What Happens to Your Body When You STOP Having Sex

[@monicahwafula2120]

At 30yrs never had sex , I thank God for self control and grace. Am always confident, peaceful, I told God I never want to lay down with a man who’s not my husband.

[@leegaleaglenombo9430]

Hi, I'm so proud of you! I'm 32 and as much as it can be difficult, I'm glad that I've never had a man inside of me who is not my husband.

[@annshiru6055]

Woooo congratulations girls, may God send you good husband ❤

[@ledeajoasu3119]

Amen more blessings girls

[@monicahwafula2120]

@@leegaleaglenombo9430 thanks

[@galtina]

Be blessed 🎉

[@thefashionsuite]

6 years of abstinence and I’ve never been happier and more at peace. One thing I’ve also noticed is my prayers gets answered FAST!

[@thokozanimkhize7617]

Listennnnnnn!!!! I'm actually here for it😂

[@cherryblack4u]

Ppl think staying pure for God is a joke...it's not if you actually practice! Less distractions 💯

[@BeverleyMcIntyre-s5b]

Abstinen for 23years and happy amen

[@k3nz1eee_17]

@@BeverleyMcIntyre-s5b😮😮😮😮😮

[@juanna-lisasjourney6471]

Yes !!! My prayers are always answered. 10 years abstaining and I feel amazing ❤

[@plwhite40]

I’ve abstinent since 2015. Very happy. I love my own company. Zero drama. No infections. I am so happy.

[@maxineadderley5378]

👏👏👏🥂🍾🌹

[@Raggio4036]

Same Here. (Abstinent) Since 2015. I am 65. Divorced in 2015. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SURVIVOR 💜 💜💜💜💜💜💜🙏✝️💪🙏

[@pamelagodfrey2964]

Since 2019❤

[@princellasmith7562]

Zero male ego. Zero men playing in your face. 🎉😄

[@joypius-5750]

Heavy on the no infections😂😂😂

[@Letsbreal2023]

I was celibate for 16 years prior to getting married in 2023. I had no regrets and was determined to honor God with my body! 🙌🏾🥰

[@MGames-bu1dh]

ok

[@JuniorHendricks-b5w]

@@Letsbreal2023 question how was first time after 16 years for there are rumors saying its painful

[@Peach-e5d]

Oh my Lord it's 16 years for me😮 I hope the Lord send me my husband and soon

[@annahledwaba4798]

Nah let’s see your pic

[@anitasueDali]

11 years now

[@predestinated9248]

Celibacy is safety celibacy is pure bliss and true peace

[@sarabonafede4996]

Indeed!❤

[@lindilexaba6628]

Indeed

[@_.aedonesha]

I found my tribe ❤❤❤❤

[@charmainecampbell170]

💯 percent agree with you. So much peace ❤

[@rosemaryoneale6694]

Hear for it- we’re not missing anything 😂😂😂

[@TamaraH565]

Today marks my 2 years. I feel so great & blessed. God is good!

[@SoftNSpicey]

I've been abstinent for 2 yrs and I still have desires but when I weigh the pros and cons. Abstinence is the better choice.

[@petitendu8488]

Just dj😜😜😜

[@K.C.Uncovered]

Same

[@infinity_spirit]

​@petitendu8488 what's dj?

[@RubadiriDoll]

​@@infinity_spiritno gurl stay innocent like you are 😂😂😂

[@champagnemami5161]

Same ❤😊

[@nekedraaluvilu9097]

The comment section is beautiful, thanking GOD , just wonderful

[@leratomakgala7047]

I am so inspired as a woman wanting to stay pure and celibate.

[@joemariedeguzman9204]

Praise the Lord!🙌

[@RisingPurpose9941]

Yea 💚 cause men ain’t shit🥴 We got to take charge of our own bodies. Love ourselves and heal traumatic wounds, be accountable. It’s feels so much better & cleaner abstaining too

[@catherinelorenzo2543]

🙌🙌🙌

[@Purpleflower7777]

@@RisingPurpose9941We can’t put all men in 1 basket. I can say the same about women I’ve seen so many women that don’t know their babies daddies because they’re sleeping with different men .

[@merriamsepotokele7362]

I used to think I was weird for not wanting it or having the desire for it, turns out there is a community where sexual intimacy isn't a priority😊

[@glimmah8017]

Right?? Community is all we need! 🎉

[@AmbeMuleya]

Same here and loving it

[@marymnjoroge2663]

Same here..

[@UrbanAlchemystic]

Asexuality basically

[@M_Louis_J]

Same ❤

[@maevematthee4312]

The risk of having sex out weighs the risk of not having sex

[@ashleym6765]

Facts!!

