Find out what physical changes that occur as a loved one is in their final days of life and who you can support them.
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@oli2305 жыл бұрын
To all the men and women that work in end of life care, I say a big big thank you to you. You are very very special people.
@seekit97684 жыл бұрын
Yes you are speial people indeed!
@Lara-yp5oc4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. It's a very painful situation when one's been caring for a patient/friend for 14 years and then find her lifeless body. It's just happened to me. Thank you for your recognition and comment. God bless
@havesomebreadsticks59004 жыл бұрын
Tryna score heaven points lol
@damien98484 жыл бұрын
“Hospice” I only know bc my grandma is in it
@darceylewis17714 жыл бұрын
I could only hope that there's a team of compassionate hospice nurses around me when my time comes. I'm petrified of the thought of dying alone and in pain.
@stephenreeve32075 жыл бұрын
Watching this made me well up. I was told in June 2014 I'd be dead in 3months or less. I'm still here 5 years later, but the care I was given by my local hospice was incredible. These people are very special. God bless them. 🙏🙏🙏
@abdulmunir23064 жыл бұрын
How are you know
@rosemarrie23914 жыл бұрын
Hey how are you?
@bambi10514 жыл бұрын
How are you?
@stilesxlacrosse24214 жыл бұрын
Stephen Reeve I’m so sorry... if you are still here I wish you luck in the future
@overout4294 жыл бұрын
I was told I had between 3 and 6 months to live . Went to talk to my wife she listened then said, no, I'm not going to let this happen. 28 years have passed and I ambvb clear of any cancer. We celebrated our 53 rd. wedding anniversary this year.
@jeanettedegiulio82205 жыл бұрын
As a hospice nurse I have held many hands while my patients crossed over but nothing prepared me for watching my mom die in my arms.
@r.l.harvey9965 жыл бұрын
Amen, Jeanette. Hang in there, and know you're loved.
@browneyedgirl18233 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being a Hospice Nurse- you are all my Hero’s and I so wish I went back to school for nursing. I was there for my mom too. Funeral is tomorrow. Losing your mom and speaking to someone else who has is so therapeutic to me for some reason, because you’re both in a club no one wants to be in.
@dereklonewolf90113 жыл бұрын
When you hold someone in your arms & feel the ice flow thro their life. It haunts your soul . God bless you young ladies @ 71+ 🇨🇦 expat
@alinesimon33303 жыл бұрын
I know exactly how u feel I was there laying in bed and holding my mamas hand when she passed it was so very hard but I know she knew I was there with her I was also there last yr when my sister died it's so hard to watch......GOD BLESS YOU!!!!❤️❤️
@helpmefixthis91173 жыл бұрын
same ,,,Sad thing is when my time comes I will have no one
@boondockpaint3 жыл бұрын
Watching my mother deteriorate right before my eyes was the most painful thing I've ever seen. Glad she is no longer in any pain. We need to get a cure for cancer as fast as we created a vaccine for Covid.
@elbjasyal2 жыл бұрын
I lost my aunt to cancer 4 days ago, she didn’t have kids, me and my two sisters were her kids, she was like a mother to us. She deteriorated as well to a point she was unrecognizable, it was very painful to watch, we are all devastated, im sorry for your loss, this is so hard😭
@boondockpaint2 жыл бұрын
@@elbjasyal My condolences to you and your family. Sorry for your loss. You never get over it, you just learn to live with it. I have my mother's eyes. So everytime I look in the mirror I still see her.
@Ian_Livesey2 жыл бұрын
Sorry, but we haven't cured Covid
@theteddy9062 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately it is very complicated but I’m sure in the future we will get better treatments and eventually find multiple cures for the different kinds. Bless you and your family, I hope you are doing well in spite of your loss.
@guadalupelomeli64632 жыл бұрын
Jesus is very hard I remember my grandma mother she raised me while my mother left me and I still remember the last days My life some how stopped there I always feel like the age I lost her Isn't easy
@coolmusic15794 жыл бұрын
My dad passed away last night, he had interstitial lung disease, 81yrs old, he took a shower, got back to bed, the nurses found him on the floor. I love you dad. RIP 😭
@mariehalsey88924 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry
@jaaythegreat78494 жыл бұрын
My 2 year old baby brother died April 12th at 8:31 and I’m so heartbroken a piece of me has been shattered
@mjsilverfox4 жыл бұрын
@@jaaythegreat7849 I'm so sorry to hear this, my condolences to you and your family and may he rest in peace bless him x
@desireelococo17474 жыл бұрын
God bless you. And your Dad.
@bernardovazquez30984 жыл бұрын
RIP
@billmarden38865 жыл бұрын
These people that work with end of life care are angels on earth. They have a special talent and it's a calling. Blessed be these wonderful,caring people...
@donnadexter30985 жыл бұрын
I am a carer I have cared for end of life patients also I cared for my dad when he was dying it's the one selfless thing you can do for someone as they prepare to leave this earth
@galaxymail1025 жыл бұрын
Yes, they have to do from the hearts not for a money They like to have paid check to ,but more important is the good care for the Humans And the work with no looking on clock I did Paliative care for the Humans ,my weeks many times where 70 or 80 h,,,a week ,, I am RETIRE now ,but I still have many bad dreams and good dreams 😢😢😢😢😊
@donnachavez96965 жыл бұрын
I hope help out I'm caretaker damisha I watch her 3week she fell broke heap she has pins she's always pain she saying sees husband mom dad she wants go home sighs ready go hope get feedback thank you God bless sick careing love one
@angielomas23195 жыл бұрын
Yes yes bless them
@pootdaggy26575 жыл бұрын
@@donnadexter3098 Just know that someone will be there for you at your time and they'll be just as caring as you Donna. You have my TOTAL respect for performing a very difficult task.
@Hapenparadise5 жыл бұрын
Those last moments you witness NEVER leave your memory, I can testify to THAT! NO WORDS DESCRIBE IT! Especially when it s your MOTHER!
@babyblus335 жыл бұрын
This is the realest thing you can tell people about watching someone die, especially your mother. I was with my mother until her last breath. Its been 4 years and I still see and hear her last hours like it was yesterday. There's no way I would of been anywhere else besides by her side holding her hand, but the reality is.. It forever changes who you are as a person.
@sharonadams44245 жыл бұрын
@marlys mcgregor That's so beautiful all her children. Were there....I left.because my youngest sister picked such a time.to start a argument.I absolutely would not do that .in my mom's state.but my oldest sister was there to hold her hand as she passed.I'm just glad she wasn't alone
@sharonadams44245 жыл бұрын
@marlys mcgregor true but I remember her last words( to me) were where are you going.&who's gone stay here with me.I know in my heart she wanted me there.I had plans of playing the gospel music softly.but my daughter said you did the right thing.to not argue.in that room.I broke down uncontrollably outside.I'm just glad my other sister held her hand till the end...so she wasn't alone
@tennesseesdaughter74274 жыл бұрын
Sharron Pettis agreed!! My mom passed away comfortably in our home on Dec 16th 2019. I can’t let go of the image 💔 She was under hospice care for 10days 😢 Sending everyone that’s gone through this experience love and light 💕🕯🙏🏽
@larapalma37444 жыл бұрын
My mother wouldn't see me before she died Not the most sensitive family
@shadrach62995 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I worked in a hospital and knew how to help my husband have a painless death. He was in hospice. He didn't suffer unnessarily. I hate cancer.
@pilarq78862 жыл бұрын
You should hate SUGAR & CHEMICALS -thats what caused cancer. Research how sugar steals oxygen from cells making them cancerous !! Cancer shows up that your body wasnt able to overcome like an infection ON ITS OWN -so cancer shows you that. So disappointed all the processed sugar garbage food humans put in their grocery cart. Hate Sugar , hate chemo - cancer is your last ditch effort TO CHANGE YOUR DIET IMMEDIATELY ! Chemo is not the answer -Why do Doctors go to Mexico when THEY are diagnosed with cancer...Peace
@bearyhot2 жыл бұрын
@@pilarq7886 SHAME ON YOU for using this platform for your preaching, when the kind lady whom commented above you, is grieving! Instead of being an insensitive j e r k, learn some compassion when someone else is hurting. How dare you!
@stuartwilliams79123 жыл бұрын
My mum died in my dads arms he thanked her for giving him 50years of a wonderful marriage told her he loved her she looked at him and then passed away.
