What I Taught My Daughters: Finding Men Who Respect Her || STEVE HARVEY

[@WildMuffinofficial]

My grandfather always said a man’s word is his bond if he doesn’t do what he said he’s going to do, then that is a man that you can’t trust.

[@c.s.5744]

Charity Spears thank you for sharing this wisdom. I will write it done as a kindly reminder.

[@trinawize461]

Preach! 🙌

[@N12Gautam]

Charity Spears that’s kind of like common sense tho

[@N12Gautam]

Charity Spears but it could also go both ways, to women who don’t do what they say they want

[@nand9703]

N G of course, but a lot of the time it really speaks to whether or not you should be giving your time to a man .

[@j348011]

My dad said, you don't want to be with a man who runs when it gets hard.

[@anyapi987]

Thats true.

[@fromspace7]

SO TRUE!

[@missxmarvel]

Most run.

[@Karen-vb8eu]

Unfortunately, you don’t find that out about him until the chips are already down 🙄

[@redsummerwings]

Thank you for this ❤

[@shafirawoard6244]

Never choose love over respect . Love can grow with the respect so find yourself someone that respect you before loving you

[@suzanpeters4709]

Ladies need to learn, "self respect." Let em go...

[@kw6724]

Susan Peters I say this all the time

[@Blessed2behairllc]

Susan Peters its 😢 I’m going through this now .its like what am I holding on to

[@Leila-yk8li]

Suzan Peters yaaaas

[@newbeginnings1543]

Suzan Peters 100 percent thank you. We need to be a part of the solution!

[@fredajohnson506]

Amen stop be desperate

[@charmangelz777]

dating is challenging for most woman especially when u have standards

[@IqraKhan-vc7lo]

@black king can you please stop deflecting and making this kind Womans point even more valid? You are highlighting the fact that you cabt take criticism and you assumed that she was talking about all men when she was talking about SOME men. But if the shoe fits....

[@BurdenofTheMighty]

K Poop he does have a point... men are expected to put in a ton of hard, grueling work in order to attract a woman. For a woman, all they have to do is, well, be a woman. Not to mention how easy social media makes it for a man to be replaced... I’m not saying either side has it worse than the other (because for a woman, finding the right guy is very, very difficult especially if the standards are there and how many there are) I’m just saying dating sucks in general. Personally, I’ve stopped trying

[@IqraKhan-vc7lo]

@@BurdenofTheMighty that depends on what kind of woman you bump into. There are quality men and women out there

[@BurdenofTheMighty]

K Poop I just wish quality people were the majority. But unfortunately, that isn’t the case

[@IqraKhan-vc7lo]

@@BurdenofTheMighty agreed

[@christicrenshaw2772]

Steve is so right. My ex never ever cared when I talked to him about anything. Most of the time he would not respond. He would just sit there in total silence. I finally got rid of him which I should of way before I did

[@shylasmith8140]

Yes same here..... thank God for second chances. I now know better and I will do & require better 💕

[@Jay-jb2vr]

Men are logical. If you don't speak to a man logically, he will not respond.

[@kuhlejozman3621]

@Christi crenshaw You are not alone, looking back I dated jerks

[@maximumraph3254]

Well done you deserve better, jerk of a guy lmao.

[@SpecialKRNB]

@@Jay-jb2vr yeah.. that's selfish thinking... we get men and women are different physically and biologically (I wanted to add this fact... no we aren't different mentally, emotionally, socially, intellectually, spiritually, psychologically, and financially.... just lies... we're both one of the same 'humans' just different biologically and physically obviously) but when you have a relationship it is not about YOU... it is about your partner... women stay away from men with this type of thinking... they want you to believe that so they can allow you to continue to settle. Stay away from settlers and time wasters. #thatsjustme #realtalk #justmytwocents

[@f.-j.j.5738]

My mom and Dad are my modele couple. Mom takes up 80% of the house chores and 20% of the financial burden. Dad takes up 80% of the financial burden and 20% of house chores (mostly trash handling, water management (we are off grid and have a system to collect rain water), yard maintenance, home improvement projects). Both feel treated like royalty and are happy with their share. So many couple nowadays are one sided.