[@HeatherHeadley-cn1ss]

Yup. Disease is easy to enter the body temple and hard enòugh to get out. Keeping yourself safe is wise.

[@wordplay6665]

😂

[@nessaboo232]

There is no risk of not having sex

[@Sonia-cs2vw]

Amen to that!!

[@debbielocsss]

OVER 20 YEARS AND I'M PERFECTLY FINE. MY BODY IS THE TEMPLE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT🥰

[@wairimuwaihwa2475]

When I grow up I WONNA be like you!

[@wairimuwaihwa2475]

When I grow up I WONNA be like you!

[@NgareNob]

Happy for u😊

[@ivanna_star254]

Why?

[@CWM-1606]

Amen. Until heaven.

[@pamellamgoduka5764]

Almost 6 years of abstenence bcoz.of obedience to God.....i am encouraged by these comments as well❤....thank you Jesus🙌🙏💝

[@dineosithe5961]

Thank you, I'm motivated too. In January it will be 12 months full since I last had sex.

[@faye_bulous]

I don’t miss it a bit, my cycles have now regulated and I no longer get infections. I’ve been abstinent since my divorce 4 years ago and I’ve never felt better.

[@bournegod_kiy]

Same!! Literally same timeline, same situation, and same feeling!! This resonates with my soul lol.

[@GloriousSheis-ol6bl]

Me too. Days are not the same but I’m enjoying the celibacy. To God be the glory

[@mindingmybusiness6309]

❤❤

[@supremegoddessnani3584]

Yes same here. I’ve been abstinent since my divorce as well. It’s been almost 4 years.

[@ThePhoenix3712]

You don't get infections cause you're no longer sleeping with nasty partners, with infected genitals

[@millicentawinja9265]

10 yrs down the line still loving my body more, doing me more gud than harm, no contraceptives, no nothing, just me and God.

[@cindymuladzi3486]

I'm on my 7th year, just me and Jesus until the arrival of the kingdom spouse

[@ivanna_star254]

Why?

[@INFJ_9]

Thank you so much for sharing your testimony!!! 🙌🏽I’m so inspired!

[@missmutagia6080]

Kumbe my 3 yrs sio mingi. I will relax 7 more to go

[@doreenmubela1829]

Me as well 7yrs now​@@cindymuladzi3486

[@amandanaris2605]

I'm going to abstain from it because of all this beautiful comments, to bring peace and clarity, to have a better relationship with God and to prepare myself for my future husband!!!

[@BarbaraJackson-w7u]

I agree 💯 % I Corinthians 6:9-11 New King James Version says: "9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God." Note verse 11 - good news "11 And such WERE some of you. But you were washed, but you were [c]sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God." Sex before marriage is fornication. So, we should keep pure for our spouse. Never too late to start! Be strong, be sensible; avoid situations of compromise. If the boyfriend wants to leave you, let him go. God will provide a better one.

[@AJArciniegas]

You are allowed to do it for just yourself. It’s doesn’t have to be for the man above or your future man… those are lovely reasons but do it for you first.

[@missqt48]

Good on you! Stick to your true hearts desires, don’t let any man or woman influence or pressure you to change you mind.

[@mbalilancelot]

9months down the line without doing it n I feel brand new n my prayer life is getting better everyday thank God ❤

[@nessieb7667]

I’m 9 months in too lol ☺️❤

[@corneshahenderson8169]

Yesss I love this for you I’m going towards 6 months and I feel so much happier I was wondering why . 🤣❤️❤️👏🏾👏🏾

[@Marigold2909]

Same Buh I’m 10months 😊😊

[@thatojeanifer766]

I’m also 9 months in and I will continue to abstain until further notice

[@TheProce22]

Stay strong

[@shelly5224]

This comment section is so refreshing. I've been celibate for 8 years and I'm always the odd one out and here, there are ppl who have done almost triple that, wow.

[@gekeithakeaton989]

12 years celebrate for me , you are not alone..❤

[@mimisibz1278]

not for me. Its women so far. It would be refreshing if I see men also speaking on being abstinent.

[@mjohnson8206]

@@mimisibz1278 right. Is the man in the video abstaining?

[@RayBMore.]

Yes, indeed it is refreshing. You are not alone Father is with you always.

