What I learned from a year of not buying clothing | No-buy year 2020

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Vested Interests

Vested Interests

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@MotherCoconuts811
@MotherCoconuts811 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video! I was guilty of making some unwise stress purchases at the beginning of the pandemic. Now that it's getting to be winter, I find myself browsing online stores mostly out of boredom and it needs to stop. One thing I've found to help curb the urge to shop is to deep clean something - my phone case, stove, fridge, etc. It gives me the "I have something new" feeling without actually buying something.
@ElizabethScottStress
@ElizabethScottStress 4 жыл бұрын
That's a really good tip! Thanks for sharing :)
@ems5742
@ems5742 4 жыл бұрын
I felt like shopping, went to declutter my jewelry instead yesterday, and then I changed tactics- I put on some music and deep cleaned the tarnish off of all my old silver pieces. It really does make me feel like I have something new.
@excellentcat3878
@excellentcat3878 2 жыл бұрын
That's a really good insight and methodology ❤️👍👌
@giedre8921
@giedre8921 4 жыл бұрын
I dont know why I cant stand shopping for clothes, it takes so much energy and time thats why I started buying clothes online.
@LisaVanGemert
@LisaVanGemert 3 жыл бұрын
Your point about not necessarily getting rid of everything is so important! If you can box things up and put them elsewhere, you can "shop" from your own things. That is the ultimate in recycling. Many moms use a version of this with kids' toys. They pack up some and rotate them. It's like getting new ones. Sometimes there's even more joy in the return of an old favorite than in something brand new. So, yes, it's a good strategy for the purpose you describe, and it has other applications and benefits as well.
@christined2495
@christined2495 4 жыл бұрын
Sooooo Happy to see you, I agree with so much of what you said. My husband and I share a walk in closet, 3 racks have no clothes hung up on my side of the closet.... I love my capsule wardrobe, makes getting dressed so easy, I’ll never go back. Yes to self care, It makes a huge difference, I have learned during pandemic, to chill, do deep breathing, a night time skin care routine really relaxes me before bed....eating plant based, and enjoying preparing meals.. I have turned into someone who doesn’t want to really shop anymore, unless it’s intentional and I need it.. Take care xo
@jillengel4124
@jillengel4124 4 жыл бұрын
I went thru my closet and got down to a capsule wardrobe. I love it.
@debmorehead1118
@debmorehead1118 4 жыл бұрын
For a person that only buys 18 items in 3 years, you shouldn't have a problem not shopping. That is 6 item per year. I would already say you have been practicing no buy .
@JS-ns8dr
@JS-ns8dr 3 жыл бұрын
Yep lmaoooooo
@AuthenticInFashion
@AuthenticInFashion 4 жыл бұрын
This is awesome! Congratulations! I have stopped shopping on 15 September and have never felt better. I save money, I actually wear what I own and I no longer have this strange pressure to constantly be looking for new things.
@annabelle7123
@annabelle7123 3 жыл бұрын
I do agree to the last point, be careful what you throw away. You might need them for home wear or even for cleaning 😅 And yes to using what you already own! That's my take away lesson 🙂
@melligolightly
@melligolightly 4 жыл бұрын
What a treat to see a new video from you, Mel! Buying clothes really is my weakness and yet I find myself drawn to minimal closets again and again. Hope, I can figure this out sometime in the future. 2020 has not changed anything for me though, because I have never been staying at home from work even during lockdown in Germany. Stay safe.
@asparrow5505
@asparrow5505 4 жыл бұрын
I didn't buy any clothes for a year or so and so many things fell apart on me. Really emptied my closet of cheap clothing. I'm not striving for a crazy low amount. Just a reasonable amount of solid basics for a full wash. I also learned what fabrics and styles that I didn't like. I stopped wearing white, blue jeans and certain kinds of dresses because they personally do not work for me.