@andyc99023 жыл бұрын
omg god bless her
@BabySonicGT3 жыл бұрын
R.I.P. your mother
@victoriawilliams83433 жыл бұрын
RIP your mother. How sad. I welled up reading your post. I hope you all are ok.
@stuartwilliams79123 жыл бұрын
@@victoriawilliams8343 yes, thank you for your kind words she's gone bless her but she most definitely has not be forgotten xx
@chasebillings23 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh im so sorry that must be really hard 😢
@bctbbarlson2315 жыл бұрын
I asked the hospice nurse to help me get into the hospital bed, in our bedroom, so that I could be close to my beloved husband who was on oxygen. I did not know he was going to diie, but I just needed to be close tor him and told him how much I adored him, and spoke of our firsf beautiful loving together which continued throughout our loving marriage. He took three normal breaths and then his breathing stopped. No struggle, no discomfort. then end was as beautiful as the beginning. I lay on his dear chest and slept for a while, and then told the nurse. I am still deeply I love with him after three half years since he died. I adore him and have boxes of our wonderful love letters,which sustain me.forever. I cannot wait to put my arms around him again..I am so glad I accompanied him in death.
@gussygatlin30935 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for you... I lost my hubby a year ago....
@newtoublue14515 жыл бұрын
Time to get on with life.
@jojozepofthejungle26555 жыл бұрын
That's a beautiful story, I wish I had such a love in my life. Thanks for sharing
@Lionforaday5 жыл бұрын
@@newtoublue1451 What a thing to say. She's sharing a story that might be helpful to someone, and that's all you can think of to say? You strike me as someone very young; if that's not the case, then I don't know what your excuse might be.
@newtoublue14515 жыл бұрын
@@Lionforaday . That's the bottom line from what I gather for a sensible helpful remark . Dead spouses if they loved one would want u to have love not just memories. She is still here -maybe for decades more. * andI'm old. Ha!: can't type.
@donnieraveling1885 жыл бұрын
I am terminal. I see my passing as peaceful especially after seeing this. I have a wonderful pallative Dr with the ALS team I have. I do have modeling happening - feet up to my knees and hands. I have 3 conditions that I will die from - ALS/Lou Gehrigs, Heart disease and a brain Tumor. I am ready for this journey.
@marieterry83095 жыл бұрын
Bless you...🖤
@ikroses234 жыл бұрын
🥺
@jordancurry41053 жыл бұрын
Please reply
@donguapo53813 жыл бұрын
Rip buddy
@fpoli60823 жыл бұрын
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@lissydeon8174 жыл бұрын
Dont be scare of death...God has better plans for us...I know and I feel it....my mother gave me the biggest smile minutes before she died ..a peaceful smile...a smile I will never forget
@helpmefixthis91173 жыл бұрын
Maybe it was the drugs she was probably on ,,to help with the pain.. Or it could've been she was trying to make you feel better which sounds more like it... Our plan in life ,,, you live life the best you can and we all have an expiration date... Sooner or later we all go ,,,hopefully it's quick,And we don't see it coming... slow drawn out death is horrible ....To me anybeing like a god Puts life forms through what they have to go through is inconceivable if it is really true... nothing exists after ,, It's all to make us feel more comfortable . Because death is final anyway you look at it
@Victoria-xu2nj3 жыл бұрын
@@helpmefixthis9117 I want you to know there is hope for perfect peace. God never promised life would be easy without trials. In fact l, he promises us MANY trials and tribulation. But he says take heart for I have overcome the world . Death is the result of everything we’ve done wrong. But he says we will live perfectly with him as He is perfect in heaven.
@hurricanerich173 жыл бұрын
@@Victoria-xu2nj very well put amen 🙏🏿
@dominatodomines34053 жыл бұрын
@@helpmefixthis9117 we will see when we die
@Cabmax783 жыл бұрын
@@helpmefixthis9117 Allah created death and life in order to see which one of us is best in deed. Life is a trial and we are all seating in an exam: the rich, the poor, the healthy, the sick, the strong, the weak, etc. The manual and instructions for dealing with this trial and showing us the right way came to us in the form of Prophets and Revelations. When we pass over to the other side then will we see individually how we did. For disbelief and actions that deviated from the Supreme Creator's way the reward will be eternal damnation. For belief and righteous actions, the reward will be an eternal bliss in the presence of the Most High.
@Stubby1919194 жыл бұрын
Saw my mom go through this and seeing her take her last breath holding her hand and saying goodbye is probably the hardest thing I been through I’m only 19 fuck cancer
@teapea853 жыл бұрын
How sad. I fear the day I lose my parents 😞
@lilia67273 жыл бұрын
Thanks to corona, I didn’t get to visit my grandmother who died because of cancer. I’m 13 fuck both corona and cancer
@queeningenious833 жыл бұрын
@@lilia6727 incredibly sorry for your loss dear. So sorry you had to go through that. I wish I could take your pain away. God bless you
@raypotter14403 жыл бұрын
I hear yah bud, I'm with you on that, my Father died of lung cancer, my mother has stage 4 now, her Dr gave her 3 to 6 months
@vaibhavb95613 жыл бұрын
@@raypotter1440 is she ok?
@jkth45003 жыл бұрын
My daughter is a palliative care doctor, I'm so proud that she has chosen this speciality, she fits it perfectly, she's fun but such a care bear, a great asset to her hospice (I know I'm her mum, so I'm not biased).
@tenazshah33625 жыл бұрын
I signed my mom's papers to release her from aggressive treatment... It was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life... I was killing someone who gave birth to me... I fed her her last meal, and held her hand as she looked into my eyes and left the earth....... I hope she is happy wherever she is❤️
@sarasmith195 жыл бұрын
Me too . She wanted this but I still ,5 years later. feel guilty .
@jinhan51295 жыл бұрын
When we make decisions based on love we cannot be wrong. I had to do same for both my dad and mom. So I know. Be at peace
@sarasmith195 жыл бұрын
@@jinhan5129 thanks Linda.
@RobertaG5565 жыл бұрын
I know she's happy. You did the right thing♡♡♡
@marglam61235 жыл бұрын
Tenaz Shah if you helped her with love and the doctors gave her adequate medication to relieve pain (but certainly not to kill her), sometimes aggressive treatment that holds no hope of recovery is a lot more cruel. If it were I, I certainly would prefer to be home with someone who loved me and took good care of me than to suffer in the cold unempathetic world of the hospital. The one I was in was hell on earth. I had a massive pulmonary embolism which should have killed me. I went to a wonderful rehab center after 11 days in that torture chamber, unfeeling hospital and was treated with love and great care. Your mother was fortunate to have you care for her. You did the right thing. You made her last days a joy.
@naturebunny86093 жыл бұрын
We most certainly have a spirit that leaves our bodies when we die. My son died aged 16 months, 12 days after transplant surgery. The day before he passed I could no longer 'feel' him with me, it was like his body was there but his spirit had left. I was practically atheist back then but that feeling was very real. I now look back 21 years later with different beliefs on death and the afterlife. I truly believe our souls/energy or whatever you want to call it, leaves our body and continues on x
@Andreixx233 жыл бұрын
Stay strong!
@Dinaafaneh922 жыл бұрын
Islam is the true religion that everyone is supposed to be. There is an afterlife, paradise and hell do exist and that’s a fact and a one true god. that we will all go back to when we die. Please look into the religion of truth which is Islam and I promise u that u will have earned your salvation Don’t wait until your dying to see that Islam is the only true religion and the only religion accepted by god who created you. But then it will be too late. U have to use intellect to see the truth of your existence so don’t wait till it’s too late and then there will be no second chances and there will only be regret
@julietspaghetti Жыл бұрын
I wonder if your son gives you some now where he is in the after life?
@user-sc8zj9sr5w Жыл бұрын
Praise Jesus 🙏
@vayusandesh Жыл бұрын
@@Dinaafaneh92you need to get over your religious dogma. Islam is the most biased and incorrect belief system that I know.
@toyman96425 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the reply John Boy. My late mother suffered horribly with MS and the last year of her life was horrid. Blind, incontinent, slurred speech, confined to a wheelchair and with the use of only one hand. She begged us to "let her go." But, back then, we could not find a physician to help. Things are changing now, thank goodness. Death is not to be feared. It is simply another stage in our ongoing journey.
