What Happened to Bob. Did he go to Jail! Was he Deported?

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

The Video about Bob and break up with Kelly with Bob going to Jail kzbin.info/www/bejne/gnyTkI2Iedion5o

[@dennisdragomir7572]

I thew one out for having a sex partner, and they planned to murder me. I went with them to the Barangy and had the barangy throw them out. The mom, her, and daughter... Sad

[@Vaderbill]

If any police officer says "are you sure that is what you want to do" think long and hard...he is trying to help

[@Michael-u1t8k]

Given a domestic situation, that cop was trying to give him a lifeline. He allowed his anger to override his common sense.

[@thehaitianambassador215]

Yes indeed ! ​@@Michael-u1t8k

[@potterna1101]

Yep.

[@rowlandgray5029]

Especially in the P.i. , Thailand etc. Sounds pretty bad on his part to dramatic he asked her to leave her job, and move into his condo, He should help her get back on her feet knowing she had no income etc. I would just not do the right things. Didn't sound like she was violent but who knows ?

[@JG-ke7gj]

The police should have informed Bob about the law.

[@dominichoward4833]

Bob was wrong here but: 1) never move in a girlfriend or have them quit their job, especially if they have a kid. 2) stop sponsoring girlfriends whole life situation 3) maximum stay time in your place is 24-48 hours and don't let them leave anything major at your place. The rules change after marriage but this is the new standard moving forward with this law. We go there to retire/ peace and little responsibility, stop becoming their whole support system/ placing undue burden on yourself

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing

[@KennyInSubic]

💯

[@tonyste12]

If this is what happened, then he deserves EVERYTHING he gets. But there are always 2 sides to a story and then there is the truth, it will be nice to hear both sides.

[@mgtowmonger2729]

@@tonyste12 don't date single mothers anywhere. and don't let them live with you.

[@PlateletRichGel]

Don't take the free car, just keep your rental you cheap skates. No jail time, because money fixes everything. Get a live in housekeeper to keep your house nice, an old lady.

[@joshuahanson5233]

Temptation understood but changing the locks and kicking out your ex and her 10 year old child is heartless. Bob obviously has an impulsive nature that needs addressing.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

once your in your 60's can you change?

[@georgeorwell3573]

Pathetic! Trying to sow your wild oats as an old fool.

[@modilevi6053]

@@mikesphilippineretirement I'm sure the judge wil help bob change

[@TraitorTrump4Treason]

​@@mikesphilippineretirement friendly reminder to expats who, a very small minority, are entitled a**holes like bob giving everyone a bad name. The Philippines like many asian countries may appear to have, generally docile friendly law abiding and respectful citizens but if you think you can get away with anything including harming local children worse, actively participating in child sexual abuse, I say FAFO. Just think about it, their previous president Duterte didn't execute seven thousand "drug pushers" at night in less than 7 months leaving their bloodied mess on the streets the following morning, without the help from hundreds or thousands of maybe hardcore killers within their law-enforcement, military institutions and for-hire in the general population. They could feel safe in large cities in the northern islands and if they get a lawyer right away but idk if in remote middle and southern islands. The Philippines, surrounded by water can easily make anyone disappear without a trace and not have to worry about some foreign embassy getting in the way of their justice.

[@glenclarkchidley3637]

Dick Move Bob! You don’t put a kid out on the street!!!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

He is paying the price Glen

[@modilevi6053]

yeah, bad enough the mom, but he put a child out too, too much bob, disgraceful. if it really was that bad, that she had to go, at least make arrangements, give her some money, help her prepare a place to go to, help her with alternative accommodation, just help her, you can't dump a woman and a child on the street

[@luthermcgee3767]

I've lived here in the states all my life.i was rejected all my life. ( I was told more than once that I was too proper. And im a good looking guy!) if I knew the Philippines the way I do now back then, I would've met a philipina and I WOULD NOT HAVE DISCARDED HER FOR ANY REASON. unless it was her cheating. It's not I'm unforgiving, it's the danger of STDs. I would've stayed simply because I'm too proper, and I would've taken care of the girl as if she were my own.

[@BENTModels403inc]

@@modilevi6053but moms in the city where her family is from… why not go home ??? To mom and dads house ??? Probably not on good terms with them… nor bob…. Why’s that I wonder ???

[@isaiahhilburn6466]

@@glenclarkchidley3637 is the child his ??????