[@gatestimonymiracle1302]

Yes they are definitely model couples.now a days guy want o be broke and lazy with a beautiful rich wife.

[@deva190]

PERFECT.

[@iiiMUNiiiQUE]

Sky Dream exactly. I’ve never heard of the way explained above but I like it. 50/50 is not something a real man will suggest if you ever pay attention to the type of men who say it

[@deva190]

@@iiiMUNiiiQUE Exactly right.

[@jasminealexia]

tiffany mirror lmao exactly true smh

[@Noix009]

She doesn’t look 48 She’s sure aging beautifully 🥰🥰❤️

[@phillipswatson3452]

Temi David 😎 SWEETIE...YES SHE LOOK MATURE 48 !!

[@blf679]

Black don't crack 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@Jay-jb2vr]

*BLACK DONT CRACK*

[@deva190]

@@phillipswatson3452 Yeah, she looks her age.

[@bayanibrahim1418]

@@deva190 No not at all

[@CourtneyGavin]

Whew I agree. The man needs to keep his word. If he is constantly not showing up or coming up with excuses that’s a huge red flag. Never waste your time with people like that. They don’t deserve you.

[@CS-sv8fg]

Being with a women is wasting time anyways. What will you ever do to make it interesting? Nothing but complain and compare and judge!!

[@e.e9596]

and i assume you feel women don't

[@asthaverma774]

Same for women

[@youlovejesscreations2078]

Always remember this ladies, “if he want to, he will.” Hold them accountable based on their actions. If you don’t have kids with that person, it’s easy to move forward.

[@jaymiller6009]

Yep!! Steve Harvey is amazing and all men should be like him. That’s why Steve Harvey’s wife would NEVER CHEAT ON HIM!! Remember men: “If she wants to, she will.” And that’s regardless of if you have kids with her or not.

[@native9275]

Anyone who doesn't keep their word is worthless

[@joyjoy449]

Absolutely worthless. Even a rock is more reliable than such a man.

[@GoogleAccount00]

Facts

[@blondescorpion8940]

Allen Russell nothing worse than a lazy man too.

[@jas7869]

@Paul Hogue Oh boy sounds like he struck a cord with you, time to grow up and stop being such a cultist I know the origins of the word helpmate that's for sure!

[@godisgood2675]

True

[@Dina-zf8ft]

I knew I had to leave my ex when I came over to his place to discuss a family concern and he tells me, "Next time you get into a fight with your dad, can you not come here?" My jaw dropped and he quickly responds with "Oh, I was just kidding." RED FLAG!

[@jennygreenwood1756]

You are right, E B! When a man is mentally cruel and says "just kidding" time to kick that fool to the curb!

[@gracasdiary8066]

E B i was discussing with mine,i told him what if we married and i have fertility issues and can't have a baby ,what will we do? he said i will have to allow him to father babies with another woman because he cant adopt and he has the ability to have a baby,he said he cant adopt,i was shocked

[@fromspace7]

Yup, I’ve seen those red flags too.. like when you’re hurt about something and crying and the guy starts laughing at your ”ugly crying face”

[@happydays9613]

@@gracasdiary8066 I hope you got rid of him for your own sake. I dated someone, we were watching TV, a baby came on that was very ill and he was tutting like what a shame, that is what I thought anyway. So I said what if I one day got really sick, God forbid or disabled, would you stick by my side and help. He said "of course not, I would have to leave. My mouth dropped. I could not believe what he had just said, so I said you would just walk away? Not even try to support initially. He said of course not. I would leave you. Major red flag so I ended it as could see he was a very selfish person the more it became serious. I now no longer waste my time on idiot men that have no heart, are bitter, compare you to exes, are selfish, lack empathy the list goes on. If I see a red flag pattern within a week to 2 weeks and I am outta there. What makes me laugh is they always come back because they hate having the decision as to whether you stay together, being taken away from them. I hope you now know your value and have standards you uphold. I learnt the hard way but it was worth it. I now know what I don't want so don't even give them a chance once I see it.