@melissa_annie24
@melissa_annie24 4 жыл бұрын
Completely agree with self care, especially the shower ! Amazing tips as usual, thank you for making this video 👌
@VestedInterests
@VestedInterests 4 жыл бұрын
lol, thank you! The struggle to will myself to bathe sometimes can be very real. #pandemiclife
@111-c5c
@111-c5c 4 жыл бұрын
A morning shower is essential for me. Or I kind of feel deprived. Luckily in Switzerland we have no water shortages.
@drawingout.net-vmcg
@drawingout.net-vmcg 4 жыл бұрын
So glad you're back. I miss your honesty and good sense! I am 3 months into no shopping even though I do go out to work. I have also decided to let my greying hair grow out and I'm loving it. Overall feel really good about my decisions and your video has cemented this for me...So 'Thank you!' Stay safe.
@anng.r.687
@anng.r.687 4 жыл бұрын
I always look forward to your videos. I failed miserably at my no-buy year, this year. BUT i did consciously ponder my purchases beforehand and become more intentional in the process. This year isn’t done...and...there is always next year, right?
@VestedInterests
@VestedInterests 4 жыл бұрын
Totally! It doesn't even have to be a full year--start with 1-6 months. Congrats of slowing down your shopping!
@nannibunni
@nannibunni 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t do a month. So I should start trying that 😂
@TheMakeupFascination
@TheMakeupFascination 4 жыл бұрын
True! I've had to buy more clothing pieces because of my new office job. But, all totally intentional purchases compared to my college years where I'd go out every weekend and bought clothes for no reason.
@yaeltuttebel
@yaeltuttebel 4 жыл бұрын
Im going to spend 2021 building a perfect capsule wardrobe, and then 2022 im not going to buy anything!
@yaeltuttebel
@yaeltuttebel 4 жыл бұрын
@Apolline LEDOUX niiiiice, good luck to u too :)
@katg8773
@katg8773 4 жыл бұрын
Good idea
@missblackwood
@missblackwood 3 жыл бұрын
That’s what I did last year and in 2019😂 even though I hardly got to wear any of it last year. Looking forward to hopefully getting out more in 2021😃
@alicesoundso7243
@alicesoundso7243 3 жыл бұрын
If you need inspiration for little capsules: use less and Daria Andronescu on KZbin make great videos too.
@annabelle7123
@annabelle7123 3 жыл бұрын
Good luck! I hope you don't buy a lot instead this year for this reason!
@freebirdy3771
@freebirdy3771 3 жыл бұрын
QUESTING! Thank you for giving me that word! I was already down that path and starting to just keep a list of things I'd LIKE to or even needed to have so that if I HAPPENED to run into them, I'd be ready, but to NOT spend vast amounts of time searching for something specific. I also found that as soon as I decided 2021 was going to be my no/low buy year, my decluttering journey ground to a halt and morphed into Use What I Have. Interesting and much to think about in 2021! Found your video while looking for pointers for my no/low buy 2021. Thanks!
@Roos_Loves_Parrots
@Roos_Loves_Parrots 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Mel, I like your last tip Use what you are. I have always easily given up clothes, but also easily bought something new. I had been aware of this for a while and it applies to even more areas. I don't know how it happened, but a while ago the penny dropped. I decided to hang the clothes that were already ready in the donation box back in my closet instead of donating it and buying "something better" in return. For now I am very satisfied, even proud of myself for making this choice.
@MsSassyMT
@MsSassyMT 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this video. I've been purging but I've also been shopping however, I am more intentional in terms of what I buy so I'm not just buying a shirt because it's cute, especially knowing full well I have nowhere to go. I'm only in the office one day a week so I have plenty of tops to rotate. I have purchased more loungewear as that area of my wardrobe was lacking.
@dori1425
@dori1425 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations I am a shopaholic and it definitely has to stop. Watching you tubers who have the perfect home decor and clothes for me can be so addicting. Have you ever been encouraged to shop by Vlogers influencers on style and home decor? What are your hobbies and what kind of books and movies you like to watch?
@squash6497
@squash6497 4 жыл бұрын
#5 resonated with me so much. I had a habit for months of donating, then buying something just like it a few months later. I'm planning a no-buy, which also includesa a no-donate for that reason.
