What Happened the Day we Found our Daughter - Ben's Worx Vlog

[@samanthasimental3788]

When i was about 14 I found my sister on the floor convulsing and foaming at the mouth. I screamed for my mom. She had taken a bunch of pills. I also found my best friend cuffed to her bed unconscience. She had taken pills also. It has been over 40 years now and i still have a hard time. My sister is alive. She struggles with depression. My friend is gone now, but she lived a long life. My very best wishes for your family.

[@jaimezimmerman1670]

I'm sorry for what you went through & for the loss of your friend. I lost a friend to suicide as well. I'd give anything to still have him here today. You're not alone. ❤❤

[@slightlysoulfulspatula]

Please let your daughter know we are all here rooting for her and your whole family to heal and grow stronger together. ❤

[@justinemct]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 couldn’t have put it better myself x. @ Ben and Nicole, God Bess you all xXx

[@wanya_telborn]

Absolutely ❤❤❤

[@LisaOliverauthor]

Huge, huge shout out to your daughter's boss who had the commonsense to call Nicole in the first place. They are a legend. And huge hugs to you two, and Courtney. I believe in the power of love and I'm sending so much love to you all - hugs.

[@katelillo1932]

I agree! One of our girls didn’t show up to work one day which was completely unlike her and the manager wouldn’t get me the emergency contact information to call her mother to check if she was okay. I was furious. It turned out that she was in the hospital with a bad epilepsy attack. They were too worried that she might complain to HR if we called her mother looking for her 🙄

[@LisaOliverauthor]

@@katelillo1932 Oh my goodness, that's terrible. I do hope she ended up okay. As an older woman who lives alone I know it's checking up on people that can help them stay safe. Hugs.

[@JStrick525]

I want you to tell your girl that she’s a hero. She journeyed down to the gates of Hell and decided to spit in the eyes of all her demons rather than give up. Now in less than a month she’s on the road to recovery and wanting to reach out to others and tell her story to spread awareness? Only a superhero can do that. I hope she keeps sharing her experience because it will help others. It will also help to heal herself. Tell her to keep fighting because there is so much love around her and life is worth it! ❤️ On a lighter note, I completely understand how y’all feel about cities. My small town is about all the excitement I can handle. 😅

[@elforg]

I have wanted to tell you this for some time now, but have not found the timing for it. I’m suffering from severe depression. Two years ago I was in a really dark place and was about to take my own life, my oldest son stopped me, unknowingly… he was only 10 back then. I ended up in the mental hospital for a while, but I was just a shell of myself when I came out. I had to stay with my parents for a while, and looking at your videos helped me getting out of it. You helped me getting back to life ❤

[@bensworxvlogs]

💙

[@b.slocumb7763]

This is also a wake up call for every employer out there to make sure you find out why your employee hasn’t shown up for work, and make sure they have provided a valid number for you to call if they aren’t responding to your phone calls. Had her employer not reached out to you it could be a very different story. I know most of the bosses I have had in the US would not bother to call a family member or friend to find their employee. They would just figure they might have to fire them for not coming to work that day, which is a shame. So here is a huge thank you to whoever the person is that she works for who called you- they made all the difference.

[@iam1ofST2]

The reason that most places in the US won't call anyone other than the employee is out of fear of them contacting HR, it's sad really.

[@JustAnotherBuckyLover]

You didn't have to share this story, and you don't have to "repay" any of us. My heart aches both for you, and your kids, and the pain you've all gone through. Sending you all my love - sometimes mental health issues don't ever get fully "gone"... but that doesn't mean you can't live with them and still enjoy life. Watching your hands shaking, Ben, and how clearly traumatic the memory is for you - please make sure YOU get some support for that too, if you aren't already. My housemate discovered me nearly dead (within hours of passing away) at the start of May due to sepsis and severe haemolytic anaemia that it triggered, so my level of red blood cells was so low that I not only needed two blood transfusions, but had he not got me to hospital when he did, I wouldn't have been alive the next day and I, too, spent two days being resuscitated before I could go onto a general ward, before being transferred to a specialist hospital for many more weeks of IV meds. I've been in hospital for most of the last 3 months, as a result, because of the complexity of my issues, and I'm still working on it now - but I'm still here and I will never be able to repay him for saving my life, despite his own constant struggles with mental illness. I know your daughter probably feels the same way about what you did for her, too. Sending you all my love and as before - take whatever time you need. We'll still be here, replaying the oldies and interacting to keep the algorithm happy. 🤗🫂💜

[@tonikimpel7891]

@@JustAnotherBuckyLover glad you are still alive and tell your roommate he is a hero. Keep getting well.

