What Funke Akindele had to say about her first marriage. |

Akindele-Bello Olufunke Ayotunde is a Nigerian actress and producer. Funke Akindele starred in the sitcom I Need to Know from 1998 to 2002, and in 2009, Funke won the Africa Movie Academy Award for Best Actress in a Leading Role.
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[@Daizyonceagain]

I love her advising ladies because the desperation is just too much to marry and choosing toxic partners

[@funkeolufemi-ayoola6965]

One of the weapons Funke use very well is focus and silence.

[@lizzybens]

Exactly

[@joynwokike3327]

Exactly 💯

[@BeckleyBolaji]

And prayer also

[@emmanuelaemejuru7190]

You can tell there was a time she hit rock bottom cause her advices are pure gold!

[@tinandubuisi7895]

I know Funke is a hard worker. I admire her right from the days of I Need to Know. May God always stand by her

[@adebayoifeoluwarachealmmb1898]

Marriage is now taken as an achievement. The part she said "ignore the gossips" got me. Thank you for sharing your story with us Aunty Funke . Love always.

[@mopelolaafuye3233]

She's just an inspiration. I love everything about you, Keep soaring iya ibeji

[@indolilyindomitablelily7306]

I love this woman to bits. She’s an inspiration for me to be myself. I started watching her on “I need to know “ growing up. Her energy is contagious. I’m watching Jenifa’s diary to this day. Getting some wisdom tips on hustling, daily living and people

[@Infactlove20]

Look at what she said u can tell her mummy is her hero always encouraging her.rhats what a good a mother need to do .always encourage our kids.

[@opeade4594]

Fathers should do that too

[@ellaben2497]

Shame on Nigerian brands that discriminate against women...why should a woman lose endorsement deals or gigs because she's getting divorced..Toke has said this same thing Funke said about losing deals when divorce news broke...but this doesn't happen to the men..

[@dolapossocialhub9984]

This is one of the reasons some women stay in abusive relationship and marriage until they come out dead and transfered into coffin ⚰. Some marriages and relationship will just not work and there's nothing that can be done about it than people going their separate ways. The stigma of divorces and separation definitely affect women more than men which is unfortunate considering divorce affects all genders.

[@ribaker822]

Perhaps female Nigerian entertainers should boycott all corporate endorsements or make sure corporate bodies sign clauses that keep their endorsement despite certain events in their personal lives. This would take a collective effort to work though.

[@naijarealty247tv5]

So unfortunately and sad…

[@iyanuoluwakassim7460]

U can't be so sure it doesn't happen to men

[@Bee28126]

Exactly why more women keep dying 😢

[@lilypearls-emefd3755]

Eniola Badmus God bless you so much 🙏 It’s when things are really bad that you know and realize who your true friends are.

[@SGofLagos]

That kind of friend !!!!

[@queenoffaarts]

BALANCE! My goodness, I love how she told her story without dragging anybody in the mud: LESSON LEARNED! Thank you Lady Jennifer ❤️.

[@franchescaasamoah3046]

One of the best hardworking actress ive known since first day. So proud of her. Funke has truly come a long way n done super well for herself. She fell, got up n dusted her dirt off

[@oluwafunmilayoawoyemi2295]

And used the stumbling blocks as stepping stones!

[@wisdomnelson8638]

Eniola Badmus always bringing the good vibes

[@renataaddy9059]

You look so much like Taraji.It will be awesome to see you guys act together in a movie:).

[@portiaabuga9558]

Funke, I'm a Ghanaian and i love everything about you

[@olapelumidestiny7332]

I say to myself too, "this Phase of my life will definitely pass"

[@oliviaiwu7220]

Don’t let it overwhelm you , it will pass , work hard ,be TAYAD . I’ll never forget . Thank you chude

[@lizzybens]

I love the energy and determination this woman is putting in her quest to be successful.

[@lisab9836]

Woman of grace. Funke is a friend in my head. 🌻

[@floraetaghene7150]

The kind of friend she is in Jenifa's diary, I pray to be and have such friends as well

[@nafisajingi2386]

The lovely funke Akindele😍, giving us honest advice.

