What Happens When An MLM Scammer Gets Triggered

[@lmsmith015]

"Working hard" and "hustle culture" are not the same thing.

[@quietcircus]

working hard is good if in pursuit of an ethical project (under which heading I do not really count the ability to pay for multiple pedicures a week); "hustling" is a form of deception and bullying

[@jnn1280]

@@quietcircus this. I mean according to a lot of people the devil “works hard,” too.

[@mjdibella]

Yeah, bullying your downline is hard work….

[@fleur9191]

Hustle culture is killing people.

[@kareenah.kreations]

So what you're telling me is, she worked over eight months to get her daughter, just to kick her out of a room when she wants to spend time with her? MMMKay

[@S-R-H]

I was divorced at 30 with 3 kids under 10 years old. One was ADHD/on the spectrum. I worked three jobs and went to school full time to get my nursing degree. I received no child support. When my youngest graduated from high school, I applied to law school. I know how to work hard. It’s literally the only way we were able to survive. I can’t stand these ppl talking about how nobody works hard anymore. Give me a break!!

[@ninazimmerman6458]

GIRL 😮 I can’t even fathom having that amount of work ethic. You’re amazing!

[@mrsamandam82]

Hell yes! I’m so proud of you!!! That’s incredible, awe inspiring work ethic!

[@mochalatte8202]

How did you manage school with the kids?

[@foreverwander0320]

Great job!

[@kelleyatc]

That is bad ass. What an incredible example you are setting for your children.

[@palanna3239]

Jeff bezos doesn't have to spend time convincing people that Amazon is a real business 😂😂😂

[@remotecreativeagencyllc]

Right?!

[@tieerraanicolee]

lol Costco doesn’t even advertise 😂😂 and yet people Flock

[@MisplacedTexan]

These people keep using the word “entrepreneur.” They don’t know what that word means. 😂 These MLM dorks are (tiny) commission-based independent contractors. How do they twist this into being a business owner or, even funnier… an entrepreneur? 😂😂😂

[@annekimberling2825]

Her bragging about adopting a baby from China and building her dream house in a poor country is ….ick to say the least.

[@pinkeysherbet7249]

Right?! Like wow girl you’re so brave for going overseas to import the exact color, make and model of baby you wanted 😮 BRAVE

[@colleenstevenson9732]

I recently found my way into adult adoptee TikTok and I assure you the narrative is total opposite. And those who are exploited on social after adoption are def resentful.

[@fionascheibel977]

Yep she bought a human. Well done, big clap.

[@daricej9753]

So her flex is she got to buy a child faster then usual from another country? I mean "adopt".

[@Maguire708Julie]

That’s what I heard her saying too!

[@karennaylor7138]

MLMers: “I have so much more time to spend with my family!” Also MLMers: hey you kids get tf out of here

[@karennaylor7138]

“I’ll do anything for my kids!” Except let them call out to you, or come into the room

[@MisplacedTexan]

@@karennaylor7138exactly! I was an ACTUAL stay at home mom. Our kids are now 27 and 21. Never yelled at them to leave the room. Poor kiddos.😢

[@abeckwith]

This lady is delusional. Adopting a child from another country, and having a house in another country does NOT make you better than anyone else. I feel sorry for her children. Money is not the answer to every single problem in the world. Children want your TIME, not a fancy house or vacations, etc. I could go on, but you get the idea.

[@kbird6208]

I'm dying that she actually said she built her dream house on the sand. Could there be any metaphor more apt for an MLM?

[@juliejo]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Lamb208]

Literally what I was thinking!

[@foreverwander0320]

Lol I missed that 😂

[@qwertypumpkin]

How disgusting that she talks about her daughter's situation like that, these details are private family information. The lack of respect for her daughter's privacy shows a real problem with empathy and care.

[@xstanstanstan]

I love when these rags to riches start out with someone being a "poor stay at home mom" while casually glossing over the fact that her husband owned a successful business at the time, to the point where all she wanted extra money for was MULTIPLE PEDICURES A WEEK. Girl, sit down. You are not fooling anyone. 😂

[@catz7679]

They always glance over their husband's job/business which made it possible for them to even do mlm in the first place and stick with it.

[@Little.MissDiagnosed]

I wanna buy groceries.