@grandaughters23 жыл бұрын
Sad so sorry
@mangafq83 жыл бұрын
God decides when he wants to take us. We are all here to give lessons and learn lessons. It is not our prerogative to choose when we die. If we are suffering we join that to Jesus's suffering on the cross. God bless us all 🙏🙏🙏 May your Mom RIP.
@jennablay18362 жыл бұрын
My dad has had MS since 2010. He is now in a nursing home, slurred speech, poor memory, no capacity, he's incontinent, visually impaired and no mobility other than the use of one arm which has no strength to feed himself or hold a cup of water. Do you mind asking how the end was and if it was quick? My dad is suffering so bad and I can't get any answers as to how long he will be suffering for
@Beos_Valrah2 жыл бұрын
> _[Death] is simply another stage in our ongoing journey._ Sorry to burst your bubble, but we simply don't know this! People should stop treating it as a fact.
@ryanhastie2325 жыл бұрын
My dad passed away from Brain Cancer last year. He was at home in bed with all his kids round him. He was unconscious for the last week, and the rattle and mottling of his skin changed about a day before he passed. His breathing dramatically changed around 15 minutes before, and while he was unconscious for the last week, he opened his eyes for his final 2 breaths. It is painful even to type this as he was a wonderful dad and I'm only 27, but I believe he passed peacefully. Love to all
@juliamullally51845 жыл бұрын
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@nellievanellie99355 жыл бұрын
Ryan Hastie your father will forever be with you, even more so now than before he passed; you will carry him wherever you go, his thoughts, what he taught you by example, his ways, I am sure you were a wonderful son to him and he is proud of you, you most definitely will be reunited in spirit someday but just not now because it is not your time and you have work left to do.... be at ease, you will be with him eventually
@jeanetteh.92405 жыл бұрын
Hi, Ryan, I deeply sympathize with your pain. Bless you for being by his side during his last hours--the memory must be hard. You will no doubt always miss him and wish you could have had more time. Know that others have walked in your shoes, and that they understand how painful it is. All the best.
@CherryPyroX5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. He was lucky to have you. Bless you and your family.
@cynthwise69825 жыл бұрын
So sorry , I am sure your Dad was Grateful you were there and Proud of You as Well.
@kelseykehr10093 жыл бұрын
I am a CNA for one of the top 10 nursing homes in Missouri, and may I just say I love all my residents and hearing and seeing these signs can really break YOURE heart. We care for these people everyday and you really do build a bond with them. We are their family right now because of covid and it means the world to me that someone’s last look was at me and I was able to help them Rest In Peace ❤️
@AbbyCd3 жыл бұрын
💘
@SK-bb6ms2 жыл бұрын
Respect and appreciation to you.
@NurseSetFree2 жыл бұрын
I’m an LPN, and I agree with you completely. These last 2 years have been very challenging, we really were the family! God bless you sister ❤️
@jacksonmccord2424 Жыл бұрын
My grandpa just died less than a month ago in hospice. I was there to hold his hand and sing to him as he entered the Lords arms. 🕊❤️
@pepsipaws82255 жыл бұрын
My grandpa was my source of humor and comfort. He passed a day ago and I can’t stop crying. My head hurts so bad. :(
@sharon955765 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear this. Please be kind to yourself and try and get some peace. He will be fine.
@framey3830 Жыл бұрын
Yeah. The headaches as a result of continuous crying. That takes me back to a dark place.
@serenanicolegilbert74503 жыл бұрын
I lost my first patient today. It was tough. This video is accurate.
@andrewjonathan97753 жыл бұрын
Hello serena😀
@drmantistobboggangonzodr39613 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t get easier necessarily but you learn to cope with it better, hopefully. Being there for people during their final moments, particularly when their family cannot be there or they don’t have anyone. It’s a great gift to be able to carry that as it’s not something you can leave at work although you have to learn to be able to give up control if you know you did everything you could for them. I considered hospice care because I admire those who do this work so much. They help people to die with dignity and grace and show love and compassion and humanity in their final hours and remember them. They listen to their fears and share their hopes and dreams hear their memories ain’t many cases. I think hospice care is different. I ended up in a different branch of medicine where if we lose someone I feel it is my fault as they come to us for healing not an easier transition out of this world. Maybe I could learn a lot to They say it passes and gets easier but it hasn’t a decade later so maybe I should speak with someone. I have learned to detach and to do all I can and accept the result but I still have this weight of wondering if maybe I had done something differently would their families still have them by their side? I don’t know and I don’t mean to scare you. Honestly I think it is natural to feel personally affected by this and many will tell you to guard yourself by distancing yourself professionally and in some respects that may be wise and necessary to do your work. However never lose your heart for people even when you must compartmentalize in order to save your sanity and focus on the task at hand. Your heart for people is what will give you fuel to go that extra mile and to selflessly give your time and energy and hope to each patient and will help you to not burn out if done moderately. Remember to prioritize your patients you must first look after your own mental and physical health. You cannot be of use to anyone if you are sleep deprived or not able to focus or control your emotions when necessary to help others. Secure your own oxygen mask before helping others, just like on an airplane. Best of luck to you and make your own luck by being tenacious and lionhearted! I believe in you and I hope that six months later you feel that you have grown and have gained confidence in your abilities. We are not saviors obviously but it’s amazing the effects your actions can have on those around you, in and out of a healthcare setting...we are just lucky enough to get paid to try to heal people.. anybody regardless of what they’ve done, anyone who needs it and we don’t have to make any judgements on anyone. Hope your work is rewarding for you and your patients.
@drmantistobboggangonzodr39613 жыл бұрын
During COVID it has been stressful and hard for everyone to see patients who are unable to see family.... it is heart wrenching to have to enforce that no matter how necessary!!!
@andrewjonathan97753 жыл бұрын
@@drmantistobboggangonzodr3961 hello how are you doing today
@robinfleet70943 жыл бұрын
Your kindness to one now gone is a thing to know as special. This is a debt no one pays, but you can carry. When my Dad passed the staff that cared for him were all the kindest souls I have ever met. The diligence and dedication they gave my Dad will be what I remember.
@christyhernandez86254 жыл бұрын
I have terminal Cancer and this have been helpful. I was with my Father when he passed. I hope I have someone with me when the time comes. Rite now I have no one. Facing death alone is scary, even as a Christian. Thank you.
@billw48053 жыл бұрын
Take heart. God is always with you : )
@marythomas18213 жыл бұрын
God be with you......i pray for you. I wish i can be with you
@s.bhoosen71283 жыл бұрын
Do you need a care person ..I can help you ..I'm Muslim
@clan_fraser195 жыл бұрын
Blessings and love to all of you who have experienced the loss of a loved one xx
@thedalmatianpack5 жыл бұрын
I lost my Grandmother last year in August...
@kindiz3 жыл бұрын
Just went through all of this with my beloved grandma. It was heartbreaking and good. She passed away last weekend, but last Wednesday she had a clear moment as I left the hospital. She smiled at me, waved, we told each other I love you, hugged, and blew each other kisses as I left the room. She slept from Thursday to Friday, and during the night before Saturday her heart stopped. I was with her until around 9 the night her heart stopped. I miss her so terribly much, but I'm glad I powered through the last few days of her life, and also that I had already read up on what to expect. She took one last breath, let it out, and then she entered her eternal sleep. 💜
@OrchestralOrg Жыл бұрын
*gosh that made me tearful.*
@josephineramatu4492 Жыл бұрын
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@randyjohnson54265 жыл бұрын
God bless you for comforting and caring for terminally ill patients.
@swingtodivine4 жыл бұрын
Father God, I just want to pray for all your children here in this comment section. I want to pray that you would bring them peace and comfort if they're anxious or if they're going through a time loss and suffering. I pray Father that they would come to know you during this time of chaos, and that they would allow you to be their joy and hope. In Jesus's name I pray, Amen!
@ikroses234 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@karensmith41303 жыл бұрын
What a Beautiful and peaceful thing to say in the coments section, thanku so much for it, and God Bless you sweet lady
@jamarcusmims93213 жыл бұрын
Amen sis😇🙏🔥❤️
@satos13 жыл бұрын
Amen and God Bless!
@makyra.adriana3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@bobbywoods6845 жыл бұрын
Hospice was wonderful for my Mom's passing. The lady doctor and nurses were perfect for their calling. I was a policeman for 34 years and saw a lot of dead people, some dying people. When it's your Mom and mine wasn't easy to get along with, it's overwhelming (over the three days, there were times I felt like I was going to faint) and I thank God for those wonderful ladies.