[@misspiggysdimples]

I lost my virginity at 18 and realised shortly after that I should've waited till marriage. I've been celibate for 3 years now and praying to God that I'm not tempted to lust or perform any form of sexual immortality. I hope that whoever my future partner will be is also choosing to abstain for the both of us🌸

[@sheranp54]

My husband passed in February 2006. He got sick in 2005 so thats how long I have been celibate. Best decision I've ever made. More time for talking to and listening to God and getting to know myself. A world of peace. I'm blessed

[@j.a.mfitness13]

@@sheranp54 condolances

[@AlexysLaChelle]

God bless you 🫂❤️

[@keyskreations2423]

Amen Agree

[@BettyAmos-y7u]

It is possible my sister,we are together, I made the same decision since 2019,I lost my husband too.I feel encouraged to keep moving!

[@KindestGrace]

1 year this Oct and all I can say is glory be to God, no infections, no irregular period, and my prayers are been answered faster, I even met my husband this same year. So yes celibacy can bring blessings too

[@zoey4301]

Amen

[@shakyjoyjoy1963]

We give God All the glory

[@PrecioustumeloMokgobo]

Amen❤

[@banyana6515]

5 years celibate. Feeling good and at peace. Very happy. 😊

[@shiksyoungfestus]

❤😊😊same here celibacy all the way .

[@fah232]

Yes, the peace of mind is priceless...

[@mikochild2]

I was wondering more about the passage itself. I know the skin thins as we get older and dryness can become an issue. I fear giving up this portion of my life to just not enjoy it at all anymore once I have someone to share it with.

[@kandisphere8828]

​@@mikochild2In life we always have trade-offs. There is always something that one might need to forego in order to enjoy something else. The peace of mind when abstaining is greater than the pleasure which comes with baggage (for me).

[@mikochild2]

@kandisphere8828 there are also things in life we should be able to experience. There is nothing wrong with being able to experience intimacy while you can enjoy it. I didn't most of my sexual life. And now when I am able to, I'm supposed to just give that up? This does not sound like an even trade. It just sounds like another part of me that men are taking away when they have already taken away so much. My innocence, my family, my ability to connect for so many years, the trauma, the fear that I still deal with sometimes. I want to at least have power over this. I want this thing that has cause so much pain to be a pleasure for a little while.

[@brittanyhs3347]

I am almost at a year ...I noticed when my ex my kids father would come around I would get urges. I literally prayed for strength and actually told my body I am in control. That worked. He's always making comments so I limit our interactions. You guys have given me that push to keep pushing!!!! 💜

[@Mamabear-u2k]

Same here! My daughters father was the last person I've slept with. Not interested in dating or looking. Either God brings me a good man or I'll atay single. Not everyone is meant to he married. Or some can't have kids! It's in God's hands. My daughters dad was always trying to sleep with me, and stay over, or have me go over there. I decided to go "no contsct" with him. I take my daughter to his moms house and he picks her up there. I don want to have sex or tne temptation. I want to live a clean life for my daughter.

[@MW-yr6zf]

You can do this, l have been trying myself to remain celibate, but l have failed everything l see a person that wants to date me. This has given me strength to be strong God has led me to this page, to show me the path. Glory to our Lord.

[@briannab.8127]

Happy and proud of you ❤. You’ll experience peace and love you’ve never known..

[@brittanyhs3347]

@@MW-yr6zf girl you got this . Praying for your strength. The road is hard at first fighting temptations and purging yourself...the the devil will tempt you like none other but I promise you stay the course..it is worth it. When God finally sends you husband you will be the purest form for him.

[@brittanyhs3347]

@@briannab.8127 thank you !!!! It has not been easy but worth it. Well at the beginning I'll say. Now I'm on fire for God and at such a peace I even feel better mentally.

[@missmutagia6080]

3 yrs without, urges become lesser with time...I feel better and healthier..

[@shanellem6310]

Me too. I don't plan on getting married anytime soon.

[@shirowdestinys5775]

Me too

[@yasminogbu8929]

Yep! Praise God

[@UNACHUKWUJACINTA]

You are correct, that's exactly how it happened

[@msngema1380]

Comment I was looking for, thank you

[@soonandrealsoon9807]

I've been abstinent for 5 and half years. It will be 6 years in December for me. I've gained so much clarity and understanding, and my relationship with God has strengthened tremendously! It is so freeing and peaceful! I do not see myself being intimate again until marriage. I'm not going to lie, I do have moments of lustful thoughts, but I just try my best to pray it away and to change my train of thought.

[@ruthsutar1542]

5 months abstained and happy dream n vision are so clearer.glory for God.

[@lindarose3547]

I hear God better, Skin beautiful and glowing, a healthy pH balance, a healthy heart that is not heavy, and a mind that is at peace, and way way way better self-esteem and confidence.