[@koufax174]

Mike you’re a great communicator. This is a very helpful and essential video. I’ve never seen the topic discussed like this. I’ve known a few guys who left the country because they couldn’t find an amicable way to end a dating relationship. Emotions are very high in the Philippines. For me I took many months getting a lay of the emotional landscape and knowing the Phillipines laws and differences from the US before I got into anything. That was a very wise decision on my part. Jumping into a relationship right off the plane is real danger. For me I say there are only two speeds to my daring, slow and stop. I personally would never ask anyone to move in with me unless I was truly ready to settle down and i had spent YEARS knowing a Filipina AND her family. I’m a cautious mature guy. It seems Bob learned his lesson. I don’t think he’s a bad guy. He just changed his mind. I appreciate you being objective Mike. You presented this experience in a way men have an opportunity to learn from. Thank you for your effort. Best to you and Janet 🙏🏼

[@TomR61]

@koufax174 Mike has a way of putting things into perspective.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks guys

[@orlandomando8486]

What do we learn? NEVER EVER DATE A SINGLE MOM!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

I married one

[@MrBatteryChanger1]

100% agreed, rule number 1 never marry a single mum, unless you want to be a dad to someone elses child for the rest of your life. I did.

[@scottpull12]

That's illegal also. So many legalities to relationships over there.

[@gerhardvanderpoll7378]

No......we learn NOT TO BE AN ASSHOLE, regardless of whether the woman is a single mother or not...

[@brianstevens8554]

So what happened to Bob eventually

[@muhjm1946]

He hasn’t got completely off yet, he has to go to court. She is Filipina and the judge is Filipino. They don’t take it lightly when one of their own is miss treated by a foreigner.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

he still has a court date

[@jsully4064]

People that like to yell, or are upset all the time really shouldn't come to the Philippines. Thank you, Mike...Jim

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

your right Jim

[@EdgarDeem-yc7ml]

Well I definitely agree and maybe this video makes some of them understand they could go jail in foreign land is a very bad thing

[@walkingboss]

I hope she is safe and sound now. He shouldn't have ever made that big a move, especially in another country. His is a cautionary tale.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

I think she is ok now

[@EASTERNDREAMERCallmeAlexia]

Do not Sound like a boss

[@barefootnblues]

Bob is a selfish bastard no matter what country he's in. The police were more than fair initially. And just so you know, bail is non refundable there. He has more lessons to learn trust me. The grass only looks greener from the other side of the fence. All these "options" he thought he had will no longer be available. Bob is a foreigner, who severely mistreated a citizen and put her child in jeopardy. Bob uprooted the girl from her job (a precious commodity there) and will have a really hard time finding another partner except for the ones who will stay long enough to drain his funds.provided he has any left. There is no way he is going to put this behind him, not in the Philippines. We can hope this doesn't follow him to the next country he decides to settle in I doubt charges will be dropped and the process will take a very long time. The family was also offended if you know the culture, so Bob hurt quite a few people. You may think this is an exaggeration and time will tell. No Mike, while I appreciate your optimism, I don't think this will go away for Bob.

[@scottrunquist5611]

I disagree, hit another island block the family on social media. The relationship is done. The only way this follows him is if the family or the girl spread it and laws work both ways thankfully in the Philippines, slander is a huge offense. When the brother or father make a physical threat bye bye go talk to police and report their ass on the blotter. Dont live in fear if you have a relationship end

[@woutergijs5246]

@@scottrunquist5611I think this is one of the first technically right responses

[@scottrunquist5611]

​@woutergijs5246 honestly if anything from my experiences and that of friends, the fact Kelly is a gold digging bitch who tried to claim suffering when all that happened was end of relationship. Many decent women will want bob if he is honest. Most women in the Philippines that are not in their 20s abd are truly not gold diggers will understand bob and truly be ok with him

[@acornsucks2111]

Bob is just horny. haha

[@9344music5]

F'g Bob. Bob F'd Up. Bob is an A-hole. He needs to learn a good lesson or he will repeat this action over and over again. He has no scruples and though he can get away with this just cuz he was in the Philippines. What a Ya-hoo.

[@RobMcBean]

There's no bail for marijuana offenses in the Phil. Never have anything to do with weed.

[@jsully4064]

Or if you have an immigration charge that requires you to be locked up.

[@danp1043]

​@ManWithNoName-t2d and when he gets caught, he'll toss you under the bus in a heartbeat. You stoners are too stoned to use your brains.

[@bornonjuly7052]

​​@@ManWithNoName-t2d oh yeah maybe easier i agree but the man says when apprehended and caught with illegal drugs that would be a total eclipse of your life.

