what happens when pick me grows up?

[@zoeunlimited]

What are your thoughts on the parents on Tiktok 🫣 (pick me behaviors, boy moms, monetizing children) 👉🏻Visit audible.com/zoeunlimited or text zoeunlimited to 500-500 for a free trial. lmk what you're listening to ☺🫶🏻🎧

[@kriky54]

Really bad

[@zoeunlimited]

they scare me ngl@@kriky54

[@lamari_posa]

It's scary💀

[@watchtheworldburn6908]

Zoe!!! No, that was torture!! Karen Pick Me moms are the worst! Still love you, Zoe.

[@watchtheworldburn6908]

​@lamari_posa the first line of the video was a warning of the scary material in this video. ⚠️

[@fatemajahra1371]

"He doesn't need a wife when he has me." Wait til a father says that about his daughter

[@missstranger7697]

Exactly! Because girl dads can be as obsessive, as the toxic boy moms can be....😂🤷‍♀️

[@celestialudenburg3807]

I’m the 1k like lol

[@Panda-gx2rs]

They already do

[@eveningstar8581]

Exactly! It's awful if he does it, but content worthy of a mom does it?! Like what?!!

[@victoriaalson]

@@eveningstar8581 I agree that there is a double standard, but that's literally what the tiktoker was making fun of, it was a pov...

[@SBaldwin]

I can’t believe it’s not against the law to use your children for entertainment WITHOUT CONSENT. Absolutely crazy.

[@InternetNonsense]

I guess it's muddied by wholesome family time candid moments (which I guess could be resolved by using extended family private groupchats) and generally looking for and sharing parenting tips like "what is this rash in this image?" (though I guess that's not really entertainment, but could be if non life threatening situation is presented in some humorous way). Sharing any person as main focus without their consent is shady in my opinion and kids are vulnerable to extreme creepery so I'm not against treating them in Amish ways.

[@darlingdander9482]

It wouldn't matter Parents would still manipulate, gaslight, guiltrip, emotionally abuse these kids into it

[@missstranger7697]

@@darlingdander9482 That's especially true for girls. Because boys receive more respect than them, for going through similar stuff.

[@nazekpurplesyou9739]

Kids can't give consent since they are so young, so even if the parents got the kids to agree on being in video posted online, it's wrong since the child cannot understand the consequences of that video being there and may regret it when it grows up. Imagine your life as a young child being documented and seen by countless strangers

[@SavannahSteel]

How can you give consent to anything as a child? Isn’t that the point?

[@paularubio2527]

Honestly, for me the only way to go at this point is prohibiting showing children under 14 in the social media. If they are not old enough to have their own accounts, they shouldn’t be online.

[@deddeeee409]

I agree, but the age should be raised to 16

[@cookieism.]

@@deddeeee409 agreed. I just turned 16 and i’ve never had any social media other than youtube and pinterest and my parents say i’m aloud to get everything now but i’m going to pass 💀 nobody will ever catch me alive using tiktok.

[@cookieism.]

*allowed

[@143LOVESTAY]

yah i wish i wasn't an ipad kid cause when we were younger we had unlimited access to social media and i ended up getting an ED at 15... And even now that i'm 17 i feel bad cause i missed so much of my childhood busy online and stuff.

[@ChibiAikoChan]

​@deddeeee409 as someone who literally JUST turned 16, I don't think you should do that to your kid.. like honestly. They will grow up so limited and feel so left out and different from the other kids.. I mean come on? You can let them have social media as long as you monitor it.

[@kiwimiwi5452]

My mom posted pictures of my sister and I as kids on the internet back in 2005-ish SAFELY. How? She made a private website JUST for family members, locked behind a password which was only shared with our close family that was living quite far away. She kept it up for about 2 years and people like my aunt could take a look and see how we were doing. It's really sweet to look back at. THAT is how you create forever lasting memories online. NOT on public platforms.

[@arinarina6477]

you're mom is a genius

[@heathercontois4501]

Go on the wayback machine and see if you can find it.

[@comradeleppi2000]

Aww your mom is so sweet and intelligent

[@infj4w511]

Social media influencing really worsened every issue that ever existed, because now you're rewarded for being extreme

[@missstranger7697]

Bingo!! Social media is the reason the internet space became toxic and insufferable to deal with...😅

[@laurafox3373]

And because the algorithm keeps showing stuff similar to what you’ve already been watching, so it forms a false consensus - that people think it is more common than it really is.