[@mykodibear17]

Right?? Like dang, I wish my husband made enough that I didn't have to work. I'd be going back to school so I can actually do something with my life that I'd find meaningful though, not joining a pyramid scheme where I'd profit off of scamming others out of their hard-earned money, so, you know, different priorities 🤣

[@CourtheadIsCool]

I’ve worked my butt off to build my photography business. Started at 18. I’m 32 now. I have over 35 portrait sessions this month plus a soccer league and multiple baseball/softball teams. Over 20 sessions next month. Plus several youth sports leagues totaling over 1300 players. I’ll teach her how to hustle! 😂

[@thechaosgoblin]

Through that whole video, all I heard was "You don't understand! I'm much, much better than you... Please clap"

[@MisplacedTexan]

Right? As she constantly tells her kids to go away? Yeahhhh…. Definitely a job where she can be at home with her kids, so she can tell them to get out of the room. Nice.

[@Blandinemax]

That’s because MLMs are a haven for narcissists. And trust me, I know that topic too well.

[@kbird6208]

I love how they talk about impacting thousands of lives but they don't specify it's a positive impact. 😂

[@Mparent83]

Anakin: “this mlm will Impact everyone who joins” Padme: “by impact you mean benefit right?” Anakin: … Padme: “you mean benefit right???”

[@dianabutler7253]

Why didn't she adopt an American child? There are plenty of those needing parents.

[@lellow19]

As someone whose family adopted a child from another country, i can tell you it takes 2 years because of paperwork and bureaucracy, not because families don't have the funds. If she got it to move faster, it's because she bribed people to move her case ahead. The funds people don't have to make it go faster are the bribery funds. It's basically expected that you'll need to pay extra to move things along at any decent rate.

[@helenr4300]

yikes. Thank you for sharing from your knowledge

[@Gooner333333333]

So basically she is saying if you don't join her MLM then you don't want your kids to have a good life. And why did she talk about adopting a child as if she was buying a car

[@cherylperkins3778]

Adopting the child was a status symbol just like buying a pricey car. Good comparison!

[@allysonlewis1730]

Mrs MLM was voted “Least Likely to be Humble” in her High School Yearbook

[@Jmaison92]

It bothers me that all these MLM’s push the idea that stay at home moms need a “side hustle” or “make extra money”. I’m a stay at home mom because this is what my husband and I decided is what we want for our family and I am very happy. Why do they constantly try to make women feel like that’s not enough…

[@helenr4300]

Agree, when it is a shared decision then their should be none of what she described as 'begging for her husband' for things. I grew up as the baby of the family and mum was around until part time cashier work once I was 12 +. Mum held us together when dad was unemployed and the maths didn't work but we were always fed and clothed (maybe handmedowns - not just in the family but support from church community - and since they were more uptodate than from my sisters they were fab). Dad had jobs; and for a time mum also had a job. Neither had what might be called a career, but we had love and the basics. Dad hammering in metal tips to my school shoe heels so I would wear them down not the shoe; Mum in baking mode. My closest friend also had amazing parents that in a 3 bed home with 4 kids fostered babies and toddlers. We were at my house on baking day; whilst other days we were at her house in all the orgaonenised chaos. Whether a mum baked or not both of us had parents that cared and loved, even when they were at work. Being a parent can totally be done alongside the job and career - but it is totally a purpose in life all by itself, and I am sure @Jmaison you are a great one.

[@jessielynn]

I agree. Today’s world is pushing this super mom on everyone. Being a stay at home mom is enough. Stay at home moms are working so hard every day. No weekends, holidays and very little downtime. It IS enough. You are doing a great thing for your family and for society by raising your children full time. Thank you!

[@oneof134]

Having 0 money of your own and relying on a man to give you pocket money is a HORRIBLE idea for any modern woman tho

[@Jmaison92]

@@oneof134 I don’t rely on him for money. We are married, the money that comes in belongs to both of us. I speak for myself and my family but we have finances and assets set up in a way that works for us. My point here was I don’t need these MLM huns trying to convince me that I need to be “working from home from my phone” or “running my own business” (which we all know a MLM is NOT your own business). Oh and then you look at their income disclosure statements that they fail to ever present during their 1+ hour condescending rants on their zoom calls and it just further confirms I’ll stay far away from any MLM 👍🏻

[@MatthewGordonmattieboy1995]

Adoption is a process, they gotta make sure you aren’t some dangerous weirdo 🙃

[@SimplyKellyNoelle]

Do you know what’s actually amazing for kids? Knowing their parents work in a stable, secure job, and when they’re home with them, they are present and not on their phone or worried about work. They don’t need Disneyworld 3 times a year. They don’t need a house in Nicaragua.