@julierodabaugh60165 жыл бұрын
The hardest job on the planet is dealing with the dying. Whether you are a nurse, doctor or family member making certain end of life decisions is heart breaking. Prayers for all dealing with death at this time of year. You are all true heroes.
@zaineridling5 жыл бұрын
Prayers NEVER work. You'd have better luck rubbing a magic lamp!
@charlottemiller91255 жыл бұрын
I don't think death is hard if you have been fortunate enough to feel energy. We are only shells. Energy can not die. It's an attitude and an education process. Life is fatal. Energy is forever!
@anaksunamoon86185 жыл бұрын
Julie don't listen to these people. I'm a nurse and work for hospice. Best job I've ever had. Yes it is hard seeing and caring for end of life. But I tell you it's the most rewarding job I've ever had. If we HAVE to die we should go peacefully.
@kathleenviens10035 жыл бұрын
CHRISTMAS meant nothing to me in 2018 as my mother passed at 92. Glad it's over as she suffered with ALZHEIMER'S for years.
@oli2305 жыл бұрын
Julie Rodabaugh D
@MyMumHasEpilepsy5 жыл бұрын
I just want to say, before I die..... I love my children... and all my wonderful grandchildren. 💝💝💝💐
@oliveoilroaddrygostopanima77643 жыл бұрын
Well how are you now....
@oliveoilroaddrygostopanima77643 жыл бұрын
are you ok
@1010QUEEN73 жыл бұрын
Bless you
@kyndalllivelovelaughart94825 жыл бұрын
my grandma was in a coma and well i swear she was waiting for my family to leave because as soon as we got home we got a call from the hospital saying that she died i felt bad but when we went to the funeral i didnt cry but when i got in the car to go home i just couldn't hold it in anymore for a while i was a emotional wreak this was 2 years ago and i am still crying over this
@elderlypoodle91815 жыл бұрын
I always think of the hospice nurses that helped my mother and I get through her passing. They were brought from God to us. No matter how angry my mother was they showed such great compassion and help me heal also
@namispondjamispond92825 жыл бұрын
Never be afraid of dying. We are all energy and never die.
@ej.24.194 жыл бұрын
Namispond Jamispond thanks for this comment. I needed it. I’ve always been afraid of death
@grateful19294 жыл бұрын
Keeping Up With The Wrig- Our body dies but we do go somewhere. We go to Heaven with Jesus or we go to hell with Satan. I can lead you in a prayer to know FOR SURE that you will go to Heaven.😊 Believe with your heart and tell God you are a sinner (we all are) ask Him to forgive you of your sins and tell Him that you believe that Jesus is His Son. If you do this with a believing heart He will reveal Himself to you and you will find a peace and a love that no human being can ever give you you have ever felt before ❤️
@grateful19294 жыл бұрын
@@joecharles7081 We're what?
@stacy86564 жыл бұрын
@@grateful1929 yes exactly. God is the answer. He controls everything.
@nogoglobal4 жыл бұрын
@@grateful1929 or we go nowhere.but we suffer no.more.we all die..
@alaitain5 жыл бұрын
I know what the final hour's & minutes of Dying looks like. I watched my Daughter Die.. I've watched other people die... Their last hours & minutes.. What isaw was Amazing , their orb , spirit, soul leave their body. I've seen my Daughter s Angle.... Peace of mind !
@browns05873 жыл бұрын
Amen
@maryaubreyjanefowler93983 жыл бұрын
Yes it's the most beautiful thing I have seen my Dad's spirit
@tula71413 жыл бұрын
My mom was diagnosed with esophagus cancer and the Doctor has given her 2 months time frame. I am still in shock. This will be a sad time for our little family.
@roselinemoyo58163 жыл бұрын
😪😪😪😭😭😭😭
@Josejosh773 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for what you are going through..may the Lord sustain you all
@AStri-zg5xc3 жыл бұрын
🥺❤👋
@andrewjonathan97753 жыл бұрын
Hello kjc😀
@marybarrett20023 жыл бұрын
I just went through all of this my 89 year old Father. He died today at 6:20 in the morning. Every thing they discussed is what father went through. I am so heartbroken. But so grateful for hospice and the angels that work with them. They kept my dad comfortable and that was the most important thing. But I wish they could keep me comfortable right now and I am so broken.🙏
@steveclinton4084 Жыл бұрын
Hello Mary how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family
@itsjustme93545 жыл бұрын
My father was one of the luckiest ones he came home dad discharged himself from hospital a day before he passed over 2 years ago at his own home and bed with close family by his side from a very aggressive form of stage 4 prostate cancer. It was nothing I've experienced before he went into cardiac arrest in minutes I touched his hand said daddy it's okay just let go now it's okay it's not goodbye daddy I'll see you later! He went to peace not long afterwards. Miss you dearly.
@joycerichards39795 жыл бұрын
When I was at my mother's bedside talking to her, I told her I loved her and many other nice things. When I was leaving I said , "Later, Mummy".
@joycerichards39795 жыл бұрын
She died later that day.
@newtoublue14515 жыл бұрын
@@joycerichards3979 Nice of u to stick around that day. !
@MJLeger-yj1ww5 жыл бұрын
Medical personnel are making that far more possible today, than in the past. It is psychologically, far better for the patient to be at home in comforting and familiar surroundings than in the sterile atmosphere of a hospital. Home-health (hospice) nurses are very helpful with that, they are so kind and understanding of all the needs of a patient at that important end of life time. It is truly a kindness for the patient, and often, the family as well.
@maryreid80005 жыл бұрын
M.J. Leger .j I'm so
@terrydigenti87562 жыл бұрын
My mother is in the death stage right now. Thank you for your teachings. I wish all who are watching this are blessed with peace.
@VolksdeutscheSS5 жыл бұрын
Wow! I am impressed by these two young ladies that they can deal with such a difficult situation on a professional level. I'm not sure I could.
@NeilRoy2 жыл бұрын
I watched my older brother die and this describes it almost perfectly. As his breathing paused, his skin turned pale, then he would take a sudden deep breath back in and the colour would come back for a moment. The heart outlasts most of the body and I noted that it seemed to struggle to keep him alive. Very disturbing, yet also educational. Watched my mother die of cancer, but she was well medicated and it wasn't as pronounced. Now my wife is dying of cancer (brain etc) and I am starting to see certain symptoms and don't expect her to last too much longer to be honest. Married 36 years, I don't know what I will do without her. We almost never argued and were practically joined at the hip. This is the only downside to living a longer life, you see those you care about the most all die off. I wished so badly that I had died and she had lived instead. I don't wish this on my worst enemy.
@TheMinimalistSparrow2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry Roy, I myself I’m dying of cancer. I feel so bad for my husband. We have no kids and it’s just us. We are close too. Death sucks.
@NeilRoy2 жыл бұрын
@D Frazier I am struggling and crying daily. My wife died a couple weeks after I posted this. She only lasted four months from her initial diagnosis to her death. It was so fast, I feel lost and alone. Been praying A LOT for help. Thanks for asking anyhow.
@godschild3640 Жыл бұрын
@@NeilRoy. PLEASE💚💚💚 ANSWER 💚💚✝️ME 💚non Small Cell Stage 4 lung cancer Adenocarcinoma. How long do I get to live. How fast does it grow. How long does it take to metastasize? ..NO ONE WILL TELL ME IVE ASKED FOR 4 MONTHS NO ONE WILL TELL ME THE TRUTH
@NeilRoy Жыл бұрын
@@godschild3640 It could be any length of time. You could totally beat it. With faith, obedience and prayer, you could be healed with it. With my wife, it suddenly showed up on a scan for something else and she was dead within four months. My mother on the other hand learned she had cancer, done all the treatment and lived for many many years longer, well over 5 years, and I know people who totally beat it that are still alive today. Obey God, pray to Him and if you have faith that He will heal you, than you may just be healed. The truth is, nobody really knows. Cancer is the result of putting unclean,m unhealthy things into our bodies which God tells us not to do for this very reason. Things like smoke, drugs and unclean meats like pork all contribute to poor health like this.