[@kaitlynnmountney8331]

This is extremely well said and I second it completely. Ben and Nicole, you both should find support while navigating this difficult and traumatic experience. Your daughter is getting the help she needs, but you must lead by example and take care of yourselves too.

[@bensworxvlogs]

I’m glad you are still with us 💙

[@JustAnotherBuckyLover]

@@bensworxvlogs Thank you. So am I. Things are still a work in progress, and I feel like I might have to go back... but regardless, we'll figure it out. I'm so glad that you're all here still, as well. 💜

[@JustAnotherBuckyLover]

@@tonikimpel7891 Thank you - I have, many times, but I read this comment to him just as a reminder.

[@jenniferdashno2299]

In 2017 we lost our daughter at the age of 15 to suicide. I'm so grateful to hear that your daughter survived. Now she has a chance to keep living. Please, tell her she is not alone.

[@anaclark5751]

Love you.

[@stephanie1044]

I am so sorry for your loss

[@riannonwhitford5883]

@@jenniferdashno2299 I’m so sorry for your loss 💙

[@bensworxvlogs]

I’m so sorry for your loss 💙

[@rachelwhelan3370]

I’m sorry for you loss 💙

[@austinthomas9145]

Had to pause the video to write this. NEVER feel like you need to repay your community. There is a community because of YOU guys! This was our way of repaying you. All the content we “need” is your personality and gorgeous art. Yall rock. Life sucks sometimes and that’s okay. Just keep your priorities straight. You can always make more money later.

[@tonyahyche9333]

Well said!

[@S0SS0L]

I’d like to add that the community often reflects the people who create the community. Birds of a feather, and all that.

[@austinthomas9145]

@@S0SS0L you rock. ❤️ Have an awesome day.

[@FrenkTheJoy]

I always feel bad when creators feel like they need to apologize for letting us down when they haven't posted in a bit when all they did was just take a couple days off because they wanted a break, so I was especially like "no you don't need to make it up to anyone!" in this case.

[@S0SS0L]

@@FrenkTheJoy The video recommendation algorithm favors frequency and regularity, and can be brutal to smaller channels.

[@paulawallis]

Ben, you didn't "owe" the community anything... But at the same time, THANK YOU for speaking out about this, and an even bigger Thanks goes to your daughter for allowing you to share this very vulnerable story. I hope and pray that you're all getting the help you need. My daughter had a troubled time in her teens, she's doing better now. I'm rooting for you all.

[@margaretcurtis1427]

To whom ever is reading this... I hope today you're well! If you're struggling, please remember that you matter, you are loved, and you are NOT alone!! This world is a better place with you in it! We may not know each other, but I love you, I pray for you, and I want you to succeed💞

[@sandramays795]

What a kind message ❤

[@PlausibleTomato]

This is quite important. People who first start a medication can be at increased risk of “ending.” This is not because of the medication, but because the people who is of the mind will finally have the energy and drive to follow through. That said, that she wants the story known really shows that she is growing strong and evaluating it. I’m so happy she is at home with you both. All of you take your time. You are loved!

[@solunasassoon]

I tried a year ago. I live with my sister for now while I recover and get stable. It means more to me than she will ever know, so I bet your daughter feels the same. She is lucky to have you guys. ❤

[@paraphiliatoys7422]

Thanks for being here. You and your sister seem like good folks.

[@melissaS7197-z8n]

I’m so glad you are here. Sending you positive thoughts and love.

[@damenwalker5260]

So glad you are here, focus on how loved you clearly are when that black cloud descends ❤

[@kandipiatkowski8589]

I agree with several other commentors....make sure you guys talk to a therapist as well. Something that traumatic....it could cause ptsd....which can cause all sorts of problems. You have to be in a good place in order to help your daughter. You guys continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. {{{Hugs}}}

[@vee_tinymoose]

This. I’m four and a half years into my own recovery journey after my daughter’s near misses at the start of 2020. I wouldn’t have made it this far without professional support

[@trinatyler689]

We had our daughter in the hospital for 6 months from an illness. And she is now starting to walk with help so we know it's possible for recovery. Will continue prayer for you all.

[@happycamper4thewin]

@@trinatyler689 sending prayers, love and light to your daughter!❤️❤️❤️

[@MemeinAndDreamin]

God bless your little girl! She's got the strength!