@MarielaMerino
@MarielaMerino 4 жыл бұрын
i have only bought one piece of clothing during this pandemic. i havent gone anywhere and there was no need to. it would be cool to make it for a whole year!
@VestedInterests
@VestedInterests 4 жыл бұрын
You can do it!
@jillengel4124
@jillengel4124 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve only replaced a worn out rain parka and a pair of house slippers. Like you say we have nowhere to go.
@susannovak8263
@susannovak8263 4 жыл бұрын
First, it’s nice to see your smiling face again! Always enjoy your videos. I agree with all of your points and, upon reflection, I don’t think I have purchased any new clothes this year except for 4 new pair of socks. I’m not really into having a lot of clothes, but not being able to easily shop during the pandemic certainly helped. I like the setting for this video. From the mirror’s reflection, I’m guessing it’s the corner of your living room? I remember that corner being problematic for you while you were redecorating. It looks very nice.
@turningcursive2255
@turningcursive2255 4 жыл бұрын
Love what you’re saying about questing! Sometimes questing is fun but, for me, there’s a point where the return of pleasure diminishes. Also, I discovered some similar things about decluttering perspective changing during a pandemic. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I always look forward to your vids!
@VestedInterests
@VestedInterests 4 жыл бұрын
That's a good point. Being on the hunt can be fun--I just need to recognize when it moves beyond that into less productive territory. Glad you're also using this time to challenge your perspective!
@agata.binczak
@agata.binczak 4 жыл бұрын
You’re always very straight to the point. I really like that about your videos. Regarding decluttering I do have my own anecdote. I got rid of most of my clothes because I didn’t wear them/love them enough I thought. Now I ended up with shops closed, still having to go to work and very small wardrobe that consist of loungewear in 90%. I do miss some of the items and I am actually trying to repurchase them 😅
@VestedInterests
@VestedInterests 4 жыл бұрын
Oh no!! I realize this ship has sailed, but, in the future, I really recommend using a "trial separation" box so you can get a sense for what a smaller wardrobe would feel like without the risk of regretting it soon after. That and decluttering just a little every season. That said, you could look at it as a challenge and give yourself a little time to try to get used to it and have fun with it. Even though you may have a little less than you intended (I imagine you planned to buy different replacements, if the shops were open), you likely made that original decision to part with those things for a good reason. Take some time to remember why you chose to get rid of those things.
@agata.binczak
@agata.binczak 4 жыл бұрын
@@VestedInterests that’s some really good advise! Thank you. I’ll definitely be incorporating “trial separation” box and replace items seasonally instead of all at once. I think those were my biggest mistakes haha 😅 once again thank you for advice and creating such an amazing content!
@lotte89green
@lotte89green 4 жыл бұрын
Great insights and lessons for everyone to learn!! I’ve been knitting all the year because of the pandemic and my selfmade clothes have a huge impact on my wardrobe and my whole relationship to clothes and fashion!! Making your own garmentsis very empowering and rewarding and also perfect if you can’t find what your searching for! Lots of love and stay safe everyone!!
@rachaelmt2984
@rachaelmt2984 3 жыл бұрын
i just saw your title and heard your first line and paused to write this! yay!! so proud of u - i am embarking on that as well this year - i did alooooot of shopping the past couple of years and well - lock down hit and new clothes are lying in the closet - so i told myself and hubby that I will not buy a sngle item of clothing - not even an underwear or hair tie for this entire year and with lock down that should be easy - so happy to find this video - love from Prague
@sarahthatcher123
@sarahthatcher123 4 жыл бұрын
This was so helpful...I haven't seen any other video on this that is so clear, concise and made me think of some things I haven't considered before. Thank you.