[@josephbabalola9819]

Single and unmarried people must be very patient. I mean extreme patience. The more you understand the gravity and weight of marriage, the more patient you should become.

[@shaneekhemmings2812]

Thank you for this message. Persons are drilling in me about getting married and they're not paying attention to my happiness and don't care if I'm waiting on the Lord. She point out the correct message.

[@ayodejilanre1317]

You are a Confirmed intelligent Hardworking Superwoman, you have paid your dues Seriously.

[@gracek.2596]

Girl I felt EVERY word spoken in my spirit! Thank you for being open to bare yourself for the sake of our healing. Gratitude~

[@tannyglow]

“Whatever it is it will pass” Wow just 6 mins+ and I learnt a lot

[@tinandubuisi7895]

Same here

[@queenbadu5052]

My first time hearing your voice without you filming. Wow you are so so good in what you do. OMG 😲 😂😘😘

[@biobakuolawunmi2602]

This came just at the right time. God bless you Chude, God bless you Funke. 🙏 you don't know how grateful I am. I hope to share my story someday

[@afeezonileowo1911]

U r served breakfast abi!?,...issok nah everything leftys dey take harder even dem life self hmmm I no say e too hard o

[@katezuokumor4252]

I love this woman. I see her as a true reflection of tenacity, she inspired so many, has raised so many who never believe will be in the movies today. She's so relatable. Continue soaring funkeakindele. God bless you.

[@yemoseh1]

Very down to earth discussion. Funke akindele is the real deal

[@pearlchikumbi1675]

And I quote:"You have to be "tayad " not tired.. kudos 👌 to you Funke.. This was such an amazing interview.. So real and so inspirational.. We love you here in central Africa 🇿🇲

[@christianabayale8098]

She said it all ...she just saved my life

[@creditriskkrisoralchris7490]

It's not easy to ignore but really protecting your mental space is very important. This is so inspiring

[@memememe4581]

I just love this woman for who she is and the advise she is giving to ladies. Don’t be in a rush and get married to the wrong person. Auntie Funke I just love you. God bless you ma 🥰🥰😍

[@adewemimomonsurat1945]

A thousand applause for this strong woman

[@olubunmioluwaleye2160]

Funke and Eniola looks same. Very inspirational message darling. I need to meet you woman

[@goodvibescomic]

Word for the day 👉"Whatever negativity life hits you with, Do not let it overwhelm you" because it shall pass!

[@nancywondersministry75]

To think that I dreamt of you last night and I woke up to seeing this# I love you Mrs Funke Akindele Bello. You're indeed a strong woman 👠

[@kene.alexandra]

so inspiring. 4 am she’s up, channeling energy in the correct place. Don’t let the rough times swallow you

[@annie-t5557]

It is your last sentence for me dear "Don't let the rough times swallow you"..

[@TheLadyTycoon]

Most hardworking actress...Love her so much🥺❤️❤️

[@ritagina6891]

Her words touched me at this point and time in my life.

[@TheHawakamara]

"IT WILL PASS" I like this phrase. Thank you very much my sister. Very inspiring for real.

[@margaretodurinde5850]

The trouble times came and I thank God you passed it with flying colours. I thank God for your life Funke Akindele -Bello. Thank you for the good advise shared here

[@Styles_E]

this is inspiring. Im watching this video at a time that i am emotionally down. Thank you Jesus. This is inspiring. I know this time will surely pass. Grant me strength oh Lord

[@audreybaylefoster4481]

Amen

[@kaybee6600]

It surely will pass. Hang in there❤

[@July_bunny]

It will

[@emmanueladejuwon2692]

The Lord is your strength

[@morahogochukwu3985]

Same here dear!God is God

[@tribalmarkkristy7421]

Thanks #withchude for bringing Mrs Funke on set, it’s so amazing hear from her....the last part was for me”you don’t have to be a boss” BE TIRRRREEEEDDDD

[@banlabenadine6314]

You touched my deepest part, how did I get to forget my goals so soon.You are my model from today , thank you so very much Ma,God bless you

[@craftfashionmedia]

The most beautiful counsel I've heard today. How i wish i knew what know now i would have channelled my pains and my energy and God given talent and build myself before now. Whatever it's will surely pass....thank God for today. 💝💝

[@ajisegbedeadejokeaanuoluwa9640]

Wow, I feel motivated!! She is a very strong woman oo, I thought she will start feeling emotional and start with stories that touches the heart, golden advices! I will never forget these advice! It motivates me! God bless you ma!

