What Happened after I left My Wife?

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Dr. Charles Apoki

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@nchehilaryfon2194 6 ай бұрын

“Jesus was not hypothetical. He was realistic. His interest was for the betterment of humanity”. Well done sir 👏👏👏👏

@joinMasculine_Motive 5 ай бұрын

This man is among the few true men left in the world

@My_f4u 7 ай бұрын

This is the best thing i have ever heard from a Nigerian God bless you

@okezieemma2099 7 ай бұрын

Reading the comments on this video, I discovered that many did not understand Dr Apoki’s video. Please watch this video again. He practically prioritized his happiness, sound mind and freedom over material things. This is a healthy man in and out.

@mimim875 7 ай бұрын

That's exactly what I heard. Not sure what others are hearing. Hapiness ain't in wealth accumulated only. Self care is very important

@ejaifeorodesomuvie5727 6 ай бұрын

Only low iq people will misunderstood him, Dr Apoki is as real as you sees him, such a straight forward man.

@olufunkeidowu9931 4 ай бұрын

Both well said. There's an apparent lack of comprehension of this video by many in the comment section. It requires a lot of maturity to understand what Dr Apoki expressed . I could relate and laughed throughout the video because he was describing some situations that occur between my dearest husband and me😅❤. #22 years in marriage, and we are changing and finding great ways to accommodate each other. He goes shopping whenni go crazy 🤪 😅😊😂😂❤. I love ❤️ him ever so dearly. My children just ignore both of us when we are at it . Later to use as comedy relief at their children's meetings😅😅😅😅. Am happy and grateful to have a partner who tries to accommodate, understand and support me at every stage of my change while we both strive to maintain a healthy physical and mental environment for our 3 children( all adults now too

@Sustainablewealth777 4 ай бұрын

I'm not a man. I'm a girl that's just starting to learn about myself and life. I listen to your videos. Thank you

@UChristianoCR7 3 ай бұрын

I need you in my life. We can build a good life together❤

@berthaphiri3503 3 ай бұрын

It depends the kind of version. Not all men are Godly, if you follow their path , you're doomed with poverty and destruction. They are women who mean build their husbands Sir

@benoyenuga5240 7 ай бұрын

Thank you sir for opening up and telling your story, people never tell you this part of marriage that it is very challenging not everyone who stays married are happy just do it mainly for religious and cultural reasons. Marriage is beautiful when their is genuine love and both being on the same page. I really hope you both reconcile and this is not the final chapter sometimes a temporary break is needed on both parties to heal and clear your mind from certain situations.

@AbramTaba-ly7zy 7 ай бұрын

Dr. Akpoki, your teachings are truly what we need in this life. You are a blessing to ME. Thank you Sir. I am Thabo, Limpopo, RSA.

@iyenjohn6633 6 ай бұрын

The worst thing that can happen to a man is the imprisonment of his dreams.

@ththim7785 4 ай бұрын

Are you now going to look for a white woman?

@ejaifeorodesomuvie5727 6 ай бұрын

You are a man of wisdom, may God continue to increase you.

@la9753 6 ай бұрын

“Left” as used here was not divorce or separation but a mere leaving the school premises to live in their other house.

@drcharlesapoki 6 ай бұрын

Most intelligent comment.

@abigailsitsha2517 3 ай бұрын

I was lost. I thought he was saying that he and his wife are no longer together..that he has given all their assets to her and is now living his life apart from her.

@nichelegalsolutions 3 ай бұрын

Exactly, he didn't say they are either divorce or separated. He only left to expand and she followed. Why are people getting it twisted?

@sikakofi 2 ай бұрын

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@@nichelegalsolutionsthe caption was a click bait.. he knew exactly why he made it so.. he wanted more views hence the caption 😅

@danny6247 6 ай бұрын

Never give a woman full authority over yourself, over finances, or over all decisions made. You will suffer for it.