[@tanatswamhandire5604]

I thought as Gen Z we had collectively agreed not to give our children trauma

[@WildStrawberries]

do u know that not all gen z people have yet/want to have kids? i think these bad parents shown in the video are probably late millennials

[@mentalissues9514]

If the age range is from 1995 to 2010 than the oldest gen z are 29 and probably do have children @@WildStrawberries

[@Unscriptedsetup]

@@WildStrawberriespeople tend to forget that every gen has fucked up people and traumatized people, it’s hard to raise kids when you’re dealing with unheard trauma, it’s hard to become a better parent if you never had the role model of a good parent in general.

[@zoenoelle8844]

@@mentalissues9514 i think it's from '97 to '12 but i see where you're coming from

[@Classified16]

it’s from 95 to 09

[@francesnam]

Some people really shouldn’t be having kids 😭

[@missstranger7697]

Yeah, especially women.

[@francesnam]

@@missstranger7697 🤣

[@lou__ley]

*most

[@liviayoung7578]

I must quote Honey Bat: "Having a functioning uterus means that you can have kids, but it doesn't mean that you should."

[@windcrystal1349]

@@missstranger7697 so only gay men should have kids ?.. i mean, i'm okay with that, but like..

[@marciamarques2899]

i'm a daughter of a pick me, and so is my boyfriend, I do not recommend it, traumatic experience tbh, for everyone involved

[@adreejasingharoy]

Girl stay strong ❤

[@bgreenshoes1]

Oh sweet girl, I am so fcking sorry 😞 I'm the opposite of a pi k me mom, so id be happy to take over for yours! Have u been drinking your water sweetie? Make sure u get a good night's sleep so u have a wonderful morning tomorrow! Sweet dreams baby, sleep tight! 😘😘😘

[@marciamarques2899]

@@bgreenshoes1 aww thank you so much,

[@natas3301]

You are not bigger version of "mom". Father must also get involved, stupid out of touch mommies 💀

[@dry_strawberries]

Im a psychology major and i attended a zoom meeting about child abuse and there were lawyers who work with children. I asked about child labor on internet and one of them mentioned the first ever case to open about this which to a famous person ìn Turkiye. They said the case was still ongoing. It's just so sickening how normalised it is

[@missstranger7697]

You could have easily worked with adults as well...😂🤷‍♀️

[@dry_strawberries]

@missstranger7697 i didn't understand what you said well

[@missstranger7697]

​@@dry_strawberries That you have potential to work with older people, not just children.

[@Cuteemogirl94]

I have two little children. In our Generation we experienced parents that where into drug abuse and mostly alcoholics or sexual and other physical and emotional abuse. The Generation of my children will talk to their therapists about their only fan moms, the neclect of the phone addicted parents and their Tik Tok parents.

[@almogxchq5282]

@@dry_strawberries Your sentence 'I attended a zoom meeting about child abuse and there were lawyers who work with children' is what they're joking about. Since you said these lawyers 'work with children'. It's taken in the wrong context to make a joke by @missstranger7697. Hence forth them saying 'You could have easily worked with adults as well' and the follow up reply to your request for clarification.

[@VAbyss1977]

7:19 I actually think this mom is being very rational. Teaching her son to cook so that he'll better understand his future partner and treat them as equals is a pretty noble concept and VASTLy different from the other boy mom tiktoks. Just had to put a little comment over here since I haven't seen any other comments mentioning this lol

[@ilikecheeseandbeef7203]

I think she was added as a good example instead

[@youkamisakuro9213]

Because its a good one. Independency and "help" to the partner are a very good reasons unlike "so he will not be impressed by ur daughters food", even though each has a good result

[@purplelove3666]

Whats there to understand?,do women go to school to get an education so that they understand their husbands when they get a job? You do know that ,cooking and cleanig is literally BASIC SKILLS and not attributed to gender,RIGHT?

[@matwee]

YESS!! I was searching for this comment and I'm so happy I found it! I think this video was taken the wrong way. I feel like she was actually being more respectful towards woman because the mom was saying that she's teaching her son to cook so that his future wife won't have to do all the cooking and work. :) Also I'm not rlly sure if you got the wrong timeline but I was talking about the 7:28 mom ^^

[@bookgirl2]

After you get married and have kids, why are you still a 'pick me'? You got picked. Checkmate, you win. 😂😂 You can drop it.