[@roselynadesola566]

When you make mistakes in life , in career and in business . Learn to pick up yourself back up and WIN!!!!!!! Give everything your all. So happy with her Sucess stories

[@amaokon2243]

I love you Can't wait to watch jenifa's diary every Sunday💖

[@roselynadesola566]

@@amaokon2243 ❤️❤️❤️

[@femilicious]

I am going to save this so i can play it to my girls when they are older😍😘. I am already trying to exolain it to them but she is so succint. Only get married and /or have children only if you mewt the RIGHT person for YOU. Not because you are at a certain age and people get married and have children at that age.

[@Adjacenttotheking]

“let’s be human together..” loving this series already. Loving the vulnerability coming from these folks. ❤️ feeling encouraged 😇🔥💆🏽‍♀️

[@BOSSB25TV]

My favourite female artist you're always the best... thanks for the advices

[@omolarafamodun1467]

What a very real and straightforward person, thanks so much!

[@msrtmills]

I agree 100% Don't be in a rush. If you settle for less then you will eventually become dissatisfied. Also, Kill the background music on the interview. It makes it hard to hear what they're saying.

[@chimarnytv]

Chills 🤯 ... Just six minutes and i learnt a lifetime lesson. Inspiring ❤

[@olabiranajayikike6363]

Absolutely true, u are a super 👌 woman

[@f.k.5665]

Even me too and I always listen to this interview nearly every day

[@ogheneovoudi9456]

Wow I am inspired my love,you made me come out of my pains with your words

[@ibkdipo9832]

More wisdom knowledge abondant blessing an more achievement in life for you mummy funke AKA Jennifer i lean from ur interview GOD bless you more

[@SGofLagos]

Great lessons !!!! She was working and laughing through the bad times ! #strength #courage #goodcompany #thistooshallpass #bedeliberate

[@thesharongibson]

I overconnected with this video. Thank you soooooo much. ❤️❤️❤️❤️。 God brought me here. I’m grateful

[@Bina274]

Mummy Funke just inspired me BIG TYME...Oya its time to go get that bag 💼💪

[@cazramusic]

I love this woman so much. Thanks aunty mi. You are such an inspiration 😍

[@busolalash3445]

I love everything about you, keep flourish

[@HelenKKitchen]

Hard work pays. I love this amazing woman always pursuing her dreams.

[@morahogochukwu3985]

It pays sis

[@adebisicrown1776]

I just love her intelligency, experience make us wiser and thrive for the best always,in jenifa diary,we can all see it makes sense alot. God bless you and family Ma,you are one of my movie mentors😘

[@shakiratabioye1007]

A calabash full of water never makes a sound but the empty one without hope of nothing getting inside it does. I always adored you and I support your idea. When you missed your steps it should not be the end of life. I am grateful you had wonderful people around you. Kudos darling. Regards to those lovely creatures(twins),Rasheed and the rest of Bello family.

[@adebisicrown1776]

@@shakiratabioye1007 Of course........

[@igedamilola7758]

Well Detailed. That's a big lesson I've learnt. Love you Aunty Funke😘

[@olapejumariam7125]

I really cried listening to this,i will rise, thank you for this

[@Vickybilly]

You just spoke to me, I swear.... Thank you for this message

[@mildrisplested4804]

This sis is not only strong but she also blessed. This is advice all big sisters should give as you rushe in the same way you would out. Thank you sis i love you

[@TOMIWAJOYOLUBOBOKUN]

I over love this woman. i really wish i can be an actress like her. I have always admire her good acting skills since i was i kid. You are my roll mode Ma FUNKE AKINDELE. I pray and hope i see you some day.