[@garyb6219]

I'm 68 and on a fixed income so I have no money to share, I wish I could. I first found your channel two years ago while in the hospital. I'd never really watched youtube before but I now had a lot of time on my hands and luckily I found you two. One of the first channels I'd ever subscribed to. I really enjoy it. I had bladder cancer so they removed it and my prostate. I was started on chemo and after just one dose of it my body basically shut down. My heart kept stopping. So in the early morning on the 4th of July a heart team was called in to give me a pacemaker. Just before they started the operation they told me to "go to my happy place", one of those places was your channel. I was stabilized and spent two and a half months in hospital with about two dozen surgeries since then. It's been a long trip. Still have a long way to go. I'm really not sure why I'm sharing this, I'll probably delete it soon. It's an awful lot to expose to the world. But, I'm thinking of YOU and I hope things get better for you all!

[@pattimcclelland6635]

Its okay Gary, maybe you too, needed to share and unburden yourself. Let it out. We care. We need to lighted our load, so we can continue forward.

[@garyb6219]

@@pattimcclelland6635 Thank you. That means more than you'll ever know. ❤

[@bensworxvlogs]

Hi Gary, Thankyou, we really appreciate it, I hope you’re doing ok, Take care 💙

[@pan6593]

That‘s the weird thing about youtube and social media in general maybe, sharing deep feelings - but indeed, even while sometimes doing so, I still stay anonymous. Only google knows who I am.-/

[@garyb6219]

@@pan6593 I was an uber driver for seven years with over 13,000 trips. It's amazing some of the things riders and I shared with each other. Some things I hadn't even with my family. Thanks for your reply.

[@tonyahyche9333]

My 15 year old grandson recently had the courage to tell people he was suicidal and had a plan. Thankfully we were able to get him some help and he is doing much better. My heart goes out to y’all. Our prayers are with y’all.

[@tegankubiak1405]

Thank goodness you got to her in time. I have struggled since the age of 10 with my mental health. My older brother found and stopped me before I could end it. I was and still am I’m recovering from the effects of extensive bullying at a Christian school. I grew up believing I was broken. My mother’s father was mentally unstable and abusive towards the whole family and refused to accept thar he needed help. After his death 2 years ago I was finally able to unpack all the things that made my life a living nightmare. Gramps drove a wedge between my brother and I. Call me ugly and stupid and. That I would never be as smart or as beautiful my cousin. I now look at my life cracks and all and think about the Japanese practice of mending broken pottery with gold. I know I still have a long way to go and the broken part of me is still slowly becoming less noticeable. The one thing I absolutely took away from trying to (end it all) was I no longer fit in the same mold as before. The me of yesterday was gone and left in its place was a stranger, a new me I had to become comfortable with. Make sure you always have open lines of communication and never tell your daughter to move past this and get over it. My parents got me the help I needed and my church and god helped me the rest of the way. Now at 37 I have some neurological health problems ( think MS ) and have been struggling with depression. Talking with my parents and discussing solutions help me get out of that head space. I wish more parents would be like the two of you willing to publicly discuss this issue. Keep fighting for the voices so many of us aren’t able to use to ask for help. I pray for God love and wisdom to see your family through this.

[@irenedavo3768]

@@tegankubiak1405❤

[@irenedavo3768]

@@tegankubiak1405sending hugs ❤

[@esodmf_ih8fibs]

Get well

[@bensworxvlogs]

Thankyou! We really appreciate it, Take care 💙

[@tonikimpel7891]

I found your vlog the day you posted about finding your daughter. So did alot of other people. I am so glad you were able to save her. Thank you for sharing your story as it could help someone else. All my prayers to you and your family ❤

[@teaokay]

I'm a multiple-time survivor, and while it will be a long road, it'll be so worth it. I love you guys as much as an audience member can. Mental Illness sucks, but it won't always be like this. It does get better, I promise!

[@LSK77_]

My daughter tried to take her life at 14 during lockdown down she was graped changed that word yt doesn't like the real one. We are 5 years on she messed up her exams got kicked out of college and after many years of child support and counselling I can happily say we are coming through the other side. It's not easy but you guys will smash this ❤ you are amazing people and I'm standing with you with lots of love ❤️

[@bensworxvlogs]

I’m glad she’s doing better 💙

[@Cam-ns1yi]

I have a daughter 26 she suffers from depression she has a great counselor... we will will keep yall in our prayers.. from Charlotte NC with much love ...

[@seankearney2592]

I can't imagine what you are all going through,it must be terrible for you,but don't forget everyone is praying for you,and you will all get through this.