[@alicej1600]

Wow! That was careless

[@solvision2926]

I have a dad but he wasn’t present emotionally so Steve Harvey is like the “dad I never had” lmao 😭😭😭😭😭

[@keyanna2633]

Same here. Steve kind of reminds me of my uncle who valued me when My father never did. I'm still learning how to myself.

[@farahhanifah6886]

@@SOodd14 he is indeed

[@patriciav6399]

I feel ya

[@krystalxo6402]

I feel your pain sis 😪😪😫😭

[@ishikasingh2220]

Me too 😭

[@RivaTheDiva]

I agree with Steve I started dating a guy and he got a solution to everything ... in the beginning it was annoying ... after watching this ... I now understand ... thanks Steve

[@prncessbaby16]

My husband is the same way 🤣🤣🤣 I get so irritated lol like just let me vent.

[@denicecastillo6772]

Ur so pretty😍and I love that my boyfriend has a solution for everything and he always listens to my gossip lmfao sometimes puts his 2cents in lol

[@Jin-zg9yy]

Men don’t do venting lol. We just want to fix it to get this off our minds and enjoy our time to relax.

[@RivaTheDiva]

Denice Castillo thank u doll

[@Lovebunny0099]

Riva The Diva Read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

[@kotyarlovem]

Those shoes behind Steve are gorgeous!!!

[@joannjoroge7749]

This is exactly what I was thinking the whole time in the video.

[@cocostylesnyc]

Maria K lol omg I was like those are cuteee lol

[@BernishaDumas]

I was like wow 😂 I heard the message but I couldn’t stop looking .

[@miriamnjenga1327]

So true

[@hopesmtshali7017]

And them legs too 😍

[@pccc145]

How do so many women not know this. Ladies, we gotta love ourselves and do better.

[@angelawright454]

pc cc At one time or another, you didn’t know it either..until you learned better. We all live and learn day by day.

[@pccc145]

Angela Wright my dad taught me better.

[@truthseeker3376]

@@pccc145 not all fathers nurture or teach their daugthers anything about men, mine didn't, really wish he had..

[@pccc145]

Dee Jay you’re absolutely right...I wish the elders (parents, grandparents and older people we encounter throughout life) would make more an effort to do this because it’s so vital that women know their worth AND even more vital that men know how to treat women. The good thing is now you know what to do. 😉

[@Laylathelayla811]

Ok you had someone to teach you. But you judge those who didn't? 😤

[@aprille286]

Found a man that does what he says he's going to do, and he comes through 💯❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗 He is my forever and ever

[@fredajohnson506]

That's a mature man

[@Bodangers]

Blessed

[@entertainmeimboredplease4250]

Never date a man you have to build up and fix.

[@thecatnextdoor12]

Yup, you’re going to fail.

[@scott.w8938]

Men marry women they have to build and fix. That can go both ways, with our history as black people in this country, easily..

[@Nekole1]

I agree. I live by this. Can not do it.

[@jaydenwinter4647]

@@Nekole1 but a man should do it for you right? SMT

[@Tiffanysmith339]

Or help

[@basicinfo2022]

Steve is absolutely right here. My failed relationship had all these problems.

[@creativemakersguide3359]

Im admiring Steve's suit! Baby! He is clean!!

[@MsRae-ev9hs]

Word. He age gracefully and stay fresh!!

[@christiekeaton155]

I really needed this advice. Thanks Steve. Also the woman is for sure a beauty and at the age of 48 WOW!!!

[@reneemyricks4306]

Black don't crack as fast

[@NaturalDivineGoddess]

"If he says: He's Going to call you And he don't ever call You when he says He is going to call You..Why we still Why are we still Talking to him.."