[@richardroy6179]

@@ManWithNoName-t2d I'm an on and off again weed smoker, takes me 4-5 months to smoke an oz, by the end of the ounce I'm no longer getting high from it, so I quit, often for years at a time. I lived in the Philippines for 3 years and smelled weed a few times, but didn't smoke any. I have seen what jail is like in the Philippines and I'm not willing to take a risk. That cop might be ok, but should he get in trouble with the government, you can be sure you will be thrown under the bus.

[@KC-in9px]

​@@ManWithNoName-t2d Sounds great until the day comes when he's caught and gives you up to lessen his charges. Grow up and stop illegal foolishness or go somewhere it's legal.

[@dong4617]

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Amen to that

[@alaskacpu]

I dated my gf for 3 years in the Philippines before we got married in the USA. Now over 11 years later being married, she’s perfect for me. When Bob moved, he took her & her child with him, he was obligated to take care of them. When he got angry, he should have asked her to move back to Moms home but also offer a sum of support she would need. Anger made Bob make the wrong choice. Can you imagine how the child felt ? I would have never put myself in such a situation. And Bob, your too old for temptation 😂 you should have grown a pair years ago 💝

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing

[@markc7274]

Bob was being a typical idiot and deserves what he gets.. Got tired of her but brings her down to her home area with the kid and then just kicks them out with nothing. He is very lucky it could go a lot worse. Sadly there are a lot of older men just going to Philippines with this same attitude....he could have moved on but treating her with respect and dignity....Once a jerk always a jerk!! Just my opinion

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@revelationmd]

Thing is - we can’t on the one hand think “I want a traditional woman who will stay home, not working and just concentrate on looking after the house, me, and staying beautiful”… and on the other hand think “we’ve split, she can look after herself.” Be a man and recognise you’ve demanded she be dependent on you - you have to provide the parachute before kicking her from the plane. And that’s before you even consider the totally innocent child that’s had her life uprooted twice in just a few months.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing

[@AussieTonythemexican]

I agree. Bob is a jerk

[@jerrymarshall2728]

Unfortunately, Kelly and her Daughter are going to be suspicious of all foreigners, now.

[@scottrunquist5611]

Sounds like Kelly is a user and only wants money a respectable woman would leave understand not wanted and not demand payment or involve police for such bs

[@bigbrother4ever]

Foreigners still get trapped EVEN by girl bars in Pattaya and AC. I am sure her nbox is full by now 😂😂😂 *edit*: now after listening to the entire video, Bob is a d^ck. Actually the woman and kid will get lots of sympathy. In any case this news is not on CNN, only a few foreigners will hear of it ...and still as I said, Bob seems go be at fault here.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

@scottrunquist5611 Sounds like you did not watch the complete video.

[@JohnMaynard-d2m]

Why? The women should be suspicious of Bob, I would think.

[@hildamiller-3816]

That guy is bad. He is unhuman

[@richardhowe5583]

I grew up in rural America in the 50s and 60s.. everyone knew everyone and all of the girls had fathers and most of them had brothers.. if you mistreated a girl verbally the girl's father and brothers would beat the hell out of you.. we do not even want to talk about if you mistreated a girl physically.. thats when people disappear.. that still goes on in the Philippines.. if you mistreat the right wrong girl you will get a visit from two guys on a motorcycle wearing helmets and carrying 45 ACP's.. please keep up with Bob because his days are numbered and I would love to see how his story ends.. "The Grand tour" George Jones.. some girl is going to flip the coin on Bob and he's going to take The Grand tour..😮😢😅😊

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing Richard

[@mick-berry5331]

Great advice, Mike, wise words. I hope more guys take heed or/and become more reasonable.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

You and me both!

[@FBICPS]

I hope most guy's never take on the responsibility of another mans seed.

[@Coffewithsteve]

bad move bye bob not knowing the laws

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Be smart at all times

[@josephschaefer9437]

The SOB should get 30 days in jail for putting that child out on the street at the drop of a hat. These kids already have a hard enough life

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

the child was the big victim

[@danramsay5844]

He handled it like a selfish jerk..period ! I feel sorry for his next victim/gf ?

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Let's hope he does better

[@lostinasia25]

Bob did everything wrong with his partner. There was a child with his girlfriend. What animal kicks to the curb a Mom and her daughter without any warning or discussion? I truly hope Bob pays a huge fine and is blacklisted. However, his ex gf may decide to drop charges with a court settlement.