[@helenr4300]

totally. Time day by day is longer lasting than a fancy holiday. (and call me biased but given the queues at local venues; the mere thought of Disney world/land/Euro disney is horrific)

[@Lisilka]

She wanted a pedicure a few times a week?? That just seems excessive.

[@sarahfernandez8444]

I love how she says I babysat in middle school and then was 'in the restaurant industry' showing how hard she has always hustled. That means she baby sat and then was a waitress or worked in fast food just like most of us. That's no unusual.

[@d3pr0fundis]

I cackled when she said that 😂 Such an inspiration to us all

[@rinadart]

Julie calling me a hard worker 😭😭😭 these are happy tears, I promise. Really needed this reassurance, Thank you 💜💜💜

[@jaymel4691]

I hate how they keep abusing the term "triggered". Being triggered is a genuine trauma response and comes from some kind of PTSD or a similar mental illness that needs treatment, not getting big mad about somebody (rightfully) criticizing your manipulative actions on the internet.

[@Gracewodag]

“Can anyone relate?” Is the new “drop a 1 in the chat if you get it”

[@erinfindsen4953]

26:28 restaurant work definitely is tough. But I bet her husband’s real estate business is what’s allowing them the lifestyle they have.

[@shirlenereid7888]

If it wasn't for all the millions of people who work in the 'rat race' who would do that pedicure for her, who would empty our garbage cans, build our cars, work in factories manufacturing our goods and so on and so on. Tell all these hard working people/parents working their ass off to make a good life for themselves and their families. These MLM Huns are so infuriating 🤬

[@FarkleBeans]

I swear, it's like all these people have completely forgotten that just a few decades ago, you didn't NEED to hustle to survive. One full-time job could support a family. These people are always mad at the workers, and not mad at the system that changed and created the need for hustling.....

[@MyMinnie18]

You’re working hard for something worthwhile. She is not.

[@kbird6208]

I don't think the brag about Nicaragua is what she thinks it is. Nicaragua has extremely high income inequality and poverty rates. Buying property there is very risky and the US Embassy advises that buying coastal property is the most risky because disputes are common and the government may not help you. Political instability and corruption is widespread. Also, volcanos and earthquakes for extra excitement. If that's what they want, great for them, but I wouldn't sink all my hard earned grifting income into that house on the sand.

[@helenr4300]

but dream home.... Seriously, I wonder what led to 3 years there? Husband's job? not her mlm

[@kbird6208]

My parents worked hard. My dad worked in natural resources with long hours fighting wildfires. My mom took care of other kids then worked in various education jobs once we were older. Both public service jobs, we weren't rich enough for a second house in an impoverished country 🙄 but we had what we needed. Now my brother and sister in law both work in education and I work in environmental research. None of us will have whatever "financial freedom" she boasts of but we all have made a positive contribution and never had to scam anyone ever. I'm good, thanks.

[@Stephanie-ni6zc]

A second house in an impoverished country. Quite the flex.

[@beyourownsunshine5548]

When they act annoyed by their kids in these videos it gives me such an uncomfortable feeling

[@alliu6562]

13:21 not the white savior syndrome 😭

[@cindysheppard9242]

You know what’s great for your children to spend quality time with them.

[@snipingway]

Saying she's always worked hard because she used to babysit and then worked in a restaurant in high school. Like... that's super common, that is not special.

[@Akyra2011]

Brags about being able to adopt her daughter but then fussed at the child to leave the room so she can do a video.....🤔

[@pattibarrick5273]

I had never heard of this Rindi woman before today. Now that I’ve seen her video, I am filled with gratitude. Gratitude that I will never, ever have to meet her or have her in my life in any way! SO thankful!

[@Santiago-in1xf]

I'm not trying to hate on adoption from abroad, but this feels tone-deaf. Adoption is important but I feel a bit like she did it for the story. And I worry that the child might not grow up with a sense of her Chinese identity.

