The Most Challenging Week So Far At My Cottage Homestead

[@rewildingjude]

This week cottage life was CHALLENGING! But the sun came out and I managed to tackle a couple of jobs on the to do list, which helped reinstate confidence in my capabilities. You can find the recipe I used for the blackberry and apple crumble here - www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/quick-crumble-mix If you’d like to support me (no pressure at all!) you can find my amazon wish list here - www.amazon.co.uk/registries/gl/guest-view/1RTBH9124KTQW Or you can buy me a coffee here - buymeacoffee.com/rewildingjude I hope you’ve had a great weekend! See you next Sunday!

[@pepitapulgarcita5051]

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[@lenoracooper7729]

Would you be willing to consider Patreon?

[@rewildingjude]

@@lenoracooper7729yes!! Lots of people have suggested patreon - I just need to work out what I can offer as additional content for it!

[@lenoracooper7729]

@@rewildingjude what about a short extra patron only video?

[@moelassus]

@@rewildingjude All content creators seem to do a lot of hand wringing over this but the reality is, your viewers want to support you and nothing is expected in return!

[@sharonlee413]

You have no idea how many virtual parents you’ve gained who are all proud of you. 😊

[@NeverIn57]

Absolutely!

[@ceahorse56]

Yes!

[@rewildingjude]

Ahhh I love this! 💗

[@lindamiddleton6785]

Yes!

[@joannamorgan6911]

Have you thought about getting a dog first and then introducing cats into the home. John Gray at Going Gently is on this particular journey. Just a thought. Love the channel x

[@britaccent4352]

Hi Jude, my 32 year old son passed away two years ago, and I have to agree that time weirdly kaleidoscopes when it comes loss. It seems ages since that last hug, and yet pain can be so fresh and raw, it’s like it was just yesterday. No one will ever replace your dear mum, but I hope you know that you’ve created a community of support here. I hope you can feel that I and everyone else has adopted you! You are inspiring me to reengage in my life in ways that I haven’t been able to manage for a while. I really appreciate that you’ve let us into your life, and shared your joy & grief, challenges & wins, as well as the beauty and peace of your corner of the world. I have to say, I’m not surprised you’re officiating a wedding! You’ve got the wisdom and introspection of a philosopher and I’m sure you’re deeply loved and cherished by your friends. Thank you, Jude, for all of this. Yours, Natasha

[@rewildingjude]

Oh my goodness, I can’t imagine how hard that must be for you. I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for your kind words! 💗💗

[@sarahnortheastenglanduk6276]

Sorry for your loss ❤ Your comments to Jude were heartfelt and beautiful. It's so true about the adoption. We are like a tribe haha. Take care ❣️

[@emilypeterson2108]

What a lovely message for Jude. I bought my first house a month before Jude got the last place. We're also close in age, so it feels like I've gotten to get used to this homeowner thing along with Jude. but i must admit he is a much better DIYer/fixer/builder than I will ever be. I'm sorry to hear about your loss and I hope you're finding mountains of joy by reengaging.

[@dewithistle910]

So sorry for your loss! ❤🌻

[@MrJackKnightSays]

I'm so sorry for your loss. 😢

[@jhenderson2286]

Jude, cattle farmer here. It's the farmer's responsibility to keep their cattle in. They could run an electric fence along there, and absolutely should do, as a temporary measure. It's quite possible the owner of the cattle is renting the ground - so they are unlikely to want to fix/renew the fence as they'd be doing a very expensive repair job for the land owner who could chuck them off next season. But - it's not your responsibility. Best wishes.

[@jhenderson2286]

ps- a 'pinch bar' rather than a spade is your friend for getting fenceposts in.

[@catsmother4556]

I had the same thought. It is always the owners responsibility to keep their animals in. 🐄🐃🐂. No farmer wants the worry of their animals escaping.

[@mrsbabycakes5551]

Isn’t it the farmers responsibility to fix the fence. It’s worth asking them, because they may not even realise it needs repairing.

[@shetlandsheep3081]

In Scotland, the rules can allegedly be somewhat different on the fencing responsibility, at least the cattle farmer next to me tried to convince me of that when his cattle regularly broke into my fields due to his broken down fencing….But eventually said farmer DID have his field fencing re-done. However with a garden fence you should reasonably have a fence in decent condition - but it only needs to be a garden type fence. If the cattle break that and come in the farmer is liable so they should erect post and wire/barb or electric to keep them in. Ie you are responsible for a fence on your boundary but only of a type that reflects your usage of the land, just like the farmer is responsible for ensuring that his use of the land doesnt result in trespass or damage by his stock. You are def not responsible for reaching stock fencing standard of the fence round your garden. Re the boiler - no I could never smell oil but we had put a new boiler in, it was an insulated external boiler with a frost stat that ensures the pipes never freeze. An old, uninsulated single wall tank could well have developed a leak in the tank or pipe so that needs sorting; maybe if lucky the leak is just a corroded joint which is easy to replace.