[@wildbill7081]

@@lostinasia25 Yes your correct Bob made big mistake

[@lazarosanchez5314]

I don't understand the problem. They were not getting along. Time to move on. It was not her apartment

[@BENTModels403inc]

@@danramsay5844 theres a real good chance shes bat shit crazy… and bob finally got his balls back and made this small window of opurtunity work for him..

[@kuyakano8976]

What happened to sitting down with your girlfriend for a serious talk and split up amicably? And yes, Bob certainly owed her some money to get back on her feet, as she went along with his idea to move to another island. Especially when there's a child involved, whose safety and well being should be your first priority.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

That is what he did

[@jasonjames4254]

Yes! Probably a bit too optimistic to think you can have an amicable split-up with a Filipina, but otherwise I totally agree with you. He owed her. In essence, he made an "I'll take care of you" contract with her and her child. At a minimum, he should have left her in the same circumstances he found her. NOT on the street with no money, and no where to go!

[@frankellis9627]

This was my main problem in the Philippines when I was there. There are just too many attractive women. I still don't know how guys stay in relationships there. I know I wouldn't be able to do it 🤔

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Tell me about it. So hard looking at all the beauties in the Philippines

[@frankellis9627]

@@mikesphilippineretirement I say this to all men. Stay single, guys. Especially if you're in your 40s, 50s, and early 60s 🤔

[@seangaw6429]

Throwing someone in the street is not a moral thing and moving in with someone is the big decision think deeply before moving in together.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing

[@MisterDigDug]

It’s ok to change your mind, but there is always a cost in doing so. There are 50 ways, but Bob easily picked the worst. Bad Bob.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

hahaha Bad Bob

[@gottalovethephilippines5417]

If Bob had of taken care of his ex and her daughter in the first place, he wouldn't have to pay all the legal fees and he would have been doing the right thing. You reap what you sow...

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@johnnyg7899]

Very good advice. As a man who has experiened divorce in the U.S. I learned it is always best to walk away peacefully after having the talk and be ready to accept your losses. In other words, always have an emergency backup plan in case things don't workout. But be a gentleman by never hurting nor putting your ex in a bad position regardless of her actions. That way no one can ever say that you did something wrong.

[@bigbrother4ever]

True. I have my car ready and a few gold coin somewhere, to make sure I won't starve if it happens 😂

[@johnnyg7899]

@@bigbrother4ever Lol. Sounds good.

[@mikeinnj4424]

Mike, I left a comment on the last video and after watching this I can say that you are 100% correct. Great video and even better advice.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@lazylarrylee2421]

Mike, at least Bob has stepped up and helped her out, but I think that he should be helping her more. Hopefully, her daughter went back to her parents.

[@danp1043]

These are just the preliminary costs, so far. He hasn't even seen a trial yet. He better hope that this Filipina still has some kindness in her heart for him.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

yes but he should have done that in the first place. Better late than never LLL

[@danp1043]

@@mikesphilippineretirement That's kinda like most criminals, that become the most remorseful people in the world, AFTER they're convicted. Sorry for committing the crime, or sorry that they were caught??

[@QuicknStraight]

Oh, yeah, what a man! The only reason he's "helped her" is to try and keep his own ass out of jail. Had the police not been involved, he'd have just left her swinging in the breeze.

[@billhornsberger5116]

Great vlog Mike! I viewed both parts, I agree with you that he got out cheaply considering his initial reactions. I’m guessing that he received great guidance from his attorney, he was smart to follow that guidance! Thanks Mike!

[@Geoduck.]

Great lesson for other expats. A man must and should give very serious thought to what's best for that child.

[@RobertTeague-sg3tw]

Always leave them better off than when you found them. Have a heart. There is always going to be temptation and it's best to get that out of your system before you move anyone into your home. Great video and follow up. Thanks.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing Robert

[@skip2it426-]

Mike thanks for sharing and hopefully Bob gets his act together and doesn’t treat the next gf bad! Eventually he’ll play for his ugly deeds! Thanks again 👌🏾

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing Skip

[@herbwitt7710]

Many Many good points my friend. Thanks for bringing this to our attention. Watch what you wish for..👍 Go Browns/ Ohio State 🏈.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

So true Herb

[@Daves_Chronicles]

Thanks, Mike. Good advice no matter where you are.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks David

[@frankparkinson3646]

Don't raise expectations.. I have 4 girls that I know and visit periodically and I have found that honesty is the best policy.. they call me Paro Paro and I accept and acknowledge the significance of that name.. there are no illusions in my relationships.. they don't like to lose face or be embarrassed in front of their family... Discrete, hushed relationships... As long as they enjoy themselves and I treat them with respect... Take care y'all

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing Frank

[@badactor3440]

@@frankparkinson3646 What's Paro Paro mean?

