What Happens as the Narcissist Ages.

[@vivlove3083]

A narcissist once told me he doesn't like drama. I'm still laughing.

[@vanessajohnson6077]

Wow the narc I dated use the "THEY COULDN'T DEAL WITH MY 😳 NEGATIVITY !!!!.. 😵‍💫😅🤣😂

[@vivlove3083]

@@vanessajohnson6077 That's a good one too...lol

[@AvecPoesie]

I've found that anyone that feels the need to make declarative statements about "Drama" is usually always creating the "Drama" themselves.

[@angelitagocool3537]

Lol me too

[@vivlove3083]

@@AvecPoesie He was the queen of drama.. Always had to be the center of attention. Always arguing Abt stupid stuff 😂.

[@charliewilliams3787]

Absolutely true, narcissists get worse with age

[@pricelessgems1396]

Yes indeed. Mine is so full of himself .He shaved his face today he was like he really looks young. And he is sorry bcuz he didn't wanted to look so young

[@tovenrvik6336]

@@pricelessgems1396 An Psychologist told that Narcissists are only 8 - 11 years old, emotionally ‼️✳️ Starseed

[@dannajernigan4259]

It is so sad to watch self destruction when everyone knows truth and enablers are stripped away

[@richardstevens7547]

Watched it with my father. He just got worse by the years. And it wasn't bigotry, it was racism. Literally a 200 lbs 5yo threw a temper tantrum in the store. I was shocked.

[@kathleenclark138]

Why this woman is describing the monsters in charge of the US government.

[@daughteroftherighteousking8809]

The demons become more and more in control of them. It's spiritual

[@dannysims5914]

Facts...

[@seannewoods2296]

It's chemical. It's not demonic. They know ehT they are doing and can pass a psych test.

[@daughteroftherighteousking8809]

@@seannewoods2296 that's bcus they have monitoring spirits. The root of a narc is trauma as a child. This creates an opening for the enemy to come in. It's very evil and deceptive. That only comes from one place.

[@SJocntrvln]

@@daughteroftherighteousking8809true👍

[@AuntTassid]

Completely given over to a reprobate mind.

[@drumdad54sdl47]

Unlike wine, which gets better with age, a narc more resembles milk as time goes by.

[@SimbaAliaye]

Good one!

[@tracynewton3083]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Bit like dog poo bags flung into trees, totally un necessarily and still hanging around.

[@laurafeher9694]

Outstanding

[@MA-yv8dw]

😆😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😬❤💪👍

[@MA-md3gu]

👏🏽😀

[@julzgulz1992]

This is happening with my mom. Sadly she’s like this because of all the abuse her narcissistic dad did to her and she’s desperate for love supply. I’m torn between hating her and feeling so absolutely sorry for her.

[@christinapenrose6906]

You're extremely generous for giving the latter any consideration whatsoever. I'm sure that your kindness is a testament to your character. Best of luck, regardless of your path! :)

[@jenninemorel7693]

You must forgive and detach with love.

[@motorcityblacksheep121]

This is my mom and aunt. Best thing I ever did for myself was stand up to them, and then go no contact. Wouldn’t recommend the standing up for yourself, gets you nowhere fast, just angry and gives them fodder for being the victim.

[@mejayne4210]

Me too! Sounds like my sister!

[@freeyourselfoftoxicity]

I know exactly what you mean. That's just how relationships with Narcs are. Hang in there, it'll eventually pass with time when tou work on yourself.

[@carolbearce5318]

The delusional thinking was off the charts …

[@karoshi2]

@Bob Shingles Totally. I presumably had hacked WhatsApp in order to change a message she had sent. And I'd be hacking her email. She "knew" because she usually had a bad internet connection when reading mails on her phone. Or the kids had forgotten something at my place, so we agreed that I'd bring it over in an hour. When I did, hung it to the door in a bag and told her by text, I have been "caught stalking her". Told her I don't and am not interested in doing so. Thus she raged because I wouldn't value her enough to do that. 🙄

[@sheliawashington2163]

Far beyond simple minded

[@bn8706]

The worst is when people support the delusions of these people (like management at work) when your actually feeling cringe because you get it.

[@rearrangingdeckchairs]

@@bn8706 Aka the legacy media and its simping for Amber Heard

[@TIMSTURBO]

Their fiction quickly becomes their unquestionable reality

[@karenfisher4170]

Do they actually believe it? Or do they really insist YOU believe it? 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Michelle-ld9vj]

So true it's sad but they are pathetic people and have very low self-esteem and try to damage yours.

[@tovenrvik6336]

The Covert Narcissist are fragile and double wounded, they can be triggered only by standing beside a confident person ‼️

[@killadjango6995]

agreed 💯💯💯🎯

[@audreyxatomic]

I’m sorry if a narcissist has hurt you, but statements like this are pretty toxic as well. I don’t think it’s a choice for your brain to be wrong… the actions are, but if you don’t know what it’s like to have a broken brain, it’s a little harsh to criticize someone who does.

[@debbieplatt165]

​@@audreyxatomicthe damage a narcissist does to those closest to him/her is very difficult to reverse, if at all possible. Narcissists are fully aware of what they are doing.

