What I've Learned 7 Months into Living on Big Island, Hawaii

[@windyventure]

This comment section has gotten so mean! 😅 call me haole all you want... but you’re just stating the obvious haha! I’m really just a person sharing their experiences and hopefully helping someone choose which island they’d like to visit. 🤷🏼‍♀️ The locals I became friends with on hawaii were incredibly kind and lovely people who I’m so grateful to have spent time with... nothing like this comment section! But if you’re only here to spread hate and not even watch till the end, I’ll say again how magical and beautiful Big Island is and how grateful I am for my time there. I’m smarter and stronger now because of it and have some new friends and new memories to take with me. ❤️ Sending love

[@TinoVega99]

I Wish i met with you when i was in Hawaii last year 😭😭

[@johnkaluau1882]

Holli + Huckleberry haha sometimes you just gotta laugh it off 😂😂😂. I was born and raised on the south side of the Big Island in the district of Ka’u, a place called south point, and that’s pretty much as country as it gets. All you got is the mountains, pastures, and shoreline. But anyways don’t mind the people in the comments, as soon as they hear something they don’t like, they go all crazy and say some disappointing things. But besides that I just watched you video and it wasn’t that bad. I thought it was pretty informational and I think it will be useful for people who want to visit the island. So anyways I thought I’d share my opinion, but other than that I hope you have a great day 🤙🏾

[@pierrelariviere1838]

You said in your video the locals weren't interested in making friends, with people that would be leaving the island within a year or so...?

[@BreaMichelle3]

I think it’s because the locals that you met got to meet you and see who you as a person. There are local people who only know you from this one video and could see it as you complaining about their island. I’m sure you’ve done your research on the unethical takeover of hawaii and the Hawaiian language being stripped away and deemed illegal for years. Hawaiians had to and continue to have to fight for their rights in their homeland. I think animosity can sometimes show up when mainlanders come and talk about what they don’t like about the islands. Maybe just try to see it as a learning experience and next time you do a video about hawaii, help educate other mainland people on the illegal occupancy the US has on hawaii. My hubbie is hawaiian and he becomes very passionate when mainlanders complain about the islands. But please try to see where they are coming from and what this video might portray if it’s the only one they’ve seen 💓 sending you love.

[@spp-ut1jw]

👍👍👍 @@BreaMichelle3

[@Cherrysmith2809]

Oahu is the city, Maui is the suburbs, Kauai is the garden and Big Island is the ranch. It is expensive to live here. The struggle is real. The world is your oyster. Go find your place in it. Happy trails. 🌸🌈

[@nict5828]

@@talori5417 Expensive times 2

[@DeborahJeanMonkman]

That was helpful thank you 😊

[@Cherrysmith2809]

@@talori5417 Kauai is lush and beautiful.

[@elizabethteixeira1990]

Ill take the ocean over mountains and landlocked.

[@thejacksonschannel9247]

Lol you listed most the reasons i love the big island. Of course I'm more of a introvert. I like the quiet. So the big island is actually where i will settle down. Its where my heart sings and where i long to be. Glad you got to experience it.

[@windyventure]

The History Hunters I love that!! Haha :)

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[@SunshineSagas]

We feel ya on this one!! We are in love with the Big Island.

[@CatEyedGoddess]

Ditto!!

[@-sensibleChris]

Same.

[@MK-rs8gb]

That’s actually what I love about big island... it’s more native Hawaii, rather than tourist Hawaii

[@avidnightcore1015]

Except for Kona.

[@StevenJeffrey-h2g]

Check out Moloka'i

[@MihannahRock]

yeah you should of have been lying here for long time I assume

[@thehurricane218]

Hawaii isn't for extroverts. Honolulu is. Parts of Maui are. Thats about it. No wonder native Hawaiians cannot stand newcomers.

[@jw6422]

Perfectly said.

[@alexcarter8807]

There's a certain kind of loud haole that seems to gravitate there. I was waited on by one in a restaurant in Hale'iwa. It was not pleasant. The culture is very different from mainland culture.

[@laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587]

perfect for me lol I've been living here for two years. If you're extroverted or need constantly moving things, don't go

[@D1KHEAD808]

Believe me there are some native Hawaiians that can’t stand native Hawaiians.

[@brikellburns8981]

No WonDEr

[@vvhiratsuka]

The way you talk anybody can instantly tell that you belong in the city

[@maevebrain]

Mahalo.

[@lifeisgoodskt]

She is one of a thousand upper middle class rich kids who last a year. Good riddance.

[@koolkonacat]

Dont want you there

[@jarehseoaklen7690]

😂😂😂

[@zendariuskincaid5205]

😂🤣😂🤣

[@RKG-jc2bq]

People from the mainland come and go from the islands constantly. They always make videos about how they moved to Hawaii. Then pretty soon they make a video about why they are leaving. The reason they leave is because they don't belong in Hawaii. After a couple of days of snorkeling they get bored, because they have no connection and it's not their home. They really never truly know Hawaii or Hawaiian people. Locals don't really make an effort to know them because they don't stay long. It's just long vacation of snorkeling and hiking.

[@escapism-mn3yg]

Wrong. If you work a job on island you meet tons of locals. From my experience, the locals were open and welcoming.

[@maevebrain]

South Park said it all

[@stevemarino5745]

Not really, Hilo just isn't accepting of other cultures, or different ideas. There's more than one way to do things, you know? That's why most of the people I knew left, it wasn't that they didn't fit in or weren't good people, it was that no one would accept them as they were. It really is close minded. Too much duality, you're either a local or a haole/popolo w/ nothing in between. No grey, just B&W. Life is too short for that sort of thing, I value people w/ unique views.

[@AppleLeib]

@@stevemarino5745 WOW. REALLY didn't get it! You're not local are you? Like everywhere in Hawaii, Japanese, Chinese, Samoan, Vietnamese, and lots of others have assimilated and been accepted as a part of the cultural matrix. The fact that you didn't means locals saw something lacking in your character and felt no obligation to open their hearts and families to you. Yes, there are many ways of doing things and that's universal. Those who don't fit are not welcomed. Why would they welcome you into their families, to subject their families to your presence if you are not worthy? If they like you then that's ALL it takes. BTB, there's unique viewpoint and then there's being a whack-job, a Karen.

[@clicheguevara5282]

I've noticed that Big Island especially will spit you right out if you don't belong. ..but if you do belong, it'll help you stay. I've seen both situations play out over and over countless times. I'm one of the ones who evidently belongs here. Lol I've never lived anywhere else for as long as I've lived here. It's been 15 years this year and just earlier today, I was thinking about how much I still love it here and how I can't imagine ever leaving. I haven't even left the island for a trip or vacation in 10 years.