@ms.skylover9652
@ms.skylover9652 4 жыл бұрын
2019 was my year that i didn't shop , it was easy for me because i don't shop too much but i got too many gift from my mom that she say oh u don't have anything i got this for u😑😭 after 1and half year i bought 2 dress+3scarf 😅 , its a good idea for this year because of quarantine u can use ur cloths without any stress about what other thinks , good job , Wish luck 👏
@Jasmine-in-my-mind
@Jasmine-in-my-mind 4 жыл бұрын
I had just decluttered and filled my living room full of items ready to donate when the pandemic struck. They sat there on the floor next to my work-at-home "office" area for weeks, and after a while I decided that I could actually keep and use a lot of the things. They didn't "spark joy" but they could be put to use and would reduce the need to replenish supplies. I'm just now feeling ready to declutter again, but I will be choosier about what I'm letting go. I'm also more strict with my spending limits for online clothing purchases. I don't want to return anything, so if it's above a certain price, I don't even consider it. Whereas I used to be willing to pay more because I knew I could return an item if it didn't fit.
@mettainacan7813
@mettainacan7813 4 жыл бұрын
So happy that you posted! I agree that its worth noting that its not always money and space we are spending but time, I think we can become more demanding on the pieces of wardrobe when they are less in quantity and more intentional and we want them to be "perfect". I think in your case though its justified because you find pieces that work for you such long term and once you do you end up replacing them with the same item once they wear out. Also if you are having fun and not harming anyone its fine. But there is room for people to get a bit OCD in my opinion with minimalism. I would like to aim to be a "relaxed" minimalist.
@Xaforn
@Xaforn 4 жыл бұрын
My motivation is I can’t stand shopping, it’s so boring, buy better quality and support small business, I have a very specific style that I can hardly ever find, and I don’t want to waste my money when I could save it for specific things. I have specific items I wear regularly that makes designing a capsule wardrobe easier thankfully. I have a list currently of 21 items I want very much and have been saving for awhile to afford them, my current wardrobe is hardly ever used and many items are never worn. I’d love to replace majority of them. Always love your videos!
@suzieq390
@suzieq390 4 жыл бұрын
I started a while ago making my own clothes in classes. It’s a great fun hobby and you can tailor it to you and not waste clothes. Now I find all stores charge way too much and I won’t pay those high prices. Also you can buy second hand and alter it if it’s too big or long! 👍🇳🇿
@ritalynb7070
@ritalynb7070 4 жыл бұрын
I have been on a low-buy and try to only buy clothing as replacement. I have been going into the office every day through the pandemic, so I have been wearing professional clothing all through 2020. I started 2020 with 19 clothing pieces suitable for work. Everything was fine until I decided I wanted to lose some weight. At the beginning of July I was a size 15/16. I am now a size 10! But I can't go shopping for replacement clothing because of Covid!! My slacks literally fall off without undoing them and my blouses look like I am playing dress up! 😆 I am hoping the situation changes here soon because I need all new (to me) clothing!!
@eggnukes
@eggnukes 3 жыл бұрын
I've never gone a complete year without buying anything. But I have these cycles - for around 3 years a buy only essential stuff (replacements if something breaks, gets worn out) and then for a few weeks I go crazy and buy A LOT. After the buying phase I do a complete reorganization and declutter stuff that has aged morally (donate everything that is in good condition). I feel like this keeps me happy and I still get that rush from getting new items, but I don't do it too often and actually have years to enjoy the new things I got. I understand that this might not be for everyone, but it works for me. Maybe this strategy (for me it just happens naturally) can help someone that is struggling with not buying things - just have this period once every few years where you allow yourself to replace the things that don't necessarily NEED replacing, but that you simply are tired of.
@inspiringsimple
@inspiringsimple 4 жыл бұрын
I have lost a lot of weight and only one pair of jeans fit me (I recently bought them). I have 15 items of clothing so I am actually on the other end and needing to purchase things. I so relate to the specific list part....not wanting to make the wrong decision creates this no mans land and I don’t pull the trigger and purchase. It’s difficult
@margieclark4926
@margieclark4926 4 жыл бұрын
Good to see you back, I check every Sunday for your content! Love your videos Mel, keep them coming.
@VestedInterests
@VestedInterests 4 жыл бұрын
Aww, thanks for stopping by!