[@tmarie9609]

Say that louder for the people in the back!!!! Best decision I’ve ever made for sure 💯

[@Nicoleclark777]

AMEN to that 😇🛡️🗡️⚔️

[@Jade-np6xg]

Wow powerful I felt that thank you 🙌💞

[@khensim8959]

20 months and still going strong, super proud of myself

[@valarieford1778]

6 years in January. I'm proud of you

[@Peacefullytimah]

I’m 8 months in. I was married and had children

[@emilygonzalez7415]

I hit 36 years praise the lord!!! SO GOOD TO KNOW THERE ARE SO MANY folks OUT THERE U HAVE MY RESPECT. I LOVE YOU ALL.AMEN!!!

[@DeeDee_999]

😮

[@paulinemakhaso1009]

Am not alone....🎉

[@within-the-fire]

I love this comment section. I have been celibate for over 3 years now. The difference now in my energy and my self-worth is at the highest it's ever been. Sharing our bodies should never be without thought. It is an energy exchange as much as it is physical. Our bodies are sacred and every person should not have access. We don't let strangers enter our houses. They shouldn't enter our bodies either. Male or female hold yourselves as sacred.

[@victoriousspirit8955]

I have just reached 6 years of celibacy and, I feel great. I am at peace. I feel strong mentally, spiritually, and physically. I honestly don’t want to lose the clarity that I feel.

[@MrCubes3]

You plan to start having sex in your 40s?

[@Music-aimemes888]

@@MrCubes3 why do you care what they do? Weirdo

[@mora_007]

​@@MrCubes3whenever a real man who understands what it means to be a husband comes along...whenever that is.

[@kenicemcgowan1304]

Me 7 yrs hun congratulations

[@Sweetrose7349]

Just because you can do it, doesn't mean you have to do it. One year here, no sex, no dating, no giving out numbers to people who are interested. I am focusing on me after years of dating and not knowing who I was without being associated with another person. So much peace ✌️

[@Blueberry_muffin42]

Amen!

[@silverfox_9_5]

❤ same 🙌🏽

[@idaraudofia8980]

So relatable

[@queengodschosen7489]

I thought I was the only person who decided to abstain 😂 God, I’m grateful and thankful for making such a decision🙏🏽 🙌🏽

[@ms.evegene]

I'm 41. I had 9 partners. Yes. I❤my coochie girl. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤✊🏾👏🏾✊🏾👏🏾✊🏾👏🏾

[@charmainediko]

1 year and a month celibate Feeling good 💃🤍🙏🙌 so much peace😇 God loves it when we obey🥰

[@rongarrett1]

Almost 2 years and I thank God for abstinence. My prayer life is so much stronger and better.

[@PisceanEmpath]

It feels great to know I'm not the only person that is practicing abstinence, 5 yrs down! 🎉❤

[@angelawilliams9088]

Yes! You feel like you're the only person doing this! Thank God I was wrong.

[@arnelevans4803]

5 years too

[@ShermitaJordan]

6 years n I don't ever think about it I don't miss it. It's very strange to me but I feel good.

[@nahtally.b9139]

15 years of abstinence. At peace and loving it ❤

[@FaithAndLoveFaithAndLove]

There are many women and men who are STILL virgins they just don't allow it to be known because SOooo many in society act like something must be wrong with you especially with men that's why many just play it off 🤷

[@bladeowens]

11 years for me and i love it❤

[@buttarain27]

16 years for me, just stopped, nothing religious, nothing moral-related, didn't come out of a bad relationship, just focused on so many other things. No kids either.

[@ntombizolilesomdizela3433]

Same here and m happy about that

[@teejay4273]

Same here. No regrets! Praise God!

[@nialeilakande]

Been 6 months: I was forced to do it in April (sexually assaulted in my own home) finally able to say it 😢 God is good and life is good 😊 I am still alive and emotionally feeling great ❤

[@kekeofgod8997]

I wish you all the best in life sweeetie❤❤❤

[@TinaKai25]

Sorry sis ❤

[@krocker8112]

🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@LovieMcScruffy]

Thank you for your bravery and may God continue to keep you in the same space that is His perfect peace.