[@FamilyReunionPhotography]

I wasn’t at all surprised to learn that my devout Assembly of God Covert Narcissist Mom (she was an A/G church secretary before going to work at A/G Headquarters where she retired from) recently sold her house that held 46 years of hoard. She was abusive to the crew hired to help her clean it out. (So glad it was no longer my job!!!!) She now brags that she’s living in Maranta Village, an A/G assisted living facility. She brags because you must be vetted by your pronounced faith to live there and in her own words, “It’s where the A/G missionaries and pastors get to live.” 🤢 Who cares. She still wears her wedding ring and plays the roll of devoted wife to her late husband, and professes that they were high school sweethearts and never had a fight. She never admits that my enabling father mentally checked out of the marriage years after they wed. Dad even went as far as to volunteer to work 2nd shift so he didn’t have to spend that much time together. He was miserable but never had the guts to stand up to her and that cowardly man stood by and watched what she did to me, the scapegoat… never once standing up for his daughter. So now she portrays herself that she’s living the dream. I’d like to say that she now will be found out, but honestly they all seem to be brainwashed and go around like their in some sort of a cult. So thankful I escaped.

[@laurafeher9694]

Remain Strong ❤️

[@Myrtle_stara]

DEEP. THANKS FOR SHARING

[@teresachapman205]

The exact dynamics I dealt with. Looking back, I can't imagine how he slept at night(my father). I can't imagine how they slept at night after treating me so horribly day in and day out.

[@FamilyReunionPhotography]

@@teresachapman205 I'm sorry that you were able to relate.

[@deborahjohnson1065]

I hope you are not following in her footsteps.

[@peacefaith560]

They get worse !! And yes they are pathetic, insecure, miserable creatures

[@camilleizzo2811]

TRUE! And add hearing loss, failing health, flying monkeys waking up to the truth of what they sided with and the inability to obtain more supply. DESPERATE IS AN UNDERSTATEMENT!

[@k.g.m.254]

Understatement

[@TheHomieIsMe]

They really lose a lot! My father his eyesight my mom hair and eyebrows

[@MA-yv8dw]

Ive NEVER seen an adult so desperate for ATTENTION😆😆😂😂😂😂 buy, say ANYTHING FOR attention

[@dannajernigan4259]

Exactly 😱

[@kimj4402]

When the flying monkeys eventually wake up they'll get one hell of a shock!

[@spiritualassassin7129]

My sister is a narcissist she’s so pathetic the constant devaluing is so hilarious you don’t even get offended anymore they look MAD

[@michaelzero5278]

Get her out of your life

[@spiritualassassin7129]

@@michaelzero5278 I did it's going on 2 years and for the rest of my life. Never tolerate toxicity even if it is from family.

[@teresadvorak6145]

😂😅😂😅 your right

[@TT-cj3ek]

I know a guy that is over 50, still dresses and behaves like a teenager and still chases women in their early 20’s and makes babies . These women all think they caught a good one until he devalues them like trash he makes them believe they are . And the cycle becomes generational and it’s pathetic , sad and maddening .

[@tovenrvik6336]

An Psychologist told that Narcissists use the lovebombing phase to create Dopamine in the brain of a victim, to make them believe they are in love wt them ‼️

[@alevela9309]

Obviously he knows how to spot a damaged chick. These people have made it their life's work to spot the weaknesses and triggers in others.

[@MissAllaCinderella]

Yes! 💯 When I started talking to him less and less, he randomly started sending me money online- just so that I’d answer his calls! (And then he would be super nice for like 10 mins… and then alternate between acting like a victim, and respond like I was the one bothering him!) 😳🤦🏼‍♀️

[@diamondsglitter2771]

Lmao.. well at least you got paid for the trouble. If I were you, as soon as he starts with his nonsense, I would say " your $50 has expired now. Please send more money of you want to continue this phone call..

[@PamMcGarvie]

Set up automatic deposit on your account 😉😉

[@MissNyPeachJerseyAppleBottom]

This I’m starting think the so called friend of mine is this way

[@michaelzero5278]

@@diamondsglitter2771 hahahaha

[@michaelzero5278]

Easy money

[@angelahall4402]

I love that they think they are happy but ultimately alone with their delusions of grandeur.

[@Stacey-s7o]

You just described my mother who's meaner than rattle snake 🐍.

[@wishIwuzskiing]

These behaviors are one of the many reasons to prepare the children of narcissist parents for this stage so they understand and recognize it and don't get pulled in to this even more dangerous phase.

[@allywolf9182]

Too late lol..... at least for me

[@TheeGoddessQUEEN]

My son is 5. I’m thinking of putting him in therapy until he’s old enough to know better before his narc dad corrupts him.

[@wishIwuzskiing]

@@TheeGoddessQUEEN Expert advice and guidance is important for young kids. They don't have the emotional and analytical toolbox to make sense of irrational and hurtful behaviour. Protect that innocent and delicate soul! And yours as well!!

[@ataerabella]

@@TheeGoddessQUEEN you are right. Narcs teach the next generation how to be Narcs. They may spend a great amount of time or try custody to get the child alone. Keep notes and put the issues on record with a journal or the police. All receipts. This is also a spiritual battle. Learn about the father's blood line and break the chains and covenants with the enemy made through his line & chains your bloodline as well. How to do this? Watch this movie: War Room

[@optimalscore]

I wish I had learned this sooner, my poor kids having to deal with menace at most vulnerable stages in their lives & it's just heartbreaking! I tried to let them see who their father really is by allowing him to be a so called leader of the home....Big mistake...his whole family are all narcissists also. I saw the signs in a family gathering one time & now in hindsight that was enough for me to realize what I was dealing with. My poor babies, I'm trying to get things together for them & make a move soon🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@boogieuggie7865]

Phew!!!!! So glad to be out of that relationship! They are trully pathetic.