@ashaelfifa
@ashaelfifa 4 жыл бұрын
I love the fact that you mentioned about accidentally recycling you declutter stuff again before you donate them, that's what i always do when it comes to clothing items, i found a lot of people just donate everything and regret those decision after.
@laurabalzekas4163
@laurabalzekas4163 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the pointers! Im going to try to pare down clothing shopping because I am buying some property and will need to pay it off. I hope that by equating a purchase with less money to pay off my property, I can decrease my impulse purchases. I also am going to pre-plan my days off so that I don't have time to go shopping.
@rao433
@rao433 4 жыл бұрын
Love re-visiting your videos on Minimalism. You're so articulate with what you've to say, on a chosen topic! Thanks for doing what you do :)
@saramars5146
@saramars5146 4 жыл бұрын
Great video! I am exactly they way you described with the time spent looking for the perfect item. I might need to try a shopping free year as well. I am very picky with my purchases which means most of the time I end up with nothing even though I spend weeks searching the internet for what I want. I might not spend a lot of money on shopping but still a lot of time.
@robynwells8249
@robynwells8249 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos, are very insightful. I tend to over purge and then regret it. There are so many things I would love to have back. I want to focus on buying less so I’ll have less to declutter.
@robynwells8249
@robynwells8249 4 жыл бұрын
Oops, They are very insightful
@katg8773
@katg8773 4 жыл бұрын
Pretty amazing a whole year. I was doing pretty well with a decluttered and capsule wardrobe till August. Realised was missing things i actually needed and some stuff fell apart. So have to say have done a low buy year, and picking somethings up off my list in the black friday sales..
@andtheneverythingchangedwh5234
@andtheneverythingchangedwh5234 4 жыл бұрын
Love your video! Could you make a video tutorial on dying your clothing? I think some of your viewers would be interested in that.
@toujoursanna8933
@toujoursanna8933 4 жыл бұрын
Wow ! I love the challenge, I myself challenge to find most of my clothes thrifted 🥰
@carolsailer1395
@carolsailer1395 3 жыл бұрын
I decluttered many clothing items in 2018, some were 15 yrs old & although I never wore those items, I kept them... I was doing good, only purchasing a few items each year....but, I actually noticed last year & the beginning of this year I’ve been starting to purchase items again... I’ve already purchased 2 sweaters (which I have been looking for those colors & on clearance), 1 hoodie, 3 long sleeves, 1 cami & 1 tank top & a jacket I’m putting myself on a no buy until I go through my summer clothing & see if I really need anything...I only bought 2 handbags last year, and 1 pr of shoes, 1 handbag & dress shoes was for my daughter’s wedding.
@namratashukla8951
@namratashukla8951 3 жыл бұрын
In India we don’t declutter clothes ,we wear them till it get holes or get torn .First we wear them for special occasions,then wear them to run errands,then wear them at home.Old towels we use as mopping cloth,other torn clothes we use as kitchen clothes.I personally want my clothes to end in landfills,and I also only wear natural fibre which are bio degrable.
@excellentcat3878
@excellentcat3878 2 жыл бұрын
I think this is really perfect ❤️👍👌
@jpark2568
@jpark2568 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on you yearlong no buy! Im inspired! Thank you for another useful video. Happy to see you! I too agree with the taking care of yourself. Especially haircuts. Lol. Take care. Stay safe!
@theesilverghost
@theesilverghost 4 жыл бұрын
LOL! I hear you on the showering! Sadly, I have been doing nothing but shopping! In my defense, I used the pandemic-stay-at-home order to clean up my diet and get committed to yoga and fitness. As a result, I was left with a two cardigans and three pullovers that fit me. I needed new everything: bras, underpants, fitness clothes, everyday clothes -- everything! Since the numbers cases are increasing in my city, I am not prepared to shop in-person, yet. online shopping has been hit-or-miss -- mostly miss. I find myself saddled with a 3-4 Poshmark buys that are too large. At this point, I have committed to wearing my fitness clothing (with a nicer top for on-camera meetings) until we are ordered to return to the office. When that happens, I'll deal with it. For now, I have one dress (black) for office or special occasions, seven pullovers/tees (black, red, white, and yellow), two cardigans (black and green) a pencil skirt (black), and a pair of trousers (black) -- which are a potential return. That is a good enough base for an office wardrobe.
