a subsequent remarriage. That kind of talk has no place in any sound teaching on the Word of God. If our eternal security were so fragile that we could lose it for getting a divorce, then Jesus died for nothing. He also erred when he claimed that only grounds that are explicitly named in Scripture are valid - this is an argument from silence. The truth is that there is no exhaustive list of valid grounds for divorce in Scripture. The overall tone in Scripture indicates that divorce was intended as a remedy in the event of some serious sin that render the marriage unviable. I offer no defense to someone who would abuse divorce for some selfish or trivial cause. If you are conjuring up some lame pretext to dump a faithful spouse, God will know. You can't fool God.

@philipbuckley759 3 жыл бұрын

desertion is not a Biblical ground for divorce....the term not under bondage, is not akin to not being being bound...

@philipbuckley759 2 жыл бұрын

@@curiouscat9204 in verse 15, there usually is a mistranslation.....surprised....of bound, rather that the proper translation under bondage....that is the answer to your question...

@sabinabucik2231 Жыл бұрын

I have left my husband because he was physically and mentally abusive. He would threaten to put me in a psych ward. Am I still right with God.

@grant2149 9 ай бұрын

Just you NOT allowed to remarry

@goldinsandrasg Жыл бұрын

Bro Tiff since listening to your message on divorce and remarriage I have been so troubled. Is there a way I can speak with you privately?

@ThymaKlone 6 ай бұрын

WHAT SHOULD HAPPEN WHEN A BELIEVER SPOUSE DESERTS A BELIEVER SPOUSE without any biblical ground, no abuse whatsoever?

@martinellibarnard6747 2 жыл бұрын

We divorced and remarried each other within 6 months of divorce and 2 yrs seperation

@annmariegraham4976 Жыл бұрын

I believe if spouse is verbally abusing you can get divorced what if he/she yelling streams at you saying mean and native thing and controlling you

@grant2149 9 ай бұрын

Lol what a joke are you a pharisee. No groundsfor divorce go study your bible.

@MrPatdeeee 3 жыл бұрын

"What Does The Bible Say About Divorce & Remarriage?" Wow kind Sir. The bible only takes 7 verses; to let us know what Jesus (who IS God) meant in no "uncertain terms"; when it comes to "Divorce"...and one more verse for "Remarriage". Deuteronomy 24:1 and Mathews 19:3-8 (7). Where Moses took it upon himself to disobey Jesus' Commandments. But when Jesus was on this earth He made it "crystal clear"; that Moses was DEAD wrong. And proving that "God did NOT inspire every word in the bible!" (So Strike 2 Timothy 3:16)* And Jesus gave ONLY one exception... In Mathew 19:9 Jesus also makes it clear that: IF "wife" commits adultery; her husband CAN divorce her. And IF she marries again, "that" husband has committed adultery too. Wow! Remember, that in those days; NO woman was ever allowed to divorce her husband. I believe this harsh punishment was just; because of Genesis 3:16. Where Jesus made it crystal clear that; the wife MUST direct her "desires" only for her husband. AND...He must "rule over her". Of course today; 90% of the world would blast Jesus for that (from here to eternity!). Or they believe that Jesus "changed" every thing, when He was here. That is pure "Hogwash". A wife was never intended; to be allowed divorcing her husband. Believe it or not. Thus Marriage was not designed for 50/50. Why? Two captains can NOT drive a ship! And since the husband has the "Wisdom and build fact on fact"; where the wife is "whim and emotion"; He must rule over her. OK...I am putting on my "Flame Jacket". Cuz the whole world will want to "tar and feather" me from here to eternity. Be that, I stand on it...So help me Jesus... ...In any case kind Sir and Brethren, Please Pray OFTEN and Praise Jesus OFTEN; for He is the ONLY true "God Almighty"; there will ever have been. And may Jesus bless you and yours always. AMEN! * I love St Paul and I think he is THE greatest "Gospel" messenger there will ever have been. But he made mistakes. Oh yes he did. So did all others too. Believe it or not. One more example: Mathew 1:1 vs John 8:58 and Mathew 22:41-45. There are many more too. Sad, but true.