@gwills9337 4 ай бұрын

They act like they want it but if they get it they’re miserable and destroy it

@nelsonmwombeki5243 3 ай бұрын

I agree, the world is never ready for this type of life.

@abigailsitsha2517 3 ай бұрын

Isn't that the opposite of what he is saying

@danny6247 3 ай бұрын

@@abigailsitsha2517 I don't agree with everything he says, he is a wise man but I've seen a different side of things as well.

@lusolanga8423 3 ай бұрын

If this wise man had followed your advice, he wouldn't be as happy and liberated as he is. He saw and recognised his wife's God-given gifts and talents and let her use them. But he also focused on his God-given gifts and talents and took charge of those. While you sound like you live in a marriage full of strife and conflict because material things define you.

@jamesthomas4787 3 ай бұрын

This man challenges me do much but he's filled with wisdom, God bless Doctor 🎉

@wilkergoma1 3 күн бұрын

Love the wisdom Dr Apoki is sharing !! Big love!

@lshayo1658 5 ай бұрын

This could be one of the very best video on youtube! To sum up everything here is: "Protect your mental heath at all cost"!

@eddyidemudia7356 7 ай бұрын

This is freedom for you , i love you the way you educate us with your story.

@EAOkoli 6 ай бұрын

Point : Women find it difficult to manage authority, to manage wealth. ❤

@londonwildflowerbae 4 ай бұрын

WITHOUT the leadership and input of good men, a Dad, Brother, Husband, Uncle etc...

@ajayigabriel 3 ай бұрын

Generally, they're not cut out for that. Also, they have a lower sense of responsibility; this reflects in their always putting their own interests first.

@idehenreosas3969 7 ай бұрын

Mingwo sir! This is one thing that also affects the male child. Most mothers tend to play this on their sons which they realise late or may not even realise at all. Also common to Sons who grew up with all women in the house/only sons. I am not saying the male child should be disrespectful. But it's important to know when to take a stand and exercise your authority as a Man. And lastly, this is common to men in old age. The children most like will take sides with the mothers. Then the man is sometimes all alone.

@drcharlesapoki 7 ай бұрын

Vrendo.

@minglim-pollard1167 7 ай бұрын

Top man, The shallow style of the western feminist matrix, a well fitted scold collar based around consumerism and control has infected the entirety of mankind, Stay strong KPP,

@aeiou0123 7 ай бұрын

They take their mom sides because they saw how poorly the man treated her. My dad is mot alone n we love him to death cos he was a fabulous dad n husband seeing him as we grew up

@idehenreosas3969 7 ай бұрын

@@aeiou0123 It's not by how poorly.......It's just a natural thing. There are just a few exceptions

@alinayili2199 7 ай бұрын

@@aeiou0123this is the mistake men make without realizing it but then insecure men treat women poorly to feel good

@auroraleielsalama261 3 ай бұрын

"Me & my wife are crazy" 😂😂😂😂😂. "We àre happily married, wè are married but single. I am having fun. " i enjoy listening to this man.

@subair03 7 ай бұрын

Wow marital social distancing is the key word, instead of having emotional problem.

@slydoskibelieveinc.7748 7 ай бұрын

You certainly look happy Dr. Apoki. That is always admirable. The thing is men sometimes "allow women" to run things because they want to keep the peace or for other reasons. But later on she will become the ruler of that marriage. This is no fun for any man. So men stand your ground early and keep it that way and don't compromise on things that will later on become unfavorable

@jamesobahi1992 3 ай бұрын

I was touched when he said he has never slept with anyone for the past 39yrs of their marriage. What kind of temptation is this? May the Lord continue to grant you the Grace Advice to Women: Any man you cannot submit to please don't marry him but if you agree to marry him, let his vision be your mission and that is submission. Íf your desire is anything more than your husband, you are functioning outside the perfect will of God. I understand with Dr CA. If you have a calling and a purpose to fulfill don't allow any distractions to stop you. God will help both of them.

