WHAT HAPPENS AFTER DIVORCE IN ISLAM I ISLAMIC LECTURES I NOUMAN ALI KHAN NEW

[@marufabegum9715]

I have been divorced for last 21 years. Alhamdulillah, Allah took care of me and my child. We never faced any crisis in life. Whatever Ustad said is true word by word.

[@shamimtemour]

Alhamdulillah ❤

[@EllenCPickle]

I cry everyday over my children. I am a reverted muslim of 30+ years, I divorced the father of my children because he although muslim never practiced islam and fell to the temptations of this life. One year after school break he failed to return them to me...during all these years apart, Their father taught them many years ago to hate me based upon lies. I love them so much that I haven't made them choose between their father and me. I pray one day they know I love them so much that I leave them in Allah's hands. I forgive them for not calling me when I'm sick, not returning messages when I simply say I love you, I forgive them for forgetting their mother doesn't have a husband, only family that are not Muslim who hate me for raising my children Muslim, for teaching them how to pray, to fast, to speak Arabic when their father was not practicing Islam..I forgive them for judging me on factless lies...I forgive even their father.. Insha'Allah Allah has a plan for everything. I realize now that I need this time to improve my faith. I pray one day they just know how much I love them. Alhumdulilah. JazakAllahKheir

[@jenni_noura9170]

I'm sorry this happened to you sister

[@EllenCPickle]

@@jenni_noura9170 Alhumdulilah... everything is from Allah...what we see as bad, Insha'Allah might be the very situation that opens the doors to Jenna for us. Everything has a reason! Ramadan Mubarak to you! 🛐

[@jenni_noura9170]

@@EllenCPickle khair Mubarak sister. My struggles are I'm going through divorce while I'm pregnant with his child. He doesn't want me he said

[@EllenCPickle]

@@jenni_noura9170 im so sorry, they always find a way to make everything about them. You will do an amazing job as a parent, start educating your self on parental alienation because at some point he will use it......this is actually forbidden in islam as you probably already know. Narcissist are everywhere. there is a great recover channel that not islamic but I highly recommend..look up Angie Queen b, whenever has great information on how to handle this. I am wishing you well. Sometime Allah takes toxic people from our lives when we cant do it ourselves! Hang in there

[@ubaidrazi97]

May Allah Subt guide you and make you stronger after what you have been through.

[@merQrey]

I'm going through a divorce as well and it's the most painful experience I have ever had to face. Was married for 10 years to a wonderful person but her heart always whispered to her from the very beginning of our marriage that "you not supposed to be here" she eventually left me leaving me shattered beyond repair. I love her deeply and can't seem to move past the fact that I will no longer be married to her. 😭

[@EllenCPickle]

Sometimes Allah removes toxic people from our lives when we couldnt do it ourselves. Inshallah this happened to make room for you to find your true partner that will get you to Jenna! It took me years to accept that the plan Allah had for me, Inshallah is better than the one I was living. Stay strong, and btw there are great women out there that feel the very same way!

[@abusabah6615]

Same thing here my friend , my wife of 5 yrs mother of my two children now leaving me , not for the grave sins / i practice islam , not adulting/alcohol/physical abuse or any such things , shes telling im a good person shes a good one but doesnt want to ive with me anymore , 😢 i still pray , during this ramzan fasting im praying , for my family , she thinks children our daughters can have a good life even after divorce , i dont think so , whomever she/me marries it wont be the mother/ father for them , they will have a trauma which shes refusing to understand now , Im willing to do anything for my family , to undergo any corrections, patiently , but still she doesnt want .. im nothing but praying to allah s.w.t and i sincerely dont know when to stop 😢

[@scorpionnetherrealm8937]

​@@abusabah6615 may you find peace in the difficult time you are going through.

[@abusabah6615]

@@scorpionnetherrealm8937 aaameen

[@merQrey]

@@abusabah6615 may allah make it easy for you my brother. dont stop making dua. he will make a way out inshallah

[@ziausman1157]

Divorce is so hearbreaking Subhanallah my husband divorce me.. and it was so devastating😭💔

[@AkramBaig2689]

My wife divorcing me sadly 😥 and my mum died I'm going through double pain

[@sanobiathaseen7832]

@@AkramBaig2689 Allah ll help u to get heal frm diz pain

[@AkramBaig2689]

@Sanobia Thaseen I love pain I don't mind this generation is finished and people of this generation can't small issues

[@jashme5618]

Woman doesn't have right to divorce in islam right?

[@sanobiathaseen7832]

@@AkramBaig2689 have sabar I'm also gng through the same pain

[@dogalaful]

After 3 years we re divorcing. She chose this with her family and burned my inside. I accepted everything come from Allah. I will remain silent and accept this test of God with dignity.