[@catsmother4556]

@@shetlandsheep3081 A quick search on Google. =. Fencing Laws In the UK, there are two types of land when which affect how livestock should be restricted. On private land, it is deemed the responsibility of the owner to secure their livestock through fencing them in and keeping them safe. However, private land that borders on common land needs to be secured to ensure that livestock does not wander onto common land and equally common livestock wandering on private. Scotland is part of the UK

[@julieito9523]

Get your cat, Jude. You don't currently have a dog, so there's no issue. When you do get a dog, eventually, they will know the cat is family. I've always had both, with good outcome. Your a good soul and deserve positive things in your life! They are coming even when it doesn't feel like it. Be well!

[@nevisscot7697]

Yes absolutely...a cat would be happier anywhere rather than . a cage .what nonsense

[@albafoxx]

Agreed. I had two cats for 3 years before I got two dogs and had no problems with a slow and steady introduction and now they all sleep on the bed! 😅 Don't hesitate Jude, they are a daily source of joy and you will give them the best life there on your new land. Love your videos, take care x

[@thedarrowbydiaries1015]

I agree. It’s not relevant what you do in the future. Dogs and cats live happily together (I have two of each!). Get that cat with an honest “no I don’t have a dog!).

[@kaycee625]

Some of these shelters are forgetting that a cat out of a cage is the best option.

[@deerwithout]

Completely agree. When I tried adopting a cat here (South West) a couple of years ago, I ended up getting the impression shelters didn't actually want cats adopted, there were so many nonsensical requirements and hoops to jump through (I've owned cats for 13 years at that point and even moved countries with them). I eventually got a pumpkin-spicy ginger from Spain, who's enjoying regular meals and cuddle session more instead of going through the rubbish on the streets. At least that's what I tell myself 😂

[@Bear-i7r]

hiya as a gay guy that has just come out of 10 years looking after two very poorly parents that died with in 4 days of each other a few months ago, you have been a real inspiration to me what you are doing is fantastic ,what i have always dreamed of. hope you have someone to cuddle up to and make the hard times good . with all my love v x

[@annmariecarmedy6588]

So so sorry Jude for your loss at a young age you are. . You are doing well keep going .

[@annmariecarmedy6588]

Sorry @Bear the reply was meant for Jude

[@linseymain254]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[@MrJackKnightSays]

Oh no, Bear I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you a big virtual hug.

[@rewildingjude]

I’m so sorry for your loss - that’s awful! My parents were 5 weeks apart and that nearly broke me. Be kind to yourself - grief is exhausting 💗 (also - 4 months after my parents’ death, I was definitely not in the place I am now!) My future dog will be filling the cuddle vacancy for a while, while I summon up the energy to go on dates 😂 (also, I will shamelessly use cute puppy photos to lure in potential boyfriends. Because who doesn’t love a puppy?! 😂)

[@GinnyV76]

Jude, your best tribute to your parents is to live the life you want to live. All most parents want for their children to be happy and healthy. You are doing fine. Thanks for another wonderful video.

[@rewildingjude]

That is SO true! And I know they would be completely on board with what I’m doing here!

[@elizabethwinters5361]

My dear, your Mum and Dad DO see the life you've made for yourself. They will always be with you.❤❤

[@hazelanderson7508]

Jude. Mow the leaves up with the lawn mower and then empty the mower box into your leaf mould bin. Decomposition will be a lot faster (Monty Don’s gardening tip)

[@garmtpug]

Yes! I was thinking the same thing when I saw that the leaf compost bin was nearly full!! Shredded leaves will break down must faster!

[@carolgauthier9553]

We use a mulching blade on our lawn mower and leave them on the grass. It's good for the grass and saves a lot of raking!

[@lindamcharie1264]

Fantastic for the garden leaf mould.

[@janespond922]

Hi Jude I am the mother of a trans son.I know it is a tough journey to get to where you are now. My son and I have always been close . The fact that you KNOW what your mum would say to you shows she is in your head and heart and always will be. Keep listening ❤ I admire your attitude to life's challenges and wish you a bloody great time with your friends at the wedding! I'll be here again next week to see you, sending you a hug..I cant find the emoji for it .. :-)

[@sarahnortheastenglanduk6276]

Well said! ❤

[@TheGravitonVon]

Beautiful.

[@reviewer1248]

Me too! Xxx🌈❤️

[@tariqphoto]

im 35 and your videos have made me realise i need to spend more time with my mum. Instead of spending time with friends, i need to make more time for her. Its making me teary thinking that she wont be here forever and im wasting the time i still have with her

[@rewildingjude]

I’m sure she’d love to spend more time with you!! 💗

[@cindym7234]

Living with the guilt eats you alive! Spend time with your mom and have no regrets.

[@claudiakarl2702]

I was 38 when my father died, 40 when my mother followed him. Spend more time with them now before you regret it later on.

[@streaming5332]

I was 72 when my mother died so you have plenty of time.

[@traceyh8660]

Jude, remember how old your house is....dont look at things as setbacks....look at it from the perspective that the house is asking for healing because it trusts you. Also as everyone has expressed your parents would be bursting at the seams with pride at what you are achieving. Add me to the list of ever growing virtual parents you have.