[@PiousPallasAthene]

I was rubbed slightly wrong by "I wanted to adopt a little girl from China." It just feels weird to put it like that unless you had already been connected to the little girl and knew you wanted to adopt her? Idk. I might be off base but it rubbed me weird too. Editing to add: it sounds like maybe she did end up seeing the girl before adopting so less weird than it initially came off to me.

[@helenr4300]

yes the terminology made it sound like 'look at me rescuing a poor little chinese child' there are ethical overseas adoptions but sadly the influencer record is not great

[@nancywillaert5129]

I know a couple that had to wait for 5 years to finally bring their son from Africa home, they went over to visit their son multiple times a year, that couple worked hard, they also took the time to learn about the region, culture and possible families that where still around. They did everything for their son, but never did they bragged about it online on towards many people. Now the one’s little boy is a bright young man aware of his homeland, his family that he still can find. They always stayed in contact. They kept a plastic tub, with his clothing, paperwork, and pictures and diaries; they where ashamed when the pastor of our church gave them a gift basket for adopting from Africa, but not the other nine couples. Their own niece had given birth after so many struggles and their children where baptized on the same day. Nobody stayed for the reception the church organized for it.

[@helenr4300]

@@nancywillaert5129 done well is great.

[@mrsamandam82]

I got my bachelors degree when I was pregnant with twins and my masters degree a couple of years after they were born. I worked hard and ended up working for the best health care system in the world. I’ll take that any day over an MLM.

[@AshleyJones-cq7cr]

Wait, so she started all of this so she could get as many pedicures a week as she wanted (which why do we need more than one pedicure a week)… but now she works so hard for the kids who need to go away so she can do this live?

[@tia-wald]

My kids see my hustle every day as a homemaker (which I have had the privilege and been blessed enough to be able to do) and part time seasonal job outside the home. My daughter was my biggest fan and supporter when I LEFT mlm. So there!

[@fishetto]

So wild for her to say she and her husband are present for their kids now when a) he is in Europe for weeks on end and b) she literally told her kids to get out so she can focus on this live. Sounds like the truth for sure.

[@teresayates8274]

I worked my butt off getting mechanical degrees and trying to get a jobs in the field at the time was difficult for a women. I worked every dirty hard job they threw at me untill i earned respect for my skills. I am now a retired industrial mechanic. I taught my daughter to work hard and do every job like your life depends on it. She's 30 and a lead admin, I am so proud of her❤ Lots of people work hard every single day. You ARE noticed!

[@lizsmith8454]

I think most people are actually fine with working hard. The question is, is it work worth doing? When it comes to MLM stuff, the answer is heck no!

[@FarkleBeans]

I completely agree. I also think people want to be compensated fairly for their efforts. Whether that's a stay at home parent that gets the respect and recognition they deserve or a "9-5" that pays adequately, so only ONE fulltime job is all you need to survive. An MLM gets you none of this.

[@awesome13awfulness]

Wow! What an amazing white savior! Her precious daughter is one of the kids she's ignoring in this very video, right? I feel so sorry for her children. Seriously. 😢

[@sugarfrosted2005]

I'm old enough to remember when people knew what hustling was. It was literally a term for tricking people out of their money.

[@steffymuze]

Someone above said this too and I had been thinking it myself 😂

[@RedVelvetRabbit]

It makes me feel really uncomfortable when people bring up adoption like this lady has. The way she's talking about it, like its the new fad to get a kid from a different country, like its something to gloat about for clout. Theyre real people, not pets.

[@UlshaRS]

She drinks deep libertarian flavoraid that rewards sociopathic and predatory behaviors. Spent last month+ doing literally the job of 3 people so my boss could be at home helping his wife with the 3rd kid and her recovery and not worry about the job. The regional and corporate managers recognized the work I put in and anyone who works in corporate retail knows how hens teeth rare it is to get that acknowledgement. And I THRIVED! My team thrived! The work is constant, labor intensive, and calls for so many skills sets to accomplish it. Oh but look I had a set schedule with a firm work/life separation, no worry about end of year taxes, health insurance, and time for my family. 😂

[@beckiehubley5798]

10:02 overheard today at the library. A woman told her friends she was quitting Zyiia (or however you spell it) because she needed down time when she could get it. She said she'd still buy the products, and that she loved the clothes. She also said that she thought of staying in and just not working it, but that she didn't want to pay the 19$ month for the website. No mention of missing the money she was making, or making money being a good thing about it. Or even a thing. She was worried about telling her group. So sad that she had to use all her free time to work at the "business " but still didn't make enough money to mention.