[@nialeilakande]

@@kekeofgod8997 thanks dear greatly appreciate it ❤️❤️❤️🫶🏾

[@josettemarie44]

I felt like the holy spirit wanted me to come to this video it popped up and now I see why. GOD SAYing JUST KEEP GOING.❤

[@Fea_Love]

🤍

[@godschild2342]

My twin lets goòo Feeling encouraged

[@joanmwanje4635]

Me aswell

[@jacquelinepianto5087]

❤🥰

[@jacquelinepianto5087]

😂

[@iioniilawing3702]

Most wholesome comment section 🥺🩵

[@cynthianafula7294]

I have just clocked 6yrs .it's so refreshing focusing on my goals and my head is clear

[@bridgetmwelwakalumba1507]

9 months and still going strong thank God

[@sumeennakakande-zx8px]

I don't know how I got here 😅😅 but I'm glad that I'm abstaining😊

[@nicci9376]

I’m 9 months in and feeling great! Recently separated and enjoying the peace that comes along with it

[@teannahclayborne6655]

I have been celibate for the last 10 years and honestly i dont feel like Im missing out on anything, Im very happy.

[@lenaatieno508]

Wow wow glory to God for control me . After a heartbreak i decided to abstain for 15 yrs i made agreement with my Lord till am married , many people are laughing at me and mocking me that i can't see am getting old still single at 42 . Sometimes i use to cry, lock myself in the room with no food and not feel like talking to someone. All in all i trust God because with him everything is possible I'll never ever give up. It reached a time can't touch someone's baby but when i manege to carry someone's child the owner or someone else who knows me we'll come and snatch the baby out of my hands and tell me that i don't have any experience of giving birth, so am not allowed to touch they children i would 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 but i know one faithful day God wil wipe away tears sadness and give me tears of joy 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@thisiswarima5506]

Oh my gosh this is so wrong I am so sorry, I am so sorry, may Yaweh surround you with better people who will heal your soul, mind, heart and spirit with their kindness and the love of God. Didn't know there are grown adults in the world that think like that. I really pray you get healing ❤❤

[@ceciliamwangi1110]

May God intervene in your situation and wipe away your tears

[@RayBMore.]

Your words have power so pray to Our Heavenly Father and say what your heart truly needs in a husband. Believe it is done and claim it. Do not worry about what others say, Do not listen to naysayers, if they mistreat you pray stay away from them, the enemy stays busy for he have no rest. FAITH! Jesus I pray for my dear sister in Christ that she receives her husband you made for her. Have a great day my sister in Christ.

[@justfasboo1281]

What kind of people have you been dealing with 😢

[@Amplechrix]

God will do it for you, I pray. Amen 🙏

[@SunniHorizons1]

5 years for me now! So grateful no one is cheating or lying to me anymore ❤

[@evelynrawls3523]

14 years, so blessed, so free🙌🏽

[@Southlife28]

Do u masturbate?

[@m.l7091]

8 years ,don't think about it either 😊❤

[@yaafowaa4149]

12 years

[@SWEETGALKHAN_001]

23 years of my age and never did it 😢😢❤❤.... What I can say is thank you God 💌🤲🏽🤍🤍

[@ceo.wangai]

We should do something about that 😂😂

[@SWEETGALKHAN_001]

@@ceo.wangai 😂like what ???? 🥹

[@leratomakgala7047]

Don't be tempted by a sinner my sister, you're on the right track. Please don't give what is holy to the dogs...you will regret!

[@leratomakgala7047]

​@@ceo.wangaiNothing needs to be done about it, she just needs to fulfill her destiny...don't be a snare. I will pray coals of fire upon you should you try to tempt her!

[@SWEETGALKHAN_001]

@@leratomakgala7047 🥹🫂🫂indeed you are a true man ♂️ thank you much

[@dralerucaroline1306]

1 month of abstaining and i feel great and my spiritual life is getting better

[@Huntress_fx]

Been 4years of abstinence, sometimes frustrating, but am grateful that its stressfree, and has made me even more choosy, picky when it comes to who am to lay with and thats when i decide to get married 😅 Abstinence has taught me self love and sharpened my focus!

[@charliewright3884]

Yup, yup and yup!

[@angelawilliams9088]

Exactly!

[@Jade-np6xg]

​@@charliewright3884yupppppp 💯

[@michelleroberts9243]

13 years, and I feel great. Dont have to worry or stress about STI, unexpected pregnancies, etc.

[@Snicklebunni]

Going on 13 yrs for me....Praise Yah!!!!!💜💜💜🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@yaheshaturner2843]

HallelauYah! 🎉

[@kenicemcgowan1304]

24 yr old 7 yr

[@Snicklebunni]

@kenicemcgowan1304 💜💜💜🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@TheLordismyshepherd-u9t]

My Body is the temple of God, Until he says This is your husband am saying still in God's word.May the Holy spirit keep me strong🎉😊

[@veriteclash2570]

Amen

[@LiLisLounge]

Amen!

[@themorein-depth8369]

Started my journey and may God give me the strength I need!!!

[@buttarain27]

I'm not a sexual person, so it was super easy for me, on year 16.