@jds5788 7 ай бұрын

Great video. As men get older we sometimes have to rediscover ourselves separate from the marriage. You're blessed if you have a place of your own to retreat to. Several of my friends have opted for this and to be honest it's as though you've served your purpose and it's your time now. Enjoy!

@jeremiasrobinson3478 6 ай бұрын

True talk Dr. Apoki. You said it all. Is like we're in the same shoe. You'll invest %90 in all you own together but most women will want to have all for themselves alone. I used to believe in uniting forces with the wife, but experience has taught me better. Thank you for speaking out b/c many men are going through the same issues.

@recyclespinning9839 6 ай бұрын

This video showed up and very relevant. This even pertains to if you have a business together with a family business and a sibling is involved. At a certain age you must just sell off and split your portions fairly. Dont argue , 50/50. This way you are free to live your life and do what is your choosing , as are they.

@drcharlesapoki 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for your insight. Many people particularly religious folks could not understand what I was talking about.

@Yourtruthmightnotbemine 7 ай бұрын

Your wise analysis are words of wisdom because I see my own life going the same direction!

@PrinceMathsclinic 3 ай бұрын

Oh my God, where and how did I meet Dr Charles Apokin. He is simply and Wonderful man full of inspiration.

@omofumaighodalo432 7 ай бұрын

Your desire will be for your husband (to control him), but he will rule over you.

@godschild9276 2 ай бұрын

Quoting Dr Voddie Bachum my mentor.

@cradleofrelaxation6473 7 ай бұрын

I want to be like this man when I’m old.

@TheLegend-uq1gz 7 ай бұрын

Dr. Apoki, I respect you a lot & I appreciate all your efforts helping others. However, I am begging you NOT to share your personal information on the internet. It’s okay to share with family & intimate friends. Pls protect your wife & your kids, our words are very powerful & they project images in the mind of our audience. Internet people are not really friends (may become friends one day). Just my personal opinion.

@fiyinebenezer3724 7 ай бұрын

I think he needs someone to be able to share everything with... & while he finds that someone, if sharing on the Internet gives him peace and a mental outlet and doesn't impact his family too much, it's OK.

@pastryshack551 7 ай бұрын

What I don't understan, you praise a woman to the hill, she is good, she gave me a good office, she did so much for me, yet he decides to separate, and she is still preparing his meals, how can you leaf a good woman? That's my problem. Make me understand this logic

@londonshappiestbusdriver462 7 ай бұрын

Dr Apoki said he was able to write more books. He thinks clearer while he is alone. At least he & his wife are still good friends. His book of life is not yet over, there will be many chapters to come. I see this also helping a lot of men. He did not resort to beating his wife. He did not leave his family broke. He is protecting his mental health. And he is not scared that his wife will now poison his food because he left her.

@remmykopa1049 7 ай бұрын

@@londonshappiestbusdriver462exactly my thoughts. Only some men will understand. What is a testimony? It's when you give an account of your personal experiences in order to teach others. That's exactly what he is doing and I agree with him 💯

@waskyhenry6306 7 ай бұрын

@@pastryshack551 You're reading too much into his head 😔. It's called personal freedom and growth 📈. Some people will call it self actualization. Doctor Apoki is doing exactly 💯 that. Some people will resort to violence when they can't express their individual freedoms. This guy is teaching you something that will cost you a lot of money 💰 otherwise. You cannot afford to get "enslaved" in the cultural and traditional norms or religious teachings which may be alien to understand.

@christophermudd7844 7 ай бұрын

Thank you again for your wisdom and knowledge, as a younger man. I enjoy listening to the truth.

@magaretekwin3659 7 ай бұрын

😂😂 He said he and his wife are "Practicing martial social distancing, to a oid spreading martial viruses", so funny but makes sense! This man is a trip!

@kulelwateddy6715 7 ай бұрын

If this marital social distancing includes no sex..🙆

@childrentoys4537 3 ай бұрын

@@kulelwateddy6715🤣🤣🤣.