[@oliviadunkley1146]

Your articulate words are like music to my ears, and daggers to a narcissist.

[@tombullard6167]

Raised solely by an undiagnosed NPD & just suffered life circumstances where i had to move back in with her... I feel like I'm living in hell again & am so angry I ended back up in this position. Shes already sabotaged half my life & I was finally starting to make progress on myself after 30yrs of self loathing & self hatred from knowing nothing but Narc manipulation, control, & vengeance u whole life. I just yearn for another rational logical person to share myself with... So tired of being alone bc the NARC sabotaged everything driving everyone & everything away except her pure selfish narcissism. I'm getting so tired & feel myself slipping into deep depression bc it's a non-stop night & day constant struggle to stay calm & not become that person I was before self realization. I'm too strong to fall back into the addiction & self hatred that seems so truly enticing & inviting right now. I just keep telling myself to do more & do better bc i don't want this I really don't but its so utterly exhausting & soul draining to deal with. Literally wish I even knew what the most basic concepts of parental love or any love outside self love would feel like. Its devastating & beyond harmful to only have an undiagnosed NPD be the 1 person solely responsible for you, your education, your health, your social interactions, your life including all of childhood, teenage years, & decades into adulthood be your "upbringing". She was never a mother so I never knew motherly love or nurturing or empathy... She has 6 brothers & sisters yet NOONE has ever helped or stepped in... Failed by my only "parent", failed by family, failed by friends, failed by school, failed by the system, & now failed by life... I don't know what I did in a past life to deserve the suffering & trauma i endured but I truly sincerley don't ever wish another soul to ever suffer 0.01% of it.... Much love, stay safe, enjoy hobbies!

[@happycat0411]

When one looses touch with reality, one looses their very sanity.....

[@happycat0411]

@Bob Shingles I used to think that if narcissism (both overt and covert) was due to a subconscious mental disorder but if that was the case why would the narcissist deliberately brag to others about what they did? The only logical explanation is the narcissist knows exactly what they are doing and their actions are indeed 100% intentional. Narcissism is an extremely ugly mental disorder and I've been through the worst of the worst with all the narcissists I have to deal with. Just limit your contact to as little as possible with the narcissist. No contact is better since this gives the narcissist less supply as narcissists need supply as a means to boost their low sense of self/ego.

[@justme8274]

@@happycat0411 it’s very confusing and scary how far outta their way and how much time, energy they put into things that they don’t even have any interest in just to keep up with the idea that there perfect and to never be wrong. Your right it’s best to distance as much as possible. They are also great at focusing most negative nasty energy directly at someone or something while pretending to be the kindest most positive person all at the same time. It seems so exhausting to even think about. Not to mention you can’t trust anything they say, it hard to even tell if they believe there own bs sometimes bc at times it really seems like they truly be their own lies and other times it’s like it’s just a big game, either way nothing about a person that’s like this is gonna be good for anyone

[@happycat0411]

@@justme8274 You are 100% correct! At least you are not dealing with an entire family of narcissists. Why am I not like my other family members? I'm not really sure but I do think that a lot has to do with my going to university, socializing with other academic like minded students, and also getting my Masters as well. I do know that narcissism is the result of extremely poor parenting practices as our parents from Asia had grade 6 education at best and zero parenting background. Narcissists harm/hurt others because harming and hurting others boosts their fragile egos. Be extremely careful around narcissists because their mentality is if you are not on their side (meaning that you are one of their flying monkeys that they require to boost their self poor esteem) you are against them. BTW ~ Once you have the basic foundation for narcissism, then comorbidity can set in. Which means "covert" and "malignant" can also develop. You have to be extremely careful around narcissists because like most mental disorders narcissists aren't aware that they have a mental disorder.

[@autk]

My uncle took a left turn at about 60, became an insufferable ass of epic proportions and his arrogance, always there, became intolerable to most and he was oblivious to it all in his faux superior smugness... unreachable.

[@Laura-nl8df]

That makes sense. I thought maybe they're just running out of people and get more desperate.

[@rustylee68]

I used to get so frustrated and at times thought I was going crazy, I feel so relieved now I know about this condition, thank God I'm not crazy after all! 😊

[@michaelzero5278]

Run and don't look back

[@JC-bu6vl]

This is why I had to go no contact with my abusive mother. She became very scary.

[@lilac624]

I was raised by my abusive mother and aunt .

[@tatianar.421]

Yep, I work with a narcissistic woman, and people would tell me that to ignore her that it was going to pass, with time what I noticed was that she was getting more comfortable with her strange abuse by making fun of me behind my back and later pretend she did nothing. She was also influencing other enablers to join her!! I put every single sense aside and stated confronting her and her friends in their own crazy territory, this was hard for me to do but it had to be done to make them stop, and yea it improved the situation for me

[@alevela9309]

Yeah, it's also happened to me in I'd say at least the last three jobs I've had....the smear campaign that is...and sometimes outright abuse. Yes it does help to stand your ground but I realize they will never stop being themselves. They will still smear you and will always set themselves up to be the victims if you ever fight back.