[@TinaATOtheothers-wc7ky]

He will and your happiness and freedom will keep you strong and going. You'd see!! There is a reason God made sex for the confines of healthy marriage. Sex is so sacred!

[@charitywanjiku5547]

Sipendi kucomment,,but for 2 years there is so much peace eeei so it is a thing that is happening to many... Glory be to God.

[@némecislaninfadelbarrio]

2 years and my menstrual cycle just regulated! Also manifestations come faster, no one is disturbing my sacred energy with low and insecured interferences 🙏🏽❤️

[@straighttalk2230]

Yes yes😂

[@mschuchuJRJF]

💯❤️

[@ellah2303]

Same it's always been irregular .2 years in just started coming monthly with no cramps!!!

[@solkaress]

2024 men are the most insecure beings to date

[@joychristinemarete7656]

Sacred energy ❤

[@LaToyoaMonikueInspires]

11 years of abstinence. Glory to God for His keeping power! Best decisions I have ever made🙌🏾🙏🏾😊

[@katinarogers2602]

1 year and 3 months abstinence and I noticed that I have put more focus into my goals 🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@UkamakaElizabethIgbede]

28 yrs of age never did it, oh! What a peace i feel inside

[@lahopkins9746]

💜🙏🏿

[@tameshacantrell9823]

But I thought god said we are here to bear children and be fruitful but 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@lahopkins9746]

@@tameshacantrell9823 HE did, but there are rules and regs we MUST follow to be in HIS Will. Be fruitful and multiply. Not f*CK and have children just because you've reached the age of reproduction.

[@uriellayasharahla66]

​@lahopkins9746 exactly. Sex is purely for the married man and woman for reproduction. That's it. Yes it's pleasurable, but even scripture says it's ok to fast from sex for a period of time to serve GOD.

[@justhereyeah1112]

@@tameshacantrell9823that’s a good point but to add to our purpose we are to walk in the spirit and produce the fruit of the spirit. So that is another way that we can be fruitful and multiply.

[@preciousvaripavo5759]

2yrs 7months of abstinence am so happy and at peace , i thank God everyday for His Grace

[@deborahfrancois714]

Im on my 5th year of abstinence and im loving it. Sexual desires come sometimes especially before the sunrise but its just nature telling me that im still alive.

[@drlorrie1019]

Abstinent for 10 years. Loving it. Have accomplished so much. No drama, stress just peace, tranquility and peace of mind.

[@Popo-bi7tz]

It's been 2 yrs now, thank God for self control

[@veriteclash2570]

Yes me too the end of this October exactly year's 🙏🙏🙏

[@LorraineKidd-sd6co]

Same here

[@jessicaantwine5922]

This month made 2 years

[@jessicalightwarrior7276]

Self control is a fruit of the Holy Spirit THANK GOD!

[@queenswisdom3365]

13 years and counting. Improved physical, mental, and emotional health.

[@mellissaking9762]

How old are you?

[@jasminehill6312]

I’m 16 1/2 years celibate and I’m 41now!!! As a woman, your body, spirit and soul will thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@Phoenixishot]

Sad

[@RayBMore.]

Yes it will!

[@arnelevans4803]

Are you going to be 42 this year

[@buttarain27]

Same for me too, I'm 45. Not saying I won't have sex ever again, but I've just never been sexual and never really cared much.

[@buttarain27]

@@Phoenixishot Really? Why? I think it's more sad that you can't be by yourself and repeatedly need someone to be with.

[@koukou972]

8 years celibate and I am at peace. It was the best decision I made.

[@absolutetruth5833]

This is so-o refreshing and encouraging to read the comments of ppl who have abstained from sex. It has been 7 yrs for me and I am grateful for the peace, recalibrating and realignment with God and my body, that has taken place in my life due to abstaining from sex.

[@priscillahnjuguna6783]

I stayed for 2years without it and yes,it is the best feeling. I got a truthful man for myself during that season.Glory to God

[@tenhiarowry]

After my divorce I was abstinent for 12 years. Got with someone I thought I was going to be with forever messed up from abstaining. Broke up with him over 6 years ago and have been abstinent every since. I will be this way until God blesses me to be married again to a true man of God. For right now though I'm good and at peace.