@philipbuckley759 2 жыл бұрын

adultery is not the exception, it is fornication......

@esthermunene4738 2 жыл бұрын

May God bless u u have teach me a lot

@davidkrejcarek5385 Жыл бұрын

I was forced to divorce for unbiblical reasons even though I didn't want it! I have since remarried to a confessed Christian after18 yrs. She is remarried several times and doesn't want to divorce without taking me to the cleaners financially! She was taught thru the Baptist church that she is forgiven and is not committing adultery. What should I do because I know I am not right with God!

@josefjking308 7 ай бұрын

@ajlouviere202 2 жыл бұрын

The divorce and remarriage for adultery doctrine is based solely on the supposed guilt of the wife in Matthew 5:32 and 19:9. However, the wife, in the above scriptures, is clearly not guilty of fornication because the Jews (that Jesus was speaking to) were still living under the law, and if fornication was discovered, there was a moral obligation to report the offender according to Deuteronomy 22:13-24. The wife, who would have been found guilty of fornication, was subsequently stoned to death, according to the law, which had still governed the Jews up until Christ's death on the cross. The same for a woman caught in adultery, according to Leviticus 20:10. How could a wife, guilty of fornication, or adultery, under the law of Moses, be given a writing of divorcement and be caused to commit adultery with whosoever marries her, that is divorced? Jesus is clear, in these examples, that the wife is not guilty of fornication, but is still caused to commit adultery if she marries another man now that she is divorced. This is the only way that Matthew 5:31-32, and Matthew 19:9 keep harmony with Romans 7:2-3, and 1 Corinthians 7:39. Unlike the synoptic gospels of Mark and Luke, which were written to evangelize the Gentiles, Matthew was written to the Jews, and has of 24 characteristics that identify it as intended for the house of Israel. The ancient Jews called the betrothed (engaged) "husband" and "wife" according to Deuteronomy 22:23-24, Matthew 1:18-25, and Luke 2:5-7. Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage) was never for fornication or adultery. Allowing those guilty of fornication and adultery to remain living and become a prospect for remarriage was against the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22:13-24 and Leviticus 20:10, which commanded that those who were found guilty of fornication and adultery be put away from Israel, and stoned to death. The law of Moses was not given to the world, only to the Jews. From the exodus, to Christ's death on the cross, the law of Moses governed the Jewish people. Christ's death on the cross caused the Jews to become dead to the law of Moses, so they could be joined to Christ under a New Covenant. This is what Jesus's fulfillment of the law of Moses, including Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage), means. Paul gave several warnings to Christian believers against keeping the ordinances of law of Moses as justification, over following Christ and his commands under the New Covenant with Christ. Keeping the ordinances of the law is no longer possible, for Israel, and that is why Christ prophesied that the temple would be destroyed. These scriptures make it clear that if you choose the law over Christ, that you must keep the whole law: Romans 7:4, Galatians 3:1-9, Galatians 3:10-29, Galatians 4:1-7, Galatians 4:21-31, and Galatians 5:1-15. Being unequally yoked to unbelievers is not a cause for divorce, once two become one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, according to 1 Corinthians 7:12-14. Many one-flesh covenant marriages between unbelievers are recognized by God in the scriptures, most notably the marriage covenants between Herodias and King Herod's brother Philip, Potiphar and his wife, Ahab and Jezebel, and Ruth to her deceased husband Mahlon by Boaz when he took her to be his wife. Some are teaching that 1 Corinthians 7:15 implies that those who are abandoned, by an unbelieving spouse, are "no longer bound" in a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The reason this is in conflict is due to the way some translations word it, which gives it an entirely different meaning, and context. 1 Corinthians 7:15, says, "But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace." As you can see, the actual scripture says "not enslaved" which means that the husband or wife is not enslaved to sin with the unbelieving spouse, and is free to worship Christ in peace. Subsequent translations have changed the words to imply that they nullify the marriage covenant, which is not at all the case. The issue that this creates is with 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, which says, "10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife." As you can see, those who claim 1 Corinthians 7:15 shows the Apostle Paul giving those who are abandoned permission to remarry, do not understand the command that Christ gives is to an abandoned husband, in 1 Corinthians 7:11, and that he "must not divorce" his wife, and his wife is commanded to "remain unmarried or else be reconciled" to her