@SS-qy9ec3 жыл бұрын
My dad suffered with COPD, he caught a leg infection and was taken to hospital and put in with COVID patients. We received a phone call saying “don’t worry, your Dad hasn’t got COVID”. We were terrified that he was mixed with COVID patients, given the fact that he suffered with COPD. Days later he was diagnosed with COVID 19. Days later he died. Me and my brother were allowed to visit him a day before wearing PPE. DO NOT MIX COPD PATIENTS WITH COVID PATIENTS! miss you Dad, always be remembered x
@badeugenecops4741 Жыл бұрын
My father is dying tonight or tomorrow. He is now non responsive and I am waiting for the call from the hospice. These videos help so much.
@booger10203 жыл бұрын
Currently watching these videos as my grandfather is at home on hospice and aside from my full-time job, I am his part-time caregiver and my boyfriend is his full-time caregiver. I believe we are reaching the end and these videos and others have been helping me for the past two or three months. I know we have done what we could and continue doing what we can to make this transition as peaceful as possible. Thank you for these videos.
@kait64235 жыл бұрын
My uncle is in the hospice, he has brain cancer and no medicine could help. I want to be there on his last day. I hope he goes onto heaven and is a guardian angel to my cousins, not me, my cousins. I already have my guardian angel. My dad who past when I was turning 3. RIP. much love
@getoffmylawn89865 жыл бұрын
God bless you, ladies. You have one of the most difficult jobs on the planet.
@Umelynz4 жыл бұрын
Ivory Turner It's really not dealing with death is a big deal
@senorasenora37595 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this such comforting information. Just amazing young women. The caretakers who do this service work are truly doing the most important work in this life. Real angels on earth.😇
@chargenurse18653 жыл бұрын
The hardest part of dying is not having friends and family by your side. It also makes dying easier as I have nothing to cling to.
@AbbyCd3 жыл бұрын
😥 yes having to pass alone w/o family shouldn't be allowed.
@thetongueofangels18823 жыл бұрын
God bless you. I believe there's an organization called no one dies alone, look into it❤
@lauranglover5213 жыл бұрын
I hope you’re still here- a hug to you from one medical professional to another- holding your hand from afar! ❤️
@AbbyCd3 жыл бұрын
@@lauranglover521 💕💜💓
@clairebunt58875 жыл бұрын
My brother passed away September 2017 with cancer of the pancreas I was with him when he took his last breath everybody had gone it was not scary I found it a relief tbh it might sound harsh but I felt he was ready to go to a new destination 😢❤️❤️
@maryanncoan41345 жыл бұрын
my neighbor has it and i ust lost a friend to it. sorry for your loss.
@boygoddess13944 жыл бұрын
you are correct. it’s not harsh. he’s out on his next great adventure. i’m sorry for your loss.
@clairebunt58874 жыл бұрын
@@boygoddess1394 thank you and yep i believe that too ❤
@clairebunt58874 жыл бұрын
@Voice of truth aw thank you
@lissydeon8174 жыл бұрын
I feel your pain, my father died of a heart attack that same month and year 😔
@brittanyr94715 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this information. My grandfather is dying of pancreatic cancer. Some how knowing what to expect is very comforting.
@r.l.harvey9965 жыл бұрын
Make sure Grand Dad has quality hospice, and therefore pain support. Thoughts and prayers, sir.
@MJLeger-yj1ww5 жыл бұрын
It is never easy to be with a dying person, it just goes against human's grain, but life does end in time and there are ways of making it easier, it's called palliative (comfort) care, and it makes the process easier for all. Thank you for describing what happens when someone dies, as most people have no idea unless they have been involved with it in the medical profession. It's never easy. At some point their breathing is going to stop and without oxygen to the brain, the heart will soon stop also. Normally, a person will become unconscious shortly before death. They may stop talking, but remember, that a person's sense of hearing is the last to go, so be careful what you are saying. Above all, they need your support in the end, whether it's holding their hand or whatever. We've had some instances of people singing to their loved one or playing certain relaxing music for them. Whatever you can do is nice, but often, (depending on why they're dying) just being there for them is enough. I keep seeing the picture in my mind of President Bush, whom we lost Friday, holding Barbara's hand until she died. It was precious.
@gussygatlin30935 жыл бұрын
He was evil...
@emmaatwell31955 жыл бұрын
Usually morphine kills them first. Then there is massive heart attacks, strokes etc Most all longterm deaths the drugs will kill you first . If one had to watch a loved one die from say cancer without morphine ( especially near the end), you would have nightmares .
@angelfirelite5 жыл бұрын
@@gussygatlin3093 ....She was worst, the daughter of Aleister Crowley !
@juliecummings88455 жыл бұрын
She was evil like GHB
@MJLeger-yj1ww5 жыл бұрын
@@emmaatwell3195 Any opioid (which is a CNS depressant) can cause respirations to slow and even cease if the drug is strong enough. Many terminal patients will die that way, they are given e.g., morphine to stem extreme pain, and it relaxes them to the point they can stop breathing. Sometimes, medication to help them when they are very agitated is combined with pain meds, and the combination is synergistic (which means one drug can interact with the second drug which makes them more potent), so if that reaction is strong and they are weak or near death, their breathing will stop (due to the CNS, central nervous system, being depressed, then their heart stops. (Some States are condoning the practice of medicating a patient that way, knowing that they will likely die, that's called "assisted suicide" and the patient either takes a oral solution or opens an IV stopcock, which increases the flow of a medicine which puts them to sleep, permanently, usually something like pentothal or pentobarbital, so that the patient is causing the overdose of the drug by himself, not by the medical personnel.
@leslieh483075 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video. You two women are very brave to do the job that you do in making people comfortable in their last months, weeks or days of life. 😇🙏🏼
@steveclinton4084 Жыл бұрын
Hello Leslie how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family
@Cathleen8614 жыл бұрын
I know a lot of hospice care providers don't like to take a patient's vital signs much or at all when death is near, but elevated blood pressure and heart rate can also be a response to pain. I noticed that often a patient's earlobes will lay flat to the head when death is imminent....strange, I know....but I learned to look for it.
@Amoore19912 жыл бұрын
Hey, I just wanted to know how imminent exactly is at where the earlobes lay flat? I notice that my fathers ears look that way today…
@THXx11385 жыл бұрын
3 days my mother was on life support after a brain aneurysm burst. 3 days for dad to come to terms with letting her go. She was the leader of our family. Dad would say "My name is Peter - but She is the Rock" . When it was time everyone left the room but me. I stayed with my mom - listening to the heart monitor gradually slowing, until. I miss you every day mom. Please meet me when I arrive.
@evelynvanzale47575 жыл бұрын
THX 1138 - She'll be waiting there for you when your time comes but in the meantime, fulfil your own mission; we all have one🙏❤
@sharonhewitson23245 жыл бұрын
you will meet again
@janetallen92385 жыл бұрын
THX 1138 You make me cry because I know that it’s true. I believe that she’s waiting just like my parents wait for me.
@boygoddess13944 жыл бұрын
oh she is definitely gonna be waiting for you. with a big smile and a hug that only a mother can give! she’s at peace now. she’s resting. all pain and fear is just a memory. she’s taking a nap so she’ll be ready for you when your time comes! i’m sorry for your loss.
@Taleula12 жыл бұрын
I feel that when a person is at this stage they should be given medication to end it all; we don't allow animals to suffer, why do we make humans?
@daisymae32582 жыл бұрын
If they receive good palliative care they don’t suffer.
@denisethomson76852 жыл бұрын
My fur baby suffered with uthanasia ,I was horrified.
@gulsguls84882 жыл бұрын
Allah borrowed you that life and only he is allowed to take it. It is not yours to decide. Their exam isn't done yet and you don't know if they could have survived. Read the Quran once in your lifetime and you will know what I mean.
@luxonlex44532 жыл бұрын
@@gulsguls8488 , Hmmm, there are certain sects, denominations and/or factions of Islam that would disagree with that sentiment. It is a pitty that more individuals of those faiths do not take your prospective. However, with all monotheistic religions the principal doctrine is that the self perpetuation of utilizing the early delete button, is a hell worthy trespass. Yet, when personally seeing the terror and suffering of death, with the convulsions, the screaming and the slow unwinding of the mortal coil, that is unintervened with the benefit of medicine and science, one wonders what the word mercy truly means in the eyes of the creator(s). Affording individuals a level of comfort prior to passing appears to be more just and merciful,... from my prospective. If my many medical conditions qualified, under the law, I would gladly opt to take the cocktail and end it, despite the creators dogma on the subject. There is not much more hell that can bestowed upon an individual in the afterlife, than what I am enduring at the present juncture.