[@Radiancegrace]

Temptation is not outside one’s self. The external is neutral-it’s the inner thoughts about the external that need addressing and a shift. God, help me to see this differently is a good prayer to address the inner desires

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@EdgarDeem-yc7ml]

The biggest thing here for everyone to learn from is take your time you’re time getting to know each other before committing, think ahead don’t do anything without thinking about the consequences, you have the right to leave any relationship just do it in a way that you believe is a just and fair way to both parties.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing Edgar

[@timg5463]

That was not cheap. He should have given her 50k and she probably would have happily left without drama.

[@marriedtoafilipinachannel]

Poor Bob, should have thought things out before he committed to a relationship. You don't just do that to someone.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Roy how is everything camper is looking nice

[@marriedtoafilipinachannel]

@@mikesphilippineretirement, thank you Mike!!!

[@Miguel863]

I agree he got off cheap. Lucky the girl did not know scams deep enough to sink him to poverty there. Its very easy to be done. Thanks for the Update

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for the comment Miguel

[@l.d.52]

You know, i am truly ASTONISHED at some of the thing dudes do in the PH. Unbelieveable.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@Sunrvester]

I just ended a relationship with a Filipina 4 days after arriving from the Philippines. It got so bad few weeks before my anticipated return to the US. She was screaming and yelling at her kids including myself from morning till bedtime and repeated the next day. She has stubborn undisciplined children perhaps due to absence of father figure. I realized that I wasnt ready to share my space and relinquish my independence living alone. I have many more plans in my 70+ years such as travelling within the US on my travel trailer. Wish I hadnt bought a home, I could live like a nomad on my travel trailer visiting different national parks and camping. Im done with kids dont need any headache. Im sorry I broke up unexpectedly from her but I have no choice when I observed I didnt want her kids in my household and her constant nagging. Glad had a chancr to observe all that during our 3 months together. It was ugly living to me.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing

[@YouDcm]

It's not the absence of the Father that makes children so terrible. It's the quality of the Mother. Logically, how could it be the Father's fault they are raised as spoiled gremlins? He's never there to do any influencing. It's the person (the Mother) who's in charge 24/7 that's responsible. Modern day society blames it on the Father not being around so as to shield the bad Mother from blame. You saw first hand what that woman was like to you. Is it any wonder here kids are terrible?

[@Sunrvester]

@@YouDcm True, the reason most likely the man left her and the children.

[@markeuringer8106]

Stupid us as stupid does ! I am happily married for 22 years now and we disagree at times but as others stated, bob chose the worst way to separate!

[@michaeljones4715]

Very wise , Mike . Go Lions 😊

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Strong team this year

[@sergeletendre-d9c]

Filipinas are not toys respect them and keep them forever ❤

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing

[@ovlov245]

Mike, maybe not there but admitting he was looking elsewhere for a woman while she was still in his home can be used by the prosecute in any Western scenario. Maybe remove that part? In any case I hope he gets a bigger slap on the wrist he is a jerk.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Think has has done enough but he should have done that b4 and move on

[@QuicknStraight]

That cannot be used by the "prosecutor" anywhere. Merely thinking something is not a crime.

[@ed5308]

Why is this so hard to understand? You are in another culture and you get involved with a women that is trying to live a better life whether she has children on not. You are an upgrade with the ability to make her life better. Then you ask her to move in with you and give up a job that is paying her bills. You ask her to quit her job and devote all of her time to you. Then after a period of time you change your mind for whatever reason. She thinks she owns you, she cheats, she asks for to much money, and you just want to move on. You owe it to her to at least bring her back to where she was when she met you. Yeah it costs you 100,000 pesos or more. You have the money so just chalk it up to experience and move on. Its so simple.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing Ed

[@PavolKosik-b3u]

Living with psycho like Bob is not upgrade. Its better to be poor than live with narcist like that who think he owns you because he pays bills.

[@potterna1101]

Exactly

[@gtrbarbarian]

Hey...not sure if you realize...but those DJI mics come with low pass enabled...which make them sound tinny ..you might turn that off to get a fuller sound. Love your channel

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for the tip! I will check it out as I am not happy with the sound quality

[@gtrbarbarian]

@@mikesphilippineretirement apparently if you have the mic 2, there is also a newer firmware

[@richardroy6179]

Great Followup Video, Bob is learning, and so are some of the commenters...

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Indeed!