[@getrudemoyo368]

My last seen was 14 yrs ago when my husband passed away . After that painful experience l prayed to God to tie my tubes since He was the creator and indeed He answered my prayers still going strong, beautiful, glowing , forever young , happy and peaceful from the inside. When the Holy Spirit starts to do the surgery on your thinking you will start to love what He loves and hate what He hates. All glory be to God

[@THEFAMILYGRIND]

Celibacy, Power, and Respect… thats the key to life 🗣️

[@MrCubes3]

The key to life??🤣😂

[@OGFyah]

😭😭

[@NonyaBiz853]

@@MrCubes3no pun intended lol

[@theresajeffers3982]

Wow so much discipline here, very empowering to see I'm not the only one...I have been seeing such a change in my skin, appearance, and aging younger

[@NancyS401]

This is one secret women do not know, that sex ages a woman. Semen is the cause of wrinkles and the 1st thing you'll notice after abstaining it's your face's skin starts looking younger, wrinkles fade if you'd started having any. Your body starts resuming it's feminine shape and you also start smelling naturally good. Keep stress and bad diet away and you're a winner. The act maybe good temporarily but poisonous to a woman's entire being.

[@Lovemygirls-3]

11yrs strong and loving it!!!No oders no discharge and no unnecessary BS 🤗

[@sarahjuluyimbian8853]

I've never have sex and I guess I'm one of the healthiest human being in this globe. God, keep me🙏

[@marytomas-x4b]

Sex on your ass maybe congratulations we are many ok 😊😊😊

[@raymondtendau2749]

Everyone was once a child, but very few rember this.😅

[@familyhour351]

Me too

[@esthermbinya9514]

Yes you are

[@leegaleaglenombo9430]

Same!

[@Age_Of_Aquarius84]

Five years abstinent and I can honestly say, this is the most peace I've had in my adult life.

[@BeccaWilliams8736]

Thank God i have been practicing Celibacy for now 20yrs & I'm at peace & i love the drama free life 🙏🏽 Praise God

[@EminahRamphisa-y7l]

My huby died in 2000 nov, i was 42. Since then i hated sex and i live healthy life. Im 67 now without sex since 2000

[@anyanwuanthonia5070]

Hmmmmm

[@dononahzio3775]

Hmmm

[@fatihasiraj3366]

Hi mother of Jesus

[@NneomaIfeigbo]

😄​@@fatihasiraj3366

[@Shemy-eo1yb]

@@fatihasiraj3366 🙄 what has the mother of Jesus got to do with her widowhood.

[@user-rq6hc1ut6l]

Going 3 years and just loving the peace and tranquility. No stress and time to focus on my goals. No distraction.

[@Serving-With-Purpose]

Feels great I'm not alone. 28 months and counting. It's peace and never been more confident.

[@hlobisilezama999]

You and me both 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Let's keep at it 💪🏻 💯

[@EstherKaringa-y1k]

Been 14yrs but WEUH it's a struggle to keep off the temptations but it's doable and very stress-free

[@agie9328]

I have spent one and half years without sex, its so peaceful and healthy

[@TheMayorEsq]

Peace incomparable

[@JudithChari]

I couldn't agree more. I just clocked 2😂

[@sontayhandy4420]

Oh thank god! I thought I was by myself here. It will be 2yrs in March but I’m at peace and feel good! It gets hard sometimes but when think about the cons behind it, I’ll pass! ❤️🙏

[@RayBMore.]

Yes, the urges will pass the longer you do go without. After a while you do not even think about it until someone mentions it.

[@magneticfavor9500]

2 years for me , Thankful to God, I'm so glad I was removed from toxicity,From a human that got upset whenever my cycle came every month, Now I can deal with my cramps in peace❤

[@TheAfricanIntelligentsia]

😂😂😂

[@paulinekamande7041]

7 yrs down the line and feeling just fine.

[@jovialone6046]

Me too I am even forgetting it 7yrs.

[@tida3727]

Women we stay for a longtime...

[@wambui185]

10yrs here

[@sinethembamagasela1833]

Wow almost aiming for a decade 😳

[@gertrudekacubyanalusiba2052]

Me too 7 years, and I feel healthier

[@kandisphere8828]

I am celebrating one year anniversary of abstinence next week! 😅 I am feeling great, I don't desire it anymore like I did several months ago, no stress on emotional connections and heartbreaks, and no stress of pregnancy because I am anti-contraceptives before marriage. I've done even two years before, and I'm always stress free when abstaining.

[@adekemiogundipe3378]

Congratulations to you. I have been on this celibate journey close to 5 years.God has been helping me

[@moe_ramz]

@@adekemiogundipe3378 Same and it’s peaceful 🥹🙏

[@Kakwasi]

40yrs

[@everlinecheptekei-ym1co]

This comment section is so inspiring... 3 years down the line,,, no sex, no contraceptives,,, no infections....just living a healthy life. The more you stay without,,, the more the feelings dies. God, I thank you for your Grace and Mercies.