[@tatianar.421]

@@alevela9309 what blows my mind is the people that believe them. I think they contribute to maintaining their bs

[@michaelzero5278]

The kid who doesn't fight always get beat up

[@michaelzero5278]

@@tatianar.421 so true people are so blind it scary

[@tatianar.421]

@michaelzero5278 just be as sneaky of an a.h. As they are, they can also be setting you up to make you look crazy or start a case against you because once exposed they turn into victims in the eyes of public opinion and then do the laughing cartoonish thing so you can see it, this is all true exactly how I'm saying it

[@chadqudrot7525]

I saw my ex narc for the first time in two years listend to her testify against me in court and I was thinking the same thing that this person has become so delusional and pathological it's progressed and gotten even worse I can't imagine how it'll be in 10 years! Narcissism has to be the worst affliction or possession a human being can be consumed by! They are the least authentic human beings on the planet and maybe saying they're human beings is taking a little too far.

[@tovenrvik6336]

A Psychologist told that there's nobody home, inside an Narcissist ‼️

[@AlissaSss23]

Exactly like Amber Heard, now most of her friends and supporters saw her true colors and left her and there are more and more people supporting Johnny

[@arashigumdrop]

Sub humanoid creatures. Damaged. Permanently.

[@marilynschmidt6400]

​@@tovenrvik6336 They're a shell with nothing on the inside. My mother also wears different masks for different people 🙄

[@user-umcub]

I have autism i was seeing a narc but the thing is i am so blind to emotions and peoples intentions with me. Let me tell you that man literally tried to ruin my perception of time and my lived experience just because he couldn't manipulate my emotions. That man brough other women in my face and buy them expensive things and because i wasnt coming to him about it he was upset because that tactic was not working. After he learned i was in it for the sex he started to act like my friend and thats how he got me. I figured him out after a week because i started realising his patterns and i cut him off.

[@marleneflores2743]

Yup, sounds like a narc to me. Good for you. ❤️

[@m.f.richardson1602]

So true. Thank you, Jill

[@jonwilson704]

Married to one for 15 years. Divorce pending. It hurts because I love her so much but I have to finally put myself first. I never thought she’d be jealous of my kids, our kids. I’m amazed she could start new relationships with men but can’t fix her mouth to tell the kids she loves them or even hug them.

[@NM-yh5ek]

Good for you but this is so sad for the children.

[@virginiasturgeon4084]

I hope you fight for custody of your kids♥️

[@regaininglife9084]

I've noticed this pattern with Narcs. They don't really give a damn about their kids. They had kids as a way to entrap people in a relationship.

[@deborahjohnson1065]

I am right in the middle of this!!! I am so glad that you posted this video. THANK YOU...

[@isabelagasparini55]

I am also in the middle of this… it’s like watching a movie. 😞

[@rebeccagutierrez8170]

Stay safe you guys 🙏💖

[@lynnlicastro7349]

The best video Ive EVER HEARD..( cant find it again w you!) Is that they have more time on their hands and need chaos. Especially if they were on stage!! OMG Any fight, lie, attention, is better then peace or calm. He gets louder and the sarcasm to get a rise is amazing.

[@andrewlowe2962]

Absolutely, nailed it. Completely understand and appreciate your information, truly lifesaving.

[@zacharydavis4398]

Thank you for spending the time to create and share this content awareness/perspective

[@dajw7540]

My narcissist dad is 82 now, and you NAILED IT!

[@hhsg11]

Totally 100%. While I still lived in the house until he bought me out, I heard him saying to my replacement ‘There’s a bit of pleading in my voice to talk you into keeping this going with us’. He said something to trigger her a few days earlier and she wanted 2 weeks out thinking time. He had to get a mortgage and sell nearly all his shares to buy me out of the house we had only bought 3 months earlier. I had heard him ask her to move in once I was gone or sell both houses and consolidate. I was the 3rd woman he bought a house with in 7 years. While she was having 2 weeks out, he was on the phone to 3 new ones off the same website, I heard him tell one of his ‘harem’ (an ex) that he wasn’t putting his life on hold waiting for her. I don’t know what happened as I moved out a few days later. Desperation had set in for him, he needed someone as getting no more supply from me and if she had any sense she would run.

[@dosbabymama]

I was terrified of my father growing up. Nothing was ever good enough and I was constantly berated for the slightest infraction. My father barely spoke to me except to reprimand me. Fast forward, while taking care of my mom when she was on hospice, she told me not to feel like I have to have a relationship with him...just check in periodically. She also said to never be surprised by anything he does. I'd been seeing cracks for months while caring for mom but the day after the funeral, he must have lost his whole entire mind, because this man, who in 30+ yrs of marriage had never been faithful, thought he was going to tell me "the secret to a long happy marriage". I cut off the conversation and left. We've spoken one time since then, and it ended with me hanging up on him. I've since gone no contact with him and my brothers. I won't tolerate that nonsense anymore.

[@lsclegalservicingcenter6403]

Spot on …70yr old Mother. So difficult 🥺😳to deal. Access denied!

[@warpthumr47]

Very true. I saw the delusional & irrational thinking increase drastically and he was very pathetic after we separated. I assume bc he couldn't find the quality of fuel supply he was used to.

[@anamartafaial1916]

Yahhhhhh

[@LuvDaSkinUAreIn]

So very true !! Because my mother has gotten worse and worse over the years. I'm almost 40 and in the last couple years I have had to pull away from my mother more and more 😢 for my well being!

[@tovenrvik6336]

Adults often cut contact wt Narcissistic parents, they are tired of getting their boundries crossed all the time‼️Narcissists puts their nose into others buisness ‼️

[@diamondsglitter2771]

You did the right thing. I hope you stay no contact and find peace.

[@alevela9309]

@@tovenrvik6336 Yep, as soon as you demand the relationship stop being one-sided you will discover just what you meant to them the whole time, a source of narc supply and nothing more.