[@flowergirlpower1991]

This is so true. My guy showed up at my office took me bed shopping. Did not see what I liked. Days after he showed up with his truck at my home with a mattress and bed. I'm like what. Got someone to make me a cheesecake because I told him I don't really like it. So got one he thought I'd like. Came with curtains, rods and tools for my bedroom. Did not even ask him. He knew I needed them. So many other things. Lost him last Feb. 2018.. I miss him everyday. :-(

[@enadine6405]

I'm sorry for your loss

[@angelghaemi]

im so so so sorry

[@flowergirlpower1991]

Thank you.

[@deelot1]

What a man, so sorry for your loss.

[@sarah-lynlewis808]

Aww I'm so sorry for your loss ♥️

[@rourou95822]

Sister barely looks 30

[@omaramer7022]

Pushing it

[@liyaah85]

now you know you lying, she look much older than 30

[@KimberWaul]

She looks younger than her actual age, but I'd put her at early to mid 40's.

[@TopGun5]

We want the whole episode please.

[@belunu4980]

Uncle Steve always gives the wisest advice!

[@MandyJRoss]

Was just thinking this! Can we all just have an Uncle Steve in our personal lives?! 😊

[@sandradee1940]

Yep, it's not about money, you can't throw money at every problem. I always appreciated it more when a guy took his time and energy to help me solve the problem. That's how I knew my husband was a keeper when we got together 9 yrs ago.

[@aprilchamberlain1677]

I never really thought about it that way! Steve is right tho, that would be a red flag. If he really cares about you he will help find a solution to the problem!! Thanks Steve I will keep that in mind for future reference!!!!

[@nephtaliebottoms3247]

These women are all good looking

[@ISghj]

And single

[@garygreen7104]

Not really

[@17yogabbagabba]

@@ISghj Yup, ain't nothing wrong with them being single either.

[@contr4dixion]

Yea... happens so much

[@charmycree2024]

I agree with Steve! I am putting my cookie back in the box and putting the wrapper on for a hella long time!!!

[@samirsalameh985]

Hi Charlene I listen to Steve programmes to learn English. Could you please illustrate to me what do you mean by "put my cookie back in the box and put the wrapper"? How do you understand it as English speakers?

[@jenniferatlet6238]

@@samirsalameh985 hey love, we call our female parts "cookie" 🙈🙈 if you understand haha 😏

[@samirsalameh985]

@@jenniferatlet6238 Thank you for your reply, but does this sentence "put my cookie back in the box and put the wrapper" means what you have said? I know what female parts are, but as an English native speaker what is the meaning of the whole sentence? when someone says it to you, what does he want to convey to you?

[@darklightangles]

@@samirsalameh985 In short he is saying. Don't have sex(put away the cookie) and wrap it up(wait for the right man) the man for her will respect and do what any real man should do.

[@samirsalameh985]

@@darklightangles Thank you very much for your explanation.

[@agborbechem5210]

At a point, I thought there's something wrong with me!! My boyfriend NEVER omg! He NEVER keeps his word. I kept making excuses for him. What a life!!!! STEVE, I'm out!!!

[@esimikheemma2024]

Pls be out o

[@whoowhoo4717]

😂😂😂😂run,flee,fly,vanish In fact, excuuuuse yourself

[@stpeter5839]

Never ever ever waste time trying to give relationships a formula. Just be with a man who is crazy about you who will die for you. Thats it. Dont compare him with TV acters or celebrities. Its not real life. When you are in a relationship be classy and feminine most guys l talk to dont want a female rapper its a turn off family. Good luck Queens there are good men out there.

[@mabelw7]

Where to find these guys and also aomeone you like as well

[@naftalioletipia5812]

Very true

[@janelouw402]

Rapper 😂

[@kanye729]

Easier said then done

[@SHINCHAN-hn4cw]

@@mabelw7 it's impossible

[@annmariebailey123]

Steve always keeping it real. I wish i had this advice growing up

[@fredajohnson506]

Oh yes he be on point

[@JohnneseP]

I 10000% agree with what Steve said. Am I the only one who thought Steve was a preacher getting to his point in the middle of his answer???

[@shacarr4530]

I wasn't taught. So I enjoy Steve's offerings of information for relationships.

[@cookie110388]

I love these sit down session I’m so glued 👀

[@Demifan39]

She seems so level headed and posed, I love her energy, she knows what she wants and clearly has learned from and divorce.