[@tredici72]

Take care guys, love from me and my pet dog Charlie 🐶🐾❤️

[@bensworxvlogs]

Thankyou! Your support and generosity means a lot to our family! Give Charlie a hug for me, Take care 💙

[@OldsouLim73]

Your daughter has wonderful parents. Going through that is tough but you know what, it shows how strong you all are. Speaking from experience. We do need to get the word out and get rid of this stigma about mental health. ❤❤

[@ireneflood6526]

Thank you for being so open about this difficult situation. There shouldn't be such a stigma connected to this, and then more people in pain would feel able to reach out. Your daughter is in good hands now that she has come home for a bit.

[@johnrichardson85]

You two are some of the strongest parents I know. You don't owe us a single thing, and I'm sure these kind words will help many of your viewers including myself. I'm so appreciative of your honesty and openness. Nothing but good vibes and love from my family to yours!

[@zombiesEatDinosaurs]

13 years ago I was in a very dark place, I didn't ask for help but thankfully was unsuccessful in my attempt. It was a very long road to feeling better, to recovery. But I made it and I found happiness in life. It will get better. ❤

[@jaimezimmerman1670]

I'm glad you're still with us & your family & friends. ❤

[@Lolliegeethatsme]

One of my kids tried to do this. We were asleep and had no idea until an ambulance and cops showed up. One of his friends had called them because she was so worried by the way he'd been talking. We were so fortunate that what he took wasn't lethal and only caused some heart racing and a few other minor symptoms. I'll always be grateful to his friend because it could just as easily been something that was lethal. He has suffered from anxiety and depression from about 9 years old. He's well managed now as an adult, but it was definitely a long road. All this to say that I'm so glad you found her. It is a long road, but she's so lucky she has you and with your support, she'll be able to get through this. ❤❤

[@Krystle_xo]

Hi silent watcher here. I tried what your daughter did when i was younger. I didn't have anyone to talk to. and sometimes its tough to get the words out. I'm glad you both are there for her and arrived when you did! Sending you all healing hugs and you are in my thoughts 🤍

[@lorijacobs7078]

My 24-year-old son has struggled with mental health issues for most of his life, and has been hospitalized more than once. My heart is with your whole family. I can’t believe your bravery in talking about this. It’s so important to spread the word, but so hard to do so. Please take care of yourselves as well as Courtney…any parent who’s gone through this knows how traumatic an experience it is. ❤❤❤

[@GrumpyWolfTech]

I've dealt with depression for nearly 30 years, it sucks. I've never been suicidal, but lack of wanting to do anything but lay in bed, and dealing with the mood swings and anger that you just can't cope with is awful. Medication has helped me, but there are still those days where you just want to cry for no reason. I'm sorry for what you're going through and wish you the best.

[@lindahobbs5545]

Love to all!

[@bensworxvlogs]

Thankyou Linda, I can’t express how much your kindness and generosity means to our family, your support is greatly appreciated, Take care 💙

[@TimPenny-k4h]

I had a mental health crisis that resulted in a suicide attempt a few years back and my pastor protected me from myself while waiting for emergency services and I spent 4 days in a mental health facility recovering. I am so grateful to him for his hard work and I want you to know that it can get better

[@heybebe97]

I am so sorry for you b oth. My daughter OD'd and I found her just in time. Thank God you found her. It's a long road back but baby steps. Just show how much you love her and show her the wonderful support system she has. Bless you both.

[@vincehatina6987]

Having lost a son to suicide in 2020 my heart goes out for you all, I know she knows she’s loved and hope she realizes just HOW MUCH she would be missed… prayers for you

[@bensworxvlogs]

I’m so sorry for your loss 💙

[@EmperorZhanhu-qx3oc]

As someone who struggles with mental health I can say most days I feel alone and wish I was never born but I remember I have friends and family who are still here for me and I finaly got help and I'm much better. So if you suffer from mental illnesses please get help and remember you are not alone and Jesus is always there to help you. Just don't ever give up stay strong. Have a nice day everyone ''I LOVE YOU ALL'' and god bless hope the best for you.😇🙏

[@AnniePA1960]

God bless you, I'm glad you're still here!!

[@EmperorZhanhu-qx3oc]

Thank you so much sister in Christ god bless you have a nice day.

[@shannonnoelle1425]

Dear God, please bless this family with healing and love. Bless Ben and Nicole with patience and strength while they navigate through this difficult time. Lay your hand on Courtney and make her strong and healthy in her body and mind. In Jesus name I pray. Amen.

[@vonnie4781]

I agree with you, in Jesus’ name!