[@josephmansour3151]

you are good man my friend

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks! 😃

[@rayramirez73]

Hey Mike. I will Land in Cebu on Nov. 07. I need my Etravel which I can do Online & I Understand that I don't need a VISA if I am.staying only 30 Days BUT I BOOKED my Flight to Stay till Jan. 22, 2025 (90 Days Total). Can I EXTEND My VISA there in Cebu or Do I have to do it in Manila? Can I do it ONLINE here in USA before my Flight Nov. 07 ?

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

in cebu

[@richardyeagerjr8200]

What Bob did was wrong. He deserves to pay financial restitution. He obviously didn't care for them, only cares about himself.Whst comes around, goes around.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing

[@TropicalTimInthePhilippines]

He may not be completely out of the woods. She gave up her job for him at his request, and their judicial proceedings to include his lawyer could collectively string him along. It will hinge on how vengeful she becomes over time. What, you couldn't sing the words to that Paul Simon song??

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

I think it is over. She is back in Cebu moving on with her life. He just has the courts to deal with

[@Gogothepopo]

I came to the Philippines the entire month of August 2024…met a girl online and she met me at the airport (mistake). I feel Bob’s pain. After a week in the Philippines I couldn’t get rid of that girl fast enough. So many beautiful women.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing

[@gileneusz]

very good continuation of a very good video, waiting for more!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

We will move on to a different subject. Thank you for watching

[@Kitiwake]

You can get bail easily in the Philippines for almost any charge.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

how much was you're bail?

[@Kitiwake]

​@@mikesphilippineretirement I didn't need bail. But because you're there it's good advice for you.

[@golftrekker]

I left my ex pretty well off, a house and a car, it was worth it to escape. I did what Mike said, I just left, went back to the US till the smoke cleared.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@jamescalifornia2964]

~ Best shirt that I've seen Mike wear. He looks like a referee 😉👌

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

hahaha

[@bieragaino440]

If a Filipina (with a children) is found by her foreigner lying to him , how should the breakup be ? Filipina lives in her moms house, she herself decided to quit job. The foreigner decided to live with Filipina in her communiity . Foreigner discovered he has been lied , and kept in dark. How should this be handled? Must foreigner go police station to explain or to a lawyer?

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

walk away

[@bieragaino440]

@@mikesphilippineretirement Thanks for answer.

[@MikeTheDigitalNomad]

I'm not sure 50K is enough. She may get her boarding house back but her job? Not so sure. 50K is not very much.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

that is what he gave her and she was happy with it Mike

[@stephenlan5450]

If i was from Ohio, I'd move to the Philippines too

[@JohnMaynard-d2m]

LOL, That is funny but sadly true. But I can"t throw any stones since I live in southern Wv. Hoping to go to the Philippines for a month to see what all the excitement is about.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

come and join me in the Philippines

[@stevesmith1127]

As a man you should not ask a woman move in with you unless you want to marry them. However after you do and if it does not work out take care of her right and it should not go bad.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing Steve

[@PavolKosik-b3u]

Its 21st century. Half of the people live together without being married. Do you still live in medieval times? Times when you got married at 18 are long gone. And you should first live in together to know if you are compatible living together and than get married. Getting married before living together is big risk.

[@DanielRodriguez-bn6mg]

I would just pack my bags on the down low and just move somewhere else where she won’t know where I’m at or just buy a plane ticket back to the states.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@guidovndr]

So if you find your wife is cheating on you, at home you can 't ven habve an argument, raise vice, Becaouse she can fill in a report for distress?

[@Ted-f4o077]

That probably happens more in Philippines than you think. I would just silently start planning my exit from the country, walk out a free man and decide from there what to do

[@danp1043]

​@@Ted-f4o077You can always return to your home country and divorce her there.

[@guidovndr]

@@danp1043 if they don't arrest you before!

[@QuicknStraight]

If you cannot learn to adapt to the environment you CHOOSE to live in, then best not to come and live here. There is a way to behave here to get things done and it isn't shouting and turfing people out on the street.

[@mgtowmonger2729]

@@QuicknStraight there are people you can hire to deal with that kind of situation... (cheating spouse). they make those problems disappear.