[@rewildingjude]

That is very true!! Thank you, that’s so lovely to hear! 💗

[@heatherwhite2788]

@@traceyh8660 That is true! I remember when I first bought my old house, it kept presenting me problems… and now I’d like you to work on this, and this, and this …. 🏡💚

[@lindawilson8434]

Yes any mom would be proud😊

[@lindacleveland1289]

@@lindawilson8434yes they most certainly would be so proud

[@niknoks6387]

I’m sure I speak for all of us watching, we are all thinking of you. You have well and truly been adopted by us all Jude 😊🏳️‍🌈

[@rrb2372]

So true!!!!

[@katiemalone323]

❤

[@monicac9207]

"This is what passes as a hobby these days." Spontaneous giggle when I heard you say this! Ta.

[@rewildingjude]

😂😂😂 I’m such a dork!

[@monicac9207]

​i have never really understood that word...dork? You are genuinely funny and astute at the same time. Many times you express my own observations and frustrations with understated wit. I am hoping you find comfort, challenge, beauty in life. Toodles

[@renaissancewm2000]

Mice...wasps...water problems..they don't tell you about that part, lol. As someone who has been living the rural life for 40 years, I can tell that you are going to be just fine because you can find the humor in it all. You got this.

[@catbialcovsky6489]

Wisely said ❤

[@caitasoflate]

As someone who habitually overthinks and overstresses, I just want to express my gratitude for your weekly videos! I find myself looking forward to Sundays now just because you will upload. Watching your home journey is so inspiring and a breath of fresh air ❤️

[@rewildingjude]

Ahh that’s so lovely to hear! I know exactly how the stressing and overthinking goes! ❤

[@elieska]

Same for me! I even told my boyfriend this morning, before a stressful workday: But I have saved my two favourite youtubers content, so the idea of watching that tonight will help me through

[@cassidottir]

Have you ever heard of ASMR, Jude ? It’s the effect sounds and sights have on the brain like my falling asleep to the sound heavy rain and thunder every night. I like the crunching of the stones under your feet and looking at your painting the furniture. Your voice and music are very relaxing so I”m sure your fans love that. I think, like me, they like your stress-free quiet life

[@clionamm]

As a mom of a son your age I can tell you that your Mom was and would be more than proud of you, and the life you're making for yourself. Both of your parents must have done something right to have such a lovely son as you are! I lost my mom six weeks ago tomorrow, it's the saddest thing. Though I was lucky to have her for so long, it's still heart breaking. Your apple and blackberry crumble looked delicious! Love your vids xx

[@michellegormley236]

When your mum said no one else would put up with you, its a mum joke, because you are wonderful and she knew it, your Parents are all around you everyday with every object and memory you bring to life, 🎉🎉

[@rewildingjude]

Oh my mum was full of mum jokes!! It’s how she showed her affection 😂😂 as unplanned child, I was frequently referred to as a mistake 😂😂

[@ramonapryor8927]

@@rewildingjude I am from Colorado in the US and am a 45-year-old mother of a 24-year-old mistake and a 17-year-old on purpose son that the mistake son talked me into. I wouldn't trade either of my annoyingly stubborn boys for anything in the world! I'm so proud of them and love them to death, even when I'm mad as heck at both of them! 🤣♥

[@michellegormley236]

@@rewildingjude a counselor once told me that you can only joke when the love is strong , if she ment it she couldn't say it 💛

[@sallywinterbourn1780]

I think what I love about you most is that you are always smiling!

[@Natasha-g5w8q]

Yes he makes you feel happy just seeing his smile ❤

[@mrdeafa25]

The boiler will always have a whiff of heating oil but check the ground around it, you will soon see if there is a leak there but for peace of mind I would have a basic service and safety check once a year. It might just avoid any imminent breakdown that may occur, and remember, they only break down when you really need them! This is addictive!!!!

[@rewildingjude]

That’s good to hear! I couldn’t see any leaks but I’m going to get a service just to check - and I definitely don’t want it to break in the middle of winter!!

[@susanphillips7211]

An extra hour sleep, weekly crossword, warm apple fritter, and a Rewilding Jude vid. A perfect fall morning!!

[@rewildingjude]

I’m honoured to be a part of that line up!! 💗 we get our extra hour next weekend and I’m excited for it (although the dark nights are my least favourite thing about winter!)

[@costeladejanela]

Good afternoon Jude. I'm the Brazilian grandmother. In Brazil it's 2:30 hs pm, it's early in the afternoon. Lots of sun where I live. There was a terrible flood here this year. I live in a city in the south of Brazil. So we have a cold winter, but without snow, milder than that. You are inspiring and a beautiful young man. I follow your channel. English is not my native language Greetings from Brazil. Vilma

[@Angelina14799]

One way to keep the mice out of the house is to go all around the inside and outside and fill any openings with steel wool. Under the sinks in the kitchen and bathrooms are two of the most notorious places. The little critters can't chew through steel wool. You can also make a spray solution of cayenne or cinnamon boiled in water and spray it all around the perimeter.