[@ChanGraham]

On February 21, 2023, I lost my wife. She had debilitating endometriosis and it drove her to end her pain... I know the loss of a loved one. Deeply. Personally. When I found her, I went to God. I asked for His help to get me through. He's still helping and I'm still getting through. Perhaps, I'll spend the rest of my life climbing, what I call, my million-mile mountain. I'm so thankful you two found Courtney when you did. You two saved her life and I'm sure she knows just how blessed she is to have parents like you. I've been praying for y'all. Thank you for sharing something so personal and so traumatic. We love y'all and want y'all to do whatever it takes to continue your journey, even if that means more time. We understand. Some, more than others. God bless you and your family. With love from South Carolina, US.

[@bensworxvlogs]

I’m so sorry for your loss 💙

[@ChanGraham]

@@bensworxvlogs thank you

[@Chazbridge]

Prayers for God’s strength and healing for you all.

[@kathyb.8769]

I lost my daughter a year and a half Ago. You Are So Fortunate to have found her and got her in time my heart aches for You and you are lifted in prayer in time, she will recover there is always second chances and For That I am truly happy for you. Sending warm hugs to you all. ❤

[@bensworxvlogs]

I’m so sorry for your loss 💙

[@FrenkTheJoy]

People always say "you're not alone," but sharing a genuine, raw experience like this shows people they aren't alone better than someone just saying it. Can we put together a small gift for the boss, also? I KNOW most bosses - well, at least in the US - would've just texted "if you don't come in, you're fired" and left it at that rather than actually calling an employee's relative or emergency contact.

[@GIUSAF]

Yall are amazing parents. Please take time off and only return when you feel it’s right. I’m so happy to hear your daughter is doing better. Thank you for being so brave and sharing this heartfelt message. You guys are gonna help a lot of people out.

[@bensworxvlogs]

Thankyou, our family really appreciates your support!

[@GIUSAF]

@@bensworxvlogsyou are so welcome and so deserving!

[@usherl250]

Thanks for sharing your story. I’m sorry your daughter almost got away, and I’m so glad she made it. Remember art therapy can be good for healing. Maybe you can do some resin with her, since she wanted you to share her story, maybe she would share her recovery by doing art. Hugs to Courtney and to both of you.♥️♥️♥️Lots of hugs

[@bensworxvlogs]

Thankyou 😊

[@bawdydog176]

One hellofa mom and dad. Your daughter is in good hands. I'm very glad things are working out well for you.

[@erikfry671]

You two hold on. You're going to make it. If you ever need, want, reach out. She's going to, and you'll see that light again. I promise you.

[@SarahLynnFisk]

We are all so glad Courtney is still here. I hope she knows how awesome she is and how strong she is, and how proud everyone is of her. Much love ❤

[@maureensutton1816]

It is important to know that your whole Bens Worx family is here for you all. Best wishes to Courtney for a good, kind and stable future. Best wishes for you both Ben and Nicole.

[@mewsli]

Ben and my darling Nicole, just know that we love you both, and we are always with you both because we live in your phone. If you cant speak to anyone, write it down on a sheet of paper. Then scrumple the paper up and throw it into the bin, or write yourself an email, the relief when you hit send is immense. To anyone reading this ? You are NOT alone . From all of me to all of you, please take care.

[@LadyLucas01]

She is very lucky to have a boss that cares xxx not many would. Shout out to your daughter, ( only in darkness can you see the stars) ❤❤❤❤❤

[@jasoncarpenter4116]

Put as many older videos up that you need to, we are all in your corner! Your daughter is more important than anything on here. Just take care of her and we will all be here sending you love and prayers!

[@TheSilly82]

My heart remains with you and yours. I as a crisis counselor and as a human I have seen all sides of these situations...never easy in any way. You are loved by so many people, even ones you haven't met. We are with you and yours.

[@Chris-ox7qx]

Thank you, Father in Heaven for restoring the life of that beautiful child. 🙏 Blessings to you and your daughter from our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

[@jaimezimmerman1670]

Amen ❤

[@twistedara]

This is how we lot my brother, Uncle and cousin. My brother worked in the psych ward & had all the help he needed around him & also learned how to help him self. Unfortunately that wasn't enough. 3 suicides in our family. Depression kills. God bless you guys. You're in our prayers ❤

[@bensworxvlogs]

I’m so sorry for your loss’s 💙

[@mackenziemcknight3613]

Your daughter is the same age as me I'm also 24. I still live at home though Because I feel More comfortable and safe with my parents. I work And I pay rent. I just Want to say that I really appreciate you guys. Not only for your work in resin which is really awesome. That would be one of my dream jobs, to be honest. But also because You guys are very nice and everything. And I can watch your videos because they're very calming and quite inspiring. And you guys kind of feel like friends or family to me. I love you guys❤