[@donalddrake7133]

Yes, Bob was foul. Not want her to be there is fine but not to put her especially with a child out on the streets. He should have sent her back to where she came from gave her a couple of dollars and been done with it. And in the Philippines when you post bail, that 40,000 pesos, the court keeps it, you don't get it back. Ever. Be decent people and life will treat you better.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing Donald

[@cliftonchambers553]

Like I said before, Bob should not have gotten into anything with a single mother

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@PavolKosik-b3u]

Why? I married a single mom and so far 8 years happily married. Step daughter is best friend with my niece and very popular at school and with my relatives. She is so talented, speak 3 languages, good grades at school and so on. Getting instant family is a joy which selfish people like Bob and you cannot fully appreciate.

[@oceanbreeze369]

If Bob was a Filipino, this would'nt even be a news story. However Bob handled this wrong from the get go. No, we don't all want a live in gf.

[@cornelieusspencer1116]

So true if he was Filipino he wouldn't get arrested.

[@lionandlamb9465]

Let Bob tell his story. There is likely a lot of info being left out. No one would care if she kicked him out... beware of feminism invading.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

it is his story

[@toddmichael81]

Theres 2 sides to every story. Id like to hear bobs side

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

the story is his side

[@Charles-y5d]

Peso exchange currently p55. 88 at the close today at 6 month high for the peso. I'm expecting it to go higher to the us dollar.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@postbro1]

Thanks for the update! My two cents is: Date a girl for 4-5 mos before having her move in?!?! Nah...better date her for at least a year! I know guys, especially retirees, might feel like they are on of a bit of an accelerated timeline or find themselves caught up in the emotional and/or physical frenzy of dating some cute younger woman and thinking, "YOLO!!!" (You only live once) But you gotta let life experience prevail to protect yourself and the other person. Look at the Bob situation. Not only is his life in a twist, but so is the life of the woman involved. He's got legal i$$ue$, and she's got to go put her life back together. Be like Kwai Chang Caine and walk slowly over the rice paper and try not to leave any damage!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

great points

[@newtonlee10]

kick his old girl and her child out cause he wants a new girl? he should go to jail or be deported at least...

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing not going to be deported

[@christopherbradley5575]

I wouldn't have done that to a child. Im all for dating/marrying a girl who has kids but it comes with additional responsibilities that are just part of being a man. I am wondering if the police had made it clear that he could be committing a crime when they forst talked to him. If they did and he simply chose to ignore them, it was a pretty stupid choice. If not, he probably didn't know. Either way, children should never be treated that way.and we all need to consider the children very carefully BEFORE getting involved with any woman. However, if he absolutely had to dropp this relationship, the best way, as you said, would have been to take off himself.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing. It does have a lot of responsibilities when you have a girl with a kid move in with you

[@jeffanderson963]

Great video Mike. I thought this part of the act was pretty funny. (3) Entering or remaining in the dwelling or on the property of the woman or her child against her/his will; So we can't stay in her place against her will, but she can stay in our place against our will. I'm married to a filipina, and she quotes this act with me. I bet Philippine men are hardly ever charged with this. But if you're a foreigner, they will throw the book at you.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@donaldpedigo296]

.. Bob Was a "Cruel-Selfish-Jerk" .. Putting a Mother & Her Child "Out-on-the-Street" was "Absolutely Horrendous & Immoral" ..

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for your comment Donald

[@davidw5761]

Dudes get a trust fund for your assets money and don't get married get a girlfriend believe me as long as you have money she won't leave you also never ever buy land in the Philippines foreigners can never ever legally own land in the Philippines also get a vasectomy your old already right so you don't want child support for 26 years do this or regret it for the rest of your life 👍

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@gerardbeck457]

Uh, Bob is NOT out of the woods yet. Anything can happen in court! Do give us a follow up on the absolute final outcome one! Thanks

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

I will

[@derekmarsden8934]

Great video. Interesting commentary

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@davidfisher5140]

I feel really sorry for that poor filipina. That was a HORRIBLE way to treat her! You do not USE a woman then discard her like garbage. Women are humans, REAL PEOPLE. If a man was to kick his 6 month old dog out onto the streets, he'd be a monster. To do that to a woman after months together is far, far worse. To do that to a child??? That is utterly inexcusable. If I were the judge, I'd ask the man if he would like to be expelled from my country or if he prefers fixing himself. He he wanted to stay, I'd fine him , then lock him up for at least 30 days, 90 would be appropriate. If he wanted to leave and be done with the country, then fine. Let him go with a fine and make sure he gets blacklisted from returning. Bob IS SHAMEFUL! I would not even want him back in my country, yet as a citizen, I guess he must be allowed to return.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

he was wrong thanks for sharing David

[@LarryaproudU.S.citizen]

Selfish man. I cannot imagine putting a woman and her little girl in the street for any reason. I would just leave if it was important to leave.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing

[@davidboskett5581]

It is a very unhealthy attitude to have thinking that you can just break up with a girl and find another because just there are plenty of pretty girls around who probably only date them because of their financial circumstances. Most of these men would probably not have stood a chance to secure a beautiful woman as their partner back in the US even in their younger days before they became fat, ugly and bald . However in saying that a foreigner should take their time and not shack up with a local girl until he has got to know her well.And kicking a girl out the way Bob did was disgraceful .I mean he only offered her a miserable 50,000 pesos after his lawyer suggested it .He should have paid her at least 100,000 because the girl might not even be able to get her old job back.