husband. The theory that 1 Corinthians 7:15 nullifies two as being one-flesh, due to one's unbelief, puts the Apostle Paul directly at odds with Christ, and himself, by implying that Paul has issued an opposing command to verses 10-14 in verse 15. Some also teach that 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 is referring to both divorced men and virgin women, and not exclusively to men and women (virgins) who have never been married. This has been falsely taught for some time in churches as referring to anyone who is not currently in a marriage, which, for them, also includes those who are divorced. This is a very false assumption, and puts these verses in a different context, that is at odds with both the teachings of Christ and the apostle Paul. We see Paul refer to virgins, which signifies the unmarried who have never before been wed, which is the proper context here. We see Paul saying clearly that it is good for virgins, which is also speaking to never before wed men here, "that it is good for a man so to be." He goes on to say, "Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife." Who is he referring to here? Men who, like himself, have never married. The word "bound", in these verses, is a clear reference to betrothal (engagement) and not to a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The ancient Jews were considered bound as husband and wife during the betrothal (espousal/engagement) before becoming one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, through consummation. This is affirmed by the context of the term "bound" seen in Numbers 30:14-16. The Jewish couples in ancient Israel, who were betrothed (engaged) were also bound together until death, either by execution for fornication, or by other causes. Then Paul says, "But and if thou marry, thou has not sinned", which is who? The men who had never married in the congregation at Corinth. So he begins with verses 25-26 speaking exclusively to men that have never married. Paul then says, "and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned", which is speaking directly in regard to virgin women who have never been married, within the congregation, not divorced women. Notice that verse 34 says, "There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband." Paul speaks plainly when he says "there is a difference between a wife and a virgin." Paul goes on to say, "But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry." This is speaking of a virgin who has become of age to bear children when it says, "let them marry." This is a clear command, to a single man, who has taken a virgin to be his wife. Paul then says, "Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well." This is referring again to the single man who decides it is better not to marry, but to stay betrothed (engaged), under the present distress, by saying that he "hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin." Paul then says, "So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better", which again means single men, in the congregation, who have betrothed a wife, do well if they marry, and those who choose not to marry their virgin brides do better, under the current climate. For more proper context of the word "bound", let's look further down in this chapter to verse 39, which says, "39The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord" (1 Corinthians 7:39). For so long, these scriptures, between verses 25-38, have been twisted and used to enable divorce and remarriage, by wayward churches and teachers, and have caused many to stumble and to be trapped in unscriptural unions. The use of the woman at the well, in regard to marriage, falsely implies that Christ was endorsing remarriage after a divorce. This teaching is in defiance of Matthew 22:23-28, which shows a woman who had been widowed seven times, and entered into each subsequent marriage without any scriptural conflicts with God's law of marriage (one-flesh covenant) seen in Genesis 2:23-24. Mark 10:1-12 and Matthew 19:1-12 both record Christ's teaching that day beyond the Jordan. There is no mention of the words "fornication", "writing of divorcement", or "divorced" in Mark's Gospel because Mark was not written to the Jews (as Matthew's Gospel was), but to evangelize the Romans, and likewise Luke to evangelize the Greeks, who had no knowledge of the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22 or Deuteronomy 24. All of these facts draw a clear understanding that remarriage after a divorce, under the New Covenant with Christ, is a scripturally false and baseless teaching. Please use wisdom when living in any situation against what the scriptures command.

@ajlouviere202 2 жыл бұрын

@Jojo Moa what matters is Jesus's teachings on this topic which is clear that those who divorce and marry another, as well as those who marry one who is divorced, commit adultery, which he calls for repentance and abstinence of in Matthew 5:27-30. Listen to Jesus, not man's attempt to present another gospel.

@philipbuckley759 2 жыл бұрын

@Jojo Moa I would like the....Readers Digest.....version, but he is not raining on anyone he is expressing the Biblical mandate for this topic....