[@GraceImani-fx7qc]

8yrs 🎉 and very healthy +am very happy am practicing fruit of self control all thanks to God

[@Akakatang]

I pray everyone in here celebrating is single. It would be devastating for someone counting abstinence and discover they're married. Sex is beautiful with my husband. A bond God created.

[@GladysTheLion]

​@IdaJ-lq7ro hun, how are you married and single ?

[@Carmen-us1ew]

​@@GladysTheLionprobably separated.

[@johanna3692]

I agree with you 100%

[@gee5837]

Abstinence is the way i thank GOD I am very happy, healthy and thriving🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@RickRorose]

Men need to learn celibacy and abstinence too. Society will greatly improve if they do so.

[@JezuAvew-RetePreLaCroix]

Yes! Less fatherless children and less children who are "outside children" and less children with daddy issues because their dad does not give them necessary attention.

[@tatishacheatham2795]

Facts!

[@user-kpkxgtj]

Unfortunately most of them believe it's impossible and attach their value as m£n to it + how many partners they can have at their disposal. There's a reason very few of them are in these comments, and those present are only there to ridicule the "dry spells".

[@shatelrowland2342]

My thoughts exactly. Do we actually have men that abstain?

[@nonhlanhlasikhosana]

10 years without, don't even think about it ❤

[@christoffeljongwa192]

How do you handle the urges?

[@mskeewee28]

@@christoffeljongwa192 eventually you don’t get any

[@buttarain27]

@@christoffeljongwa192 I guess you can masturbate. But it's like sugar, you get used to not having it. I've been celibate for 16 years and I just stopped, nothing to do with spiritual reasons or bad relationships, or man-hating, just never really been sexual even when I was sexually active, and that was mostly peer pressure.

[@DollyMills-dz8ry]

Its the peace of mind for me,I cant Express the feeling but trust me you I've never been peaceful as much as I am now😊

[@NikkiB208]

You guys are giving me strength! 8 months abstinence for me I’m a baby in the game 😂

[@londonkristian777]

lol same here it’s been 9 months for me !

[@kautharbishar7014]

11months for me

[@BigEaga13]

4 months 😩🤦🏽‍♀️

[@prie98]

7 months 😅

[@samanthasibanda326]

12 months for me

[@jusnae791]

Giving it all to the Lord. Thank you, God for your mercy and grace during this journey

[@imo.124]

Love these comments sharing abstinence and celibacy. I've been abstinent gor also 2.5 years and God is good. So much more at peace and i've always felt better when abstaining. I pray all of your stay strong on your celibacy or abstinence journey. God bless you all ❤

[@JesusfavQueen]

I love abstinence. It’s so much fun! I have my children already so abstinence is fine with me!

[@mschuchuJRJF]

@@JesusfavQueen 💯❤️

[@shashuwells500]

Getting back to it. I recently stopped abstaining with over a year close to two years in. I got an STD and was very ill. I will be abstinent from here on out. Praying that the smell and all the negative effects go away soon.

[@omaryland5039]

To everyone in this journey of abstinence may your strengtht NEVER FAIL you and may you have PEACE of mind and wholeness of the body!!!!! We are in this together and is a BLESSING🎉🎉

[@catherinemlang2605]

I have never liked sex, i 8:21 m a mother of one and I've been thinking that im not normal, coz sex isn't my thing. im happy with the comment section

[@gracejoy8162]

.you are my kind with the same story

[@karinamoses790]

Could I ask why ?my mother and I are opposite she is the same and cringes when I mention sex but I don’t understand she can’t really give me a reason

[@michellekk1941]

I've been asking myself the same thing I think I'm asexual

[@lotusphoenix8]

​@@karinamoses790 *Some* people are just designed to not have worldly desires. Their spiritual path is of a higher order (not in an arrogant way) that leads more towards moksha. The fact that your mother cringes... There's a history behind it. When you've transcended it, there's absolutely no emotion attached to it. It's like not being curious about alcohol or smoking.

[@karinamoses790]

@@lotusphoenix8 I do think it may be an emotional thing aswell as she is an abuse survivor but she is also a very spiritual Christian person she has a husband who is happy with the arrangement they have been married two years now

[@charissawilson9949]

4 years and loving it. Actually peaceful. My UTIs have reduced by 99%.

[@catherinelorenzo2543]

I’m there with you, how nice to know there are so many of us holding out

[@alicemanhuwa1627]

Celebrating my my 4th year now, feeling good. It is possible ladies love your

[@sherenecarter5428]

Same

[@YabomKamara-p1o]

Same here

[@vanessawilliams6780]

4 years and counting