[@SsgChrisWells]

I dove head first into the culture and found that the big island is my true home. The people open up once you open up to them as real people and not tourist attractions. I could never think of a place I would rather live. Yes it's true that you have to earn some respect as a white person but oh well, I understand the reasoning behind that and can't blame anyone but my own kind. Once the locals give you their respect watch how many bbqs you go to. I gained like 20 lbs on just pok'e. Those aunties make sure you walk or waddle away full. Every island has its own spirit and culture and I believe the big island is not for everyone especially to live on but for those of us the big island excepts it's the best place on Earth.

[@holoholopainen1627]

The Best Place - that You Been to ? How Do You know How IS Tahiti or New Zealand etc etc ! Some Even say that PITCAIRN Island - Is Quite Nice !

[@clicheguevara5282]

I've been on Big Island for 15 years and I plan to die here. It's my home too. I grew up in a South Memphis hood during the 90s, so "earning respect as a white person" is second nature to me already. Lol It's honestly not hard. I just treat people with the same respect that I'd want to be treated with - and focus on what we have in common instead of how we're different. The only thing I strongly dislike about Hawaii is the local government corruption. ...and they took that to a whole new level in Maui last year. VERY upsetting to watch. Otherwise, it really is my favorite place in the world. I feel so proud to live here.

[@Oldcrow77]

Getting to live and work on Maui and Big Island off and on over the years. My friends agree that Maui is more like Socal with its beautiful beaches and beautiful people. Celebrity graced mansions. More restaurants and nightlife Were as Big Island is more agricultural based with farms of coffee, Mac nuts, ginger, etc And beautiful rugged coastline. And things pretty much close up by 10pm

[@andregarceau4563]

Ew you just kinda ruined Hawaii for me with that comparison.

[@Oldcrow77]

@@andregarceau4563 Oh, well

[@Gurt0981]

@@Oldcrow77No one says that. Bet you not even Hawaiian.

[@Oldcrow77]

@@Gurt0981 Yes, people say it. BTW, the word “Hawaiian” is a English bastardization of “ Hawaii “Not of Hawaii language. And what does being Hawaiian have to do with a saying. Where does it say “ we Hawaiians “ Maybe it’s “We Californians “ Maybe it’s we people that visit both islands. You more interested in looking for fight than answer huh?

[@Gurt0981]

@@Oldcrow77 weird comparison but I guess. And you said “we have a saying”; implying you’re hawaiian.

[@carolwyban3947]

Many people move here. Pack up their households, buy a home then find they are unhappy and lonely. Some people click, some don’t. It’s cool. I I left my home island Oahu because it lost its soul to greed. Big Island is great for me. You are young and should have more contact and develop relationships. That happens here through joining groups, volunteering, etc. It may seem boring but community is what you are missing. Gotta find your tribe.

[@tylerrsmith443]

You sold me, moving to Hawaii. Everything you described was, well, good.

[@islandblues8084]

Tyler Smith Now there’s been a lot of drug activity going on, and with hardly any jobs be prepared to get rob. There’s people I know who have gotten there auto etc. got ripped off so beware.Hawaii isn’t Hawaii any more good luck.

[@DaleRFetz]

Lived on BI for 6 years. All you are saying is true. It has to be your "paradise." It's challenging! The social aspect is so very real. No matter what you do people are transient there. It gets old. It all gets old. I gave it the college try. It was my dream! But, there are other dreams, too. And, the mountains....oh yeah! Good luck to you!

[@daveosland]

I'm just glad she will not be there when you get there! lucky you! Now I am going to go throw up.

[@CelebrationSunset]

Land locked means surrounded by land and no access to the ocean

[@evanbragin9620]

I caught that too😆

[@truenorth7949]

me too lol

[@LIVITLUVIT]

Lol classic american city folk

[@lobodraco]

I had to rewind... I thought I misheard. She’s not the brightest crayola in the box 🖍 😂

[@jarehseoaklen7690]

Oh oh ohh

[@wsntsnks]

I’ve lived on the Big Island and Oahu for about 50 years.You’re young and it seems like you have an adventurous/free spirit. I enjoyed your video. Keep on doing you and we can live vicariously through your videos of travel/adventures. Nothing but aloha to you.

[@RG-ds8pd]

Why only vicariously? Oh, forgot, Hawaii style to do so.

[@wsntsnks]

Obviously I can't go everywhere I'd like to (quite expensive to live in Hawaii), so I enjoy seeing other's travels! Where have you been? I'd like to see your travels as well! I've only been to Kuwait, Iraq, Qatar, Ireland, California, Washington State, Nevada, Idaho, South Carolina, and Georgia. I would like to go to Japan and Canada. Hopefully, I'll be backpacking there soon! Aloha!@@RG-ds8pd

[@haroldbray8463]

THANKS FOR COMING,DONT FORGET TO LEAVE A TIP!🤙😃

[@eddietude]

some of the comments on the video are hysterical. You're a kid! When you get older, "nightlife" "dining" etc aren't as important as tranquility, peace, etc. Also, it sound like you don't really know what you want. "I love the ocean, but I want the mountains". Not bashing, you're a kid, still figuring it out... All good, but yeah, probably not for you.

[@気にしない-o8q]

Eddie C when you get older, you realize everything bad happens after 10 pm

[@vmariec5878]

God you people are terrible

[@eddieco]

@@vmariec5878 How are they terrible? I don't see anyone bashing her. She's young, her priorities are where young people's priorities often are. The BI probably isn't for her, and that's ok.

[@PoisonousOne]

If you truly don’t love it here, mahalo for leaving. I’m not trying to sound rude, but the lack of aloha most people talk about emanates from people that don’t want to be here. You are absolutely right about the making friends part. No one wants to make friends with you until you’re at least here for a few years. That’s not to say people aren’t friendly. I had some lovely acquaintances and neighbors my first few years here, but not a bestie I would want to run over and tell my deepest and darkest secrets to. Now my friends and neighbors feel like family and we treat each other as such. Honestly I cannot imagine living anywhere else. One question though, why would you move to Hawaii to save money?!😂 We’re one of the most expensive states!

