Patrina is so cool!! I think adding her to the Daily Ketchup would be awesome!!
@farrhanng3 жыл бұрын
Denise damn funny. "If my partner got a growth mindset." 😂
@JohnathanChuaa3 жыл бұрын
Please don't cancel me. I'm just thinking out loud ah.
@Joekool883 жыл бұрын
You brought up plenty of good points and hypothetical situations actually. > Circumstantial chances of catching covid e.g being in the vicinity of someone who visited a KTV > Bringing secrets with you to the grave to save a marriage or telling the truth
@dd.14-d5d3 жыл бұрын
Ignorance is NOT bliss when it comes to any kind of lying in a relationship. The point of a relationship is built on trust. If you can’t uphold it then you don’t deserve your partner. You would be completely disrespecting the person in the name of “love” which is selfish and cowardice.
@iyanh093 жыл бұрын
Really liked this episode! Everyone's thinking out aloud, no filters. Just exchanging of hypothetical scenarios and solutions.
@sleepy_dobe3 жыл бұрын
Truth and trust are two of the biggest pillars of a successful relationship.
@Grizzlebearify3 жыл бұрын
Haha pat’s personality is so cute. Really liked her on this episode
@jkaethe3 жыл бұрын
Awww pat is so pretty and cool. Didnt recognise her at first hahaha. Thought another influencer guest on this episode. 🤣
@weeeweee89403 жыл бұрын
It's like a room of toxicity and twisted values and Pat is the lamb sent to the slaughter.
@astaco17523 жыл бұрын
Patrina so innocent n convinced by his statement on having meal with hostess around. Haiz.
@pr91663 жыл бұрын
"not in my experience" 💀 also please don't kid yourself - going to ion food court to have an innocent (and legal) meal is very different from going to an illegal lupsup ktv where everyone knows sleazy things happen. don't make false equivalences. this is not just a matter of catching covid. if your wife caught covid because she was getting handsy with a man that wasn't you, idk if you're going to be like "oh it's not as bad as going to ion" lol, especially if the same man was getting handsy with many, many other women.
@QihuiLooi3 жыл бұрын
Actually putting Pat in on the other table, creates that kind of mutual bond and wisdom. Plus both are already more open and acceptable to the kind of topics that most channels don't talk about, creates a better intellectual debates environment.
@nevergetsbetter3 жыл бұрын
hope to see more of pat in the episodes! the dynamics are so good
@siris21053 жыл бұрын
I can see now why John fell in love with Pat. Pat is such a lovable person really
@BluuKiss3 жыл бұрын
I think it is very important to be as transparent as possible to your partner. It is very important for building lifelong trust. If you have to ponder whether your partner is hiding something from you... that is not right. Admit and be responsible for your mistakes if you made one, don't hide them. In the first place, don't do something that would compromise the relationship, such as outright cheating.
@ihearyou2353 жыл бұрын
6:05 HAHAHHAHA OMG FRIKING HILARIOUS LA
@alui53623 жыл бұрын
lmfao - 'does my partner have a growth mindset, or not?'
@SGHonestFoodReview3 жыл бұрын
Wow the self-justification on that cheating part is ridiculous. You cheat, then own up.
@williamy20583 жыл бұрын
11:00 - IMHO, in the first place, we shouldn't cheat so there wouldn't be any justification to hide/ not hide the situation right, no?
@CanMakeIt3 жыл бұрын
Hypothetically speaking if I were to get cheated on by my partner, I would want to know because the path that led them towards making that decision would be a deal breaker for me Also more Pat please!
@charm1813 жыл бұрын
Guilt is going to eat at you and eventually affect the relationship if there are secrets. If the relationship is worth it, both parties should work at it together !
@jokerzai1053 жыл бұрын
John still using his black matte starbucks cup!
@rns96203 жыл бұрын
Wow so Pat is just sitting in a room with people who believe cheating on their partners & not telling is the right thing to do
@FeralFlare3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, a bunch of coping narcissists. Imagine being so self-centered that they can actually justify "I don't want to tell them because it would hurt them and that is selfish" like bruh cheating is a selfish act by itself lmao
@yapolloable3 жыл бұрын
greater good i guess
@bellel88533 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHAHA PAT DAMN FUNNY “or are you?”
@LeCapped3 жыл бұрын
People can be outraged and furious but they can't stop such vice from taking place. It's part of society.