@craigmcgorry94262 жыл бұрын
I agree. My father, who is dying from pancreatic cancer, wants this, but we are in Florida, and it’s not legal. This is inhumane. And for those that say it is not our right to take away what (insert name of deity) has given, not everyone is religious or a believer of a deity and afterlife. The individual is suffering and should decide for themselves.
@shanniworld83105 жыл бұрын
Jehovah bless you young ladies. Thank you so much for caring. It is noticed.
@elainesmith12002 жыл бұрын
I just found this channel today, and I'm very grateful. My Dad started end of life care two days ago. This was very comforting, thank you 🙏💖🏴
@NStreit045 жыл бұрын
Bless you for helping dying people and holding the families together. I wish we could pay hospice all the profits that blue cross blue shield takes annually
@marcoab983 жыл бұрын
This is all true, my father passed away from ALS today and everything that was said in this video is accurate. Irregular breathing and slipping in and out of consciousness yesterday along with breathing having a slight rattle to it at times. My father was a strong man and made it to 70 years of age and passed days after.
@annegaynor96272 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this right now with my mother - this was very comforting! Thank you so much
@jaybaz67b305 жыл бұрын
My best friend of 24 years /the last 11 years as brothers . 2017 was a horrible year his best days was in hospice though himself talking,laughing he wanted to matter, he did to many. He was pain free when he went to home hospice then after a day home his pain came back with a vengeance. I knew it change from his voice , his cancer wound was bleeding bad. I then heard him through the night talking in his sleep. We called the hospice nurse in the middle of the night b/c his chest was hurting so bad we were told to open the kit for the adevant. I got him to sleep for a minute then in the morning hospice nurse came out, told us take him back to the hospice facility. I did he was stabilize by staff , he wanted a fan. I got one the next day totally unconscious he heard me calling him but he tried to respond but couldn't he passed away 5.5hours later ,in no pain. I miss my best friend 💔.
@David-sc2ir3 жыл бұрын
I cared for my partner through his last days. The stages these ladies describe is accurate, particularly about the slow breathing. One interesting thing did happen the day before my Tom passed... he suddenly rose up from his bed and looked at me and said that he could see his friend from years ago standing at the end of his bed... of course I saw nothing. He looked at me, then said "Oh... Frank is the one who's going to take me to the other side". His eyes fluttered and he went back into a deep deep sleep... those were the last words he ever said and he passed the next morning. I asked the hospice nurse why this happened and she told me it was not unusual at all. Tom had not been in any pain and I had not given him any morphine or other drugs so I do not think it was something drug induced... but it was certainly a comfort to him and to me to think there is a presence there with them when they pass on.
@CocoChanelle-13 жыл бұрын
That’s a normal process God gives us to not be afraid when crossing over. Our friends and relatives are told that we are coming. They gather to welcome us.
@g4obb3 жыл бұрын
That is fascinating, David. I remember a workmate of mine, his wife died of cancer....just before she died she said to him , something strange is happening to my body.......then, no more....she was gone. It seems to me that there is definitely something that transcends death....maybe it's nothing to be afraid of....natural and peaceful..let's hope so..good luck to you, friend.....
@BoysLikeMeee3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing that David. I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure Tom knows you did the very best you could and he was loved. 💗
@docdailzee5 жыл бұрын
When my daddy was in the hospital dying I felt him hold my hand
@MariaLopez-hs9yh3 жыл бұрын
Thank goodness for the hospice nurses. The one who was with when my niece cried with us. I am forever grateful for them. They were so caring.
@susanfifer57442 жыл бұрын
Held my daddy’s hand for 5 nights and days in hospice who were amazing, I was scared of dying but seeing and helping my daddy reached my mom was beautiful and one of the hardest things I had to do .. The breathing and watching his facial expression’s that he needed pain relief and the hospice team right there made it easier for me. My dad was unconscious the night I brought him in , but the day before he passed he said I love you and was calling my moms name so I knew he was close … I am glad I was there 24/7 as I am not afraid now of dying as my daddy gave me a few gifts telling me he had made it to the other side… Thank you to everyone who works in palliative care ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@kelleymcfadden96752 жыл бұрын
Losing a loved one is one of the hardest things to endure on this Earth. I would love to share my best friend's story with you. A story of hope. God bless you! Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless! Tribute to Ethan Lakey kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5nSk5aHj5uEmJo
@idrissaniang9920 Жыл бұрын
I am sorry for your loss mam .You are way courageous than most
@Slarti5 жыл бұрын
Great video - when my mother was dying 20 years ago I wished I had seen this video beforehand.
@vickiross90024 жыл бұрын
My mum has been gone for 7 years now she died of cancer but I was in the room with her when she passed away it is a funny feeling seeing someone just lying there like that.
@RaciePSB2 жыл бұрын
My 82 yo father has just had a significant stroke though he can breathe on his own and is semi responsive. He loves life and does not want to die. My sister however has other plans and is on a bedside vigil to make sure he slowly starves and dehydrates to death with no assessment of his condition by hospital doctors and no iv fluids or other intervention. I can’t override the DNR paperwork she had put in place when he had pneumonia five years ago and nearly died. Dad has had previous TIAs and I warned that he needed to be on stroke prevention meds, but that wasn’t allowed to happen either. Now I wish I’d caught in court to revoke her DNR paper and ensure him better care. Funny thing is that previously she wouldn’t visit for more than 20 mins a few times a year but now is happy to go on death watch. He never trusted her and is probably well aware she’s sitting there while he starves to death. It is sickening. Any advice would be welcome.
@pip31742 жыл бұрын
My grandma was completely normal for over a month with lymphoma, she had chills one night which was happening every few days, but the next morning I woke up to my parents saying I needed to go over to her house because she was dying. She lives next door so I walked over to immediately hear the sounds of her irregular breathing. It was loud, and her face looked sunken in. She showed almost no expression, the only thing she could do was breathe and look around the room. She was in a semi-coma and I couldn’t stop crying, and after I thanked her for everything she’s done and saying goodbye, less than an hour later she was pronounced dead. I would do everything just to be with you one more time. I will always remember you💜
@MJLeger-yj1ww5 жыл бұрын
Today, patients who are terminal are usually given pain and anti-anxiety drugs to aid them in the dying process. Depending, of course on WHY they are dying, a patient is usually unconscious for a while before they die, as their vital systems are shutting down. It is incumbent on the staff (or even family) to see to it that their passing is the easiest it can be for them. Nothing we do at a hospital or hospice center, that we can do for them, is wrong if it eases their passing (and remains within legal bounds, of course).
@kenadams55042 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how it was for my Mother. She was unconscious from meds they gave her and after about 2 days they took her off the oxygen and eventually she just peacefully stopped breathing.There was no distress or suffering ..just peace and serenity.It gives me some solace that she went this way .
@patriciabilinkas39115 жыл бұрын
My dad passed in April and had dementia before getting mesothelioma. One day he had rosary beads in his hands, so I asked who gave them to him, and he said his mother. I said that was great and asked if she was there at that moment, but he said no. Later that day, he was sitting up, staring into the yard. I asked what he was looking at, and he said his father. A Hospice worker was there at that time, and he said he heard that all the time from patients close to death. I like to think my grandparents DID come for my dad at his end.
@DizzyDior124 жыл бұрын
Patricia Bilinkas They did. ❤️
@katebennett80474 жыл бұрын
They Did come for him. 6 years ago this April I lost my father in law, I was there for his last breath. He out of nowhere said “I know Iris I’ll be there soon” (this was his mums name) .. he was focusing at the end of his bed when speaking too her.. it was heartbreaking but we knew his mum had come to take him home into gods arms
@wintergreen11624 жыл бұрын
A lot of cultures believe that when a person is at the very end, he/she starts calling out the names of their dead loved ones. Also, a lot of them instinctually yell at some of them, because they are coming to get them, and they tell them to go away, because they are not ready to go. I’ve seen it happen, and I believe it, too.