[@Dhurisjay]

God bless you ma'am #funkeakindele....😢😢I love you dearly. For this message you are blessed and I am inspired by your word. God bless your new home and your family beyond measure

[@kumbiaros216]

Funke Akindele mercy personified.....God loves you soooooo much sis❤❤❤❤

[@ideyforyoufullyfunded]

I couldn’t look away the left hand effect 👍🏽👍🏽

[@leahnamutengu6410]

Woooow that's great and awesome.... thank you Aunty Funke for the king and beautiful words

[@aserikorighadeborah6444]

I feel so weak right now but right I feel strengthened with ur words... Thank you so much ma@ Funke Akindele Bello🙏🙇

[@weecee7770]

Spoke from her heart, Inspirational

[@THEYORUBATRAVELLER]

That's why I love and respect this amazing woman so much, thank you so much for blessing us with this Chude✨

[@obaniyiobanike6236]

One of the thing I learnt is work hard and not work smart. She was busy with work when her first marriage was not working, instead of being depressed and feeling bad. Pick up something else to cover for your mistakes. Don't dwell on it, "it will pass". She talk about her mum also encouraged her, pls mummy encourage your children, don't add to what is on ground. I love you funke Akindele

[@dzuamomsughter8307]

I just love your humanity @funke akindele bello may God bless you

[@BridgetteStewart-o5b]

I love Funke she can act i just love watching her Jenifa Diary wow love it and the cast they are lovely❤

[@julietonwuka6536]

She’s just amazing ♥️♥️

[@lumchristabel8582]

I've watched this video several times. Thank you Ma. I refuse to be pressed

[@CeciliaOkeke]

So inspirational 💛💛💛💛🙏🏿

[@esegrace8838]

Amazing advice I always put my happiness first before anyone else Thank you ma for this advice I feel like am the only one you are talking to

[@MsTolu123]

i cant stop looking and her brows, LOVE!

[@adekoyabunmi9176]

I came here for a reason. I found it!! Thank You!

[@DMone428]

I don’t really watch movies or something but this advice is the BEST and I can totally relate! Work HARDDDDDDDDDDDD

[@kangkebedimma8341]

Literally got goosebumps listening to this....this is so inspiring. Love Funke to bits💕💕

[@flok7201]

Me too😍

[@anu-oluwapo7785]

True words, deep words. She is real.

[@rachelchinyerebest7664]

Nice point, u are strong. Don't be in a rush. I so much appreciate those words coming from you!!💪

[@karenblake1420]

POWERFUL and BEAUTIFUL interview, I enjoyed it immensely. Only issue was that the background music could be a bit lower

[@mabelade9536]

I worked hard during my bad situation God is great.

[@maryejovwoke1680]

Thank you so much for this Funke... Sometimes the pressure can be overwhelming, 🥺

[@arisehigh632]

Wow this interview is long over due . Funke do you know how many ladies were waiting to know how you survived ? What did you do ? How did you cope .? Am making this clips viral. Thanks for sharing

[@jossyspur2155]

Ah ah, Such a Blessing. Soo Inspiring, God bless you Ma

[@busayocomfortakinduti3216]

I woke this morning and asking myself what have I achieved. But aunty funke you lift my spirit

[@favourchisom7080]

Thank you mummy, you have really helped me that’s so much I love you tirelessly 💖💖and again I want to see you mummy 🙏🏼🙏🏼please 💖💖💖

[@Glorymore]

Don't let that situation break you down. Keep pushing lesson learnt

[@AngelaOlaniyi]

I love this woman,thank you so much .

[@fabier2404]

There are words of wisdom in what she's saying. God bless her and her love ones. It is well

[@rifkatupeter7936]

Experience is a good teacher

[@comfort_nelson]

She said, you have to be “tayad” preach! 🙌

[@claribelngundu2204]

Been looking forward to this interview by Funke. I believe this part is very important to all unmarried ladies. Bless you for sharing 🙏 ❤ 🙌 💕

[@ifeomaritauzor3939]

She is just amazing and 👏 all the beautiful things, did not bad mouth the ex but acknowledged what she did differently in her new relationship. Love you Funke, Respect👏