[@mohammedhaffajee8833]

All praise is to Allah swt

[@sabamaheen5956]

May Allah taala help you with best results both of this world and the hearafter, ameen the 6 result may surpass all the 5 tests...suma ameen

[@mahnoormahmood4243]

Thank you for this lecture My daughter is rejected by every family just because she is very simple. People these days want to get married to glamorous girls. Simplicity is not appreciated any more.

[@sumbulhalim1396]

very true bhai

[@ubaidrazi97]

I agree with you sister.

[@EllenCPickle]

May Allah reward her. Simplicity is a great virtue! I prefer my children Mary someone simple than a huge wedding that lead to more test from Allah.

[@Oliviaonlinefashion1]

السلام علیکم I am looking for wife Single divorced widow

[@WellBabba]

What do you mean by simplicity exactly? Poor ? Not educated? Jobless? Or nor deluded with Dunya

[@leylaameziane7278]

Thank you so much

[@ayesharahmatali3038]

My marriage lost for 2 weeks. I got to know he is an atheist. I couldn't help myself to love the person whose heart not bounded to Allah! I will be divorced next month Inshaallah. Ya Rab make me firm in your religion and dont allow me to say a word that upsets you in this difficult time 😢😞

[@Oliviaonlinefashion1]

السلام علیکم I am looking for wife Single divorced widow

[@independentgirl931]

​@@Oliviaonlinefashion1where are you living. I am from the netherlands

[@nevillestanlee9797]

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[@nevillestanlee9797]

​@@independentgirl931 I am from South Africa

[@faysalsarker2830]

Never believe divorce could happen in my life but got separated from my most loved person don't know how i continuously did those mistakes but after-all you should be there. Allah knows why did you do this to my life. Allah forgive me why you taken your blessings from me

[@TheMrsansari]

I trust my Lord

[@qanitaahsan4485]

ان شاءالله تعالى ❤

[@stephaniefythm]

I went through a lot of financial crisis during my divorce, I had to raise my two kids alone, Currently I'm living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me; even till now I earn monthly through passive income. I'm planning on retiring when my kids finish college.

[@eadad4371]

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[@eadad4371]

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[@emeldcentor1474]

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[@stephaniefythm]

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[@emeldcentor1474]

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[@Legobuilding111]

I know the way out! This is: Islam! There’s no other way, but Islam! I don’t even want to cry because of the sadness of the world! I want my tears fall only because I fear Allah! I never want to cry because of one person! And the pain is not forever! We have ups and downs. It’s not possible even if you want to be sad forever, you will anyway smile one day! And what’s healing that: in Quran it is said that there is ease after difficulty. And difficulty is mention only once, ease is metioned two times. So, there’s one sadness and two happiness.

[@heenanaaz2003]

But it's so painful... 😭

[@acmilanmilan7366]

it is

[@ismiachi]

Yes it is.. Only time and pray will heal us..

[@Chimu54567]

@@nemophila3334 I know it’s one of the most painful thing

[@ismiachi]

I hope I could hug you.. I also feel hurt... It's not easy

[@bedowntoearth1591]

Yes it's so painful

[@jenni_noura9170]

I'm going through divorce my husband decided it. He said he doesn't love me and I'm 3 months pregnant I cried alot. I worry for baby because I have hard time eating

[@AkramBaig2689]

Nobody has guts to stay together or die fir each other or be a team

[@rahilatahir618]

May Allah give you better compensation.. give you patience to bear with this grief

[@ismiachi]

Sending virtual hug for you sis.. Please love your self and your baby, your husband didn't deserve high value woman like you..

[@sehrishzainab8056]

@@nemophila3334 well said sister.. I'm also going through the situation where he doesn't want to accept me nor he is ready to leave me ..but he married to another girl ..and i have 1 yr old daughter . He doesn't want me to move on in my life.. I don't know wat is written in my fate ..I'm just trusting Allah's plan

[@razamughal9095]

The divorce does not come into effect until the baby is born

[@Nisha-vh2mr]

My husband married an another women literally I cudnt digest it it's very very hard for me...he is asking me to accept him...i cannot see him other women's hand I cannot even think....I feel I cannot live with him anymore thinking for an divorce....am I sinfull can I do what I wish for

[@razamughal4582]

yes it hurts. but the truth is that women today are WORTHLESS because they stopped four marriages

[@adamopez5815]

If you divorce husband because he took another wife….yes you are sinfuk

[@eyahesma3831]

After 6 years, he has decided to divorce me. I am a revert and divorce is just too difficult for me as I see marriage as a "forever" thing. I didn't know he was struggling with his feelings for me throughout this time. Of course I made a lot of mistakes but I thought perhaps if he just communicated his struggles with me, I would've been able to address them. But now there's no chance he says as it's final for him. Ya Allah, I am so lost I don't know what to do. My emotions are just a roller coaster ride. All I wanted was a stable, family life. But now it's finished and I don't get any chance. I feel so insecure and depressed. Please make dua for a struggling, divorced, Muslim revert.