@Ania-cd2sh2 жыл бұрын
End of life nurses and hospice are angels. I watched my mom pass from GBM brain cancer stage 4….she took a breath then didn’t breath for a few seconds, then took another more seconds later and then longer and longer pauses in between each one for what seemed like a lifetime while everyone cried thinking each breath was her last (was probably not long at all, but it seemed like forever) she had the “death rattle” as well, it was incredibly painful to watch. I held her hand and prayed. I will never forget those last moments. 💔
@kelleymcfadden96752 жыл бұрын
Losing a loved one is one of the hardest things to endure on this Earth. I would love to share my best friend's story with you. A story of hope. God bless you! Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless! Tribute to Ethan Lakey kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5nSk5aHj5uEmJo
@steveclinton4084 Жыл бұрын
Hello Ania how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family
@IsupportVehicles999 Жыл бұрын
Honestly both of my mom’s grandmas passed away from Heart failure and stroke! They were both in their 80s Rip to them I miss them everyday! 😢 I love you Velvet and Gram! You grandmas will be missed!
@sassyraccoon39693 жыл бұрын
I was with my grandfather for his last 2 weeks of life. I had to watch him struggle and finally give up. Than wait 6 hours for them to pick him up. It's a miserable experience.
@vmlenigma4 жыл бұрын
my head was on my brother's chest as he took his last breath....I still remember, I remember his last breath sounding as almost a sign of relief.
@darkaestic3 жыл бұрын
I have no words to express my thanx to those 👨🔬👩🔬 who work for patients in their final days.... Salute for such Kind hearted people🙋♂️❤❤
@nougatbitz3 жыл бұрын
My mother in law pointed out how the tip of the nose gets pointy and brighter when a patient is close to passing away - this seems due to the modeling effect and the retraction of blood in the body as described here. My father in law died within an hour after she made that observation, which was the reason we did stay around a bit longer. Few year later my grand dad was in palliative care. We received a few calls of “this is it” - each time I checked his nose and it looked fine. On another day we knew he didn’t eat or drink anymore, I went to his bed talking to him. Saw his white pointy nose and expected it would be my final farewell with him - he died the same night. I found knowing this and having something to go by helping a lot in these final days. There could be this guilt creeping up for not appreciating your last moment with someone sufficiently.
@pamela.aurora.k5 жыл бұрын
Watching this as I'm doing nursing placement in palliative care this week. Thanks for sharing 🌈 ⭐️
@pollacksharman01473 жыл бұрын
How are you doing 😊😊😊
@MsMalina244 жыл бұрын
My grandma just died today this afternoon. She was 86 and had 5 children. She was put in hospice care on Saturday. 😞 I was there every minute that I could be. These signs are pretty accurate. I’m am glad that I was there at the end of the day and I know she was happy as well. Even thought she couldn’t SAY anything to me I saw it in here eyes. ❤️❤️❤️
@gregorylincoln43284 жыл бұрын
I'm very sorry. God bless and comfort
@catherinebianca85872 жыл бұрын
I'm writing this message with tears, because of my health condition, the doctor told me this morning that i will not survive my health condition due to my cancer diagnosing, so i have decided to offer my fund to the orphanage children, homeless less privilege there in your country to enable them to always pray for me even am if I'm know more alive as the doctor has told me that i can not survive my health condition
@cara68265 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this now with my dad :(
@sharon955765 жыл бұрын
Hang in there Cara, all will end well but we all know the finally outcome. May you be blessed with strength and may his passing be painless and his afterlife be wonderful. Amen
@cellothere57234 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this with my Opa and it's so hard:(
@lorij67963 жыл бұрын
To all who work in the Palliative care and Hospice thank you. You truly are needed by the patient and family. I don't know what I would have done without their TLC 💞
@craigmcgorry94262 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This is very helpful. My father is in his last days, or perhaps weeks, of a short battle with pancreatic cancer. It is so difficult to watch and it is much better to hear the description of what the end can look like from people rather than just reading it as bullet points in the literature.
@kelleymcfadden96752 жыл бұрын
Losing a loved one is one of the hardest things to endure on this Earth. I would love to share my best friend's story with you. A story of hope. God bless you! Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless! Tribute to Ethan Lakey kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5nSk5aHj5uEmJo
@dianeferrentino27665 жыл бұрын
I watched my mom die slowly for 2 weeks. I know how it is and it was terrible to be there. I wish that on no one ever. I LL never forget leaving her 3 days before she passed. I will never do that again and I became a hospice volunteer after she passed
@janicesmith19565 жыл бұрын
my husband was grimacing when they moved him slightly.. He also was in a coma state as mentioned.. He was breathing quite heavy too.. I left the room and when the dr called me back he had gone .. happened within minutes.. I believe this is quite common for someone to go when someone leaves the room..
@katherinemcminn79885 жыл бұрын
same with my mother.. my sister had to use the bathroom and said to our mother "Mom, Dont go anywhere, I will be right out in 2 minutes"... Our mother died between the time she left her bedside and when she returned... Also, I had been in Maui on a family vacation when my mothers Emphysema turned to the worse and she was hospitalized. My sister reached out to our hotel and only told my husband who chose not to tell me allowing the family to stay on vacation 3 days longer. When we landed at SFO my sister picked us up but no one was talking. I asked why she was so quiet. I sensed something was wrong. Then I asked, "Where is mom?" She said, "Kathy, we have to hurry. She has been waiting for you." My mother was my best friend. She dropped off my husband and three girls at a friends house and we proceeded to the hospital, no words spoken. I remember it was 10:30 pm and the hospital seemed deserted and those fluorescent lights were on in the corridor. Longest walk of my life. I walked into my mother's hospital room and went to her side, held her hand. My sister said that she had not awoke in days. I said, "Mom, I am here, I love you..." I felt her squeeze my hand and she opened her eyes, they were blue as always but glassy. She pulled me close and whispered, "Kathy, I love you..." I left to get a cup of coffee, my sister went to the bathroom. Those were the last words she said. Mom had left this world... and yes, she was in a much better place. And I firmly believe she found the strength to wait and see me one last time. Emphysema is a horrific way to die. It is a slow painful death and your caregivers and family go through it WITH you. My father was her care giver and he was exhausted. If you smoke, please quit. I had the best mother any girl could ask for except she refused to give up smoking. That is until the doctor said she had 6 months to live...she quit that day....
@gobyebo5 жыл бұрын
Janice Smith This is true, I had pushed the wheelchair out to the dining room and the minister called me. In those few seconds, my husband left us.
@sharon955765 жыл бұрын
I honestly believe this happens for a good reason. The reason is that you probably would not have handles to see them passing so it happens when you leave them briefly. Blessings to you all. Sorry
@janehyden16525 жыл бұрын
I TRIED TO HANG IN THERE UNTIL MY MOM PASSED --SHE WAS IN THE HOSPITAL----AS SOON AS I LEFT AND WALKED THRU MY FRONT DOOR I GOT A CALL FROM THE HOSPITAL--SHE HAD PASSED. I ASKED THE NURSE WHAT WAS GOING ON---SHE SAID ---SOMETIMES THEY DONT WANT U TO SEE THEM DIE ---SO THEY LEAVE BEFORE YOU COME BACK. NOT SURE ABOUT THAT BUT I WISH I HAD BEEN THERE.
@marleneholloway77754 жыл бұрын
Yes, my son waited till my daughter and i were out of the room maybe seconds.His Girlfriend called us back quickly,then she said,i saw him go,Geoff was always protective, and thought of others.Iwill See him in heaven.will Always miss him.
@donnadexter30985 жыл бұрын
I'm a carer and I have helped to make end of life clients as comfortable as possible including my dad last year giving someone their dignity and been there for family is the one selfless thing you can give someone near the end
@pollacksharman01473 жыл бұрын
How are you doing 😊😊👋
@CCitis2 жыл бұрын
Think about this when you think you have a stressful work day. These people deal with life and death every day. I could never handle this gig. Thank you.
@marykeniston52642 жыл бұрын
People are born in to this area, you are blessed with generous caring hearts. Bless you for what you do. It's so necessary and so important for medical personal (who are certainly treating the family members as much as the loved one who is dying) to be cut-out for the field. You ladies, and those in other places will be heavily pressed to the loved ones memories. You will occupy a coveted place in their minds
@lisalynn84415 жыл бұрын
People say only smokers get the breathing issues and death rattle. People who think they know nothing. Happens to almost everyone
@edgarretana83773 жыл бұрын
I know what dying looks like in it’s final days. It’s my grandmas health conditions getting worse and worse. It’s my grandma pleading for someone to sleep with her because she’s scared to be alone. It’s this heavy presence in the air. A feeling of dreadfulness and anxiety as you wait. You’re not sure exactly what moment you’re waiting for but once it arrives you know. It’s the end.