[@feliciasjoberg9886]

How did her friends react?

[@beckiehubley5798]

@@feliciasjoberg9886 supportive.

[@cindysheppard9242]

My husband didn’t graduate high school but worked hard and taught his self how to program while being a painter while being a great step father. He has a great career worked for Microsoft then Bill Gates foundation and now Fred Hutch cancer research.

[@daftoptimist]

The picture my parents ultimately painted for me was joy and inner peace despite the struggle. They couldn’t build me a fancy house or take me to Disney World, but they taught me how to balance working hard and enjoying my life. I know how to live without privileges, how to make do with little and live life on hard mode, and I know how to be happy in the midst of it. IMO, that makes my family richer (and less “soft”) than hers will ever be.

[@komplizia]

Isn't it great to be home with your kids so you can kick them out of the room all the time they want to connect with you instead of coming home after 9-5 and being available? If you're working, you're working at home or wherever and first steps might happen while you're working..sorry - i mean helping others. Working from home can be great but it's still working, especially if you're busy all the time, monetizing every step of your personal life. It must be confusing to younger kids.

[@WonderWomanInMichigan]

Started working in celery muck fields at 12. Homeschooled our kids for 23 years and did side gigs Lots of people work hard. I'm so glad I'm not in an MLM and doing all that busy work that doesn't earn 💵

[@annas5752]

I have had 17 jobs. Babysitting, lifeguard at a few pools, factories. I grew up farming. Ive worked for a culty resturant for 4 years. I have worked 3 campaigns in the field where you are contracted for 90 hours/week, no days off, we clocked 100 hours most weeks or more. I have failed many projects, but i have succeeded in many others. This year i will turn 30, and i have officially registered my REAL small business - we are starting with screen printing and embroidery and have big plans to do sew ;) much more. Videos like yours saved me from using my campaign skills for evil (mlms) when i was a SAHM. Thank you Julie for everything you do!!

[@ladyv5655]

I might be tempted to join her downline just to leave it immediately. I despise this woman.

[@juliejo]

😂😂😭😭 what a vibe.

[@gnatalia15]

Honestly. Disgusting. To call someone “soft” for struggling. My parents immigrated to the states and fought so hard to keep a roof over our heads and give us a better life. To call people who struggle soft because they aren’t doing better by her standards is pretty sickening.

[@shamedgeeky]

I hate how she keeps bossing her kids and then when they try to respond to her, she completely ignores them and starts speaking to the camera over them

[@sueb]

What’s the deal with her feet? Five pedicures a week?

[@uptownpotatoes]

I caught that too. I work so many hours at my real job, I am lucky to squeeze in 2-3 per YEAR!!! lol.

[@bethanyn95]

Thank you for your humour and kindness. You are such a lovely soul.💕

[@Aerodil]

This feels like a whole entire humble brag from her. Just ridiculous, in my opinion.

[@Jess-gr1qf]

I agree completely with your sentiments! I can’t stand it when these MLMers (or anyone for that matter) constantly equate success to the amount of money you have, or the size of your house, or the material possessions you have. Success means something different to every single person, and often it has nothing to do with monetary gain. How ironic that when they try to appear to be inspiring and motivational, they actually are belittling, degrading, and manipulative enough to leave people feeling dejected. Absolutely disgusting.

[@yvonned627]

Amen!

[@JIRH922]

What am about to say might really rub some people the wrong way, and I'm definitely open to conversation about it if it does ... I am a mom and a teacher. I work with special needs second and third graders and my own kids are 10 and 12. My top priority is to put the kids I raise, and the kids that I work with ahead of all of my other stuff, and to not get my wires crossed and to not be distracted by nonsense. It makes me miserable to hear any woman telling her kids to skedaddle so she can get online and defend her morally corrupt behavior. It is so sad. I feel so sad for her kids and I should not know their names, but I do. And that bothers me.

[@helenr4300]

No idea why you think this may rub some people the wrong way - I suspect JJ's viewers agree with you, I certainly do

[@d3pr0fundis]

I don’t think anything you’ve said is wrong, but I also don’t think it’s wrong to tell your kids that you’re working on something and can’t talk right now. Being a stay at home mom doesn’t mean having to be at your kids beck and call every second.