@sylviakelechi7698 13 күн бұрын

Marital social distancing is good I am a testament to it Especially as a researcher Sometimes we just need to go on personal vacation alone, just to reflect, meditate take stock and restrategize.

@haynesswalker8345 7 ай бұрын

This man is awesome so free spirited

@djsleekmanali6489 7 ай бұрын

The truth must be told, thank you for telling the truth Dr Apoki!!

@TheLegend-uq1gz 7 ай бұрын

But you have not heard from his wife.

@akinwaleakintoye8304 7 ай бұрын

From what I heard from him......can't perceived any hate from him. And she genuinely cares for him too. Oftentimes we individually want space to reminisce and ponder about issues or fresh ideas, that doesn't mean we don't love those who are most dear in our lives.

@olatunjiakinpelu7799 7 ай бұрын

Dr. Apoki... You are a peaceful and creative man... You will live long to teach men senses and act of moving forward without women imprisonment.

@chantkressmyfavouriterockstar 7 ай бұрын

DR I am in my early twenties , But I can relate to this information ; I have found that my girlfriend has started to treat me with more respect and she is taking me seriously......after I have startd doing things I am passionate about on my own terms. and the relationship has become more health .......for both of us,

@nunofigueira8691 4 ай бұрын

Keep going and take attention that she is your girlfriend and not your business partner, assistent or advices. 😊😊😊😊😊😊

@waskyhenry6306 7 ай бұрын

Hi Doc, you have a penchant for comedy 🤣. I like your punch 👊 lines. You deliver your hard punches with some soft 🍦 gloves 🧤. Keep it up 👍.

@drcharlesapoki 7 ай бұрын

I appreciate that

@drcharlesapoki 7 ай бұрын

You are very smart sir. You understand the style.

@Zainab-ts4mj 7 ай бұрын

@@drcharlesapokiSir, you just wrapped my day with wisdom and laughter 😂😂. I'm grateful!

@AMBERSBABYDADDY 6 ай бұрын

You Sir are a MASTER ORATOR. BRAVO

@bendankaka 7 ай бұрын

I love this message! You're a real leader. Thank you Sir.

@bjo004 7 ай бұрын

So sad to hear.😢. I pray you both reconcile and peace reign in your marriage.

@sundaychidi1979 6 ай бұрын

So you know more than Him please let him be

@oluwakemitoluwanimi7203 6 ай бұрын

They are still married she is still bringing him food; he only created a space to help him activated his potentials and fulfil them. Even the wife understands.

@kerrysmith9666 7 ай бұрын

There is no perfect marriage or a perfect relationship, but you can visit your family for a while but don't separate, be quiet when he or she is angry, and discuss issues only when your minds are relaxed.

@thebeautyofnature29 6 ай бұрын

Sir, I know this to be true as well, like I said before, I'm 42 years old and I've been married for 13 years and I started to feel trapped, and I started to feel like I was losing my identity and it was like my every move or thought was dictated by my wife and it was always friction in the house... But when I moved out into our other house I became better and gained a piece of mind and were able to create new ideas and start to find myself again. But she recently convinced me to move back home and now I'm back suffering and not feeling my best as a creative person.. I'm definitely going to be moving back out and live the rest of my life a free man, I love her and we will still be together but I will be a free man to think and move how I please.

@samlawaniunscripted 4 ай бұрын

Lol, you thought the bible was playing when it said "he who is not married should NOT attempt to find a wife else you will see problems in this life" 😂😂😂. 1 corinthians 7:27-28

@TheKojak1966 7 ай бұрын

You made her very powerful and I feel it is not going down well with you and you seem bitter. I would have love you to treat this matter privately out of regards for your family.

@donmek 7 ай бұрын

Lovely advice

@payparallel 7 ай бұрын

No, he doesn't seem bitter. There's friction, which occurs in every marriage, but he's NOT BITTER. He strikes me as an emotionally intelligent man. Plus, he didn't demean his wife in anyway, instead, he extolled her virtues, so the suggestion that he should have kept it private is unnecessary l think

@yuta3699 7 ай бұрын

He is not bitter,I suspect you are one of those feminists who think men are intimidated by women,some of you just come on social media and write senselessly,you lack comprehension,he didn’t divorce his wife,he is only teaching us a lesson about marriage.