[@windyventure]

PoisonousOne crazy enough my cost of living here is the lowest it’s ever been because I don’t pay rent, car insurance, or half of the food I eat! So I was able to pay off some debt and make a savings account! Thank you for sharing your thoughts! :)

[@PoisonousOne]

Oh wow, ok no way you can go wrong with that deal, is there!? I would have jumped at no rent in Hawaii when I was young and single! Can I ask on what part of the island you stay? I might have a few suggestions on spots to have fun and meet people. I do hope you got to the park before it closed. I already miss my local form of “nightlife”. Going up to Halemaumau overlook at 2 or 3 am when the tourists were gone and listening to the faint thunder like sound of the Lava churning was awesome. Unfortunately the way my park ranger friend is talking, that opportunity won’t come back for a very long time. Even if all the activity ceased tomorrow, there is the matter of repairing all those damaged water pipes. A park cannot legally be open without water access. You need working toilets, sinks, fountains etc. so all those pipe breaks need to be found and repaired which will be a lengthy process. 😢 As far as mountains go, if you haven’t already, do yourself the favor of finding someone with a 4x4 and take the trek up Mauna Kea, the view from up there is amazing! I also want to say, that watching your video again, I love your honesty and your willingness to admit “hey, this ain’t for me”. However, there was that twinge in the back of my head of just, grrr I guess lol! We’re not exactly in our best form right now anyway, honestly. All these displaced people have those of us that can and want to help scrambling. Add to that that many more will be displaced soon because of the layoffs that come with these events. Our biggest tourist draw was the park, it being closed is really messing with employment. But, before all that, there WAS/IS an undercurrent of “we really don’t want to hear how much better your rock is over our rock.” I say this because it gets tiresome of hearing it after 11 years for me, longer for others. So if someone comes across your post accidentally like I did, and rages out, don’t take it to heart!💜

[@PoisonousOne]

Linda Clark wow, sorry my post came across that offensive to you. Please and thank you to never call Pele BS again.

[@bl4d3r76]

thats very interesting ive met my hawaiian fds from gaming and they were one of the nicest most caring people ive met that i want to surround myself with. Theyre local but there ethnicity are okinawans. IDK if yall are speaking from the aspect coming from a Caucasian person? but for myself im asian so i blend really well with the locals appearance wise, so im just wondering.

[@kapaoffgridfarmstead8272]

Moving to Hawaii to save money does sound crazy indeed, but sadly now it’s the truth compared to some parts of the country. I live in Northern California “wine country” right now and you would not believe how insane rent is. $2200 for a one bedroom duplex makes Hawaii (at least the big island) seem dirt cheap. The only way I make it living here is because I live in a self contained off grid tiny house that I own outright and was able to find a plot to park it for a reasonable amount. That being said, Im moving to 3 acres on the big island for the exact reason she is leaving.

[@jaimealvarez912]

All I know is that people there have hearts of gold . Miss the beautiful big island.

[@mixflip]

I lived in Hawaii for 10 years....now I'm in Reno....and love it. Why? Tahoe and the Sierra Nevada mountains....and road trips. I figured out I am a mountain person more than an ocean person too. I scuba and surfed but nothing beats a mountain for me now. You can't figure that out usually unless you live life a few years around the world. Our next big trip is glacier national park! Then Niagara falls.

[@GordonWaiteJr]

Isn’t the Tahoe/Reno area turning into California?

[@mixflip]

@@GordonWaiteJr kind of. Reno and Tahoe is expensive and cold in the winter with snow storms so only a select few from California choose to sell their homes and re invest their new found wealth in this area. They usually want warm weather like Vegas Phoenix or Texas. But due to Tesla and Panasonic moving factories to Reno Sparks....Reno has been booming. Houses are selling sometimes sight unseen on line.

[@vickicraine3211]

To each his own. Choice is sacred . I am leaving Big Island after 10 years of giving it my very best. I loved it and the quiet especially. I feel complete and ready to move on. My home is within me no matter where I am. If I stay in tune with myself I will know where to be and when to be there. Good for you for allowing yourself diversity and fine tuning your desires. Also for keeping your mind open to move on.🤲

[@Darylvb]

If you play an instrument like an ukulele or guitar there are many kanakapili groups around here and you’d always be welcomed to participate. Doing so you’d also make a lot of friends.

[@AuroraBoarder1]

I have lived on the Big Island for nearly 20 years. My brother rescued me and brought me out here during the 2001 recession, because I was having job troubles. Workwise, I have had the best luck of my life here. But I SORELY miss the Pacific Northwest! Soon as I can afford to retire, I'm going back.

[@poapoamambo]

bro dont do it. im northwest native 35 years old. white but grew up in a hawaiian family my mom married into when i was a toddler. dear friend of me i think is saving me right now because shes finally me convinced me to sell my house and move to big island. shes been there for 5 years since her and i moved back to the u.s. after serving in the peace corps together in east africa. the culture on the mainland is become soo soo bad. my friend tried moving back to the west coast after 5 years in hawaii last year but only lasted 6 months and went right back to the island.

[@-sensibleChris]

Really?

[@pelyfe.7275]

I don't think there is anything wrong with what you're saying...You've experienced the island life, its not for you, move on. I certainly didn't hear any disrespect towards the island or the people. Good for you for following your dreams and experiencing all the different aspects of your life, and not settling. Not many people are afforded those options. Live your best life!

[@russellmillar7132]

I do remember well my first year and a half of living on the Big Island, there were challenges (being a haole from the Northwest) I had to address. A local told me soon after I arrived "to live here you'll have to empty out many of your rules,ideas,concepts,etc. so you can take in the new." She also told me (best advice ever!) " If you really want to live here you will meet many new people-always be polite,and humble...when invited to someones home, take off your shoes before entering,and don't show up empty-handed" The first 1 1/2 years saw many trials where I almost bailed 5 or 6 times. Ultimately I lived on the Big Island 15 years. I can say that all the reasons I may have had for leaving after a short stay would not add up to one of the many benefits I accrued by weathering the storm and staying for a decade and a half. I speak only of my journey. I came to cherish the Aina; the land, the people, the waves....Aloha!

[@SunshineSagas]

Enjoyed this comment. Curious of why you ended up leaving after 15 years ?

[@russellmillar7132]

@@SunshineSagas Thanks for asking, not an easy decision. I had visited home ( Olympia, WA. ) to see friends and family. My parents were in poor health and needed help. I also noted a shift in the local temperment in the islands. Many more mainlanders were moving there, buying land, crowding the already stressed road infrastructure. Then the big-box stores moved in.... I love my memories and the changes I underwent as a result of my time in the middle of the Pacific Ocean. I had every intention of returning and living in Hawaii again. Then I met the woman whom I would marry and spend the rest of my life ( so far ). She share's my love of traveling and I was able to introduce her to life in Hawaii during our four visits to the state. Sadly, for me the Big Island that I encountered in the early eighties no longer exists, and the experiences I had then could likely not be replicated now.

[@shannonkona]

@@russellmillar7132 ~ Hey Russell! Howzit? Hope all's well with you guys!

[@russellmillar7132]

@@shannonkona Shanny...holy crapola. Whadda scoop? Yeah, we're doing well. How are you?

[@shannonkona]

@@russellmillar7132 Hangin' in there... still in the shack!

[@RossPotts]

@4:30, what made me fall in love with Oahu was the mountains around Waianae to Makaha area into North Shore. The green on the slopes is just an unreal, DEEP green. I love that.