[@audrey_johnson]

We are here to uplift as you have to us

[@bud8254]

I want to start off by saying you two are wonderful people. I have dealt with anxiety and depression for a long time. I have been at a place where I was certain I was going to take my life. I can happily say though that I have a medication that works for me and I feel like a different person. Seeing how much this has affected you both so very much made me realize my life is not just my own but it is shared by everyone who loves me. I don't think that horrible thought will ever cross my mind again. You do not owe us anything by the way. Give your daughter a hug and tell her I am rooting for her.

[@MommaC1106]

Wish I had you 2 around me🌹👍🏽🙏🏽love your daughter & I don’t know her❤️🌹🌷

[@lisaswift7749]

I have had mental health in both sides of my family, my cousin went into spiral mode when his marriage broke down, it’s taken a long time but he now has a beautiful little family like he has always wanted, but on the other side of the family they wasn’t so lucky my cousin husband had been struggling for a while but seem to be getting better, my cousin and there daughter was downstairs when they hurted a bang and so there 10yrs went running upstairs to find her dad hanging. But he didn’t make it, it’s been 3yrs now and with good counselling there daughter has been given the. right tools to help her in life. Love to your family from 🇬🇧

[@bensworxvlogs]

I’m so sorry for your loss 💙

[@nancycurtis7315]

Don't worry about the shop. We will support you. 38 years ago, I almost put my friends and family in your position. I was lucky. I was a mess and knew. I got help immediately. My family never found out. Never try and ride it out on your own. Getting the proper help kept me alive. Pleae every that can afford to purchase a piece of Ben's work, do so. I'm going to save for one, next pension day.

[@kexthefuzzy4202]

I'm so glad your daughter survived. I lost my 16 year old niece to a medication overdose the day before you found your daughter. It has been a horrible few weeks. I'm so grateful there's a happy ending for your family.

[@bensworxvlogs]

I’m so sorry for your loss 💙

[@MamaMamba]

I have been battling mental health with my daughter for the past 4 years. She has expressed multiple plans to end her life and by the time she has turned 15, she has made 3 attempts. I urge anyone who feels badly to please reach out to crisis or family members or any doctor because you are loved, you are beautiful, you are worth it and you are NOT alone!!

[@vee_tinymoose]

We’ve been supporting our daughter for four years also, since she was hospitalised in 2020. Wishing you and your daughter all the strength and progress in your recovery journeys ❤

[@Biggdaddy903]

I have lost two nieces to overdose. I don't have the words to convey my heart felt emotions for the survival of your daughter. My thoughts and prayers and love are with the three of you. Her very survival is a testament to her real love of life and the fight that is in her. You folks keep fighting and loving and be that light that may save others.

[@bensworxvlogs]

I’m so sorry for your loss’s 💙💙

[@michaelhines1891]

Guys keep being a family. I have no advice this is painful. I feel for you. Times like this remind us why family is the most important thing. Let us all remember not to take them for granted.

[@shirleyannconfer9651]

I’m so glad you got my 3X! Elliott is so cute. I’m not a fan of city driving, either. I live in a more suburban area, too. I didn’t realize that it was your daughter that you found. I can’t imagine how difficult the past two weeks have been. I’m dealing with depression and anxiety, too. It’s a whole different type of hell. Without my prescriptions, I’m either paralyzed by fear or preoccupied with planning my own suicide. I’m also a sober alcoholic, and my prescriptions make it much easier to work the twelve step program that keeps me sober. I’m so grateful that the emergency responders got there in time to save her life. I’m also glad that you could kick the door in, because it’s probable that I couldn’t because I’m mobility impaired. I wish I could hug you both.

[@damenwalker5260]

Congratulations on being sober that is amazing!

[@shirleyannconfer9651]

@@damenwalker5260 I’ve been clean and sober since July 8, 1992 with a lot of help from a twelve step “anonymous” program. Thank you for the congratulations, but I definitely didn’t do it alone.

[@beachcomer007]

sorry for your loss. keep up doing the videos, love you guys

[@aerynkelly]

I'm glad your daughter is recovering, and is back home with you for now. Finding the right drug combo for anxiety and depression can be really hard, and your body builds resistance over time so she possibly was in a place where she needed a change of meds but didn't realise it. I hope you two also get some therapy for your experience. I'm glad we were able to help give you some breathing room so you can just deal with what's in front of you. You and your family come first. ❤

[@karenb4816]

You are both so brave and the fact your daughter is willing to let you share her story is also commendable. She obviously loves and trusts you both! Sending you all our love and support. ❤❤❤

[@donaldfinch1411]

You honor us with your Trust and Honesty. Hugs across the miles.