@jackkhoo47293 жыл бұрын
When your partner say they don’t want know …!? that mean they really want to know.. just go for your luck… 🤣🤣🤣
@celestialstar1243 жыл бұрын
Haha my mum lie is totally opposite.... She buy something $300 she will tell dad $500 then say not enough money liao 😜
@ImMochiAlyyyyy Жыл бұрын
I looooove Pat ehhhh~ she’s so entertaining & damn cuteeee!
@ennmin3 жыл бұрын
Denise, super intelligent !
@celestialstar1243 жыл бұрын
Last my chio bu friend's hubby confess he went ktv and kena sms to go test. She so mad but say she cannot even kick him out of the house cos of the stupid stay home notice until the pcr test is negative. She left their house n go back to her parents house instead
@HayaBoopa3 жыл бұрын
Have been waiting for this episode
@YN-ix2ti3 жыл бұрын
I love Pat!!!
@yangtzeling74683 жыл бұрын
Nobody goes to KFC with the intention of not eating chicken.
@cherielyra83123 жыл бұрын
More Pat! More Pat! More Pat! 🤩🤩🤩
@celestialstar1243 жыл бұрын
Maybe got hidden camera in hotel so u think no one else besides both of u know..... Then the video leak 😂
@Joekool883 жыл бұрын
[Joking only] 7:04 and that kids, is why snitches get stitches
@Fujiwara.Takumi13 жыл бұрын
John do be starting at pat all the time. Proud husband john~ I've mention in the official news listing, but the govt' should have just revealed those that were involved in the cluster(those that went). We shouldn't need to save their face because for what purpose? A few irresponsible owners and horny men doomed an entire nations year-long efforts to overcome this pandemic.Everybody cooperated and did their part to make our country covid-19 "free" and it's all destroyed by these people in a matter of one night. Anyway that lapsap KTV, it seems that the owners also allowed singing from leaked videos. Super irresponsible.
@elge24133 жыл бұрын
I mean Appreciate this perspective but there's another podcast who interviewed ppl directly affected by such (cheating) actions. It goes to say that it's not just a matter of "why would I tell my partner when I know it's going to damage the rs". Deed is done, damage is done. You're just piling on the emotional hurt if you still intend to hide it.
@jessthemum3 жыл бұрын
More pat, tks 😊
@jaykhaw50253 жыл бұрын
This is like when Arnold told his wife about the other son he had after he retired from politics
@minmin112113 жыл бұрын
One of the most no value conversation. LOL 🤣 About affair and shit, it’s not about “want to know”. If it’s just flirting, holding hands, fine. The more serious one need to tell bah, because there’s a chance you could get STI. Selfish to think that others care about their relationship with you, more than their health. 🤨
@chelmin883 жыл бұрын
such interesting perspectives!
@saltandlightofficial3 жыл бұрын
before they talk, the guy with black cap is not really attractive. after they chatted, he suddenly become the most attractive sia.
@JonathanPaulSXW3 жыл бұрын
idk how to feel about this comment. LOL
@maycheng93083 жыл бұрын
Personally I don't want to be lied to, including white lie. I also don't like surprises even if its a good one. I also do my best not to lie. As for surprising my partner, i just don't hint or don't tell first. I also feel guilts very strongly so I couldn't lie even to my own brother. 😂😂😂 I'm just selfish to the point that I don't want to burden myself with negative emotion that will eat me day by day.
@jayshen843 жыл бұрын
The UK show "State of the Union" explores this topics soooooo well.... would recommend you all to watch if you have not.
@NathanNoon3 жыл бұрын
More Pat Please!!! PAT V John
@luvers1063 жыл бұрын
Love this episode :)
@grxcy23313 жыл бұрын
why r u guys thinking from the cheater’s pov?? HAHA isnt the cheater a liar and thats not a good thing. So NO LIES OF COURSE and it’s just right that the cheater own up and not make the one who was cheated be like a dumb bitch who was cheated on without knowing. Like that’s just plain rudeeeee. Liddat for the good of the cheater u just make out w 5 diff girls and still treat ur wife like a fool without her knowing SO TAT she won’t get hurt ? No right. Lmao what’s the purpose of the relationship THEN?
@astaco17523 жыл бұрын
waah u have such a pretty wife ah!!!
@pwbsoh25473 жыл бұрын
I agree totally, just because it's ktv, so they close all ktv... but when there's a case elsewhere why didn't they close it down permanently. E.g food court or cruises So contradicting in the guidelines and implementing rules.