[@sssjjjttt]

Not sure how this popped into my feed but I'm in my 2nd year in Kona and only recently is the dream like quality of "I'm living in paradise" starting to fade to just being normal. Left the SF Bay area and there isn't enough money in the world to get me to move back. I DO NOT WANT the city life after 40+ years of it. I'm tired of the ridiculous traffic, lines for everything, crowds everywhere, constant level of human noise everywhere all the time. The housing here is even cheaper than the Bay but the increase in cost of utilities, cash, food pretty much wipe away that cost saving. But you cannot put a price on the tranquility and peace that the island offers if you're looking for it. The serenity of NOT feeling the social pressure to do something every moment of everyday is something you don't realize you feel until you settle in on the island. I'm not saying that its perfect here and there aren't somethings I miss but the trade is so much more for your peace of mind and sanity that I'm okay not having amazing tacos down the street or easy / cheap car repairs or convenient niche stuff that I can find. The feeling i found within myself when i understood that doing/owning stuff for the sake of that stuff is unnecessary and that feels like aloha to me. Oh and not doing everything to subjugate nature to your whim and find balance in nature and life within it.

[@SunshineSagas]

I love this comment! My wife and I have been to the Island on several different occasions and literally think about this place just about everyday. Making big plans for the move, while taking it one day at a time. Aloha !

[@r.b.johnson5269]

My son lived on Hawai'i for only 3 months and found many lovely locals to befriend. I visited Hawai'i, Kauai, and Oahu. My favorite is Oahu and I would like living there.

[@ladykiri42]

Clearly our lifestyle here on the Big Island is not to your taste. You should have tried earlier, to move to Oahu, where there are huge cities, lots of nightlife, and more people. Each to what suits them.

[@marinevans7080]

The island has a way of filtering out people who don't belong there. When you see the sign "Kapu" remember that it was put there for you.

[@faefae2260]

Oahu barely has nightlife anymore

[@ThomasJelfJr]

Trudat. Some are called here and remain forever, some come, collect free medical and a check then go home to their villa. Yeah, true story.

[@downhillracer8268]

I first came to the Big Island in the mid-70's. My in-laws were living in Waikoloa Village. Back then, Waikoloa was just starting to develop. The first condos had just been built and they were designed to offer temporary housing while property owners built houses. The roads on the big island were definitely rural in nature and it was pretty much a daylong trip over to Hilo or Volcano House. 45 years later, I have a condo in Waikoloa. I agree with you, the Big Island could never be my permanent home. In fact, after two weeks of sun and surf a few times a year, I'm itching to get back to Alaska with mountains, lakes, glaciers, and wildlife beyond compare. I've been in Alaska for 60+ years. Never found a place that I would rather be in.

[@flyingdiscproductions]

Waikoloa Ridge area WAS supposed to be low cost for the workers on the Kona side. then the land sharks got involved.

[@PA96704]

Mahalo, for your truth. It is spot on and I'm Hawaiian and recently moved back after 11 years. I too was struggling for the same reasons but now since Maunakea needs us I am not going anywhere now. Good luck i've done vanlife in 2 vans and lived in a sailboat as well. Aloha, Pat

[@LucyGooseyVault33]

Ooh what was can life like

[@anthonywike8042]

Can you explain the Mauna Kea movement to me?

[@PorkChopSammie]

Most people know after about 4-6 months if this island is for them or not. You’re right it’s very low key. No night life. Minimal dining. Hardly any events. However all these reasons for me are benefits. I’ve lived in over 17 countries and after 25 years galavanting the planet I’ve found that the Big Island is my true home on this little globe of ours. So I moved back. And I havnt looked back.

[@themusicgamer11]

This comment genuinely made me smile. Cheers to you and your adventures, and ending up right where you belong 🎉❤

[@Lesamarie1977]

I’m from the mainland myself and I totally get hawaii, because being from Santa Cruz, ca, we all grew up territorial to our town, which is a lot like the big island, before everyone was pushed out. For me, the second I came here I felt at home and at ease, this was what I was use to, it was the way my home was growing up. I found it comforting and I respected it. Out of all the people I met there still here, the ones that weren’t from here or even from a beach town, had moved back, most of them not because they didn’t like it, it was because they couldn’t afford it here and family for them was in mainland. A lot of the kids here go off to college, which they can’t wait to leave, looking for bigger and better, only to find that the mainland is fun for minute, because so many new faces, but to come to the realization, it really doesn’t get any better than this. People here are an example of how people should be, respecting life and all that it has to offer. They live happy and respect is huge in my family, so raising my kids where respect to all walks of life is implemented and especially to elders is extremely important to me, because in the mainland, the judgement, the clicks, and disrespect towards elders, is hard not to snatch one up and give em 1 slap upside the head! thank god, one place isn’t for all, or this place wouldn’t be what it is, so different strokes for different folks. Some people live to learn, some live and learn, some learn to live, some learn and live. It’s life! I found those who need a distraction from themselves, solitude is a hard one to swallow, you have to know u and u might not like what u see? So having many distractions keeps your mind focused on others, but those who can hang with themselves, can see themselves and enjoy their own company and except who they are. Your just not in that head space, you tried and maybe u realize where that unity u seek didn’t find u, or y those relationships u seek didn’t happen? I’m not saying it’s just you, but u are the part u control in what u bring out of people or to a relationship

[@windyventure]

Well said! Thanks for sharing :)

[@ruthaspen2076]

Yes, I had an acre with an off grid cabin for 5 years near Pahoa. I was isolated even tho I had a street full of neighbors in my age group of 60+.....I have traveled all over the country and now moving from Colorado to southern NM in a hot springs town called Truth or Consequences! You wouldn’t like it because it’s slow moving, rural town of 6K on the Rio Grande. You should check out Taos where there’s a mix of ski mountains, river gorge with hot springs, and lots of interesting social activities. I did massage for 10 years there and have more good friends than anywhere else and I visit a lot but the 7,000 ft and winters aren’t for me anymore. Same for Colorado and crime is increasing there. Good Luck! Are you on Kona side?

[@mattyb808]

I’m just seeing this and as a 38 year old white male born and raised here on the Puna side of the Big Island, I couldn’t have explained it any better! Also, I’m curious if you are still here?

[@israelisrael2599]

Big Island is heart energy work! Such a gorgeous place, the heart Chakra, on Earth.

[@StevenJeffrey-h2g]

The energy is very pure on Big Island, I have been all over the world & felt so gooood there Aloha,

[@Seattle808]

Shootz to all the locals on the Big Island, one day I’ll come home 🤙🏼 I miss it everyday

[@notmyworld44]

Low key and quiet! Ahhhhhhhhh! I'll take it!

[@SunshineSagas]

Got that right !

[@RedFlip64]

I moved to Portland, Oregon about 4 years ago and it speaks to me more than anywhere I’ve called “home” before (which includes the Midwest, the south, Florida, and more...) I love it here, we’ve got mountains, ocean, desert, waterfalls, hot springs, you name it and it’s within a short driving distance away. A magical place!