[@derekmarsden8934]

You say " we all want women to live with us " why ? Once you are living with them you are under their control. The pleasure of the relationship just dies. Live apart it keeps the relationship fresh , sex continues to be exciting and you have no responsibility.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing Derek

[@KC-in9px]

What like 125k pesos plus a plane ticket so far because he saw other pretty girls and wanted to be single? That was a poor decision made by a man in his 60's.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

that it was

[@theonlyLopezinmyfamily]

. Not mature enough to just tell Kelly and sit her down and say "you know what I don't want to be in this relationship " and simply leave without harm

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

very true. Hope he learns from this

[@joelb099]

Good advice Mike...

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks

[@erichschinzel6486]

This will drag on for a long time...

[@epicriosonlinemoney3654]

WE DON'T All Want a Live in Girlfriend‼ Single and FREE is the Best‼

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

it is not for everyone

[@bob1226bob]

Well I have lived in the Philippines for over 38 years , Bob sounds like a bone head

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@whatever7639]

“50 ways to leave your lover”--GREAT SONG

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

love it

[@josemariacuedejuana813]

I agree with you,your proposal is the best👍 Bob has to pay a big fine because he did a ruthless action.She didn't deserve that selfish action,she left her job to be with him.She has a daughter and he should have been like her father.He is guilty 👎

[@dennishunt787]

Bob should of been more fair to her

[@MrBatteryChanger1]

A big no no is to marry a single mum, unless you want to raise someone elses child for the restvof your life. The kids take up a hell of a lot of time and resources.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

My wife is a single mom

[@philgreen8277]

Sad for both party's. What Bob did or how he did it, was so wrong. Hopefully the judge will be lenient with him after correcting his mistake. But could also be the end of his stay in the Philippines. Most certainly the court will hand over his file to immigration. Being thrown out of a country will stay on his passport. Making it difficult to go to another country possibly. As he will have to declare the reasons why. He may get lucky and stay without further action.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing

[@bigbuck8138]

I hate this for the child most of all. Bob made life harder for all of us . DON’T BE A BOB !

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

bad Bob. hahaha

[@gregorynelson4061]

Great video! But you forgot to mention - perhaps you didn't know - that the Bureau of Immigration will pick up on this within 30 days, if they haven't already. And they will revoke his VISA based on this charge. Now if the charge gets dropped he may have a chance getting his VISA back. But if the charge sticks - even if he's made full restitution - his VISA will most likely be revoked and he'll be ordered to leave country and put on a blacklist. I'm familiar with a couple cases like this. I hope I'm wrong, but I don't think so.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@edexter97]

Doesn't seem like it is worth having strife over these jobs.. I hear one person online saying he won''t date anyone who doesn't have a job and that doesn't seem to be working out for him.. There seemed to be alot of ""I want" instead of what we wanted or what she wanted though it doesn't sound good for a relationship.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

very true

[@MarkMarinSr]

Great Video Mike

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thank you

[@Chris-gi9ch]

I don't think it's a bad decision, I think it's downright cruel to just kick out a live in girlfriend who's a mom of a young child, who quit her job when the job market it brutal over there! Especially because he just wanted to be single? I would like to see him deported, because he really lacks basic empathy. Personally, I would've tried to see about getting her job back, a months income, plus extra to re-settle.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks Chris

[@danielhuntington2116]

Once he handled it the way he did he created a mess....however when the police knocked on his door the first time and asked if she and her daughter could come back and stay with him it WOULD NOT have been a good idea to let her stay there. Once she's back in with a daughter he is vulnerable to false accusations. By letting a jilted lover back in he or any man in that situation is rolling the dice on what she might do or say. When the cops came he should have paid for a place for them to stay agreeing to meet her in a public place on a specific date.....this done and said in front of the police officers.... and then when meeting her settled an exit package for her and her daughter! He puts new meaning into the movie...."What About Bob."😮🤔 🙏

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing Daniel