@jeanie21713 жыл бұрын
I enjoy the podcasts but I don't have time to watch all of it most of the time. It'd be nice to have short clip of highlights
@LordAaronus3 жыл бұрын
remember when that was the worst thing to happen at KTV
@Aetolus3 жыл бұрын
I thought everyone differentiated it by calling the family ones like Teo Heng "sing k", I brought my wife to KTV before to attend one of our colleague's birthday party and shit was trashy
@Jejdjejbfjf3 жыл бұрын
I don’t believe in lies in a relationship! I’m the kinda person who wants to be open with my partner
@kangandham92203 жыл бұрын
Pat should be on permanently🖖🏻
@melwu795410 ай бұрын
I would say to him let go for a walk than will sit down give him a piece of my mind than ask him to reflect on what he did
@kingseiryu9293 жыл бұрын
I think what John said is so fking true. That was my point also. Legality aside, Singaporeans take the moral high ground yet engage in activities like crowding along the jubilee bridge to see fireworks. They are so fking daft not to see the irony KEKw.
@k-potato35933 жыл бұрын
Hanging out in big grps -kena shn/quarrantine -create covid clusters -affect family -contribute to community spread Gg to lapsup ktv and engaging in lapsup stuff -kena shn/quarrantine -larger covid spread (one hostess up to 10 customers a day and they alternate in diff ktvs) -contribute to community spread -break relationships and families -cause hawker stalls to close down (toapayoh case) -cause another cluster--jurong fishing port Jurong fishing port -closing of fishing port -cause even more hawker stalls to close down -cause food waste (hawkers hv to throw their ingredients/fish for hygiene purposes) -cause prices of fish to go up -affect hawkers financially Yea hanging out in large grp and not adhering to social distancing measures is bad. But can it even be compared to those ktvs??
@celestialstar1243 жыл бұрын
Noooo. He will ask u every single time after each sex session if he is better than your ex already!!!! Only after u finally say he is better then he feel better n stop asking. 😂
@tjadventurevlogs77573 жыл бұрын
Wow.. this is very nice content
@user-qm9dh9tj3l3 жыл бұрын
I think most people think other people's sins or vices are the worse thing ever and aren't ever objective or rational in their decision making process. This discussion was a great discussion where differing thoughts and opinions are allowed for discourse without putting down the other person and their opinions
@verifunny3 жыл бұрын
Pray to God
@javierteo85103 жыл бұрын
How to survive in a marriage 21:44
@hawwusong743 жыл бұрын
well, the points made until the 8th minute mark all makes sense academically.... but in all honesty, i have never been offered a tonsil check/blowjob/backroom romp by the waitresses/hostesses at a coffeeshop, brasserie, bistro, restaurant etc, before, during or even after dinner. True story..... another burning question i have is how did these infamous monkey business establishments get their licenses changed to F&B outlets? something stinks here...
@deathofasweater3 жыл бұрын
we need to see pat's dress
@321apek3 жыл бұрын
The cover up game is strong.
@chalmerschin58293 жыл бұрын
How much respect do you really have for your partner if you can admit your wrong doings? You guys said you want to know if your partner cheated but wont do the same vice versa.. kinda trash
@astaco17523 жыл бұрын
yes trash totally agree
@JinHanNeo3 жыл бұрын
Oo. i see a razer blade :)
@brianlee35083 жыл бұрын
Your love do not necessarily can change a person and if one chooses to be blind by love. People in general are attracted to narcissist and dark trait personalities. They are deem to be more attractive, desirable and fun to be with. If you choose to ignore the red flags of a toxic relationship.
@testor93 жыл бұрын
lol will be honest, i think majority portion of this discussion went off topic. i think there should be a basis and boundary set behind the discussion.
@erth28773 жыл бұрын
Men go ktv.. the only answer, lust, the urge, uncontrollable..
@djibicisse Жыл бұрын
Huge number of married sg men go to ktv or this disco lol Pity the women here
@hopessdopess3 жыл бұрын
First of all, Jon Paul is such a daddy. Fight me. Second of all, definitely want Pat to be a permanent cast!
@aaronz933 жыл бұрын
If it were me, I would feint an illness and go to the doctors to get tested. No need to mention anything about KTV to my wife hahaha - My partner told me this
@andrewlau95833 жыл бұрын
eh the background music very irritating
@wunash22193 жыл бұрын
Will there be a judgement day??
@beckham482 жыл бұрын
Bo jio 😂
@jessiengg3 жыл бұрын
How come you guys don’t wear mask ?
@TheDailyKetchupPodcast3 жыл бұрын
Hey Jessie, thanks for asking! Based on IMDA guidelines, content productions are to have no more than 10 onscreen talents who may be unmasked. But rest assured that everyone in the crew behind the camera are masked up and socially distanced :)