[@haleya4236]

SoLAreh FaSHO I’m looking to move to Oregon from California. My culinary school is closing. I heard about the ones in Portland and Coos Bay. Do you know much about coos Bay Area? Is Portland expensive ?

[@windyventure]

SoLAreh FaSHO I love Portland ! It really does have it all

[@wantitok]

SoLAreh FaSHO Interesting, Miss Wonder Woman! Just reading some posts, found yours and went to your channel. Thinking maybe you've looking for a change in your life or maybe not, am building a wildlife sanctuary here in New Mexico and preparing for Earth changes to a higher level. I been involved in a number of subjects over the last 10 years.The last 5 years Earth Changes. Earth Changes will increase 20 to 25% each year into 2024 and 2030, its just the beginning I assure you! If you like check out the current videos I have on my channel. Am looking for a woman that is interested and serious about surviving these events, when SHTF and living off the grid. Living a remote and peaceful life ....just a thought...... enjoy ...Jim Feel free to email me if you like or add me in Skype Audioslave2016 [e-mail]

[@ladykiri42]

What you've said about Portland, for you, is very much why I love the Big Island. It speaks to my heart and soul, and is the only place in the world, that I've been to, where I can "feel" the land, and the warmth of the people. Glad you found your place.

[@cyndikehrli8389]

I love Portland, too! It's gotten more expensive, but it's a great city. I lived on the Big Island back in the 80's and loved it, planned to stay, but reached a point where I needed to have a few more options, so moved back to the mainland. I really miss living in Hawaii. It's a magical place. Maybe Oahu would be a better island fit for you.

[@jenicamccormick5839]

Not that I don’t love your Hawaii life, I’m so excited to see you go back to that states and watch your journey continue (especially van life). I hope you never stop making videos, it’s so interesting to see how you change and your life changes

[@wantitok]

jenica mccormick Interesting, Miss Wonder Woman! Just reading some posts, found yours and went to your channel. Thinking maybe you've looking for a change in your life or maybe not, am building a wildlife sanctuary here in New Mexico and preparing for Earth changes to a higher level. I been involved in a number of subjects over the last 10 years.The last 5 years Earth Changes. Earth Changes will increase 20 to 25% each year into 2024 and 2030, its just the beginning I assure you! If you like check out the current videos I have on my channel. Am looking for a woman that is interested and serious about surviving these events, when SHTF and living off the grid. Living a remote and peaceful life ....just a thought...... enjoy ...Jim Feel free to email me if you like or add me in Skype Audioslave2016 [e-mail]

[@stellatuifao2]

I once live in Big Island and I understand your reasons of purpose of living. I was shy and had no clue what to do. The people do keep to themselves. That's how it is. But the key is.. Take your time. I learned it when I stayed for two years and sadly, move back home. Back home to island of Oahu. I love the Big Island and always do. Maybe in 10 years. I might come back. Just maybe.

[@sammonicuslux]

It took me a good 9 months to begin to adjust to living in Hawaii. I loved it after that but I did live on Oahu and IN Waikiki and I was always busy, always something to do. Very different than the other islands. Having said that I loved Hawaii and still do, after 3 years, I felt a bit isolated. When I returned to the mainland (not my choice) the culture shock was horrific and it took me YEARS to readjust. I missed the more laid back and multicultural life.

[@windyventure]

Steve and Rhonda: Treks and Treats I could imagine myself fitting into Oahu life more, although that idea doesn’t appeal to me much. But I am nervous to move elsewhere and have the reverse culture shock again! We shall see... good heads up though !

[@sammonicuslux]

You will do well wherever you land...even if you have to try several locations. A great adventure...always. Good luck!!

[@laurenb916]

@@windyventure u gone yet?

[@holoholopainen1627]

Aloha - Mainland Where ? We Are Missing The Point here !

[@aniellove]

I lived on the Big I for 4 years, then my house burned down and it was over. Went back to the mainland to be with family. I suffered an excruciating culture shock and it also took me YEARS to readjust. It was rough, to say the very least.

[@christypoos9728]

Join a ladies rowing team, Quilting group, organic cooking, meet up groups. Your missing out on so much. Join a Church and help those in need. Grass is always greener somewhere else. You make your life what it is.

[@tomsanders9491]

Each of the islands is unique and amazing. Count your blessing that you even had the opportunity to experience one of the greatest places on Earth. You sound like you would be better suited on Oahu with it's nightlife

[@BigMountainCustomRC]

I was born and raised on the Big Island, hence the name Big Mountain. Its a nick name i earned because i cane from the Island that has the tallest mountain in the world. Mauna Kea. If you measure from sea level its only 13,700 feet. If you measure from the actual base of the mountain which is at the ocean floor, it measures, over 31,000 ft. Anyway, my nick nmae comes from that Mountain. I am of Portuguese and Hawaiian decent. Now that I live in Indiana I miss home almost everyday. The reason us locals tend to leave is because people vacationing in Hawai'i often decide they'll retire there. And just that, in and of itself, drives up the cost of living to the point that some of us can't afford to stay at home. It's very difficult to survive in Hawai'i. Yes, you can still live off the land, but for most of the locals it's so expensive that it makes it very difficult to survive. The current median income is roughly $80k a year. So in order to make that feasible you have to have, at least, 2 jobs or 1 that pays really really well. If you're earning, let's just say $120k, you're doing good and you can be comfortable, however the minimum wage is the same as most of the states. So we need to earn more but we are bridled in and locked into what the Federal Government thinks a reasonable minimum wage should be. So most of the local residents born and raised on the island find it difficult to meet that kind of income. As for the term Haole most people misunderstand it's true meaning. To simplify it, we say that the white people that aren't from Hawai'i, foreigners, are Haoles. That isn't entirely the correct translation. When Cpt. James Cook first sailed to the islands, the people on the ship preferred to shake hands. The Hawaiian Culture is to share breath. They touched noses with each other and shared their breath. The Haoles got their name because they refused to share their breath. In doing so the Hawaiian people nick named white people Haole. The word means "those without breath." It doesn't mean white people. It doesn't mean foreigners. It means that the early white foreigners refused to share their breath. Of course , over time and 3 trips to the Big Island by Cpt Cook, the natives got tired of this and Killed, ate part of, and buried Cpt Cook. There's a place just South of Kailua Kona named Captain Cook. It is said that it is where this happened. Anyway, Haole simply means "Those without breath." Mainly meaning the early white visitors to the Islands were "dead." Today it is used for anyone who hasn't decided to learn the culture and be open to the differences it provides. And for people not born in Hawai'i. So, yeah, if you come to Hawai'i with the attitude of me me me then the culture of you first doesn't make much sense. In Hawai'i our culture is that we take care of the other person's needs before our own. That sounds crazy to visitors. Yet if everyone is doing that then everyone is taken care of including me by someone else.... so yeah that's why Haole is considered derogatory. But not in all instances....the visitors that get it are playfully still called Haoles....but the context is different. So Haole can be a good thing and a bad thing depending on how it's used. As for digging in your heels and making a go of it, I say it isn't hard to make the Big Island your home. You just have to be serious about it. It was hard for me because im disabled and my monthly check is nowhere near enough to survive on. When the locals see that you're serious about "making it" you will see them all open up and accept you as one of our own. You'll still be a Haole but in that sense a good one ...... Aloha.....always live with Aloha and Hawai'i will oppen her arms to you .......😎