@abiodunemmanuel3551 7 ай бұрын

Waw, God bless you sir. I learnt so much. I always look forward to your videos every day. Sometimes, women can make one's life miserable. I need such grace. As a man, the reality is we will end up being alone. It's only female children that may care for the man at old age. That's the sad reality.

@ruirwathika 7 ай бұрын

This man has discovered the beauty of peace over materialism. Materialism is ruling the world. Has been for millennia. He who discovers disengagement from materialism is wise. The thing is we need to build, but we need a balance as well. We are all looking for that balance. what balance means to me is not the same to you. Perhaps she’s very innocent. Indeed he’s not purely negative about her. The demand for managing our accumulated wealth maybe energy depleting so that the very material you so worked hard for become your prison. He’s free. He’s out of jail. Kudos to you sir.

@allthingznatural5592 6 ай бұрын

I like your videos. You have much Wisdom! USA, Oklahoma ❤️

@j.o6885 Ай бұрын

I understand you completely.I am going through the same thing.I have been fortunate/unfortunate enough to know that love is not everything

@AtlasCorry 6 ай бұрын

This is a very conflicting message but I have sifted the ones that I need and would apply it for my well being

@roselinda4383 7 ай бұрын

Absolutely love your messages..wisdom and discernment

@paradisearts7021 7 ай бұрын

Dr apoki, I am currently in this same boat with you sir, I recently moved out of the house, due to other reasons, but the seperation right now is healing me from all the toxicity

@festusugonwokebata5318 7 ай бұрын

This is the kind of message this evil, deceitful, and arrogant woman of this present generation who have decided to make the life of every man miserable and have deviated from the law of God that stated that women be submissive and man love ur wife, Men be Wise women hate this kind of eyes opening message

@mercyoluwatoyin4108 7 ай бұрын

Wow! daddy, your type is very rare in this part of the world... anyone who is fortunate to have someone like you is too blessed. Weldone, sir.

@tremtoronto6462 7 ай бұрын

Separation should be the last resort after all efforts to make it work fail given the far reaching long term implications. I can't stand violence in marriage or infidelity, everything else can be worked out but if 2 cannot and unable to live happily together, there's absolutely no point managing it. It's only the living that talks of marriage. Sir, I can't advise you otherwise as you wear the shoes and know where it pinches you. But I have watched quite a number of yoir videos and you seem a good man. The last clip I watched, you even walked out of the huge investment of the school you built.....material things don't matter to you and you will live long. Take care of yourself sir. Shalom

@akanyasyrenius3695 7 ай бұрын

Sir, love you for whom God made you to be and I bless God for making me to come in contact with your channel

@lolokey6804 7 ай бұрын

Seriously, am happy hearing this

@TheZuluman7 7 ай бұрын

Dr Apoki the great teacher of philosophy. Thank you sir

@EzeugwuAlfred-e6s Ай бұрын

All you said is true and educational.keep it up

@Lebcon 6 ай бұрын

Exactly sometimes things need to change to find peace of mind for both. Nice one Doc.

@ProsperousJanetta 7 ай бұрын

I do not know how I ended up on your channel Doc. 😂I am so glad I did. I am a new sub 👍. I am from the US and have been married to my Naija king going on 20 years. We have two sons and are best friends. Best friends at times need a break to be at peace and I have made my husband a man cave in our home for him to be able to do so around all his books that he loves to read. It took me a while to learn that his personality actually thrives off of being alone at times. My personality is energized by being around people so I used to get offended when he did not want to talk. Now we have a system in place that allows us both to become our best selves! Love your candor and compassionate wisdom 👍 keep it up 🙏🏽

@drcharlesapoki 7 ай бұрын

Wow! You are just amazing. Thanks so much.