[@purpleeyessmith4151]

Exactly Steve! He’s just gonna keep on doing what he’s doing ! Leave! If you leave you are setting your standard❤️

[@leandergates8204]

Thats my problem, i hate people say that they're going to do something and dont do it

[@cherylm.lamari7728]

My papa died last 2019. And when I started listening to Steve Harvey, like I have a second father, who's there to give advise and guidance 🥰😍

[@The1baddman]

It goes both ways, if I'm going to stop what i'm doing, dropped everything and come to her in her time of need, i expect the same thing from her. The marriage or relationship can't work if one person is always taking something, and the other is not giving anything back.

[@trickyzenmom]

Absolutely. Word is bond. Man or woman...I've never understood why someone has to hear this type of advice. Seems like common sense to me? How can you trust someone that doesn't do something as simple as...what they say they will do?!?!? 😂

[@MandyJRoss]

My goodness, so much wisdom in 3ish minutes! Can we all just have a Steve in our personal lives? God Bless y'all reading this. I pray you get the highest form of love that you deserve.🙏🏼❤

[@ryanlowe509]

Women 40+ years of age have less then 10% chance at marriage

[@BurdenofTheMighty]

As a man, my word is my law. If I say I’m going to do something, consider it done. Your word is the one thing you have in this world that you cannot lose

[@basoom956]

“Is he gonna do what he says he’s gonna do?” Yessss preaaach 🔥👌🏻

[@JRis44]

Aint gunna lie. Personally i love fixing things. I mean I am a technician, but even growing up I loved when my mom or sister wanted me to fix something for them. Especially my mom cause she normally did things on her own so when I knew she couldnt do it or she allowed someone to help her, it made it that much more of a mission to complete. As I mature and grow as a person, but mostly as a man, ive been able to apply this part of my personality to relationships outside of my home as well as apply it in the real world, like the work place. Thank God for older people and their wisdom and the lessons ive learned in understanding how to go about engaging a woman when it comes to these very natural tendencies of mine. Over the years you learn that just wanting to fix things doesnt exactly have anything to do with most of what your lady counterpart wants. So obtaining the skill of active listening and learning compassion has been quite an interesting journey. Keep the good videos coming steve and folks like him...some of us like takin notes.

[@Letisha1235]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@ffreshfields5211]

Fantastic. Indeed women do not want solutions and fixes first and foremost, they can hire a professional for that. They want to feel connection and confide emotionally. Often, she already knows what to do, but she wants to share and confide/release the feelings that hurt her heart to her partner. So when he tells her what to do instead of respond with empathy to her feelings, she maybe feels patronised and not listened to, and as a result even sadder than before.

[@samantarizzi248]

Sooooo true!! Respect should always come first even before love. There is no true love without respect anyway!

[@orvanadawn6015]

This was exactly what I needed !!! Wow thanks .The guy I was talking to for marriage seemed such a charmer .I really thought I had found the one .Til he wouldn't reply my text or calls say he would get back to me and just go quiet only at midnight be like I was superpavked with work sorry .I thought I was wrong for over reacting but I realised I am not .yesterday he told me by 11 am he will let me know when we will meet I kept asking the entire day cause I made my schedule free .At around 11 PM at night he goes good evening how are you ? Like wtf I actually freed my schedule for him .I'm ignoring him now and I see I'm right for doing that .

[@shereent3121]

Liked "Why do you still talk to guys that don't do what they say they're going to do". 😭 I started blocking too! Lmfao at myself!! The things we realize when we start to get over someone, and snap out of it. Block early on, so your emotions don't start getting meddled with, because it takes a long time to get over our own ego and insecurities.

[@gloriareyes6556]

I can get the partner I desire, and these Steve videos have reinforced it. I was putting out the energy of not wanting to commit to a relationship, that’s what I got. As I’m warming up to the relationship idea, I’m staying aware of my energy, what it’s saying. And I’m being sure to keep the standards and boundaries very clear.