[@ginavandam735]

I would say..make sure it is not steelwool but the one you can wash the dishes with, with broader "steelbands"...otherwise they will be chewing through. I tried all sorts of heavy smelling things, but they ignore it. Mousetraps everywhere!!!

[@Natasha-g5w8q]

Thanks for the tip. We get the little mice in our loft every year

[@continentaldriftknits]

Was just going to say this, we moved an old house in Australia and had a terrible mouse problem until we went round every nook and cranny. Covered holes with timber or stuffed them with steel wool. Also the problem will be worse now and into the start of winter as it’s warm inside with food sources and colder out. We lived on 20 acres and successfully stopped them getting into the house.

[@lindashine5575]

Today I found myself thinking, " oh good, it's Sunday and Jude will be putting out a new video!" In the last few weeks since I found your videos I have spent more time with you than I have talking to my own trans son your age. As a mother, I can tell you that your mother is watching over you and is very proud. Your father is too, and he's probably yelling at you that you are using the wrong tool for that job or such. I know my father did that to me for years after he passed. But he is so proud of you too. While you are working with your hands on your own property you are also working on yourself, and your skills and confidence in your ability will grow as well.

[@rewildingjude]

💗💗💗 Oh my Dad is totally looking over, muttering ‘you paid too much for that place!’ In that way that only dads can! 😂😂

[@anitap2142]

Your happy face in the intro, your sense of humour, beautiful surroundings = my new favourite channel. You probably don't realise how calming and relaxing your videos are. You're living my dream life, and I thoroughly enjoy watching you. I have kids your age and I can only imagine how proud your parents would be. Good luck Jude, enjoy your new life.

[@rewildingjude]

Thank you so much!!

[@user-am12300]

My Mom died when I was 34. I am 64 now and still miss her. You are making a good life using the skills your parents taught you and making things work, even when things don't always work out the first time. Keep going, you are always making headway! Thank you.

[@heatherhult5838]

Aw sweetie, i totally understand about your mum. I miss mine every day, and it's been almost 33 years. But your parents know what you're doing. They see the life you're making. And I'm very sure they're SO proud of you. As are all of us watching you navigate your corner of the world. You're doing an amazing job, honey. ❤

[@NeverIn57]

I lost my over 20 years ago. The grief is always there, just different. Bless you.

[@rewildingjude]

💗💗💗

[@MarionN-w3d]

I have wondered if the pain ever goes, or if we just get used to it. I'm 71 now and lost my mother at 12. I think it just changes us.

[@NeverIn57]

@@MarionN-w3d Agreed

[@belwynne1386]

There is such a thing as the ‘universal cat distribution system’. Open your heart to the idea and the cat will find you.

[@rewildingjude]

This is very true! I see a lot of cats distributing themselves around the US, if some of them would like to get themselves to this side of the pond, that would be marvellous!!

[@rosielee8381]

Hi Jude, well-wishing virtual grannie here. A dog will readily accept a kitten but an adult cat won’t enjoy the attentions of a puppy so well! A terrier will tackle rats and mice! Old tires can be stacked and used as veg planters. You are a joy and an inspiration. Xx

[@40davegardner]

Hi Jude. I came across your channel last week and have watched all your uploads. What you are doing is very inspiring certainly to me, but no doubt to lots of different people accross the globe. If you're feeling down, always remember that. Not many people can say that they reach so many different countries and different types of people. I have so much respect for you, and look forward to sharing your journey with you and everyone else in this fabulous community.💙

[@rewildingjude]

Thank you!! That’s such a lovely thing to hear. Most of the time I’m okay - but when multiple things go wrong at once and I don’t have a plan on how to fix them, I get overwhelmed! (Which was Monday what happened on Monday last week!) I felt much better after a good nights sleep and hammering in that fence post! 😂

[@nikkiregan4593]

I wish animals shelters would realise that animals can be together. I have three dogs - one of which is a greyhound - and two cats. All perfectly fine. X

[@gillianlaing1073]

My mum just died, your mum would be proud of your new life

[@Anita-rq9ev]

I'm so sorry to hear. I'm sending you my condolence.

[@munchkinheaven]

So very sorry to hear this, heartache is a real literal pain isnt it, but I promise time will help you, you may not believe this at the moment, but it will get better and the pain will lessen, but you will never forget. My sincere condolences.

[@gillianlaing1073]

Thanks so much xx

[@britaccent4352]

I’m so very sorry. I hope you can grieve with support around you, but know that it’s being sent to you as well. ❤️

[@MrJackKnightSays]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[@LifeOnTheCroft]

Hi Jude, we moved to rural Scotland and into a similar type of property to yours a few years ago. I also panicked about smelling oil around the boiler but rest assured it's normal! But it's a good idea to get the boiler serviced anyway, we have ours done annually for peace of mind. Hope yours turns out to be in good shape for many years to come!!

[@dontlooknow.]

Am now searching on Amazon for 'leaf grabber hand things....'