[@donaldfinch1411]

And please remember that YOU two get to reach out for support as you go through this, as well!!

[@kristinewithak8265]

💜 🕯️ I'm a new subscriber. My heart goes out to your family and anyone who has/is experiencing something like this. Sending strength and hope from the US.

[@shawndebord3096]

I can't imagine going through this as a mother. You both have so much strength for sharing this story and if it helps just one person it will be worth it. Please make sure that you take care of yourselves as well as you are taking care of your daughter. Sending you all the love and support I have within me

[@minkahole8557]

I know this is a late comment, but first, I'm so glad you made it in time and that your daughter is getting another chance. As someone who has suffered with severe depression and anxiety, I've been in those dark places and know how hard it can be to reach out to anyone. Your thoughts convince you that no one will care or understand anyway, so please don't take it personally that she didn't reach out to you. I also wanted to share, with the clear understanding that this is my experience and doesn't mean it is anything similar to your daughter's experience, that through therapy, I have discovered that my depression and anxiety have come from the fact that I have ADHD and Autism, and that I wasn't diagnosed until my 30's. This is unfortunately a shared experience by so many neurodivergent folk these days. Learning how my mind works differently to most people and that the way I view the world doesn't align with the way I was taught has been world changing for me. I am starting to understand myself more and have learned that a lot of the times I thought I failed because of my own faults, it was actually because the system was not built for how my brain works, so I was set up to fail. All this to say, if your daughter has never been tested for ADHD or Autism, it might be worth checking. She may not end up having either, but it would be one more thing checked off on the list to try to help. Regardless, I hope that you are all able to continue healing and you receive all the support you need and more.

[@UtaxTeal]

Please take care. Your daughter has a path of healing to take, but so do you. The worry and pain of seeing your loved one that way can be very traumatic. Take as much time as you need. There's nothing to repay. 💖

[@valkirie19]

I'm glad you found her, and she survived! Thank you for sharing your story! Take care! ❤️❤️❤️

[@shannonfitz]

It wouldn't let me add to the last comment. 💜💜 From Arkansas USA

[@bensworxvlogs]

Hi Shannon, Thankyou! Your kindness and generosity are greatly appreciated, Take Care 💙

[@alichaikoski]

How strong of you both to make this video, I’m so sorry she’s struggling and I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Time heals, she will heal with support, and I wish you and your family love and success. Take care of each other well.

[@jlovelace486]

God bless your whole family. Im very glad you got to Courtney when you did. As a parent of two, i understand. Please be sure to talk to your son and make sure he knows how much you love him too. I know he's a little older, but they still need to know that they are important too. He may brush it off, but still do it. It made a huge difference in our family. My continued prayers for you all.

[@HaimerejNaed]

Thanks! Hugs. This is such an amazing community.🤗

[@bensworxvlogs]

Thankyou! Our family appreciates you, Take care 💙

[@saneminotaur]

I really really feel for you all, so much. I can't imagine the feeling of finding your child in that situation; I really wish the best for you as a family. Your daughter is amazing and I'm so glad you got to her in her time of need. You are such kind hearted, caring people

[@brendasmith7879]

Prayers for all

[@patrickwolf9809]

Praying for you all. We went through a similar experience with a family member this past year, and i appreciate your willingness to talk about it here.

[@TerryHernlund]

It'd have been real easy for her to be embarrassed and not want people to know. Her wanting you to show that picture of her is a pretty massive step in the right direction in itself. Good for her. From the US, let her know we're thinking about her. ☺

[@andreamassari9099]

Thank you so much for being honest and for reaching out to everyone here. You are making a difference in people's lives. Thank you all for sharing ❤❤❤

[@rachelwhelan3370]

You don’t owe your supporters anything. Take time to heal yourselves and your family. We’ll be here when you’re ready x

[@huntergentry6463]

I wish I could hug you two!!! I’ve been in the same boat. It is hard. I take medication for anxiety and depression also. Having a good family to love and support me meant everything to me. Tell your daughter she is not alone and I am praying for you all. ❤

[@cornysnakemaster]

Take your time, keep talking :), most importantly do what makes you smile!