[@elisa-beary]

Pink eyeshadow looks SOOO good on you. It suits you perfectly. I always think that but have yet to say it. 💕

[@remotecreativeagencyllc]

I always love the conflict! “There’s nothing wrong with the hustle culture” But also… “My son doesn’t want to be part of the “rat race” and I’m so proud I’ve instilled that in him” MAAM!

[@olliesGiGi]

That was hard to watch. She is something. Thanks for the great video 💚

[@ericajensen7380]

I knew she was mine? Wtf this is a child, it’s not something you just gotta have 😮

[@CheerupA1]

Gotta love the time freedom of filming at home and telling your children to go away, living the dream.

[@elizabethsoares3918]

A few pedicures per WEEK!? Did I hear that correctly? Am I the one doing this wrong? 😂

[@Little.MissDiagnosed]

I’m a white lady with two houses! I worked hard. But also passive income is the only way!

[@arammi6351]

I need her to tell me, how I can hustle and have time for my kids at the same time.

[@emmalaine5059]

I have been a full time teacher for 19 years, and I’m a mom to three boys. I love my life. I feel so sad when I think about all hard working people out there who is been taking advantage of 😔

[@rosemarine_biology]

"be extraordinary" if there's one thing I've learnt from trauma and my partner too (unrelated haha) is that there's one thing that will bring you much more joy than "being extraordinary," and it's to see and appreciate the ordinary

[@ErinBies]

I’ve been waiting for you to drop this video!!!!

[@olyaz7032]

I can’t relate to few pedicures per week, I am not a mutant with supernatural nail growth

[@orlitamarov]

I moved to another country at the age of 22 and my bachelors degree was totally useless here, so I’ve started working in customer support both morning, middle of the day and night shifts. I did that for two years 9 hours 6 days a week. In three years I was already a team leader of the team I used to be in. And all while dealing with misdiagnosis and untreated bipolar disorder. I was working so hard that now I’m almost bed bound with long covid. I guess my body decided that enough is enough lol 😅

[@helenr4300]

Huge hugs. My sister was off work for a year with the effects of long covid, and although returned she is still limited. Meanwhile I was diagnosed bipolar finally at 40. I also had chronic fatigue in my 20s. Your experience is your own, no one can say they know it. But I hear you.

[@orlitamarov]

⁠​⁠@@helenr4300I’m happy your sister feels better, hope she will recovery fully soon! Finding a good doctor, who can recognize BPAD and provide correct medication is so hard… Not shaming doctors, these are mostly systematic issues

[@helenr4300]

ma'am - the kids may not be with you when you started, but you can stop it, or even pause to do the parenting thing

[@Sammyjune26]

JJ, you killed it, girl!!

[@lifewithdk_sa]

Wait, what does entrepreneurship have to do with adopting a kid from China!?

[@UsernameUnkwn21]

Ugghhh she just drones on and on and on about NOTHING

[@foreverwander0320]

All I heard was that her husband has been galavanting around Europe without her for weeks…👀

[@keytyper4296]

I volunteered for a historical association when I was in high school. We had to record and take images of some of the journals and diaries of quite a few wealthy property owners and plantation owners. It is astounding and scary how eerily similar the word choices and god-dropping these MLM people use today as compared to literal slave owners in those awful times. If the crops failed, or something broke, it was always because of the “lazy ungrateful” slaves. Many older wealthy women were obsessed back then with “legacy” via wealth and marrying off their children into the “right” family. So if the huge old estate was falling apart, it was time to marry into some wealth or power to get said wealth.Worthiness equals wealth and oppressing others to get what they feel they deserve. It’s gross. Some things never change.

[@amandahaak4017]

Grateful for pediatric ultrasound techs! Our tech found pyloric stenosis in my son when he was 14 days old. Because of her skill and education she took clear images for the surgeon and my son was operated on the next day. Your legacy is truly helping people with serious health issues.

[@jonathantyler3420]

Why does she need 5 pedicures a month? Seems excessive considering they last a while

[@heathiesss12]

Her feet must be rancid

[@PrincessMeggs3]

Thank you for making these videos. Random comment your makeup and hair look amazing. ❤

[@audreygaddis2238]

The way they shame office workers is so wild. The way she was so proud that her son wants to be an entrepreneur while implying that him wanting to work in an office would’ve given her less pride 😑

[@samtyers8236]

When my daughter was 3, I went to college for 2 years. Then we moved across the country, and I started university . During my time at university, we moved twice . Then we moved nearer to my daughter's high school, when she finished school, we moved again near to her college so I had a bungalow to live in, while she was in college I went to college for a year. She's now living away at university and loving every minute

[@JA-rh6wq]

This was a SHARP commentary. I really like how you did not let the adoption story derail you.