@ivajekova7747
@ivajekova7747 4 жыл бұрын
It is true! If you take care of yourself and exersice regularly you don't relay so much on new clothes and constantly changing your wardrobe. Because you feel beautiful in anything you wear! 🤗
@marialeg2367
@marialeg2367 4 жыл бұрын
I've had the same reflection as you when it comes to decluttering, I've picked up a few summer items (I live in the southern hemisphere) from my "maybe" pile and I don't regret it. Personally, I think it's cool to reflect and adapt to the circumstances. It's mature. It's been a difficult year, so I've been trying not to be so hard on myself. I'm happy to see you're back! Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us once again.
@wbail3109
@wbail3109 4 жыл бұрын
This is such a great idea. I’m going to start small; a 3 month period of no buy for clothing items. I can finish all of the project clothes that I already own.
@Jasmine-vy8ig
@Jasmine-vy8ig 4 жыл бұрын
WHAT A NICE RIGHT TALKING. I DIDN'T BUY ANYTHING THIS YEAR. PROBABLLY NEXT YEAR TO. WE HAVE SAME HOUSE JOBS WE DID IT. AND OF COURSE SOCIAL LIFE RESTING. WHY I AM GOING TO BUY AND KEEP ONE MORE YEAR ALL STAFF. NOBODY VISITING, WE CLOSED THE DOORS. AND I GAVE UP ALL MY STAFFS, THANKS DARLING.
@literaturegeek1570
@literaturegeek1570 4 жыл бұрын
That is, pandemic or not, still impressive. My goal was to stay under 10 items. I have to check how many pieces of clothing I actually bought. It Is probably a bit higher, however all my purchases are either sustainable brands or second hand. At the moment there are only about 5-6 pieces on my wishlist, that I haven't found yet, so I am optimistic that my buying will go further down next year. Slowly but surely... :)
@jonnapeters4673
@jonnapeters4673 4 жыл бұрын
I was just about to go through your archive again as I've recommitted to a low-buy for the next year. This year I did do a lot more shopping than I'd hoped but most were either locally made or second hand, but COVID has definitely limited how much is worn LOL. The takeaways were great to refocus my priorities. :)
@jacquelinemcgowan8164
@jacquelinemcgowan8164 3 жыл бұрын
Yes i am trying to use up what i have, we so often buy new because we have simply got bored with what we have, food goes out of date, clothes lost there appeal, really and i think i do not want to be so shallow and wasteful, hope that makes sense lv Jacqueline
@IDoItCauseICan
@IDoItCauseICan 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! I can relate soo much. I stopped buying clothes somehow last summer, then I realized it, and I made it a new years resolution. Still going stong. The only difference that I can sew clothes for myself but besides 6-7 item I havent really had time to sew. :D
@ItsJustFashion
@ItsJustFashion 3 жыл бұрын
I love this! I am currenty half way through of my year long break from shopping!
@annabelle7123
@annabelle7123 3 жыл бұрын
I don't get that impulsion for clothes as much as before COVID but I still get OBSESSED in questing with one item til I just get it... or sometimes just without thinking! I can't stop for a year but I should try for a quarter!!😶
@lorikorstanje2964
@lorikorstanje2964 4 жыл бұрын
way to go! awesome. I have a much smaller wardrobe and find it much easier to get dressed. I also hope less, but a whole year congratulations
@candylove1234
@candylove1234 4 жыл бұрын
Super happy to see your video in my subscription box!! :D
@Lucky7192
@Lucky7192 4 жыл бұрын
I wanted to not buy much this year, it completly failed. I built up a ton of muscles and most of my pants and some tops suddenly became too tight. Wearing stuff that properly fits me is in my eyes a matter of self-respect. But I hope next year I won't have to purchase much.