[@mariadesol5821]

THIS IS INCREDIBLE TO HEAR!!! 😱❤️🙏🏼. Such amazing truth, that it exactly describes what I was dealing with. I’m in the NEW reality now. The Doves are shedding light, while he goes through his false life

[@involuntarilycelebrate]

Oh girl you hit the nail on the head. I am a mixed black girl and my white mother has completely turned in her late seventies now that my black father is gone. Her best friend posting racist diatribes up on Facebook. She's hanging out with all these Trump supporters. She has my dad's ashes and his pictures and his money holding it hostage. I had to let it all go to find peace. A woman who once stood up against the KKK to protect me, now is essentially hanging out with those type of people. It made me realize that back then she wasn't protecting me Against Racism, she was doing it for herself.

[@NavyLady82]

Its true. My mom is 72 and its like she's losing her mind more and more.

[@jacquelyncamper1845]

OMG Were you reading my mind? My narc has what I call "The Old Man Crazy" disease. He is nuts. His reality is so off. He is cranky, mean & he has massive mood swings. 😒

[@AlissaSss23]

Sounds like my mum

[@malvinlujan6560]

Yep I can relate had to cut of a family member no contact just got way to bad

[@carolbratcher8972]

Well ,you know that as they age men's testosterone levels go down, so the estrogen ride can be a real bitch if your not use to it! You really got me at ,"The Old Man Crazy Disease!". Hahaha!

[@vickipankop6329]

God is our source.He gets me through each day . Pray for him or her .

[@sallyescobedo6438]

Yes I agree very angry cranky person who likes to pick fights with me over anything I’m so tired of kissing his ass and trying not to fight but this is getting old I’m so tired of it

[@MA-yv8dw]

It's the most DISGUSTING THING EVER! Makes you want to bury them in swamp💪💥

[@rowan5335]

My husband's family has many narcissists as well as some in my family and I have to see it as a form of brain damage. You can't help them no one can help them nothing can be done and they aren't happy. Scam artists are very similar because they also cannot change their thinking

[@meera2531]

It's a mental illness.

[@arashigumdrop]

Agree 💯. Many are actually high functioning autistic. Malformed brain areas aka brain damage. Autistic people are commonly diagnosed with NPD. It's both.

[@rowan5335]

@@arashigumdrop my son is autistic and is not at all narcissistic while his sister who is not autistic is very narcissistic along with the rest of my husband's family and most of mine

[@cocobenji6123]

Because they are demons in the bloodline not mental illness

[@rowan5335]

@@cocobenji6123 well I am sure demons are involved it is still a 🧠 problem

[@gerrimiller3491]

Thank you beautiful 💜I had experience with a narcissist in the past and Never allow these demonic dark souls that pretend so well in again. I spot them right away

[@MA-yv8dw]

🙏😞❤yeSsss know them by their 🍌 🍎 fruit. ROTTEN

[@trubushdrTHATSRIGHT-DR]

Another thing that helps? Break soul ties with said person.

[@tovenrvik6336]

The first red flag on a Narcissist is devaluation after lovebombing, when that comes in you are dealing wt a Narcissist and it's time to leave, they will get worse ‼️💎 Starseed

[@alevela9309]

After you gain knowledge you see they are everywhere... EVERYWHERE! It's like having the glasses from the movie "Them." And just like the movie, if they know you can see them, they come after you with knives out. I particularly hate them being in the workforce because they will game the system in their favor, take all the best jobs and resources for themselves , and launch a smear campaign against you.

[@trubushdrTHATSRIGHT-DR]

@@alevela9309 they realy are every where you go! Soon as anyone is "nice" to me anymore? I'm asking . What do u want? Lol but seriously

[@100nation5]

My ex narcissist would often give glues to her infidelity as she got older. It was almost as she wanted to get caught. She would bring up cheating as if it was healthy in a relationship. Being blatant in her actions not caring about the consequences.

[@michaelzero5278]

Most women are like that. I learn that most women fall narcissist spectrum.

[@Mira0Mirror]

I had to laugh!!!! Everything you said was beyond on point

[@alevela9309]

The "mask coming off" is something I think my mom is now facing with my step dad. Everybody asks why he is so abrasive now. She is constantly on the defense around him. Secondly, I think this applies to a failing society such as our own. Seems everyday now when I go out people are just so nasty now. Things I never had to deal with are now happening everytime I go out. People are rude, mean, selfish, and yes, more openly bigoted now. The masks are indeed coming off.

[@michaelzero5278]

It social media that what making this

[@no1ladyj69]

This is so true 😢

[@daniellartey6327]

I'm amazed by the freedom iv3 acquired since I went no contact with my dad. I'm now realizing how fucked up I was smh

[@AlissaSss23]

You were never fed up, it was always his fault

[@sherryanderson66]

Good morning from Mississippi!! Wow! This is so true! It’s terribly sad though and there’s nothing you can do. A narcissistic mother can cause mountains of emotional trauma in a daughter. As the parent ages, it does get worse. I’m 58 and I’m still trying to heal from all the emotional abuse. Thank you for the video!

[@ianimal36]

Oh my gosh. I had to pause at the first one. FFFFFFF________CCCCCCKKKKKKKK 😅okay. Okay, so just more bitter hatefulness projected onto others, yet seeping from their pores.

[@Christinamindingmine]

They do become more and more delusional with age.

[@harleyquinn5774]

This is why I must go no-contact with my Malignant Covert Narc sister after my parents are dead.