[@windyventure]

Thank you for the beautiful message! The locals were all incredibly kind and gracious with more patience than I (obviously) could ever have! I am forever grateful

[@armyretguy7365]

I lived in Oahu for 3 years (military) and pretty much the most populated island isn’t a huge difference. Unless you’re a partying drunk, surf addict, or whatever, it’s hard to live on an island in general. Fortunately I loved drinking and surfing, so it was great for me. The big island is harder to love... Kona and Hilo aren’t very impressive, and yeah... it’s a giant hill on that island. The top side does get pretty cold though!!! I think you would have loved Oahu a bit more, but island life isn’t for everyone. I’d go back if I could uproot my family...

[@maxcarter3413]

Exactly what I tell people about the Big Island. That is why we moved to Oahu where you can enjoy the best of Hawaii rural life and the big city. We don't have a burning desire to jump in a car and drive hundreds of miles without stopping. Been there, done that. We are over it.

[@main2333]

Restaurants suck on Oahu. Overpriced. Small portions! Service not that great. Waikiki have some good ones. But expect to pay! Best have a BBQ or cook at home.

[@MarioGarcia-lw5ss]

I’m from the Colorado Rockies and I’m sick of the Rockies 😂 I just hate the cold and snow and all these transplant relocating to Colorado traffic is a nightmare I rather be in Hawaii to be honest just because of the tropical weather

[@BigRudy53]

You dont realize this, but the island did not accept you. I'm not being mean, but certain people are accepted and loved by Hawaii as it is alive. I will be there eventually God willing, because Hawaii tugs at my heart everyday because I miss the big island and it misses me. Also it's not about you first and foremost, it is about respecting the island and the natives that have become a part of it.

[@mylittlepitbull3143]

Sounds like nothing against the islands. My boy here is a Hawaiian blue nose pitbull I hear they breed them in Kauai. I was on the big island and it's an amazing spiritual Paradise. And the people are very nice

[@hardmoneysolutions]

Love seeing all these "free thinkers", "independent", "originals" who all look exactly the same with all their "ink". How creative they are.

[@eddietude]

You're young. Wait until you're older, and you want to live rural, away from the masses, and don't want nor need all the "distractions" of "civilized life". None of this is criticism either. It's all good. Find your way, and if a place doesn't work for you, move on to the next place!

[@windyventure]

Thank you for your kind words!

[@eddietude]

@@windyventure YW!

[@holoholopainen1627]

When You Get older - You just Dont need The masses of People ! IT IS Nice to know People - that are Friends - FAMILY - but what Do You need The Rest for ? WHO wants to sit in a TRAFFIC JAMS - every Morning / Night ? Not to talk about crime... Take IT easy & Cheers and No Worries !

[@neilmodino9284]

I really love the Big Island. I thought this island is a developing island because of the active volcano. The nature of this island is extravagant and there's a lot of things that has not been discovered and visited by tourist because the place itself. Big island to me is mysterious. It has more nature than any other island of Hawaii. Even though it is rich in nature the job opportunity of big island is very scarce. Therefore tourism is not as rampant compare to Oahu because the land of Big Island is unstable. Big Island to me is a big rural area that's great for a quiet vacation and reflection.

[@dadude1702]

I've been living on the Big Island because I had to get away from a bad situation back where I lived in Pennsylvania and I ended up homeless back there, and I came to Hawaii to meet up with somebody from back there who had moved to Hawaii. An older woman I'm friends with, and she and I had agreed on me doing that, and my story is a really long one. Anyway, I've been living on the Big Island for 15 years, I can't go back where I came from because my family are dangerous and I can't be anyplace where either they can show up or any of their circle of friends. And I don't have anyplace in the world that I'm at all interested in going. The island has really nice scenery and really nice weather, and it was really nice being here for a little bit, but it got really boring really fast, and also it's way, way too repressive if you have any interests.

[@hotsauce3087]

Is there any nightlife or things to do? I don’t understand how it’s so boring if there’s no places to live? How is all the housing full and it’s so desolate there? Don’t like 250k+ ppl live on big island?

[@kout6903]

Hang out near Marlin Rd and Pualani up Lako St. at night . It's a very nasty a police neighborhood . It's worse than nasty projects inda mainland

[@sillyhead88]

I love the big hills and mountains. I finally go to truly experience them the way I've always wanted to a few days ago. I went to Scotland for a two week trip and it was absolutely amazing. Coming from the USA to a place like that was stunning. We went to the highlands and I completely fell in love with all the hills and the mountains and the streams and the calmness. I want to move to Scotland one day. If not forever, maybe just as a retirement place!

[@pavementpounder7502]

You mean ocean locked? Lol. Anyway yeah, I feel I could be a perpetual nomad. I'm Australian and would love to do that here, we're as big as the lower 48, but I'd also love to do that in the US. For at least a year or something. Did a cross country roadtrip and it was incredible.

[@michellecrawford3065]

that is not true I saw snow on the top of one of those volcanoes when I lived there it right there in Hilo and you can see the mountain so maybe you're on the wrong side of the island

[@ovenbird50]

I have only had 10 days on Big Island, I chose Big Island for that trip because of the diversity of terrains and growing zones, and it did not disappoint. I need to get back there, and to Maui where I have not been. At the time I traveled to Big Island, I lived in Iowa. Now I live in San Diego CA. I love it here too because of the diversity. I have the ocean, hills, mountains and desert not too far away. There is an endless supply of hiking trails all over the county. I have become a volunteer nature hike leader (called Canyoneers) with the San Diego Natural History Museum. Life is good. I wish you daily joy wherever you go.

[@jamiebusch9406]

Aloha, Windy.. I have been here 22 years, and cant imagine ever leaving- but it is not for everyone. We have a saying that "the island will spit you out" if it is not a good fit. By all means, if the Big Island is not for you, please leave as soon as you can. Thank you so much - sincerely - for your video. I truly hope that many, many others will see this who have your temperament, or -as you admit, are focused on themselves - and decide to go elsewhere. This place is the end of the line. If you need shopping, or urban life, or museums, or nightlife, or even long expanses of white sand beach, then you will NOT be happy here, and you will make this amazing and sacred place alot less wonderful for the rest of us. I sincerely and honestly wish you well, and hope that you find what you are looking for very soon - and that you take as many people with you as you can convince... Aloha.