[@maureenhastings8834]

Me, too!

[@catlayland8734]

Try this. Two rakes, with their top end tucked under your arms, arms your wrists around midway. As much or more capacity than the hand leaf lifters, and, you don’t have to bend over!

[@catlayland8734]

@@maureenhastings8834 Try this. Two rakes, with their top end tucked under your arms, arms your wrists around midway. As much or more capacity than the hand leaf lifters, and, you don’t have to bend over!

[@mycat-r7y]

@@catlayland8734 Like the rake idea, and I think two snow shovels would work too. We use one like a long handled dustpan in the garden in summer and for snow in winter. 👌

[@rewildingjude]

I am the influencer the world needs 🤣🤣🤣

[@Littl3farm3r]

I love that you choose to take care of the leaves in this way instead of using a leafblower. Those things are actually really harmful to insects, so your garden will thank you in the future!

[@hikerbq]

You will look back on all this in a year and feel proud. I’m sure your Mom is proud of you right now.

[@sharonpettman1274]

You are such a pleasant and calming soul Jude...your folks are following you on your journey and with you every step of the way. You're such a lovely guy

[@rewildingjude]

Thank you!! 💗💗

[@jillthemenace]

Bless you for not getting a leaf blower. The sound pollution from those things alone is simply awful and I hate it SO MUCH.

[@mrdeafa25]

The most pointless invention ever

[@michellegormley236]

Yes it's awful 😖

[@tinekejoldersma]

Same, terrible noisy things.

[@sharong8511]

I actually bought ear plugs to try and mute the sound of the leaf blower my mom’s workers insist on using. I detest the darn things!

[@adownie1379]

Plus they are not good for microorganisms they get blown away

[@VickiPickard-g3k]

Ah Jude your tribute to your Mum at the end of your video brought a tear to my eye you obviously loved her dearly and I’m sure she would be so proud of your new life you are making for yourself. I too have a great relationship with my son so I know the feeling. Keep doing what your doing and make the most of it x

[@Schatzie301]

Another great week. So wonderful to see you honoring your Mom’s memory. I know she would be incredibly proud of you. So sorry you had to face the crushing loss of your parents but so happy you have turned that tragedy into the triumph of your new life. Can’t believe how many challenges you face and overcome. I love your cheerful attitude and am in awe of your many talents. Your property is going to be spectacular. Can’t wait to see a dog running around with you in the near future.

[@brendaseader1669]

Jude, mice will be right back inside house, unless you block off all possible entrances for them. Look for gaps under doors, too large holes where pipes come into house, etc. You can get construction foam or steel wool (the non soapy kind), weather strip that glues to bottom of doors. And I'll get you a link to a diy live trap.

[@brendaseader1669]

Be sure to remove them miles away, not near someone else's home, lol! kzbin.infoz4r3E5TD6eI?si=1RgX-dwBHWdLjmwV

[@roberthill9011]

I do love the way you think your old 😂 I'm 63 you do make me smile 🕊️

[@frithbarbat]

Oh Jude, it must be so hard to be apart from your mum. She must be bursting with pride at what you've accomplished, at the life you're making for yourself.

[@Camille-accessories]

Your dad had some amazing bits and bobs, a real treasure trove, I’m so glad you kept them and are using them ❤❤❤

[@rewildingjude]

He really did!! I’m so glad to be making use of them - I know he’d be pleased - he hated waste!

[@julieloveys4949]

Hi finally I moved back to countryside in Dorset after having grown up on a farm in Devon. I faced the mice/rats, wasps, electric check, old boiler problems you have. I looked forward to no neighbour’s but had hassle from land owner who rented the field to horse owner who left the horses in a terrible state. It takes time to work through all the old house problems, but it’s worth it. You’ll get there. From Dorset uk.

[@ewoksrus]

Awe bless you. I know how it hurts losing your mum. 😢

[@reviewer1248]

You’ve gained another friend! From a like minded parent who has a wonderful resilient son like you, whose had a long battle with prejudice and judgment, but has found some happiness in learning to become independent 🌈🌈.xxxx

[@rewildingjude]

Ahh thank you so much!

[@beckygwinn2107]

For never meeting your mom (or you) I too sure do miss her. She shared so much with us that watched her on your channel. She sure would love the life you’re making for yourself Jude ! You make this 64 year old woman proud! ❤️

[@deborahnaybor2233]

Welcome to the joys of home ownership! You've got this. You're building your skills and your equity.

[@nanarose3496]

Oh sweetheart, I wish I could give you a hug. Even small issues can be challenging and feel overwhelming when they stack up. You’ll get it all tackled, just pace yourself. As they say, “the best way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time.” Sending you love and hugs, sweet Jude. ❤️🤗❤️

[@MrsL1211]

As a mum to two sons just a bit younger than you, I can say how proud I would be if you were mine. The resilience, enthusiasm and joy you radiate is just wonderful. You're such a pleasure to watch, I know your parents would be incredibly proud of you ❤

[@lindamiddleton6785]

I’m always amazed at how you roll with the punches and have such a sunny attitude! I think I would have sat on that step and cried!