[@tracynewton3083]

Why wait you won't ever get your time and life back.

[@pn6528]

The time is now.

[@vanessas2363]

I can vouch for that. More dangerous. RUN!!!

[@lauragadille3384]

I saw all of this before my dad's passing. I really saw his wrath towards me days before his death. It's very hurtful.

[@bethgresham404]

I'm so very sorry you had to experience that. You have a Most High Father. He knows you and even knows how many hairs on your head. HE knows your ways You were wonderfully made. GOD BLESS

[@meera2531]

Always remember that it's not personal. He would do it to any other daughter in your place. Except if the daughter was also a narc. It's just them. They are mentally unwell.

[@pn6528]

@@bethgresham404 God bless you too Beth.❤

[@bethgresham404]

@@pn6528 OH HE TRULY DOES BLESS ME IM BREATHING TODAY!

[@N.gVanUytrecht]

Thankyou God All Mighty Your Wisdom And Protecting. Thankyou Angel For This Massage

[@arronmccabe5967]

They pathetically over time see how much abuse you're willing to take..

[@truthseeker-cz6lf]

I was able to bare all the abuse my wife dishes out now almost 50 years old, mother of 4 has gone so insane that is becoming physically abusive and she knows that my daughters won't put up with it so she is taking it out on me.

[@tracynewton3083]

Report her, get victim support help and advice its abuse first degree. Don't be alone with her, tape her record and date stuff. Keep pets away from them too. They break, steal, ruin your favourite things. It usually happens if they are having an affair, they devalue so you will stick around(trauma bond) whilst they groom the new supply, they have no empathy and can't love. Get your lives back, now. 🕊️🙏

[@lindasharpe7039]

@@tracynewton3083 Wow, maybe that's what's going on towards me. He messes with my jewelry after I called him out on his Gaslighting.

[@tracynewton3083]

@@lindasharpe7039 hmmm. Wow indeed. Hide everything you own in your home they know everything about you and your favourite things.

[@tracynewton3083]

@@lindasharpe7039 read about trauma bonding. They are deeply deeply insecure, so therefore you are the one for now who gives that emotional supply. When you call them out, they will start to devalue you, trauma bond so you feel so crap about yourself you can't move aka a spider in a Webb. He will esculate his behaviour and make you cry get angry, to a point they instill rage in you. So in my case I got beaten for saying the truth how evil his mother was and she was malipulating him,also he had lost because I called him outl like you did. You n court he had two previous cases and now if he comesnearmegoes to prison. Don't see them, see what or how they treat you when your no contact for space.

[@lindasharpe7039]

@@tracynewton3083 Thank You, He called me a narcissist today. It was hilarious, then it made me feel sad as his pattern. 💙

[@angee-llsmissujunbug1371]

#3 for me Wow yes !!!!!! It’s eye opening once I understood he is a narcissist I realized iam not the only supply .I feel so free now

[@ESumner]

You make me laugh out loud because it’s exactly the truth of my husband... I’m shook lol

[@chrystalcr3510]

It's hard when it's your own parent. You can't just walk away or look the other way. But to protect yourself and your little ones (if you have them)from their increasingly abusive and toxic ways, you have to set your boundaries in such a way that you may as well be walking away. The kids are confused because they can tell that you treat grandma a little different. You hope that you can explain it to them in a way that they can understand one day. Otherwise the narc won once again by giving your kids the impression that you are the problem and now you may potentially have a problem with your child forming incorrect memories and reacting to them behaviorally in the future.

[@happyhealthyblessed]

Andrew thank you so much so so much!!! 🙏🏻😊❤️💯

[@peterknyk1942]

OMG! Yes! Yes! Yes! So true! They just get worse!!!! 😱🤮😈😱

[@karenfisher4170]

This is helpful, thank you.

[@jimohkingslley196]

My ex wife mask completely slipped during divorce,where she forged my signature,but act like she didn't.I never understood why she got crazier the older she became there's so many different layers to a malignant narc its the most spookiest thing i will ever imagine

[@alevela9309]

My narc cousin coerced my dying grandmother to sign over her house to her while she was on heavy pain killers. My grandmother's signature looks like she wrote it with her left foot. Hell is indeed a bottomless pit.

[@jimohkingslley196]

@@alevela9309 straight predator.narcissism is at an all time high, beware.

[@regaininglife9084]

Always expect the worse. If you can imagine the most crazy thing possible a person can do, they will do it.

[@MC-342]

You are absolutely correct. I'm glad I cut them out. Someone else's problem now.

[@kirarasmom4274]

I am glad I have cut the cord with my Sister and Mom.

[@sunflower7045]

You just described the girl I stopped being friends with.

[@angelofthemosthigh7292]

You are so right...they get worse

[@Karenhypnotic]

And they die with little to no support. Reaping what they’ve sown.

[@killadjango6995]

bingo 💯💯🎯

[@janefreeman2789]

You just described my mother.

[@killadjango6995]

my father and mother. smh

[@michele2161]

The biggest battle I had with my ex is that he always and continually accused me of cheating on him and I wasn't. It got so bad that I started to save all my receipts so that I could prove where I had been. We would get in some screaming matches, let me tell you. He would even accuse me of having something going with the teenaged boy who pushes the carts around in the parking lot of the grocery store and that's exactly what would make me lose my shit with my ex.

[@godsgirl7201]

I've experienced and witnessed all this

[@manfocused]

This is all true, and it makes them even more dangerous as they age. I'm witnessing it happen with an older narc in my life now and it's scary.