[@finkster1969]

You're so wrong about everthing you're talking about. Get out if u don't like it because the Island doesn't want you if you feel that way. It takes more than seven months to learn about any place.

[@mikeciappetta300]

Thank you, I think you're helping me slowly decide to move there...

[@EveeLover]

I don't see how you can think that about the dining when Kona has restaurants absolutely everywhere

[@joancarlson1884]

I lived in St. Thomas, it had 60,000 ppl at the time. The west indian culture is so beautiful-and yes rock fever usually sets in after a few years, but if you want night life, unbelievable locals, mountains, Megans Bay is one of the top 10 beaches in the world, on Sundays I usually went by ferry for a short ride to St. Johns-if you want quiet.

[@janielangley5673]

No matter where you live, becoming settled takes a while. Expectation’s are always a disappointment.

[@Bossie-kl6qd]

True! I live in hilo Hawaii and what holli said are all true. Such a beautiful and low key place. Not really for those who are extroverts. The energy level here is low and mellow. Much to mellow for my taste that is why I'm moving to a different side of the island.

[@jamesfoureight9879]

I lived on the Hamakua coast for 10 months doing organic farming. I do want to visit again, but living there is accurate to what you are saying. As far as making friends, you need a hobby to connect with people, for me that was skateboarding.

[@micheboohawaii9430]

I'm moving to Maui, Hawaii in June. I vacationed there and just can't get that beautiful experience out of my head. I'm a beach fanatic, lol. And it's much more than that. It's paradise to me!! Can't wait to live there. I currently live on the mainland. Your experience is well respected. Clearly, Hawaii is not for everyone.

[@windyventure]

Thank you for your kind words and for sharing your excitement with us! I am so so happy for you 💚

[@stevemasoero8489]

Did anybody count the cuts in this vid ? Just wondering.

[@chanthataing7042]

Thanks for sharing! I also got island fever after living in Hawaii for 3 years. I missed road trips, seasons, lakes, etc.

[@forsee13]

"We're just making this up as we go." TRUTH

[@valeriemills7389]

Hi Holli! I am currently living van life on the mainland and thinking about moving out to HI. Funny we are having similar experiences, different timing. Van life has been such a journey, I am ready to feel grounded! Thank you for putting this video out

[@elizabethjok2880]

You need to apply for section 8 before moving to Hawaii.

[@Kamelemele]

Well, I say good for you for trying out new places and things. I hope your adventures take you to many amazing places, there’s lots to discover out there. PS the Pacific Northwest is great! Peace sistar.

[@retrobebop61]

Just got home from Panama City. Had a blast! I love the ocean! But my heart belongs to the Black River in Lesterville, Missouri! Something about that river and area just makes me feel so comfortable and at home! I call it my happy place!!! We are going there in two weeks for the weekend! Can’t wait!

[@dianeibsen5994]

Thank you for your honesty. I didn't hear you criticizing Hawaii at all. It just heard you talking about what you like and what you don't like. Thank you

[@windyventure]

Thank you 🥺

[@randallanthony1794]

I was there for 11 days and I loved it I planned on moving there and then I had a bad heart and got sick I love that place and the people I’ve never been to a place so kind and friendly

[@stephenhetzel8437]

Tbank you for sharing. I was born in Mountainview on the big island in 1955. If you think it's low key these days you should have seen it then. My grammar school graduation was 2 students, one was me. As for the volcanoes the 1960 kapoho eruption and 1975 .au a loa were memorable... I hope you figure it out for yourself. We deserve to e happy. I moved to NYC in 1977 and am very happy. . Best wishes!

[@Frenchylikeshikes]

Just the intro....ok, bye.

[@donaldturner1209]

I’ve been in Colorado my entire life and the mountains never stop calling my name. Yes the ocean is beautiful but it’s not for me. Good luck on your search for a place to plant your feet.

[@ronkreed]

It's not for everyone for sure. My wife and I moved to the BI in '98, because of a job change, a year after we were married. We loved everything about it. The pace of life, the aloha spirit, the people, etc. I miss the BI and fantastic food! We made great local friends. My friend Moke taught me how to scuba dive, spear and and cook fish. We lived in a simple, but adequate home in Ninole - Geckos and all. Within months after our first son was born there, my job took us back to the mainland. Living there was one of our best experiences. I had a coworker that was looking for a new job back on the mainland after just 3 months. We still live a simple life, like on the BI, in a small town.

[@timpani1950]

It must be difficult wanting to be the center of attention, and yet lacking any discernible talent, except a willingness to expose yourself on KZbin. Poor baby.

[@Anomalouzs]

truth

[@jpallen719]

And locals everywhere completely agree, it’s boring no nightlife too quiet…. perfect go back to the mainland, I can hear it now😛

[@illrokursoxoffx10]

I feel like we're having the same problem but opposite!! I love the ocean but earlier this year I moved to Idaho. The mountains are gorgeous and I love hiking and driving through them every single day, but I miss the ocean and the beach so much! Im glad you got to have fun in Hawaii, and I hope you're able to get back to where you feel at home soon ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Pocatello Idaho has some beautiful mountains! Hahaha

[@LucyGooseyVault33]

Haha I'm in Lewiston idaho up north. It can be hard living here for sure. It is beautiful and as much as I'd love to move to Hawaii I'm poor here we make $29,000 a year. I can't imagine how we'd survive in Hawaii because Idaho is considered affordable but we're under the poverty level. But man I wish I coukd go to Oahu or Hilo on the big Island.

[@CTJEEPGUY1973]

Instead of just up and moving, investigate the area you’re going to move to. Hawaii is constantly growing. You live on an island with two volcanoes so you’re going to deal with seismic activity, vog (volcanic smog), and the possibility of eruption with lava flows. Kaua’i is for people who have no problem living off the land, don’t mind living on a jungle island (bugs, lizards, humidity…aka rust), lack of a night life. O’ahu is your tourist island. Lots to do, tons of beaches, great night life. Also a ton of tourist traps and scams. Maui is the most multi cultural island with a ton of people living there from all over. Also very expensive (more than the other islands). Do you’re due diligence and read up on the islands, watch videos that talk about the pros and cons to help you find your perfect choice.

[@smedlydumpsterjuice8875]

The islands offer pretty much something for everyone. The issue is finding the right island. Of course, the Big Island is the only place for snow. Atop Mauna Kea, you can see both the Big Dipper and the Southern Cross at night in the same sky...barely. You can also see full circular colorful rainbows during the day up there, and multi-gray ones at night. Party and entertainment life is Oahu. Quite a selection. I lived there for 5 years. Usually spent 1 weekend a month on another island. High season maybe once every 2 months. Despite being a haole, nearly all locals treated me well. Good luck ;).