[@missstranger7697]

Exactly, it's crazy that these women refuse to realise the mess they create and literally act like they don't care about it...😂 No wonder girls are filled with insecurities these days. I hope these women seek therapy, so that they can be better for themselves and their relationships with men.

[@InternetNonsense]

They alienated all their girlfriends and sanity though and only socialization and attention they get is slimy misogynistic men so gotta keep up the pandering act, it's a vicious cycle because they surrounded themselves with worst of the worst who either leave or set horrible example. And worst thing is they know it because they think toddler girl is a competition. Like, gurl, how are you ok with nonces around you if you think your CHILD is stealing them away??? Pickmes are an enigma because what they do is counterintuitive to humanity's wellbeing and evolution.

[@missstranger7697]

FR....😂

[@Kat_cheeze]

Fr lol😂😂😂

[@user-ny1wo1vp9r]

Because 'pick me ' is a misnomer. They aren't trying to get picked. They are looking for clout.

[@-burntrosemary-]

Honestly so glad my parents don’t do social media rn too 😂

[@hi_rya]

Me too

[@kroxxroad814]

Honestly my family is like this I have a cousin who’s male, the same age as me, and gets glorified. And it especially doesn’t help when all my family does it make excuses for his bad behavior because of his disability. This is so frustrating and I’ve been putting up with it for years, and what makes me so annoyed is he gets treated like a baby, has things picked up after him, and it’s all by my aunts. While I have the be the “independent big girl” and do all of that but for myself, not that it’s a problem, but what is a problem is he rarely does any of this and when he does he gets praised for it..Praised for doing the BARE.MINIMUM.

[@iismaxyt]

If you dont mind sharing, what disability does he have?

[@kroxxroad814]

@@iismaxyt Autism and some hints of adhd

[@iismaxyt]

@@kroxxroad814 is he like (for lack of a better word) super autistic or is he high functioning?

[@iismaxyt]

@@kroxxroad814 is he high functioning or like non verbal autistic

[@throwawae]

I also have auDHD and I'm a girl, he won't survive.

[@kamilareeder1493]

I teach PE and deal with of teen/tween boys. Whenever they're misogynistic , gross or bad to a girl, I make them go the office, call mom/grandma and tell HER and the female principal, what they/said or did to get them there. Usually the embarrassment is punishment enough Edit: I also do this when they're misogynistic or bad to eachother too. We not raising a pack of wolves lol 🤭

[@kamilareeder1493]

Usually, the mother will make them publicly apologize to whomever at lunch. I think small-scale public shame can be really good for Bratty teens 😂🙈😈 especially since it doesn't hamper them academically and they end up learning they lesson lol :P

[@snehdalavi9779]

Ayooo ❤🎉👏🏻

[@evilmunchkin6332]

W pe teacher

[@RuanMei_SocietyGenius]

Some people will say that the things are you doing are too heavy but unfortunately a lot of boys only learn in bad ways and their parents has a lot of guilty in there

[@mrgabe1]

Lmao, my old gym teacher used to do the same but with the girls too cause equality, funny cause I thought it was only him doing that kinda stuff

[@TurtleSquirrles]

I am a mother of a little boy, and I live in terror that people think I mean “boy mom” lol. Don’t get me wrong. Sometimes I cry thinking about a girl breaking his heart, but I also cry thinking about my future daughter, who will have her heartbroken by a boy. I just cry about my kids OK lol

[@TurtleSquirrles]

@@iwantbobaX100 a parent from the “rawr XD” generation 😂

[@Minteadovey]

@@iwantbobaX100What? Want them to say “HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHSHSHHS?” 😂

[@RuanMei_SocietyGenius]

Aww that's cute

[@Ajlatango]

Normal parents don’t post on tik tok or even have tik tok

[@keniaf.o.6545]

Exactly!

[@Collectingillusions]

Cool I’m a normal parent 🤣

[@ngghnkmhvdhnibvccbnktrusfa5376]

Its not abt having a tiktok acc but its abt what theyre posting abt their kids

[@galbidogfart]

Facts!