[@regaininglife9084]

Yeah, their expectations don't fit the reality. They are getting more bitter and they blame it on everyone else.

[@chosenonpurpose489]

💕April 28, 2022💕 “AS YOU LOOK into the day that stretches out before you, you see many choice-points along the way. The myriad possibilities these choices present can confuse you. Draw your mind back to the threshold of this day, where I stand beside you, lovingly preparing you for what is ahead. You must make your choices one at a time, since each is contingent upon the decision that precedes it. Instead of trying to create a mental map of your path through this day, focus on My loving Presence with you. I will equip you as you go, so that you can handle whatever comes your way. Trust Me to supply what you need when you need it.” (JESUS CALLING)

[@k.g.m.254]

Didn't realize this until I recently got reacquainted with my narcissistic sister. Pathetic was an accurate descriptive word you used. 🎯

[@tonyawashington9116]

Omg, I thought he was just an Jerk! But this is so true

[@Marebo07]

WOW! you are right on the mark with what you're saying. With All of it in my case. More Miserable and angrier She finally killed herself in a car accident about a 1000' from my front door This happened in December We were apart for a while As awful as it is I hate to admit that I will miss her That's my sickness

[@tiffbeevachou108]

My narcissistic mother is engaged to a man who is younger than my youngest brother. She's delusional. She's 62 and he's 33.

[@andreasm9102]

What you have to say on this matter especially the different traits video was very helpful and so on the money, thankyou!!plus.. You are very beautiful.

[@karma4872]

And that’s where you do not react. They clearly stick out, they slip, they can’t back peddle.

[@stewarln52284]

I have also seen this play out in my ex narc, who was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Everyone tried so hard to help him but he literally ran off and self destructed with drugs, seggs workers, gambling, etc. He is still alive and year later- God wants him to suffer how he made so many suffer before

[@ramm8196]

This perfectly describes my girlfriend that I just broke up with 5 minutes ago as she attacked me on the phone and accused me oh having an affair because I didn't answer her phone call. I explained to her that I was talking to my father on the phone and was letting him vent as he told me my cousin was diagnosed with cancer and how upset he was about another family members situation that is too personal for me to post here. But I can't do this anymore with her... she simply is delusional!

[@lilo4399]

Justice For All Abuse Survivors! - Amber's getting her day in court!

[@killadjango6995]

💯💯💯🎯

[@Chahlie]

Aaww, I see you've met my mother. ... and my sister.... Imagine a 50 year old woman coming into my yard and kicking my patio furniture and flowerpots around. I hadn't spoken to her in 2 years. "How dare you be happy" :) Sounds like Putin actually....

[@millicentagina4483]

That is Soo sad ...it doesn't suite a mother

[@tovenrvik6336]

They are predators ‼️

[@christinaelena7279]

Putin waited until he was older to invade Ukraine. A realitive of mine started saying things that didn't make sense and were actually making things up to upset you. Your talking dementia maybe. Make sure you keep your distance.

[@laurafeher9694]

It's good to take that "@risk"behavior @ face value: happiness in others triggers them 😎

[@tovenrvik6336]

@@laurafeher9694 They want's to make others, as miserable they are themselvs ‼️

[@reneemoriconi7003]

I witnessed it. My 62 yr. old narc husband of almost 40 yrs. became even more and more delusional at the end of his life. He passed away last year from a 2 yr. battle with an aggressive cancer. He NEVER GAVE UP his narcissic behavior. I nursed him the whole time when he was sick even when he was so nasty, rude and mean to me. He was such a difficult patient, even though he didn't need to be. It was so hard. I tried my best and he would not show any gratitude, almost out of spite to me. I have a clear conscience though, because I know I gave my all in his time of need as a fellow human being. NOBODY else would have put up with his behavior. And yes, I did see how pathetic he really was and I think that was how I was able to endure his abuse when I took care of him in his last years. He became more and more like a hurt little boy in the end..His narcissim came from early childhood trauma, I realized that after it was all over..its no excuse, just reality..

[@rupertperiwinkle4477]

I wouldve let him fend for himself. Cancer or not.

[@DrMoorehen]

Ageing parent, so toxic

[@sarahjones6443]

When a narcissist talks everything is backwards. If they no they mean yes. If they say that they didn’t do it they are admitting they did. Even some people say once you find out who they are don’t take it personally. Nothing with them is real the only thing that’s real is their actions that’s speaks louder than their words

[@blackjackethare3973]

My coworker she is nice and she talks at you. Not too you. When she thinks nobody is listening she insults people. Even when you hear her, she starts with crazy making techniques. She starts by being nice then insults you in front of other customers then customers. Then goes back to being "nice" at the end of the day. She calls others psychotic and to me she embodies the word. It's work, I don't come there to brag, insult or gossip to get through the day because I enjoy tearing other people's sanity apart while working.

[@tovenrvik6336]

It's sounds like a Covert Narcissist, it's what my mother and her mother have done to me their Scapegoat, they also humiliates others in public‼️Others see them as nice if they haven't seen their abusive side, my sister the Golden child became a Covert Narcissist, too‼️My father was violent and abusive, an Malignant Narcissist, I'm not connected to family‼️

[@blackjackethare3973]

@@tovenrvik6336 You may be right about them. I'm finding there is a lot of this within the workplace. I'm sorry about all you've been through. I'm sure it has made you a stronger person.