@melisse8150
@melisse8150 4 жыл бұрын
That's an achievement. I know you share your wardrobe audit through the year and it is inspiring as it's true there are many things we go to time and time again. Do you have clothes for decorating or sports clothes? 30 items seems an amazing number to get your wardrobe down to. I know I have simplified my wardrobe somewhat
@zoraidarodriguez1761
@zoraidarodriguez1761 4 жыл бұрын
Great video, lovely to see you again. Take care 😘🌹
@111-w9d7y
@111-w9d7y 4 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed listening to these good tips. Thanks for sharing. Greetings from Switzerland.
@amychen2504
@amychen2504 4 жыл бұрын
Love this concept. Can you talk more about if you felt tempted by any websites? What's your work dress culture like pre-pandemic and what do people wear in video calls now?
@VestedInterests
@VestedInterests 4 жыл бұрын
I really haven't browsed online for a while. I did look for some summer clothes online before I realized that I could probably make it a year without shopping, but it wasn't much time and I didn't buy anything. More than being tempted by websites, working from home and not being exposed to what other people are wearing has helped me to realize that I'm more influenced by what I see people wearing in real life than online--which I'm fortunately mostly free from for now! Re: work dress culture: some people wear jeans and tshirts, some people are a little more polished, and the same has mostly held true even on video calls now, though I suspect most are sporting what I think of as the "Zoom mullet": business up top with pajama pants. That's definitely what I do!
@nektapovesti
@nektapovesti 4 жыл бұрын
Love your voice and the way you explain! It was a really helpful video, thank u so much! 🤗
@anitaluevano9643
@anitaluevano9643 4 жыл бұрын
I make it a rule if I buy something I have to look at all my clothes and donate 1 or 2 things because it helps people at thrift stores it keeps the cycle going to help other folks out
@jinayadixon8022
@jinayadixon8022 4 жыл бұрын
Another amazing and insightful video Mel, thank you 😊
@kingcrimson1204
@kingcrimson1204 4 жыл бұрын
I'm hoping to embark on a no buy (I guess from now on) year in 2021. I've been through the whole: "declutter - satisfied with my wardrobe - buy stuff - declutter" cycle all year and I'm pretty certain I want off that ride 🤣
@yuhansungscoffee
@yuhansungscoffee 3 жыл бұрын
Super reasonable and well articulated! Subbed :D
@chillibird2511
@chillibird2511 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks mel - your videos have helped me over the years to keep on track with my wardrobe and other areas. I've been reminding myself of the outcome from don't s I used to do as a reminder to stay on track. Are you going to decor for xmas. I loved your xmas decor video you did; I think 2 years ago
@JoshIsOnAMission
@JoshIsOnAMission 4 жыл бұрын
I’m on the same boat. Cannot remember the last time I bought a piece of clothing.
@amarmoreno
@amarmoreno 4 жыл бұрын
Loved the self care tip/ reality !
@Shepz963
@Shepz963 4 жыл бұрын
Super interesting! This year has been a weird one. I typically do my clothes shopping only at thrift stores, and feel good about picking up a few pieces a couple times a year and age out other ones. With covid, thrift stores have been hit or miss in many ways and the fitting rooms are all closed. There is no way I am buying a random article of clothing I can’t try on or return! So I actually have bought a few pieces new to fill some holes and feel meh-ok about it. I wish I could’ve waited to get them second hand, but who knows when that will be. Have you ever done a no/low buy on other aspects of your life?
@cocob4679
@cocob4679 4 жыл бұрын
omg! i am ecstatic that you're back. 🥰
@VestedInterests
@VestedInterests 4 жыл бұрын
Holaaa!
@dorisw5558
@dorisw5558 4 жыл бұрын
good to see you again!
@ini4830
@ini4830 4 жыл бұрын
That's why I have trial separation boxeS that last three-five years... And I only get rid of clothes I'm absolutely sure not to love anymore... Well, yeah, I have a prepper's closet 😂 But I agree, clothes are like money, once the basic need to feel good in them is met, they do not bring you more happiness...