[@hurremhightower]

nah,what social media they have is no one problem the problem comes when they post their kids,there are many parents with tik tok that you wouldn’t even know they are parents cause they don’t post their kids

[@fenziran_m]

I had a female friend who acted like a pick me boy, and she was letting the entire year literally walk on her. She wasn't in any high sets, but compared herself to the top 5% of students saying they were so lucky and she was just soo bad and tried to get them (me included) to sympathize with her. The friendship unsurprisingly fell apart when she ghosted me, saying that I was the one ignoring her and that I was a terrible friend. A toxic pushover pick me was describing her best.

[@Stolas-lv4bq]

Dude my old no longer friend had a boy mom, tell me why she said “oh he’s just being silly and eve teasing” when he threatened to show up to where I worked and force himself on me while I’m working

[@canele108]

Jeez that's creepy. Hope you're safe and away from them now

[@annaaa4477]

did the kids just smack the moms butt 💀💀OMG💀💀

[@missstranger7697]

I wonder if it was their father who encouraged them, to behave that way... If he did, he probably is the reason the mom is accepting the behaviour💀

[@worldwidewebdot]

I like how accurate you profilpic is, based on what we all saw rn

[@ChibiAikoChan]

I do that to my mom.. it's normal and alot of daughters do it lol

[@chloemiller-co8mn]

​@@ChibiAikoChan no it isn't

[@annaaa4477]

@@ChibiAikoChan IDK in my house that is the last thing you would wanna do if you want to die and its the same for almost everyone

[@DaniF-0621]

This is disturbing, CPS needs to check on this people, a psychological assessment is mandatory, i'm a mother clearly this people have several behavioral issues

[@theamazingcowlet]

In many countries CPS do a shit job protecting children from harm and lack of lawful prevention of child abuse is abhorrent

[@inolaheart]

I've always found weird the adoration that some moms can have for their boys, it's like they're mixing the whole "man of my life" thing and they eventually look for these men to take care of them above all other women, that's toxic!

[@sarahfolla4816]

The sad part is how these kind of psychological complexes are overlooked even if they are right before our own eyes...

[@girl_gacha6368]

Reason to subscribe - her voice - information New sub❤

[@ereh31]

i can't believe i'm saying this but even though i went through years of abuese and still suffering from truauma, my parents raised me kinda right because now i know how to not be a bad parent, this is awful

[@UncleMikeDrop]

"Boys will be boys" is supposed to be for eyeroll worthy, but ultimately harmless behavior.

[@jelenkaa]

FR

[@elephantsac3961]

Mmmmm I disagree, it’s used as an ‘excuse’ for sexual harassment/abuse, teaches (mainly) women that they have to put up with it because boys will be boys and they can’t change it. It is, however, still sometimes harmless, but in this scenario is not

[@joyo1379]

harmless behaviour at the cost of, mostly women, around them. its an excuse to not correct them bcoz "thats how they are"

[@InternetNonsense]

It should've been "kids will be kids" or something like that then, because as of now it devolved into "weiner = no accountability". As if filthy destructivity is a must for them and you shouldn't expect better, you fool. For some reason men are okay with keeping this low standard for themselves and then get surprised at "decenter men" movements and "loneliness epidemics".

[@Cuteemogirl94]

As a mother of a son and a daughter this makes me soooo god damn angry. My son is 4 and I have to teach him still quite often that he is suposed to respect other peoples boundaries, I don't even mention the gender. He is not supposed to hit someone in general. I recently explained to him that he is not allowed to take pictures of other people without asking first (he has no phone and no Ipad, instead we bought him a real camera for children, in case he wants to become a photagropher in the future and the interest stays). I also teached him that only his father is allowed to touch me so close for example my boobs or my butt because we love eachother romantically and are in a relationship, I also told him that he has to ask other children first if he wants to give them a hug or a kiss. It is soooo important to teach them at a early age already. Also the world doesn't revolve around him

[@kou_isthatyou]

God this touches such an important topic

[@Jane_85]

As someone who's a daughter of a pick me mom, I'm so glad someone talked about this

[@elisabethkurkina5472]

I know that feeling, sister

[@agathaaleixo9729]

Zoe always on point

[@ohsayitdittooo]

No

[@windcrystal1349]

@ville__ "asperger's syndrome" is an ableist term. please do researches and find a word that fits you without being ableist to use, and which doesn't put down other autistic people.

[@ender4384]

​@@windcrystal1349 From looking at their channel they dont seem like a good person​, just ignore them

[@TheRealBombshell]

You don't have to be a parent to know that what they're doing is wrong. All you need is common sense, which seems to not be too common.