[@tovenrvik6336]

@@blackjackethare3973 Yes, I'm strong, been tru Hell and back many times‼️Narcissists are exposed now by many videos at KZbin, that's what they fear the most, it's about time their abusive and inhumane behavior is getting known‼️I want's as many Narcissists as possible into jail, their abusive actions/Gangstalking shows their not capable to act human ‼️💎Starseed Heyoka.

[@dargeo1406]

Yep, they get unbelievably delusional. I didn’t even know my ex was a narcissist until he contacted me years later through a fake phone pretending to be someone “ I had talked to” sending me a picture of his married friend( thanks, google). He asked me out on a date that same day 👀…AFTER I told him I was already married. He also said he “deserved … a full body picture”. 😱Kept on going until I cut him off… Then, to top it off, he showed up in my driveway that night with that same friend. Just insane. They love popping out out of nowhere and pretend nothing happened when you split. Good thing WE remember everything. 🤷‍♀️

[@draegiles892]

This seems to answer why "Karens" behave the way they do.

[@Widget1950]

Do you know what being a Karen is?

[@THE_E007]

The devil hides behind narcissisism 💯

[@andrescosetti927]

Spot on…I’m still married to one and trying to get divorced after a decade is separation. Truly a caricature of her earlier self by now.

[@marvinmcgill]

O yes I have mine off and on for 2 years now had no contact for 4 months only times since I seen her on the bus a month ago walked right by her like I didn't even know her see looked up to then a week later she text me said hello then in another asked how I was doing from a new account told Her 3 times in my Text just like this THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME GO WHEN YOU TOLD ME NOT TO CALL U ANY MORE she to had gave me her number said call me please let's talk told her to keep being a bunny with someone else hop hop from 1 to another I'm not seeing any one I want to get over u and move on wasted to much time on a loser

[@marvinmcgill]

My friend seen my lady friend in a pic I jave been doing things as friends she I'm sure wants more then that she has hinted meany times he'd ask y r u wasting time with some one that doesn't respect u I'm 62 been around to meany countries I'm very intelligent I was 5th of my class of 500 I went ahead 1 grade in high school put myself through high school worked 3rd shift at a factory still went to school he woke me up last week about my worth more so last night I showed him and his wife the pic he said u 2 have so meany things in common y don't u settle with this woman not ready yet she knows it I need some me time it isn't fare to her

[@centrolinguisticoconsultor2495]

Inner thoughts of a narcissist´s mind - True questions taken from a narcissist´s writing 1. Why do I feel anger toward people and life? 2. Why can´t I rest my mind and thoughts? 3. Why can´t I live at peace with myself and be at peace with the people around me? 4. Why can´t I carry on long bonds of friendship? 5. Why don´t I feel good about myself and others? 6. Why don´t I accept myself as I would like to be/how I really am? 7. Why do I seek perfection in everything/in myself and in others? 8. Why can´t I really feel love? 9. Why can´t I love and accept myself as I am? 10. Why do I seek to be independent from anyone? 11. Why do I think that I don´t really love the people around me (family)? 12. Why am I so critical of myself and others? 13. Why do I have such low self-esteem? 14. Why do I sometimes doubt things/people/my faith/that things can and will change? 15. Do I really believe in the Supreme God? 16. Was I really such a bad person in the past? 17. Is that why I pay negative karma in this life? 18. Why was I abandoned by my birth mother and birth father? 19. Why was I adopted by a "sick" family? 20. Why was I never accepted by my step-sister and her supposed father? 21. Why don´t I even have a step- father on my birth certificate? 22. Why can´t I feel real happiness? 23. Why can´t I feel full gratitude for my life/even though I know I have everything to be grateful for? 24. Why am I so aggressive and sometimes so insensitive and cruel to myself and others? 25. Why can´t I sustain healthy relationships with people? 26. Why can´t I truly give myself to true love? 27. Why can´t I succeed professionally? 28. Why am I so wavering? 29. Why am I so insecure? 30. Why am I so afraid of death/and of losing the people I "love"? 31. Why am I so anxious? 32. Why do I have so many negative thoughts? 33. Why can´t I relax? 34. Who are my ancestors and forefathers? I need to know! 35. What can I do to improve as a person? I need answers! 36. And what will I do with all this after I get the answers? I´m writing a novel called: THE FAKE QUEEN AND HER N-SOME HUSBANDS - people following this channel and interested in learning more about my book, please write a feedback. Thank you!

[@marcharsveld2914]

The narc doesn't question him/herself. It's the victims that have a book with unanswered questions. It's in our heads and won't get out easily.

[@yamairad1]

Yup, my MIL keeps using "the devil" to put down things we say about the baby. Too bad that we aren't religious. Even if we were, a random person arguing "that's devil's work" every time she disagrees with us would never make us change our minds. I wonder if that has ever worked with anybody.

[@alevela9309]

Just got done rewatching Game of Thrones. The Red Sparrow religious cult character is just another false Holy man just like your MIL. Also seen the false Holy persona in my coworkers and family members. I read the Bible for myself whenever I want a religious experience, instead of going to church, and I keep it to myself.

[@colleenpalomino4276]

I definitely concur. This is so true.

[@Talkwithshida]

I notice the notice delusional part 😩😂

[@forgiven5919]

The only good thing about them getting worse and more petty is that hopefully more people see what they really are, instead of believing the lies she told about me.

[@peggyhusky3257]

I watch one call someone else one! That’s a trip. God calls it a reprobate minded person.

[@DELANODOMINICANO]

This is so true! I'm living this!