[@rewildingjude]

Haha!! Sometimes I get overwhelmed by too much going wrong and take myself for an early night - and it’s usually better in the morning!

[@johenderson3742]

​@@rewildingjudeBed is my safe place. 😂❤

[@luvwings]

Your mum would love the life you are making here. I’m 73 and enjoying your videos so much. I’ve been binge watching for hours. My son is my only child and we’ve always been friends.

[@alisonplant2386]

That crumble looked amazing! Your videos have quickly become my favourite Sunday evening activity. Take care

[@rewildingjude]

It was delicious!! Ahh thank you! I’m honoured!!

[@leewittenstein9105]

Another volunteer mother here. My only son lost his battle with mental illness three years ago. I have followed you for years and loved the episodes with your mom. I know she would be proud and would also have something devastatingly funny to say to you. ❤

[@norwaysofen]

Love that you can still laugh when talking about the newly found "obstacles". 🥰

[@rewildingjude]

It’s definitely the best way to get through it!! (I did have to have an early night that day because I was irritable by the end of the day! Even the exercise class I went to didn’t help much! 😂😂)

[@johenderson3742]

​@@rewildingjudeWow, you'd think after mowing and digging and raking and building.... you'd be too tired for a class! Hehe, good on you, it's a way of meeting potential new friends. 👍👍👍

[@rewildingjude]

@@johenderson3742definitely! My neighbour took me along to the first one, less than a week after I’d moved in, and introduced me to loads of local neighbours!

[@adeleelgood6948]

A lovely tribute to your late mum, Jude. One day you will look back on all this hard work and see what you will have achieved!

[@rewildingjude]

Definitely!! I’m looking forward to being able to look back at all the things I achieved in my first year here! 2 months in!

[@patdelaney191]

Take a look at the very base of your house where the grass could be hiding any holes in the mortar. I used to have the same problem and the hole they were getting in was no bigger than my little finger tip. Also if you have airgrates, make sure you cover them with fine steel mesh. I also used quick setting cement because I went in for a quick cuppa and there were teeth marks where they had tried to bite their way in.

[@heidiclarke2333]

I just got my hat out this week , knitted in the special colourway you dyed for your mum, it made me think of her and how proud she seemed of you. I'm making sure to enjoy my parents who are 82 and 79.

[@rewildingjude]

Ohh I love that! I’ve got a skein of her colourway tucked away - I might cast it on this winter - when I eventually finish the socks I’ve been working on all year!

[@tinekejoldersma]

I got the feeling the water closer should be inside your house, it would freeze outside. This is some outside tap thing you closed. Mine is in my cellar, most have them in a hole under the front door mat. Mice are intelligent, they can find their old home in a radius of two kilometers or more. Bring them far, far away. Wasps come inside for winter, to hibernate until spring. Find the hole, June, and close it off so they can't get in anymore. Cats and dogs go together, and my dog would lead a burglar to the safe, the cats catch everything. Alive. And bring in it to let it escape. From moths, birds, and toads to mice. They love seeing me running around to catch it, pure cat amusement. Are snow chains allowed in Scotland? I have not a clue, I used them in snow and ice. Loss is such a heavy load, you get used to it, but it is always there.

[@estherrenwick7006]

Main stopcocks are often outside in the UK - ours is in a similar place to Jude's behind the house. Then there is usually another one to cut off the boiler etc inside too - except our old house only has one inside to isolate the outside tap if it freezes.

[@venividivici1401]

Hi, I've been 8 years with an outside oil boiler and there is constantly an oil smell around it. It runs on kerosene which has strong fumes but that's simply a by product to its presence. Only worry if you smell the fumes inside. That said, a service is a sensible choice 👌

[@rewildingjude]

That’s very good to hear! Hopefully that’s all it is - one of my neighbours has recommended a company to call to get it serviced, so that’s on my list for this week!

[@venividivici1401]

@@rewildingjude Good stuff, all the best with it. I'm enjoying your content as it's calm and engaging, just like you are. ⭐️

[@jak-m5j]

You have produced a fascinating set of programs giving us, the viewers, an insight into your life. I have no doubt that your parents are with you in one sense or another and your mum would be very proud of what you have and will achieve. Keep on producing the programs, for yourself and us the viewers, I find on watching them that they help to take my mind off my serious health problems which I hope I will get through - with the help of my mum, even though she passed away all but 7 years ago.

[@barbarahansbury2291]

Do you ever rest! Working cooking filming editing Your mom is definitely proud of her talented handsome son that has a gift he is sharing with so many. Love from New York

[@ClaireHiggins-yl5wu]

Jude you are doing a fantastic job. Such an inspiration. Enjoy the wedding. Xoxo

[@rewildingjude]

Thank you!! It was a lovely wedding!!