[@kuhlejozman3621]

Steve Harvey gives the best advice, wish I would have heard this long time ago

[@durnyvrutaal5892]

My husband ALWAYS comes with solutions. 😂😂😂😂 Steve is so right!

[@JRob594]

I was raised by a single mother and even though she took care of everything I still wish my dad could've been in my life unfortunately he wasn't

[@brendawherry9608]

Maybe if he had been in your life, you would not have turned out the way you did. You had the best Father all along... Jesus Christ. His guidance gave you exactly what you needed. Sometimes you can grow up In a 2 Parent home and don't turn out well. Parents can cause you to become bitter and have self doubt and not support you when you need them the most. I believe that no matter how things turn out, we have exactly what we need. And we can learn the things we missed from other people. God bless you through out the rest of your journey.

[@blissreframed1681]

@@brendawherry9608 you and many other negate the Importance of an Earthly Father, biological father or stepfather, in the house. There is a definite role fir an Earthly Father as ordained by our Heavenly Father. We have to give respect for natural order as set out by God , if we want to get respect and be cherished

[@sweetelixirofficial]

Hey Steve could you do a show on shy guys and how they act around women they like and talk about the signs to look out for if he likes you... if he's someone that doesn't talk a lot and is laid back

[@sandrar.morales9583]

"Take ur cookie, wrap it n put it back in the box" lol only Steve would come up w that lol

[@nicolemusiyiwa3861]

my ex thought i was crazy for being mad when he wouldn't do things he said he would...men if you say you're gonna call I'm expecting your call better you keep quiet

[@sifamwendwa6500]

Nicole Musiyiwa if they keep not calling don’t waste your breathe asking why give them the same silent treatment

[@iknowwhatsup2880]

Oh yes! This should be a standard. Don't be afraid to lose what you don't have to begin with.

[@ladylyngresham8162]

The world needs a what I taught my sons segment just like this one's only with boys and men Please Mr Harvey our male counterparts need you

[@SpecialKRNB]

Yes... these little boys to men need some serious guidance. Please Steve...

[@lacostaretic8598]

This is absolutely true for me. Men, DO what u said u're gonna do, or leave me alone. Simple!

[@wansangoh4951]

Absolutely! RESPECT is the basis of any relationship, without which, there is NO relationship.

[@ISghj]

Power to women

[@aalphasplatt1153]

OMG! I cannot STAND a man who doesn't give me a solution to the problems I present to him. I ask myself: isn't he bothered or isn't he able to problem solve. Why would I want someone like that in my life? Ugh. Byyyyeee!! I can solve my own problems, by the way, but I like to share my minor problems (every day crap) with guys who want to date me so I can see how he handles the situation. In life, in a relationship, in marriage, you will both be presented with problems; what will he do in those situations? I refuse to hang around to find out! Red flags should not be ignored.

[@CS-sv8fg]

Bit when a man has problems, women end up running back to their ex! Crazy how that works right! Most of the time tour problems are childish and petty. Grow up damn!

[@jessicawilliford5037]

Makes Great Points and Give Good Advices😊

[@missanonoymous7829]

My father is a Psychologist. I sat most of my classroom in his classroom at UCB. This served an awesome purpose. I would call men out on their BS. This was good 4 me but it was not good for them. I am married now. But-I learned from my dad what was acceptable and what was not acceptable.

[@sandyarroyo5146]

Lucky girl to have an emotional smart man as a father.That's why some girls choose the wrong man to be with because they were not taught right.

[@missanonoymous7829]

@@sandyarroyo5146 but they are lesrning now thank G-d for social media. And...we all know. We just sometimes give these pitiful men that benefit of the doubt that they do not deserve.

[@Glosh-d]

Am taking notes!

[@bdunnell33]

🙋🙋me too.

[@Swanxman62]

GLOSH DIY anchor.fm/hoodoolounge/episodes/Why-do-women-choose-bad-men-and-do-women-really-know-what-a-good-man-look-like-ed9q73

[@tabithacockrell7140]

He sounds like my dad! Love this man, thank you God for men like him cause Lord knows we need it.