[@NadiaAhmed-n8g]

I'm glad my narcissistic husband is leaving, but worried financially he used to provide for everything. What should I do I can't work

[@razamughal4582]

You have the benefit system.

[@NadiaAhmed-n8g]

@@razamughal4582 that's not enough atall

[@S1290]

From which surha he is reciting this aaya plz tell surha and aaya number

[@qilafura]

my husband treated me in horrible way before forced to divorce me. And betrayed me. He put blame all to me. Because i keep fight angry. Is all wife mistakes if husbands not properly guide her? 😢😢😢

[@serene03422]

There are many such men and their support system who go no end to slander and shame. It's not possible to go to everyone trying to explain your side. Keep peace with thought that you were not the oppressor and you will get reward for your pain. No it is not easy. It is not possible to understand how can we be given such pain when we did our best. It is simply that they were not good people and did not deserve you. Start a fresh, pick yourself you. Grt your health in shape, be with people who love and support you. Try getting some way to help your finances. Bring yourself closer to Allah SWT. He sees every deceit every slander and every manipulative action. You keep your heart protected from bitterness and sadness. The days ahead are a blessing, a gift. Breathe fresh air away from toxic people and say Alhamdulillah.

[@AkramBaig2689]

This is really confusing why leave each other for over small issues.

[@ubaidrazi97]

Because, a lot of distraction surrounds us and lack of our dean knowledge.

[@SF-jf3xv]

Because it's simple, people are weak and are easily led astray from the Shaytaan. Instead of fighting and fixing, some people are cowards and tend to run away. Trust me, you do not want to be with a person like that. Allah has saved you and it is truly their loss.

[@AkramBaig2689]

@S F yes , many societies don't think like that always women in favour even she lies

[@lordmasterization]

Because of cowardice and stupidity. Which are in ample supply unfortunately.

[@zainabferoz9082]

Am i right to divorce my husband if- 1) He is having Erectile dysfunction ( not always but 50 % of the time) 2) Suffers from depression frequently ( he stops talking to me completely in depression for days and weeks and inturn expects me to call and text) and blame me that i am the one responsibile for his depression since i didn't text or called. 3) Discuss every minute details of our relationship and fight with his father Other wise he is a very nice person, very polite and caring I don't know what to do i have been married for about 8 months please guide me

[@hajira5013]

I know a sister has arranged marriage her husband has erectile dysfunction 90percent of the time on tablets but when he dies it’s mainly what he likes they don’t love each other kids cuddle or intimate but he wanted kids they never made love or had sec for pleasure only the moment to have kids the moment they had kids

[@tinkuroopa2754]

The moment you got the idea to divorce your husband means you will surely divorce your husband one day or the other because there is no attachment and affection in your relationship. So divorce your husband as soon as possible without any confusion.

[@razamughal4582]

first of all get him to start treatment.

[@fantasticfractals9583]

just divorce him please Sister and move on. i gave my husband a chance and nothing changed. He's he same but we have a child now ao we're stuck. please just move on early on.

[@serene03422]

First try to take him to assess his physical and psychological issues medically. Give time for treatment and therapy. If he declines to be treated or things don't change after treatment then take a decision. Children can wait till you decide on this with mutual consent. May Allah SWT guide you.

[@bkhan4358]

Divorced looking for a husband. What can i do for financially stability

[@DavidGees-qr9uz]

Brothers i cannot tell you the pain that talaq can cause when you talaq 3 times only to live to regret it and your one and done the pain you caused your wife i believe is 10 fold put back on you if Allah wills or more the hardest thing in my life the best thing my Shahadah the hardest thing is my reckless and regretful talaq of a wife when we could have worked things through if we both really wanted and tried and gave time to think and really assess and speak to the elders in the family honestly you break her heart and Allah will one day shatter yours even if you think you could never ever think anything positive of your spouse Allah is All Powerful and the Best of Planners

[@razamughal4582]

Men often regret giving a talaq. This is why the second caliph in Islam, Umar ra carried out capital punishment on men who gave three talaqs at once. This is PROOF (of many) that three talaqs are three. Because otherwise there would be no base to give or receive capital punishment when there was no dispute that three are one. Obviously everyone agreed that three are three thats why it was implemented and the sahabah took heed.