[@QuartzyLady]

Sending Hugs (I know a little late, I am just catching up) Mum will know she will be round you ❤🤗

[@laneyscraftingcreations431]

How can it be 2 years since your lovely mum passed 🥰💔 I bet both of your parents are watching from wherever they are now and your dad will be saying see that’s why I collected all of these things - I knew they would be useful 🥰💕

[@rewildingjude]

💗💗💗

[@maureenmcgreevy3866]

Storm Ashley outside, stove lit, & Jude. Its what my Sunday evenings are about.❤❤❤❤

[@catbialcovsky6489]

Same here, well, except the stove, but I have candles. Cheers!

[@rewildingjude]

Ahh thank you!! Stay warm and dry!! (I’m currently waiting for my flight home, that’s been delayed by the storm!)

[@maureenmcgreevy3866]

@@rewildingjude Safe home.x

[@gemmaedwards4126]

Watching your videos is like watching Countryfile. I hope you keep making these videos. I really like the way you edit them.

[@rewildingjude]

That is a very big compliment!! Thank you!! I’m really enjoying making them - at some point I’m going to need to get some fancier equipment! Haha

[@debbievidal9536]

The loss if a parent never really goes away, it just gets slightly easier to bear. My mum passed away 25 years ago this past week. That's a long time but i still miss her dearly, she definitely was my best friend. ❤

[@ZenHands]

I feel ya on the leaf blowers! They're loud and don't do that great a job. The leaf grabby things look great.

[@HipsyJ]

Maybe use the gate as a cattle grid. 😂😂. We are really enjoying seeing your progress, Jude. Hubby now also hooked. Take care xx

[@rewildingjude]

🤣🤣🤣 that made me laugh! Ahh thank you both! I’m glad you’re enjoying it!

[@HipsyJ]

@@rewildingjude Thanks, it made me giggle too. May your dear mom rest in eternal peace. X

[@debmansbridge3923]

Jude your doing amazingly well don’t under estimate how well adapted you are to this new lifestyle you are , I would give my eye teeth to be in your shoes with your endless enthusiasm and energy ,I have been lucky enough to have lived in many properties old and new but now I’m 56 very single and have ME so now live in a one bedroom bungalow which is perfect for me now with my illness but how I envy you with your cottage and location enjoy every minute.

[@helencarlesjo]

You are doing so well Jude! 👏👏👏 Best wishes from Öland, Sweden.

[@rewildingjude]

Thank you!! Sending warm wishes right back!! 💗

[@jeannesauvage117]

You are doing amazing work! And sending love to you as you remember your mum. She absolutely would be incredibly proud of you!

[@nicolasanders6246]

Regarding your wasps entering the kitchen -they maybe looking for a place to build a nest. You can get wasp deterrent homes/nests (around £9) to hang in places where they've built a nest/hive previously. eg sheds, under a tree - Also please check your attic for wasps/mouse droppings etc Love your life❤

[@luisaleonardi666]

Jude, you're a very good friend to many of us. Thanks for letting us share your daily routine ❤

[@MargaretsIndianaGarden]

I'm positive that your mother would be so proud of all you've accomplished.💖

[@rewildingjude]

I think she probably would be! She was always happy if I was happy!

[@felinesewblessed1218]

As someone who deals with depression and seasonal affective disorder, I’m so inspired by your videos. You have so many talents and you push through each obstacle. Your parents are definitely with you all the time. I lost my Mom 18 years ago, but it feels like it was just yesterday. Looking forward to seeing your weekly progress!

[@rewildingjude]

I’m a glad my videos are helping! And I’m sorry for the loss of your mom - I don’t think we ever get over losing the ones we love 💗

[@hollycurry7389]

I like the idea of making the gate into a headboard for the guest bedroom bed. You can clip pictures or mount a print on it, or leave it be.....

[@elainekidd5442]

I feel so bad for you that you lost your Mum so young. I think it is really the worst thing in the world. I was 37 when my Mum died…. I am now 68 and miss her still. I do not want you to think that you will never loose the sadness, you will and you'll be happy to think of her. Sending love 💕

[@marykaren7542]

Awe. I bet your Mum would be so proud. 💙💙💙

[@florentinalily]

If you want to save money Jude; I soak my fence and decking and any other post that is going to touch the ground in old engine oil. It has to be old from an oil change... garages just give it away. Soak over night and it completely penetrates the wood or paint it on cross beams or ends of beams that are going into a wall to stop rot.

[@rewildingjude]

Oh that’s a great tip!! Thank you!!

[@Newbattle2007]

Like watching your videos. I bought a cottage built in 1880 about 10 years ago. It took about 2 years until the worst work was done. Had roof and gutters repaired first. Did all internal decorations myself and over time learned so much doing it. Oil smell should not be present. Get it looked at. In 2020 I replaced my oil heating with an air source heat pump and it works great. I lived for 2 years without central heating after my oil boiler broke down and plan for the installation. You definitely need loft insulation for that but I used sheep wool in the loft and that is perfect. There are grants and interest free loans from the Scottish Government for alternative heat sources. Get your doors draft proof for the winter. I had thresholds fitted on the floor because I didn’t want to replace my old cottage doors and draft stoppers around the door opening, much better than curtains. Other thing I did over the past couple of years was replacing my windows, one at a time and that made a big difference. Mice come in to my loft over the winter and it’s field mice who disappear for the rest of the year. Have 2 cats and they deal with any that might come in otherwise.