@mangafq83 жыл бұрын
Believe in God and His Mercy. Jesus I place my trust in Thee 🙏🙏🙏
@bripierce Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I'm going through right now, I'm waiting...
@shanewade6055 Жыл бұрын
@@bripierce how you doing
@pottedplant15243 жыл бұрын
I remember some of these signs very well with my mom, especially when she slipped into unconsciousness. Hardest thing I’ve ever had to face. Thank you so much to all the staff who help with family and patients during end-of-life care.
@georgeanderson29402 жыл бұрын
In many cases ( I live in a care home) I feel death is a heavenly passport, they are free from pain ,away from the constraints of earth and in a much better place
@shantanushekharsjunerft97832 жыл бұрын
My Buddhist monks say that death is a process we will experience only once in a lifetime. It’s important to stay as aware as possible of the process and learn as much from it as possible.
@maryamerica71645 жыл бұрын
What sweet young ladies ,bless you
@distanttraveler64835 жыл бұрын
Momma died 3 days ago after 9.5 years of fighting multiple myeloma cancer and she was paralyzed and mute. It's killing me because I asked her to squeeze my finger if in pain, and she did!. 😢
@mamagrace34165 жыл бұрын
She wouldn’t have wanted you to suffer for her. She’s no longer in pain... live your life to the fullest, keep her in you thoughts, speak of her to all you know, do things that make you happy. As long as you are alive, so is she.
@distanttraveler64835 жыл бұрын
@@mamagrace3416 I can do that, thank you ma'am..
@sharon955765 жыл бұрын
Hang in there hun, your Momma is fine. Now it's time for you to be fine. Talk to her and keep her close to your heart for now until you feel better and remind her that you will be ok cos she may be worrying about you too. Love is the best answer to everything. Amen
@janetlittlewood13223 жыл бұрын
My mam died 14 years ago with myloma never seen any one suffer like she did ,she was only 74 had it for 9 years what a horrible death xx
@landers3700 Жыл бұрын
I am a Nurse that just returned back to LTC and your info helped to educate me in what end of life may look like for the residents I care for.
@toywashington39342 жыл бұрын
My Mother passed in 2017, her wake was on a Saturday, her birthday, and she was buried on a Sunday which was Mothers Day of that year. Thank you so much to the Hospice workers and to all the people all over who specializes in end of life care. No one looks forward to these events but these professionals (Angels no doubt) manage them with grace and class and my family and I would have been lost without them. Read the Hospice blue book, I'm glad I did, it made all the difference and served as a guide as the information helped us recognize the different stages my mother went through as she transitioned to the other side. God Bless.
@jojozepofthejungle26555 жыл бұрын
I'm thinking I hope that the stories are true of Angeles standing with you at the time of death.
@jameskennedy69824 жыл бұрын
Please read Roman's 10 vs 9-10
@BoysLikeMeee3 жыл бұрын
They say Angel's are all around us. Wouldn't that be nice? 🤗
@jojozepofthejungle26553 жыл бұрын
@@jameskennedy6982 I don't follow one religion but I am familiar with Romans 9-10. The reason I don't follow one religion is because there's 10.000 religious sects and to follow one religion to the letter, seems a little crazy. Yet the mythology is fascinating. I believe these "gods" were extraterrestrials, come to help us evolve faster, which is forbidden and these aliens were labelled as fallen because they changed our DNA from beasts, to self aware concious beasts. A lot of the religious texts including the Nag Hamadi, and many other gnostic texts, the hieroglyphs, the Hebrew texts and spiritual books like E Casey, H.P Blavatski, N.Goddard, and speaker like Loyd Pyre, Allan Whats and Dolores Cannon throw a whole new light on the translation of the bible. Buddhism and the journey to enlightenment is the closest to the truth, which one finds after studying these works. The bibles faith thing is frightening. When people join, they have this scary look in their eyes like they are possessed "filled with the spirit" and that spirit ignores people's choices and boundaries and will stop at nothing to to try and "save you" from your own demons, promising power in return. That my friend, isn't healthy behaviour and it's dangerous behaviour disguised as "good intentions" exactly what a demon possession would do to you to decieve you. This God also wants blind faith and he wants your name in his book of "life"? And a God who needs worship is a weak ego driven "God" aka extraterrestrial. The bible has a LOT of mistranslation, especially in revelations, which is a reveal of how to open the 7 charkras properly. Watch Edgar Cayce revelations, please just have a look and keep an open mind, you don't have to believe any of it, it's your choice, and free to keep thinking demons are trying to decieve you, but please keep in mind that the with history, the winners write the books and erase the previous records, and that the Romans stole scrolls from Egypt,, half arsed translated them and used them to control and conquer. The Vatican is an empire built apon slaughter, thievery, genocide of the indigenous peoples from all over. If they didn't convert, it was death and torture. The beast aka Vatican has already risen from the sea and the taking of the mark has already happened!! That mark is the anointing of the right hand touching the forehead, then down to the naval, then from left shoulder to right shoulder, making *the Mark of the cross and then *willingly receiving the spirit. Christianity, JW, Muslim, Judaism, Gnosticism are all just factions of the same religion. To be manipulated into following one religious faction to a T, whilst one's in emotional pain, sounds like manipulative blackmail, using someone's fears, guilt and insecurities to get them to join and stay joined. If church wasn't ominous, don't you think everyone will want to willingly join?
@ruthgoddard65394 жыл бұрын
My son died at home, hospuce provided pain meds. It was the hardest thing i have erve lived through. Wstching him die and wondering if i did the right thjng in callung hospuce. He wanted to be home but maybe they could have pulled him through ine more time. Said he was so tired of fighting. The hospice nurse wasent arround much and it fell on me to take care if him and guve him his paun medicine.wish they had told me what to look for.i remember hearing him say i want to go home. I am ready to go hkme now
@marleneholloway77754 жыл бұрын
God bless you 💜🇦🇺
@ruthgoddard65394 жыл бұрын
@@marleneholloway7775 thank you
@tennesseesdaughter74274 жыл бұрын
Ruth Goddard Actually there’s a book that they give you when a love one enters hospice care. It’s referred to as the ‘ little blue book ‘. Depending on the particular hospice services you used, makes all the difference in the knowledge they were to share with you upon intake. Ex: what to expect, when to call them and any changes to meds. Alive Hospice was amazing when it came to my mothers care. Within 24hrs we met the Chaplin, social worker, nurse and cna. Unfortunately the responsibility of administering meds and other things are the family members responsibility. That’s the whole point in going home to die. I pray your sons spirit is flying free in the next life ♥️ Thank you for giving him life and helping him back over to the other side, Amen 🙏🏽
@musicalityrush4 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss x
@ruthgoddard65394 жыл бұрын
@@musicalityrush thank you that means so much
@itsmeallijean2 жыл бұрын
These women are rockstars! I am a new RN getting into palliative care and I love how gently they explain things. EOL care is not for the weak. God bless you both
@kelleymcfadden96752 жыл бұрын
Where will you will spend eternity? The Bible says that you can know that you have eternal life in heaven, but If your belief is based on anything other than complete faith in the finished work of Jesus on the cross, you do not understand God's way to heaven. The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity. Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned: Our sin separates us from God. Romans 3:23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell. Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world. John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world. Jesus loved us so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in our place so that we could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else. There is no greater love than that! John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today! Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified. 6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay. Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him! You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to anyone who will simply receive it by faith. Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: 9. Not of works, lest any man should boast. God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must repent of your sins and call on God for mercy to save you from hell and give you eternal life in heaven with Him. Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. 10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. 13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good. John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire. Please don't wait. Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will! ---------------------------------------------------------------- If you would like more information or don't have a church to attend, we livestream our services and would love for you to join us. God bless you. facebook.com/regkelly.table/ www.libertyfaith.net/contact-us
@danielhansen69913 жыл бұрын
These are the real Rockstars! Thank You. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@gregorylincoln43284 жыл бұрын
Mommy left me one year ago. I witnessed all you describe
@jacobsjungle56763 жыл бұрын
I work in hospice and a lot of the time a woman will roll over and show her anus