[@CS-sv8fg]

2 failed marriages and his own daughter dates her ex boyfriends dad who is a rapper?? Haha yeah Steve is a lord!

[@Solja88]

She’s beautiful

[@BA-um6yg]

Steve Harvey Gets straight to the point he dont give you the run around like other relationship coaches .

[@fern10011]

Thank you Steve. I hope the men are listening.

[@sheldonmoore7483]

Yes we are passport me please.

[@centena316]

I LOVE GETTING WISDOM FROM GRANDPA STEVE!

[@mamas.kamara2982]

We have to love our self before someone love us

[@SabrinaJ1063]

You said it Steve, I just told my husband the part about not ever offering a solution! You don't need him if he just points out your problems without a honey, you should try this, or that. That's teamwork....two heads are better than one.

[@johnyzero2000]

Stay single my friends.

[@sidneyboo9704]

Thats good advice. I do want to point out that its not even for dating. Friendships need that much value as well. Things happen, I get it but they need to communicate this with you.

[@cynthialester8870]

INTEGRITY IS VERY IMPORTANT TO MAINTAIN A RELATIONSHIP!!

[@starchannel123]

These should be the standards for everyone. I've broken up same gendered friendships for standing me up and not ever providing anything helpful. Respect is an expectation no matter who it is.

[@MrsHarder08]

Sis, if your car stay nasty... There's something else you should be worried about rather than having a man.

[@LonjeMarie7]

Dion Harder This guy who was about 15 years younger than me,he tried to talk to me ,the first thing he said was I’ll keep your car clean for you ,oh boy did he hit the right button with me I wouldn’t say my car is absolutely filthy ,but I don’t keep it clean is probably as best as I should .I hate anything that has to do with the car cleaning it ,getting gas ,getting the oil change etc. I keep my house very very clean but I hate anything that has to do with the car

[@CS-sv8fg]

Lol if you can't keep your car clean, that really reveals your own dirty and selfish personality.. haha damn your egos are off the roof..

[@exildahchipeta18]

Wow thank you Uncle Steve. I really needed this. 😍😍💃💃

[@Zzra8]

Beautiful, relaxing set up!

[@asiajackson1550]

I HAVE TO meet Steve one day and just tell this man how GREAT he is bruhh! Uncle Steve is the best lol

[@sharath20501]

Please talk about standards that women need to have also

[@Teeliciousstyle]

A bit out of context, I love the cherry blossom boots behind Steve! Gorgeous!

[@chavellevlogs220]

I needed to hear this a year ago

[@itsYourChance]

If he doesnt pursue u, see a problem and want to fix it... very true. If hes not planning for future, seeing where u been alone or strugglin.. if hes not invested.. u know. If u question, u pretty much know the answer. Also learned, he can love , u can love them ,but if they do not have courage, or if not mature enough, or not willing to sacrifice. If they wont, then walk. Very true. Some of us had no example. And moms dont always teach. Some moms dont want us to find love. anyways learned hard way. But those are keys things to look for. These make the difference. We need voices like steve to speak as a man, husband and father.. ty.

[@traquilasmith2275]

Yes i agree i tolded my ex from day one dont say you're doing to do something and dont do it dont say things you dont mean and dont make promises you can't keep. My ex would always say he going to or we going to do things some times he would keep his words then he stop keeping his words and promises broken them.i got so so tried of keeping tell him how i feel about him not keeping his words and broken promises and he always sorry sorry sorry sorry sorry and keep doing the same things over and over over again i got tried of it i walked away from the relationship i stopped calling and texting him i didn't care anymore and i tolded him i dont trust nothing he say to me any more at that time. i cant be with no man i cant trust i was done done and done. God showed me who he really was he is not for me. I deserve better and God knows who best for me the right husband. Im so happy that i walked away from my ex about 10 or 11months ago of course he want me back. No no no im great and happy and free not going backwards i moved on forward im not settling for less or wasting my time on no men no way. God bless everyone thank you God and Steve for this message.😊😊

[@Dd-po2ij]

Truth. Men tell the TRUTH please I hate a liar. I dont care who you ARE. BLESS. U for this. Steve.