@PatrickJato-ju9rs 7 ай бұрын

Dr Aboki you are a wonderful human being I value your God given wisdom I have subscribed to your Chanel

@user-gi4iw4xg1h 3 ай бұрын

Thanksgiving for your wisdom Senior.Apoki🇬🇾

@boakyebb 7 ай бұрын

"My mind separated by that handcuff that tue two shall become one ".... 🎉 .... Fabulous ....

@abdulraheemaderojuadetokun9691 2 ай бұрын

Wonderful Teachings from Dr Apoki. my take home.....Understanding is not agreeing together all the time, understanding is comprehending the situation, and the person(your wife) and making the right decision. This applies to all married couples all over the world. Sometimes we are confronted with situations that warrant us to be more understanding and making the right decision, More Blessings to Dr. Stay young and Fresh Sir.

@AdepejuEniola-nd8ov 6 ай бұрын

Whao! You're such a bundle of wisdom and inspiration sir. Thanks

@virginiaimo2840 6 ай бұрын

I just stumbled across your channel today. You’re amazing, I love your teachings, young people should visit your blog and listen and will gain insight on life generally. Thank you very much sir.

@ahamedawwalcarpenter9179 4 ай бұрын

Thanks you Dr Apoki, you are surly inspirational, a man who can laugh over his daily challenges this way is truly the strong one. I like Greek philosophers too. Keep it up.

@lakeside4jesus 3 ай бұрын

This is pure emotional intelligence 😍

@femijegede5877 7 ай бұрын

The style you have adopted to teach this intresting lessons about marriage is a bit complex for many people from the responses I am reading. Having a difference with someone especially your spouse doesn't always mean one is wrong, while the other is right. There are many ways to sort out big or obvious difference in a marriage, one of it is what you have done and described so glowingly for us here. You told us; "I don't do adultery" and I believe you. That is one clear instruction God gave on this matter. ❤. You have not contravened it. I have learnt a lot from your experience. Thank you for not keeping it to yourself and simply going to the grave with it. It is a very useful lesson.

@AmaraSimon-qn5qh 7 ай бұрын

Na who nogo no go understand. Any little opportunity you give your wife matters in your life

@akaneeabbey8422 7 ай бұрын

Somebody is telling the story of his life so that you learn, take your own part and leave the rest, what I think this man is saying simply is you handle things with your woman without quarrelling,, the man wanted liberty and he got it without harming his wife,, pls let us learn from experienced man/men

@charismarie6330 6 ай бұрын

Yeah many people don't get it

@olufemiogunba6875 7 ай бұрын

Wisdom is profitable to direct.A lot of christians are sinking in the so call marriage because of fear of what people will say.

@ontwo-wheels 4 ай бұрын

One needs alot of wisdom and maturity to consume Dr. Apoki's words. If you are emotional and quick to be vexed, thisbis not your place.

@user-mz6oi3ub4j 7 ай бұрын

Dr Apoki so happy to see you here, God used you to save Dike life

@hezekiahjonahabah6556 6 ай бұрын

Now I can understand the first video 'why I left my wife'.... I admire your principles and tactics....trust madam will retrace her steps. Bless you

@uzodikepaulinuschukwudi3696 7 ай бұрын

Woman's money is not your money, men work hard! much appreciates Daddy 🙏

@Kengele 7 ай бұрын

TRUE #KENGELE

@d.c.5033 6 ай бұрын

Very good. Woman has to see the man’s vision and support him.

@OnkOnk-ev8he Ай бұрын

wow,what a wonderful man,i am from imo state.i took time to read a lot from you.i am a christain sir.

@patienceomolola9007 3 ай бұрын

You’re a very straightforward man; truly you are Sir👍.

@joeb.1163 7 ай бұрын

Alot of men don't get it. What women want in life is different from what men want. The moment that I understood that my happiness is my responsibility, I started looking at my marriage differently. No matter what my wife does, she can't take away my happiness. I've already even mentally settled for any case scenario. Most men will suffer in their old age if they don't start putting themselves first..