@hellocatwalkcity
@hellocatwalkcity 4 жыл бұрын
New to your channel. I’m a luxury minimalist - meaning, I love luxury (as you can tell from my channel!) and well-made items but I am conscious about curating a tight collection. I did a no-clothes buying year a few years ago and it was great. Question - your 32 item closet, does that include all of your outerwear as well (coats, jackets)? Thanks! New subscriber.
@daisymouse77
@daisymouse77 4 жыл бұрын
Love this Video 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻 . So honest and Educational
@VestedInterests
@VestedInterests 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@Eeeekamouse
@Eeeekamouse 4 жыл бұрын
Your shower comment. Been there a few times. 😟
@constancahc4560
@constancahc4560 4 жыл бұрын
does that include socks and underwear? are those 'clothes' to you?
@KamilaSz-xi3le
@KamilaSz-xi3le 4 жыл бұрын
Love your advices 💖👍
@eiguajardo
@eiguajardo 4 жыл бұрын
Decluttering is def healthy if you are a serious hoarder, but decluttering just to buy all new is pointless, and instead of looking for that specific garment Im gonna let it find me
@MY-kh9hx
@MY-kh9hx 4 жыл бұрын
It’s true that decluttering is not for everyone, especially those who have not controlled/changed their buying habits. Many people declutter then buy again.... declutter and buy again... It’s more wise to control spending / buying habits before a large scale decluttering for the environment. This is also the reason why I, having started minimalism for less than half a year, have yet to declutter my shoe collection. I don’t wanna throw them away and buy them back at high cost.
@midlife_minimalist
@midlife_minimalist 4 жыл бұрын
Bahaha - the shower comment - I get it!
@HighUp11
@HighUp11 3 жыл бұрын
So true
@kathleenbartle9391
@kathleenbartle9391 4 жыл бұрын
Smart and articulate woman. What a pleasure
@HollyOak
@HollyOak 4 жыл бұрын
3 Jan this year I made the decision to go the whole year without buying clothes. Since I hadn't bought anything for months anyway, it would be an entire year's commitment. I got to October before I felt a pang of wanting to shop, but I got myself through it. It was made easier because of this year and I've been wearing the same 6 or so items all year. It hasn't bothered me at all, probably because I don't go anywhere :) And you are not the only one who has times of needing that shower :) In the new year I will be buying clothes again, but this time it's very intentional. I'll be building a new capsule wardrobe based on my ethics and actual needs. I'll be looking for all natural fibres and ethically/sustainably made items.
@kays3870
@kays3870 4 жыл бұрын
I am doing the same thing - no shopping since 01.01.2020. Feels like cheating though - with Covid it has been too easy.
@jacquelinemcgowan533
@jacquelinemcgowan533 4 жыл бұрын
A capsule wardrobe is definately something to work towards but often we are told to have only this much, so we get rid of perfectly good clothing to match the magic number mmmmm.....i have been decluttering for 20 years and each method has its pro,s and con,s,my advice would be look at many different techniques and stop all the magic numbers, we concentrate on the number and miss why we keep buying extra, why we keep making the same mistakes, my other advice is have you got enough and if so, be content, debt and mindless shopping. will cause you alot of mess and problems lv Jacqueline
@jordyntaylor7319
@jordyntaylor7319 4 жыл бұрын
you look absolutely stunning! love your videos always, but just had to tell you that you look like youve aged backwards!
@Ingrid0410
@Ingrid0410 4 жыл бұрын
Be more specific not too much talking
@MsLouisVee
@MsLouisVee 4 жыл бұрын
You should stop using the phrase “a ton”. What does “a ton” mean? you didn’t used to shop “a ton”. You saved “a ton” of money. what does that mean? Please be more articulate.
@minadelina
@minadelina 4 жыл бұрын
You exactly know what she means by "a ton". Stop trying to be an obstacle to someone for no reason.
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