[@merlokiii]

Have those people considering going to a psychologist or even psychiatrist? They should.

[@angelahale11]

I have tons of opinions about this topic, but mostly I'm just obsessed with your blue checkered shirt. Keep doin' you, Zoe!!!! ❤

[@tubularfr]

I appreciate that you end your videos on a positive note. You don’t take the easy route and say, “everything is going to crap,” and leave it at that. You sprinkle some encouragement at the end, and that’s really cool. Great video ofc ofc

[@joanamagni]

Freud is typing ...

[@zoeunlimited]

Hahaha

[@sashasscorner]

Its funny how internet changes who we are so radically, me for example s Gen z i want to have children and we will live in the forest teaching them respect and love for nature, feeding them real food, teaching them real education and socialization will always be available if they want to be social... I grew up with a pick me mom, she until this day downgrades me and she has literally said "im not like other women" 😂 and shes a gen x... It makes me really sad tho for this kids cuz they'll hate social media and internet

[@beyond.thepages_]

What do you mean by real education though? Just asking because I'm curious..

[@sashasscorner]

@@beyond.thepages_ real history, applicable math, good literature, herbology, cooking, politics, self defense basically how to survive and live in the world knowledge wise... (Edit, also sciences whatever they choose, according to their skills and interests that they're born with, giving them the tools to exploit and investigate more on that while also the common knowledge)

[@KvWasHere]

@sashasscorner im gen-z, and I'm in the same boat as you. Watching degeneracy unfold online did radicalize me. I want to have children, and when I do, I know how NOT to raise them. Also, I'm super committed to not raising an iPad kid.

[@HjaeeeRrr-wl5hh]

5:32 MY JAW DROPPED OMGGG

[@Lyra-u8u]

You're amazing, I love you. You have so many wonderful and informative videos that flat out state the truth and even though topics like this are hard to chew, it's really important awareness is being spread, so thank you

[@dr.supriyakini]

Thank you for these videos! They are a huge how-not-to-be as a parent guide! Pick-mes turned boy-mom's end up raising predators, abusers & entitled boys(not men). 😢 A dad behaving this way with his daughter would be shamed, cancelled & incarcerated!! This is probably why mother-in-laws are more likely to be the problematic family member than father-in-laws. Just a bunch of unfortunate women who couldn't build healthy relationships & boundaries😢

[@AydenWalker-ep2qf]

I love what i safe place this channel is for everyone

[@heathercontois4501]

Parenting classes should be mandatory for everyone who's going to have kids. If they have more than one, both parents need to attend classes, and pass, every 5 years. And those classes must contain a comprehensive lesson on the impact of tech on children.

[@Kite28-]

This is terrifying 😭 I never thought that such a thing could even exist...

[@elzies_mice]

2:09 Riri is really sweet :( all her videos are satire

[@irasingh8072]

7:28 Hey I think that's a fair point

[@siamituallawt4034]

I agree

[@mydna8372]

I was just gonna write this! I agree!

[@INTJ_5w4]

My toxic trait was to think these women were sterile, simply because my mind couldn't wrap up the idea of them being mothers. What a harsh truth I phased today. ( 6:35 What did I just witness? What if it had been a father-daughter interaction?).

[@ines_sings]

I sincerely appreciate your learned approach to the topics you work on as well as your soft spoken voice. This one scares me immensely… it feels like everything we are trying to do as women and men to acknowledge women as equal to men gets immediately hurt by behaviours as dangerous as pick me moms to talk of this tendency only. I never want to have a child I’d bully in any way. A parent’s job is to help their child grow into a respectful, blossoming version of their own selves, not an extension of the parents or an “inferior” one or an entitled person who’ll meet disappointment the hard way… Anyway, thanks for your hard work and research. A pleasure to learn with you.

[@Anushka_san-b7b]

Being narcissistic or wanted to be picked is not bad but when your confidence rely on others then it is. You give control to them and insults others then it is problematic.

[@Kiki_742]

The queen has posted!!!🩷✨

[@watchtheworldburn6908]

The queen of growth she is.