[@bensworxvlogs]

Thankyou! We really appreciate you and your support, Take care 💙

[@ericromero9708]

We as parents try so hard to shield our kids from hurt and pain...my 16 year son has always been an emotional child....he's so happy when everything is going positively and so heartbreakingly low in the bad times...but talking to him in those moments...or just listening to his hurt...I'm finally not afraid of the what ifs ..I feel y'all pain and I send all my love from my little corner of South Louisiana.

[@Mynameisfyl]

Don’t rush yourselves for entertainment purposes! Family always comes first.

[@melissabrooks4932]

asking for help is not that easy. im sorry for what you all have been through. lots of love and support to your family.

[@angelabarrera24]

I have been in your daughter's shoes. I have bipolar and the depression is horrible. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I'm so thankful your daughter is alright and continuing to get better. Please let her know she isn't alone and that we are all praying and thinking of her.

[@kellyjean4981]

Sending you and your daughter all my love. I can not fathom what it would be like as a parent to find your child in that position. When I was a young teen, I found a close loved one in a similar situation and had to rush them to the hospital to remove the pills from their system. It’s been a lifetime since that day, but that person now has a family, and though struggles at times with depression, is very happy and loved. Wishing your daughter strength, love and compassion ❤

[@gorillamomma4478]

I love the support and love you two are showing for one another. Stay strong and I pray your daughter can stay strong too. I’m not sure if you are religious but if you are, remind your daughter that she is a daughter of God, and He loves her very much, as he does you two. Prayers for you all.

[@Frostyblu]

I'm so happy that your daughter is doing better. Allow time to heal all of you. You are both amazing people/parents. After my mom who was my best friend passed I thought about it but I kept thinking I can't leave my children. In 2016 I suffered a traumatic brain injury {I fell face first into a coffee table}, again I thought about it because I didn't want to stay the way I was. I'm fine now because of my friends I have on Facebook and their support. I love you both 💜

[@bensworxvlogs]

I’m so sorry for your loss, take care 💙

[@andrewmagee1666]

At the end of the day, we are human. Good days bad days, off days. We ALL have them. Some times the bad and off days seem to stack up.... Moving forward can seem like a daunting task. However, the more you push forward, the stronger you get and the easier it becomes. Soon you get to the point where you can help others. Blessings from Montana! Glad healing is happening❤. P.S. focus on your family as long as possible. Family comes first, I'll keep donating as others will.

[@r.m.t.veenstra863]

I want to say a lot, but i don't, because sometimes less is more. It's now 3.00 am on the other side of the world and i am very touched by this but you gonna make it like me. So big warm hugs for the family and i think of you every day, be positive and stay positive ! Greetings from the Netherlands

[@b1oh1]

Since the first video was posted we lost my BIL very young due to natural causes. No parent should have to bury a child. I'm so thankful the unthinkable didn't happen to you guys. We ♥️ you guys so much. Please please please take as much time as you need. Hug your daughter, hug everyone in your family and please be well! 🫂

[@bensworxvlogs]

I’m so sorry for your loss 💙

[@b1oh1]

​​@@bensworxvlogs❤ ty

[@trinatyler689]

I have you all in my prayers daily will continue to pray for you all as well. Love you so much.

[@minilizard84]

All the love. You are amazing people.

[@TwiGaSa11]

Your daughter is so INCREDIBLY strong, the fact she is willing to share this story much less the photo is incredible AND SO ARE YALL! Thank you for spreading awareness, but also my heart is with ALL of you as you navigate her mental health journey and yours as well❤️❤️❤️ sending EVERY positive vibe and thought your way and she will feel better! That’s coming from someone who never attempted but was so so close so many times❤️❤️❤️

[@jjftexas]

God bless y'all! ❤ I'm a survivor myself. I know, in my heart, she didn't do that to hurt y'all. When you get to that point, you don't think about others. All you feel is pain. It drowns out everything... It's so loud that you can't hear or think clearly or of anything else but to make it stop! Just stop! If you do happen to think of others in that moment then you think of how loud that pain is and that you are causing that much pain to others. If you think about that. That youve tried so hard for so long to change things but your head is so raw from hitting it over and over again against the proverbial wall. Or you do reach out to your parents and they say go ahead...why would I stop you? Im not saying you as parents...mine. Your brain chemicals get out of wack and things aren't as they seem. As long as she learns the tools she needs to handle situations before they get blown up then she can manage it. Ive been suicidal since at least 4 years old due to severe childhood trauma. I've had quite a bit of therapy and am on medication. Plus I have a great support system now. I know she already has that. She's going to be ok. I am sending lots of love and prayers across the water!!! ❤🙏🏻