[@sashasmith9947]

Needed this today. For my car and the guy wouldn’t even help me

[@reneemyricks4306]

That's messed up! My car broke down in February. I was car-less for a whole month and my bf of 5 months took me back n forth to work. I didn't even have to ask.

[@sashasmith9947]

Renee Myricks it’s your bf so I would hope so. The guys were just regular guys I’ve met a couple times

[@reneemyricks4306]

@@sashasmith9947 well then that's y

[@princentirwimura6920]

They don't owe you anything, who do you think you are? smh

[@thecatnextdoor12]

prince ntirwimura She’s a gorgeous lady, she deserves at least favors for her time.

[@csandford6011]

Steve Harvey you're a good man and you know how these men can be a lot of times they're all for themselves and we as women do a lot for them.

[@insertnamehere9154]

I clicked for them boots in the thumbnail 🥰 ...and ended up enjoying this clip

[@iammaximus614]

Your word is your bond

[@ITSMRZFG]

Recognize y’all’s worth

[@nagpalpriya32]

Well said 👌Action speaks louder than words ✅

[@adriannahumphrey379]

I love uncle Steve ❤️👏

[@NaturalDivineGoddess]

"Who does not do what he Says he is going to do Except occasionally Because suppose it is The One occasion you Really need him and It's just one of them Occasions where he Just ain't coming do you Understand how important that is.."

[@larissangwe]

Where can we find the full length?

[@AskAdaToday]

Wish I watched this video years ago. Nice one Steve!

[@NaturalDivineGoddess]

"Here's The One Quality you want A Man to have Does he do What He Says he's Going to do??"

[@pialove3988]

Steve Harvey has some good points....

[@dreamerdreamer2978]

Exactly! I used to love a guy and I don't know why: he wasn't pretty, he wasn't rich, he wasn't funny, he wasn't that smart, he never made me feel special, he always told me how his ex was better than me and I forgave him all of that, even when he started talking to his ex again. He could cancel our date and I was Ok with that, I thought I am too needy and he has more important things to do than to talk to me and one day I discovered that someone from my family whom I really love had a cancer. I really needed his support and I wanted feel loved because I was really vulnerable. I told him everything and he told me he would meet me. I baked a cake and I wanted him to know that I appreciate that he is with me and how much I love him and at my lowest and he never showed up even though he told me he would. I asked him and he told me "shoot I forgot I had a plan with my friends, then I was playing computer games and I just lost track of time and then I had to meet my high school class mates thus I forgot". Really? So people you saw last time 10 years ago are more important than me? Your games are more important than me? And ofc he didn't pick up his phone so I was staying outside where we agreed to meet with my cake. I cried like crazy, I felt like I was betrayed. I told him if I am so unimportant to you let's breakup and he agreed. I wanted to call him and beg him to come back but some part of me told me not to do so. So, instead I bought a ticket to travel and I met so many guys who told me that I was pretty and that I am an amazing person and they wanted to date me. Ofc, I know that it is just phrases that guys tell girls to get laid but I understood that he is not the only one. When I came back and saw him, I understood I couldn't care less. I thought I wanted a boyfriend with whom I can talk about anything, tell him my deepest secrets and I found one the problem is he never loved me I told him my secrets and fears and he didn't care.

[@JRenee-Sings]

This guy sounds like a complete loser, a zero ! This should be you ➡️ 🏃

[@christinefury1040]

What a jerk! Low spirit

[@Ashley-vu2nj]

Only thing is those gentlemen like gestures are so so rare now.

[@mollyhobiteme4984]

She blocks them when they don’t call her back.......that’s pointless 🙄🤣😂

[@mariejackson6583]

It’s actually not, she’s protecting her peace. Remember she said if they constantly doing it she block them I’d do the same too.

[@ratelhoneybadger]

@@mariejackson6583 me too. Knowing that I blocked him gives me the peace of mind to know that I will not receive a call from him. It gives me the space to move on.