[@roopthongbluniverse3116]

This sh*t is so scary. I will be terrified to give birth to a daughter if that means she'll have to go through all these boy mom's narcissistic sons

[@sanije5955]

7:28 is good though? she’s saying that she’s teaching him how to cook so that there’s an equal balance in the relationship instead of him seeing her as a servant

[@geetmittal]

she was right others were wrong

[@StayArtsy]

Gosh, I'm soooo glad my parents are my parents now...

[@spxce.3lf]

I barely post pics of myself online. I never post pics of my child online because I have no control over who can access them. I only share with family and a few trusted friends. They already know how private I like to keep my life. None of it is that interesting anyway lol.

[@RikkiestAndTikkiest]

I believe mentally healthy people don't have a TikTok.

[@missstranger7697]

And mentally healthy people don't have incestuous relationships with their children...😂 Boy moms and girl dads being examples.

[@newname3718]

Even if they have tiktok, they don't stand out that much 😂

[@Alexandra-vl1us]

I'm so showing this comment to my Boomer dad who watches TikTok for hours :D

[@Billieeyelash567_8]

Um makes no sense

[@Maria_Svetlana_5923]

Had a masculine mom and im a femenine daughter its a challenge to spend time with her and when she got me dolls only to take it away just cause i became a teen whos into fashion .......

[@ZoeritaRandomSwiftieThings]

Sarahklait is literally my favorite! She pokes fun at people that do stupid things. 😂😂😂

[@Abbys_little_gremlin_Kirby0831]

5:25 ok, as I biological female who has grown up with both loving parents, I don’t see a problem with them kissing they’re kids on the lips WHILE THEY ARE UNDER THE AGE OF 4 anything over that is completely disgusting. I get that if you’re a parent who was an adorable little kid ofc you’re going to want to give as much affection as you want. In fact my parents did this, yes both mother and father. But that stopped once they knew that you shouldn’t be trying to kiss your child on the lips once they’re in school. As little kids, we think it’s nice when your parents kiss you (at least I did) it showed that they loved and cared deeply for you, but there is a time when you do start to become older and boundaries have to be made. Such as an age when a father can stop showering his daughter.

[@-_Shining_Star_-]

Zoe words things so my simple mind can understand Ty 😌

[@fabrylucy]

This is sad, pathetic and very concerning.. I’m not a mother but it’s useful to know such kind of people are among us

[@imcalledbeans]

When ur more worried about ur aesthetic than living a happy life

[@Anxietea045]

Love the fit Zoe

[@Magassa294]

I think the problems is still and always the PATRIACIAL

[@iamfrickincool]

Sad but true, it's the foundation of the matter

[@VideosForYou90]

Facts!

[@gamerbutnotforrealtho7834]

Thats why we need feminism

[@martijnkoning3354]

I dont really see the link in this topic tbh

[@itsalwayshalloweenexceptwh5118]

@@martijnkoning3354 Patriarchy is a social system in which men hold the majority of the political, social and economic power. In such a system boys and men are valued more than girls and women. Pickmes also hold this belief and when they become "boy moms" (a term used for mothers who treat their sons as if they are a prince and instill in them a belief that everyone else is there to cater to them) they pass this belief down to their sons.

[@AfrinCookingDairy]

The fact that they post their crazy online and a child service don't knock on their doors.

[@ushanka08]

Normal parents ask "are you hungry?" every 2-3 hours.

[@p4nda_bebe]

I was about to go on a lil rant about how the evil queen wasn’t like those tiktok boy moms because she saw snow as competition for her beauty but then I realized most of the are like that

[@GravityDontMeanTooMuchTooMe]

Boy moms probably treat their sons like Dudley Dursley but their daughters like Harry Potter.

[@powderalways]

And the mom is Petunia😂😂

[@Millie-560]

Girl you look like a model ✨

[@Justhereforthevibes189]

As a mom I try to keep my baby away from my content. I know she isn’t old enough to consent. So I limit how much and what I put up with her.

[@KpopStan-TMF]

3:54 I SAW THE QUEEN

[@Me_and_More]

2:07 & 2:59 Riri’s not a pick me; she makes fun of pick me’s

[@VaporeonKanto]

2:10 is an example of someone who mocks pick mes

[@Reese680]

5:32 this is disgusting. this is coming from someone with a brother who does the same to my mom.

[@inmyhead22]

On another note, this hair style really suits you :)

[@rodriguesah]

zoe youre like a mother to me thank you

[@nadianotz8504]

Also, at the begging with “the best sandwich place” I’ve been there multiple times, but one time my dad got the worst food poisoning he’s ever had in his life. They literally leave out the sauces and meats, don’t wash their hands and let flies land on everything.