@TheLegend-uq1gz 7 ай бұрын

You are 100% correct. A book called; “Men are from Mars and women are from Venus” really opened my eyes to this concept. Once you understand it, no marital issues can destabilize you.

@drcharlesapoki 7 ай бұрын

God bless you sir.

@marymogashoa1258 3 ай бұрын

Perfectly said

@joeb.1163 3 ай бұрын

@@TheLegend-uq1gz the book is a goldmine.

@magdaleneivuegbe8748 7 ай бұрын

God bless you sir, you are a typical man I have always wanted to be my methol, your messages have healed my marital wounds. May you live long.

@drcharlesapoki 7 ай бұрын

Wow, thank you

@Boombastic82 7 ай бұрын

For me it is not good for a man to live with a woman 24/7 establish friendship and distancing. Be productive on your own, follow your dreams, create your source of income, take care of the mother of your children and the children. Visit them from time to time

@recyclespinning9839 6 ай бұрын

Very relevant video. Even with a business you have together with a family member , at a certain age you sell off and each take your 50% share. This way you are both free to choose the direction of your life. Sometimes one member thinks they have done everything , even though you may have done most of the work. Even better yet , as pertaining to family members, never have business together.

@EmminoForex 3 ай бұрын

Took you so many years to accept this truth. I’m just 4 years in marriage and ive told myself to give relevance to other things apart from marriage.. Carrier 💪🏼

@ralphups7782 7 ай бұрын

Dr Charles Apoki, very wise words indeed Sir and i thank you for sharing them with me.

@ValElsie1951 2 ай бұрын

Dr Apoki , I have just came across your video. I understand your point , it seems like you and your wife has grown apart. It doesn’t mean that you don’t love each other. It simply means you still care for each other but you’re much better apart. You have lots of ideas and also your wife does. Just different ways of letting it work. You owe it to yourself to be happy and have peace of mind and I think that’s the route you have taken. I found you very interesting, stay blessed and good luck to you both

@chinedunwalli6048 6 ай бұрын

I see the same toxic life with my wife, i am in my early 40s what i did was just give her space and since then i have my peace and i can think straight

@theresaigube5734 7 ай бұрын

Doc, am in tears! It is only because am a woman. Doc, my mind is crashing ooo. Am not been understood. I feel like running away. Am tired Doc!!! This is my situation.

@TheLegend-uq1gz 7 ай бұрын

But you have not heard from his wife.

@suanuagabus3527 7 ай бұрын

@@TheLegend-uq1gz You can take it upon yourself to go and get his wife's side of the story. We will like to hear it.

@uBenkiff 4 ай бұрын

Haha. True. Men should enjoy being single

@79code 7 ай бұрын

This one was very funny. Marital social distancing 😂😂😂

@abrahamniilartey6492 3 ай бұрын

aka 'separated'

@Naijamann 3 ай бұрын

Very clear thoughts in simple english...with a plain heart.. im subscribing...

@benb52 7 ай бұрын

Love all your messages Dr❤❤❤❤❤❤

@asuamini674 7 ай бұрын

Dr. Apoki , I have been enjoying your talks . I look forward to hearing your talks. God bless you for the wisdom in all you have been telling us.

@nwaoduhezinna8291 5 ай бұрын

When next I am home I will definitely come and visit you. I like that you love your wife and she loves you and you all will be fine last last. Please share some of your books for us to buy and learn. 🎉

@londonshappiestbusdriver462 7 ай бұрын

Dr Apoki, you're a funny man. God bless you

@marvahgprah6847 7 ай бұрын

Thank uuuu, this is my second time watching your video and I really like and appreciate you.

@tlcore007 3 ай бұрын

You're extremely well spoken sir. I love your videos, I believe this is temporary as you said it's marital distancing, You guys will be back together! in the same roof !! thank you so much Sir.