[@rewildingjude]

Thank you for all the advice! I’ve got so much work to do here - it’s difficult to know where to start! (Boiler is being serviced tomorrow though, so I’m hoping it’s not going to be too costly a fix!)

[@M-LFC491]

Don't worry, ours has been smelling of oil for 12 years!

[@rewildingjude]

Okay that’s good to hear!! (I’m so used to gas boilers!!)

[@dragonqueen4152]

If you cannot use the tires for a vehicle you can use them to build a wall by filling with dirt and stacking them. Similar to earth ship building. I enjoy watching your homestead efforts.

[@dettyvanderwal1126]

Our golden retriever James and cats Jip and Blacky are best friends! You can really have both!!! Love your vlogs!! Greetings from the Netherlands!

[@samanthaesra4035]

Greetings from South Africa. I am currently fighting on my cancer journey. I love watching your videos as they are so relaxing. Lovely to see some Scottish country side too.

[@lindafox1366]

You have conquered so much at your cottage, you have learned so much, you are a wonderful human! You never backpedal, and just know your mum knows, she is watching over you and so proud.

[@NotQuiteEnoughYarn]

Oh, you bugger, you made me cry at the end! Sending all the love and hugs. Hope the boiler is easily sorted and that the wedding went well xx

[@rewildingjude]

Sorry Les! 😂💗 sending all the hugs back. The wedding went really well! I got great feedback - maybe I need to start a side hustle in weddings?! 😂😂 xxx

[@NotQuiteEnoughYarn]

@rewildingjude nice earner, but a good way to ruin your weekends. The law is different in Scotland - I know that Humanist celebrants can legally marry couples, whereas they can't in Eng and Wales. Do you mean you're not already thinking of creating a wedding venue at the cottage? You could offer the complete package 😉

[@LizsFiberCraftingNook8066]

I mow the leaves and bag them that way. Then I put them in the designated garden spot. I only rack the areas the mower can’t go.

[@pamsmith7369]

Use the gate in the garden as a decorative element or in the raised beds to grow cucumbers or beans. It’s so cool so don’t get rid of it!

[@RND-x8m]

Old carpet on the compost if all else fails Jude and have you put worms in? Its an old property it will im afraid throw left curves. Our old victorian terrace is under going more work, it is non stop. You are doing a great job just keep going. We all love your channel you are a joy young man. My cat dragged a mouse in, lost it and finally chased it to its demise. I found it one morning hoovering! Jude mum is right there inside you, her beautiful son. Take care Jude.🙏

[@johenderson3742]

Yes, carpets or sacks. 🍂🍃

[@suebradford5758]

❤️👍❤️...Your Lovely Mum CAN see the Life you are making for yourself...✝️...And i am sure that she is VERY Proud of you ❤️😇❤️

[@HeatherDixon-u3r]

Yes Jude as another has stated its the farmers responsibility to keep stock contained. Well done fir trying.

[@LisaJohnson-h1f]

My Dad passed in 2015 from dementia at age 88, and my Mom passed in 2017 from heart failure at age 82, and I still miss them both! I lived within a few miles of them my whole adult life and I'm grateful for that. We had lots of fun times together over the years! At first I was really sad, but now I think of all the good times we had together and that cheers me up. I have a younger brother, and so there was a lot of comedy in our everyday life. I think of some of those memories and I find myself laughing, almost as much as I did back then!

[@lynnwrebel1560]

Hi Jude ...stick with your leaf hand grabbers ...no noise and better exercise... keep up the good work. Lovely to watch what you are getting up to ..I love my garden . Oil boiler outside...yes you will smell the oil ..my daughter does at her home in France...take care .

[@bevgrant611]

Someone told me the leave the leaves on the lawn as they turn into soil soon enough. Love what you are doing. xx

[@casadehola]

I have not missed any of your postings. I find them enlightening. You will always miss your mom. As a mother I know she was proud of you. Your light is bright. Keep on your path. 😊❤ Have a great week.

[@RoumerBloomer]

Hey Jude, your boiler looks relatively new, so a service and check of the oil line & tank should do it. As someone already said, there will always be a little whiff of oil around the setup. But unless there is discoloration on the pipes or joins or stains on the ground/obvious leaks, it should be alright. At least that’s what we were told the last time we had a guy out to check. When they do the inspection, they should visually inspect the oil tank too. In our case, the bottom of the boiler fell out the first time we turned it on. Afterwards we were told boilers are made with about 10 years lifespan, ours was about 30. And now we have to change the oil tank. Trust me, you and your cottage are doing just fine. You were made for each other and the cottage ‘knows it’. Sending hugs from Ireland. 🤗

[@rewildingjude]

That’s good to know!! (I wish things were made to last forever!) I think it’s pretty new, so I’m hoping it’ll be okay - I’ve got someone coming to service it the week after next, so fingers crossed it’s fine! 💗💗