What happens AFTER marriage? Q&A with my BEST friend

[@Seagate1981]

MashaAllah. May Allah increase both of you in knowledge and raise your darajaat.

[@ummyoms]

Jazakallahukhayr! Allahumabarik 🥹💕

[@sailorzuna7237]

Yes I loved the first one you guys did I love hearing intelligent women speak mashallah god bless you guys

[@ummyoms]

Awwww so glad you enjoyed it my love! And welcome back to part two 🥹💕 so honored hahaha! Allahumabarik

[@selmasuleyman9966]

I’m 16, nearly 17 and thinking about marriage inshaAllah, jazakallah khayr sisters❤❤

[@semihat1630]

Lmao y'all actually bring me so much joy. Watching these make me feel like I'm talking to good friends , may Allah allow the sisterhood to be reunited in jannah 🥰🥰. These Q&As are so great!!

[@Totallyfine29_]

21 single lady here watching 👀😭

[@sabrinanailadastiana3505]

The 24 single lady join the group 😌🥺

[@Totallyfine29_]

@@sabrinanailadastiana3505 May Allah praise us ❤️

[@semihat1630]

@@sabrinanailadastiana3505 22 and single here too lol, don't worry girlies. When it's our time, it'll happen (Allah's got us)!

[@authenticallyaisha]

I loved watching this. Y’all are so insightful but also so fun MashaAllah 😂 thank you for sharing

[@Rosenyc]

Ahhhh I screamed when I saw u posted I’m so happy there’s another part to the first video 😂❤ can’t wait to watch this tomorrow while I do laundry . I love both of ur vibes and how funny u guys are without even trying! Much love from nyc !!

[@ummyoms]

Awwwwww HEY LOVE welcome back 😭💕 I’m so glad you enjoyed the first part hahaha! Let me know what you think inshallah, I feel so honored we made it to the laundry playlist 🫶🏾

[@peaceeoutt]

you guys are hilarious! looking forward to next part inshallah. may allah bless you both 🤍

[@ummyoms]

Awwww ameen ya rabbal alameen my love, thank you for your kind words and support

[@user-xc5wz4xj4r]

Questions: (1) How do you approach still figuring out your goals whilst finding a spouse? My main ones if I were to get married in my 20s would be doing da'wah and seeking knowledge, but I'm still figuring out others more specific to me to maintain my individuality. (2) What are ways you can still remain connected to the community as a wife? What are the limits when it comes to balancing your marriage with other aspects of life?

[@ummyoms]

Awww these are such good questions! I love them so much because they’re introspective and relevant to us especially as young women in the West 🥹 will definitely answer these inshallah.

[@twonilesco1241]

love your content! Thank you for sharing your world with us, beneficial information.

[@muslimah6326]

This was very beneficial Allāhumma Baarik❤️

[@ummyoms]

awww alhamdulilah jazakallahu khayr my love! So glad you enjoyed

[@Rosenyc]

12:13 when I tell u I’m laughing soooo hard 😂😂😂 I’m just like u laylah kind communication is haaaard I’m not mean but I just say it how it is and no one like it 😂😂

[@alittleblawg]

First video I ever watched from y’all was the first one in this series and in SOOO excited to watch more of y’all i’m learning so much and laugh while at it too

[@ummyoms]

lol welcome to the keke club my love 😂 I’m so glad you enjoyed that video alhamdulillah we definitely gonna keep the series going for a bit hehe

[@alittleblawg]

@@ummyoms jazakallah khair!! yes lol i can’t wait to see more LOL

[@mwacheas]

Yall are too funny😂 wpuld love if yall did this more with any topic❤

[@iamsaffa]

Love everything about this video

[@starsighting7167]

25 and still single😢

[@semihat1630]

Don't worry, keep making dua, Allah's got us! Maybe try seeking help from a local masjid as well 💕

[@adunyabalash9224]

Mesha Allah sisters I love your outfit may Allah increase your strength to continue wearing your niqab and make it easy for me to wear it one day Insha'Allah but I have faber to ask "can you be my friends please" maybe you guys will motivate me to wear niqab one day Insha Allah

[@maryamabubakar3072]

what can I do to help my husband financially in a young marriage , barakAllahu feekum guys this is very helpful

[@ummyoms]

I got you in a follow up video my love! Inshallah it'll draw from experience

[@peachgumdrop8067]

MashaAllah, watching the two of you is soooo fun! I was wondering, could you make a video about polygeny in the muslim community? I'm a revert, and its something I really dont want for myself, but at the same time, I feel wrong for saying that since its allowed in Islam? Is it wrong to feel that way?

[@ummyoms]

For sure! To be honest, feeling that way is very natural. Polygny might not be for everyone and that's ok. There are blessings in it for those who participate in it, just as there are blessings in non-polygynous marriages alhamdulilah. :) As for myself, I wouldn't participate in it unless I was much, much older. I personally got too many daddy issues to share my husband with another woman and I wouldn't want to treat her, him or myself unfairly lol.

[@peachgumdrop8067]

@@ummyoms Thank you sooo much!! This is super reassuring😭♥️

[@Beebop21]

@@peachgumdrop8067you can put it in your marriage contract when you’re getting married you don’t want to participate in polygamy

[@marley6544]

Alhamdullilah and thank you for your advice! May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala reward both your efforts! I might be a little late but if y'all decide to make another q&a could you talk about in laws more? I dont have a IG so i can't ask on there but could you give advice on dealing with in laws that there may be a negative relationship with? My MIL is a lil racist and mad my husband married outside their race lol and we live with her right now and I'm struggling lol. Anyways have a great day ladies!

[@ummyoms]

Of course! This is definitely on the list inshallah planning to record this with my sister in law :) I’m Somali and they’re Sudanese and it took us years to get to where we are at now Alhamdulilah