[@hinafatima9245]

I want to ask this It was budging me that marriage is favourite near Allah. Allah loves the bond of husband and wife. So my friend said why do people divorce when Allah doesn't like it. Why people divorce can't they take their problems as an exam from Allah why do they part ways. Why can't they just stay in relationship even if its toxic because shaytaan loves to separate husband and wife so why they can't hang on. My argument is that what if its an emotionally abusive relationship, what if husband or wife have became mental patient. Can they not part ways ? Because if I argue about this to a friend they say that why can't you take it as an exam after all whole life is an exam. If husband/wife abusing their other half then it should be taken as an exam because they are doing it because Allah made them do it. Please someone guide me about this.

[@hinafatima9245]

@@nemophila3334 ikr but there's this friend who keeps asking these question whenever there is debate on divorce

[@sehrishzainab8056]

When both husband and wife are not able to adjust with each other then Allah told us to part ways...in a kind manner. Not by blaming the other partner or making false allegations upon them . Allah told us to separate in a best manner because if they live in such a toxic relationship it will affect on their kids ..their kids will see those things whatever is happening with their parents. And they will have bad impact on their mind . As per my knowledge I said ... Rest Allah knows the best

[@hinafatima9245]

@@sehrishzainab8056 Jazak Allah

[@sehrishzainab8056]

@@hinafatima9245 wa iyyakum

[@madimad7429]

your friend is wrong Allah never make a person do wrong. they do wrong on their own will. Allah just don't stop them from doing bad because it's a test of the temptation and nags.

[@smeedex9079]

Am i right to divorce my husband if: - he asks my wealth money and gold and does not provide for me - he avoids me in every ways - He gives care protection concern and love to female cousins - he asks my mahar back - he tells he dont have experience to love a wife - he makes lots of debts and expects me to pay off with what is given from my family -he has no concern for my pains, my anxiety,depression We had only two months of marriage and he went abroad He feels irritated when i call him. He says he is busy. But he makes calls to relatives. He continuously demands me to be an idol daughter in law and wife. I dont know what to do Please reply.... I am 27 .And i am afraid will allah punish me for divorcing him??? I dont know... I dont feel like i am loved,cared,protected .

[@fathimahadhfa2792]

going through hard times. believe in yourself and allah.

[@smeedex9079]

@@ayshaayshzz5431 how did you move on?

[@smeedex9079]

I didnt divorce , but its been months since we got separated.

[@smeedex9079]

Alhamdulillah sister.Allah has taken bad things to give you better.In my case i dont know whether i could divorce him without a huge financial loss.May allah lead me a way to move on...

[@smeedex9079]

@Javeria Javed What will you do brother if you were in my shoes as a woman? Its been 4 months since he talked to me.

[@sadafzahra2437]

Aoa.diovorc fews 6 months.😢.v deppression.upset.ill.no money.no house.no kids.😢😢😢😢😢

[@aamirbukhari3453]

Do following 4. Daily Salaat ut Tasbih 5. Daily Tahajjud for at least 2 hours: 30 mins namaz, 30 mins Quran Recitation with translation, 30 mins zikar 100-300 each of 3rd kalima, istikhfar, Durood. 30 Mins Dua for self and from Mujanaat e Maqbul Daily sadqa Listen to famous muslim scholars on sabar, depression and shukar

[@semuti6059]

I decided to divorce my husband because he don't give me &children's his time we have 4 children his brothers are live with us and he give all his time for his brothers and his work and he don't give me enough money...and his family is always emotionaly abusive and now i cought him cheating not having sex with them allahu a'lem but he texting with them and he go to their work places now i'm tiered of him i try alot but he did't change sorry for my English

[@Girlontherun2]

May Allah bless u with everything good in future ❤️

[@fantasticfractals9583]

sis try harder

[@safiyahislam1163]

Are Muslim women to keep good relationship with her ex father in law as he’s her mahram?

[@8KilgoreTrout4]

I'll tell you EXACTLY what happens during and after a divorce.... ISLAM LEAVES THE CHAT, if you get what I'm saying!

[@sameemrasheed1392]

Allah never instituted DIVORCE. DIVORCE was instituted by man. So the only teachings on DIVORCE in Islam should be that it's displeasing to Allah.

[@fateessearchformeaning7824]

Initiated divorce is displeasing to Allah but if divorce was written in fate nobody could change it

[@razamughal4582]

divorce is in the QURAN. learn the abc of your OWN religion.

[@zumeraaa]

Allah SWT made divorce halal. Sometimes it can be a blessing from Him. Sometimes Allah SWT has better plans for people.

[@sabaahatali]

Surah talaq???????