[@GretchenTheGreat]

She seems bitter & like she’s trying to convince herself that she likes her life when she’s really sobbing in the closet. Husband galavanting in Europe weeks for the longest wedding I’ve heard of like it takes near a Month to wed there… or is he doing business lol? She didn’t even use a pause to correct that BS.

[@helenr4300]

Yep. In UK it has become a trend for hen/stag parties to be a long weekend somewhere else in Europe, even adding that onto a wedding weekend.....

[@SirThinks2Much]

"Are we raising lazy people?" She may be. She could be teaching her kids the value of hard work if she does things with them, instead of trying to escape them in what appears to be their own room.

[@beyourownsunshine5548]

For anyone who may see this comment - please know you are worth everything. You are hardworking and doing the best you can, and as a therapist I hope you know being “soft” with yourself is important. Take time for yourself even if it’s just a few minutes… hustle culture and money making is not worth it if your mental and physical health are struggling !

[@janemclean7032]

She is so in the twilight zone! I grew up as a single mom. My daughter‘s favorite toy was a cute refrigerator box,that we decorated played in made a house out of and she played in there with her friends forever! She is honest and lovely. She is on her own journey and finding out, her own path, the way it should be. If there’s one thing, I taught her t is to be empathetic, kind, compassionate, and help others along with taking care of her soul! I would much rather be poor, and raise my child with love and self-esteem and happiness, then pushing this crap on them that is really destructive! Julie, Joe, you❤❤ look beautiful today. Thanks for 😅bringing to our attention.

[@NeroTypical]

Your commentary is always amazing and on point.

[@Lillith333]

Okay, my take is this: The best way to raise your kids is to set the best example that you can and be a good human. Making money by becoming an MLM'er high up in the ranks means scamming and stepping on other people. That is a horrible example to set for your kids. I am currently in my final year of a CS degree in which I worked very hard. That is to change my life and I am over 50. Hey may not make build a dream house money when I graduate but I CAN and WILL be able to look myself in the mirror knowing that I am trying to be the best human that I can be and making good money while I am at it! JulieJo awesome job and great takes on this video!

[@katiedaily]

Did she send a thank you card to every person in her downline for the amount that they sold and the people they recruited to allow for her to receive those checks that she's so "humbly" bragging about "making" to be able to adopt her daughter. The disgusting condescending voice she's using to brag that she did it in 8.5 months is almost as bad as her white upper class privilege for being able to do something like this so quickly. I have friends that have been waiting years to be approved for adoption and they are incredible human beings that would love so hard on any baby they would be blessed with and they are not resorting to scamming family and friends to make money to expediate the process. Check your privilege.

[@kelseygaddy3332]

She makes it a point to say bottom instead of butt, but then says “hell yes”. Wtf?

[@Aerodil]

My wife's father had the idea of not having soft kids. He didn't believe in "being soft." She no longer speaks to her dad much. Edit: If Rendi has this mindset, she's going to lose even more of her downline and possibly even friends.

[@ZipperedBelle]

All I can say to this person is "the ends don't justify the means"😊

[@kelliveit2468]

Wow that was a lot of ridiculousness and Mom-shaming!

[@Carol_Pearson]

I was working a full time job, still in the same industry, which requires 50-60 hours a week from January- March, while working on a masters, and dealing with an abusive marriage followed by a divorce while in school and working. Currently, still working a full time job that requires 50-60 hours a week minimum January - March, and running for local office for the second year in a row, and helping others with their campaigns, and creating and selling artwork, plus caring for a dog, and taking care of/ making repairs to my house, and building and designing a garden in my backyard. When I was in an MLM, yes, I used to make phone calls during my lunch break and go to meetings every night and on weekends, but I was no busier than I am currently. Just because I get paid for my full time job doesn't mean I don't work hard at it...

[@beyourownsunshine5548]

Saying people are not hardworking is wild, I can only imagine how many other jobs her down line have on top of whatever housework and family things are going on . I feel so sorry for her downline