[@svp3rstzr]

0:07 JAKE AND TARA⁉️⁉️⁉️

[@Sophiapuppybarks]

If I had children, I would teach them how to cook regardless if it’s a daughter or son. Boy moms, on the other hand, teach their sons to cook because they want them to not be impressed by a girl’s takeout. We are not the same

[@sosha20]

ugh this is why my niblings don't get screentime at my house; they have to play with toys and read books like i did growing up

[@Round_orb]

The years are getting worse now it’s Sephora kids, pick me’s ,SA, 10-16 doing thirst traps ,moms posting their children in clothes NOT for kids social media is rotting kids childhood and moms treating there kids

[@giovannamaia7363]

I loved your outfit and hair😮

[@Troseboo]

I have never understood the whole boy mom situation, when you have a daughter. You get to raise your own best friend.

[@nidhijoshi5472]

Freud must be so happy

[@aarthibose2332]

im actual 13 but my parents are 40 and none of them are like this (btw i absolutely love you vids and ur style and ilysm)

[@TheCommenterrr]

My sister is a pick me girl unfortunately. My mom was a tomboy through and through. She genuinely had guy friends who wanted to be around her. Everyone liked her for who she was. My sister has always had a personality that was hard to get along with. She’d blame all her problems on girls, saying, and I quote,” Girls just don’t like me because I can hang out with guys and they can’t.” Pick. Me. My mom heard her and instantly grew quiet with sadness, because she knew my sister would never be able to make people like her that way. However, my sister had changed a lot and she was able to make several friends

[@oleusna]

The ‘pick me’ mums remind me of how my mum absolutely hated my brother’s ex and kept saying “I’m the only woman in his life!”

[@gacusfisher8521]

3:26 Grey's Anatomy mentioned

[@coconutnot831]

Thank god, I only have to stop my mom from buying everything she sees from tiktok shop 😂

[@delphina1277]

The chaos created by pick me's are insane

[@avabbg]

5:33 omg what did i just see ewww

[@garimaaa2008]

HAPPY TO BE AN ASIAN.

[@qalontsepe]

8:38 Please tell me why I heard ‘MOM-etising’ 😭…?

[@lilybaker732]

This just sounds like a trendy new way to say "Oedipus complex."

[@hello_nan07]

I personally feel like there should be some kind of test for becoming a parent. I don't know but yeah atleast some real guidance on 'how to raise children'. Should people really glorify these weird, destructive thing? Do they even think about how it would affect society. Love Zoe for bringing out this topic❤🎉. & really grateful for never being on tik tok or any such kinda stupid app

[@clary98]

Sarah Klait is really good at doing parodies of those moms

[@leahrotter4450]

Aww you're just great Zoe!

[@logandmk3205]

Pick me moms making sure mommy issues are still a thing

[@TheAwsomeSisters-w1j]

3:01 NO NOT RIBIBI 🤠🤠🤠

[@vyd3s]

7:57 THAT'S MY MOM😭😭

[@cakeycrafts]

I feel like parents just need to understand this… Let kids be Kids! In my personal opinion, if I was a vlogger and had kids, I wouldn’t expose them online unless it’s a private post with people we really know. This is because I want my children to be happy, have fun, play, and not constantly be forced to make videos they don’t want to do. If they ever want to start a channel, I will be supportive, but if it’s not what they want to do or want to be on, I would never force them. It’s just cruel… The parents should actually let their children have a life, treat them equally no matter what gender, not expose them to stuff you don’t need to worry about at that age, and actually include their ideas to make them feel loved 😅❤

[@_Cera]

Girl your closet is goals.

[@ControversialClown]

My mom is a millineal pick me, never had a great relationship with her and im 23 now. Thought she just didnt like kids...well now shes dating a 30 year old man child who has a little boy. Now shes full boy mom mode she even said to me(her only child and daughter) that "she always wished she had a boy". thankfully she had me young so im grown now and dont have to deal with that. but damn i feel bad for that little boy

[@AshutoshK-w4e]

6:35: CPS and Women Helplines will be CPS and Women Helplines!

[@achiblitz_]

0:07 that wasn’t the child’s actual parents 😭 they did a video on Jake’s channel where they babysat their friend’s kid