[@ThePeacefulsunshine]

What part of the island have you stayed in? How is crime or have you seen/experienced any?

[@jeffhayward8221]

Everything you described would fit me to a T . Which is why I can't wait until I can move to Hawaii. I will say I would like to explore a bit more of the lower 50 so that when I do move I won't feel like I'm missing anything.

[@curtk8715]

Breckenridge Colorado, possible Steamboat Springs, Durango, Santa Fe NM. Boulder Colorado if you had the right money. Some areas of the Pacific northwest.

[@bluewaterpines8323]

I have a suggestion. Northern Vermont on Canadian border. 40 below winters, lots of isolation, working non stop to pay to live. Summer is 2 to 3 months to grow your garden. Think plowing your drive at a high expense , or you can snowshow in. LOTS of bars in the cities, if you call them that and you could go to the events in Burlington . There, next stop Vermont. Post script, geo moves dont work. I suggest working with children or at a nursing home and forgetting about self for awhile. Swimming, walking, eating nice small meals and smiling at random people and mundane events keeps us out of the projected dream state. Love from an island. 🙏🏼🌊⛵☺⭐🙋🏻‍♀️

[@Kruppt808]

I live on the big Island and have 14 girlfriends and 1 guy friend. They cluck alot but they hang out all day just cruising in my yard before the fly into the trees or my coop. Took time for them to get comfortable but they turned into amazing buddies. 🐓🐔

[@windyventure]

😂 so I take it you’re a morning person

[@Kruppt808]

@@windyventure i kind of was before now i really am and bed time is like 8-9pm max lol

[@louismorejohn586]

Very low key and quiet is what you'll be craving in just a few years.Time has a way of educating the senses.

[@windyventure]

You’re not wrong 😂

[@louismorejohn586]

Trump drone.

[@johnmazza9432]

I don't think you meant to say "landlocked". But leaving that aside, I can appreciate the need to be in a cosmopolitan area, an area where there are large masses of people. I suppose it has something to do with our need to be social creatures and find a mate. I think from a psychological perspective, you desire a sense of stability and security, and that is what being on a continental land mass with mountains provides you. It's the security that if something doesn't work out then you can pickup and drive to your next destination. Make sense ?

[@HouseJawn]

Just got back from Pahoa.. partied every night, and met tons of people

[@johac7637]

At 14 months a Parts Manager at my Equipment Dealer job asked me, Jo.. how long you stay, his pigin was asking, how long have you been here?, 14 months Ru.., he put his hand out, "Welcome Bra", I tucked my hand behind my back, "Ru.., 14 months of stink eye, now welcome Bra, whatz up?". Long story short he said, we make it hard so you leave, you bring your mainland $ and we have to work 2 jobs, so I'm sorry for the stink eye, but that how we roll". Then I told him I've never misreated you, just helped when I can, and I'm not like into racism, more, or less than anyone. But I shopped, ate with the locals, acted as nice as I could, and ignored the stink eye, as I worked in sales, people liked the equality I showed. That some of my experience.

[@sashanealand8315]

you are not here long enough my friend, took me about 2 years before to my surprise I found out i was enjoying many things about the big island, mainly the vegetation and the swimming and riding my scooter

[@mrs.conscious]

I agree I lived there 1 yr right before the eruption. I left a few days before it erupted and she is correct!

[@HM-lw6yl]

Honestly on a positive note at least you’ve got the opportunity to live there. It’s an experience for sure.

[@windyventure]

I am full of gratitude!

[@ThatsTheWayWeRoll]

From the moment you announced that you were packing up and moving to Hawaii, we instinctively felt it was not the right fit for you. And we've had that feeling the entire time you have been there. (Don't get us wrong! Nothing against Hawaii in any way, shape or form! And now, all the people born and raised there, as well as the people who have permanently relocated there, will come down on us with sledge hammers. And that is ok. So be it.) We just had a bad vibe about you and Hawaii from the get go. We TOTALLY APPLAUD you and your lifestyle. And we are looking forward to the day you come back to the mainland and start living and documenting your life of explorations here once again.

[@windyventure]

ThatsTheWayWeRoll who’s we?

[@ThatsTheWayWeRoll]

Me and the other half of That's the Way We Roll

[@stevemarino5745]

This was probably written by some old white guy in Minnesota, drinking a Bud and sitting at his computer in his underwear :)

[@anthonyakana4518]

Hi , The island of O‘ahu has the metropolitan theme and suburbia , country living and best beaches . The Bus 🚌 system is best in the whole US. Most of my friends who grew up on the Continent (Hawaii being the Mainland) and lived here have moved on . They know the islanders and land well and even had their kids raised here . People’s perceptions of where to belong is easier to where their roots and culture, language is from . Connecting to the right feeling of home is a big factor to stay or go . One life with many or no choices . The borders are open . Good luck 🍀👍🏽

[@reids97]

I live in Northern California by the Redwoods and I think you would love it here. Humboldt County is my area. Have you ever travelled there? Any plans to?

[@windyventure]

Bobbi's vsg journey I drove the entire coast of California and fort bragg/mendocino area I LOVED but redwoods are insane as well. You should watch my videos from there you’d probably appreciate them :)

[@davidbagley1783]

Eureka... Kneeland.. aloha

[@davidbagley1783]

Aloha...I used to live in Kneeland...and Eureka

[@spencerkooyman13]

There's definitely a night scene, you gotta know where to look! :) I personally had the best sense of community ever living in Hilo, the people were super nice and accepting. Also, you moved to Hawaii to save money!? lol glad you got what you needed from Hawai'i, Aloha! :)

[@ExpressionsofAwakening]

Can you really do van life in HI? I heard they are very strict on that. Where would you park?

[@windyventure]

My experience was very limited but I did okay a couple nights!

[@etemytradel4509]

Anywhere this broad goes she will complain

[@elsienorback7689]

That’s a hard question, because I don’t know where I will settle down ether. I’m from Alaska, own a condo in Anchorage but work in Fairbanks. I have roughly 5-6 months off from work (Wildland firefighter). I had been setting up a base in Bali and traveling to Malaysia, Thailand, Vietnam, Singapore, Cambodia and loved this lifestyle of work and travel. COVID has recently put a stop to that. I grew up in rural Alaska and know COLD weather! I grew to really dislike it as I got older. So I found a place which I love, Bali. But it takes 2 days to get there. I’m still trying to figure out where I want to live or settle down. I lived in Boulder, CO a winter and loved it there but right now ppl from Texas and CA are moving there in droves which is driving the price of rent and housing way up. IDK, maybe I’ll retire abroad. Who knows!

[@windyventure]

I commend your adventurous spirit! Maybe some of us are never meant to “settle “ although I’d like to think I will one day!